Attachment-based Counselling in Buckhurst Hill

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Zoe Kubaisi
Counsellor, MBACP
“My Work with children, young people, their families and communities focuses on exploring, understanding and building resilience to navigate everyday life challenges, to improve their mental and emotional wellbeing.”
“My Work with children, young people, their families and communities focuses on exploring, understanding and building resilience to navigate everyday life challenges, to improve their mental and emotional wellbeing.”
020 4634 7957 View 020 4634 7957
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Bola Osundun
Counsellor, MBACP
Many people I work with feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally stuck, often carrying experiences that are difficult to talk about or fully process alone. This may include trauma, family expectations, cultural pressures, relationship difficulties, couple conflict, loss, or long-term emotional stress that affects wellbeing and daily life. I am a BACP-registered trauma-informed counsellor offering a safe, respectful, and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and experiences at your own pace. My approach is collaborative, and I aim to support you in making sense of your experiences and finding greater emotional
Many people I work with feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally stuck, often carrying experiences that are difficult to talk about or fully process alone. This may include trauma, family expectations, cultural pressures, relationship difficulties, couple conflict, loss, or long-term emotional stress that affects wellbeing and daily life. I am a BACP-registered trauma-informed counsellor offering a safe, respectful, and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and experiences at your own pace. My approach is collaborative, and I aim to support you in making sense of your experiences and finding greater emotional
020 4652 1085 View 020 4652 1085
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Fleur Hocking
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
I am passionate about helping people find a happier and more fulfilled way of life. You may be struggling with depression, anxiety, recent or past trauma or you may be concerned about your relationship, having difficulty communicating or dealing with the aftermath of an affair. I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental and safe place to explore whatever your difficulties are and work through these side by side. I draw upon different approaches to provide a bespoke service to each of my client's particular issues. I have extensive experience working for Relate and in private practice with individuals and couples.
07400 349407 View 07400 349407
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NOW Therapy | Angela DePastino
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
NOW Therapy is a contemporary & dynamic therapeutic service which sees you as an equal - a HUMAN being who's figuring life out in a messy, complicated world - not as someone who's broken and needs fixing. Whatever's going on for you, NOW Therapy can work with you. ​There's no time like NOW! Contact via Email or WhatsApp today.
020 4538 5734 View 020 4538 5734
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Dr Jasbir Dhillon
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I'm Jas, a senior clinical psychologist experienced in working with adults, children, adolescents, families, and organisations. I work with people from diverse walks of life, all of whom are looking to improve how they feel and live. My clients require trauma-informed and person-centred support, or someone experienced in working with the nuances that come with cultural diversity and neurodivergence (e.g. ADHD, ASD, ID). I offer a compassionate space that moves at your pace, to help you towards meaningful change. I offer online and in person therapy (in the North East London area).
I'm Jas, a senior clinical psychologist experienced in working with adults, children, adolescents, families, and organisations. I work with people from diverse walks of life, all of whom are looking to improve how they feel and live. My clients require trauma-informed and person-centred support, or someone experienced in working with the nuances that come with cultural diversity and neurodivergence (e.g. ADHD, ASD, ID). I offer a compassionate space that moves at your pace, to help you towards meaningful change. I offer online and in person therapy (in the North East London area).
020 3835 2859 View 020 3835 2859
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Pippa Moye
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Life Coach, Reiki Master-Teacher, Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Mentor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I provide a unique mix of talking therapies & energy healing. Combining counselling theory with coaching skills, positive psychology & a spiritual/holistic approach, I tailor sessions to the needs of each individual to optimise results. As well as coaching & counselling, I offer Reiki and other energy therapies which provide powerful relief from physical pain & bodily symptoms while helping with mental/emotional issues.
Psychotherapist, Counsellor, Life Coach, Reiki Master-Teacher, Meditation Teacher, Spiritual Mentor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . I provide a unique mix of talking therapies & energy healing. Combining counselling theory with coaching skills, positive psychology & a spiritual/holistic approach, I tailor sessions to the needs of each individual to optimise results. As well as coaching & counselling, I offer Reiki and other energy therapies which provide powerful relief from physical pain & bodily symptoms while helping with mental/emotional issues.
