Infidelity Counselling in Chelmsford
I am an Integrative Psychotherapist working with children, adolescents, adults and families. I offer a safe, judgement-free space for you to explore your experiences and feelings. It can be an ongoing issue that you or a young person has been suffering from, or, it may be a more recent concern. I am flexible and adaptable in my approach. I work with clients who have a wide range of experiences/difficulties, including; Sexual, Physical and Emotional Abuse, Anxiety & Depression, Suicide, Self-harm, Attachment difficulties, Addiction, Autism, Looked-After-Children, ADHD and Bereavement.
I am an Integrative Psychotherapist working with children, adolescents, adults and families. I offer a safe, judgement-free space for you to explore your experiences and feelings. It can be an ongoing issue that you or a young person has been suffering from, or, it may be a more recent concern. I am flexible and adaptable in my approach. I work with clients who have a wide range of experiences/difficulties, including; Sexual, Physical and Emotional Abuse, Anxiety & Depression, Suicide, Self-harm, Attachment difficulties, Addiction, Autism, Looked-After-Children, ADHD and Bereavement.
Ella Dinsdale - ProjectYou Counselling
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chelmsford CM2
I truly believe you are the best ProjectYou will ever work on - yes, I know this sounds corny, but it's so true! That doesn't mean it's always easy to do & I know from first hand experience that sometimes we all need a little support. I'm a qualified Counsellor based in Chelmsford, Essex, offering face to face and online support. I'm passionate about empowering you to make the the changes in your life you'd like to see.
I truly believe you are the best ProjectYou will ever work on - yes, I know this sounds corny, but it's so true! That doesn't mean it's always easy to do & I know from first hand experience that sometimes we all need a little support. I'm a qualified Counsellor based in Chelmsford, Essex, offering face to face and online support. I'm passionate about empowering you to make the the changes in your life you'd like to see.
Considering and finding a counsellor can be an anxious time, this might be your first-time seeking help or you may be returning to counselling after a break, you may be unsure of what to look for or be unsure of what to expect from your counselling journey. As individuals we have the ability to find within us what we need to overcome and work through our problems, anxieties and stresses but for many reasons such as traumatic events, job pressures, personal or relationship issues, bereavement or loss, we lose this ability and our problems begin to overwhelm and infiltrate our lives leading us to seek help.
Considering and finding a counsellor can be an anxious time, this might be your first-time seeking help or you may be returning to counselling after a break, you may be unsure of what to look for or be unsure of what to expect from your counselling journey. As individuals we have the ability to find within us what we need to overcome and work through our problems, anxieties and stresses but for many reasons such as traumatic events, job pressures, personal or relationship issues, bereavement or loss, we lose this ability and our problems begin to overwhelm and infiltrate our lives leading us to seek help.
I provide a confidential and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore areas of difficulty in your life. Whether you’re facing an immediate crisis—such as a relationship breakdown, bereavement, or addiction—or dealing with long-term challenges like low mood, anxiety, depression, or the need for professional change, I am here to support you.
Using an psychodyna approach, I tailor my methods to suit your individual needs, helping you gain understanding, create solutions, develop strategies, and move forward positively. I work with adults, children, and young adults, offering counselling, supervision and coaching.
I provide a confidential and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore areas of difficulty in your life. Whether you’re facing an immediate crisis—such as a relationship breakdown, bereavement, or addiction—or dealing with long-term challenges like low mood, anxiety, depression, or the need for professional change, I am here to support you.
Using an psychodyna approach, I tailor my methods to suit your individual needs, helping you gain understanding, create solutions, develop strategies, and move forward positively. I work with adults, children, and young adults, offering counselling, supervision and coaching.
Dr Matt Slavin
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chelmsford CM1
Hi! I’m Dr Matt Slavin, a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR Trauma Therapist specialising in helping men and women navigate stress, anxiety, trauma, and burnout.
Hi! I’m Dr Matt Slavin, a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR Trauma Therapist specialising in helping men and women navigate stress, anxiety, trauma, and burnout.
