Self-Harming Counselling in Bournemouth
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
I work with parents/carers who feel emotionally overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in patterns that feel hard to change. They may be managing anxiety, stress, low mood, or the impact of past experiences while supporting children with emotional or neurodivergent needs. They want understanding, clarity, and practical support not judgement or pressure and are looking for a calm, trauma-informed space to make sense of what’s happening and find a way forward that feels manageable and compassionate.
I also support young people and families using dyadic developmental pareneting approach and PACE (Play, Acceptance, Curiosity and Empathy)
I work with parents/carers who feel emotionally overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in patterns that feel hard to change. They may be managing anxiety, stress, low mood, or the impact of past experiences while supporting children with emotional or neurodivergent needs. They want understanding, clarity, and practical support not judgement or pressure and are looking for a calm, trauma-informed space to make sense of what’s happening and find a way forward that feels manageable and compassionate.
I also support young people and families using dyadic developmental pareneting approach and PACE (Play, Acceptance, Curiosity and Empathy)
I am an accredited, integrative therapeutic counsellor, finding that working in this way, gives uniqueness with each client, connecting in a way that is best suited to them as an individual. I have extensive experience, working with a variety of clients, of all ages.
I am an accredited, integrative therapeutic counsellor, finding that working in this way, gives uniqueness with each client, connecting in a way that is best suited to them as an individual. I have extensive experience, working with a variety of clients, of all ages.
I am happy for you to contact me, in whichever way you feel comfortable with, making this first move to contact someone is the hardest step of all and it takes courage. We can have a chat and you can have a think about whether you think and feel I can help you and whether you would feel comfortable to share and work with me. My method is holistic, which involves evaluating and encouraging the alignment of your complete being. Your mind, body and soul.
I am happy for you to contact me, in whichever way you feel comfortable with, making this first move to contact someone is the hardest step of all and it takes courage. We can have a chat and you can have a think about whether you think and feel I can help you and whether you would feel comfortable to share and work with me. My method is holistic, which involves evaluating and encouraging the alignment of your complete being. Your mind, body and soul.
Hi, my name is Sophie Smith, I am a therapeutic counsellor and supervisor. I am a registered member of the NCPS (National counselling and psychotherapy society ). I am currently only able to offer telephone or online sessions. I like to work with clients who are willing to be open minded to the counselling process. I enjoy working with a wide range of issues and if a client has a goal in mind we can look to achieve this. On the other hand, if a client hasn't set goals it's a opportunity to look at what they want to achieve in counselling. As a Counselling Supervisor, I offer tailored guidance that empowers professionals to thrive
Hi, my name is Sophie Smith, I am a therapeutic counsellor and supervisor. I am a registered member of the NCPS (National counselling and psychotherapy society ). I am currently only able to offer telephone or online sessions. I like to work with clients who are willing to be open minded to the counselling process. I enjoy working with a wide range of issues and if a client has a goal in mind we can look to achieve this. On the other hand, if a client hasn't set goals it's a opportunity to look at what they want to achieve in counselling. As a Counselling Supervisor, I offer tailored guidance that empowers professionals to thrive
I am Claire, I’m here to offer a safe, confidential and supportive space, for you to explore your thoughts feelings and experiences. As a Humanistic Integretive counsellor I will tailor my approach to your individual needs and preferences. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating or sleeping problems or relationship issues. If you are feeling lost and uncertain about the future, or just struggling to navigate life’s challenges, we will work together to help you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build resilience, and cultivate a sense of empowerment. “You know what is best for you”
I am Claire, I’m here to offer a safe, confidential and supportive space, for you to explore your thoughts feelings and experiences. As a Humanistic Integretive counsellor I will tailor my approach to your individual needs and preferences. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating or sleeping problems or relationship issues. If you are feeling lost and uncertain about the future, or just struggling to navigate life’s challenges, we will work together to help you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build resilience, and cultivate a sense of empowerment. “You know what is best for you”
Monika Burzykowska, MA, is a Dramatherapist and Family Support Worker with a creative and compassionate approach to healing. She works with children, adolescents, and families, providing a safe and empowering space for individuals to grow. Monika offers sessions in both Polish and English, and is deeply committed to supporting migrants, asylum seekers, and other minority groups.
Her work is holistic, honoring the connection between somatic (body) and psychological processes. She uses creative methods to help clients express and process difficult experiences, and believes in the value of nature as a therapeutic tool.
Monika Burzykowska, MA, is a Dramatherapist and Family Support Worker with a creative and compassionate approach to healing. She works with children, adolescents, and families, providing a safe and empowering space for individuals to grow. Monika offers sessions in both Polish and English, and is deeply committed to supporting migrants, asylum seekers, and other minority groups.
