Dialectical Behaviour (DBT) Counselling in Chelmsford
Using a combination of CBT, DBT and other approaches I have been able to support clients with emotion regulation and help them to lead a better quality of life.
I have extensive experience supporting clients with ASD, ADHD, EUPD (BPD), OCD and eating disorders, using counselling and psychotherapy to help individuals make meaningful change. I have a Master’s in Counselling and Psychotherapy and am a registered member of the BACP. I have also worked in SEN settings as a teacher and support worker, before and during my counselling training.
Using a combination of CBT, DBT and other approaches I have been able to support clients with emotion regulation and help them to lead a better quality of life.
I have extensive experience supporting clients with ASD, ADHD, EUPD (BPD), OCD and eating disorders, using counselling and psychotherapy to help individuals make meaningful change. I have a Master’s in Counselling and Psychotherapy and am a registered member of the BACP. I have also worked in SEN settings as a teacher and support worker, before and during my counselling training.
I offer a wide range of therapies such as IFS, CBT, DBT, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Compassion-Focussed Therapy,.
On paper, your life works but something still feels off. Maybe you’re doing all the right things, but you’ve lost the spark. Perhaps you notice the same patterns repeating and you are ready to break free of them. Our sessions together can be a place to figure things out, to untangle the thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that have left you feeling lost, disconnected or uncertain.
I offer a warm, calm and compassionate space to help you understand yourself more deeply, reconnect with what matters, and create lasting change from the inside and out.
I offer a wide range of therapies such as IFS, CBT, DBT, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Compassion-Focussed Therapy,.
On paper, your life works but something still feels off. Maybe you’re doing all the right things, but you’ve lost the spark. Perhaps you notice the same patterns repeating and you are ready to break free of them. Our sessions together can be a place to figure things out, to untangle the thoughts, emotions, and behaviours that have left you feeling lost, disconnected or uncertain.
I offer a warm, calm and compassionate space to help you understand yourself more deeply, reconnect with what matters, and create lasting change from the inside and out.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
If you’re navigating the crossroads of neurodivergence and emotional wellbeing, this is a space to unmask and live as your whole, authentic self - not the version you were conditioned to be.
Unmask: Let go of the masks you’ve worn to survive - the habits of fitting in, pushing through, or holding it all together.
Heal: Together, we’ll explore how past experiences shape your present, to free yourself from what no longer serves you.
Rise: Step into your empowered era - a life that feels like freedom.
If you’re navigating the crossroads of neurodivergence and emotional wellbeing, this is a space to unmask and live as your whole, authentic self - not the version you were conditioned to be.
Unmask: Let go of the masks you’ve worn to survive - the habits of fitting in, pushing through, or holding it all together.
Heal: Together, we’ll explore how past experiences shape your present, to free yourself from what no longer serves you.
Rise: Step into your empowered era - a life that feels like freedom.
Welcome to KJL Counselling. I am a Registered Counsellor, providing advice, support and signposting for issues relating to Mental Health and Child & Family Practice. I have over twenty years of experience working with adults, families and young people experiencing challenges regarding their mental health and emotional wellbeing, specialising in working with Individuals, women and young adults (17yrs +). My approach focuses on integrated styles of working which means I can provide therapy that is tailored to meet each individual’s needs.
Welcome to KJL Counselling. I am a Registered Counsellor, providing advice, support and signposting for issues relating to Mental Health and Child & Family Practice. I have over twenty years of experience working with adults, families and young people experiencing challenges regarding their mental health and emotional wellbeing, specialising in working with Individuals, women and young adults (17yrs +). My approach focuses on integrated styles of working which means I can provide therapy that is tailored to meet each individual’s needs.
I am a clinical psychologist with experience working with individuals from diverse cultural, religious, and clinical backgrounds. I offer a compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space where clients can explore their difficulties at their own pace and feel genuinely heard and understood.
I am a clinical psychologist with experience working with individuals from diverse cultural, religious, and clinical backgrounds. I offer a compassionate and collaborative therapeutic space where clients can explore their difficulties at their own pace and feel genuinely heard and understood.
These include psychodynamic approaches, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing therapy (EMDR), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT) and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy.
I have worked in multiple specialist services in the NHS, which has led to my developing an integrative way of working (bringing the strengths of different psychological and therapeutic approaches together). This means I match approaches and techniques to each individual person and the scientific evidence-base for their effectiveness.
These include psychodynamic approaches, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing therapy (EMDR), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy ( DBT) and Sensorimotor Psychotherapy.
