Self Esteem Counselling in Carshalton

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Linda Bignell
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence.
I help you to find solutions to and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help identify changes in ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour, providing new options in how you live your life.
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence.
I help you to find solutions to and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help identify changes in ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour, providing new options in how you live your life.
020 4538 3359 View 020 4538 3359
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Therese Rush
Counsellor, MBACP
If you feel overwhelmed by what life is throwing at you - especially at the moment, and are finding it difficult to cope, perhaps your inner critic is giving you negative thoughts or the voice on your shoulder is telling you that you are not good enough it may help to talk to someone who is impartial and unbiased. I am here to listen and offer you a confidential, caring and empathic space to gain awareness of your issues.
If you feel overwhelmed by what life is throwing at you - especially at the moment, and are finding it difficult to cope, perhaps your inner critic is giving you negative thoughts or the voice on your shoulder is telling you that you are not good enough it may help to talk to someone who is impartial and unbiased. I am here to listen and offer you a confidential, caring and empathic space to gain awareness of your issues.
01798 307076 View 01798 307076
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Jen Summerfield
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Having a difficult time? Getting better starts with a single conversation. I offer a non-judgemental space in which my clients can work through painful or difficult experiences with warmth and kindness. I aim to provide a secure base in which it is possible to slowly build trust in an on-going therapeutic relationship, empowering the individual to develop the internal resources to cope with the many challenges that life brings. I will listen carefully to whatever my client needs to talk about, without fear of judgment and explore together any difficulties. Please visit my website at jensummerfield.uk for more information.
Having a difficult time? Getting better starts with a single conversation. I offer a non-judgemental space in which my clients can work through painful or difficult experiences with warmth and kindness. I aim to provide a secure base in which it is possible to slowly build trust in an on-going therapeutic relationship, empowering the individual to develop the internal resources to cope with the many challenges that life brings. I will listen carefully to whatever my client needs to talk about, without fear of judgment and explore together any difficulties. Please visit my website at jensummerfield.uk for more information.
01798 305318 View 01798 305318
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Trust in you therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
My experience includes supporting individuals with; - Trauma - ADHD & ASD - Grief & bereavement - Family & relationships - Anxiety & depression - Suicide & self harm - Current/historical abuse - Low self-esteem, identity issues, cultural problems, childhood trauma and more.
Please contact me via email to enquire about booking a consultation. You can also visit my website: www.Trustinyoutherapy.com for further information
My experience includes supporting individuals with; - Trauma - ADHD & ASD - Grief & bereavement - Family & relationships - Anxiety & depression - Suicide & self harm - Current/historical abuse - Low self-esteem, identity issues, cultural problems, childhood trauma and more.
Please contact me via email to enquire about booking a consultation. You can also visit my website: www.Trustinyoutherapy.com for further information
01798 303559 View 01798 303559
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Kerrie Marie Penfold Wall
Counsellor, MBACP
Are you faced with difficulties, feeling angry, sad or anxious? I understand the reason you are seeking counselling may not be in relation to any specific issue. For example, you may want a safe and confidential space to explore your feelings or seek to grow as a person. It is my wish that our sessions together can help you to understand yourself better and provide greater insight and awareness of your presenting issues or life experience. My integrative training allows me to be flexible and adaptable with my approach, as I feel that therapy is not a one size fits all endeavour.
Are you faced with difficulties, feeling angry, sad or anxious? I understand the reason you are seeking counselling may not be in relation to any specific issue. For example, you may want a safe and confidential space to explore your feelings or seek to grow as a person. It is my wish that our sessions together can help you to understand yourself better and provide greater insight and awareness of your presenting issues or life experience. My integrative training allows me to be flexible and adaptable with my approach, as I feel that therapy is not a one size fits all endeavour.
01798 306657 View 01798 306657
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Karen Weston
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
My practice is dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment where individuals can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Establishing a strong therapeutic relationship built on trust, empathy, and non-judgment, I provide a safe and confidential space where clients can freely express themselves, fostering a sense of comfort. The exploration of past experiences, especially in childhood, uncovers patterns, unresolved conflicts, and underlying emotional struggles. I encourage self-reflection and the development of insight into one's inner world.
