Infidelity Counselling in Bovingdon

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Dr Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
020 4538 6806 View 020 4538 6806
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Rebecca Ingram
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
Do you find yourself prioritising the external world and the needs of those around you? Perhaps you feel different to others or misunderstood in relationships? It may be you experience self-doubt, negative thinking or notice yourself repeating patterns that impact your relationships. Whatever is going on for you working together, relationally we can begin to explore ‘YOU’, focus on raising your awareness & understanding of the way you experience yourself, to identify your goals for therapy, to be open to learning new ways of being. Therapy is a commitment between client & therapist, to be open to wanting things to be different.
Do you find yourself prioritising the external world and the needs of those around you? Perhaps you feel different to others or misunderstood in relationships? It may be you experience self-doubt, negative thinking or notice yourself repeating patterns that impact your relationships. Whatever is going on for you working together, relationally we can begin to explore ‘YOU’, focus on raising your awareness & understanding of the way you experience yourself, to identify your goals for therapy, to be open to learning new ways of being. Therapy is a commitment between client & therapist, to be open to wanting things to be different.
01628 969896 View 01628 969896

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Helen Mia Harris Couples Therapist
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
I also work with: Infidelity, Co-dependency, Rejection, Heartbreak, Love and Loss
Are you living alone together? Is Your Relationship/Marriage in Crisis or facing difficult challenges at this time? Rekindle emotional closeness, trust and warmth. Do you have Marital Problems? I offer Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Individual Relationship Therapy and Coaching. My sessions include two Communication & Empathy PDFs which I will send to you after our session. – My sessions will help you both to strengthen appreciation, trust and emotional closeness by recognising the triggers and dynamics that are at play between you. I am passionate about the work I do with relationships and know I can help you both.
01622 938347 View 01622 938347
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Suzanne Lunn
Psychotherapist, MA
3 Endorsed
London SW1W
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
I also work with couples on issues such as communication, sex, open relationships, infidelity and divorce.
I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT). I have a post-graduate diploma in clinical sexology and relationship therapy and a foundation certificate in counselling skills and practice from the Contemporary Institute for Clinical Sexology (CICS).
020 3597 6612 View 020 3597 6612
Sinéad Ní Mhaoileoin
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Serves Area
I am a highly qualified Relationship & Sex Therapist with 15 years experience. I am also trained in 2 evidence-based treatment models, each grounded in decades of research, Emotionally Focused Therapy and The Gottman Method. These provide us with deeper understandings and knowledge of what is required to help couples build more secure, resilient and loving bonds. Often, couples in distress don't know how to respond to each other in the face of emotional turmoil as a result of not getting the love they need and want from each other. Unlocking these co-created patterns of dis-connection with a relationship therapist is often required.
I am a highly qualified Relationship & Sex Therapist with 15 years experience. I am also trained in 2 evidence-based treatment models, each grounded in decades of research, Emotionally Focused Therapy and The Gottman Method. These provide us with deeper understandings and knowledge of what is required to help couples build more secure, resilient and loving bonds. Often, couples in distress don't know how to respond to each other in the face of emotional turmoil as a result of not getting the love they need and want from each other. Unlocking these co-created patterns of dis-connection with a relationship therapist is often required.
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James Earl
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
4 Endorsed
Hampton TW12
I am an experienced and professionally qualified sex & relationship therapist, specialising in working with couples and individuals on restoring desire and intimacy, better communication, surviving affairs, sexual problems such as painful intercourse and ED, and compulsive sexual behavior (AKA sex addiction).
Sex & relationship counselling is for both couples and individuals, whether currently in relationships or not. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, sexualities, and types of relationship. Relationship counselling is a specialist form of therapy, so it is best to work with someone who has training in this specific model.
I am an experienced and professionally qualified sex & relationship therapist, specialising in working with couples and individuals on restoring desire and intimacy, better communication, surviving affairs, sexual problems such as painful intercourse and ED, and compulsive sexual behavior (AKA sex addiction).
Sex & relationship counselling is for both couples and individuals, whether currently in relationships or not. I welcome clients of all backgrounds, sexualities, and types of relationship. Relationship counselling is a specialist form of therapy, so it is best to work with someone who has training in this specific model.
