Infidelity Counselling in Carshalton

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Marijke Roberts
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, young people and couples. I can help you work through areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, young people and couples. I can help you work through areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
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Linda Bignell
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence. My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and insight-driven, helping my clients understand how past experiences may be impacting their life today, and more importantly, what they can do to move forward. Feeling stuck in life can stop us from being the best version of ourselves, and while we can't change the past, we can most certainly influence what happens next.
I have experience and specialise in helping clients heal from trauma and adverse childhood events, navigate relationship difficulties (including dating app dilemmas), patterns of attachment and help to build self-esteem and confidence. My approach is warm, non-judgmental, and insight-driven, helping my clients understand how past experiences may be impacting their life today, and more importantly, what they can do to move forward. Feeling stuck in life can stop us from being the best version of ourselves, and while we can't change the past, we can most certainly influence what happens next.
020 4538 3359 View 020 4538 3359
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Kerrie Marie Penfold Wall
Counsellor, MBACP
Are you faced with difficulties, feeling angry, sad or anxious? I understand the reason you are seeking counselling may not be in relation to any specific issue. For example, you may want a safe and confidential space to explore your feelings or seek to grow as a person. It is my wish that our sessions together can help you to understand yourself better and provide greater insight and awareness of your presenting issues or life experience. My integrative training allows me to be flexible and adaptable with my approach, as I feel that therapy is not a one size fits all endeavour.
Are you faced with difficulties, feeling angry, sad or anxious? I understand the reason you are seeking counselling may not be in relation to any specific issue. For example, you may want a safe and confidential space to explore your feelings or seek to grow as a person. It is my wish that our sessions together can help you to understand yourself better and provide greater insight and awareness of your presenting issues or life experience. My integrative training allows me to be flexible and adaptable with my approach, as I feel that therapy is not a one size fits all endeavour.
01798 306657 View 01798 306657
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Derek Flint
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed or struggling with addiction, I help you break unhelpful patterns and make lasting, effective change so you can move forward with confidence and get life back on track I help find solutions to, and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help by identifying and changing ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour providing new options in how you live. It can give you the opportunity to off load concerns and experience relief from worry and difficulties. I treat everything spoken about as confidential.
If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed or struggling with addiction, I help you break unhelpful patterns and make lasting, effective change so you can move forward with confidence and get life back on track I help find solutions to, and provide relief from negative feelings, life difficulties and problems. Counselling can help by identifying and changing ways of thinking and patterns of behaviour providing new options in how you live. It can give you the opportunity to off load concerns and experience relief from worry and difficulties. I treat everything spoken about as confidential.
01732 443425 View 01732 443425
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Therese Rush
Counsellor, MBACP
If you feel overwhelmed by what life is throwing at you - especially at the moment, and are finding it difficult to cope, perhaps your inner critic is giving you negative thoughts or the voice on your shoulder is telling you that you are not good enough it may help to talk to someone who is impartial and unbiased. I am here to listen and offer you a confidential, caring and empathic space to gain awareness of your issues.
If you feel overwhelmed by what life is throwing at you - especially at the moment, and are finding it difficult to cope, perhaps your inner critic is giving you negative thoughts or the voice on your shoulder is telling you that you are not good enough it may help to talk to someone who is impartial and unbiased. I am here to listen and offer you a confidential, caring and empathic space to gain awareness of your issues.
01798 307076 View 01798 307076
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Nicole Louise Henriette Rolls
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
When the present is painful and the way forward uncertain, we may need to be heard and supported in order to see what is happening for us and around us, so that we can find greater understanding and joy in our lives . I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and an Accredited Member of the BACP and of EMDR Europe with 17 years experience. I have been working successfully with a great variety of issues, working in Private Practice, in the NHS, as well as with Sutton Counselling and Goldsmiths University. I work with Adults, older teenagers, ​and couples. www.nicolerolls.co.uk
When the present is painful and the way forward uncertain, we may need to be heard and supported in order to see what is happening for us and around us, so that we can find greater understanding and joy in our lives . I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and an Accredited Member of the BACP and of EMDR Europe with 17 years experience. I have been working successfully with a great variety of issues, working in Private Practice, in the NHS, as well as with Sutton Counselling and Goldsmiths University. I work with Adults, older teenagers, ​and couples. www.nicolerolls.co.uk
01260 542111 View 01260 542111
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Trust in you therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a MBACP Registered member. I have experience working in establishments such as; MIND, Place2be and secondary school, working with vulnerable adults and children from diverse backgrounds. My experience includes supporting individuals with; - Trauma - ADHD & ASD - Grief & bereavement - Family & relationships - Anxiety & depression - Suicide & self harm - Current/historical abuse - Low self-esteem, identity issues, cultural problems, childhood trauma and more. I pride myself on the ability to work openly and non-judgementally cross-culturally & have been successful counselling children and adults with SEN.
