Sex Therapists in Bournemouth

Photo of Dr Wayne Adlem - Relink Therapy - (psychosexual/sex) Bournemouth, Psychologist
Relationship issues, Marital problems, Communication issues, Sexual issues related to poor health, Would you benefit from Coaching/Tuition, Body image issues, Issues with self-esteem, Sexual Dysfunction, Past Traumas, Difficulties with sex, Feel a mental block?
Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues, Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. RT has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives. • Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability. • Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service. • You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website. • Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency. • Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
Relationship issues, Marital problems, Communication issues, Sexual issues related to poor health, Would you benefit from Coaching/Tuition, Body image issues, Issues with self-esteem, Sexual Dysfunction, Past Traumas, Difficulties with sex, Feel a mental block?
Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues, Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. RT has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives. • Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability. • Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service. • You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website. • Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency. • Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
07922 409415 View 07922 409415
Photo of Predrag Bogdanovich, Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Predrag Bogdanovich
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I provide Affordable Short-Term Psychosexual Therapy, Relationship Therapy, and Coaching in Optimal Life or/and Sex Coaching.
From personal experience, I know how difficult it can be to talk about intimate/sexual problems. Therefore, I congratulate you on finding the courage to do so. I would be honored to assist you in your journey of healing or just a better understanding of sex and love in your life and your relationship/s
I provide Affordable Short-Term Psychosexual Therapy, Relationship Therapy, and Coaching in Optimal Life or/and Sex Coaching.
From personal experience, I know how difficult it can be to talk about intimate/sexual problems. Therefore, I congratulate you on finding the courage to do so. I would be honored to assist you in your journey of healing or just a better understanding of sex and love in your life and your relationship/s
020 3540 7293 View 020 3540 7293
Photo of Richard Absalom, Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Richard Absalom
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Online Only
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
Update April 2025: I currently have some daytime and late afternoon availability Experienced and approachable therapist with track record of helping people move through life challenges. I help sensitive individuals reach their full potential, and people pleasers find their truth. Through self discovery, we will identify how old patterns of thinking, limiting beliefs, or unhelpful behaviours have been holding you back. ​Working together, you'll gain a clearer perspective, and replace self-doubt with self-worth.
I am what is known a Psychotherapist and Sex Therapist.
Update April 2025: I currently have some daytime and late afternoon availability Experienced and approachable therapist with track record of helping people move through life challenges. I help sensitive individuals reach their full potential, and people pleasers find their truth. Through self discovery, we will identify how old patterns of thinking, limiting beliefs, or unhelpful behaviours have been holding you back. ​Working together, you'll gain a clearer perspective, and replace self-doubt with self-worth.
01202 013959 View 01202 013959
Photo of Jess Townsend, Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Jess Townsend
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Many people struggle in silence with sexual concerns—whether it's loss of desire, difficulties with arousal or orgasm, painful sex, sexual compulsivity, or shame around sexuality.
I’m a counsellor and a trainee psychosexual therapist, offering a warm, confidential space to explore issues around sex, intimacy, relationships, and identity. I bring experience from my earlier work with gambling addictions and general counselling, which deepened my understanding of how our behaviours, bodies, and emotions are often closely linked.
Many people struggle in silence with sexual concerns—whether it's loss of desire, difficulties with arousal or orgasm, painful sex, sexual compulsivity, or shame around sexuality.
I’m a counsellor and a trainee psychosexual therapist, offering a warm, confidential space to explore issues around sex, intimacy, relationships, and identity. I bring experience from my earlier work with gambling addictions and general counselling, which deepened my understanding of how our behaviours, bodies, and emotions are often closely linked.
01202 144001 View 01202 144001
Photo of Joanna Atkinson, Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Joanna Atkinson
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
You may also feel overwhelmed by intrusive thoughts or unable to cope, questioning your sexuality or struggling in relationships.
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
You may also feel overwhelmed by intrusive thoughts or unable to cope, questioning your sexuality or struggling in relationships.
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
01202 125114 View 01202 125114
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Keely Sadler
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
We can look at matters such as relationships, sexuality, sense of self, gender, anxiety, kink, ADHD, depression, domestic abuse, disability and trauma.
Is everything getting too much right now? Are your struggling with your thoughts or feelings, or maybe there's just a general sense of overwhelm? We can unpick those blocks together maybe. No judgement or bias, just a quiet space to look at what's going on for you. I work with both individuals and couples, looking at communication and connection. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is mainly person-centred, meaning that our sessions are led by you at your pace. I don’t have a fix but together we can work to find the answers within you … so maybe pull up a chair?
We can look at matters such as relationships, sexuality, sense of self, gender, anxiety, kink, ADHD, depression, domestic abuse, disability and trauma.
Is everything getting too much right now? Are your struggling with your thoughts or feelings, or maybe there's just a general sense of overwhelm? We can unpick those blocks together maybe. No judgement or bias, just a quiet space to look at what's going on for you. I work with both individuals and couples, looking at communication and connection. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is mainly person-centred, meaning that our sessions are led by you at your pace. I don’t have a fix but together we can work to find the answers within you … so maybe pull up a chair?
