Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Burnley

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kbg counselling services
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Burnley BB11
Are you a member of the LGBTQI+ community? Are you exploring the transition process? Coming out to loved ones? Experiencing hatred, social stigma or body dysmorphia? Struggling to understand your identity, pronouns or where you 'fit'? Are you navigating your unique relationship and setting boundaries? Counselling can help you to explore your thoughts on these matters. For men to reach out and express how they feel is often very hard, they fear stigma, worry of being judged and feeling of not being 'like a man' you are not alone in these feelings and counselling can offer that safe space to express your feelings without judgement
Are you a member of the LGBTQI+ community? Are you exploring the transition process? Coming out to loved ones? Experiencing hatred, social stigma or body dysmorphia? Struggling to understand your identity, pronouns or where you 'fit'? Are you navigating your unique relationship and setting boundaries? Counselling can help you to explore your thoughts on these matters. For men to reach out and express how they feel is often very hard, they fear stigma, worry of being judged and feeling of not being 'like a man' you are not alone in these feelings and counselling can offer that safe space to express your feelings without judgement
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Jay Hellings
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
Serves Area
Hello. I'm Jay, a Gestalt therapist in advanced training. If you are experiencing low mood, anxiety, struggling with relationships, or wish life was more satisfying than it is right now, then I would like to meet you. Since 2021, I have worked with adults who sought help through Manchester Mind, LGBT Foundation, Noah’s Ark Centre in Halifax, and in my private practice. Previously based in Manchester and now in West Yorkshire, the people I’ve worked with have been diverse in age, nationality, ethnicity, identity, work status, type of work, state of health and neurotype. I'd like to work with you too.
Hello. I'm Jay, a Gestalt therapist in advanced training. If you are experiencing low mood, anxiety, struggling with relationships, or wish life was more satisfying than it is right now, then I would like to meet you. Since 2021, I have worked with adults who sought help through Manchester Mind, LGBT Foundation, Noah’s Ark Centre in Halifax, and in my private practice. Previously based in Manchester and now in West Yorkshire, the people I’ve worked with have been diverse in age, nationality, ethnicity, identity, work status, type of work, state of health and neurotype. I'd like to work with you too.
01706 615027 View 01706 615027
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Sarah Bennett
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
My name is Sarah , I hold Accredited Registrant membership of The National Counselling Society . I am able to support adults and teenage/adolescent clients from the age of 11 . I am qualified and experienced to support clients in a range of issues such as: Depression Bereavement Relationships Counselling Loss Divorce Anger Negative Thinking Intrusive Thoughts Loneliness Eating Disorders Issues with Food, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Anxiety Management, Alcohol, Smoking and more
My name is Sarah , I hold Accredited Registrant membership of The National Counselling Society . I am able to support adults and teenage/adolescent clients from the age of 11 . I am qualified and experienced to support clients in a range of issues such as: Depression Bereavement Relationships Counselling Loss Divorce Anger Negative Thinking Intrusive Thoughts Loneliness Eating Disorders Issues with Food, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Anxiety Management, Alcohol, Smoking and more
01270 444996 View 01270 444996
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Sarah Fay Taylor
Counsellor, MSc, PNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I support individuals through a variety of life changes, challenges or transitions; including health or disability, sexuality or intimacy, relationships & relational trauma/distress, grief or loss and bereavement. Life's changes can affect multiple aspects of our lives and experiences; this can be overwhelming. I provide a warm, accepting space for you to bring all of yourself, including the hidden/uncomfortable parts. I often work with those who feel a tension between what the outside world expects of them, and their true, natural way of being. I frequently work with LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent or highly sensitive individuals.
I support individuals through a variety of life changes, challenges or transitions; including health or disability, sexuality or intimacy, relationships & relational trauma/distress, grief or loss and bereavement. Life's changes can affect multiple aspects of our lives and experiences; this can be overwhelming. I provide a warm, accepting space for you to bring all of yourself, including the hidden/uncomfortable parts. I often work with those who feel a tension between what the outside world expects of them, and their true, natural way of being. I frequently work with LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent or highly sensitive individuals.
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Anna Daly
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Finding the right therapist for you is crucial in order for therapy to be effective and to help you make lasting changes. I offer a free initial assessment. Affordable prices. I work in a broad way. I believe humour is essential in therapy & is often the thing that keeps us going through the darkness. I provide a safe space, in a non-judgemental environment, where people have the freedom to explore themselves. I am warm and I work at my client's pace in a gentle manner. I am an integrative counsellor and use a variety of theoretical models. This collaborative approach enables me to work in a way that suits each individual client.
Finding the right therapist for you is crucial in order for therapy to be effective and to help you make lasting changes. I offer a free initial assessment. Affordable prices. I work in a broad way. I believe humour is essential in therapy & is often the thing that keeps us going through the darkness. I provide a safe space, in a non-judgemental environment, where people have the freedom to explore themselves. I am warm and I work at my client's pace in a gentle manner. I am an integrative counsellor and use a variety of theoretical models. This collaborative approach enables me to work in a way that suits each individual client.