I am a MBACP Registered member. I have experience working in establishments such as; MIND, Place2be and secondary school, working with vulnerable adults and children from diverse backgrounds. My experience includes supporting individuals with; - Trauma - ADHD & ASD - Grief & bereavement - Family & relationships - Anxiety & depression - Suicide & self harm - Current/historical abuse - Low self-esteem, identity issues, cultural problems, childhood trauma and more. I pride myself on the ability to work openly and non-judgementally cross-culturally & have been successful counselling children and adults with SEN.
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Katrina Voysey
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart.
My long experience has developed in me a compassionate understanding of a breadth of human experience. Humanistic psychotherapy aims to empower and equip you to be your best self. I will integrate other approaches to psychotherapy to help you further. In couples and relational counselling we explore communication, attitudes, behaviours & early influences.
Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart.
My long experience has developed in me a compassionate understanding of a breadth of human experience. Humanistic psychotherapy aims to empower and equip you to be your best self. I will integrate other approaches to psychotherapy to help you further. In couples and relational counselling we explore communication, attitudes, behaviours & early influences.
020 3948 6490 View 020 3948 6490
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Return to Self Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a BACP registered Counsellor, Clinical Supervisor and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework. As well as my own private practice, I work across different organisations supporting people to gain deeper insight into what is impacting them, find ways of healing and moving forward. As an integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor, I can incorporate a range of approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, transpersonal, solution-focused, existential, intersectionality, Developmental Model and Seven Eyed Model to meet your needs.
I am a BACP registered Counsellor, Clinical Supervisor and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework. As well as my own private practice, I work across different organisations supporting people to gain deeper insight into what is impacting them, find ways of healing and moving forward. As an integrative counsellor and Clinical Supervisor, I can incorporate a range of approaches such as psychodynamic, humanistic, transpersonal, solution-focused, existential, intersectionality, Developmental Model and Seven Eyed Model to meet your needs.
020 7046 1498 View 020 7046 1498
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Jen Summerfield
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Having a difficult time? Getting better starts with a single conversation. I offer a non-judgemental space in which my clients can work through painful or difficult experiences with warmth and kindness. I aim to provide a secure base in which it is possible to slowly build trust in an on-going therapeutic relationship, empowering the individual to develop the internal resources to cope with the many challenges that life brings. I will listen carefully to whatever my client needs to talk about, without fear of judgment and explore together any difficulties. Please visit my website at jensummerfield.uk for more information.
Having a difficult time? Getting better starts with a single conversation. I offer a non-judgemental space in which my clients can work through painful or difficult experiences with warmth and kindness. I aim to provide a secure base in which it is possible to slowly build trust in an on-going therapeutic relationship, empowering the individual to develop the internal resources to cope with the many challenges that life brings. I will listen carefully to whatever my client needs to talk about, without fear of judgment and explore together any difficulties. Please visit my website at jensummerfield.uk for more information.
01798 305318 View 01798 305318
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Rosella Pizzi
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
020 3597 6719 View 020 3597 6719

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Relationship Therapy - Nicola Toye
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT General
Online Only
Do you feel you would like your relationship to be in a better place? Perhaps you're going through a life transition, such as becoming parents, or you're raising a family and you would love to find that spark between you as a couple again. Have you noticed a distance between you, and that you miss the closeness and intimacy you once shared? Maybe your relationship has reached a crisis point such as an affair and you're looking to help your relationship heal. Or maybe communication has become an issue, leaving you feeling that your true needs are not being met and you would like to understand each other better.
