Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Bournemouth
Life can deliver challenges, both for us as individuals and as a couple. Are you struggling with changes, feeling stuck perhaps or finding things hard to manage? Are you looking for help in managing daily stressors or perhaps longer term issues that have affected you or your relationships? I am here to help.
Life can deliver challenges, both for us as individuals and as a couple. Are you struggling with changes, feeling stuck perhaps or finding things hard to manage? Are you looking for help in managing daily stressors or perhaps longer term issues that have affected you or your relationships? I am here to help.
Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. - Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues.
Wayne has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives.
• Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability.
• Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service.
• You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website.
• Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency.
• Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. - Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues.
Wayne has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives.
• Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability.
• Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service.
• You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website.
• Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency.
• Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
I am a bisexual cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you can explore what’s been heavy to carry and feel seen and accepted just as you are.
Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
I am a bisexual cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you can explore what’s been heavy to carry and feel seen and accepted just as you are.
Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
Do you feel that you have a certain way of understanding yourself and fitting into the world? It could be to work hard or to make sure everyone else is okay before yourself. Has that way of understanding yourself stopped working? You may be experiencing anxiety, depression or feeling stuck? If so, then talking therapy may help you to make sense of the world and your place in it. I am passionate in my belief that people have an amazing capacity for change and growth. I work by providing an environment that helps people flourish and find their true, vital self.
Do you feel that you have a certain way of understanding yourself and fitting into the world? It could be to work hard or to make sure everyone else is okay before yourself. Has that way of understanding yourself stopped working? You may be experiencing anxiety, depression or feeling stuck? If so, then talking therapy may help you to make sense of the world and your place in it. I am passionate in my belief that people have an amazing capacity for change and growth. I work by providing an environment that helps people flourish and find their true, vital self.
I work with adults of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, and belief systems, including members of the LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, and kink communities.
Feeling stressed, low, stuck, or overwhelmed? I support adults living with the effects of trauma, anxiety, and low mood, as well as those affected by a loved one's challenges.
You deserve a safe space where you can be fully yourself.
We’ll work at a pace that feels right for you, helping you make sense of what is happening.
Everything stays between us, no judgement, just real support.
I work with adults of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship structures, and belief systems, including members of the LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, and kink communities.
Feeling stressed, low, stuck, or overwhelmed? I support adults living with the effects of trauma, anxiety, and low mood, as well as those affected by a loved one's challenges.
You deserve a safe space where you can be fully yourself.
We’ll work at a pace that feels right for you, helping you make sense of what is happening.
Everything stays between us, no judgement, just real support.
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
Are you or your child finding it difficult to cope with life’s challenges? At times, we can all face situations that affect our mental health. You or your child may be experiencing thoughts or behaviours that cause confusion, distress, or harm. Experiences such as bullying, feeling out of place, or struggling with social and cultural expectations can have a profound impact on wellbeing, sometimes leading to anxiety, low mood, or other mental health difficulties. I understand that seeking help can feel daunting, and my aim is to provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you or your child can feel at ease.
Are you or your child finding it difficult to cope with life’s challenges? At times, we can all face situations that affect our mental health. You or your child may be experiencing thoughts or behaviours that cause confusion, distress, or harm. Experiences such as bullying, feeling out of place, or struggling with social and cultural expectations can have a profound impact on wellbeing, sometimes leading to anxiety, low mood, or other mental health difficulties. I understand that seeking help can feel daunting, and my aim is to provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space where you or your child can feel at ease.
Life can be challenging, and it's not uncommon to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck at times. I provide a safe and confidential space to explore your thoughts and emotions. Whether you're dealing with stress, relationship issues, wanting to heal your inner child or address feelings of sadness.
Navigating life can be tough, filled with changes, pressures, and uncertainties. As a therapist committed to working with you, I create a welcoming environment where clients can openly express their thoughts and feelings.
Life can be challenging, and it's not uncommon to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck at times. I provide a safe and confidential space to explore your thoughts and emotions. Whether you're dealing with stress, relationship issues, wanting to heal your inner child or address feelings of sadness.
Navigating life can be tough, filled with changes, pressures, and uncertainties. As a therapist committed to working with you, I create a welcoming environment where clients can openly express their thoughts and feelings.
