Men's Issues Counselling in Calne

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Michael Bizley
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
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Simone Wilmot
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Hi there, thank you for taking the time to look at my profile and I'm sorry to hear you're struggling. It's hard to reach out and ask for help, this is the first step and you've done it. Life has it's ups and downs, it can throw curveballs and be overwhelming. We don't always understand this and the reasons why we feel the way we do. Have you imagined how empowering it would feel if you could find the answers? This is where I can help. I can provide you with a non-judgemental, confidential and secure space to explore what is going on for you. I'm here to help you every step of the way, next to you.
Hi there, thank you for taking the time to look at my profile and I'm sorry to hear you're struggling. It's hard to reach out and ask for help, this is the first step and you've done it. Life has it's ups and downs, it can throw curveballs and be overwhelming. We don't always understand this and the reasons why we feel the way we do. Have you imagined how empowering it would feel if you could find the answers? This is where I can help. I can provide you with a non-judgemental, confidential and secure space to explore what is going on for you. I'm here to help you every step of the way, next to you.
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Isabel Tate
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
We all have a unique history that shapes us and our lives. Life is all about change and transition. Transitioning from one age and stage to another, from childhood to old age. These inevitable transitions bring change for example, marriage/relationships, friendships, pregnancy/parenting, career change/loss, bereavement, and illness. Although change is inevitable it is not always easy, so exploring your thoughts and feelings about whatever the situation is now or in the past, gives you space to process, understand the impact for you, with the opportunity for new insights and perspectives allowing you to move forward more positively.
We all have a unique history that shapes us and our lives. Life is all about change and transition. Transitioning from one age and stage to another, from childhood to old age. These inevitable transitions bring change for example, marriage/relationships, friendships, pregnancy/parenting, career change/loss, bereavement, and illness. Although change is inevitable it is not always easy, so exploring your thoughts and feelings about whatever the situation is now or in the past, gives you space to process, understand the impact for you, with the opportunity for new insights and perspectives allowing you to move forward more positively.
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Guy Phillipps
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling overwhelmed by challenges in your life? Perhaps you feel disconnected and powerless? You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship or work difficulties, loss, burnout, neurodiversity or something less definable - perhaps just a sense that something is not right for you. You might feel stuck or unsure how to move forward and there could be a longing for understanding, acceptance, and a sense of peace? Maybe you are searching for clarity and confidence — to feel heard and valued? Whatever your difficulty is, and no matter how big or small it seems, I am here to help you.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by challenges in your life? Perhaps you feel disconnected and powerless? You may be struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship or work difficulties, loss, burnout, neurodiversity or something less definable - perhaps just a sense that something is not right for you. You might feel stuck or unsure how to move forward and there could be a longing for understanding, acceptance, and a sense of peace? Maybe you are searching for clarity and confidence — to feel heard and valued? Whatever your difficulty is, and no matter how big or small it seems, I am here to help you.
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OpenMind
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. With many years of experience I have worked with individuals, couples and families from all walks of life supporting them navigate challengers. Are you going through life not understanding why you feel or act the way you do? Are you struggling to bond, or appreciate each others differences? Is this preventing you achieve what you want in life, causing issues with your personal life/relationships/family, impacting on your work/school or effecting your physical health?
I am a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. With many years of experience I have worked with individuals, couples and families from all walks of life supporting them navigate challengers. Are you going through life not understanding why you feel or act the way you do? Are you struggling to bond, or appreciate each others differences? Is this preventing you achieve what you want in life, causing issues with your personal life/relationships/family, impacting on your work/school or effecting your physical health?
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Rachael Trainor
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
At certain times in life, we may find ourselves struggling, feeling overwhelmed, anxious, confused, stuck, numb, or low. These experiences can stretch our capacity to cope and leave us feeling far from the life we want to lead. Reaching out for support in such moments is both understandable and courageous. You may be navigating relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, grief and loss, or the lasting effects of trauma. Or perhaps you're not quite sure what's wrong, only that things don’t feel right. Whatever you're experiencing, it’s valid, and we can explore it together.
