Borderline Personality (BPD) Counselling in Calne

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OpenMind
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. With many years of experience I have worked with individuals, couples and families from all walks of life supporting them navigate challengers. Are you going through life not understanding why you feel or act the way you do? Are you struggling to bond, or appreciate each others differences? Is this preventing you achieve what you want in life, causing issues with your personal life/relationships/family, impacting on your work/school or effecting your physical health?
I am a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. With many years of experience I have worked with individuals, couples and families from all walks of life supporting them navigate challengers. Are you going through life not understanding why you feel or act the way you do? Are you struggling to bond, or appreciate each others differences? Is this preventing you achieve what you want in life, causing issues with your personal life/relationships/family, impacting on your work/school or effecting your physical health?
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Dr Lucinda Stirton
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
Life can be difficult, and humans are complex beings. It’s not surprising we can end up feeling unhappy, lost or overwhelmed. Dealing with emotions is an important part of self-care and counselling can equip you with the awareness and tools to be kinder to yourself. People often choose to have therapy when things go wrong, but you don’t have to be in crisis.
Life can be difficult, and humans are complex beings. It’s not surprising we can end up feeling unhappy, lost or overwhelmed. Dealing with emotions is an important part of self-care and counselling can equip you with the awareness and tools to be kinder to yourself. People often choose to have therapy when things go wrong, but you don’t have to be in crisis.
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Guy Phillipps
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you facing challenges in your life that feel overwhelming? Would you like to change how things are, or gain a better understanding of what is going on for you? Perhaps what you are experiencing is due to a relationship, something to do with your job or studies, a bereavement or other loss, or something less definable - perhaps just a sense that something is not right for you. Maybe it is connected to neuro-diversity, low self esteem, depression or anxiety. Whatever your difficulty is, and no matter how big or small it seems to be, by looking for therapy, you are taking a positive step in your life.
Are you facing challenges in your life that feel overwhelming? Would you like to change how things are, or gain a better understanding of what is going on for you? Perhaps what you are experiencing is due to a relationship, something to do with your job or studies, a bereavement or other loss, or something less definable - perhaps just a sense that something is not right for you. Maybe it is connected to neuro-diversity, low self esteem, depression or anxiety. Whatever your difficulty is, and no matter how big or small it seems to be, by looking for therapy, you are taking a positive step in your life.
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Rachel Stirland
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Bristol BS32
Waitlist for new clients
I am a clinical psychologist and cognitive analytic therapy (CAT) therapist with substantial experience working with people who have relational/emotion regulation difficulties and/or complex trauma (with/without a formal diagnosis of personality disorder). My other areas of expertise are chronic self-criticism, perfectionism, dissociation and mood/anxiety difficulties. I welcome anyone who is interested in understanding more about themselves, their relationship patterns and their coping strategies, as well as those who are hoping to process past traumas and/or learn new skills to manage their current difficulties.
I am a clinical psychologist and cognitive analytic therapy (CAT) therapist with substantial experience working with people who have relational/emotion regulation difficulties and/or complex trauma (with/without a formal diagnosis of personality disorder). My other areas of expertise are chronic self-criticism, perfectionism, dissociation and mood/anxiety difficulties. I welcome anyone who is interested in understanding more about themselves, their relationship patterns and their coping strategies, as well as those who are hoping to process past traumas and/or learn new skills to manage their current difficulties.
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Jessica Hunter
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Bristol BS32
Waitlist for new clients
I am a clinical psychologist with substantial experience of working with individuals with personality difficulties (with or without a formal diagnosis of personality disorder), PTSD, and complex trauma. Other areas of clinical expertise include anxiety, burnout, low self-esteem, dissociation and low mood. In therapy I aim to bring compassion to the ways people have learned to cope with adversity and emotional pain. I welcome anyone who is looking to understand themselves and their coping styles better, and/or is seeking ways to break cycles and gain new skills to help them move forwards in their lives.
I am a clinical psychologist with substantial experience of working with individuals with personality difficulties (with or without a formal diagnosis of personality disorder), PTSD, and complex trauma. Other areas of clinical expertise include anxiety, burnout, low self-esteem, dissociation and low mood. In therapy I aim to bring compassion to the ways people have learned to cope with adversity and emotional pain. I welcome anyone who is looking to understand themselves and their coping styles better, and/or is seeking ways to break cycles and gain new skills to help them move forwards in their lives.
