Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Brighton
I'm experienced in supporting clients to work through issues relating to low or mismatched desire, sexual functioning, unreliable erections, early or delayed ejaculation, painful sex, vaginismus, gender and sexuality, relationship issues, affairs and infidelity, problematic sexual behaviours, sex/porn addiction and understanding kink/BDSM identities.
Hi, my name is Loki. I’m a psychosexual & relationships therapist and I'm committed to co-creating a safe, inclusive and non-judgmental space where clients can work through their sex & relationship issues, explore their erotic life, (re)discover themselves, make sense of their relationships... and bring about lasting change.
I'm experienced in supporting clients to work through issues relating to low or mismatched desire, sexual functioning, unreliable erections, early or delayed ejaculation, painful sex, vaginismus, gender and sexuality, relationship issues, affairs and infidelity, problematic sexual behaviours, sex/porn addiction and understanding kink/BDSM identities.
Hi, my name is Loki. I’m a psychosexual & relationships therapist and I'm committed to co-creating a safe, inclusive and non-judgmental space where clients can work through their sex & relationship issues, explore their erotic life, (re)discover themselves, make sense of their relationships... and bring about lasting change.
I offer queer-affirming, sex-positive & kink-aware therapy online across the UK, with particular experience in ENM / polyamory.
Hi! I’m Ro (they/them). You might be navigating jealousy, attachment anxiety, communication breakdown, or feeling stuck in relational patterns that keep repeating. Perhaps you're exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or questioning monogamy, and want relationships that feel honest and sustainable. You may feel disconnected from yourself, carrying old relational wounds, struggling with emotional regulation, or unsure how past experiences are shaping intimacy now. You’re looking for space to slow down, untangle what’s happening, and build more secure, intentional ways of relating.
I offer queer-affirming, sex-positive & kink-aware therapy online across the UK, with particular experience in ENM / polyamory.
Hi! I’m Ro (they/them). You might be navigating jealousy, attachment anxiety, communication breakdown, or feeling stuck in relational patterns that keep repeating. Perhaps you're exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, or questioning monogamy, and want relationships that feel honest and sustainable. You may feel disconnected from yourself, carrying old relational wounds, struggling with emotional regulation, or unsure how past experiences are shaping intimacy now. You’re looking for space to slow down, untangle what’s happening, and build more secure, intentional ways of relating.
While I work in other areas, I specialise in intimacy issues including sex and kink positivity, sex addiction and mens work.
You may feel stuck in repeating cycles—around addiction, relationships, or intimacy—even though you understand your patterns and genuinely want things to change. Shame, attachment wounds, or codependency often sit underneath, leaving you longing for connection, self-acceptance, and a sense of freedom. Many of the people I work with feel tired of looking outside themselves for answers and are ready to begin a more grounded, authentic kind of healing.
Most people come to therapy feeling unsure or ambivalent — often that’s exactly where meaningful change begins....
While I work in other areas, I specialise in intimacy issues including sex and kink positivity, sex addiction and mens work.
You may feel stuck in repeating cycles—around addiction, relationships, or intimacy—even though you understand your patterns and genuinely want things to change. Shame, attachment wounds, or codependency often sit underneath, leaving you longing for connection, self-acceptance, and a sense of freedom. Many of the people I work with feel tired of looking outside themselves for answers and are ready to begin a more grounded, authentic kind of healing.
Most people come to therapy feeling unsure or ambivalent — often that’s exactly where meaningful change begins....
Are you someone who wants to get to know themselves better? Someone who is ready to explore and understand some of the patterns that might be shaping your life. Maybe curious about gender,sexuality,identity,relationships,neurodivergence,processes around emotions or thoughts... I might be able to help...
As I understand it, some challenges to good mental health come from tensions between what you are/want/need and what's actually happening in your reality, it might make you feel low or anxious.
Are you someone who wants to get to know themselves better? Someone who is ready to explore and understand some of the patterns that might be shaping your life. Maybe curious about gender,sexuality,identity,relationships,neurodivergence,processes around emotions or thoughts... I might be able to help...