Her work is holistic, honoring the connection between somatic (body) and psychological processes. She uses creative methods to help clients express and process difficult experiences, and believes in the value of nature as a therapeutic tool.
Do you suffer from difficult thoughts, feelings, or behaviours? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma or relationship issues? If you need help with any aspect of your mental health, then do get in touch. I offer both Integrative Psychotherapy and Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP), an evidence-based, effective therapy that can bring change in a small number of sessions in Bournemouth, Christchurch, and Poole.
Do you suffer from difficult thoughts, feelings, or behaviours? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma or relationship issues? If you need help with any aspect of your mental health, then do get in touch. I offer both Integrative Psychotherapy and Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP), an evidence-based, effective therapy that can bring change in a small number of sessions in Bournemouth, Christchurch, and Poole.
I strongly believe that in order to provide the best possible psychological help there is a need to build tailored, high-quality programmes for each and every client. I offer a bespoke approach with a strong focus on discretion, privacy and confidentiality.
I strongly believe that in order to provide the best possible psychological help there is a need to build tailored, high-quality programmes for each and every client. I offer a bespoke approach with a strong focus on discretion, privacy and confidentiality.
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
It's about you, not me. No one else has lived your life or had your experiences. No one else is facing what you're facing now. Big or small, we can talk it through together and find a way forward.
It's about you, not me. No one else has lived your life or had your experiences. No one else is facing what you're facing now. Big or small, we can talk it through together and find a way forward.
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach who has a range of experience from working with children and young people to adults ranging from 18-60+. I provide a safe environment where you can come and explore any issues or feelings you have, without the fear of being judged or told what to do. I believe we all have the tools to solve our own problems or at least find some acceptance around them; sometimes things are just too hazy and jumbled to see clearly. In my own experience I have found that having the space to explore what is going on with another human being outside your personal life can work wonders. I am not saying I can
I am a fully qualified Counsellor and Coach who has a range of experience from working with children and young people to adults ranging from 18-60+. I provide a safe environment where you can come and explore any issues or feelings you have, without the fear of being judged or told what to do. I believe we all have the tools to solve our own problems or at least find some acceptance around them; sometimes things are just too hazy and jumbled to see clearly. In my own experience I have found that having the space to explore what is going on with another human being outside your personal life can work wonders. I am not saying I can
Seeking support can be daunting -but you have taken the courageous first step! Working with adults & young people aged 11+, I offer an opportunity for you to explore your relationship with yourself, with others & with the wider world, drawing on your own internal strengths & resources to build your self-awareness & self-acceptance to help you make sense of things & feel more clarity. Stepping away from a focus on diagnoses & labels, working together acknowledging you as an individual we can explore the impact that your own unique set of challenges & experiences has had on your ability to engage with & enjoy the world around you.
Seeking support can be daunting -but you have taken the courageous first step! Working with adults & young people aged 11+, I offer an opportunity for you to explore your relationship with yourself, with others & with the wider world, drawing on your own internal strengths & resources to build your self-awareness & self-acceptance to help you make sense of things & feel more clarity. Stepping away from a focus on diagnoses & labels, working together acknowledging you as an individual we can explore the impact that your own unique set of challenges & experiences has had on your ability to engage with & enjoy the world around you.
I am an accredited integrative counsellor, passionate about supporting you to heal and grow through meeting together regularly. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgemental, and confidential therapeutic relationship, walking alongside you as you explore difficulties, work towards your goals, and create meaningful, lasting change.
I hold both an BA and MA in Counselling and have over 23 years of experience working with adults and couples. I am trained in a range of therapeutic approaches and work integratively, tailoring therapy to meet your individual needs.
I am an accredited integrative counsellor, passionate about supporting you to heal and grow through meeting together regularly. I aim to provide a safe, non-judgemental, and confidential therapeutic relationship, walking alongside you as you explore difficulties, work towards your goals, and create meaningful, lasting change.
I hold both an BA and MA in Counselling and have over 23 years of experience working with adults and couples. I am trained in a range of therapeutic approaches and work integratively, tailoring therapy to meet your individual needs.
Let me start by saying I’ve been to see a psychologist; why mention this? Two reasons: firstly, people often ask me this, so I’ll be up front about it. Secondly – maybe why people ask – having been “on the other side of the room”, I have the experience of how hard opening up can be, and how difficult it is to think about “life”. This experience has meant that back on the psych side of the room, I take a genuinely careful and non-judgmental approach to sessions. I begin by focusing on helping people feel comfortable; paradoxically perhaps, this means we are able to get to work on things quite quickly, but importantly, never rushing.