01748 902263 View 01748 902263
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Lucy Anne McGroarty
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Perhaps you feel stuck, unable to focus or are struggling to overcome a challenge in your life. Perhaps goals feel easy to decide on but hard to stick to. Perhaps the same old thoughts keep running through your mind and you feel the cycle of negativity is ever lasting. Counselling can be the first step to overcome difficulties and address barriers getting in the way of moving forwards. Counselling can offer the space needed to reflect on what’s preventing positive change in your life. Counselling can help you find the tools you always possessed but needed some help finding to help you live a more fulfilling life.
Perhaps you feel stuck, unable to focus or are struggling to overcome a challenge in your life. Perhaps goals feel easy to decide on but hard to stick to. Perhaps the same old thoughts keep running through your mind and you feel the cycle of negativity is ever lasting. Counselling can be the first step to overcome difficulties and address barriers getting in the way of moving forwards. Counselling can offer the space needed to reflect on what’s preventing positive change in your life. Counselling can help you find the tools you always possessed but needed some help finding to help you live a more fulfilling life.
01525 659531 View 01525 659531
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Anna Davydova
Psychotherapist, MSc, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
London SW17
I work with people navigating relationship challenges — whether in dating, in partnerships or with family members. You might be thinking "I struggle to meet anyone..", "I can't stop thinking about my ex..", "I find it difficult to end my current relationship..", "I am anxious about filing for divorce..", "I seem to attract the wrong people all the time.." or "My mother or other family members create lots of stress in my life." Emotionally you might be feeling "I don't understand what's happening to me", "I don't feel like myself anymore..", or " I don't feel like I can manage it anymore and don't know how to move forward."
I work with people navigating relationship challenges — whether in dating, in partnerships or with family members. You might be thinking "I struggle to meet anyone..", "I can't stop thinking about my ex..", "I find it difficult to end my current relationship..", "I am anxious about filing for divorce..", "I seem to attract the wrong people all the time.." or "My mother or other family members create lots of stress in my life." Emotionally you might be feeling "I don't understand what's happening to me", "I don't feel like myself anymore..", or " I don't feel like I can manage it anymore and don't know how to move forward."
07752 952445 View 07752 952445
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Relationships, Identity LGBTQ Emma Barnes Therapy
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am an experienced therapist of 17 years. I am an accredited professional with the NCPS. I value all people and their lived experience. I can work with you to explore a deeper and better relationship with yourself and with others. Healing nurturing and growth are the qualities I bring to my clients. I work with you at your pace to explore and collaborate with you on how you want therapy to be. I hold a safe and confidential space for clients to be their full self, without judgement. Always offering a genuine connection with empathy and respect. Exploring past present and future ways of being. Online, in person, 1:1, and couples
I am an experienced therapist of 17 years. I am an accredited professional with the NCPS. I value all people and their lived experience. I can work with you to explore a deeper and better relationship with yourself and with others. Healing nurturing and growth are the qualities I bring to my clients. I work with you at your pace to explore and collaborate with you on how you want therapy to be. I hold a safe and confidential space for clients to be their full self, without judgement. Always offering a genuine connection with empathy and respect. Exploring past present and future ways of being. Online, in person, 1:1, and couples
01326 332075 View 01326 332075
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Kulsum Khalfan
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Harrow HA2
Does your current relationship feel difficult, complicated and stressful? Even though relationships are the cornerstone of our lives, they aren't always easy and can sometimes feel like an endless cycle of misunderstanding, blame and resentment. If your relationship leaves you feeling stressed, lonely and emotionally exhausted, then relationship counselling can be helpful. It can give you a safe space where you can explore couple dynamics and build an intentional relationship that is meaningful and rewarding.
Does your current relationship feel difficult, complicated and stressful? Even though relationships are the cornerstone of our lives, they aren't always easy and can sometimes feel like an endless cycle of misunderstanding, blame and resentment. If your relationship leaves you feeling stressed, lonely and emotionally exhausted, then relationship counselling can be helpful. It can give you a safe space where you can explore couple dynamics and build an intentional relationship that is meaningful and rewarding.
01895 547603 View 01895 547603
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Ms Sarah Enderby
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
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Bob Lynton
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
01748 901685 View 01748 901685
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RJUTherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
They may have difficulty with communication; conflict resolution; separation; attachment; infidelity and mental health, amongst others.
I offer a safe space to explore complex relationship issues, based on 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples and families. I enable meaningful change through the development of improved communication skills, advanced self-awareness and core psychological tools, which help the people I work with to move forwards.
