Bereavement Counselling in Bursledon

Cheryl Barnes-Tadman
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I have experienced in working with issues, including Abuse, Anger, Anxiety, Bereavement and Loss, Depression and Low Mood, Health and Life Crises, Low Self Worth, Panic, Relationship Difficulties and Stress.
Hello. I am Cheryl Barnes-Tadman BACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I have been in practice for over twenty five years. I have recently relocated to Netley in Southampton after living in the Isle of Wight for six years. Pre-dating this I managed a successful therapy Centre in Essex. I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
I have experienced in working with issues, including Abuse, Anger, Anxiety, Bereavement and Loss, Depression and Low Mood, Health and Life Crises, Low Self Worth, Panic, Relationship Difficulties and Stress.
Hello. I am Cheryl Barnes-Tadman BACP Accredited Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I have been in practice for over twenty five years. I have recently relocated to Netley in Southampton after living in the Isle of Wight for six years. Pre-dating this I managed a successful therapy Centre in Essex. I also worked for many years in a large GP Practice, as well as accepting referrals from Essex Police, the NHS, Occupational Health Departments, Further Education Organisations, EAP Work Resources, and, private referrals from individuals and couples.
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Jan Gay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours.
I specialise in addictions (alcohol, drugs, food, sex, etc) trauma (including sexual and domestic abuse) and young people from 14. I have substantial experience of working in agencies dealing with drugs, alcohol, abuse, as therapist at a children’s home and specialist school and as a counsellor in a university. I am a qualified supervisor and EMDR therapist.
I can help with a wide range of issues including feeling anxious, depressed, finding it difficult to cope, relationship and family issues, bereavement, being worried or confused about your sexuality or gender, dealing with effects of sexual, mental or physical abuse, lack of confidence, low self esteem, panic attacks, managing anger or frustration, difficulties at school, work or college, OCD, the impact of trauma, coping with change, worries about drinking or drug use, self harm, resolving 'unfinished business’ and compulsive behaviours.
I specialise in addictions (alcohol, drugs, food, sex, etc) trauma (including sexual and domestic abuse) and young people from 14. I have substantial experience of working in agencies dealing with drugs, alcohol, abuse, as therapist at a children’s home and specialist school and as a counsellor in a university. I am a qualified supervisor and EMDR therapist.
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Claire Wain
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with adults, couples and young people experiencing anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties or times when life simply feels difficult to navigate.
I offer a warm, confidential space where you can slow down and talk openly. I'll meet you with warmth, curiosity and without judgement, helping you make sense of what's been happening for you. My hope is that, over time, you feel heard, understood and more connected with yourself.
I work with adults, couples and young people experiencing anxiety, low mood, grief, relationship difficulties or times when life simply feels difficult to navigate.
I offer a warm, confidential space where you can slow down and talk openly. I'll meet you with warmth, curiosity and without judgement, helping you make sense of what's been happening for you. My hope is that, over time, you feel heard, understood and more connected with yourself.
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Alana Sketcher
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, My name is Alana, I am a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor based at Watt Health in Sarisbury Green working with children (10+) and adults. I believe that nothing is more important than the relationship between client and counsellor and therefore my main aim is to offer you a space where you feel comfortable and safe to be able to talk and work through your feelings.
Hello, My name is Alana, I am a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor based at Watt Health in Sarisbury Green working with children (10+) and adults. I believe that nothing is more important than the relationship between client and counsellor and therefore my main aim is to offer you a space where you feel comfortable and safe to be able to talk and work through your feelings.
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Lindsey Whitman
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I work with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, bereavement, loss, trauma, identity shifts, OCD, panic attacks, low self-esteem, perfectionism, loneliness, overwhelm, and life transitions.
The step towards therapy invites change. Welcome. I offer a therapeutic relationship grounded in compassion, respect, and honesty. I work with individuals, relationships, and young people. Locations Hamble and (Winchester-Monday Evenings) and online If you choose to work with me, I aim to be present, authentic, and empathically responsive, supporting a deeper awareness of your thoughts, emotions, and body. My approach is trauma-informed and rooted in a person-centred philosophy that respects your inner guidance, and recognises your experiences and context shape your world, and your perception. That nothing exists in isolation.
I work with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, bereavement, loss, trauma, identity shifts, OCD, panic attacks, low self-esteem, perfectionism, loneliness, overwhelm, and life transitions.