020 4538 2602 View 020 4538 2602

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Dr Koralia Bentivoglio
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Engaging in therapy is a courageous act of self-care. In our sessions, you will find a safe, compassionate, and confidential space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and challenges without judgment. I support adults, adolescents, and families navigating stress, anxiety, depression, panic, OCD, relational challenges, life transitions and trauma. I am especially passionate about helping young people and adults to develop meaningful coping strategies as they navigate academic, social, and cultural challenges.
Engaging in therapy is a courageous act of self-care. In our sessions, you will find a safe, compassionate, and confidential space to explore your thoughts, emotions, and challenges without judgment. I support adults, adolescents, and families navigating stress, anxiety, depression, panic, OCD, relational challenges, life transitions and trauma. I am especially passionate about helping young people and adults to develop meaningful coping strategies as they navigate academic, social, and cultural challenges.
020 4572 3035 View 020 4572 3035
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Dr Gary Burgess
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
London WC1B
I work as a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with both children, adolescents and families as well as with adults across the age range. When emotional problems arise it can be difficult to acknowledge them and know where to turn. Your search for help, for yourself or for your child, may have begun with difficulties in relationships or feeling stuck, lost, overwhelmed or frustrated. I seek to understand these feelings and understand them as signposts to underlying challenges. I work at multiple levels to affect change and aim to help you have an increased sense of freedom and enjoyment in individual and/or family life.
I work as a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with both children, adolescents and families as well as with adults across the age range. When emotional problems arise it can be difficult to acknowledge them and know where to turn. Your search for help, for yourself or for your child, may have begun with difficulties in relationships or feeling stuck, lost, overwhelmed or frustrated. I seek to understand these feelings and understand them as signposts to underlying challenges. I work at multiple levels to affect change and aim to help you have an increased sense of freedom and enjoyment in individual and/or family life.
020 8106 5348 View 020 8106 5348
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Lynda Chan Phillips
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hi, I’m Lynda, a counsellor based in Rochester. You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, or carrying a grief that’s hard to explain. Maybe something has changed in your life, or perhaps it’s been building for a while. I offer a calm, steady space where you don’t have to hold it all alone. We’ll take things at your pace. Sometimes we may sit with what’s heavy; other times, we might begin to gently untangle it. Together, we’ll explore ways to cope and feel more grounded in who you are.
Hi, I’m Lynda, a counsellor based in Rochester. You might be feeling overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, or carrying a grief that’s hard to explain. Maybe something has changed in your life, or perhaps it’s been building for a while. I offer a calm, steady space where you don’t have to hold it all alone. We’ll take things at your pace. Sometimes we may sit with what’s heavy; other times, we might begin to gently untangle it. Together, we’ll explore ways to cope and feel more grounded in who you are.
01634 980158 View 01634 980158
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Dr Paul Garden
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
London W1G
I am a registered Health Care Professions Council (HCPC) Practitioner Psychologist, and am on the British Psychological Society Register of Applied Psychology Practice Supervisors (RAPPS). I have been in Private Practice in Central London for nine years. Before spending ten years in full-time study and training in London universities and NHS Trusts to qualify as a psychologist, I spent a decade travelling, mainly around Asia, studying Eastern psychology and philosophy. Thus, I have a rich lens of psychological perspectives through which I understand and work with the mind. Psychoanalytic thinking underpins my approach to therapy.
I am a registered Health Care Professions Council (HCPC) Practitioner Psychologist, and am on the British Psychological Society Register of Applied Psychology Practice Supervisors (RAPPS). I have been in Private Practice in Central London for nine years. Before spending ten years in full-time study and training in London universities and NHS Trusts to qualify as a psychologist, I spent a decade travelling, mainly around Asia, studying Eastern psychology and philosophy. Thus, I have a rich lens of psychological perspectives through which I understand and work with the mind. Psychoanalytic thinking underpins my approach to therapy.
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Dr Sonia Sousa
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
London W2
Welcome to my profile, where compassionate and holistic mental health care is provided to support you in navigating life's challenges. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, loss, trauma, personal growth, or simply seeking to be heard and understood, I am here to guide you on your journey. Within our therapeutic relationship, I am committed to creating a warm, non-judgmental, and confidential space where you can safely explore and address any challenges.