01323 396087 View 01323 396087
Photo of Denise White - Specialist Relationship Therapist, Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Denise White - Specialist Relationship Therapist
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Serves Area
For some, issues around sexual intimacy or sexuality may be causing distress, or, it may be that you would like support with the loss and disruption separation and divorce can bring.
I am a specialist relationship therapist, qualified to support you as a couple or individual. When relationships become challenging, I can help you work through the uncertainty, confusion, conflict and disconnection, allowing you to move forward in your life and relationships, with clarity and understanding.
For some, issues around sexual intimacy or sexuality may be causing distress, or, it may be that you would like support with the loss and disruption separation and divorce can bring.
I am a specialist relationship therapist, qualified to support you as a couple or individual. When relationships become challenging, I can help you work through the uncertainty, confusion, conflict and disconnection, allowing you to move forward in your life and relationships, with clarity and understanding.
01202 125398 View 01202 125398
Photo of Janet King - New Horizons Network, Counsellor, MBACP
New Horizons Network
Counsellor, MBACP
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
07507 562278 View 07507 562278
Photo of Amelia Hilton, Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Amelia Hilton
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am a Jersey-based counsellor, working with UK clients online. I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your feelings, desires, and concerns.
I am a Jersey-based counsellor, working with UK clients online. I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your feelings, desires, and concerns.
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Photo of Darren Northeast - TalkItOut Therapy, Counsellor, MBACP
TalkItOut Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Counselling can be incredibly beneficial when it comes to addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, emotional stress, childhood, relationship concerns, and more. I have extensive training and experience in various counselling approaches, ensuring that I can tailor our sessions to meet YOUR unique needs. Whether you are seeking individual counselling therapy or couples therapy - I'm here to support you on your journey towards personal growth and self-discovery. When you choose a qualified counsellor, you are not only investing in yourself but also in your overall well-being.
Counselling can be incredibly beneficial when it comes to addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, emotional stress, childhood, relationship concerns, and more. I have extensive training and experience in various counselling approaches, ensuring that I can tailor our sessions to meet YOUR unique needs. Whether you are seeking individual counselling therapy or couples therapy - I'm here to support you on your journey towards personal growth and self-discovery. When you choose a qualified counsellor, you are not only investing in yourself but also in your overall well-being.
01202 125933 View 01202 125933
Photo of Dr Yordan K. Zhekov, Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Dr Yordan K. Zhekov
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, stressed or struggling with everyday life? Perhaps you are experiencing feelings you can't quite identify? Are you looking for help with various life challenging issues/situations? Have you got to the point where you can't go on alone and need someone else to help you? Whatever you are facing, you no longer have to do this alone, I am here to provide you with relevant support and address your needs. As an integrative counsellor I am using a compilation of therapeutic methods tailored to the individual's needs and goals providing an environment for enablement and empowerment of their achievement.
01923 936765 View 01923 936765
Photo of Karen Dibbens - Karen Dibbens Counselling Services, Psychotherapist, MBACP
Karen Dibbens Counselling Services
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.
01354 705994 View 01354 705994
Photo of Ian Anderson, Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Ian Anderson
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
020 3879 4351 View 020 3879 4351

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Photo of Amaris Raiana, Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Amaris Raiana
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
I have specialist qualifications in sex & relationships - everything from dysfunction to affairs, and I also help people navigate life’s other challenges- everything from anxiety and self-doubt to identify and workplace issues.
My clients often arrive in my chair, feeling stuck in their relationships or within themselves. They crave deeper connection, intimacy & fulfilment but don’t know how to get there. Maybe past wounds, shame or patterns keep them from the life they desire. My clients are ready for change, open to exploring mind, body, and soul, and want a holistic, integrative approach. They want a space to feel seen, heard and empowered- whether in their relationship or as an individual. They are searching for more than surface-level fixes; they seek lasting transformation.
I have specialist qualifications in sex & relationships - everything from dysfunction to affairs, and I also help people navigate life’s other challenges- everything from anxiety and self-doubt to identify and workplace issues.
My clients often arrive in my chair, feeling stuck in their relationships or within themselves. They crave deeper connection, intimacy & fulfilment but don’t know how to get there. Maybe past wounds, shame or patterns keep them from the life they desire. My clients are ready for change, open to exploring mind, body, and soul, and want a holistic, integrative approach. They want a space to feel seen, heard and empowered- whether in their relationship or as an individual. They are searching for more than surface-level fixes; they seek lasting transformation.
