Domestic Abuse Counselling in Caterham

Sonja Rodney
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're dealing with trauma, anxiety, grief, or the effects of narcissistic abuse, you're not alone.
I create a space where we don’t just talk about your struggles - we dive into them, uncovering what’s holding you back & finding practical ways to move forward. We’ll explore tools that work for you, from deep conversations to hands-on exercises & creative approaches, all designed to help you shift your mindset, feel empowered, & make real, lasting change.
If you're dealing with trauma, anxiety, grief, or the effects of narcissistic abuse, you're not alone.
I create a space where we don’t just talk about your struggles - we dive into them, uncovering what’s holding you back & finding practical ways to move forward. We’ll explore tools that work for you, from deep conversations to hands-on exercises & creative approaches, all designed to help you shift your mindset, feel empowered, & make real, lasting change.
01689 663122 View 01689 663122
Valerie-Lee Howard
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I have worked with clients who have experienced, childhood traumas; abuse; addiction; anger management; anxiety & stress; bereavement; separation & loss; survivors guilt; self-esteem & identity issues; depression; sexuality; teenage pregnancy & parenting; diversity; cultural & migration related issues; disability; relationship difficulties &; self-injury.
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 19+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
I have worked with clients who have experienced, childhood traumas; abuse; addiction; anger management; anxiety & stress; bereavement; separation & loss; survivors guilt; self-esteem & identity issues; depression; sexuality; teenage pregnancy & parenting; diversity; cultural & migration related issues; disability; relationship difficulties &; self-injury.
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 19+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
01798 305083 View 01798 305083
Rebecca Gooden
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Drama Therap.
Hello and welcome, Well done for taking your first steps on this journey. I am a mum of three and have over ten years of experience working in various settings as a psychotherapist and arts therapist. I have extensive experience working one-to-one and in small groups, both online and face-to-face. I bring creativity, empathy, and extensive therapeutic experience working with adults, couples, young people and families to my work as a talk psychotherapist and Art Therapist. I totally understand how reaching out for therapy can feel daunting and sometimes quite scary. I'm here when you are ready.
Hello and welcome, Well done for taking your first steps on this journey. I am a mum of three and have over ten years of experience working in various settings as a psychotherapist and arts therapist. I have extensive experience working one-to-one and in small groups, both online and face-to-face. I bring creativity, empathy, and extensive therapeutic experience working with adults, couples, young people and families to my work as a talk psychotherapist and Art Therapist. I totally understand how reaching out for therapy can feel daunting and sometimes quite scary. I'm here when you are ready.
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Chloe Afferson
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
4 Endorsed
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
As human beings we have natural, healthy needs, to feel seen, understood, valued, and included. When these needs go unmet, either in childhood or as adults it can cause deep psychological wounds, leading to a range of difficulties including depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and relational challenges. Change can be daunting even when wanted and needed, it can be difficult to make the step towards something new and unknown. Successful therapy acknowledges this and gently questions the, often unconscious, habits keeping us stuck. It opens up new possibilities and perspectives, empowering authentic and lasting change.
01883 779628 View 01883 779628
Louise van den Berg
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
My psychotherapy & counselling sessions are tailored to address issues like anxiety, depression, grief, trauma-related issues and neurodiversity etc. The initial sessions focus on understanding your unique concerns, allowing time for personalised strategies and goals to develop, and offering enough time for you to explore and process your thoughts and feelings. Subsequent sessions concentrate on implementing these strategies to meet your individual needs.
My psychotherapy & counselling sessions are tailored to address issues like anxiety, depression, grief, trauma-related issues and neurodiversity etc. The initial sessions focus on understanding your unique concerns, allowing time for personalised strategies and goals to develop, and offering enough time for you to explore and process your thoughts and feelings. Subsequent sessions concentrate on implementing these strategies to meet your individual needs.
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Stephanie Guscott
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have mostly worked with grief/bereavement, domestic abuse and addiction.
I am an integrative counsellor, mostly drawing on humanistic/person-centered and psychodynamic approaches. This allows flexibility within my practice, main focus on the presenting/current issues, with room to explore your past over as many sessions we agree are suitable for you. Your client needs are always at the very forefront of our work together.
I have mostly worked with grief/bereavement, domestic abuse and addiction.
I am an integrative counsellor, mostly drawing on humanistic/person-centered and psychodynamic approaches. This allows flexibility within my practice, main focus on the presenting/current issues, with room to explore your past over as many sessions we agree are suitable for you. Your client needs are always at the very forefront of our work together.