My practice is dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment where individuals can explore their thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Establishing a strong therapeutic relationship built on trust, empathy, and non-judgment, I provide a safe and confidential space where clients can freely express themselves, fostering a sense of comfort. The exploration of past experiences, especially in childhood, uncovers patterns, unresolved conflicts, and underlying emotional struggles. I encourage self-reflection and the development of insight into one's inner world.
020 3835 4039 View 020 3835 4039
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Flor Ferraco
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Drama Therap.
Is it difficult for yourself to connect to your emotions and feelings? Sometimes it is complicated to find a link to enable us express freely. Unintentionally, we can create a habit in which we suppress, run away, deny or manipulate our emotions. It is normal to try to push away feelings of discomfort like stress, fear or pain; but there are tools you can learn to help you cope with these emotions in a healthy way. Instead of denying, distracting yourself, manipulating or disconnecting, you can accept, observe, acknowledge and connect deeply with your feelings.
Is it difficult for yourself to connect to your emotions and feelings? Sometimes it is complicated to find a link to enable us express freely. Unintentionally, we can create a habit in which we suppress, run away, deny or manipulate our emotions. It is normal to try to push away feelings of discomfort like stress, fear or pain; but there are tools you can learn to help you cope with these emotions in a healthy way. Instead of denying, distracting yourself, manipulating or disconnecting, you can accept, observe, acknowledge and connect deeply with your feelings.
020 4538 5361 View 020 4538 5361
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Marijke Roberts
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I can help you work through areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
We all experience difficult times in our lives. I believe that the way we manage those hard times is dependent on our previous experiences, and on the beliefs, thoughts and feelings we hold on to as a result of this. This can inhibit us from feeling happy and fulfilled, and from being our true authentic selves.
I can help you work through areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
We all experience difficult times in our lives. I believe that the way we manage those hard times is dependent on our previous experiences, and on the beliefs, thoughts and feelings we hold on to as a result of this. This can inhibit us from feeling happy and fulfilled, and from being our true authentic selves.
01260 542116 View 01260 542116
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Matthew Butler
Verified Verified
As a specialised mental health professional, I help clients overcome trauma, anxiety, ADHD, and stress-related challenges. If you're feeling stuck, struggling with focus issues, or seeking to enhance personal performance, my approach centres on facilitating self-discovery through evidence-based therapies. I provide a supportive environment where solutions emerge from within, delivered conveniently via secure online platforms including MS Teams, Zoom, and Google Meet.
As a specialised mental health professional, I help clients overcome trauma, anxiety, ADHD, and stress-related challenges. If you're feeling stuck, struggling with focus issues, or seeking to enhance personal performance, my approach centres on facilitating self-discovery through evidence-based therapies. I provide a supportive environment where solutions emerge from within, delivered conveniently via secure online platforms including MS Teams, Zoom, and Google Meet.
020 4538 7962 View 020 4538 7962
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Jo Pembroke
Counsellor, MA, BACP
abuse, changes, anxiety depression, low self-esteem, and family issues
I am a qualified integrative counsellor offering a supportive, empathic, and non-judgmental approach to exploring any struggles and challenges you may be facing in your life. Having different styles mean I can use which one will help you the most. These include CBT, Person-centred, Transactional Analysis, Solution Focused and Psychodynamic, and more.
abuse, changes, anxiety depression, low self-esteem, and family issues
I am a qualified integrative counsellor offering a supportive, empathic, and non-judgmental approach to exploring any struggles and challenges you may be facing in your life. Having different styles mean I can use which one will help you the most. These include CBT, Person-centred, Transactional Analysis, Solution Focused and Psychodynamic, and more.
