Infidelity Counselling in Buckhurst Hill

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Abigail Louise Andrews
Counsellor, MBACP
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse, ADHD and autism. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
Confidential, warm and friendly. I work with those experiencing anxiety, depression, stress, the effects of abuse, ADHD and autism. My aim is to help support clients in bringing back the happiness, confidence, normality and strength to their lives. I operate my private practice in Buckhurst Hill, offering both individual, couples and family counselling. Using the person centred approach I aim to build rapport with my clients and empathise with them using a compassionate and nurturing style.
07403 935119 View 07403 935119
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Patsy Florent
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Do you want to be more present, authentic, and connected in your relationships? Are You Worrying that you're messing up your relationships? Noticing that your relationships elicit surprisingly strong feelings? Struggling with low self-esteem or feeling 'not enough? Coping with being overwhelmed by engaging in unhelpful behaviours? Feeling that you've tried everything; worried that nothing will work? You might think that you just have to learn to communicate better or be less 'this way and more that way'. You convince yourself that you should be able to stay connected by sheer will and behavior change. That's not how it Works...
Do you want to be more present, authentic, and connected in your relationships? Are You Worrying that you're messing up your relationships? Noticing that your relationships elicit surprisingly strong feelings? Struggling with low self-esteem or feeling 'not enough? Coping with being overwhelmed by engaging in unhelpful behaviours? Feeling that you've tried everything; worried that nothing will work? You might think that you just have to learn to communicate better or be less 'this way and more that way'. You convince yourself that you should be able to stay connected by sheer will and behavior change. That's not how it Works...
07480 487631 View 07480 487631
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Kate Lewis
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Welcome! I am glad you are here. I offer online and in-person sessions in Chelmsford and Buckhurst Hill. Anxiety can be debilitating for the body! I specialise in understanding how anxiety shows up physically. With over 15 years of experience working with the body, my background as a Sports Therapist and Clinical Pilates teacher has given me a deep understanding of anatomy, physiology, and movement mechanics. I’ve supported clients experiencing back, neck and shoulder pain, hip pain, Fibromyalgia, and Scoliosis, experiences I now integrate into my work as a Counsellor and Psychotherapist.
Welcome! I am glad you are here. I offer online and in-person sessions in Chelmsford and Buckhurst Hill. Anxiety can be debilitating for the body! I specialise in understanding how anxiety shows up physically. With over 15 years of experience working with the body, my background as a Sports Therapist and Clinical Pilates teacher has given me a deep understanding of anatomy, physiology, and movement mechanics. I’ve supported clients experiencing back, neck and shoulder pain, hip pain, Fibromyalgia, and Scoliosis, experiences I now integrate into my work as a Counsellor and Psychotherapist.
01707 954077 View 01707 954077
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Bola Shonubi
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
I have over twenty years experience supporting individuals and couples through periods of emotional difficulty and personal challenges. I am based in Essex/London and treat individuals both in person and from all over UK and internationally, online. Many of the people I work with are high achieving professionals, executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, individuals navigating the emotional impact of success, responsibility and identity. Individuals who appear successful on the outside but are struggling with anxiety, depression, relentless low mood, burnout, relationship difficulties, trauma, loss, or a sense of feeling stuck.
I have over twenty years experience supporting individuals and couples through periods of emotional difficulty and personal challenges. I am based in Essex/London and treat individuals both in person and from all over UK and internationally, online. Many of the people I work with are high achieving professionals, executives, entrepreneurs, creatives, individuals navigating the emotional impact of success, responsibility and identity. Individuals who appear successful on the outside but are struggling with anxiety, depression, relentless low mood, burnout, relationship difficulties, trauma, loss, or a sense of feeling stuck.
07492 882406 View 07492 882406
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Clive Eaton Brown
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming — whether it’s anxiety, low mood, family conflict, or the pain of loss. You may feel stuck in cycles of worry, struggling to cope, or disconnected in your relationships. I offer a warm and confidential space where you can be truly heard, without judgment. Together, we will work to restore balance, build resilience, and support you in creating a clearer path forward, one step at a time."
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming — whether it’s anxiety, low mood, family conflict, or the pain of loss. You may feel stuck in cycles of worry, struggling to cope, or disconnected in your relationships. I offer a warm and confidential space where you can be truly heard, without judgment. Together, we will work to restore balance, build resilience, and support you in creating a clearer path forward, one step at a time."