Our aim at the Chelmsford Counselling and Therapy Centre is to inspire growth , help clients bring about change leading to self - fulfilment. I work along side a group of 25 Counsellors and Therapists so be can be very responsive to client needs. We work with adults, children as well as couples.We also offer a low cost (£20) Counselling Service for individual adults provided by Counsellors in training.
Our aim at the Chelmsford Counselling and Therapy Centre is to inspire growth , help clients bring about change leading to self - fulfilment. I work along side a group of 25 Counsellors and Therapists so be can be very responsive to client needs. We work with adults, children as well as couples.We also offer a low cost (£20) Counselling Service for individual adults provided by Counsellors in training.
Welcome! I offer friendly & down to earth therapy for both individuals & couples, I am also a Supervisor for therapists & trainees. Whether you are living with a difficult situation which is causing you distress, or you are affected by experiences from your past - I can help! I work with a wide variety of issues, from anxiety, depression and trauma related problems, to difficult or abusive relationships. Whatever your issue, large or small, therapy can help you.
Welcome! I offer friendly & down to earth therapy for both individuals & couples, I am also a Supervisor for therapists & trainees. Whether you are living with a difficult situation which is causing you distress, or you are affected by experiences from your past - I can help! I work with a wide variety of issues, from anxiety, depression and trauma related problems, to difficult or abusive relationships. Whatever your issue, large or small, therapy can help you.
I am an experienced, qualified integrative counsellor. I work both in person and online where I can provide you with a safe comfortable, non-judgemental space. Here I can support, and listen to you with understanding, empathy, and condifentiality. Giving you the space to explore your difficulties, issues and future goals. I specialise in helping those that are suffering with anxiety, depression,low esteem and ADHD, relationships and bereavement. I have worked with a huge range of people from all backgrounds and cultures, ethnicity and LGBGT communities.
I am an experienced, qualified integrative counsellor. I work both in person and online where I can provide you with a safe comfortable, non-judgemental space. Here I can support, and listen to you with understanding, empathy, and condifentiality. Giving you the space to explore your difficulties, issues and future goals. I specialise in helping those that are suffering with anxiety, depression,low esteem and ADHD, relationships and bereavement. I have worked with a huge range of people from all backgrounds and cultures, ethnicity and LGBGT communities.
Hello, my name is David. I am a registered BACP Counsellor with many years of experience supporting individuals through difficult life journeys and their challenges.
I offer face-to-face counselling sessions at therapy rooms in Chelmsford City Centre and on the High Street in Maldon. I also provide online sessions via Zoom and can conduct sessions over the phone if that is your preference.
Hello, my name is David. I am a registered BACP Counsellor with many years of experience supporting individuals through difficult life journeys and their challenges.
I offer face-to-face counselling sessions at therapy rooms in Chelmsford City Centre and on the High Street in Maldon. I also provide online sessions via Zoom and can conduct sessions over the phone if that is your preference.
Entering into counselling can be daunting and scary. Whatever it is that brings you to counselling we will work together with a freedom for you to "be" without judgement or criticism. It is often about gaining a greater understanding of where we find ourselves now as well as giving a voice to our experiences and feelings, often for the first time. Together we can work towards a brighter and more positive future for you.
Entering into counselling can be daunting and scary. Whatever it is that brings you to counselling we will work together with a freedom for you to "be" without judgement or criticism. It is often about gaining a greater understanding of where we find ourselves now as well as giving a voice to our experiences and feelings, often for the first time. Together we can work towards a brighter and more positive future for you.
It's OK to not be OK. Whatever you're going through, counselling can help. We all have a past, a present, and a future. Our past can affect our present and our present can affect our future. Whether your past is causing issues here and now, or if you are currently experiencing difficulties now that may affect your future, you are not alone. I am trained and qualified in various techniques and use an integrative approach - using a combination of techniques, tailored to meet the needs of each individual. This is the most effective way to get positive results.
It's OK to not be OK. Whatever you're going through, counselling can help. We all have a past, a present, and a future. Our past can affect our present and our present can affect our future. Whether your past is causing issues here and now, or if you are currently experiencing difficulties now that may affect your future, you are not alone. I am trained and qualified in various techniques and use an integrative approach - using a combination of techniques, tailored to meet the needs of each individual. This is the most effective way to get positive results.
