Divorce Counselling in Cheshunt
I'm Paul Linger, a mental health advocate with a unique blend of experience spanning over a decade. My journey has taken me through diverse sectors such as the NHS, youth services, local authorities, addiction services, and specialised support for individuals with autism and additional needs. This rich background equips me with a comprehensive understanding of mental health issues and a versatile approach to support. My practice believes in the power of collaboration, challenges, relisence and exploration of self.
I'm Paul Linger, a mental health advocate with a unique blend of experience spanning over a decade. My journey has taken me through diverse sectors such as the NHS, youth services, local authorities, addiction services, and specialised support for individuals with autism and additional needs. This rich background equips me with a comprehensive understanding of mental health issues and a versatile approach to support. My practice believes in the power of collaboration, challenges, relisence and exploration of self.
How often have you felt that life is weighing you down? Have you ever wondered what it might be like for somebody to really listen and have the capacity to empathically connect with you? Life isn't always easy and there are always more questions than answers. Talking to a highly experienced therapist can be the most therapeutic experience you may encounter to enable you to have a deeper and better understanding of yourself, and the ability to move forward with a positive, healthier mindset. Having helped lots of people to explore their lives, the emphasis is on making positive personal changes to enable a happier fulfilling life.
How often have you felt that life is weighing you down? Have you ever wondered what it might be like for somebody to really listen and have the capacity to empathically connect with you? Life isn't always easy and there are always more questions than answers. Talking to a highly experienced therapist can be the most therapeutic experience you may encounter to enable you to have a deeper and better understanding of yourself, and the ability to move forward with a positive, healthier mindset. Having helped lots of people to explore their lives, the emphasis is on making positive personal changes to enable a happier fulfilling life.
Do you feel invisible, misunderstood, isolated, judged, alone, confused, or just need someone non-judgmental to listen and someone safe to talk to? There are so many reasons for you never to have to suffer in silence, however big or small the issue, struggle or situation. I am here to offer my support and understanding to you! Everyone is unique and manages life's experiences/ hardships differently. I provide a non-judgemental safe space, offering my full support, patience and understanding. Due to my own life experiences, I am able to relate, understand and genuinely empathise with my clients issues, pain and struggles.
Do you feel invisible, misunderstood, isolated, judged, alone, confused, or just need someone non-judgmental to listen and someone safe to talk to? There are so many reasons for you never to have to suffer in silence, however big or small the issue, struggle or situation. I am here to offer my support and understanding to you! Everyone is unique and manages life's experiences/ hardships differently. I provide a non-judgemental safe space, offering my full support, patience and understanding. Due to my own life experiences, I am able to relate, understand and genuinely empathise with my clients issues, pain and struggles.
You may not feel not good enough, overwhelmed by anxiety, self-doubt, or trying to always please others. Comparing yourself to others may make you doubt yourself more.
You may struggle with low confidence, setting boundaries, or understanding your emotions — this might be shaped by past experiences, cultural pressures, or difficult relationships.
You want to feel more in control, feel heard, build self-compassion, and find healthier ways to cope.
Being more aware of your feelings and needs can help with communication. Putting in boundaries for yourself can improve relationships with those around you.
You may not feel not good enough, overwhelmed by anxiety, self-doubt, or trying to always please others. Comparing yourself to others may make you doubt yourself more.
You may struggle with low confidence, setting boundaries, or understanding your emotions — this might be shaped by past experiences, cultural pressures, or difficult relationships.
You want to feel more in control, feel heard, build self-compassion, and find healthier ways to cope.
Being more aware of your feelings and needs can help with communication. Putting in boundaries for yourself can improve relationships with those around you.
We all have times in our life where we may need the support of our family and friends to help us get through. Sometimes though seeking professional support of a counsellor is beneficial to enable you to discuss and work through things you may feel unable to discuss with friends and family. I can work with you on a number of life problems in a way that suits your needs. I will help you become more in touch and aware of feelings, thoughts and barriers in your life. I believe that the counselling relationship is important and work in a way that is beneficial to helping you become more self-aware, authentic and able to move forward.
We all have times in our life where we may need the support of our family and friends to help us get through. Sometimes though seeking professional support of a counsellor is beneficial to enable you to discuss and work through things you may feel unable to discuss with friends and family. I can work with you on a number of life problems in a way that suits your needs. I will help you become more in touch and aware of feelings, thoughts and barriers in your life. I believe that the counselling relationship is important and work in a way that is beneficial to helping you become more self-aware, authentic and able to move forward.
Struggling with anxiety, sleep, grief, or relationship issues? Feeling depressed or living with a mental health condition? Struggling to cope or make sense of things? Hi I’m Hayley, a registered MBACP Integrative Counsellor BSc (Hons). Being Integrative means I tailor therapy to your unique needs, drawing from Person-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Psychodynamic, Sleep-Focused and Existential approaches. Together, we’ll create a personalised therapeutic experience that supports your goals, wellbeing and personal growth. I offer counselling in person in Broxbourne, as well as online and by telephone.