01737 924959 View 01737 924959
Amy Lou Womack
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Serves Area
I am an Integrative Art Psychotherapist, I use talking therapy as well as art and creativity to support my clients in gaining a greater understanding of themselves. Using art is a great way to help my clients explore deeper and more hidden thoughts and feelings. This can bring clarity and insight, opening the door to the meaningful change they are seeking.
I am an Integrative Art Psychotherapist, I use talking therapy as well as art and creativity to support my clients in gaining a greater understanding of themselves. Using art is a great way to help my clients explore deeper and more hidden thoughts and feelings. This can bring clarity and insight, opening the door to the meaningful change they are seeking.
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Jackie Kidd-England
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi, I'm Jackie. I feel very privileged to be able to work with both adults and children. When I am working with someone I always feel it is such an honour to be brought into their world and walk the journey with them for a while. As an Integrative counsellor I can use different ways to support the journey you are on. I offer my clients a bespoke way of working that suits them, working together on whatever may concern them. Whatever the age of the person, concern or difficulty they are going through I see them as the expert and I work collaboratively to support them in resolving issues or reaching goals they may set.
Hi, I'm Jackie. I feel very privileged to be able to work with both adults and children. When I am working with someone I always feel it is such an honour to be brought into their world and walk the journey with them for a while. As an Integrative counsellor I can use different ways to support the journey you are on. I offer my clients a bespoke way of working that suits them, working together on whatever may concern them. Whatever the age of the person, concern or difficulty they are going through I see them as the expert and I work collaboratively to support them in resolving issues or reaching goals they may set.
01737 948390 View 01737 948390
Katherine Ward
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it’s difficult to know how to move forward. Perhaps you’re struggling with an affair, feeling disconnected from your partner, finding intimacy difficult or simply wanting to understand yourself better. I’m a Relate-trained relationship counsellor and sex therapist, working with individuals and couples. I have a master’s degree in relationship therapy and specialist training in sex therapy. Whether you’re dealing with relationship difficulties, trauma, loss or something more personal, I offer a warm, thoughtful space to explore what’s happening and what might help.
Relationships can be complicated, and sometimes it’s difficult to know how to move forward. Perhaps you’re struggling with an affair, feeling disconnected from your partner, finding intimacy difficult or simply wanting to understand yourself better. I’m a Relate-trained relationship counsellor and sex therapist, working with individuals and couples. I have a master’s degree in relationship therapy and specialist training in sex therapy. Whether you’re dealing with relationship difficulties, trauma, loss or something more personal, I offer a warm, thoughtful space to explore what’s happening and what might help.
01883 772243 View 01883 772243
Faye Starr
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
All children can experience trauma, abuse, loss, bullying, illness, family, relationship & friendship issues, gender curiosity, stress & loneliness etc.
I am an experienced and fully qualified (PG diploma, Level 7) integrative young person counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor specifically trained to work with 5-25 year olds, their families, and CYP therapists. I offer long-term and short-term individual therapy and supervision from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley) or online.
All children can experience trauma, abuse, loss, bullying, illness, family, relationship & friendship issues, gender curiosity, stress & loneliness etc.
I am an experienced and fully qualified (PG diploma, Level 7) integrative young person counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor specifically trained to work with 5-25 year olds, their families, and CYP therapists. I offer long-term and short-term individual therapy and supervision from my garden room in Warlingham, Surrey (near Croydon, Caterham and Purley) or online.
07403 936060 View 07403 936060
Mags Giza | EMDR, CBT, Supervision
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I specialise in complex PTSD and trauma processing, with particular interest in recovery from narcissistic abuse, overcoming childhood trauma, as well as challenges related to adult ADHD.
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, EMDR Practitioner, Interpersonal Psychotherapist (IPT-UK Accred) and Clinical Supervisor with over 17 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering trauma-informed psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life. Whether you’re struggling with low self esteem, anxiety, post traumatic stress, C-PTSD or interpersonal problems, I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal
I specialise in complex PTSD and trauma processing, with particular interest in recovery from narcissistic abuse, overcoming childhood trauma, as well as challenges related to adult ADHD.
Hi, I’m Mags. I'm a BABCP Accredited Senior CBT Therapist, EMDR Practitioner, Interpersonal Psychotherapist (IPT-UK Accred) and Clinical Supervisor with over 17 years of experience with the NHS, as well as offering trauma-informed psychotherapy in private practice. A lot of my clients come to therapy when the emotional pain or anxiety have taken over their life. Whether you’re struggling with low self esteem, anxiety, post traumatic stress, C-PTSD or interpersonal problems, I will always strive to put all my knowledge and experience into our shared effort to help you heal
01883 771350 View 01883 771350

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Rachael Sullivan
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
For the people that are emotionally exhausted from always having to hold it all together. Perhaps you struggle with overthinking, people pleasing, or feeling disconnected from yourself and your needs underneath it all. Experiences such as trauma, difficult relationships, and neglecting your own needs and desires may have left you stuck in survival mode, constantly carrying, coping, and trying to get through.
