Infidelity Counselling in Buckhurst Hill

Photo of Fleur Hocking, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Fleur Hocking
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buckhurst Hill IG9
I work with couples to overcome communication breakdown, infidelity, intimacy issues, parenting problems, life stage issues.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
I work with couples to overcome communication breakdown, infidelity, intimacy issues, parenting problems, life stage issues.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
07400 349407 View 07400 349407
Photo of Talking Therapy Time, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Talking Therapy Time
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Whatever the difficulty, dilemma, challenge or sorrow; you already took the first step towards healing and change by finding your way here. Counselling can help to process, make sense of and move past your struggles in a meaningful and empowering way. My way of working involves building on the therapeutic relationship and trust with you, in aim to sensitively navigate through the labyrinth of experiences in your life and mind. I facilitate a non-judgmental environment to explore and validate your thoughts, feelings and emotions, and cultivate self-development/awareness towards the values that are in line with authentic self.
Whatever the difficulty, dilemma, challenge or sorrow; you already took the first step towards healing and change by finding your way here. Counselling can help to process, make sense of and move past your struggles in a meaningful and empowering way. My way of working involves building on the therapeutic relationship and trust with you, in aim to sensitively navigate through the labyrinth of experiences in your life and mind. I facilitate a non-judgmental environment to explore and validate your thoughts, feelings and emotions, and cultivate self-development/awareness towards the values that are in line with authentic self.
020 3835 2686 View 020 3835 2686
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Patsy Florent
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Do you want to be more present, authentic, and connected in your relationships? Are You Worrying that you're messing up your relationships? Noticing that your relationships elicit surprisingly strong feelings? Struggling with low self-esteem or feeling 'not enough? Coping with being overwhelmed by engaging in unhelpful behaviours? Feeling that you've tried everything; worried that nothing will work? You might think that you just have to learn to communicate better or be less 'this way and more that way'. You convince yourself that you should be able to stay connected by sheer will and behavior change. That's not how it Works...
Do you want to be more present, authentic, and connected in your relationships? Are You Worrying that you're messing up your relationships? Noticing that your relationships elicit surprisingly strong feelings? Struggling with low self-esteem or feeling 'not enough? Coping with being overwhelmed by engaging in unhelpful behaviours? Feeling that you've tried everything; worried that nothing will work? You might think that you just have to learn to communicate better or be less 'this way and more that way'. You convince yourself that you should be able to stay connected by sheer will and behavior change. That's not how it Works...
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Photo of Hayley Phillips, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Hayley Phillips
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buckhurst Hill IG9
It may be daunting for you to consider the first steps of counselling, but my aim is to help you to feel safe enough to talk openly about things you might find difficult and to provide a non-judgmental, safe and confidential place to start your journey. I can help you to clarify your thoughts, feelings & emotions so you may be better equipped to make more conscious choices that can improve the quality of your life and well-being. Whether it's addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma or self-esteem, my goal is to empower clients to develop effective coping strategies and build resilience.
It may be daunting for you to consider the first steps of counselling, but my aim is to help you to feel safe enough to talk openly about things you might find difficult and to provide a non-judgmental, safe and confidential place to start your journey. I can help you to clarify your thoughts, feelings & emotions so you may be better equipped to make more conscious choices that can improve the quality of your life and well-being. Whether it's addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma or self-esteem, my goal is to empower clients to develop effective coping strategies and build resilience.
020 3835 4768 View 020 3835 4768
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Julia Ellingham
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults and children.
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults and children.
07411 293719 View 07411 293719
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Clive Eaton Brown
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Our lives begin like a ball of wool , as the wool reels out so do our lives. We hope to reel out this wool to the end without encountering any major complications, or none that we cannot deal with ourselves. However, life doesn’t always turn out the way we plan. Sometimes life throws us a curveball, the wool gets twisted or knotted. Sometimes the reel gets too heavy for us to carry.Many of us can correct these temporary setbacks ourselves when they accrue, however there are times when we become overwhelmed with these curveballs and need a helping hand. "Reach out to someone who identifies with your situations, Urise Counseling"
Our lives begin like a ball of wool , as the wool reels out so do our lives. We hope to reel out this wool to the end without encountering any major complications, or none that we cannot deal with ourselves. However, life doesn’t always turn out the way we plan. Sometimes life throws us a curveball, the wool gets twisted or knotted. Sometimes the reel gets too heavy for us to carry.Many of us can correct these temporary setbacks ourselves when they accrue, however there are times when we become overwhelmed with these curveballs and need a helping hand. "Reach out to someone who identifies with your situations, Urise Counseling"
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Photo of Abigail Louise Andrews, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Abigail Louise Andrews
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse and other issues. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse and other issues. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
07403 935119 View 07403 935119
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Counselling with Louise
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Thank you for looking at my page and a warm welcome to you.  Do you want someone to talk to who listens? Do you feel life is challenging or are you feeling anxious, sad, stressed, angry or maybe you feel like you're not coping with life and not sure why? I am a person-centered counsellor who will provide you with a safe space where we can explore your thoughts, feelings, concerns and any anxieties together at your own pace.   I offer short and long term counselling. I am available during the day, evening and weekends.  I work face to face in Buckhurst Hill, Barkingside and Harold Wood or online via Zoom or on the telephone.