Meet Our Infidelity Counsellors
I make therapy fun, not just with young people but adults too. Sitting staring at each other speaking about deep feelings has a place but using communication exercises, drawing out behavioural patterns and playing a few games, in my experience is better. People always feedback that they feel heard and held by me, relaxed and excited for moving forward in life however that may look! I offer face-to-face sessions for couples, individuals and young people (11yrs-18yrs). I have a client room in central Chelmsford near to parking and a 2 minute walk from the station.
I make therapy fun, not just with young people but adults too. Sitting staring at each other speaking about deep feelings has a place but using communication exercises, drawing out behavioural patterns and playing a few games, in my experience is better. People always feedback that they feel heard and held by me, relaxed and excited for moving forward in life however that may look! I offer face-to-face sessions for couples, individuals and young people (11yrs-18yrs). I have a client room in central Chelmsford near to parking and a 2 minute walk from the station.
Accredited health and wellbeing life coach and psychotherapist. I offer online and face to face sessions.
I integrate CBT, NLP, psychodynamic, and humanistic therapy into my psychotherapy sessions, tailoring each approach to your unique needs after a comprehensive assessment.
I am also Registered nurse with many years experience.
Support with Anxiety, Depression, Stress, Low Self Esteem, Self Confidence , Altered Body Image, Career, Finances, Trauma, Chronic Health problems, Cancer, Pain,
and Couples, and relationship problems.
For reviews please review Google or my website.
Accredited health and wellbeing life coach and psychotherapist. I offer online and face to face sessions.
I integrate CBT, NLP, psychodynamic, and humanistic therapy into my psychotherapy sessions, tailoring each approach to your unique needs after a comprehensive assessment.
I am also Registered nurse with many years experience.
Support with Anxiety, Depression, Stress, Low Self Esteem, Self Confidence , Altered Body Image, Career, Finances, Trauma, Chronic Health problems, Cancer, Pain,
and Couples, and relationship problems.
For reviews please review Google or my website.
You may have some ideas as to why you are seeking counselling or you may simply feel the need to talk to someone. You might experienced a loss, bereavement, a change in family circumstances or a relationship. You might be suffering from an illness or health problems. Perhaps you have problems at work, with your employment or finances. You might have lost touch with yourself or feel uncertain about a life decision. You may be confused, unhappy, depressed, anxious, worried or sad. You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol. You may experienced a trauma or an abusive relationship.
You may have some ideas as to why you are seeking counselling or you may simply feel the need to talk to someone. You might experienced a loss, bereavement, a change in family circumstances or a relationship. You might be suffering from an illness or health problems. Perhaps you have problems at work, with your employment or finances. You might have lost touch with yourself or feel uncertain about a life decision. You may be confused, unhappy, depressed, anxious, worried or sad. You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol. You may experienced a trauma or an abusive relationship.
There are times when we're not OK, when we believe that no one understands our struggles, that we alone should fix them, and things will never change. But it needn't be like this. I specialise in supporting people experiencing anxiety (including social, health, stress, work-place) • low-mood and depression • effects of trauma • low self-esteem • addictions and substance dependency • relationship issues • ADHD • intense emotions. I can help change your limiting thoughts, feelings and behaviours so that you can make sense of your past experiences, find new perspectives, cope with present struggles, and regain your confidence.
There are times when we're not OK, when we believe that no one understands our struggles, that we alone should fix them, and things will never change. But it needn't be like this. I specialise in supporting people experiencing anxiety (including social, health, stress, work-place) • low-mood and depression • effects of trauma • low self-esteem • addictions and substance dependency • relationship issues • ADHD • intense emotions. I can help change your limiting thoughts, feelings and behaviours so that you can make sense of your past experiences, find new perspectives, cope with present struggles, and regain your confidence.