01992 927301 View 01992 927301
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Julia Ellingham
Counsellor, BACP
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults, young people and children.
We hear so much about the benefits of looking after our physical health but often forget our mental health is just as important. In the fast paced, stressful world we live in today, we face many struggles and often find our emotions can start to feel overwhelming. Counselling provides a safe space to talk through whatever you may be going through to help improve your wellbeing. I am a fully qualified Counsellor with a Professional Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and I have experience of working with both adults, young people and children.
07411 293719 View 07411 293719
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Hayley Phillips
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
It may be daunting for you to consider the first steps of counselling, but my aim is to help you to feel safe enough to talk openly about things you might find difficult and to provide a non-judgmental, safe and confidential place to start your journey. I can help you to clarify your thoughts, feelings & emotions so you may be better equipped to make more conscious choices that can improve the quality of your life and well-being. Whether it's addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma or self-esteem, my goal is to empower clients to develop effective coping strategies and build resilience.
It may be daunting for you to consider the first steps of counselling, but my aim is to help you to feel safe enough to talk openly about things you might find difficult and to provide a non-judgmental, safe and confidential place to start your journey. I can help you to clarify your thoughts, feelings & emotions so you may be better equipped to make more conscious choices that can improve the quality of your life and well-being. Whether it's addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma or self-esteem, my goal is to empower clients to develop effective coping strategies and build resilience.
020 3835 4768 View 020 3835 4768
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Fleur Hocking
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I work with couples to overcome communication breakdown, infidelity, intimacy issues, parenting problems, life stage issues.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
I work with couples to overcome communication breakdown, infidelity, intimacy issues, parenting problems, life stage issues.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
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Karen McCann
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
NOTE: I will be taking maternity leave from mid-March to July. I'm Karen McCann, a qualified integrative counsellor and psychotherapist. In-person sessions are in the TS19 area, online is available countrywide. Safety, respect and confidentiality are core values I hold. The goal is to help you grow from your struggles, understand yourself, your past and your relationships better and move forward to where you want to be in your life. Through a safe partnership, we can understand and help you process the internal and external pain, anxiety, addiction or relationship issues.
NOTE: I will be taking maternity leave from mid-March to July. I'm Karen McCann, a qualified integrative counsellor and psychotherapist. In-person sessions are in the TS19 area, online is available countrywide. Safety, respect and confidentiality are core values I hold. The goal is to help you grow from your struggles, understand yourself, your past and your relationships better and move forward to where you want to be in your life. Through a safe partnership, we can understand and help you process the internal and external pain, anxiety, addiction or relationship issues.
01487 802968 View 01487 802968
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Pippa Moye
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Life Coach, Reiki Master-Teacher, Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Mentor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I provide a unique mix of talking therapies & energy healing. Combining counselling theory with coaching skills, positive psychology & a spiritual/holistic approach, I tailor sessions to the needs of each individual to optimise results. As well as coaching & counselling, I offer Reiki and other energy therapies which provide powerful relief from physical pain & bodily symptoms while helping with mental/emotional issues.
Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Life Coach, Reiki Master-Teacher, Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Mentor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I provide a unique mix of talking therapies & energy healing. Combining counselling theory with coaching skills, positive psychology & a spiritual/holistic approach, I tailor sessions to the needs of each individual to optimise results. As well as coaching & counselling, I offer Reiki and other energy therapies which provide powerful relief from physical pain & bodily symptoms while helping with mental/emotional issues.
020 4538 2602 View 020 4538 2602
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Tendringtherapy.com
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am an integrative psychotherapist With qualifications in psycho dynamic, psychoanalytic counselling. C.B.T E.M.D.R ACT and a senior qualified accredited hypnotherapist . My practice is in Clacton on Sea i offer evening and afternoon appointments on Mon and Tues i also offer a full range of remote online appointments
I am an integrative psychotherapist With qualifications in psycho dynamic, psychoanalytic counselling. C.B.T E.M.D.R ACT and a senior qualified accredited hypnotherapist . My practice is in Clacton on Sea i offer evening and afternoon appointments on Mon and Tues i also offer a full range of remote online appointments
020 3879 4781 View 020 3879 4781
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Adele Sannie-Lamptey
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Is a current situation challenging you? Or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance? I'm an Integrative Counsellor with over 6 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you.