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Besarta Zogaj
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Serves Area
You are not broken. You may be feeling emotional pain, distress, or psychological strain, but that doesn’t mean you are damaged. These responses often reflect your strength and resilience. What you're experiencing is an emotional build-up, not a breakdown. You might be living with anxiety, depression, grief, low self-worth, or trauma. Over time, you may have built defences to cope and protect yourself. These patterns helped you survive, but they are not your truest self. Healing begins by gently reconnecting with the parts of you that have been hidden, and making space for who you truly are.
You are not broken. You may be feeling emotional pain, distress, or psychological strain, but that doesn’t mean you are damaged. These responses often reflect your strength and resilience. What you're experiencing is an emotional build-up, not a breakdown. You might be living with anxiety, depression, grief, low self-worth, or trauma. Over time, you may have built defences to cope and protect yourself. These patterns helped you survive, but they are not your truest self. Healing begins by gently reconnecting with the parts of you that have been hidden, and making space for who you truly are.
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Robert Jock McCracken
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
Bristol BS8
Do you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or like you don’t quite fit? Perhaps you’re overthinking everything, struggling with anxiety or low mood, or trying to make sense of who you are. You might feel different in ways that are hard to explain, or unsure where you belong. You don’t have to work it out on your own. I offer a warm, confidential space where you can talk openly and be met without judgement. I’ll listen carefully to your experience and support you in making sense of your thoughts and feelings, at a pace that feels right for you. I have particular experience working with transgender clients and those who are neurodivergent, i
Do you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or like you don’t quite fit? Perhaps you’re overthinking everything, struggling with anxiety or low mood, or trying to make sense of who you are. You might feel different in ways that are hard to explain, or unsure where you belong. You don’t have to work it out on your own. I offer a warm, confidential space where you can talk openly and be met without judgement. I’ll listen carefully to your experience and support you in making sense of your thoughts and feelings, at a pace that feels right for you. I have particular experience working with transgender clients and those who are neurodivergent, i
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Kathryn Gaussen
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I’m an experienced Consultant Clinical Psychologist, working in the NHS & independent sector. I work with adults and older adolescents (16years +) to help them manage a wide range of mental health difficulties in order for people to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. I can provide therapy for those for whom it is their first experience of looking for therapy as well for those who have maybe tried various other therapies/avenues previously. l adapt therapy to meet peoples needs, including for people who are neurodivergent. My areas of interest are working with relational difficulties, complex trauma & personality disorder.
I’m an experienced Consultant Clinical Psychologist, working in the NHS & independent sector. I work with adults and older adolescents (16years +) to help them manage a wide range of mental health difficulties in order for people to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. I can provide therapy for those for whom it is their first experience of looking for therapy as well for those who have maybe tried various other therapies/avenues previously. l adapt therapy to meet peoples needs, including for people who are neurodivergent. My areas of interest are working with relational difficulties, complex trauma & personality disorder.
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Ramona Mihaela Scutea
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Online Only
Hi, I am a bilingual (English & Romanian) highly skilled Counselling therapist working with NHS and private practice. My clinical work is informed by a range of treatment models, including Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and reprocessing, Motivational interviewing. I offer an integrative approach, adapting therapy according to each client's unique needs, which allows me to provide the best possible therapeutic experience for my clients
Hi, I am a bilingual (English & Romanian) highly skilled Counselling therapist working with NHS and private practice. My clinical work is informed by a range of treatment models, including Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and reprocessing, Motivational interviewing. I offer an integrative approach, adapting therapy according to each client's unique needs, which allows me to provide the best possible therapeutic experience for my clients
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I have both lived and professional experience of BPD/EUPD, DID, ODD, psychosis, bipolar, and schizophrenia.
Hi, I'm Sarah, a counselling psychotherapist, life coach, experienced mental illness counsellor, couples therapist, young people counsellor, sex/kink/BDSM therapist, and trauma experienced counsellor. I offer my own style of counselling and coaching, which is realistic, open-minded, challenging, and adaptable. I really do care about my clients. I aim to empower them! I offer different perspectives to help clients understand themselves and others. I'm open about my life experiences to help clients feel less alone. I'm neurodivergent. An LGBTQIA member, passionate trans ally, and regularly attend transgender & crossdressing groups.
I have both lived and professional experience of BPD/EUPD, DID, ODD, psychosis, bipolar, and schizophrenia.
Hi, I'm Sarah, a counselling psychotherapist, life coach, experienced mental illness counsellor, couples therapist, young people counsellor, sex/kink/BDSM therapist, and trauma experienced counsellor. I offer my own style of counselling and coaching, which is realistic, open-minded, challenging, and adaptable. I really do care about my clients. I aim to empower them! I offer different perspectives to help clients understand themselves and others. I'm open about my life experiences to help clients feel less alone. I'm neurodivergent. An LGBTQIA member, passionate trans ally, and regularly attend transgender & crossdressing groups.
