Men's Issues Counselling in Chertsey

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Warren Vinciguerra
Counsellor, MBACP
Chertsey KT16
Through my experience of nearly two decades of working within the mental health industry, I have continued to develop my empathy skills, along with a strong sense of compassion for my clients. I have the energy and motivation to wholeheartedly help my clients change. Over the course of my years in practice I have had the honour to participate in different treatment programmes, within a variety of contextual settings. This has included having the privilege to work at some of Europe’s best private clinics such as; Smarmore Castle, Lifeworks Community and Promis Clinics. I also have experience of working in a UK prison and a college.
Through my experience of nearly two decades of working within the mental health industry, I have continued to develop my empathy skills, along with a strong sense of compassion for my clients. I have the energy and motivation to wholeheartedly help my clients change. Over the course of my years in practice I have had the honour to participate in different treatment programmes, within a variety of contextual settings. This has included having the privilege to work at some of Europe’s best private clinics such as; Smarmore Castle, Lifeworks Community and Promis Clinics. I also have experience of working in a UK prison and a college.
07401 773492 View 07401 773492
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Susan Kay
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Do you feel overwhelmed by your thoughts & feelings? Are you feeling anxious? Are you suffering from stress and feel “burnt out”? Do you wonder how to manage those constant thought patterns which go round & round in your head, stopping you from being able to think clearly? What would it feel like to offload and release that pressure without feeling judged or being offered well-meaning advice that just isn’t right for you? Imagine that sense of building upon your self-esteem as you learn to trust your gut feeling and know instinctively what is right for you to enable that change to happen?
Do you feel overwhelmed by your thoughts & feelings? Are you feeling anxious? Are you suffering from stress and feel “burnt out”? Do you wonder how to manage those constant thought patterns which go round & round in your head, stopping you from being able to think clearly? What would it feel like to offload and release that pressure without feeling judged or being offered well-meaning advice that just isn’t right for you? Imagine that sense of building upon your self-esteem as you learn to trust your gut feeling and know instinctively what is right for you to enable that change to happen?
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Dr Mandeep Bachu
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
As a Clinical Psychologist, I've trained in a diverse range of evidence-based therapeutic models. This broad experience allows me to tailor an approach that truly fits your unique needs. My toolkit includes Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), with a special interest in Schema Therapy, as well as formal training in Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) and experience delivering Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) interventions. My background includes extensive work within the NHS with children and adults, treating a range of psychological difficulties such as anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I've trained in a diverse range of evidence-based therapeutic models. This broad experience allows me to tailor an approach that truly fits your unique needs. My toolkit includes Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), with a special interest in Schema Therapy, as well as formal training in Cognitive Analytic Therapy (CAT) and experience delivering Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) interventions. My background includes extensive work within the NHS with children and adults, treating a range of psychological difficulties such as anxiety, depression, and personality disorders.
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Jane Barnfield Jukes
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Jane is an experienced integrative psychotherapist/counsellor who practices using a combination of therapeutic approaches, ensuring that therapy is tailored to meet the individual need, be it short or long term. She currently works with adults, couples and young people with GP referrals and in the public and private sector. She has wide experience of working with depression, anxiety, panic, stress, loss, addiction, life limiting illness, self-harm, eating disorders, phobias and abuse and believes that to be heard in a safe, confidential environment is essential to effective therapy.
Jane is an experienced integrative psychotherapist/counsellor who practices using a combination of therapeutic approaches, ensuring that therapy is tailored to meet the individual need, be it short or long term. She currently works with adults, couples and young people with GP referrals and in the public and private sector. She has wide experience of working with depression, anxiety, panic, stress, loss, addiction, life limiting illness, self-harm, eating disorders, phobias and abuse and believes that to be heard in a safe, confidential environment is essential to effective therapy.
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Joel Kaye
Counsellor, MBACP
Edgware HA8
You're a male in your 30s or 40s, experiencing stress, overwhelm, and anxiety and it's affecting your performance and your relationships, with your wife and your children. Bottom line, you're not happy and you don't have the bandwidth to deal with everything and everyone. Your ways of coping, avoiding people, staying out or up late, and overeating or using substances as a way to soothe and escape are now causing more harm than good. It's time to change things.