For the people that are emotionally exhausted from always having to hold it all together. Perhaps you struggle with overthinking, people pleasing, or feeling disconnected from yourself and your needs underneath it all. Experiences such as trauma, difficult relationships, and neglecting your own needs and desires may have left you stuck in survival mode, constantly carrying, coping, and trying to get through.
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New Bloom Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Mitcham CR4
I am an integrative-relational psychotherapist offering individual short-term (up to 12 weeks) and open-ended (+12 weeks) counselling and psychotherapy. Whether you're navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship difficulties, or struggling with the day-to-day of happenings of life, I will work alongside you as a collaborative partner. My aim is to help you feel safe enough to explore difficult emotions, thoughts and feelings and attend to what comes up for you. I strive to honour your pace while gently guiding you toward clarity, resilience, and deeper self-awareness.
I am an integrative-relational psychotherapist offering individual short-term (up to 12 weeks) and open-ended (+12 weeks) counselling and psychotherapy. Whether you're navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship difficulties, or struggling with the day-to-day of happenings of life, I will work alongside you as a collaborative partner. My aim is to help you feel safe enough to explore difficult emotions, thoughts and feelings and attend to what comes up for you. I strive to honour your pace while gently guiding you toward clarity, resilience, and deeper self-awareness.
020 4634 5295 View 020 4634 5295
Helen Heath
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Woking GU24
If you are struggling with stress (inc Work Stress), anxiety (inc. social anxiety), self esteem, domestic abuse (emotional, physical and sexual) or grief, contact me to book a free 20/30 min consultation to see if I can help.
I can offer you a safe space where you won't be judged, a place to explore your thoughts and feelings. Understanding yourself is key to taking control of your life. Greater understanding can help you build resilience and make changes for a happier and more fulfilled life.
If you are struggling with stress (inc Work Stress), anxiety (inc. social anxiety), self esteem, domestic abuse (emotional, physical and sexual) or grief, contact me to book a free 20/30 min consultation to see if I can help.
I can offer you a safe space where you won't be judged, a place to explore your thoughts and feelings. Understanding yourself is key to taking control of your life. Greater understanding can help you build resilience and make changes for a happier and more fulfilled life.
01276 543770 View 01276 543770
Kirsten Stoyell
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I help people navigate the complexity of emotional, psychological and domestic abuse.
My clients often arrive in therapy wondering if anyone would believe them. Sometimes their experiences feel 'like a movie script' and that nobody would understand them. Through therapy, we unpack their experiences, and place a vocabulary to what they have gone through, ultimately leading to healthier patterns of interaction in their lives and relationships.
I help people navigate the complexity of emotional, psychological and domestic abuse.
My clients often arrive in therapy wondering if anyone would believe them. Sometimes their experiences feel 'like a movie script' and that nobody would understand them. Through therapy, we unpack their experiences, and place a vocabulary to what they have gone through, ultimately leading to healthier patterns of interaction in their lives and relationships.
01794 331117 View 01794 331117
Sandy Cutts
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a BACP & ACC registered counsellor working with clients who are experiencing struggles in their personal lives and with relationships. I work in an integrative way using several modalities depending on my clients needs. I am currently doing the Gottman Institute Level 1 & 2 training for couples therapy and use their in-depth assessment and methods to assist couples to repair breakdowns, and achieve the desired outcomes for their relationship. I am trained in Christian Counselling and also offer Christian Principle based counselling to Christians seeking counselling for both psychological and spiritual issues.
I am a BACP & ACC registered counsellor working with clients who are experiencing struggles in their personal lives and with relationships. I work in an integrative way using several modalities depending on my clients needs. I am currently doing the Gottman Institute Level 1 & 2 training for couples therapy and use their in-depth assessment and methods to assist couples to repair breakdowns, and achieve the desired outcomes for their relationship. I am trained in Christian Counselling and also offer Christian Principle based counselling to Christians seeking counselling for both psychological and spiritual issues.
01628 956339 View 01628 956339
Beccy Jackson
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
I specialise in supporting, survivors of domestic abuse (including emotional, physical, and coercive control), People experiencing low self-esteem, self-doubt, and difficulty trusting themselves and empowerment: building self-worth, confidence, and self-love but work with whatever your reasons for coming to therapy, as they are as unique as you are.
