Sexual Addiction Counselling in Brentwood

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Mic Austen
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Brentwood CM14
I am a Trauma-informed, accredited UKCP psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with 20+ yrs experience. I work with symptoms: depression, anxiety, sleeplessness, panic attacks, mistrust, hypervigilance, hopelessness, self-destructive behaviour, loss of sense of self. These are all symptoms of something deeper and we can work to alleviate these symptoms by working with the deeper issues that cause these. These symptoms are often caused by: abuse - sexual, psychological or emotional; neglect; loss; relationships; bullying; illness and many other 'normal' life events which can leave us not living our life fully.
I am a Trauma-informed, accredited UKCP psychotherapist and EMDR practitioner with 20+ yrs experience. I work with symptoms: depression, anxiety, sleeplessness, panic attacks, mistrust, hypervigilance, hopelessness, self-destructive behaviour, loss of sense of self. These are all symptoms of something deeper and we can work to alleviate these symptoms by working with the deeper issues that cause these. These symptoms are often caused by: abuse - sexual, psychological or emotional; neglect; loss; relationships; bullying; illness and many other 'normal' life events which can leave us not living our life fully.
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Steven Taylor
Counsellor, BACP
Online Only
Life can bring unexpected challenges, and it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed at times. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship issues, or just need someone to talk to, I’m here to help you navigate those thoughts and feelings. If you’re ready to take the next step towards healing, I encourage you to reach out. Starting this journey can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. I’m here to support you, and I look forward to the opportunity to work together in a way that feels right for you
Life can bring unexpected challenges, and it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed at times. Whether you’re facing anxiety, relationship issues, or just need someone to talk to, I’m here to help you navigate those thoughts and feelings. If you’re ready to take the next step towards healing, I encourage you to reach out. Starting this journey can feel daunting, but you don’t have to do it alone. I’m here to support you, and I look forward to the opportunity to work together in a way that feels right for you
01277 674501 View 01277 674501
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Julie Donoghue Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Brentwood CM14
Reaching out for help can sometimes feel like the last resort and finding the right help can change your life. With over 10 years of experience in working with adults and young people in a variety of settings my aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgmental space for you. I can support clients with bereavement, depression, eating issues, anxiety, relationships, anger and would be happy to answer any questions you may have.
Reaching out for help can sometimes feel like the last resort and finding the right help can change your life. With over 10 years of experience in working with adults and young people in a variety of settings my aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgmental space for you. I can support clients with bereavement, depression, eating issues, anxiety, relationships, anger and would be happy to answer any questions you may have.
01277 288678 View 01277 288678
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Marc Whittaker
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
My role as a therapist is to work alongside you, offering a supportive, non-judgemental space where we can gently explore what you are experiencing at a pace that feels safe and manageable. Together we can address difficulties such as anxiety, hyper-vigilance, depression, dissociation, intrusive thoughts, addiction, and related challenges. I support you in building internal balance, strengthening emotional regulation, managing stress, and working through trauma, life transitions, and relational difficulties.
My role as a therapist is to work alongside you, offering a supportive, non-judgemental space where we can gently explore what you are experiencing at a pace that feels safe and manageable. Together we can address difficulties such as anxiety, hyper-vigilance, depression, dissociation, intrusive thoughts, addiction, and related challenges. I support you in building internal balance, strengthening emotional regulation, managing stress, and working through trauma, life transitions, and relational difficulties.
020 8090 5170 View 020 8090 5170
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Rebecca Tinubu, Psychosexual Therapist
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Online Only
Experienced specialist in psychosexual therapy. I support adults with sexual difficulties, intimacy concerns and the impact of past experiences on relationships. Many clients come feeling stuck, disconnected or unsure how to move forward. My approach is steady, sensitive and collaborative, shaped by early counselling training and many years of NHS clinical experience, helping you understand what’s happening, rebuild confidence and create more connected, fulfilling ways of relating.
Experienced specialist in psychosexual therapy. I support adults with sexual difficulties, intimacy concerns and the impact of past experiences on relationships. Many clients come feeling stuck, disconnected or unsure how to move forward. My approach is steady, sensitive and collaborative, shaped by early counselling training and many years of NHS clinical experience, helping you understand what’s happening, rebuild confidence and create more connected, fulfilling ways of relating.
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Elizabeth Anne Lawrence
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Online Only
I provide a confidential and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore areas of difficulty in your life. Whether you’re facing an immediate crisis—such as a relationship breakdown, bereavement, or addiction—or dealing with long-term challenges like low mood, anxiety, depression, or the need for professional change, I am here to support you. Using an psychodyna approach, I tailor my methods to suit your individual needs, helping you gain understanding, create solutions, develop strategies, and move forward positively. I work with adults, children, and young adults, offering counselling, supervision and coaching.