Struggling with anxiety, sleep, grief, or relationship issues? Feeling depressed or living with a mental health condition? Struggling to cope or make sense of things? Hi I’m Hayley, a registered MBACP Integrative Counsellor BSc (Hons). Being Integrative means I tailor therapy to your unique needs, drawing from Person-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Psychodynamic, Sleep-Focused and Existential approaches. Together, we’ll create a personalised therapeutic experience that supports your goals, wellbeing and personal growth. I offer counselling in person in Broxbourne, as well as online and by telephone.
You might be living with the impact of trauma, or experiencing anxiety, low mood, shame or stuckness. Or you might need a space to open up and be fully heard, to explore who you are and what matters to you, and how to move towards a fulfilling and meaningful life.
You may struggle with self-harm or intrusive thoughts, depressive episodes or relationship difficulties. We can work together at your own pace, on your own goals to make sense of your experiences and reactions and developing manageable ways of coping with stress and hardship.
You might be living with the impact of trauma, or experiencing anxiety, low mood, shame or stuckness. Or you might need a space to open up and be fully heard, to explore who you are and what matters to you, and how to move towards a fulfilling and meaningful life.
You may struggle with self-harm or intrusive thoughts, depressive episodes or relationship difficulties. We can work together at your own pace, on your own goals to make sense of your experiences and reactions and developing manageable ways of coping with stress and hardship.
I work with adults and young people navigating ADHD, neurodiversity, sexuality, sexual wellbeing, sexual trauma, relationship diversity, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and kink. I welcome clients who may feel misunderstood, judged, or as though parts of who they are have not always had space to be safely explored.
I work with adults and young people navigating ADHD, neurodiversity, sexuality, sexual wellbeing, sexual trauma, relationship diversity, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory and kink. I welcome clients who may feel misunderstood, judged, or as though parts of who they are have not always had space to be safely explored.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or burnt out, or struggling with stress, low mood, or relationship difficulties. I work with adults who want thoughtful, focused therapy to understand repeating patterns, make sense of their experiences, and move forward with greater clarity. I offer both short-term therapy and open-ended work, depending on your needs.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or burnt out, or struggling with stress, low mood, or relationship difficulties. I work with adults who want thoughtful, focused therapy to understand repeating patterns, make sense of their experiences, and move forward with greater clarity. I offer both short-term therapy and open-ended work, depending on your needs.
Welcome I’m Dawn, an experienced qualified integrative, trauma informed counsellor and clinical supervisor and registered member of the BACP. I am also trained in online and telephone working. I work with adults in an integrative way combining Humanistic, Psychodynamic and CBT approaches as this fits my own philosophy of not one approach fits all. I aim to provide you with a warm, compassionate, confidential counselling relationship within a safe therapeutic space where you can talk freely about what is troubling you and explore the challenges you are currently facing.
Welcome I’m Dawn, an experienced qualified integrative, trauma informed counsellor and clinical supervisor and registered member of the BACP. I am also trained in online and telephone working. I work with adults in an integrative way combining Humanistic, Psychodynamic and CBT approaches as this fits my own philosophy of not one approach fits all. I aim to provide you with a warm, compassionate, confidential counselling relationship within a safe therapeutic space where you can talk freely about what is troubling you and explore the challenges you are currently facing.
I specialise in helping individuals navigate the complexities of relationships, family dynamics, and the impact of betrayal in relationships. I also support people working through substance use, behavioural addictions, and recovery. Dealing with a family rupture, toxic relationships or repeating patterns can feel incredibly isolating when you are trying to process it on your own. I provide a grounded and non judgemental space where you can talk openly at your own pace. I pay close attention to what's happening for you in the present moment, your emotions, thoughts, bodily sensations, and patterns of relating.
I specialise in helping individuals navigate the complexities of relationships, family dynamics, and the impact of betrayal in relationships. I also support people working through substance use, behavioural addictions, and recovery. Dealing with a family rupture, toxic relationships or repeating patterns can feel incredibly isolating when you are trying to process it on your own. I provide a grounded and non judgemental space where you can talk openly at your own pace. I pay close attention to what's happening for you in the present moment, your emotions, thoughts, bodily sensations, and patterns of relating.
Life does not come with a guide book, we can often find ourselves overwhelmed and distressed and not sure where to turn to. Sometimes you may not even be aware of the root cause of your problems, but have a nagging doubt of not feeling quite right. Anxiety, bereavement,relationship, job changes can leave you feeling unable to cope and overwhelmed. I am here to listen to you in a non-judgemental capacity in a safe confidential space. Talking about what is troubling you and being truly heard can prove to be invaluable, as together we unravel your thoughts and emotions, enabling you to take back the control over your life.
Life does not come with a guide book, we can often find ourselves overwhelmed and distressed and not sure where to turn to. Sometimes you may not even be aware of the root cause of your problems, but have a nagging doubt of not feeling quite right. Anxiety, bereavement,relationship, job changes can leave you feeling unable to cope and overwhelmed. I am here to listen to you in a non-judgemental capacity in a safe confidential space. Talking about what is troubling you and being truly heard can prove to be invaluable, as together we unravel your thoughts and emotions, enabling you to take back the control over your life.