Do you feel you would like your relationship to be in a better place? Perhaps you're going through a life transition, such as becoming parents, or you're raising a family and you would love to find that spark between you as a couple again. Have you noticed a distance between you, and that you miss the closeness and intimacy you once shared? Maybe your relationship has reached a crisis point such as an affair and you're looking to help your relationship heal. Or maybe communication has become an issue, leaving you feeling that your true needs are not being met and you would like to understand each other better.
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Daniel Roe - Couples CBT
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Maybe you have difficulty trusting following infidelity.
Nothing pleases me more than seeing my clients take their life back, grow in confidence, and improve their relationships. Working together we'll identify the patterns of thinking and behaviour that have kept you down, and learn techniques to overcome your problem. My approaches are CBT and Behavioural Couples with a specialism in anxiety and low self-esteem.
Maybe you have difficulty trusting following infidelity.
Nothing pleases me more than seeing my clients take their life back, grow in confidence, and improve their relationships. Working together we'll identify the patterns of thinking and behaviour that have kept you down, and learn techniques to overcome your problem. My approaches are CBT and Behavioural Couples with a specialism in anxiety and low self-esteem.
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Mandy Sangha-Polak
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
I am an expert in couple dynamics and individual issues related to relationships; especially lack of intimacy, repeated arguments, children and families, cultural differences, sexuality, affairs and money.
I work with professional people, either couples or individuals who are struggling in their relationships. I help them move forward by developing insight into their difficulties, and then unblocking the obstacles to change.
I am an expert in couple dynamics and individual issues related to relationships; especially lack of intimacy, repeated arguments, children and families, cultural differences, sexuality, affairs and money.
I work with professional people, either couples or individuals who are struggling in their relationships. I help them move forward by developing insight into their difficulties, and then unblocking the obstacles to change.
01748 902986 View 01748 902986
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
3 Endorsed
London SW1W
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
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James Earl
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
4 Endorsed
Hampton TW12
I am an experienced and professionally qualified sex & relationship therapist, specialising in working with couples and individuals on restoring desire and intimacy, better communication, surviving affairs, sexual problems such as painful intercourse and ED, and compulsive sexual behavior (AKA sex addiction).
Sex & relationship counselling is for both couples and individuals, whether currently in relationships or not. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, sexualities, and types of relationship. Relationship counselling is a specialist form of therapy, so it is best to work with someone who has training in this specific model.
I am an experienced and professionally qualified sex & relationship therapist, specialising in working with couples and individuals on restoring desire and intimacy, better communication, surviving affairs, sexual problems such as painful intercourse and ED, and compulsive sexual behavior (AKA sex addiction).
Sex & relationship counselling is for both couples and individuals, whether currently in relationships or not. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, sexualities, and types of relationship. Relationship counselling is a specialist form of therapy, so it is best to work with someone who has training in this specific model.
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Amira Eldeeb
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Online Only
Things like vaginismus, infidelity, conflict resolutions and sexual desire
I work with ladies and couples on their sexual dysfunctions or relationships issues to help them have the relationship they deserve. I also work on indefinitely and injuries happened within the relationship.
Things like vaginismus, infidelity, conflict resolutions and sexual desire
I work with ladies and couples on their sexual dysfunctions or relationships issues to help them have the relationship they deserve. I also work on indefinitely and injuries happened within the relationship.
01767 661193 View 01767 661193
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Helen Mia Harris Couples Therapist
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Sevenoaks TN13
I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
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Essexcounsellingservices
Counsellor, MBACP
Romford RM3
I have worked with many couples on the issues of affairs, lack of intimacy and communication breakdown.
You have taken the first steps in moving forward by visiting this page. It is not an easy task to seek help, you show courage, through your recognition of needing counselling . I am a fully qualified counsellor and a member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
I have worked with many couples on the issues of affairs, lack of intimacy and communication breakdown.
You have taken the first steps in moving forward by visiting this page. It is not an easy task to seek help, you show courage, through your recognition of needing counselling . I am a fully qualified counsellor and a member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
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Lizzy Duverney
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London N3
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.