01798 300466 View 01798 300466
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Sam Archer
Psychotherapist, BACP
We know that life is sometimes very hard, and that we are supposed to be able to absorb and grow from the inevitable ups and downs that come our way. But, of course, there are times when we are just unable to absorb what life throws at us, or grow from it, because we can't quite determine what is wrong or see a way forward. Whether it is anxiety, depression, or something else that cannot be so neatly labelled, I will support you in exploring your own, unique experience. You will discover and understand what is causing you discomfort, pain or holding you back, so that you can live a more enjoyable, fulfilled and rewarding life.
We know that life is sometimes very hard, and that we are supposed to be able to absorb and grow from the inevitable ups and downs that come our way. But, of course, there are times when we are just unable to absorb what life throws at us, or grow from it, because we can't quite determine what is wrong or see a way forward. Whether it is anxiety, depression, or something else that cannot be so neatly labelled, I will support you in exploring your own, unique experience. You will discover and understand what is causing you discomfort, pain or holding you back, so that you can live a more enjoyable, fulfilled and rewarding life.
01798 305031 View 01798 305031
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Derek Flint
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed or struggling with addiction, I help you break unhelpful patterns and make lasting, effective change so you can move forward with confidence and get life back on track I help find solutions to, and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help by identifying and changing ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour providing new options in how you live. It can give you the opportunity to off load concerns and experience relief from worry and difficulties. I treat everything spoken about as confidential.
If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed or struggling with addiction, I help you break unhelpful patterns and make lasting, effective change so you can move forward with confidence and get life back on track I help find solutions to, and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help by identifying and changing ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour providing new options in how you live. It can give you the opportunity to off load concerns and experience relief from worry and difficulties. I treat everything spoken about as confidential.
01732 443425 View 01732 443425
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Therapy For Me - Idyli Kamaterou - CBT therapist
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
2 Endorsed
Specialist CBT therapist in anxiety & OCD. Years of experience at the National Service for Anxiety Disorder & Trauma at the Maudsley Hospital working with OCD, Health Anxiety, Social Anxiety, GAD and expectant/new parents. People I work with are looking for a therapist who is going to listen to them & understand their experience. Someone who is going to take their distress seriously, remember their story once discussed in a session and teach them strategies to manage difficult emotions. As a result of our therapy journey you will feel calmer, more present and more aligned with your values.
Specialist CBT therapist in anxiety & OCD. Years of experience at the National Service for Anxiety Disorder & Trauma at the Maudsley Hospital working with OCD, Health Anxiety, Social Anxiety, GAD and expectant/new parents. People I work with are looking for a therapist who is going to listen to them & understand their experience. Someone who is going to take their distress seriously, remember their story once discussed in a session and teach them strategies to manage difficult emotions. As a result of our therapy journey you will feel calmer, more present and more aligned with your values.
01929 500565 View 01929 500565
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Debbie Allen
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Face to face and online, I have helped many clients recover from anxiety disorders, depression and self-esteem issues.
I am a BA (Hons) qualified Integrative counsellor, although I do favour the Psychodynamic approach. I find working psychodynamicly is extremely effective for long term recovery. However, since my counselling skills are versatile this enables me to work with each client meeting their individual needs.
Face to face and online, I have helped many clients recover from anxiety disorders, depression and self-esteem issues.
I am a BA (Hons) qualified Integrative counsellor, although I do favour the Psychodynamic approach. I find working psychodynamicly is extremely effective for long term recovery. However, since my counselling skills are versatile this enables me to work with each client meeting their individual needs.
01798 305049 View 01798 305049
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Rosella Pizzi
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I also have experience working with challenges such as low self-esteem, low self-confidence, anger, panic attacks, self-harming or abuse.
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
I also have experience working with challenges such as low self-esteem, low self-confidence, anger, panic attacks, self-harming or abuse.
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
020 3597 6719 View 020 3597 6719
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Chisom Deborah
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you a parent who is worried about their teenager? Are you struggling to communicate with one another whilst finding it hard to understand each other? Does your young person suffer with anxiety or persistent low moods? Maybe they are struggling academically and/or refusing to go to school? Or maybe you are a professional looking for someone to work with a young person in your care? Maybe they are struggling to form relationships or adjust to change. Young people deserve to be heard and listened to, and I hope to provide a space in which they can have exactly that.
