Male Counsellors in Canterbury
Trauma can leave you feeling constantly on edge, emotionally overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself and others. You may understand logically that you are safe, yet your body still reacts as though you're in danger. Perhaps you experience flashbacks, intrusive memories, shame, relationship difficulties, or difficulties managing your emotions. You want stability, clarity, and a way to move forward without being defined by what has happened to you.
Trauma can leave you feeling constantly on edge, emotionally overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself and others. You may understand logically that you are safe, yet your body still reacts as though you're in danger. Perhaps you experience flashbacks, intrusive memories, shame, relationship difficulties, or difficulties managing your emotions. You want stability, clarity, and a way to move forward without being defined by what has happened to you.
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
Most of us will experience sexual and relationship difficulties at some point in our lives and yet it can still be very challenging and embarrassing discussing them. Talking to an experienced and qualified psychosexual and relationship therapist can help you identify the difficulties you are experiencing, understand and explore different ways you can overcome these challenges and move forward. I aim to create a confidential and safe place where you feel able to talk about these issues in a non-shaming way. I am a sex positive therapist and I am comfortable exploring alternative sexual interests.
You don't have to struggle on your own - I can support you to make positive changes, build resilience and achieve personal growth. My experience is that counselling can assist us with the problems we encounter in life and can help us overcome self-destructive attitudes and behaviour. I will provide you with a comfortable, safe and confidential space where your thoughts and feelings can be explored and worked through. This talking therapy helps my clients to find a more constructive way of living and a stronger sense of inner fulfillment. Counselling can be either short or long term to fit in with your needs.
You don't have to struggle on your own - I can support you to make positive changes, build resilience and achieve personal growth. My experience is that counselling can assist us with the problems we encounter in life and can help us overcome self-destructive attitudes and behaviour. I will provide you with a comfortable, safe and confidential space where your thoughts and feelings can be explored and worked through. This talking therapy helps my clients to find a more constructive way of living and a stronger sense of inner fulfillment. Counselling can be either short or long term to fit in with your needs.
I am a therapeutic counsellor committed to helping people find effective, personal solutions to their mental health challenges. With a rich background in addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, OCD behaviours, relationship dynamics and issues of identity. I provide a safe and supportive environment for you to explore your thoughts and feelings. My goal is to provide empathetic and professional counselling in Canterbury, and to empower you to take control of your mental health journey.
I am a therapeutic counsellor committed to helping people find effective, personal solutions to their mental health challenges. With a rich background in addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, OCD behaviours, relationship dynamics and issues of identity. I provide a safe and supportive environment for you to explore your thoughts and feelings. My goal is to provide empathetic and professional counselling in Canterbury, and to empower you to take control of your mental health journey.
I am an integrative and EMDR counsellor with NHS experience. I have been researching mind and health for 20 years, including psychedelic use, as well as 10 years working with with people who are neurodiverse and LGBTQIA+. I have a wide range of experience including anxiety, trauma, grief and hopelessness, repetitive thought patterns, relationship issues, and substance use and/or abuse. As an expatriate, I am aware of the challenges you may face living in a new country and the issues of third culture children.
I am an integrative and EMDR counsellor with NHS experience. I have been researching mind and health for 20 years, including psychedelic use, as well as 10 years working with with people who are neurodiverse and LGBTQIA+. I have a wide range of experience including anxiety, trauma, grief and hopelessness, repetitive thought patterns, relationship issues, and substance use and/or abuse. As an expatriate, I am aware of the challenges you may face living in a new country and the issues of third culture children.
People seek counselling for many different reasons. Often it's because they are struggling to resolve something in their life, their relationships or themselves. They may be feeling stuck, weighed-down, confused, anxious or depressed. Whatever the reason, I see counselling as an opportunity to explore this in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental relationship. Through exploration, self-understanding and awareness, we can increase our capacity to be in healthy relationship with ourselves and other people. This broadens our self-perception, increasing our ability to respond in our lives in healthy, flexible ways.