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Dr Nate Speare
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Hello, I'm Dr Nate Speare (he/him), a Queer UKCP-registered psychotherapist offering online psychotherapy across the UK. I have particular experience working with LGBTQIA+ clients, Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), intimacy and relationship concerns, sexual health and HIV, and the impact of early relationships and attachment. I work with adults experiencing a wide range of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, trauma, identity concerns, shame, disconnection, and feeling stuck in recurring patterns. Together, we can begin to understand not only your current difficulties, but also what may lie beneath them.
Hello, I'm Dr Nate Speare (he/him), a Queer UKCP-registered psychotherapist offering online psychotherapy across the UK. I have particular experience working with LGBTQIA+ clients, Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), intimacy and relationship concerns, sexual health and HIV, and the impact of early relationships and attachment. I work with adults experiencing a wide range of difficulties, including anxiety, depression, trauma, identity concerns, shame, disconnection, and feeling stuck in recurring patterns. Together, we can begin to understand not only your current difficulties, but also what may lie beneath them.
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Emma Hacking
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Much of my practice is working with folks in the LGBTQIA, psychedelic, activist, kink, neurodiverse and/or polyamory communities.
Counselling with me offers a space of radical acceptance to explore your beliefs, your experiences of the world, and who you are. Together, we will co-create a space to experiment with new ways of being. Or a place to integrate or challenge yourself. Or simply some time and space to be heard, and get curious about the meaning of your life (past, present, future). I work with a wide range of people and you are welcome to get in touch if my profile resonates with you. Often, I work with activists, the LGBTQIA+ community, kinky people, poly people, neurodiverse people, outsiders and edge-walkers (and more).
Much of my practice is working with folks in the LGBTQIA, psychedelic, activist, kink, neurodiverse and/or polyamory communities.
Counselling with me offers a space of radical acceptance to explore your beliefs, your experiences of the world, and who you are. Together, we will co-create a space to experiment with new ways of being. Or a place to integrate or challenge yourself. Or simply some time and space to be heard, and get curious about the meaning of your life (past, present, future). I work with a wide range of people and you are welcome to get in touch if my profile resonates with you. Often, I work with activists, the LGBTQIA+ community, kinky people, poly people, neurodiverse people, outsiders and edge-walkers (and more).
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Carrie (Cat) Thompson
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
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The Lavender Therapy Collective
Verified Verified
Online Only
Welcome! I’m Tasha, I’m an experienced therapist of over 10 years with a background in mental health nursing. I offer a non judgmental, informed therapy space for all. Embarking on therapy can be overwhelming and I strongly believe everybody should have access to therapy in the most meaningful way and this starts with being understood in the therapy room. I aim to provide an understanding space for you to work towards your goals and feel like the best version of yourself. I work with a wide range of difficulties. Please feel free to get in touch for a free initial consultation.
Welcome! I’m Tasha, I’m an experienced therapist of over 10 years with a background in mental health nursing. I offer a non judgmental, informed therapy space for all. Embarking on therapy can be overwhelming and I strongly believe everybody should have access to therapy in the most meaningful way and this starts with being understood in the therapy room. I aim to provide an understanding space for you to work towards your goals and feel like the best version of yourself. I work with a wide range of difficulties. Please feel free to get in touch for a free initial consultation.
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Rebecca Fox
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. Here, you are welcome and accepted.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. Here, you are welcome and accepted.
0161 524 6947 View 0161 524 6947
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Sex Therapist - Chloe Jones
Counsellor, COSRT Reg.
Online Only
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
I work with people that have barriers to a fulfilling sex life. This can include conditions such as erectile dysfunction, premature/delayed ejaculation, low desire, pain during penetration and difficulty achieving orgasm.
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Kayleigh Fletcher
Counsellor, BACP
Bingley BD16
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
What I offer: Trauma & Sexual Abuse Men’s Mental Health Anxiety & Depression Anger & Emotional Regulation LGBTQ+ Support & Kink-Aware Counselling Relationships & Family Challenges Self-Esteem & Confidence Mindfulness & Coping Strategies Youth & Knife Crime Support Rehabilitation & Probation Support
I support people from all walks of life who may be struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, or low self-esteem. Many seek a safe, non-judgemental space to talk, explore emotions, and find healthier ways forward. While my practice is open to everyone, I have a specialist focus on men’s mental health, offering a space where men can speak freely about pressures, identity, or past experiences. Together, we work towards greater clarity, resilience, and confidence in life.
01535 286995 View 01535 286995
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Kaitlyn Hillier
Psychologist, PhD, CPsychol
Online Only
I offer a non‑judgmental, anti‑oppressive space and have extensive experience with LGBTQIA+ clients, kink, and alternative sexual lifestyles.
I specialize in psychodynamic and relational therapy, using TLDP and humanistic approaches to explore the patterns shaping identity, intimacy, and sexuality. I offer a sex-positive, affirming, anti‑oppressive space that values individuality, equality, and personal freedom, supporting insight, emotional depth, and lasting change.
I offer a non‑judgmental, anti‑oppressive space and have extensive experience with LGBTQIA+ clients, kink, and alternative sexual lifestyles.