You're a male in your 30s or 40s, experiencing stress, overwhelm, and anxiety and it's affecting your performance and your relationships, with your wife and your children. Bottom line, you're not happy and you don't have the bandwidth to deal with everything and everyone. Your ways of coping, avoiding people, staying out or up late, and overeating or using substances as a way to soothe and escape are now causing more harm than good. It's time to change things.
020 8016 3339 View 020 8016 3339
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Ayse Hazir
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London W4
Hello, I work with individuals and couples towards a more relational, intimate and fulfilling life. I believe that much of our suffering stems from how we relate to ourselves and to others. I work with relationship blocks, difficulties, and patterns. I help my clients navigate and process life transitions such as breakups, divorce, and challenging relationships; not only with romantic partners but also with family and work relationships. I take relationship struggles seriously, as they can lead to anxiety, depression and overall difficulties with emotional regulation.
Hello, I work with individuals and couples towards a more relational, intimate and fulfilling life. I believe that much of our suffering stems from how we relate to ourselves and to others. I work with relationship blocks, difficulties, and patterns. I help my clients navigate and process life transitions such as breakups, divorce, and challenging relationships; not only with romantic partners but also with family and work relationships. I take relationship struggles seriously, as they can lead to anxiety, depression and overall difficulties with emotional regulation.
020 4572 0192 View 020 4572 0192
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Steven Dunn Msc
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I understand navigating life’s challenges—whether related to anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress, relationship or sexual issues—can be overwhelming. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings one-to-one. What sets me apart is my focus on not just your current struggles but also understanding how your past has shaped you. Together, we’ll work through these challenges, helping you build a future that truly excites and motivates you, at a pace that feels right for you.
I understand navigating life’s challenges—whether related to anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress, relationship or sexual issues—can be overwhelming. I offer a confidential, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings one-to-one. What sets me apart is my focus on not just your current struggles but also understanding how your past has shaped you. Together, we’ll work through these challenges, helping you build a future that truly excites and motivates you, at a pace that feels right for you.
020 8016 2431 View 020 8016 2431
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The Wellmind Coach
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Hi, I'm Steve and I specialise in male-related issues, be that; work stress, depression, anxiety, anger, relationship issues, bereavement/loss or just struggling to understand where someone is in life.
Hi, I'm Steve and I specialise in male-related issues, be that; work stress, depression, anxiety, anger, relationship issues, bereavement/loss or just struggling to understand where someone is in life.
01494 360816 View 01494 360816
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Tony Patterson
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
London SE8
Waitlist for new clients
I have experience working with clients in areas such as stress, anxiety, low self esteem, relationship issues (self or others), sexual identity, sexuality, masculine embodiment, depression. I feel coming to therapy can be daunting as clients often do not know what to expect. I like to talk this through with clients and make sure that they feel safe and secure, and we can build a therapeutic relationship together. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which the you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others at your own pace.
I have experience working with clients in areas such as stress, anxiety, low self esteem, relationship issues (self or others), sexual identity, sexuality, masculine embodiment, depression. I feel coming to therapy can be daunting as clients often do not know what to expect. I like to talk this through with clients and make sure that they feel safe and secure, and we can build a therapeutic relationship together. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space in which the you can explore your thoughts and feelings, allowing you to understand more about yourself and your relationships with others at your own pace.
020 4538 4310 View 020 4538 4310
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The Journey Psychotherapy Msc Mbacp
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
London W1G
Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges.
Life constantly provides difficult situations that can bring emotional and psychological challenges. It can be hard to work through situations alone and often, those closest to us can be too involved to lean on for support. I provide Psychotherapy sessions helping you to grow into the best version of yourself in uplifting, progressive therapy sessions.
Men's issues include ED, low sex drive, pornography addiction, alcohol addiction and relationship or social challenges.
Life constantly provides difficult situations that can bring emotional and psychological challenges. It can be hard to work through situations alone and often, those closest to us can be too involved to lean on for support. I provide Psychotherapy sessions helping you to grow into the best version of yourself in uplifting, progressive therapy sessions.