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Restoring Minds
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Swindon SN1
Overwhelming emotions. Disconnection. Anxiety. Difficult relationships. If any of this feels familiar, therapy can help. I work with adults experiencing a wide range of complex emotional and mental health difficulties, offering a safe, non-judgmental space to understand yourself better and create meaningful change.
Overwhelming emotions. Disconnection. Anxiety. Difficult relationships. If any of this feels familiar, therapy can help. I work with adults experiencing a wide range of complex emotional and mental health difficulties, offering a safe, non-judgmental space to understand yourself better and create meaningful change.
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Gemma Owen Counselling (MBACP) Accred
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I am a Humanistic, trauma informed counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand there are times when life can feel overwhelming and daily life can become more of a struggle. This can often feel isolating and confusing, but it is important to know that you don’t have to go through it alone. My aim is to provide a warm, welcoming and supportive environment in which you feel able to explore your feelings and emotions without fear of judgement. I am able to help with many of life's challenges and have specialist experience of working with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual violence.
I am a Humanistic, trauma informed counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand there are times when life can feel overwhelming and daily life can become more of a struggle. This can often feel isolating and confusing, but it is important to know that you don’t have to go through it alone. My aim is to provide a warm, welcoming and supportive environment in which you feel able to explore your feelings and emotions without fear of judgement. I am able to help with many of life's challenges and have specialist experience of working with survivors of sexual abuse and sexual violence.
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Laura Hall
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Looking for a therapist can be a daunting experience, especially if things are tough for you right now, but you have taken the first step! I have experienced many times, both as a counsellor and personally in therapy, how people begin to feel less burdened and overwhelmed in their life when they feel really heard and accepted without judgement or criticism. I believe that the counselling relationship is a collaborative and dynamic process, and I am always receptive to feedback, as it can shape the dynamic between us. I feel that therapy can be proactive, and not just reactive. I have no expectations on what we speak about.
Looking for a therapist can be a daunting experience, especially if things are tough for you right now, but you have taken the first step! I have experienced many times, both as a counsellor and personally in therapy, how people begin to feel less burdened and overwhelmed in their life when they feel really heard and accepted without judgement or criticism. I believe that the counselling relationship is a collaborative and dynamic process, and I am always receptive to feedback, as it can shape the dynamic between us. I feel that therapy can be proactive, and not just reactive. I have no expectations on what we speak about.
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Ciara White
Psychotherapist, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer short & long term therapy to address low self-esteem, BPD, NPD, couples therapy, anxiety, panic, depression, addictions, stress, PTSD, trauma, OCD, ADHD (assessments & coaching), family issues & other mental health challenges.
Traumatic life events can create sudden, urgent need for support. Equally, therapy can be a planned act of self care, facing barriers to growth and happiness. 19 years practice with young people, adults, families & couples therapy has taught me how everyone has unique experiences and needs. My approach is integrative, tailored to each client. I draw on 7 years academic studies & continuous professional development including psychotherapy, counselling, CBT, DBT, trauma focused therapy, coaching, SFBT and a PgC in Supervision. I am committed to providing a positive, rewarding experience for clients, supervisees and organisations.
I offer short & long term therapy to address low self-esteem, BPD, NPD, couples therapy, anxiety, panic, depression, addictions, stress, PTSD, trauma, OCD, ADHD (assessments & coaching), family issues & other mental health challenges.
Traumatic life events can create sudden, urgent need for support. Equally, therapy can be a planned act of self care, facing barriers to growth and happiness. 19 years practice with young people, adults, families & couples therapy has taught me how everyone has unique experiences and needs. My approach is integrative, tailored to each client. I draw on 7 years academic studies & continuous professional development including psychotherapy, counselling, CBT, DBT, trauma focused therapy, coaching, SFBT and a PgC in Supervision. I am committed to providing a positive, rewarding experience for clients, supervisees and organisations.
07480 534860 View 07480 534860
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Tanya Victoria Chapman
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hello, I am an intergrative therapeutic counsellor; this means I am trained in several modalities, so I can taylor my approach to meet your individual needs. As Carl Jung said, "The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no universal recipe for living." The therapy I offer endaevours to empower you with tools and healthy coping mechanisms to manage your problems in the present, whilst simultaneously exploring the past to aid you with insight and self-knowledge to understand how you got here. I chiefly come from a Mental Health background, working with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and personality disorders.