People come to psychotherapy for all kinds of different reasons. Perhaps a particular issue is making life very difficult, or maybe you have more general feelings of discontentment, unease or unhappiness that you want to address. One-to-one psychotherapy can help by providing a safe, therapeutic space in which you feel able to explore and express difficult thoughts, feelings and memories. This process of deep exploration helps you to grow and develop in areas that have previously felt stuck, painful or difficult to resolve.
People come to psychotherapy for all kinds of different reasons. Perhaps a particular issue is making life very difficult, or maybe you have more general feelings of discontentment, unease or unhappiness that you want to address. One-to-one psychotherapy can help by providing a safe, therapeutic space in which you feel able to explore and express difficult thoughts, feelings and memories. This process of deep exploration helps you to grow and develop in areas that have previously felt stuck, painful or difficult to resolve.
We can look at issues such as anxiety, sexuality, neurodivergence, gender, stress, overwhelm, communication issues, sex, infidelity, ENM and kink.
Are you finding life a little difficult at the moment? Maybe there feels like there’s a block stopping you from moving forward. Is communication causing problems for you, leaving you feeling unheard and frustrated? Are you feeling disconnected from those important relationships? Together we can look at what’s going on for you and unpick the difficult bits. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is rooted in the person-centred approach, meaning that our sessions are led by you at your pace, although I’ll gently encourage you to explore the tougher stuff together in our sessions.
We can look at issues such as anxiety, sexuality, neurodivergence, gender, stress, overwhelm, communication issues, sex, infidelity, ENM and kink.
Are you finding life a little difficult at the moment? Maybe there feels like there’s a block stopping you from moving forward. Is communication causing problems for you, leaving you feeling unheard and frustrated? Are you feeling disconnected from those important relationships? Together we can look at what’s going on for you and unpick the difficult bits. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is rooted in the person-centred approach, meaning that our sessions are led by you at your pace, although I’ll gently encourage you to explore the tougher stuff together in our sessions.
From adults, to children, young people and couples, LGBGTQ+, kink and polyamorous communities .
Are you at a loss in your relationship? has the intimacy and communication gone or would you like to try something new? You may be troubled by sexual behaviours/compulsions? Whatever the issue you are not alone. I am a sex positive psychosexual and relationship specialist and here to help you navigate your way to a better relationship and or sex life.
From adults, to children, young people and couples, LGBGTQ+, kink and polyamorous communities .
Are you at a loss in your relationship? has the intimacy and communication gone or would you like to try something new? You may be troubled by sexual behaviours/compulsions? Whatever the issue you are not alone. I am a sex positive psychosexual and relationship specialist and here to help you navigate your way to a better relationship and or sex life.
Hi, I am an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist working online with individuals and couples (18+), supporting people in their self-discovery journey. I believe that past experiences impact how we are and relate in the present, and that is through relationships that we heal. I facilitate a safe and accepting space for us to build a genuine and trusting relationship to help you connect to your authentic self. I focus on nurturing your potential by exploring your feelings, needs, thoughts, and experiences to increase your self-awareness. I work holistically; I consider the mind, emotions, body, and spirit as a whole.
Hi, I am an Integrative Relational Psychotherapist working online with individuals and couples (18+), supporting people in their self-discovery journey. I believe that past experiences impact how we are and relate in the present, and that is through relationships that we heal. I facilitate a safe and accepting space for us to build a genuine and trusting relationship to help you connect to your authentic self. I focus on nurturing your potential by exploring your feelings, needs, thoughts, and experiences to increase your self-awareness. I work holistically; I consider the mind, emotions, body, and spirit as a whole.
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Do you wake up in the morning and dread the day ahead? Are past experiences informing the choices you make today?
Perhaps you've noticed the same struggles coming up again and again, or you're finding it hard to shift how you feel about yourself. You might be navigating a difficult relationship, processing something from your past, or simply feeling like you need someone to talk to who can offer a different perspective.
Therapy is a space to explore whatever's weighing on you. Anxiety, depression, relationship patterns, body image struggles, sexual difficulties, grief, trauma, anger, stress.
Do you wake up in the morning and dread the day ahead? Are past experiences informing the choices you make today?
Perhaps you've noticed the same struggles coming up again and again, or you're finding it hard to shift how you feel about yourself. You might be navigating a difficult relationship, processing something from your past, or simply feeling like you need someone to talk to who can offer a different perspective.