I provide a confidential and non-judgmental space where you can talk openly and explore areas of difficulty in your life. Whether you’re facing an immediate crisis—such as a relationship breakdown, bereavement, or addiction—or dealing with long-term challenges like low mood, anxiety, depression, or the need for professional change, I am here to support you. Using an psychodyna approach, I tailor my methods to suit your individual needs, helping you gain understanding, create solutions, develop strategies, and move forward positively. I work with adults, children, and young adults, offering counselling, supervision and coaching.
01245 330280 View 01245 330280
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Claire Douglas
Counsellor, BACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello. My name is Claire and I am an integrative counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer integrative counselling. This form of therapy is a combination of different psychological theories and therapeutic approaches, which can be tailor-made depending on your needs and way of working. I work to offer you a safe, confidential, non-judgmental, and empathic environment so to speak freely about your presenting problems and work to overcome difficult obstacles in your life (whether past, present or future).
Hello. My name is Claire and I am an integrative counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I offer integrative counselling. This form of therapy is a combination of different psychological theories and therapeutic approaches, which can be tailor-made depending on your needs and way of working. I work to offer you a safe, confidential, non-judgmental, and empathic environment so to speak freely about your presenting problems and work to overcome difficult obstacles in your life (whether past, present or future).
01708 963855 View 01708 963855
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Nathalie Macleod
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Welcome. I am a BACP Accredited counsellor with experience working with adults, couples and young people. At times in our lives, events can swamp us and we can struggle to cope. I have experience working with clients with various backgrounds. I can help you with anxiety, stress, self esteem issues, low mood, depression, relationship issues, experiencing chronic illness, along with suicidal ideation. My approach can help you understand yourself better and explore ways to bring about positive change.
Welcome. I am a BACP Accredited counsellor with experience working with adults, couples and young people. At times in our lives, events can swamp us and we can struggle to cope. I have experience working with clients with various backgrounds. I can help you with anxiety, stress, self esteem issues, low mood, depression, relationship issues, experiencing chronic illness, along with suicidal ideation. My approach can help you understand yourself better and explore ways to bring about positive change.
01245 950892 View 01245 950892
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Natalie Green
Psychotherapist
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling the growing distance in your relationship, emotionally, sexually or culturally, and don’t know how to begin finding your way back? I’m Natalie Green, a RegCOSRT Integrative Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist. I help couples and individuals who feel stuck, disconnected or overwhelmed by intimacy challenges. Many of the people I support are navigating mixed-heritage or culturally influenced relationships, desire differences, sexual function concerns, or the deep ache of feeling unseen by the person they love. Whatever you’re facing, you don't have to do it alone.
Are you feeling the growing distance in your relationship, emotionally, sexually or culturally, and don’t know how to begin finding your way back? I’m Natalie Green, a RegCOSRT Integrative Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist. I help couples and individuals who feel stuck, disconnected or overwhelmed by intimacy challenges. Many of the people I support are navigating mixed-heritage or culturally influenced relationships, desire differences, sexual function concerns, or the deep ache of feeling unseen by the person they love. Whatever you’re facing, you don't have to do it alone.
01702 655226 View 01702 655226
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mysearchforself Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am passionate in helping people find a happier way of being with greater fulfilment in their life. Whatever is causing you difficulty, I believe that things can be different for you. You may feel any mix of feelings that impact your life and relationships negatively. Any are valid and, I feel, are a communication to what may be going on within. I offer compassion and understanding without any judgement in a space in which we can truly get to know what is difficult. In this space we can gently explore anything that troubles you so that we may work through any issues together, no matter how big or small you feel it is.
I am passionate in helping people find a happier way of being with greater fulfilment in their life. Whatever is causing you difficulty, I believe that things can be different for you. You may feel any mix of feelings that impact your life and relationships negatively. Any are valid and, I feel, are a communication to what may be going on within. I offer compassion and understanding without any judgement in a space in which we can truly get to know what is difficult. In this space we can gently explore anything that troubles you so that we may work through any issues together, no matter how big or small you feel it is.
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Magda Piesiewicz
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
London W1G
I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with an MSc in Psychology and a Postgraduate Diploma in Clinical Sexology, with a strong foundation in integrative and trauma-informed therapeutic work. I am currently undertaking a Doctorate in Counselling Psychology and Psychotherapy. My research examines the conceptualisation and treatment of Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder. My academic background includes training in Psychotherapy at Regent’s University London and Psychosexual and Relationship Postgraduate Diploma at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in Cambridge.