Welcome to my profile, where compassionate and holistic mental health care is provided to support you in navigating life's challenges. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, loss, trauma, personal growth, or simply seeking to be heard and understood, I am here to guide you on your journey. Within our therapeutic relationship, I am committed to creating a warm, non-judgmental, and confidential space where you can safely explore and address any challenges.
01256 632663 View 01256 632663
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Siobhan Ward
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Weybridge KT13
I am a fully-qualified psychotherapist and addiction psychologist with over 10 years' experience of working with clients worldwide. Prior to this, I was a successful commercial artist and illustrator for 15 years, working in the advertising, fashion and music industry, before I myself began my recovery journey. Although since then I have worked primarily in the private addiction and eating disorder sector, including as the lead therapist at one of Europe’s foremost private residential treatment centres, I am now also able to offer help to those seeking support through my private practice.
I am a fully-qualified psychotherapist and addiction psychologist with over 10 years' experience of working with clients worldwide. Prior to this, I was a successful commercial artist and illustrator for 15 years, working in the advertising, fashion and music industry, before I myself began my recovery journey. Although since then I have worked primarily in the private addiction and eating disorder sector, including as the lead therapist at one of Europe’s foremost private residential treatment centres, I am now also able to offer help to those seeking support through my private practice.
01372 233635 View 01372 233635
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Victoria Richardson-Brown - headnasium
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Hockley SS5
I currently work at the Priory Hospital in Chelmsford, I am a Family Support Practitioner and British Isles DBT trained. I worked for AXA as a Clinical Counselling Assessor. My passion is helping people of all ages experiencing mental health difficulties and I have a privately run, therapeutic practice, where I can provide you with a safe, friendly, and confidential environment for exploration. Within the practice I can help if you require; one to one therapy, for various aspects of mental health, support through bereavement, need family support, help with parenting or CAMHS.
I currently work at the Priory Hospital in Chelmsford, I am a Family Support Practitioner and British Isles DBT trained. I worked for AXA as a Clinical Counselling Assessor. My passion is helping people of all ages experiencing mental health difficulties and I have a privately run, therapeutic practice, where I can provide you with a safe, friendly, and confidential environment for exploration. Within the practice I can help if you require; one to one therapy, for various aspects of mental health, support through bereavement, need family support, help with parenting or CAMHS.
01702 967399 View 01702 967399
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Orri
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London W1G
Orri is an online and in person Specialist Treatment Service for individuals aged 13 and over who are looking for support with eating disorders and co-occurring conditions (such as depression, anxiety, trauma, personality disorders, etc). We offer a programme package which includes a blend of daily group therapy, mealtime support, individual weekly therapy, dietetic support and occupational therapy support. We take a personalised, stepped approach to treatment so that every person’s programme is appropriate to their individual needs and evolves with them over time.
Orri is an online and in person Specialist Treatment Service for individuals aged 13 and over who are looking for support with eating disorders and co-occurring conditions (such as depression, anxiety, trauma, personality disorders, etc). We offer a programme package which includes a blend of daily group therapy, mealtime support, individual weekly therapy, dietetic support and occupational therapy support. We take a personalised, stepped approach to treatment so that every person’s programme is appropriate to their individual needs and evolves with them over time.
020 3917 4529 View 020 3917 4529
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Gordica Paderi
Counsellor, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are there times when you feel worried, lonely, angry, stressed, overwhelmed, vulnerable or you feel trapped and unsure of your direction? As a qualified integrative counsellor, I will help you to explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and concerns. I provide support, understanding and a safe space for exploration in a non-judgmental, empathic, secure, warm and compassionate setting where individuals can confidentially engage in the exploration of past experiences, present challenges and life transitions. On the principles of trust, confidentiality and collaboration, I will endeavour to help you unlock your inner potential.
Are there times when you feel worried, lonely, angry, stressed, overwhelmed, vulnerable or you feel trapped and unsure of your direction? As a qualified integrative counsellor, I will help you to explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviours and concerns. I provide support, understanding and a safe space for exploration in a non-judgmental, empathic, secure, warm and compassionate setting where individuals can confidentially engage in the exploration of past experiences, present challenges and life transitions. On the principles of trust, confidentiality and collaboration, I will endeavour to help you unlock your inner potential.