020 3835 3369 View 020 3835 3369
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Anthony Birbeck
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
I am an experienced Psychodynamic Counsellor offering affordable counselling to those who feel burdened by emotional problems in their lives. I understand that starting counselling is an important decision for you and can be a daunting prospect; choosing the right counsellor, wondering what will happen and if and how you can feel better. If this is how you feel, you are not alone.
I am an experienced Psychodynamic Counsellor offering affordable counselling to those who feel burdened by emotional problems in their lives. I understand that starting counselling is an important decision for you and can be a daunting prospect; choosing the right counsellor, wondering what will happen and if and how you can feel better. If this is how you feel, you are not alone.
07480 485661 View 07480 485661
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Jon Matthew Rowe
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Serves Area
Do you feel at a crossroads—perhaps stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by emotions that you can’t quite make sense of? You may be feeling anxious or low, struggling with a recent loss, processing difficult past experiences, or simply sensing that something in your life needs to change. You might be navigating a life transition, facing burnout, relationship difficulties, or feeling as though you’re living on autopilot. Sometimes, there’s no clear label for what’s wrong—just a sense that things could be better.
Do you feel at a crossroads—perhaps stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by emotions that you can’t quite make sense of? You may be feeling anxious or low, struggling with a recent loss, processing difficult past experiences, or simply sensing that something in your life needs to change. You might be navigating a life transition, facing burnout, relationship difficulties, or feeling as though you’re living on autopilot. Sometimes, there’s no clear label for what’s wrong—just a sense that things could be better.
01752 982796 View 01752 982796
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Natasha Watson
Counsellor, MBACP
Bromley BR2
I am a passionate, BACP registered counsellor with experience working with clients with depression, generalised anxiety disorder, social anxiety, loss and bereavement, single parenting, relationship difficulties, spouse addiction, suicide ideation, eating disorders, personality disorders, separation and divorce. With close experience of people in the LGTBQIA+ community, from neurodivergent backgrounds and people with disabilities, I am passionate about working with adult clients from a diverse range of backgrounds. I hold the ethical framework at the core of my work, and work in a boundaried and professional way.
I am a passionate, BACP registered counsellor with experience working with clients with depression, generalised anxiety disorder, social anxiety, loss and bereavement, single parenting, relationship difficulties, spouse addiction, suicide ideation, eating disorders, personality disorders, separation and divorce. With close experience of people in the LGTBQIA+ community, from neurodivergent backgrounds and people with disabilities, I am passionate about working with adult clients from a diverse range of backgrounds. I hold the ethical framework at the core of my work, and work in a boundaried and professional way.
020 4634 3318 View 020 4634 3318
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Jamie Sabat
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome, my name is Jamie and I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I understand how overwhelming seeking counselling can be and recognise how much of a big step it takes to contact someone like myself to talk about your personal difficulties. I am experienced working with individuals and relationships. My training being person-centred, I focus on respecting your unique experience and supporting you to find your sense of agency and self belief.
Welcome, my name is Jamie and I am a fully qualified and experienced counsellor. I understand how overwhelming seeking counselling can be and recognise how much of a big step it takes to contact someone like myself to talk about your personal difficulties. I am experienced working with individuals and relationships. My training being person-centred, I focus on respecting your unique experience and supporting you to find your sense of agency and self belief.
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Oliver Richards
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London EC2M
I specialise in supporting clients dealing with addiction, anxiety, depression, and men's issues.
As an integrative psychotherapist I combine several major therapeutic schools of thought when I work with clients. This allows me to work individually with each client, focusing on building and maintaining an effective and unique therapeutic relationship within which the emotional, psychological, and spiritual lives of my clients.
I specialise in supporting clients dealing with addiction, anxiety, depression, and men's issues.
As an integrative psychotherapist I combine several major therapeutic schools of thought when I work with clients. This allows me to work individually with each client, focusing on building and maintaining an effective and unique therapeutic relationship within which the emotional, psychological, and spiritual lives of my clients.
020 4572 2829 View 020 4572 2829
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Robert Ashby
Counsellor, MBACP
5 Endorsed
Online Only
You’re here because something isn’t working. Maybe you feel stuck, like no matter what you do, you keep falling into the same patterns. Maybe anxiety, self-doubt, or overthinking are running the show, and you’re fucking tired of it. You want change, but it feels impossible to break out of the cycle. That’s where I come in. I’m a qualified psychotherapist, and I help people with the break these cycle. Therapy with me isn’t about bullshit advice or forced positivity. It’s about real conversations that help you understand yourself and create genuine change to be the person you are proud of. If you feel ready, let's have a chat!