I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with an MSc in Psychology and a Postgraduate Diploma in Clinical Sexology, with a strong foundation in integrative and trauma-informed therapeutic work. I am currently undertaking a Doctorate in Counselling Psychology and Psychotherapy. My research examines the conceptualisation and treatment of Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder. My academic background includes training in Psychotherapy at Regent’s University London and Psychosexual and Relationship Postgraduate Diploma at the Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in Cambridge.
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Porn and Sex Addiction Therapy
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
London W1T
You may be feeling stuck - you’ve tried to stop using porn or another damaging sexual behaviour but your will power keeps failing and you find yourself going in circles, of secrecy, shame & hopelessness. The behaviours now seem like its taken the wheel and firmly in the driving seat of your life. You may even be wondering how things ever got this far. If you’re in a relationship, it’s probably suffering. Even if no one else knows, you do and what may have started as a bit of fun is now causing you pain. There is hope. Many of our wounds are formed in relationships, so it makes sense that healing should also come through one.
You may be feeling stuck - you’ve tried to stop using porn or another damaging sexual behaviour but your will power keeps failing and you find yourself going in circles, of secrecy, shame & hopelessness. The behaviours now seem like its taken the wheel and firmly in the driving seat of your life. You may even be wondering how things ever got this far. If you’re in a relationship, it’s probably suffering. Even if no one else knows, you do and what may have started as a bit of fun is now causing you pain. There is hope. Many of our wounds are formed in relationships, so it makes sense that healing should also come through one.
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Tracey Cooke
Counsellor, MSc, COSRT Accred
London W1W
Hello, I'm Tracey and I am a highly qualified and experienced sex therapist and relationship counsellor. Relationships can at times be a great source of distress and anxiety; sometimes it’s easy to feel stuck and unable to move forwards. You may be having difficulties with communication, infidelity, intimacy, sexual difficulties, or perhaps you just can’t seem to get along anymore and you’re not sure why. Whether you are experiencing difficulties within your relationship, or find it difficult to form relationships, I can give you the space you need to explore and understand these issues.
Hello, I'm Tracey and I am a highly qualified and experienced sex therapist and relationship counsellor. Relationships can at times be a great source of distress and anxiety; sometimes it’s easy to feel stuck and unable to move forwards. You may be having difficulties with communication, infidelity, intimacy, sexual difficulties, or perhaps you just can’t seem to get along anymore and you’re not sure why. Whether you are experiencing difficulties within your relationship, or find it difficult to form relationships, I can give you the space you need to explore and understand these issues.
01227 204207 View 01227 204207
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Sophie Atkinson
Counsellor, BACP
You may have some ideas as to why you are seeking counselling or you may simply feel the need to talk to someone. You might experienced a loss, bereavement, a change in family circumstances or a relationship. You might be suffering from an illness or health problems. Perhaps you have problems at work, with your employment or finances. You might have lost touch with yourself or feel uncertain about a life decision. You may be confused, unhappy, depressed, anxious, worried or sad. You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol. You may experienced a trauma or an abusive relationship.
You may have some ideas as to why you are seeking counselling or you may simply feel the need to talk to someone. You might experienced a loss, bereavement, a change in family circumstances or a relationship. You might be suffering from an illness or health problems. Perhaps you have problems at work, with your employment or finances. You might have lost touch with yourself or feel uncertain about a life decision. You may be confused, unhappy, depressed, anxious, worried or sad. You may have concerns about your body, weight, appearance, sexuality, drugs or alcohol. You may experienced a trauma or an abusive relationship.
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Radhika Arora
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Serves Area
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
Sometimes we all need additional support to navigate difficult times and making a decision to seek help for our personal problems can be daunting. I believe in creating a safe space to work together, where you are the expert in your own experiences and I have the experience and expertise in psychological theories and techniques. I believe that by bringing together this expertise we can work together to enable you to achieve your unique personal goals. Some of the relationship problems I work with include communication issues, affairs and betrayals, family issues, parenting issues, separation and divorce.
01206 237436 View 01206 237436
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Susannah Grant
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
London EC1A
We are in particularly difficult and challenging times for many people. Many people are currently experiencing heightened anxiety, stress, low mood, low self esteem and experiencing relationship difficulties. If you feel negatively impacted by recent times, please reach out and book a free consultation call. Tailored face-to-face or online therapy offers access to professional help, and support you during this time.
We are in particularly difficult and challenging times for many people. Many people are currently experiencing heightened anxiety, stress, low mood, low self esteem and experiencing relationship difficulties. If you feel negatively impacted by recent times, please reach out and book a free consultation call. Tailored face-to-face or online therapy offers access to professional help, and support you during this time.