At certain times in life, we may find ourselves struggling, feeling overwhelmed, anxious, confused, stuck, numb, or low. These experiences can stretch our capacity to cope and leave us feeling far from the life we want to lead. Reaching out for support in such moments is both understandable and courageous. You may be navigating relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, grief and loss, or the lasting effects of trauma. Or perhaps you're not quite sure what's wrong, only that things don’t feel right. Whatever you're experiencing, it’s valid, and we can explore it together.
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Bledar Lika
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP
Serves Area
Do U ever sit in a room full of people & feel anxiety,quietly drowning,heart racing, smile frozen, terrified someone might see through you?Or you wake up every day with a heaviness you can’t explain, exhausted, numb, wondering how long depression will last and U keep pretending you’re okay.Do U feel like you’re doing everything “right”,eating well, going to therapy, trying to stay positive but still wake up with a weight on your chest, like your body & mind are stuck in a loop U can’t escape?Like no matter how much U sleep, you’re still tired?No matter how much U try to relax, your nervous system won’t let U?I can help U heal that.
Do U ever sit in a room full of people & feel anxiety,quietly drowning,heart racing, smile frozen, terrified someone might see through you?Or you wake up every day with a heaviness you can’t explain, exhausted, numb, wondering how long depression will last and U keep pretending you’re okay.Do U feel like you’re doing everything “right”,eating well, going to therapy, trying to stay positive but still wake up with a weight on your chest, like your body & mind are stuck in a loop U can’t escape?Like no matter how much U sleep, you’re still tired?No matter how much U try to relax, your nervous system won’t let U?I can help U heal that.
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Barry Cook
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Not knowing which way to turn or who you can talk to? Life feeling something like this overwhelming, relationships strained, broken down, lacking confidence & self-esteem, difficult to voice or understand what you need, feeling down on edge & simply confused? Then welcome to Barry Cook 'The Tattooed Counsellor' When we feel this way our problems may be all mixed up growing bigger or unmanageable by the day. It could be that past or present experiences are causing us confusion & conflict. Maybe you would benefit from talking to someone who is not a part of your friends & family and will simply allow you to be you.
Not knowing which way to turn or who you can talk to? Life feeling something like this overwhelming, relationships strained, broken down, lacking confidence & self-esteem, difficult to voice or understand what you need, feeling down on edge & simply confused? Then welcome to Barry Cook 'The Tattooed Counsellor' When we feel this way our problems may be all mixed up growing bigger or unmanageable by the day. It could be that past or present experiences are causing us confusion & conflict. Maybe you would benefit from talking to someone who is not a part of your friends & family and will simply allow you to be you.
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Simeon Vellani Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Counselling & Psychotherapy are positive and practical steps you can take to initiate change and improve your life, I offer a confidential space where you will be seen and heard in a caring non-judgemental way. I am a Psychotherapist, Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and Certified Transactional Analyst (TA) with a Masters in TA Psychotherapy. TA draws upon Humanistic, Relational and Cognitive Behavioural approaches, this permits me to tailor therapy to your individual requirements.
Counselling & Psychotherapy are positive and practical steps you can take to initiate change and improve your life, I offer a confidential space where you will be seen and heard in a caring non-judgemental way. I am a Psychotherapist, Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and Certified Transactional Analyst (TA) with a Masters in TA Psychotherapy. TA draws upon Humanistic, Relational and Cognitive Behavioural approaches, this permits me to tailor therapy to your individual requirements.
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Dr Rob - Clinical Psychologist - Online Therapy
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
Specialising in men’s issues, including sex problems (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sex addiction / sexual compulsions, and problematic pornography use / porn addiction); sexual abuse; trauma and PTSD; intrusive sexual thoughts; anger issues; anxiety; depression; adjusting to a physical health condition; relationship issues; stress; sexuality and more. I am a chartered clinical psychologist and EMDR therapist with over 15 years NHS experience of working in mental health and now work full time in private practice online.
01525 659965 View 01525 659965
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Richard John Mann
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
As a therapist working in the NHS and in private practice, I work with anxiety, depression and trauma and specialise in Addiction, Relationship Issues, LGBTQIA+ and Neurodiversity (Autistic and ADHD clients). I believe that therapy should be tailored specially for your individual needs and I provide a relaxed, safe space where you can feel free to share confidentially and without judgement. It can feel daunting sharing your problems, sometimes for the first time and I like to work in a collaborative way, helping you learn more about yourself, your issues and developing strategies to manage them.