Thank you for looking at my page and a warm welcome to you.  Do you want someone to talk to who listens? Do you feel life is challenging or are you feeling anxious, sad, stressed, angry or maybe you feel like you're not coping with life and not sure why? I am a person-centered counsellor who will provide you with a safe space where we can explore your thoughts, feelings, concerns and any anxieties together at your own pace.   I offer short and long term counselling. I am available during the day, evening and weekends.  I work face to face in Buckhurst Hill, Barkingside and Harold Wood or online via Zoom or on the telephone.
01708 987784 View 01708 987784
Photo of Natasha McEwen, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Natasha McEwen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
We’re naturally resilient, but it’s very hard to see ourselves sometimes when we’re stuck. Having another person to bounce things off of is freeing- it’s healing. So what does therapy look like? It’s usually a process of being heard, seen and cared about.  My role is in helping you tap into your own inner resources to find the answers that are right for you. I am a qualified Therapeutic Counsellor offering long and short-term work with adults. Counselling is a place where you can speak freely; you will also find humour, compassion and acceptance.
We’re naturally resilient, but it’s very hard to see ourselves sometimes when we’re stuck. Having another person to bounce things off of is freeing- it’s healing. So what does therapy look like? It’s usually a process of being heard, seen and cared about.  My role is in helping you tap into your own inner resources to find the answers that are right for you. I am a qualified Therapeutic Counsellor offering long and short-term work with adults. Counselling is a place where you can speak freely; you will also find humour, compassion and acceptance.
07727 729326 View 07727 729326
Photo of Dr Brittni Jones, Psychologist in Buckhurst Hill, England
Dr Brittni Jones
Psychologist, CPsychol
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
I am a Chartered Psychologist, Doctor of Clinical Psychology, and therapist with over 10 years experience in mental health services. With previous NHS experience in a specialist hospital for adults with personality disorders, as well as at Great Ormond Street Hospital and psychotherapy services for adolescents and adults with mental and physical health conditions, I have the knowledge and professional experience to help with a wide variety of difficulties. I offer specialist assessments and therapy for children, adolescents, and adults.
I am a Chartered Psychologist, Doctor of Clinical Psychology, and therapist with over 10 years experience in mental health services. With previous NHS experience in a specialist hospital for adults with personality disorders, as well as at Great Ormond Street Hospital and psychotherapy services for adolescents and adults with mental and physical health conditions, I have the knowledge and professional experience to help with a wide variety of difficulties. I offer specialist assessments and therapy for children, adolescents, and adults.
020 3872 2631 View 020 3872 2631
Photo of NOW Therapy | Angela DePastino, Psychotherapist in Buckhurst Hill, England
NOW Therapy | Angela DePastino
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
020 4538 5734 View 020 4538 5734
Photo of Gill Ryan, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Gill Ryan
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
I understand that undertaking Counselling can be daunting - uncovering difficult feelings can be overwhelming and painful. I strongly believe that every person should have the opportunity to live their best possible life and realise their true potential. This leads to improved relationships and a happier, more fulfilled life.
I understand that undertaking Counselling can be daunting - uncovering difficult feelings can be overwhelming and painful. I strongly believe that every person should have the opportunity to live their best possible life and realise their true potential. This leads to improved relationships and a happier, more fulfilled life.
07427 569070 View 07427 569070
Photo of BG Counselling and Psychotherapy, Psychotherapist in Buckhurst Hill, England
BG Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Hello, all are welcome. Anxiety, stress, depression and anger can creep up on us or appear quite suddenly. Sometimes life just gets too hard and we cannot cope. You may not even know why you feel the way you do, even so, talking with someone impartial can really help. I believe that mental health is no different to physical health in that systems can become unbalanced and give us problems. Support from a Counsellor can help to rebalance your mind. You may feel unsure but I encourage you to come and meet me, then see how you feel.
Hello, all are welcome. Anxiety, stress, depression and anger can creep up on us or appear quite suddenly. Sometimes life just gets too hard and we cannot cope. You may not even know why you feel the way you do, even so, talking with someone impartial can really help. I believe that mental health is no different to physical health in that systems can become unbalanced and give us problems. Support from a Counsellor can help to rebalance your mind. You may feel unsure but I encourage you to come and meet me, then see how you feel.
07723 491485 View 07723 491485
Photo of Maryane Mwaniki, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Maryane Mwaniki
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9  (Online Only)
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach, registered with the BACP and ACC. I have 10 years+ experience working with individuals and couples. Whether you are feeling stuck, experiencing challenges, anxiety, stress, or depression, I can offer support. As a Counsellor and Coach, I work with individuals to process difficult feelings and experiences and identify a positive way forward. Through couple counselling and coaching support couples to assess and evaluate the quality of their relationship, manage conflicts, develop skills for a successful future together, and increase trust and intimacy.