I have worked in multiple specialist services in the NHS, which has led to my developing an integrative way of working (bringing the strengths of different psychological and therapeutic approaches together). This means I match approaches and techniques to each individual person and the scientific evidence-base for their effectiveness.
Life can feel overwhelming when grief, anxiety, trauma, or repeating patterns leave you feeling stuck. I work in a trauma-informed way and have completed EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) Module 1 training, enabling me to offer EMDR for distressing memories and emotional triggers. As a pluralistic psychotherapist, I draw on Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT, Gestalt, and Transactional Analysis to tailor therapy to you. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you can feel truly heard, supported, and able to move toward meaningful change.
Life can feel overwhelming when grief, anxiety, trauma, or repeating patterns leave you feeling stuck. I work in a trauma-informed way and have completed EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) Module 1 training, enabling me to offer EMDR for distressing memories and emotional triggers. As a pluralistic psychotherapist, I draw on Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT, Gestalt, and Transactional Analysis to tailor therapy to you. I provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you can feel truly heard, supported, and able to move toward meaningful change.
You're holding everything together — work, relationships, responsibilities — and doing it well enough that nobody would guess the effort it actually takes. But privately something won't shift. The anxiety that appears for no obvious reason. The relationships that follow the same exhausting patterns. The flatness that success hasn't touched.
You've probably tried to address it. Got some tools, felt better for a while. But something underneath keeps reasserting itself — and you're right that it does.
I've spent 30 years helping people understand what's actually driving their experience, not just manage the symptoms.
You're holding everything together — work, relationships, responsibilities — and doing it well enough that nobody would guess the effort it actually takes. But privately something won't shift. The anxiety that appears for no obvious reason. The relationships that follow the same exhausting patterns. The flatness that success hasn't touched.
You've probably tried to address it. Got some tools, felt better for a while. But something underneath keeps reasserting itself — and you're right that it does.
I've spent 30 years helping people understand what's actually driving their experience, not just manage the symptoms.
There are times in all our lives when we feel we have lost our way, need some to listen or simply want somebody to help us reach the next step in our journey. Maybe that sounds like you and you're looking for help to take that first step, or simply share your concerns in a safe space and really feel heard. My focus is to help individuals heal, energise, and become aware of their inner strengths by providing a neutral safe space, listening to your concerns, and customising a treatment plan. My specialities include Relationship+Family Counselling, Anxiety+Depression, Abuse+Narcissism and Grief+Loss
There are times in all our lives when we feel we have lost our way, need some to listen or simply want somebody to help us reach the next step in our journey. Maybe that sounds like you and you're looking for help to take that first step, or simply share your concerns in a safe space and really feel heard. My focus is to help individuals heal, energise, and become aware of their inner strengths by providing a neutral safe space, listening to your concerns, and customising a treatment plan. My specialities include Relationship+Family Counselling, Anxiety+Depression, Abuse+Narcissism and Grief+Loss
I am a BACP-accredited counsellor, supervisor and counselling tutor, deeply passionate about helping people. Through my own personal life experience and mental health challenges, counselling and psychotherapy has given a life perspective I would have never imagined before. I truly believe we each have our own answers, sometimes buried deep within us. Therapy is a process to unearth them - perhaps when they are needed most.
I am a BACP-accredited counsellor, supervisor and counselling tutor, deeply passionate about helping people. Through my own personal life experience and mental health challenges, counselling and psychotherapy has given a life perspective I would have never imagined before. I truly believe we each have our own answers, sometimes buried deep within us. Therapy is a process to unearth them - perhaps when they are needed most.
My approach to therapy is integrative, using evidence-based approaches - including CBT, ACT, DBT, CFT and Solution-Focussed Therapy - and tailored to your individual needs and goals.
Do you often feel overwhelmed by stress, worry, or constant overthinking? Perhaps your mind struggles to switch off, or you've been feeling low, unmotivated, or disconnected from yourself and others. You may appear to be coping on the outside, but inside things may feel heavy or out of balance.
Therapy offers a space where you can slow down, reflect, and feel heard and understood.
For over 15 years I have worked as a clinical psychologist providing psychological assessment and therapy to adults and older adults experiencing a range of difficulties, including anxiety, stress, low mood, life transitions and loss of motivation.
My approach to therapy is integrative, using evidence-based approaches - including CBT, ACT, DBT, CFT and Solution-Focussed Therapy - and tailored to your individual needs and goals.
Do you often feel overwhelmed by stress, worry, or constant overthinking? Perhaps your mind struggles to switch off, or you've been feeling low, unmotivated, or disconnected from yourself and others. You may appear to be coping on the outside, but inside things may feel heavy or out of balance.