Are you a parent who is worried about their teenager? Are you struggling to communicate with one another whilst finding it hard to understand each other? Does your young person suffer with anxiety or persistent low moods? Maybe they are struggling academically and/or refusing to go to school? Or maybe you are a professional looking for someone to work with a young person in your care? Maybe they are struggling to form relationships or adjust to change. Young people deserve to be heard and listened to, and I hope to provide a space in which they can have exactly that.
07492 882981 View 07492 882981
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Seema Desai
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether from anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, cultural pressures, or simply feeling “stuck.” Counselling offers a confidential, non-judgemental space to slow down, reflect, and begin making sense of things. Like the Japanese art of kintsugi—where broken pottery is repaired with gold—therapy can help us see that our cracks are part of our story. Healing doesn’t mean erasing what has happened, but instead finding new strength and meaning in the patterns we may have carried for too long. With support, those places of pain can become places of resilience, authenticity, and growth.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether from anxiety, grief, relationship struggles, cultural pressures, or simply feeling “stuck.” Counselling offers a confidential, non-judgemental space to slow down, reflect, and begin making sense of things. Like the Japanese art of kintsugi—where broken pottery is repaired with gold—therapy can help us see that our cracks are part of our story. Healing doesn’t mean erasing what has happened, but instead finding new strength and meaning in the patterns we may have carried for too long. With support, those places of pain can become places of resilience, authenticity, and growth.
020 3828 7069 View 020 3828 7069
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Katrina Voysey
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
Highly experienced, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
Highly experienced, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
020 3948 6490 View 020 3948 6490
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Return to Self Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a BACP registered Counsellor, Clinical Supervisor and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework. As well as my own private practice, I work across different organisations supporting people to gain deeper insight into what is impacting them, find ways of healing and moving forward. As an integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor, I can incorporate a range of approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, transpersonal, solution-focused, existential, intersectionality, Developmental Model and Seven Eyed Model to meet your needs.
I am a BACP registered Counsellor, Clinical Supervisor and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework. As well as my own private practice, I work across different organisations supporting people to gain deeper insight into what is impacting them, find ways of healing and moving forward. As an integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor, I can incorporate a range of approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, transpersonal, solution-focused, existential, intersectionality, Developmental Model and Seven Eyed Model to meet your needs.
020 7046 1498 View 020 7046 1498
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Nicole Louise Henriette Rolls
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I have particular experience in working with Stress and Anxiety, Trauma, Relationship issues, Depression, Panic attacks, Low Self-Esteem, Anger issues, Grief, Bereavement, abuse, Cultural and Gender issues, Eating disorders, Dysmorphia, Bulimia.
When the present is painful and the way forward uncertain, we may need to be heard and supported in order to see what is happening for us and around us, so that we can find greater understanding and joy in our lives . I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and an Accredited Member of the BACP and of EMDR Europe with 17 years experience. I have been working successfully with a great variety of issues, working in Private Practice, in the NHS, as well as with Sutton Counselling and Goldsmiths University. I work with Adults, older teenagers, ​and couples. www.nicolerolls.co.uk
I have particular experience in working with Stress and Anxiety, Trauma, Relationship issues, Depression, Panic attacks, Low Self-Esteem, Anger issues, Grief, Bereavement, abuse, Cultural and Gender issues, Eating disorders, Dysmorphia, Bulimia.
When the present is painful and the way forward uncertain, we may need to be heard and supported in order to see what is happening for us and around us, so that we can find greater understanding and joy in our lives . I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and an Accredited Member of the BACP and of EMDR Europe with 17 years experience. I have been working successfully with a great variety of issues, working in Private Practice, in the NHS, as well as with Sutton Counselling and Goldsmiths University. I work with Adults, older teenagers, ​and couples. www.nicolerolls.co.uk
01260 542111 View 01260 542111

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Self Esteem Counsellors
When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?
When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?
Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?
Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?
Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.