People seek counselling for many different reasons. Often it's because they are struggling to resolve something in their life, their relationships or themselves. They may be feeling stuck, weighed-down, confused, anxious or depressed. Whatever the reason, I see counselling as an opportunity to explore this in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental relationship. Through exploration, self-understanding and awareness, we can increase our capacity to be in healthy relationship with ourselves and other people. This broadens our self-perception, increasing our ability to respond in our lives in healthy, flexible ways.
My ideal client often feels stuck in patterns they cannot shift alone. Sessions often take place indoors with my friendly cat nearby. You might be struggling with dating, recovering from heartbreak, or finding communication difficult in a relationship. Many people I work with are also navigating ADHD or autism and feel misunderstood. You want clarity, confidence and healthier ways of connecting with others.
My ideal client often feels stuck in patterns they cannot shift alone. Sessions often take place indoors with my friendly cat nearby. You might be struggling with dating, recovering from heartbreak, or finding communication difficult in a relationship. Many people I work with are also navigating ADHD or autism and feel misunderstood. You want clarity, confidence and healthier ways of connecting with others.
I offer kind, professional psychotherapy based upon our relationship and respecting your unique value. People seek therapy for many significant reasons, and I see the courage it takes to face issues that are causing suffering or asking you to adapt, heal and evolve. I offer a warm, confidential and compassionate space so that as far as possible you feel secure, encouraged and ready to work through your challenges. I’m led by what you feel open to working with as you are the expert on your own experience. Therapy is short or long term. Sessions are held in purpose built rooms within easy reach of Canterbury, with good accessibility.
I offer kind, professional psychotherapy based upon our relationship and respecting your unique value. People seek therapy for many significant reasons, and I see the courage it takes to face issues that are causing suffering or asking you to adapt, heal and evolve. I offer a warm, confidential and compassionate space so that as far as possible you feel secure, encouraged and ready to work through your challenges. I’m led by what you feel open to working with as you are the expert on your own experience. Therapy is short or long term. Sessions are held in purpose built rooms within easy reach of Canterbury, with good accessibility.
Dr Russ Hargreaves
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP Snr. Accred
2 Endorsed
Canterbury CT1
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You've made the first step, why not get in touch to see how I can help you? I am a BACP Accredited counsellor in Canterbury with many years' experience working in the NHS, Hospice sector and in private practice. I specialise in Cancer and Bereavement, especially the loss of a baby or child. In addition, I specialise in traumatic and sudden loss, including the death of somebody close during the Covid Pandemic. I am extremely comfortable working with people with a serious illness, including those with terminal illness. I also specialise in working with individuals and couples who have had a Miscarriage or Stillbirth.
You've made the first step, why not get in touch to see how I can help you? I am a BACP Accredited counsellor in Canterbury with many years' experience working in the NHS, Hospice sector and in private practice. I specialise in Cancer and Bereavement, especially the loss of a baby or child. In addition, I specialise in traumatic and sudden loss, including the death of somebody close during the Covid Pandemic. I am extremely comfortable working with people with a serious illness, including those with terminal illness. I also specialise in working with individuals and couples who have had a Miscarriage or Stillbirth.
I am an extremely experienced, dedicated, skilled Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist & Counsellor. I work with people of all ages, couples & young people. I am accredited and registered with the UKCP and have 20 years experience.
I worked with Victim Support, adult crisis services, children's charities, schools, and the NHS. I have a Post-Grad Diploma and Masters Degree in Clinical Science covering all approaches of psychotherapy - from the University of Kent.
In my practice, unlike most services, no data is ever stored on computers, so confidential means just that. I am completely there for you and always go the extra mie.
I am an extremely experienced, dedicated, skilled Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist & Counsellor. I work with people of all ages, couples & young people. I am accredited and registered with the UKCP and have 20 years experience.
I worked with Victim Support, adult crisis services, children's charities, schools, and the NHS. I have a Post-Grad Diploma and Masters Degree in Clinical Science covering all approaches of psychotherapy - from the University of Kent.
In my practice, unlike most services, no data is ever stored on computers, so confidential means just that. I am completely there for you and always go the extra mie.
Life is like a puzzle and sometimes we are all missing a piece. All we need is another pair of eyes to help us see the bigger picture. When you feel overwhelmed I am here to support you navigate life's complexities.