I specialize in psychodynamic and relational therapy, using TLDP and humanistic approaches to explore the patterns shaping identity, intimacy, and sexuality. I offer a sex-positive, affirming, anti‑oppressive space that values individuality, equality, and personal freedom, supporting insight, emotional depth, and lasting change.
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Lou Goodwin
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Leeds LS12
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in collaboration. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
I am a therapist specialising in kink-aware and sex-positive support for individuals, couples, and those in open or polyamorous relationships.
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in collaboration. I provide a secure space for exploration, questioning, and rebuilding, while working with you to identify and clarify your values.
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Romario Wanliss
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Working with myself, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
Working with myself, we will explore the most important relationship you will ever have, the one with yourself.
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Paula Straube Therapy
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I focus on GSRD, including queer, kink/BDSM and non-monogamy, as well as neurodivergent clients, couples and polycules.
The therapy I offer is typically longer-term, often lasting from six months to three years or more. With individuals, I usually work weekly, and with therapeutic systems such as couples, throuples or polycules, I work on a fortnightly basis.
I focus on GSRD, including queer, kink/BDSM and non-monogamy, as well as neurodivergent clients, couples and polycules.
The therapy I offer is typically longer-term, often lasting from six months to three years or more. With individuals, I usually work weekly, and with therapeutic systems such as couples, throuples or polycules, I work on a fortnightly basis.
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Darren Good
Psychotherapist, MBACP
What might be possible if you accepted every part of yourself, even those you hide from the world? Modern life can be challenging, with its demands, expectations and technology, but self-discovery can lead to learning, growth and a greater sense of ease. I can be your calm companion as you explore the areas of life that need attention, helping you connect with others and feel more belonging. My approach is person-centred and acknowledges how childhood experiences shape our adulthood, so that therapy will partly involve coming to terms with the past and how it affects the present.
What might be possible if you accepted every part of yourself, even those you hide from the world? Modern life can be challenging, with its demands, expectations and technology, but self-discovery can lead to learning, growth and a greater sense of ease. I can be your calm companion as you explore the areas of life that need attention, helping you connect with others and feel more belonging. My approach is person-centred and acknowledges how childhood experiences shape our adulthood, so that therapy will partly involve coming to terms with the past and how it affects the present.
0161 524 3376 View 0161 524 3376
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Sharon Doherty - TherapyHear
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Preston PR2
Looking for therapy that feels right for you? I offer expert, compassionate support for just £45 a session, making quality therapy affordable without compromising care. I use a mixture of approaches, talking, coping skills and solution focussed. I create a supportive and enjoyable place for you to be yourself. I have over 30 years experience in the health field and in the last 5 years as a therapist. I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, relationships and trauma and I acknowledge the impacts these can have on everyday life. I'd like to hear about your hopes and goals for therapy and how I can be helpful along the way.
Looking for therapy that feels right for you? I offer expert, compassionate support for just £45 a session, making quality therapy affordable without compromising care. I use a mixture of approaches, talking, coping skills and solution focussed. I create a supportive and enjoyable place for you to be yourself. I have over 30 years experience in the health field and in the last 5 years as a therapist. I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, relationships and trauma and I acknowledge the impacts these can have on everyday life. I'd like to hear about your hopes and goals for therapy and how I can be helpful along the way.
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Naeem Akhtar
Counsellor, BACP
Rochdale OL12
Counselling offers a space to talk about the issues in your life and there are many reasons for coming. Talking things through with a supportive and non-judgemental therapist can help you gain clarity and make sense out of where you currently find yourself. This in itself can provide some relief and open up the potential for positive change. Whether you are having difficulties at work, have anxiety or depression, have had a major life event/trauma, an addiction, experienced loss, or just need to make sense of your current situation I can offer you a warm, confidential and welcoming space where you feel safe, respected and supported.
Counselling offers a space to talk about the issues in your life and there are many reasons for coming. Talking things through with a supportive and non-judgemental therapist can help you gain clarity and make sense out of where you currently find yourself. This in itself can provide some relief and open up the potential for positive change. Whether you are having difficulties at work, have anxiety or depression, have had a major life event/trauma, an addiction, experienced loss, or just need to make sense of your current situation I can offer you a warm, confidential and welcoming space where you feel safe, respected and supported.
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Tayler Remi
Psychotherapist, MBACP
The right therapist changes everything. Finding them shouldn't be this hard. Maybe you've spent years feeling too much, not enough, or like you're disappearing inside your own life. Or maybe you've tried therapy before and left feeling more pathologised than understood. At Common Ground, you don't have to explain yourself from scratch or make yourself smaller to fit the room. We're a specialist neurodivergent-affirming and trauma-informed practice — and we get it from the inside.
The right therapist changes everything. Finding them shouldn't be this hard. Maybe you've spent years feeling too much, not enough, or like you're disappearing inside your own life. Or maybe you've tried therapy before and left feeling more pathologised than understood. At Common Ground, you don't have to explain yourself from scratch or make yourself smaller to fit the room. We're a specialist neurodivergent-affirming and trauma-informed practice — and we get it from the inside.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.