Helping make sense of your world. Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or struggling to make sense of life right now? Perhaps you’re finding it hard to trust your own judgment, struggling with low self-esteem, or carrying the impact of a negative or abusive relationship. If so, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to face it alone either. As a qualified Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor, I offer a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences at your own pace. Sessions are available via telephone, online video, or live chat (Teams) — whichever feels best for you.
I specialise in supporting, survivors of domestic abuse (including emotional, physical, and coercive control), People experiencing low self-esteem, self-doubt, and difficulty trusting themselves and empowerment: building self-worth, confidence, and self-love but work with whatever your reasons for coming to therapy, as they are as unique as you are.
Helping make sense of your world. Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or struggling to make sense of life right now? Perhaps you’re finding it hard to trust your own judgment, struggling with low self-esteem, or carrying the impact of a negative or abusive relationship. If so, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to face it alone either. As a qualified Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor, I offer a safe, confidential, and supportive space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences at your own pace. Sessions are available via telephone, online video, or live chat (Teams) — whichever feels best for you.
01622 234665 View 01622 234665
Sabina Miah. Online counselling therapy.
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I have experience in counselling for many issues such as bereavement, abuse and trauma; working in counselling organisations and private practice.
Hello and welcome. My name is Sabina and I am an NCPS accredited counsellor. I work with individuals and couples, helping build compassionate connection with own self and within relationships. Most people I see have experienced being mistreated or had negativelife experiences, leaving them either being hard on themselves or having low self esteem, often alongside trying to manage health issues. I offer open ended counselling sessions, where you can choose a weekly or fortnightly slot. Services are offered via phone call, online video or in person from my office in Market Street, Wigan.
I have experience in counselling for many issues such as bereavement, abuse and trauma; working in counselling organisations and private practice.
Hello and welcome. My name is Sabina and I am an NCPS accredited counsellor. I work with individuals and couples, helping build compassionate connection with own self and within relationships. Most people I see have experienced being mistreated or had negativelife experiences, leaving them either being hard on themselves or having low self esteem, often alongside trying to manage health issues. I offer open ended counselling sessions, where you can choose a weekly or fortnightly slot. Services are offered via phone call, online video or in person from my office in Market Street, Wigan.
0161 524 8344 View 0161 524 8344
Andy James
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Farnham GU9
Hi, I’m Andy, a counsellor and psychotherapist based in Farnham, Surrey. I offer both in-person sessions and online therapy for adults across the UK. I believe therapy is about understanding yourself more deeply and finding ways to live with greater clarity and self-awareness. Many people come to me feeling stuck, anxious, or uncertain about who they are or what they want. Together, we can make sense of the thoughts, emotions, and experiences that may be holding you back, so you can move forward with more confidence in your life.
Hi, I’m Andy, a counsellor and psychotherapist based in Farnham, Surrey. I offer both in-person sessions and online therapy for adults across the UK. I believe therapy is about understanding yourself more deeply and finding ways to live with greater clarity and self-awareness. Many people come to me feeling stuck, anxious, or uncertain about who they are or what they want. Together, we can make sense of the thoughts, emotions, and experiences that may be holding you back, so you can move forward with more confidence in your life.
07476 333182 View 07476 333182
Dr Michael Acton
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP Accred
London W8
I have vast experience working with Alcohol and Drug Abuse, Domestic and Family Violence, Suicide Prevention, and navigating external family difficulties such as In-Laws and Siblings as well as Estranged Children and Step Children issues.
Dr. Michael Acton Psy.D., M.Ed. (Psych.) Hons., M.A. C.Psych. I am passionate about working with - and trained and specialise in - relationship/family work. This can be: - Surviving after an affair, or effectively and carefully breaking up and moving on, or reconciling (Book: 'Weathering Relationships') - Surviving a narcissistic, toxic relationship (Book: 'Learning How to Leave'), including leaving safely and progressing toward a healing stage. - A family issue with parenting or managing a relationship with an adult child (Book: 'Raw Facts from Real Parents').
I have vast experience working with Alcohol and Drug Abuse, Domestic and Family Violence, Suicide Prevention, and navigating external family difficulties such as In-Laws and Siblings as well as Estranged Children and Step Children issues.
Dr. Michael Acton Psy.D., M.Ed. (Psych.) Hons., M.A. C.Psych. I am passionate about working with - and trained and specialise in - relationship/family work. This can be: - Surviving after an affair, or effectively and carefully breaking up and moving on, or reconciling (Book: 'Weathering Relationships') - Surviving a narcissistic, toxic relationship (Book: 'Learning How to Leave'), including leaving safely and progressing toward a healing stage. - A family issue with parenting or managing a relationship with an adult child (Book: 'Raw Facts from Real Parents').
020 3879 4419 View 020 3879 4419

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Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.