Life is like a puzzle and sometimes we are all missing a piece. All we need is another pair of eyes to help us see the bigger picture. When you feel overwhelmed I am here to support you navigate life's complexities.
Welcome to the beginning of your journey of healing and growth.
Seeking therapy is a courageous step towards personal growth and emotional well-being. I specialize in working with children aged 10 and older, adults and families.
My approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and collaboration. Whether you are navigating specific issues, experiencing life transitions, or seeking to understand and heal from past experiences I am here to support you.
I believe every individual has the capacity for change and resilience and I am committed to guiding you on this transformative journey.
Welcome to the beginning of your journey of healing and growth.
Seeking therapy is a courageous step towards personal growth and emotional well-being. I specialize in working with children aged 10 and older, adults and families.
My approach is rooted in empathy, respect, and collaboration. Whether you are navigating specific issues, experiencing life transitions, or seeking to understand and heal from past experiences I am here to support you.
I believe every individual has the capacity for change and resilience and I am committed to guiding you on this transformative journey.
Many people come to therapy feeling exhausted, stuck in repeating patterns, or carrying a sense of shame, invisibility, or “something wrong with me.” You may have learned to survive by performing, pleasing, or shutting down. Therapy can be a place to reduce performing, slow things down, and begin relating to yourself with kindness and self-compassion. Healing doesn’t come from fixing or pushing pain away.
It comes from turning toward those lonely, isolating, fearful parts of us with curiosity and compassion— to witness their story without trying to change it.
When we do this, something beautiful happens: feeling is healing.
Many people come to therapy feeling exhausted, stuck in repeating patterns, or carrying a sense of shame, invisibility, or “something wrong with me.” You may have learned to survive by performing, pleasing, or shutting down. Therapy can be a place to reduce performing, slow things down, and begin relating to yourself with kindness and self-compassion. Healing doesn’t come from fixing or pushing pain away.
It comes from turning toward those lonely, isolating, fearful parts of us with curiosity and compassion— to witness their story without trying to change it.
When we do this, something beautiful happens: feeling is healing.
For over 17 years, I’ve been dedicated to supporting adults and young people through life’s challenges in a variety of capacities, helping them move towards greater clarity, resilience, and fulfilment. As an integrative counsellor with a transpersonal approach, I invite clients to explore their inner world, confront difficulties with courage, and grow into a deeper, more connected sense of self. I’m a registered member of both the BACP and the BPS and my background includes working in education, volunteering with Cruse as a bereavement supporter, and working as a Homegroup Tutor with TIS UK.
For over 17 years, I’ve been dedicated to supporting adults and young people through life’s challenges in a variety of capacities, helping them move towards greater clarity, resilience, and fulfilment. As an integrative counsellor with a transpersonal approach, I invite clients to explore their inner world, confront difficulties with courage, and grow into a deeper, more connected sense of self. I’m a registered member of both the BACP and the BPS and my background includes working in education, volunteering with Cruse as a bereavement supporter, and working as a Homegroup Tutor with TIS UK.
Hi there. You know deep within you that things can be different: how you see your self and others or the stories that you tell about your life. Indeed, the ways in which you think or feel about events that have unfolded, your way of being, is to some extent shaped by the psychological adaptations that have occurred in response to living. I am a dual-registered counsellor and sport psychologist with 20 years' experience helping individuals to become differently; to attain margins that matter, and find what matters in the margins.
Hi there. You know deep within you that things can be different: how you see your self and others or the stories that you tell about your life. Indeed, the ways in which you think or feel about events that have unfolded, your way of being, is to some extent shaped by the psychological adaptations that have occurred in response to living. I am a dual-registered counsellor and sport psychologist with 20 years' experience helping individuals to become differently; to attain margins that matter, and find what matters in the margins.
I am equally happy to work remotely or face-to-face (office-based in Canterbury) with extensive experience in supporting clients with trauma work, particularly in the area of historic abuse.
With a tutoring and mentoring background, I recognise the immense responsibility of working alongside student counsellors - providing positive emotional support whilst offering constructive role-modelling behaviours. A discounted sessional rate of £25.00 is offered.
Understanding the importance of developing of trusting working relationship, I offer all prospective clients a 30 minute introductory session with neither charge nor obligation.