As a therapist working in the NHS and in private practice, I work with anxiety, depression and trauma and specialise in Addiction, Relationship Issues, LGBTQIA+ and Neurodiversity (Autistic and ADHD clients). I believe that therapy should be tailored specially for your individual needs and I provide a relaxed, safe space where you can feel free to share confidentially and without judgement. It can feel daunting sharing your problems, sometimes for the first time and I like to work in a collaborative way, helping you learn more about yourself, your issues and developing strategies to manage them.
020 3912 7479 View 020 3912 7479
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Richard Ainsworth
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
You don’t need to have it all worked out, or even know what’s going on. If life feels like it should be different but you’re not sure how, this is a great starting point. You might feel lonely, isolated, anxious, ashamed, or stuck in repeating patterns that leave you frustrated or disconnected. Some carry the impact of early life trauma or have learned to hide parts of themselves just to get by. You might be questioning your identity, struggling with intimacy, feeling disconnected from your body, or wanting to explore your relationship style, including non-traditional setups.
You don’t need to have it all worked out, or even know what’s going on. If life feels like it should be different but you’re not sure how, this is a great starting point. You might feel lonely, isolated, anxious, ashamed, or stuck in repeating patterns that leave you frustrated or disconnected. Some carry the impact of early life trauma or have learned to hide parts of themselves just to get by. You might be questioning your identity, struggling with intimacy, feeling disconnected from your body, or wanting to explore your relationship style, including non-traditional setups.
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Christopher Sean Wilkinson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Hello I’m Chris, a Registered and highly qualified Psychotherapist. With 25 years of experience, I help people that feel stuck in patterns, are overwhelmed or struggling to accept parts of themselves. I integrate evidence based practices such as Cognitive Behavioural therapy and interpersonal therapy to help overcome challenges in the fastest time possible. The space I provide is safe, supportive and most of all human! I help with various presenting difficulties and always happy to have an initial discussion to hear what’s going on for you. Currently offering online therapy with availability weekday evenings and weekends.
Hello I’m Chris, a Registered and highly qualified Psychotherapist. With 25 years of experience, I help people that feel stuck in patterns, are overwhelmed or struggling to accept parts of themselves. I integrate evidence based practices such as Cognitive Behavioural therapy and interpersonal therapy to help overcome challenges in the fastest time possible. The space I provide is safe, supportive and most of all human! I help with various presenting difficulties and always happy to have an initial discussion to hear what’s going on for you. Currently offering online therapy with availability weekday evenings and weekends.
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Byron Harris
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Hi, I'm Byron. I'm a trauma-informed, pluralistic counsellor and supervisor, and it would be a real privilege to support you as you find your way through life's ups and downs. Having worked as a counsellor and trainer for over eight years, I really believe in creating a safe and trusting relationship with my clients. When we meet, you'll find me warm, down-to-earth, and keen to make sure you feel completely at ease sharing what's on your mind. I also bring an adaptable, flexible and effective personalised approach.
Hi, I'm Byron. I'm a trauma-informed, pluralistic counsellor and supervisor, and it would be a real privilege to support you as you find your way through life's ups and downs. Having worked as a counsellor and trainer for over eight years, I really believe in creating a safe and trusting relationship with my clients. When we meet, you'll find me warm, down-to-earth, and keen to make sure you feel completely at ease sharing what's on your mind. I also bring an adaptable, flexible and effective personalised approach.
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Tim Aitchison
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
Many of us carry deep wounds from our childhoods and early lives, often without being completely conscious of it. Still raw, or thickly scarred, these traumas can manifest in our adult lives, through sensitivity to hurt, inflexibility or unhelpful, self defeating behaviours. In time these unhealed wounds can wreak havoc in our lives and relationships. When this day comes we are left with two choices, either carry on as best we can, condemned to repeat the hurts of the past, or learn to give ourselves the care and love we have always deserved. Counselling offers an opportunity to begin a new life of healing and growth.
Many of us carry deep wounds from our childhoods and early lives, often without being completely conscious of it. Still raw, or thickly scarred, these traumas can manifest in our adult lives, through sensitivity to hurt, inflexibility or unhelpful, self defeating behaviours. In time these unhealed wounds can wreak havoc in our lives and relationships. When this day comes we are left with two choices, either carry on as best we can, condemned to repeat the hurts of the past, or learn to give ourselves the care and love we have always deserved. Counselling offers an opportunity to begin a new life of healing and growth.