Therapy offers a space where you can slow down, reflect, and feel heard and understood.
For over 15 years I have worked as a clinical psychologist providing psychological assessment and therapy to adults and older adults experiencing a range of difficulties, including anxiety, stress, low mood, life transitions and loss of motivation.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I offer compassionate, evidence‑based support for adults and young people navigating emotional challenges across all life transitions, also inclusive of fertility, pregnancy, birth and early parenthood. I work collaboratively to help you make sense of your experiences, reduce distress, and reconnect with your sense of self. My approach is warm, non‑judgmental and tailored to your needs, supporting resilience and wellbeing.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I offer compassionate, evidence‑based support for adults and young people navigating emotional challenges across all life transitions, also inclusive of fertility, pregnancy, birth and early parenthood. I work collaboratively to help you make sense of your experiences, reduce distress, and reconnect with your sense of self. My approach is warm, non‑judgmental and tailored to your needs, supporting resilience and wellbeing.
Hi, I am a BACP registered and NCS Accredited integrative counsellor. I work with adults, families, couples, children and young people. I provide an empathic, genuine, non-judgemental, safe space for you to have the freedom to talk and explore your thoughts and feelings where you are really heard. I strongly believe in forming a therapeutic relationship that will enable you to feel more empowered as well as building hope.
Hi, I am a BACP registered and NCS Accredited integrative counsellor. I work with adults, families, couples, children and young people. I provide an empathic, genuine, non-judgemental, safe space for you to have the freedom to talk and explore your thoughts and feelings where you are really heard. I strongly believe in forming a therapeutic relationship that will enable you to feel more empowered as well as building hope.
For those who are struggling with their eating, weight, shape or appearance, I help and specialise in psychological restoration of those who have eating disorders or disordered eating. As a potential client, you may have high levels of anxiety, perfectionism, OCD, depression and body dysmorphia amongst other issues. You may be very tired with people telling you to eat more, or less. You may notice that your normal level of living is impaired in a variety of ways. You want change but don't know where to start.
For those who are struggling with their eating, weight, shape or appearance, I help and specialise in psychological restoration of those who have eating disorders or disordered eating. As a potential client, you may have high levels of anxiety, perfectionism, OCD, depression and body dysmorphia amongst other issues. You may be very tired with people telling you to eat more, or less. You may notice that your normal level of living is impaired in a variety of ways. You want change but don't know where to start.
I work holistically and creatively, recognising that emotional wellbeing is rarely isolated from physical health, nervous system regulation, lifestyle, relationships, meaning and community. My approach integrates psychological understanding with complementary and collaborative therapies where appropriate, creating support that is individualised rather than ‘one-size-fits-all.’
Alongside my therapeutic work, I have a growing interest in developing innovative and collaborative models of wellbeing that bridge talking therapy with integrative health approaches. Modern mental health support must move beyond symptom management.
I work holistically and creatively, recognising that emotional wellbeing is rarely isolated from physical health, nervous system regulation, lifestyle, relationships, meaning and community. My approach integrates psychological understanding with complementary and collaborative therapies where appropriate, creating support that is individualised rather than ‘one-size-fits-all.’
Alongside my therapeutic work, I have a growing interest in developing innovative and collaborative models of wellbeing that bridge talking therapy with integrative health approaches. Modern mental health support must move beyond symptom management.
Do you ever feel worried, stuck, lost, hopeless, lonely, lethargic, anxious, unable to sleep – less able to cope with life? Does this affect your ability to enjoy relationships, work, everyday life? Most of us experience challenging times at various stages of our lives but we don’t have to be alone with this. Psychological therapy offers a safe place that helps you to understand and overcome your issues. I will work with you as a team to understand symptoms, underlying issues, their causes and maintenance specific to you. We will find ways forward to relieving symptoms and distress and improving your wellbeing.
Do you ever feel worried, stuck, lost, hopeless, lonely, lethargic, anxious, unable to sleep – less able to cope with life? Does this affect your ability to enjoy relationships, work, everyday life? Most of us experience challenging times at various stages of our lives but we don’t have to be alone with this. Psychological therapy offers a safe place that helps you to understand and overcome your issues. I will work with you as a team to understand symptoms, underlying issues, their causes and maintenance specific to you. We will find ways forward to relieving symptoms and distress and improving your wellbeing.
I currently work at the Priory Hospital in Chelmsford, I am a Family Support Practitioner and British Isles DBT trained.