I'm a BACP registered psychotherapeutic counsellor and trained mindfulness practitioner, experienced in supporting a diverse community of people of various ages and needs, with specialisation in stress management, anxiety and depression, childhood trauma, relationship difficulties and bereavement and loss.
My aim is to provide you with a warm, safe, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship so that you can explore your difficulties and find a way forward to living a life with greater freedom and ease.
I'm a BACP registered psychotherapeutic counsellor and trained mindfulness practitioner, experienced in supporting a diverse community of people of various ages and needs, with specialisation in stress management, anxiety and depression, childhood trauma, relationship difficulties and bereavement and loss.
My aim is to provide you with a warm, safe, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship so that you can explore your difficulties and find a way forward to living a life with greater freedom and ease.
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Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people.
But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
Do relationships feel like hard work instead of bringing you joy and being a "safe heaven"? Whether you’re single, dating or in a long-term relationship, you still may feel lonely, confused or stuck. And you start overthinking, feeling anxious, guilty or “not enough”. Maybe you keep arguing about “small things”, avoid intimacy or notice the same painful story repeating with different people.
But deep down, you long for calm, emotional safety and honest conversations – to feel close and wanted, and finally relax and be yourself without losing your independence
They can be struggling to cope with life transitions like parenthood, divorce, redundancy, relationship difficulties and cultural transitions.
I have over 15 years experience working, in the U.K. and abroad, with adult and families. In addition to my private work, I practice in the NHS. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches such as CBT, Systemic & Family therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy and Compassion Focussed Therapy.
They can be struggling to cope with life transitions like parenthood, divorce, redundancy, relationship difficulties and cultural transitions.
I have over 15 years experience working, in the U.K. and abroad, with adult and families. In addition to my private work, I practice in the NHS. I draw on a range of evidence-based approaches such as CBT, Systemic & Family therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy and Compassion Focussed Therapy.
My name is David, and I offer outcome-focused therapy for complex challenges such as depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship difficulties, whether these arise at home or at work. I believe lasting change comes from understanding where difficulties originated and how they continue to shape your life today. Our work may involve exploring past experiences and the emotions linked to them in a compassionate, empathic, and non-judgmental way. This helps uncover how earlier experiences inform how you think, feel, and respond in the present, creating the conditions for meaningful, lasting, and sustainable change over time.
My name is David, and I offer outcome-focused therapy for complex challenges such as depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship difficulties, whether these arise at home or at work. I believe lasting change comes from understanding where difficulties originated and how they continue to shape your life today. Our work may involve exploring past experiences and the emotions linked to them in a compassionate, empathic, and non-judgmental way. This helps uncover how earlier experiences inform how you think, feel, and respond in the present, creating the conditions for meaningful, lasting, and sustainable change over time.
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
I help children, teens and adults feel more settled, confident and connected. With young people, I use creative and relational approaches to build emotional awareness and resilience. For adults, especially teachers and caregivers, I offer space to manage stress, burnout and identity shifts. My approach is calm, compassionate and focused on helping you (or your child) feel heard and supported. My clients are often capable people who feel overwhelmed or disconnected. For children and teens, it’s anxiety, school stress or confidence struggles. For adults, it’s burnout, boundaries and finding balance again.
Problems with a particular relationship is often what brings individuals and couples to relationship counselling and psychotherapy. As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist I offer a non judgmental space where we can think together about the interaction and the conflicts of this relationship, seek to understand the recurrent patterns of difficulties you are facing and resolve the underlying issues. Counselling and psychotherapy may involve exploring the past to the extent that it influences the present.
Problems with a particular relationship is often what brings individuals and couples to relationship counselling and psychotherapy. As an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist I offer a non judgmental space where we can think together about the interaction and the conflicts of this relationship, seek to understand the recurrent patterns of difficulties you are facing and resolve the underlying issues. Counselling and psychotherapy may involve exploring the past to the extent that it influences the present.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
I work with a wide range of problems including communication difficulties, anxiety, depression, divorce, affairs, self esteem, grief, issues of trust, difficulties with the wider family, cultural differences, and changes in the relationship such as a new baby, illness and retirement .
I am a Relate trained counsellor experienced at working with both couples and individuals. I offer a down-to-earth, forward thinking, non-directive approach. I endeavour to create a warm, non-judgemental therapeutic relationship where we can focus on you and your situation. I will work with you to understand your concerns, your deeper needs and how they are affecting your life and relationships.I see my role as supportive of your change, offering change to explore feelings and experiences in a safe, confidential space. I have worked with clients from the LGBT community and from diverse backgrounds.
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
Integrative Psychotherapist, Highgate · Barnet · Online.
If life feels overwhelming, anxious, or stuck, Maybe you’re scrolling through other people’s careers, relationships, and milestones, feeling pressure. I help to untangle the anxiety, and self‑criticism.
I help you make sense of what’s going on and find a way through. Whether you’re an adult at a crossroads, a parent at capacity, or a young person whose needs don’t fit mainstream approaches.
I’m curious, approachable, creative, and honest. I often use humour and sometimes a touch of colourful language!
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- Potters Bar
- Waltham Abbey
- Waltham Cross
Divorce Counsellors
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.