07479 274375 View 07479 274375
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Dr Ryan Hesp
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Dunmow CM6
I’m a Clinical Psychologist (HCPC registered) with over 10 years’ experience across NHS, private and charitable services. I work with individuals, couples, and families who may feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, often facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, trauma, relationship difficulties, or difficult life experiences. People come to me to support a deeper understanding of themselves or their situation, to manage through difficult times, and to help create meaningful, lasting change. I offer a non‑judgemental space where we can make sense of what’s going on together and find a way forward that feels right for you.
I’m a Clinical Psychologist (HCPC registered) with over 10 years’ experience across NHS, private and charitable services. I work with individuals, couples, and families who may feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, often facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, trauma, relationship difficulties, or difficult life experiences. People come to me to support a deeper understanding of themselves or their situation, to manage through difficult times, and to help create meaningful, lasting change. I offer a non‑judgemental space where we can make sense of what’s going on together and find a way forward that feels right for you.
01279 744295 View 01279 744295
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Simon Wilson
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
London W1G
Are you struggling with addiction, out of control sexual behaviour or compulsivity? Are your behaviours spiralling out of control and you are fearful of what this may cost you? Are you facing relationship issues, fears about your sexual health and safety, work issues, anxiety, depression, trauma or legal action? As a UKCP registered Psychotherapist and COSRT accredited Clinical Sexologist I have specialised for 14 years in compulsive sexual behaviour, substance misuse and complex mental health concerns, helping my clients toward a path of recovery, rebuilding self esteem, healthy behaviours and better relationships.
Are you struggling with addiction, out of control sexual behaviour or compulsivity? Are your behaviours spiralling out of control and you are fearful of what this may cost you? Are you facing relationship issues, fears about your sexual health and safety, work issues, anxiety, depression, trauma or legal action? As a UKCP registered Psychotherapist and COSRT accredited Clinical Sexologist I have specialised for 14 years in compulsive sexual behaviour, substance misuse and complex mental health concerns, helping my clients toward a path of recovery, rebuilding self esteem, healthy behaviours and better relationships.
020 7046 0457 View 020 7046 0457
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Dr Ali Taba
Psychotherapist, PhD, COSRT Accred
Serves Area
Male and Female Sexual Dysfunctions, Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling Service in Cambridge & Online (phone & Video Call). I work with a wide range of male and female sexual difficulties, including: low sexual confidence, sexual anxiety (performance anxiety), sexual dissatisfaction, low desire for sex (desire mismatch), erectile problems, premature ejaculation, delayed or inhibited ejaculation, orgasm difficulties in women, vaginismus and sexual pain, sexual identity issues, & sex/porn addiction. I also work with relationship and marital problems, such as poor communication, intimacy issues, lack of trust & affairs.
Male and Female Sexual Dysfunctions, Sex Therapy and Couple Counselling Service in Cambridge & Online (phone & Video Call). I work with a wide range of male and female sexual difficulties, including: low sexual confidence, sexual anxiety (performance anxiety), sexual dissatisfaction, low desire for sex (desire mismatch), erectile problems, premature ejaculation, delayed or inhibited ejaculation, orgasm difficulties in women, vaginismus and sexual pain, sexual identity issues, & sex/porn addiction. I also work with relationship and marital problems, such as poor communication, intimacy issues, lack of trust & affairs.
01223 653962 View 01223 653962
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Talid Khan MA, HCPC – Addiction Therapist London
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
London W1G
Qualified Member of The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC).
Are you struggling with alcohol or substance use, behavioural addictions, pornography use, or compulsive sexual behaviours that feel increasingly hard to control? I’m Talid Khan, with over a decade of clinical experience, and one of the few clinicians in the UK accredited as an Addiction Therapist, qualified Sex Addiction Therapist, and HCPC-registered Art Psychotherapist. Formerly a Senior Psychotherapist at the Priory Hospital Roehampton, with NHS experience, I provide discreet specialist psychotherapy in Harley Street, St Paul’s, and via secure online sessions across the UK and internationally.
Qualified Member of The Association for the Treatment of Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (ATSAC).
Are you struggling with alcohol or substance use, behavioural addictions, pornography use, or compulsive sexual behaviours that feel increasingly hard to control? I’m Talid Khan, with over a decade of clinical experience, and one of the few clinicians in the UK accredited as an Addiction Therapist, qualified Sex Addiction Therapist, and HCPC-registered Art Psychotherapist. Formerly a Senior Psychotherapist at the Priory Hospital Roehampton, with NHS experience, I provide discreet specialist psychotherapy in Harley Street, St Paul’s, and via secure online sessions across the UK and internationally.
020 4634 0815 View 020 4634 0815

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Sexual Addiction Counsellors
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behaviour.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviours and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, alcohol and substance use medications, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behaviour takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behaviour can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviours that feel uncontrollable.