Therapy is a space to explore whatever's weighing on you. Anxiety, depression, relationship patterns, body image struggles, sexual difficulties, grief, trauma, anger, stress.
I am a sex-positive, GDSR, Kink-affirming therapist who supports those exploring their sexualities and desires without shame or judgment.
I work with both couples and individuals navigating sexual, relationship and intimacy difficulties and I bring a psychosexual-informed lens to help foster connection, understanding, and pleasure in relationships. My work is neuroaffirming, and I support adults exploring life through the lens of neurodivergence (including Autism, ADHD).
I am a sex-positive, GDSR, Kink-affirming therapist who supports those exploring their sexualities and desires without shame or judgment.
I work with both couples and individuals navigating sexual, relationship and intimacy difficulties and I bring a psychosexual-informed lens to help foster connection, understanding, and pleasure in relationships. My work is neuroaffirming, and I support adults exploring life through the lens of neurodivergence (including Autism, ADHD).
Do you struggle with difficulties in your life that are preventing you from living your life to the fullest? Do you feel overwhelmed, uncertain and unable to cope with your emotions and behaviours? This is a natural part of life, and from time to time we all need support to help us understand why we feel or act the way we do, so we can find clarity and develop ways to cope.
Do you struggle with difficulties in your life that are preventing you from living your life to the fullest? Do you feel overwhelmed, uncertain and unable to cope with your emotions and behaviours? This is a natural part of life, and from time to time we all need support to help us understand why we feel or act the way we do, so we can find clarity and develop ways to cope.
I am a Gestalt Therapist. My Counselling Room is very spacious, safe & secure. It provides a confidential environment for you to express yourself freely & openly in any way you feel comfortable, about any issues you have to deal with, without fear of judgement or offending or upsetting those closest to you, family, friends or colleagues. A place where you're able to be honest with yourself, about how situations or events affect you personally, where you can explore those feelings, thoughts & emotions that can sometimes be hard to deal with. COVID-19 SAFETY MEASURES:- F2F (With 2m Social Distancing), PHONE & ZOOM Availablity.
I am a Gestalt Therapist. My Counselling Room is very spacious, safe & secure. It provides a confidential environment for you to express yourself freely & openly in any way you feel comfortable, about any issues you have to deal with, without fear of judgement or offending or upsetting those closest to you, family, friends or colleagues. A place where you're able to be honest with yourself, about how situations or events affect you personally, where you can explore those feelings, thoughts & emotions that can sometimes be hard to deal with. COVID-19 SAFETY MEASURES:- F2F (With 2m Social Distancing), PHONE & ZOOM Availablity.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
I am an Integrative Counsellor and TRE Provider (Trauma and Tension Releasing Exercise) based in Southampton Hampshire. Being Integrative means that I am able to use tools from many different types of therapy to support each individual I work with. TRE is a body based tool that enables me to help people in an alternative way than traditional talk therapy.
Consensual non- monogamy/ erection problems/ inability to orgasm/ low sexual desire/ painful sex/ premature or early ejaculation/ problematic porn use/ relationship problems (inc. couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ EMDR Trauma Therapy.
Lisa trained as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with CICS in the UK. She is a GSRD (Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity) Therapist. Lisa integrates her expertise as a Yoga Therapist, Educator, and EMDR Trauma Therapist to support individuals, couples, and polycules in achieving greater emotional, mental, physical, and sexual well-being.
Pluralistic in her approach using a bio-psycho-social framework, while working somatically to help people feel safe in their bodies, gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, explore how it fits within their relationships, and access pleasure.
Australian, sex-positive & Queer.
Consensual non- monogamy/ erection problems/ inability to orgasm/ low sexual desire/ painful sex/ premature or early ejaculation/ problematic porn use/ relationship problems (inc. couples and poly)/ sex, gender, erotic and relationship identity concerns/ sexual compulsions/ specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ EMDR Trauma Therapy.
Lisa trained as a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with CICS in the UK. She is a GSRD (Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversity) Therapist. Lisa integrates her expertise as a Yoga Therapist, Educator, and EMDR Trauma Therapist to support individuals, couples, and polycules in achieving greater emotional, mental, physical, and sexual well-being.
Pluralistic in her approach using a bio-psycho-social framework, while working somatically to help people feel safe in their bodies, gain a deeper understanding of their sexuality, explore how it fits within their relationships, and access pleasure.
Australian, sex-positive & Queer.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.