Is a current situation challenging you? Or perhaps you feel affected by a past experience? Do you find yourself repeating patterns of behaviour that you'd like to change? Or would you like to explore your identity in more depth and work on building self acceptance? I'm an Integrative Counsellor with over 6 years experience in Private Practice and here to help you process and address what has been troubling you.
020 8016 3730 View 020 8016 3730
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Dr Brittni Jones
Psychologist, CPsychol
Serves Area
I am an HCPC Registered and Chartered Psychologist, Doctor of Clinical Psychology, and therapist with over 10 years experience in mental health services. With previous NHS experience in a specialist hospital for adults with personality disorders, as well as at Great Ormond Street Hospital and psychotherapy services for adolescents and adults with mental and physical health conditions, I have the knowledge and professional experience to help with a wide variety of difficulties. I offer specialist assessments and therapy for children, adolescents, and adults.
I am an HCPC Registered and Chartered Psychologist, Doctor of Clinical Psychology, and therapist with over 10 years experience in mental health services. With previous NHS experience in a specialist hospital for adults with personality disorders, as well as at Great Ormond Street Hospital and psychotherapy services for adolescents and adults with mental and physical health conditions, I have the knowledge and professional experience to help with a wide variety of difficulties. I offer specialist assessments and therapy for children, adolescents, and adults.
020 3872 2631 View 020 3872 2631
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NOW Therapy | Angela DePastino
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
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BG Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello, all are welcome. Anxiety, stress, depression and anger can creep up on us or appear quite suddenly. Sometimes life just gets too hard and we cannot cope. You may not even know why you feel the way you do, even so, talking with someone impartial can really help. I believe that mental health is no different to physical health in that systems can become unbalanced and give us problems. Support from a Counsellor can help to rebalance your mind. You may feel unsure but I encourage you to come and meet me, then see how you feel.
Hello, all are welcome. Anxiety, stress, depression and anger can creep up on us or appear quite suddenly. Sometimes life just gets too hard and we cannot cope. You may not even know why you feel the way you do, even so, talking with someone impartial can really help. I believe that mental health is no different to physical health in that systems can become unbalanced and give us problems. Support from a Counsellor can help to rebalance your mind. You may feel unsure but I encourage you to come and meet me, then see how you feel.
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Maryane Mwaniki
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach, registered with the BACP and ACC. I have 10 years+ experience working with individuals and couples. Whether you are feeling stuck, experiencing challenges, anxiety, stress, or depression, I can offer support. As a Counsellor and Coach, I work with individuals to process difficult feelings and experiences and identify a positive way forward. Through couple counselling and coaching support couples to assess and evaluate the quality of their relationship, manage conflicts, develop skills for a successful future together, and increase trust and intimacy.i look
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach, registered with the BACP and ACC. I have 10 years+ experience working with individuals and couples. Whether you are feeling stuck, experiencing challenges, anxiety, stress, or depression, I can offer support. As a Counsellor and Coach, I work with individuals to process difficult feelings and experiences and identify a positive way forward. Through couple counselling and coaching support couples to assess and evaluate the quality of their relationship, manage conflicts, develop skills for a successful future together, and increase trust and intimacy.i look
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Elysia Lin
Psychotherapist, MBACP
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Ms Sarah Enderby
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
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Online Only
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
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Daniel Roe - Couples CBT
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
4 Endorsed
Hertford SG13
Maybe you have difficulty trusting following infidelity.
Nothing pleases me more than seeing my clients take their life back, grow in confidence, and improve their relationships. Working together we'll identify the patterns of thinking and behaviour that have kept you down, and learn techniques to overcome your problem. My approaches are CBT and Behavioural Couples with a specialism in anxiety and low self-esteem.
Maybe you have difficulty trusting following infidelity.
Nothing pleases me more than seeing my clients take their life back, grow in confidence, and improve their relationships. Working together we'll identify the patterns of thinking and behaviour that have kept you down, and learn techniques to overcome your problem. My approaches are CBT and Behavioural Couples with a specialism in anxiety and low self-esteem.
07427 526723 View 07427 526723
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.