As I understand it, some challenges to good mental health come from tensions between what you are/want/need and what's actually happening in your reality, it might make you feel low or anxious.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
I am also kink-aware and sex positive.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. It feels like a really hard time to be queer and/or trans at the moment, I'm here to hold you and have understanding and experience. You are welcome and accepted.
Soho Couples Therapy is a specialist psychotherapy service for LGBTQ+ couples and individuals who are facing relationship challenges. You may be struggling with intimacy, trust, communication, navigating open relationships, or parenting. Sometimes personal struggles, such as anxiety, questions of identity, or past trauma, are hard to negotiate in a partnership and create distance. We can help you understand the deeper dynamics of your relationship, consider what has created the challenges you are experiencing, and explore how to overcome them.
Soho Couples Therapy is a specialist psychotherapy service for LGBTQ+ couples and individuals who are facing relationship challenges. You may be struggling with intimacy, trust, communication, navigating open relationships, or parenting. Sometimes personal struggles, such as anxiety, questions of identity, or past trauma, are hard to negotiate in a partnership and create distance. We can help you understand the deeper dynamics of your relationship, consider what has created the challenges you are experiencing, and explore how to overcome them.
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
Hi, I'm Cat, thank you for reading my profile. I offer pluralistic counselling either in-person at a central Peterborough location (PE1) or remotely online or via telephone. The work we do will vary according to your needs. Sessions typically take place weekly or bi-weekly. It is possible to work in the short-term (maybe 4-6 sessions) or in the longer-term with an ongoing alliance (1 year+) and anything in between!
Love, sex and personal relationships are where we manage our hopes, fears and vulnerabilities. When our connection with ourselves and others is good it can feel transformative, but when it isn’t it can be extremely distressing. I offer an integrative approach to relationship and psychosexual therapy to work with you, whether single or in a couple. I work with monogamous as well as open/polyamorous relationships. Troubled relationships, arguing, erection issues, loss of desire, anxiety, painful sex, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, or shame about porn use, kinks. This can all change.
Love, sex and personal relationships are where we manage our hopes, fears and vulnerabilities. When our connection with ourselves and others is good it can feel transformative, but when it isn’t it can be extremely distressing. I offer an integrative approach to relationship and psychosexual therapy to work with you, whether single or in a couple. I work with monogamous as well as open/polyamorous relationships. Troubled relationships, arguing, erection issues, loss of desire, anxiety, painful sex, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, or shame about porn use, kinks. This can all change.
Hello! I’m Clara (they/them), I am an Integrative Psychotherapist and trainee Art Therapist offering talking Psychotherapy and Art Psychotherapy. I work with adults, young adults and groups. I have experience across a diverse range of mental heath settings such as the NHS in acute services working with Psychosis and complex needs. I have further experience as a therapist at Macmillan and at Spectra with TNBI youth. I work at the Sussex Gender Service as a Reflective Practice Facilitator.
Hello! I’m Clara (they/them), I am an Integrative Psychotherapist and trainee Art Therapist offering talking Psychotherapy and Art Psychotherapy. I work with adults, young adults and groups. I have experience across a diverse range of mental heath settings such as the NHS in acute services working with Psychosis and complex needs. I have further experience as a therapist at Macmillan and at Spectra with TNBI youth. I work at the Sussex Gender Service as a Reflective Practice Facilitator.
Welcome! Taking the first steps on your therapeutic journey can be difficult. Whether you’re looking to cope with difficult feelings, overcome a crisis, work on your relationships, or set yourself new goals, I can offer you a space to explore yourself, heal, and maybe change. In my practice, whether we meet online or in Brighton, I look to create a safe and welcoming space for you to explore what’s on your mind at your own pace and in line with your own priorities.
Welcome! Taking the first steps on your therapeutic journey can be difficult. Whether you’re looking to cope with difficult feelings, overcome a crisis, work on your relationships, or set yourself new goals, I can offer you a space to explore yourself, heal, and maybe change. In my practice, whether we meet online or in Brighton, I look to create a safe and welcoming space for you to explore what’s on your mind at your own pace and in line with your own priorities.