01444 718346 View 01444 718346
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CJ Therapies
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Barnet EN5
I am an Integrative therapist registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I provide emotional support for Children, Young People and Parents. My approach with children is play based and creative therapy. My work with parents is taken from a relational approach helping parents to learn about their attachment styles building on their understanding of their child's development and improving relationships. My support helps children understand their feelings, improving confidence, self esteem, anxiety, behaviours, and emotional wellbeing.
I am an Integrative therapist registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I provide emotional support for Children, Young People and Parents. My approach with children is play based and creative therapy. My work with parents is taken from a relational approach helping parents to learn about their attachment styles building on their understanding of their child's development and improving relationships. My support helps children understand their feelings, improving confidence, self esteem, anxiety, behaviours, and emotional wellbeing.
07479 276687 View 07479 276687
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Paul Shin
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Online Only
For me, physical symptoms were the gateway into healing. My body was telling me something I couldn't yet put into words, and learning to listen to that felt sense changed everything. I see psychosomatic symptoms not as weakness, but as the body's remarkable way of coping with overwhelming pain. Those patterns are signs of strength, which were strategies that once protected you, even if now they may feel limiting.
For me, physical symptoms were the gateway into healing. My body was telling me something I couldn't yet put into words, and learning to listen to that felt sense changed everything. I see psychosomatic symptoms not as weakness, but as the body's remarkable way of coping with overwhelming pain. Those patterns are signs of strength, which were strategies that once protected you, even if now they may feel limiting.
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Forouz Fay Askarnia
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MUKCP
Online Only
My therapeutic approach is largely transpersonal integrative, which means I am able to integrate other approaches into my work, including humanistic, CBT, solution-focused and expressive/art therapy. How I work is entirely dependent on the needs of the client I am working with. Transpersonal therapy is a holistic healing intervention that evolved from the humanistic work of American psychologist Abraham Maslow in the 1960s. I am a registered member of the UKCP, and I work in accordance with their ethical guidelines. I offer both face-to-face sessions as well as online therapy which is accessible to all regardless of location.
My therapeutic approach is largely transpersonal integrative, which means I am able to integrate other approaches into my work, including humanistic, CBT, solution-focused and expressive/art therapy. How I work is entirely dependent on the needs of the client I am working with. Transpersonal therapy is a holistic healing intervention that evolved from the humanistic work of American psychologist Abraham Maslow in the 1960s. I am a registered member of the UKCP, and I work in accordance with their ethical guidelines. I offer both face-to-face sessions as well as online therapy which is accessible to all regardless of location.
020 4538 7859 View 020 4538 7859
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Francesca Wilson
Counsellor, MBACP
London SW13
Seeking therapy and the right kind of therapist can be a daunting experience. I offer an empathic, non-judgmental space that's designed to help you feel safe and supported, where you are free to explore your emotions, feelings and talk about what is troubling you. As a BACP registered Integrative Psychotherapeutic Counsellor I use approaches tailored to your individual needs.
Seeking therapy and the right kind of therapist can be a daunting experience. I offer an empathic, non-judgmental space that's designed to help you feel safe and supported, where you are free to explore your emotions, feelings and talk about what is troubling you. As a BACP registered Integrative Psychotherapeutic Counsellor I use approaches tailored to your individual needs.
01748 900636 View 01748 900636
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Rosella Pizzi
Counsellor, MBACP
Sutton SM1
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
Hello, I’m Rosella, a qualified Integrative Counsellor and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer counselling for adults, young people and families, providing both short- and long-term support, in Sutton SM1, Wimbledon SW19, and Clapham SW4. Therapy can help address feelings of anxiety, depression, inadequacy, overwhelm, loss, burnout, as well as family conflicts, parenting challenges, communication difficulties, or grief. Everyone has a unique story, and I would be honoured to hear yours in a safe, supportive and judgment-free space, proceeding at your own pace.
020 3597 6719 View 020 3597 6719
Attachment-based Counsellors
Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.