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Photo of Lisa McGarva - Thinking Feeling Moving, Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Thinking Feeling Moving
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
Online Only
couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus
Hello, my name is Lisa McGarva (she/ they). As a Queer Australian Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Yoga Therapist, Counsellor, and Educator, I specialise in guiding individuals, couples, and people in Ethical Non -Monogamous relationships, on their journey towards greater emotional and sexual well-being. My approach integrates evidence-based practices, through the lens of GSERD (Gender, Sexual, Erotic, Relationship Diversity), Somatics and soon-to-be completed EMDR training for trauma recovery. I offer both in- person intensive therapy retreats globally and online sessions, providing a safe and supportive space.
couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus
Hello, my name is Lisa McGarva (she/ they). As a Queer Australian Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Yoga Therapist, Counsellor, and Educator, I specialise in guiding individuals, couples, and people in Ethical Non -Monogamous relationships, on their journey towards greater emotional and sexual well-being. My approach integrates evidence-based practices, through the lens of GSERD (Gender, Sexual, Erotic, Relationship Diversity), Somatics and soon-to-be completed EMDR training for trauma recovery. I offer both in- person intensive therapy retreats globally and online sessions, providing a safe and supportive space.
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Photo of Janet King, Counsellor, MBACP
Janet King
Counsellor, MBACP
If sex and internet pornography is problematic I can help you with your compulsive behaviours.
As a psychotherapist, supervisor and trainer with over 28years of experience I have been privileged to work with courageous people from all walks of life, cultures and backgrounds. From adults, to children, young people and couples, LGBGTQ+, kink and polyamorous communities . With the help of therapy they have been able to explore what has been troubling them and discover a way forward. I offer an environment that is supportive, warm, confidential and free from judgment. Together we can create a space in which you will be able to explore areas of your life you wish to understand, improve on or make changes to.
If sex and internet pornography is problematic I can help you with your compulsive behaviours.
As a psychotherapist, supervisor and trainer with over 28years of experience I have been privileged to work with courageous people from all walks of life, cultures and backgrounds. From adults, to children, young people and couples, LGBGTQ+, kink and polyamorous communities . With the help of therapy they have been able to explore what has been troubling them and discover a way forward. I offer an environment that is supportive, warm, confidential and free from judgment. Together we can create a space in which you will be able to explore areas of your life you wish to understand, improve on or make changes to.
01425 209099 View 01425 209099
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Clare Lay
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I am a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist in private practice, I trained with Relate and a member of the BACP, NCPS and am a Registered Member of COSRT (Regulatory body for sex therapists).
I work face to face, online or over the telephone with couples or individuals including long and short term therapy. I listen sensitively, looking at how relationships work and try to understand causes of problems and find solutions, teaching skills for better outcomes, particularly around communication and couple functioning.
I am a fully qualified Relationship Counsellor and Psychosexual Therapist in private practice, I trained with Relate and a member of the BACP, NCPS and am a Registered Member of COSRT (Regulatory body for sex therapists).
I work face to face, online or over the telephone with couples or individuals including long and short term therapy. I listen sensitively, looking at how relationships work and try to understand causes of problems and find solutions, teaching skills for better outcomes, particularly around communication and couple functioning.
01489 357130 View 01489 357130
Photo of Joanne Mander, Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Joanne Mander
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Online Only
Hello there and welcome…my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.
Hello there and welcome…my name is Joanne and I specialise in Couples Therapy, Psychosexual Therapy and Sex/Porn addiction.
I work with all styles of relationships and neurodivergence. I will support you to find new healthier ways of relating and rebuilding connection with your partner whether that be communication , trust or an intimate connection. In terms of addiction, I will support you to change unhelpful patterns of behaviour and aid recovery from sex/porn addiction.
01538 712308 View 01538 712308
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Clare Webber
Counsellor, MBACP
Eastleigh SO50
I have specialist sex & porn addiction and work with individuals and couples.
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I believe you can only go as far as your counsellor has been. This lived experience means I don't just imagine what you have been through; I have worked through similar situations, which enriches the work we can do together. I see myself as a collective counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, TA and addiction counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
I have specialist sex & porn addiction and work with individuals and couples.
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I believe you can only go as far as your counsellor has been. This lived experience means I don't just imagine what you have been through; I have worked through similar situations, which enriches the work we can do together. I see myself as a collective counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, TA and addiction counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
023 9431 1229 View 023 9431 1229
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Community Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Eastleigh SO53
We place important emphasis on the skills necessary for using counselling most effectively, regardless of the age, sex or orientation of the client.
Community Counselling is built on foundations of humanistic therapy. We offer counsellors from different counties and varied modalities within the humanistic approaches. Our ethos is to provide high quality service to our clients and operate on a social enterprise system, which applies a strategy to maximise improvements in the well-being of disadvantaged client groups. ​CC aims to provide a non-judgemental, confidential and supportive environment to promote an atmosphere of trust, enabling clients to bring to the session what is important for them.
We place important emphasis on the skills necessary for using counselling most effectively, regardless of the age, sex or orientation of the client.
Community Counselling is built on foundations of humanistic therapy. We offer counsellors from different counties and varied modalities within the humanistic approaches. Our ethos is to provide high quality service to our clients and operate on a social enterprise system, which applies a strategy to maximise improvements in the well-being of disadvantaged client groups. ​CC aims to provide a non-judgemental, confidential and supportive environment to promote an atmosphere of trust, enabling clients to bring to the session what is important for them.
023 9200 3242 View 023 9200 3242

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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.