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution.
Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
It's understandable that seeking psychological support can feel daunting, especially for those who feel forced to adopt a public persona, are apprehensive about judgement or have a demanding schedule. Many of my clients, including those not familiar with accessing therapy, people concerned about privacy, and those with a public profile, find that online psychotherapy offers a convenient solution.
Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or giving it a second chance after a previous experience, I'm here to provide tailored support that fits into your life, including availability of evening sessions if preferred.
My ideal client is someone who’s been through difficult or overwhelming experiences—whether trauma, health challenges, or long-term stress. They want to feel more like themselves again and explore what may have led to their current experiences. They’re ready to make sense of what’s happened and move forward with greater confidence and ease. They’re looking for a warm, supportive and flexible space to grow, and build a more balanced, meaningful life.
My ideal client is someone who’s been through difficult or overwhelming experiences—whether trauma, health challenges, or long-term stress. They want to feel more like themselves again and explore what may have led to their current experiences. They’re ready to make sense of what’s happened and move forward with greater confidence and ease. They’re looking for a warm, supportive and flexible space to grow, and build a more balanced, meaningful life.
You might be in the middle of a crisis, feeling stressed, overwhelmed or disconnected, or maybe you want to come to terms with something that happened long ago. Or possibly you are feeling stuck in a cycle of difficult feelings, thoughts and behaviours, struggling with a significant relationship, or feeling unable to find meaning, peace or happiness in life.
I will be alongside you as you explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences in any area of you life. You would be free to choose how you use your therapy sessions, and I aim to bring compassion, acceptance, attentiveness and honesty in our work together.
You might be in the middle of a crisis, feeling stressed, overwhelmed or disconnected, or maybe you want to come to terms with something that happened long ago. Or possibly you are feeling stuck in a cycle of difficult feelings, thoughts and behaviours, struggling with a significant relationship, or feeling unable to find meaning, peace or happiness in life.
I will be alongside you as you explore and make sense of your thoughts, feelings and experiences in any area of you life. You would be free to choose how you use your therapy sessions, and I aim to bring compassion, acceptance, attentiveness and honesty in our work together.
I am an experienced, welcoming and open-minded counsellor. Exploring in-depth what is troubling us with someone who is really listening, not just to your words but to the person behind them, can in itself be a healing process. It may also bring to light beliefs and ways of living that are holding you back. I draw on a range of integrative talking therapies (including Internal Family Systems). When something more is needed than talking alone, Brainspotting (a somatic therapy that evolved out of EMDR) can offer a gentle but powerful way to access deeper areas of the brain where emotional difficulties arise.
I am an experienced, welcoming and open-minded counsellor. Exploring in-depth what is troubling us with someone who is really listening, not just to your words but to the person behind them, can in itself be a healing process. It may also bring to light beliefs and ways of living that are holding you back. I draw on a range of integrative talking therapies (including Internal Family Systems). When something more is needed than talking alone, Brainspotting (a somatic therapy that evolved out of EMDR) can offer a gentle but powerful way to access deeper areas of the brain where emotional difficulties arise.
So, life seems particularly tough at the moment. Perhaps you are anxious about the future, or suffering with difficult memories from the past. Perhaps you have realised that the relationship patterns you have developed are no longer working for you and you would like to find a new way of connecting to your partner or others. Perhaps you need some practical guidance with a sex related problem. Primarily, I imagine you are here because you want someone to really listen to you and try to understand what it's like for you - and then, to support you to change things.
So, life seems particularly tough at the moment. Perhaps you are anxious about the future, or suffering with difficult memories from the past. Perhaps you have realised that the relationship patterns you have developed are no longer working for you and you would like to find a new way of connecting to your partner or others. Perhaps you need some practical guidance with a sex related problem. Primarily, I imagine you are here because you want someone to really listen to you and try to understand what it's like for you - and then, to support you to change things.
Thinking about starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already struggling.
For over 14 years I’ve supported people through periods of change, challenge, and uncertainty in a range of helping roles. I’m an experienced & accredited Psychotherapist, registered with BPC and BACP, and I believe I can potentially help you.