You’re here because something isn’t working. Maybe you feel stuck, like no matter what you do, you keep falling into the same patterns. Maybe anxiety, self-doubt, or overthinking are running the show, and you’re fucking tired of it. You want change, but it feels impossible to break out of the cycle. That’s where I come in. I’m a qualified psychotherapist, and I help people with the break these cycle. Therapy with me isn’t about bullshit advice or forced positivity. It’s about real conversations that help you understand yourself and create genuine change to be the person you are proud of. If you feel ready, let's have a chat!
020 4572 0462 View 020 4572 0462
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Jon Gee
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Online Only
I help high-performing professionals/entrepreneurs, they are often driven by logic and working in tech/finance/law/media/arts. I specialise in helping people develop a relationship with their body, and to understand the impact of their feelings and emotions on the body and vice versa. I often work with those with experience of living life on the edge, and/or complex, troubled relationships. I work well with people for whom talking about personal matters feels very difficult. I am not easily shocked and I also understand the need for taking things slowly and sensitively. My approach is kind, practical, down-to-earth and creative.
I help high-performing professionals/entrepreneurs, they are often driven by logic and working in tech/finance/law/media/arts. I specialise in helping people develop a relationship with their body, and to understand the impact of their feelings and emotions on the body and vice versa. I often work with those with experience of living life on the edge, and/or complex, troubled relationships. I work well with people for whom talking about personal matters feels very difficult. I am not easily shocked and I also understand the need for taking things slowly and sensitively. My approach is kind, practical, down-to-earth and creative.
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Johnny Donnelly
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Sutton SM3
Sometimes, being part of the LGBTQ+ community can be a very lonely existence, and we are not all ‘out and proud’ or lucky enough to feel part of a wider LGBTQ+ family. You may be experiencing isolation, shame, or perhaps you have faced rejection from your family or friends. I do not assume that your struggles are related to your sexuality or gender, but if you are trying to deal with something specific in your personal life, or are simply overwhelmed and feeling alone in your current situation, I can offer you a private and non-judgemental space for the exploration of anything which may be causing you pain.
Sometimes, being part of the LGBTQ+ community can be a very lonely existence, and we are not all ‘out and proud’ or lucky enough to feel part of a wider LGBTQ+ family. You may be experiencing isolation, shame, or perhaps you have faced rejection from your family or friends. I do not assume that your struggles are related to your sexuality or gender, but if you are trying to deal with something specific in your personal life, or are simply overwhelmed and feeling alone in your current situation, I can offer you a private and non-judgemental space for the exploration of anything which may be causing you pain.
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Benjamin Clegg
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
London NW10
I am an experienced NCPS accredited register counselling psychotherapist who offers a warm, safe and supportive space to explore your past, present and future within a therapeutic relationship that you will feel really seen and heard in. I have a particular interest in exploring how young adults/adults relate to and define gender roles in a rapidly moving and demanding society.
I am an experienced NCPS accredited register counselling psychotherapist who offers a warm, safe and supportive space to explore your past, present and future within a therapeutic relationship that you will feel really seen and heard in. I have a particular interest in exploring how young adults/adults relate to and define gender roles in a rapidly moving and demanding society.
020 7046 1352 View 020 7046 1352
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Richard Stiles
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Fleet GU51
Are you burned out and overwhelmed? I help adult professionals manage stress and anxiety through talking therapy, presence practice and mindfulness. We can all experience burn out at some point. It's normal and it's nature's way of telling us to slow down. We don't always have the luxury of slowing down but we can learn to feel more connected to ourselves and others.
Are you burned out and overwhelmed? I help adult professionals manage stress and anxiety through talking therapy, presence practice and mindfulness. We can all experience burn out at some point. It's normal and it's nature's way of telling us to slow down. We don't always have the luxury of slowing down but we can learn to feel more connected to ourselves and others.
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Men's Issues Counsellors

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.