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Clare Brown
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you finding it hard to connect with people and feel understood? Maybe you’re trying to make sense of a relationship; you used to get on but something’s changed and the idea of talking about it makes your heart race? Or perhaps you have tried but it’s left you feeling ashamed and hurt, leading you to believe it's hopeless. Counselling can make room for change and build your self-esteem to move forward.
Are you finding it hard to connect with people and feel understood? Maybe you’re trying to make sense of a relationship; you used to get on but something’s changed and the idea of talking about it makes your heart race? Or perhaps you have tried but it’s left you feeling ashamed and hurt, leading you to believe it's hopeless. Counselling can make room for change and build your self-esteem to move forward.
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Kier Ross
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Bristol BS2
As a counsellor, I offer a compassionate and supportive space for individuals seeking to deepen their understanding of themselves and their experiences. My practice is grounded in the principles of Gestalt therapy, which emphasize awareness, presence, and the holistic nature of human experience. I believe that each person is unique and that my role is to facilitate your journey towards greater self-awareness and authenticity.
As a counsellor, I offer a compassionate and supportive space for individuals seeking to deepen their understanding of themselves and their experiences. My practice is grounded in the principles of Gestalt therapy, which emphasize awareness, presence, and the holistic nature of human experience. I believe that each person is unique and that my role is to facilitate your journey towards greater self-awareness and authenticity.
0117 463 3045 View 0117 463 3045
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Philip Braham
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
As a BACP counsellor and UKCP psychotherapist, I believe that the relationship between you and I is integral to our work. My approach is empathic and explorative, looking back at your past to understand who you are and why you are where you are. In this awareness, my hope is that you will become free to make the changes that you want in life and to accept all parts of yourself. The work is yours, and my job is to sit alongside you using my skills, knowledge and experience to support you. It is my belief that the right therapist can provide invaluable assistance to your wellbeing, and guide you to use the resources you have.
As a BACP counsellor and UKCP psychotherapist, I believe that the relationship between you and I is integral to our work. My approach is empathic and explorative, looking back at your past to understand who you are and why you are where you are. In this awareness, my hope is that you will become free to make the changes that you want in life and to accept all parts of yourself. The work is yours, and my job is to sit alongside you using my skills, knowledge and experience to support you. It is my belief that the right therapist can provide invaluable assistance to your wellbeing, and guide you to use the resources you have.
07379 912571 View 07379 912571
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Richard Robins
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I work with all adults and young people who come to me with a diverse range of presenting issues, with a particular emphasis on addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, and relationship issues. My belief rests on the notion that every person possesses an innate drive to achieve their utmost potential, to grow, and to become the finest version of themselves. This belief serves as a guiding principle as I strive to create a confidential, supportive, empathic, and non-judgemental environment.
I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I work with all adults and young people who come to me with a diverse range of presenting issues, with a particular emphasis on addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, and relationship issues. My belief rests on the notion that every person possesses an innate drive to achieve their utmost potential, to grow, and to become the finest version of themselves. This belief serves as a guiding principle as I strive to create a confidential, supportive, empathic, and non-judgemental environment.
01935 312707 View 01935 312707
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Eleanor Smith
Psychotherapist, PhD, UKCP Trainee
Bath BA1
I specialise in areas surrounding sexual identity, pleasure, pornography use, sexual violence, relational dynamics, connection, intimacy, cultural and/or religious tension, belonging, addiction, life transitions, uprootedness and expatriation, as well as bereavement, living with life-limiting illness, and personal crises, to name a few. I have additional experience working with young adults and adolescents (over 18s), especially those struggling with life transitions, drug use, their sense of belonging, bullying and/or identity.
I specialise in areas surrounding sexual identity, pleasure, pornography use, sexual violence, relational dynamics, connection, intimacy, cultural and/or religious tension, belonging, addiction, life transitions, uprootedness and expatriation, as well as bereavement, living with life-limiting illness, and personal crises, to name a few. I have additional experience working with young adults and adolescents (over 18s), especially those struggling with life transitions, drug use, their sense of belonging, bullying and/or identity.
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Men's Issues Counsellors

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.