The step towards therapy invites change. Welcome. I offer a therapeutic relationship grounded in compassion, respect, and honesty. I work with individuals, relationships, and young people. Locations Hamble and (Winchester-Monday Evenings) and online If you choose to work with me, I aim to be present, authentic, and empathically responsive, supporting a deeper awareness of your thoughts, emotions, and body. My approach is trauma-informed and rooted in a person-centred philosophy that respects your inner guidance, and recognises your experiences and context shape your world, and your perception. That nothing exists in isolation.
023 8272 0970 View 023 8272 0970
Vicky Drinkwater
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
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Pauline Wallace
Counsellor, MBACP
Gosport PO12
I help people with a wide range of issues including bereavement, any type of loss, depression and anxiety and am also experienced in working with adults with chronic or life-limiting illnesses, their carers and families.
I believe that there is no right or wrong way to grieve any loss and that whilst everything around you may have changed, your life can go on and it is okay to smile and laugh again. My Christian faith informs my practice and any faith or none is welcome.
I help people with a wide range of issues including bereavement, any type of loss, depression and anxiety and am also experienced in working with adults with chronic or life-limiting illnesses, their carers and families.
I believe that there is no right or wrong way to grieve any loss and that whilst everything around you may have changed, your life can go on and it is okay to smile and laugh again. My Christian faith informs my practice and any faith or none is welcome.
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Debbie Earth
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
I’m also a trained Bereavement therapist and use Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Breathing and Mindfulness to help calm anxiety, panic and stress.
•••• FREE 30 min scheduled call •••• I am passionate about counselling and confident it can help change lives for the better. I offer you a warm, sincere and practical helping relationship backed by 15 years of experience and training. If you’re looking for support to help you figure out how to move forward in your life I can help. We all experience times in our lives when we feel less able to cope than usual, times when we may feel alone, confused and even desperate. Most of my clients say they feel some immediate relief even after their first counselling session.
I’m also a trained Bereavement therapist and use Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Breathing and Mindfulness to help calm anxiety, panic and stress.
•••• FREE 30 min scheduled call •••• I am passionate about counselling and confident it can help change lives for the better. I offer you a warm, sincere and practical helping relationship backed by 15 years of experience and training. If you’re looking for support to help you figure out how to move forward in your life I can help. We all experience times in our lives when we feel less able to cope than usual, times when we may feel alone, confused and even desperate. Most of my clients say they feel some immediate relief even after their first counselling session.
07748 961442 View 07748 961442
Vanessa Loubier
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
3 Endorsed
You may come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, struggling with anxiety, grief, autism-related challenges, relationship issues, or caring responsibilities.
I offer Gestalt counselling with an emphasis on the present moment to increase awareness of thoughts, feelings, sensations, and relational dynamics. Using mindfulness, creative approaches, and compassion-oriented strategies, I support clients in exploring their current experiences, identifying patterns, and cultivating genuine and constructive responses.
You may come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, struggling with anxiety, grief, autism-related challenges, relationship issues, or caring responsibilities.
I offer Gestalt counselling with an emphasis on the present moment to increase awareness of thoughts, feelings, sensations, and relational dynamics. Using mindfulness, creative approaches, and compassion-oriented strategies, I support clients in exploring their current experiences, identifying patterns, and cultivating genuine and constructive responses.
023 9431 1219 View 023 9431 1219
Caroline Devereux
Counsellor, MBACP
Ryde PO33
I have further specialized training in Child Abuse,Autism, Bereavement( also Pet Bereavement) Sex Addiction
Working with all ages from 2.5yr to 89yr+including students, family's and couples requires different approaches with each individual. As an Integrative counsellor it enables me to draw on several different therapeutic approaches which I tailor to the needs of each client. I have worked with a very diverse selection of presenting issues.n
I have further specialized training in Child Abuse,Autism, Bereavement( also Pet Bereavement) Sex Addiction
Working with all ages from 2.5yr to 89yr+including students, family's and couples requires different approaches with each individual. As an Integrative counsellor it enables me to draw on several different therapeutic approaches which I tailor to the needs of each client. I have worked with a very diverse selection of presenting issues.n
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Dr Sophie Cripps
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
I am passionate about working alongside individuals, couples and families throughout hard times in life such as in the face of physical illness, significant life changes and transitions, losses, grief, bereavement, mental health struggles and relationship difficulties.
When life gets hard it can help to find someone who feels a bit like an anchor to weather the storms with, to feel emotionally held by, seen and understood. Someone who can support you to understand what you are feeling and why, to help you think about things through other perspectives and relate to yourself with compassion. Together we can try to make sense and meaning out of your experiences, connect with important parts of your identity and find ways of living that honour what is important to you in life.
I am passionate about working alongside individuals, couples and families throughout hard times in life such as in the face of physical illness, significant life changes and transitions, losses, grief, bereavement, mental health struggles and relationship difficulties.