Hello, I am an intergrative therapeutic counsellor; this means I am trained in several modalities, so I can taylor my approach to meet your individual needs. As Carl Jung said, "The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no universal recipe for living." The therapy I offer endaevours to empower you with tools and healthy coping mechanisms to manage your problems in the present, whilst simultaneously exploring the past to aid you with insight and self-knowledge to understand how you got here. I chiefly come from a Mental Health background, working with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and personality disorders.
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Sarah Jane Leonard
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Bristol BS3
Specialising in Dialectical Behavioural Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder and ADHD.
Importantly flexible where needed to suit the modern living and cost of living by offering weekly, fortnightly, monthly, 6 weekly or AD Hoc sessions depending on what suits you.
Specialising in Dialectical Behavioural Therapy for Borderline Personality Disorder and ADHD.
Importantly flexible where needed to suit the modern living and cost of living by offering weekly, fortnightly, monthly, 6 weekly or AD Hoc sessions depending on what suits you.
0117 325 5728 View 0117 325 5728
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Wayne Walker
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Bristol BS1
The goal of an individual therapy is to inspire change and improve the quality of life through self awareness and self exploration.
The goal of an individual therapy is to inspire change and improve the quality of life through self awareness and self exploration.
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Kathy Garton
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Deep down, you know- it's not love, it’s control. You deserve freedom. You deserve safety. It’s time to name it, feel it, and move the fuck on. If you’re done second-guessing yourself, people-pleasing, and tolerating other people’s bullshit, here’s the truth: you’re not the problem... trauma is. I work online with teens, adults, and couples who are done doubting themselves after toxic, abusive, or narcissistic relationships... whether with a partner, ex, or family member. I also work with couples where past trauma fuels repeated conflict & miscommunication. It’s time to find your voice and start living on your own damn terms.
Deep down, you know- it's not love, it’s control. You deserve freedom. You deserve safety. It’s time to name it, feel it, and move the fuck on. If you’re done second-guessing yourself, people-pleasing, and tolerating other people’s bullshit, here’s the truth: you’re not the problem... trauma is. I work online with teens, adults, and couples who are done doubting themselves after toxic, abusive, or narcissistic relationships... whether with a partner, ex, or family member. I also work with couples where past trauma fuels repeated conflict & miscommunication. It’s time to find your voice and start living on your own damn terms.
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Gregory Hamlin
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
We all have times in our lives when our thoughts and feelings can become overwhelming and we need someone to talk and think with. Sometimes something has happened in life, like a break up or bereavement and other times you might not be sure where these difficult feelings are coming from. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space to discuss anything on your mind, helping you to gain more self-understanding and work through whatever is troubling you.
We all have times in our lives when our thoughts and feelings can become overwhelming and we need someone to talk and think with. Sometimes something has happened in life, like a break up or bereavement and other times you might not be sure where these difficult feelings are coming from. Therapy offers a safe and confidential space to discuss anything on your mind, helping you to gain more self-understanding and work through whatever is troubling you.
020 8106 0865 View 020 8106 0865
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Lyn Halley
Psychologist, MSc, FMBPsS
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
anxiety, panic, stress, low mood, depression, grief, low self-esteem, perfectionism, phobias, BPD, OCD, Bipolar, sleep issues, trauma, suicidal ideation etc.
I'm Lyn, an experienced, integrative Psychological Therapist working in mental health support for 13 years, specialising in evidence based therapies - CBT, Compassion-Focused Therapy & Nature Therapy. Are you a chronic overthinker? Feeling stuck or lost in life? Emotions overwhelming you? Are obsessions & compulsions taking over your life? Need help coping in relationships or overcoming life difficulties? Would you like to find more calm, joy, purpose? I would love to work alongside you, providing support, insights and understanding to allow you to feel better about yourself & your life. You deserve to live with a bit more ease.
anxiety, panic, stress, low mood, depression, grief, low self-esteem, perfectionism, phobias, BPD, OCD, Bipolar, sleep issues, trauma, suicidal ideation etc.
I'm Lyn, an experienced, integrative Psychological Therapist working in mental health support for 13 years, specialising in evidence based therapies - CBT, Compassion-Focused Therapy & Nature Therapy. Are you a chronic overthinker? Feeling stuck or lost in life? Emotions overwhelming you? Are obsessions & compulsions taking over your life? Need help coping in relationships or overcoming life difficulties? Would you like to find more calm, joy, purpose? I would love to work alongside you, providing support, insights and understanding to allow you to feel better about yourself & your life. You deserve to live with a bit more ease.
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Counsellors
What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?
Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?
DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?
The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.