I use an integrative approach as I do not believe one style fits all. This means I will suggest utilising the most appropriate approach according to individual needs and wants. The main approaches I work with, but not limited to, are EMDR & CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy). I am a qualified Europe and UK EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) therapist, a treatment with high success for different types of trauma, PTSD, assaults, rape, phobias, illness, injury, anxiety plus much more. I offer group therapy at a reduced rate and short courses- please enquire.
I use an integrative approach as I do not believe one style fits all. This means I will suggest utilising the most appropriate approach according to individual needs and wants. The main approaches I work with, but not limited to, are EMDR & CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy). I am a qualified Europe and UK EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing) therapist, a treatment with high success for different types of trauma, PTSD, assaults, rape, phobias, illness, injury, anxiety plus much more. I offer group therapy at a reduced rate and short courses- please enquire.
I am a qualified integrative counsellor and offer therapy to adults and young people (min. age 18). My core belief is that everyone is capable and deserving of positive change in their life. I am trained in a number of therapeutic modalities. I find that, just as each individual is unique, so too is the therapeutic experience. I am able to tailor these techniques to meet your individual needs. The therapeutic relationship is very much an alliance; one in which we can work collectively to explore your sense of self and empower you to gain the tools and awareness you need to make positive changes in your life.
I am a qualified integrative counsellor and offer therapy to adults and young people (min. age 18). My core belief is that everyone is capable and deserving of positive change in their life. I am trained in a number of therapeutic modalities. I find that, just as each individual is unique, so too is the therapeutic experience. I am able to tailor these techniques to meet your individual needs. The therapeutic relationship is very much an alliance; one in which we can work collectively to explore your sense of self and empower you to gain the tools and awareness you need to make positive changes in your life.
I am a fully qualified and insured counsellor. I trained Integratively, which means I use a range of different theories and modalities to support my clients depending on what you need. It might be that you want to look at events from your past that you feel are holding you back or it might be that you want to concentrate on what is going on for you in the here and now, we can do either or both. I have extensive experience working with a wide range of issues and can help support you by offering space for you to work through whatever it is that you are struggling with right now.
I am a fully qualified and insured counsellor. I trained Integratively, which means I use a range of different theories and modalities to support my clients depending on what you need. It might be that you want to look at events from your past that you feel are holding you back or it might be that you want to concentrate on what is going on for you in the here and now, we can do either or both. I have extensive experience working with a wide range of issues and can help support you by offering space for you to work through whatever it is that you are struggling with right now.
Welcome. I am a BACP Accredited counsellor with experience working with adults, couples and young people. At times in our lives, events can swamp us and we can struggle to cope. I have experience working with clients with various backgrounds. I can help you with anxiety, stress, self esteem issues, low mood, depression, relationship issues, experiencing chronic illness, along with suicidal ideation. My approach can help you understand yourself better and explore ways to bring about positive change.
Welcome. I am a BACP Accredited counsellor with experience working with adults, couples and young people. At times in our lives, events can swamp us and we can struggle to cope. I have experience working with clients with various backgrounds. I can help you with anxiety, stress, self esteem issues, low mood, depression, relationship issues, experiencing chronic illness, along with suicidal ideation. My approach can help you understand yourself better and explore ways to bring about positive change.
In our sessions, we focus on creating a space where you feel truly heard, understood, and accepted. There’s no judgement, no pressure—just a calm, supportive environment where you can bring whatever’s on your mind. You deserve to feel valued just as you are. I aim to provide a compassionate space where you can speak freely and at your own pace. Everyone’s story is different, and I approach yours with openness and respect. Our relationship is at the heart of this work.
I believe you know yourself better than anyone—sometimes, you just need the right environment to untangle your thoughts, and see things more clearly.
In our sessions, we focus on creating a space where you feel truly heard, understood, and accepted. There’s no judgement, no pressure—just a calm, supportive environment where you can bring whatever’s on your mind. You deserve to feel valued just as you are. I aim to provide a compassionate space where you can speak freely and at your own pace. Everyone’s story is different, and I approach yours with openness and respect. Our relationship is at the heart of this work.
I believe you know yourself better than anyone—sometimes, you just need the right environment to untangle your thoughts, and see things more clearly.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.