When life gets hard it can help to find someone who feels a bit like an anchor to weather the storms with, to feel emotionally held by, seen and understood. Someone who can support you to understand what you are feeling and why, to help you think about things through other perspectives and relate to yourself with compassion. Together we can try to make sense and meaning out of your experiences, connect with important parts of your identity and find ways of living that honour what is important to you in life.
01702 655498 View 01702 655498
Nicole Biggs
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
My clients range from people with specific issues like grief and relationship breakdown to people who just don't feel right.
Being an Integrative Counsellor I am able to use whichever approach best suits each client with a holistic approach. I provide a safe, friendly person centred space to explore any issue you may wish to discuss. I was a Family Solicitor for almost 20 years, and a Cruse Bereavement Volunteer for 7 years, NLP Practitioner as well as a Mental Health First Aider
My clients range from people with specific issues like grief and relationship breakdown to people who just don't feel right.
Being an Integrative Counsellor I am able to use whichever approach best suits each client with a holistic approach. I provide a safe, friendly person centred space to explore any issue you may wish to discuss. I was a Family Solicitor for almost 20 years, and a Cruse Bereavement Volunteer for 7 years, NLP Practitioner as well as a Mental Health First Aider
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Sarah Louise Tingay
Counsellor, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Feeling anxious, low in confidence, or struggling with work, relationships, or grief can be overwhelming.
I support people through bereavement, addiction, and coping with illness, as well as neurodivergent individuals. I offer tailored strategies and compassionate guidance, helping you gain new perspectives, build resilience, and move forward with confidence in a way that suits you.
Feeling anxious, low in confidence, or struggling with work, relationships, or grief can be overwhelming.
I support people through bereavement, addiction, and coping with illness, as well as neurodivergent individuals. I offer tailored strategies and compassionate guidance, helping you gain new perspectives, build resilience, and move forward with confidence in a way that suits you.
01635 917396 View 01635 917396
Rob Upton
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
Many people I work with describe a feeling of living behind a mask, smiling, coping, keeping up appearances, while privately battling anxiety, low mood, grief, or a sense of disconnection.
Counselling can be a game-changer. Here’s how it helps: Breaks the worry loop - I can help you spot unhelpful thought patterns and learn how to reframe them. Builds coping tools - learn techniques that give you more control when anxiety hits. Boosts confidence - As you build skills and gain insight, you feel more equipped to face challenges.
Many people I work with describe a feeling of living behind a mask, smiling, coping, keeping up appearances, while privately battling anxiety, low mood, grief, or a sense of disconnection.
Counselling can be a game-changer. Here’s how it helps: Breaks the worry loop - I can help you spot unhelpful thought patterns and learn how to reframe them. Builds coping tools - learn techniques that give you more control when anxiety hits. Boosts confidence - As you build skills and gain insight, you feel more equipped to face challenges.
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Jo Sharkey
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I am an accredited, integrative therapeutic counsellor, finding that working in this way, gives uniqueness with each client, connecting in a way that is best suited to them as an individual. I have extensive experience, working with a variety of clients, of all ages.
I am an accredited, integrative therapeutic counsellor, finding that working in this way, gives uniqueness with each client, connecting in a way that is best suited to them as an individual. I have extensive experience, working with a variety of clients, of all ages.
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Lisa Rose Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, carrying grief or loss, working through past trauma, or finding relationships difficult, including the one you have with yourself, I'm here to help you find some clarity and a way forward.
With years of experience, I work in a way that's personal to you by drawing on a range of approaches including body-based (somatic) work, so that what we do together isn't just about talking, but about helping you feel the difference in your everyday life too. You'll leave sessions with practical tools and a better understanding of yourself.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, carrying grief or loss, working through past trauma, or finding relationships difficult, including the one you have with yourself, I'm here to help you find some clarity and a way forward.
With years of experience, I work in a way that's personal to you by drawing on a range of approaches including body-based (somatic) work, so that what we do together isn't just about talking, but about helping you feel the difference in your everyday life too. You'll leave sessions with practical tools and a better understanding of yourself.
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Cindy Burcham
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
I work with a broad range of clients; exploring low self-esteem, addiction, trauma experiences, depression, grief, anxiety, shame, rage or any of the unique, puzzling or unsettling experiences that have brought you here seeking support and understanding.
Much has been written about the healing and transformative experience that comes about when we dare to share our inner world. Part of my work is to offer a warmly respectful, non-judgmental relationship out of which we can work together, at your pace to gain understanding and change.