I offer a supportive, open, inclusive, and non-judgemental space where we can explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you to understand your issues and where they come from, develop ways of dealing with them, and become a more integrated and self aware person.
Thinking about starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already struggling.
For over 14 years I’ve supported people through periods of change, challenge, and uncertainty in a range of helping roles. I’m an experienced & accredited Psychotherapist, registered with BPC and BACP, and I believe I can potentially help you.
I offer a supportive, open, inclusive, and non-judgemental space where we can explore what’s going on for you, at your own pace. Therapy can help you to understand your issues and where they come from, develop ways of dealing with them, and become a more integrated and self aware person.
Hello, I’m Bex.
I am a BACP Registered, Humanistic, Integrative Therapist based in Brighton working online and face to face. I see clients F2F in Brighton, Hove and Seaford.
I offer a compassionate, caring, active and affirming space where you can untangle the thoughts and feelings that may feel overwhelming.
How I work:
My practice is rooted in Humanistic and Integrative therapy. Which means I tailor our sessions to suit what you need, drawing on different modalities and tools.
Whether you’re feeling anxious or depressed, bereaved, exploring your identity, processing emotions, or seeking clarity on something. I can help
Hello, I’m Bex.
I am a BACP Registered, Humanistic, Integrative Therapist based in Brighton working online and face to face. I see clients F2F in Brighton, Hove and Seaford.
I offer a compassionate, caring, active and affirming space where you can untangle the thoughts and feelings that may feel overwhelming.
How I work:
My practice is rooted in Humanistic and Integrative therapy. Which means I tailor our sessions to suit what you need, drawing on different modalities and tools.
Whether you’re feeling anxious or depressed, bereaved, exploring your identity, processing emotions, or seeking clarity on something. I can help
We all experience suffering, and at times we need support to get through these challenging moments. You may find yourself grappling with confusing or overwhelming emotions, navigating through past trauma, or feeling unfulfilled and trapped. Whatever you're facing, it's important to remember that you don't have face it alone. I'm here to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space and invite you to exist as your true self, guiding you as you navigate your relationships with others, yourself, and the world around you.
We all experience suffering, and at times we need support to get through these challenging moments. You may find yourself grappling with confusing or overwhelming emotions, navigating through past trauma, or feeling unfulfilled and trapped. Whatever you're facing, it's important to remember that you don't have face it alone. I'm here to offer a compassionate and non-judgmental space and invite you to exist as your true self, guiding you as you navigate your relationships with others, yourself, and the world around you.
I’m Julia Fry (she/her), and I offer counselling and psychotherapy for adults online via Zoom. I work in a warm, open, and neurodivergent-affirming way — helping people process life experiences, manage overwhelm, and move towards authentic self-acceptance.
I support ND clients in reclaiming self-worth, letting go of the pressure to mask or conform, and designing a life that works for them — not against them. I can include blended coaching and therapy, depending on your comfort and needs. I blend listening, reflecting, and offering — to support your exploration in a way that feels affirming, respectful, and safe.
I’m Julia Fry (she/her), and I offer counselling and psychotherapy for adults online via Zoom. I work in a warm, open, and neurodivergent-affirming way — helping people process life experiences, manage overwhelm, and move towards authentic self-acceptance.
I support ND clients in reclaiming self-worth, letting go of the pressure to mask or conform, and designing a life that works for them — not against them. I can include blended coaching and therapy, depending on your comfort and needs. I blend listening, reflecting, and offering — to support your exploration in a way that feels affirming, respectful, and safe.
I am a Relational Integrative Psychotherapist offering both short- and long-term therapy. I draw from humanistic and psychoanalytic approaches, adapting the work to the individual rather than applying a fixed model. I aim to provide a therapeutic relationship that is professional, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned.
I am a Relational Integrative Psychotherapist offering both short- and long-term therapy. I draw from humanistic and psychoanalytic approaches, adapting the work to the individual rather than applying a fixed model. I aim to provide a therapeutic relationship that is professional, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned.
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Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.