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach, registered with the BACP and ACC. I have 10 years+ experience working with individuals and couples. Whether you are feeling stuck, experiencing challenges, anxiety, stress, or depression, I can offer support. As a Counsellor and Coach, I work with individuals to process difficult feelings and experiences and identify a positive way forward. Through couple counselling and coaching support couples to assess and evaluate the quality of their relationship, manage conflicts, develop skills for a successful future together, and increase trust and intimacy.
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Belinda Evans
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
It is not an easy decision to come to therapy and seek help, so I appreciate that this may be a big step for you. I am experienced in supporting people with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement , divorce, and trauma. I have specialist training in supporting people experiencing loss, complicated grief and traumatic bereavement, I welcome anyone regardless of whatever you may be experiencing and regardless of age, gender, race, sexual orientation, religion or culture,
It is not an easy decision to come to therapy and seek help, so I appreciate that this may be a big step for you. I am experienced in supporting people with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, bereavement , divorce, and trauma. I have specialist training in supporting people experiencing loss, complicated grief and traumatic bereavement, I welcome anyone regardless of whatever you may be experiencing and regardless of age, gender, race, sexual orientation, religion or culture,
020 7123 8559 View 020 7123 8559
Photo of Anthony Mack Therapy, Psychotherapist in Buckhurst Hill, England
Anthony Mack Therapy
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buckhurst Hill IG9
I am an integrative psychotherapist With qualifications in psychodynamic psychoanalytic counselling. C.B.T EMDR and also a senior qualified accredited hypnotherapist . MY practice is easily reached only a few minutes from south woodford station ( central line ) i offer evening and afternoon appointments i also offer a full range of remote online appointments
I am an integrative psychotherapist With qualifications in psychodynamic psychoanalytic counselling. C.B.T EMDR and also a senior qualified accredited hypnotherapist . MY practice is easily reached only a few minutes from south woodford station ( central line ) i offer evening and afternoon appointments i also offer a full range of remote online appointments
020 3879 4781 View 020 3879 4781
Photo of Adele Sannie-Lamptey, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Adele Sannie-Lamptey
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Buckhurst Hill IG9
Hi, my name's Adele, I'm an Integrative Counsellor with 5 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you. Is a current situation challenging you, or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance?
Hi, my name's Adele, I'm an Integrative Counsellor with 5 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you. Is a current situation challenging you, or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance?
020 8016 3730 View 020 8016 3730

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Photo of Essexcounsellingservices, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Essexcounsellingservices
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Loughton IG10
I have worked with many couples on the issues of affairs, lack of intimacy and communication breakdown.
You have taken the first steps in moving forward by visiting this page. It is not an easy task to seek help, you show courage, through your recognition of needing counselling . I am a fully qualified counsellor and a member of British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).
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Photo of Jonathan Humphreys, Counsellor in Buckhurst Hill, England
Jonathan Humphreys
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London E4
I specialise in helping clients who feel stuck - in a way of being, a pattern of behaviour, a situation or with feelings they don't fully understand. I am a humanistic counsellor. Put simply, this means I work with you in a personalised, open and collaborative way, engaging deeply with your internal world. I pay close attention to what you want and help you understand, and perhaps change your relationship with, some of the obstacles that stand in your way.
I specialise in helping clients who feel stuck - in a way of being, a pattern of behaviour, a situation or with feelings they don't fully understand. I am a humanistic counsellor. Put simply, this means I work with you in a personalised, open and collaborative way, engaging deeply with your internal world. I pay close attention to what you want and help you understand, and perhaps change your relationship with, some of the obstacles that stand in your way.
020 3763 1726 View 020 3763 1726
Photo of Ruveena Birdi, Psychotherapist in Buckhurst Hill, England
Ruveena Birdi
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ilford IG6
I am a passionate and experienced integrative counsellor/psychotherapist which means I draw on different therapies to tailor to each unique client I work with. My masters focused on the Psychodynamic approach whereby we try and understand how our past has an impact on our present lives, focusing on attachment/relationships. With my years of experience within the NHS, I work adopting a cognitive behaviour approach (CBT) and a dialectal behaviour approach (DBT) where the focus is providing practical coping skills to help with a clients difficulties. I work with both adults and children.
I am a passionate and experienced integrative counsellor/psychotherapist which means I draw on different therapies to tailor to each unique client I work with. My masters focused on the Psychodynamic approach whereby we try and understand how our past has an impact on our present lives, focusing on attachment/relationships. With my years of experience within the NHS, I work adopting a cognitive behaviour approach (CBT) and a dialectal behaviour approach (DBT) where the focus is providing practical coping skills to help with a clients difficulties. I work with both adults and children.
020 8016 3627 View 020 8016 3627

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.