I work with a broad range of clients; exploring low self-esteem, addiction, trauma experiences, depression, grief, anxiety, shame, rage or any of the unique, puzzling or unsettling experiences that have brought you here seeking support and understanding.
Much has been written about the healing and transformative experience that comes about when we dare to share our inner world. Part of my work is to offer a warmly respectful, non-judgmental relationship out of which we can work together, at your pace to gain understanding and change.
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Philip Rose
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Poole BH12
In today's fast-paced world, people experience many challenges and complex pressures. As a psychotherapist, I offer clients a secure and confidential space to explore their situation and examine the obstacles affecting their happiness and health. I strive to support clients’ emotional and personal growth by creating an open dialogue which encourages curiosity and reflexivity to help them confront their challenges, gain insight into their lives, and move closer to what they hope to achieve through therapy.
In today's fast-paced world, people experience many challenges and complex pressures. As a psychotherapist, I offer clients a secure and confidential space to explore their situation and examine the obstacles affecting their happiness and health. I strive to support clients’ emotional and personal growth by creating an open dialogue which encourages curiosity and reflexivity to help them confront their challenges, gain insight into their lives, and move closer to what they hope to achieve through therapy.
01202 059322 View 01202 059322
Catherine Elizabeth Goss
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
You may be having difficulties in one or more of a wide range, including anger, anxiety, bereavement, depression, divorce and separation, family issues, guilt, loneliness, injury, loss and grief, low self esteem, relationship issues or stress.
I believe that key to the success of the counselling is the relationship between counsellor and client. I have worked successfully with clients who have experienced bereavement, relationship and family difficulties, low self-esteem and disability. I have worked with a number of people with a disability and am keen to welcome other such clients.
You may be having difficulties in one or more of a wide range, including anger, anxiety, bereavement, depression, divorce and separation, family issues, guilt, loneliness, injury, loss and grief, low self esteem, relationship issues or stress.
I believe that key to the success of the counselling is the relationship between counsellor and client. I have worked successfully with clients who have experienced bereavement, relationship and family difficulties, low self-esteem and disability. I have worked with a number of people with a disability and am keen to welcome other such clients.
01243 979710 View 01243 979710
Liam Croucher
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
I have experience working with anxiety, depression, anger, self-esteem, identity, culture & diversity, sexuality, relationships, trauma, ADHD and loss & bereavement.
I believe the therapeutic relationship itself is the vehicle for change so I work to provide a space that is supportive, non-judgmental and appropriately challenging. I will work with you to bring unconscious ideas, feelings & patterns to your attention and examine possible sources of these to help give you more understanding & control of your life.
I have experience working with anxiety, depression, anger, self-esteem, identity, culture & diversity, sexuality, relationships, trauma, ADHD and loss & bereavement.
I believe the therapeutic relationship itself is the vehicle for change so I work to provide a space that is supportive, non-judgmental and appropriately challenging. I will work with you to bring unconscious ideas, feelings & patterns to your attention and examine possible sources of these to help give you more understanding & control of your life.
023 9433 0572 View 023 9433 0572
Bereavement Counsellors
How long does therapy take for grief?
There is no exact timeline for grief counseling. Some people may start to feel better after just a few sessions, while others may take months or longer to feel relief. Some specific approaches, including some types of CBT, may involve a set number of sessions, or therapy may be open-ended until the patient determines they are ready to wrap up. Just as there is no right or wrong way to grieve, there is no right or wrong way to seek therapy for grief.

When should you seek therapy for grief?
Many people mistakenly believe that their grief needs to be debilitating or all-encompassing to warrant therapy. This is not the case. While people who experience severe, prolonged grief—particularly those who are considering self-harm or engaging in unhealthy substance use—are especially likely to benefit from therapy, so too are people whose grief is less intense but still interfering with well-being or daily functioning. In practice, almost anyone struggling to process a loss could benefit from grief counseling.

Can grief be managed without therapy?
Oftentimes, yes. Grief is a near-universal part of being human, and many find that their grief, while profound, does not stop them from participating in day-to-day life and steadily eases over time without outside help. For others, however, the harsh pain of early grief persists for months or years or leaves them unable to function. This group is especially likely to benefit from seeing a therapist, who can guide them through their grief and help them reconnect with the world.

What happens if grief is left untreated?
Because grief does not in itself necessitate therapy, untreated grief will often resolve on its own. However, for some people—particularly those who would qualify for a diagnosis of prolonged grief disorder—untreated grief can be a source of seemingly endless pain or lead them to withdraw from the world. In such cases, treatment can be indispensable, as it can help an individual adapt to the loss and start living again.