I believe that one of the keys to success through therapy, is building a therapeutic relationship with my clients. And, as I understand that one type of therapy does not suit all, my integrative approach, means client consultations are tailored to their needs now, enabling them to get the most from every session.
I currently work at the Priory Hospital in Chelmsford, I am a Family Support Practitioner and British Isles DBT trained.
I believe that one of the keys to success through therapy, is building a therapeutic relationship with my clients. And, as I understand that one type of therapy does not suit all, my integrative approach, means client consultations are tailored to their needs now, enabling them to get the most from every session.
Using a blend of CBT, DBT, BA and other evidence-based approaches, I bring creativity into sessions with visual aids and animation.
You might feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or lost in your thoughts. Maybe life has thrown too much at once—or you’ve carried something for too long. You might be neurodivergent, dealing with trauma, addiction, or navigating family struggles. I pride myself that my clients are heard, supported, and offered real tools for change. If, and when you are ready to talk, I offer a safe, straightforward space—online or in Braintree—to help you move forward, your way. I have supported children of all ages, adults and older adults for over 10 years and will take a unique approach to improve you, or a loved ones, quality of life.
Using a blend of CBT, DBT, BA and other evidence-based approaches, I bring creativity into sessions with visual aids and animation.
You might feel stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or lost in your thoughts. Maybe life has thrown too much at once—or you’ve carried something for too long. You might be neurodivergent, dealing with trauma, addiction, or navigating family struggles. I pride myself that my clients are heard, supported, and offered real tools for change. If, and when you are ready to talk, I offer a safe, straightforward space—online or in Braintree—to help you move forward, your way. I have supported children of all ages, adults and older adults for over 10 years and will take a unique approach to improve you, or a loved ones, quality of life.
Ian West (Accred) Counsellor and Supervisor
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Using an integrative approach, I draw on various therapies like CBT/ DBT for practical strategies, psychodynamic therapy to explore past influences, and person-centred therapy to create a non-judgemental space.
I am an Accredited MBACP Registered Humanistic Integrative Counsellor & Counselling Supervisor with over 10 years of experience in working with individuals, and groups of all ages, sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds. I am based in Colchester CO1. Dependent on your presenting issues/needs I will draw on cognitive, psychodynamic, attachment, and relational theories and concepts, to provide either short-term-focused counselling/therapy or longer-term in-depth psychotherapy.
Using an integrative approach, I draw on various therapies like CBT/ DBT for practical strategies, psychodynamic therapy to explore past influences, and person-centred therapy to create a non-judgemental space.
I am an Accredited MBACP Registered Humanistic Integrative Counsellor & Counselling Supervisor with over 10 years of experience in working with individuals, and groups of all ages, sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds. I am based in Colchester CO1. Dependent on your presenting issues/needs I will draw on cognitive, psychodynamic, attachment, and relational theories and concepts, to provide either short-term-focused counselling/therapy or longer-term in-depth psychotherapy.
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Dialectical Behaviour (DBT) Counsellors
Who is DBT for?
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) is designed for people who experience extreme emotional suffering because they lack the skills of emotion regulation and distress tolerance. The basic affliction can underlie a wide range of conditions, from borderline and other personality disorders to PTSD and treatment-resistant anxiety and depression. The therapy is helpful to those whose emotional reactivity is so intense it is disruptive to everyday functioning and leads to frequent crises.
Why do people need DBT?
The ability to regulate emotions is a core psychological skill that enables people to function in life and pay attention to the world outside themselves; it is consistently associated with well-being. DBT is designed to help people learn how to manage and regulate their emotions. Originally developed to treat people with borderline personality disorder whose extreme emotional suffering led to self-harming behaviour and suicide attempts, the therapy is now applied to other conditions involving emotion dysregulation, particularly when other treatments have failed.
What happens in DBT?
Individuals meet weekly with their therapist to discuss their experiences relating to moods, behaviour, and skills. Using checklists they maintain, they review emotional experiences and positive practices they engage in. The diaries help individuals discern what led up to a specific problem encountered, this is followed by discussion of the consequences of their actions. In addition, individuals may meet in class-like small groups to learn skills such as mindfulness, emotion regulation and distress tolerance.
How long does DBT last?
Because it is intended to establish long-lasting behavioural change among those with persistent problems, DBT is designed to last six months to a year. DBT includes both weekly sessions of individual therapy and weekly skills-training sessions conducted in small groups. Studies of DBT have documented improvement within a year of treatment, particularly in controlling self-harmful behaviour; nevertheless, individuals may require therapy for several years.