01905 672311 View 01905 672311
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Helen Margaret Springer
Counsellor, MBACP
3 Endorsed
Hitchin SG5
For over 35 years, I have worked with people who had personal or relationship problems. We have together worked through the issues to explore and understand the sources and reasons for their feelings and troubles. In a relaxed and supportive setting, I have helped them discover and agree the solutions that were right for them. I am here to help you find the best solution for your emotional concerns.
For over 35 years, I have worked with people who had personal or relationship problems. We have together worked through the issues to explore and understand the sources and reasons for their feelings and troubles. In a relaxed and supportive setting, I have helped them discover and agree the solutions that were right for them. I am here to help you find the best solution for your emotional concerns.
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Silva Neves
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
London W1S
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
I am a fully qualified, experienced and accredited psychotherapist, specialist in psychosexual & relationship therapy, couples therapy, and the treatment of compulsive sexual behaviours. I am a clinical traumatologist specialist in providing therapy for survivors of sexual abuse. I offer clinical supervision to psychotherapists, psychologists, counsellors and other mental health professionals. I hold a full professional insurance.
020 3974 1463 View 020 3974 1463
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Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
Affairs: I work with couples where an affair has taken place.
Welcome to my page. If you and your partner arguing or have deafening silence due to unresolved issues, please call! I'm a couple’s psychotherapist who has worked with Relate and now focuses solely on relationships and some sexual difficulties. Whether your partner has had an affair, or you've realised that you no longer have the connection /intimacy, from before, therapy can help. Maybe you're single and have been struggling to meet someone whom you can share your life with. Sometimes it's our families or friends we are struggling with. I am based near Brixton Station and happy to do online sessions, I'm here to help.
020 3962 0928 View 020 3962 0928
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Devanshi Dileep Rao
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Online Only
Something brought you here. Maybe a relationship that feels frayed, an anxiety that won't let you rest, or a quiet sense that something needs to change. Reaching out is already an act of willingness, and that's where effective therapy begins. I'm a psychotherapist with a double Masters in Counselling and 1,400+ hours of practice. I work relationally. The relationship between us isn't just the container for the work. It is the work. As an Indian/UK Counsellor fluent in English, Hindi, and Kannada, I understand the particular weight of South Asian family dynamics and cultural expectations,you won't need to translate your world for me.
Something brought you here. Maybe a relationship that feels frayed, an anxiety that won't let you rest, or a quiet sense that something needs to change. Reaching out is already an act of willingness, and that's where effective therapy begins. I'm a psychotherapist with a double Masters in Counselling and 1,400+ hours of practice. I work relationally. The relationship between us isn't just the container for the work. It is the work. As an Indian/UK Counsellor fluent in English, Hindi, and Kannada, I understand the particular weight of South Asian family dynamics and cultural expectations,you won't need to translate your world for me.
020 4572 8795 x91 View 020 4572 8795 x91
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Mandy Sangha-Polak
Psychotherapist, MBACP
2 Endorsed
I am an expert in couple dynamics and individual issues related to relationships; especially lack of intimacy, repeated arguments, children and families, cultural differences, sexuality, affairs and money.
I work with professional people, either couples or individuals who are struggling in their relationships. I help them move forward by developing insight into their difficulties, and then unblocking the obstacles to change.
I am an expert in couple dynamics and individual issues related to relationships; especially lack of intimacy, repeated arguments, children and families, cultural differences, sexuality, affairs and money.
I work with professional people, either couples or individuals who are struggling in their relationships. I help them move forward by developing insight into their difficulties, and then unblocking the obstacles to change.
01748 902986 View 01748 902986
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Lizzy Duverney
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
London N3
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
Have you experienced a bereavement, break up, infidelity, anxiety or depression?
Successful therapy is the relationship between the client and therapist where there is trust, openness and the opportunity to explore your whole self where you can feel safe and brave to talk. I offer a professional, non-judgemental, empathic counselling relationship where you can become the expert in your life story and journey to emotional confidence.
020 3763 8562 View 020 3763 8562
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CoupleTherapistLondon
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
London WC1A
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
I can help you with: 1) communication and differences, 2) sex and ageing, 3) conflicts, 4) dealing with affairs.
I have a solid background in couples counselling and over 17 years of experience helping people.
020 4572 2488 View 020 4572 2488
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.