I am equally happy to work remotely or face-to-face (office-based in Canterbury) with extensive experience in supporting clients with trauma work, particularly in the area of historic abuse.
With a tutoring and mentoring background, I recognise the immense responsibility of working alongside student counsellors - providing positive emotional support whilst offering constructive role-modelling behaviours. A discounted sessional rate of £25.00 is offered.
Understanding the importance of developing of trusting working relationship, I offer all prospective clients a 30 minute introductory session with neither charge nor obligation.
As a Clinical Psychologist and academic with over 10 years of experience, I work with adults who have experienced trauma as children and/or adults. Trauma often sits at the heart of people's difficulties, yet it can express itself in different ways (including through a variety of psychiatric diagnoses) and therefore careful consideration of impacts on people is needed as well as what approach is then needed to address it.
I offer trauma-informed, evidence-based therapy focused on helping you make sense of your experiences, develop greater emotional stability, find more effective ways of coping, and to live a life beyond trauma.
As a Clinical Psychologist and academic with over 10 years of experience, I work with adults who have experienced trauma as children and/or adults. Trauma often sits at the heart of people's difficulties, yet it can express itself in different ways (including through a variety of psychiatric diagnoses) and therefore careful consideration of impacts on people is needed as well as what approach is then needed to address it.
I offer trauma-informed, evidence-based therapy focused on helping you make sense of your experiences, develop greater emotional stability, find more effective ways of coping, and to live a life beyond trauma.
Let’s be honest, it’s all a bit daunting really. You decide you might need to talk to someone, Google it, and suddenly you’re scrolling through pages of smiling faces. The titles and initials next to our names likely don’t mean a great deal to you. And nearly everyone says a variation of the same thing about themselves anyway. So how do you tell us apart? This specialism, that theory, those qualifications, these years… What really matters is whether we connect. The research backs this up, and my experience does too.
Let’s be honest, it’s all a bit daunting really. You decide you might need to talk to someone, Google it, and suddenly you’re scrolling through pages of smiling faces. The titles and initials next to our names likely don’t mean a great deal to you. And nearly everyone says a variation of the same thing about themselves anyway. So how do you tell us apart? This specialism, that theory, those qualifications, these years… What really matters is whether we connect. The research backs this up, and my experience does too.
Are you finding every day tough to get through, feel trapped, overwhelmed or hopeless; feel you’ve lost your sense of self and confidence? Do you want someone to listen to you and feel able to say out loud what’s going on without feeling awkward or judged? My clients say I'm empathic and calming and allow them to make sense of everything, safely at their own pace. I'm qualified to work integratively which enables me to work in a way that suits you best. Experience includes 30 years with a leading UK emergency service and volunteering for a community counselling service. Introduction session free .
Are you finding every day tough to get through, feel trapped, overwhelmed or hopeless; feel you’ve lost your sense of self and confidence? Do you want someone to listen to you and feel able to say out loud what’s going on without feeling awkward or judged? My clients say I'm empathic and calming and allow them to make sense of everything, safely at their own pace. I'm qualified to work integratively which enables me to work in a way that suits you best. Experience includes 30 years with a leading UK emergency service and volunteering for a community counselling service. Introduction session free .
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or unable to switch off?
You might find yourself overthinking, feeling constantly on edge, or trying to hold everything together while struggling underneath.
Even if things look fine on the surface, it can feel exhausting and isolating to carry this on your own.
Therapy is a space to stop carrying everything alone. We’ll look at ways to help life feel less heavy in the present, while also understanding why things feel the way they do.
I have a particular depth of understanding in areas such as parenting, men’s mental health, neurodiversity, and gender and sexuality.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or unable to switch off?
You might find yourself overthinking, feeling constantly on edge, or trying to hold everything together while struggling underneath.
Even if things look fine on the surface, it can feel exhausting and isolating to carry this on your own.
Therapy is a space to stop carrying everything alone. We’ll look at ways to help life feel less heavy in the present, while also understanding why things feel the way they do.
I have a particular depth of understanding in areas such as parenting, men’s mental health, neurodiversity, and gender and sexuality.
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As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.