Let me start by saying I’ve been to see a psychologist; why mention this? Two reasons: firstly, people often ask me this, so I’ll be up front about it. Secondly – maybe why people ask – having been “on the other side of the room”, I have the experience of how hard opening up can be, and how difficult it is to think about “life”. This experience has meant that back on the psych side of the room, I take a genuinely careful and non-judgmental approach to sessions. I begin by focusing on helping people feel comfortable; paradoxically perhaps, this means we are able to get to work on things quite quickly, but importantly, never rushing.
Hi, thanks for being here! Let me tell you about myself: I am a queer cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you will be seen, heard and accepted just as you are.
Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
Hi, thanks for being here! Let me tell you about myself: I am a queer cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you will be seen, heard and accepted just as you are.
Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
Couples therapy & 1-1 counselling. You may look as though you’re coping, yet inside feel anxious, low, burnt out, or hurt by painful past experiences. Perhaps you’re navigating bereavement, relationship strain, or a quiet sense of disconnection. Shame & self-doubt often sit beneath the surface, shaping how you relate to yourself & others. Therapy offers a compassionate, steady space to restore self trust & rebuild a sense of identity so you can feel more aligned & resilient. We’re a small team of trauma-informed, neurodivergent affirming therapists offering individual & couples therapy. Send a message & let’s find a time to talk.
Couples therapy & 1-1 counselling. You may look as though you’re coping, yet inside feel anxious, low, burnt out, or hurt by painful past experiences. Perhaps you’re navigating bereavement, relationship strain, or a quiet sense of disconnection. Shame & self-doubt often sit beneath the surface, shaping how you relate to yourself & others. Therapy offers a compassionate, steady space to restore self trust & rebuild a sense of identity so you can feel more aligned & resilient. We’re a small team of trauma-informed, neurodivergent affirming therapists offering individual & couples therapy. Send a message & let’s find a time to talk.
I’m Claire McCullough, a BACP‑registered Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor and psychotherapist. I understand starting therapy can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time or previous experiences haven’t felt helpful. I’m here to support you in taking that first step. I help people manage anxiety, persistent worrying, and stress-related overwhelm, and support those affected by trauma (CPTSD/PTSD) and life-changing events. I work with clients experiencing bereavement or a loss of identity, helping them regain a sense of self. I have experience supporting a wide range of clients in both organisations and private practice.
I’m Claire McCullough, a BACP‑registered Humanistic and Integrative Counsellor and psychotherapist. I understand starting therapy can feel daunting, especially if it’s your first time or previous experiences haven’t felt helpful. I’m here to support you in taking that first step. I help people manage anxiety, persistent worrying, and stress-related overwhelm, and support those affected by trauma (CPTSD/PTSD) and life-changing events. I work with clients experiencing bereavement or a loss of identity, helping them regain a sense of self. I have experience supporting a wide range of clients in both organisations and private practice.
I’m RoseMarie Philips. Clinical Supervisor & Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor & Life Coach. A Christian. Having 26+ years’ experience, 11.5 years at Relate. I support teens. Worked with CAMHS (NHS)and adults through some of life’s difficult challenges. Support survivors coercive control, narcissistic, domestic abuse, sexual trauma, PTSD, CSA. Menopause, anxiety, and depression. Supporting adults in neurodiversity — working with Autism, Asperger’s, ADHD, Dyslexia. Offering Relationship and Family Therapy. My work focuses on helping rebuild your life: rediscover your strengths, reconnect with your values, and restore confidence
I’m RoseMarie Philips. Clinical Supervisor & Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor & Life Coach. A Christian. Having 26+ years’ experience, 11.5 years at Relate. I support teens. Worked with CAMHS (NHS)and adults through some of life’s difficult challenges. Support survivors coercive control, narcissistic, domestic abuse, sexual trauma, PTSD, CSA. Menopause, anxiety, and depression. Supporting adults in neurodiversity — working with Autism, Asperger’s, ADHD, Dyslexia. Offering Relationship and Family Therapy. My work focuses on helping rebuild your life: rediscover your strengths, reconnect with your values, and restore confidence
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How does therapy for self-harm work?
A person may turn to self-injury so that they can distract themselves from their stress, depression, anxiety, or upsetting circumstances. Therapy can address the cause of an individual’s suffering. A therapist can help a person understand why they may want to self-harm and help the person learn new methods of coping. A person may have poor emotion regulation, and treatment such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is helpful for breaking this behaviour. In addition, treatment such as dialectical behaviour therapy can help a person manage their tolerance of distress.
Which therapies are best for self-harm?
Specific approaches used by professionals include cognitive behavioural, dialectical behaviour, psychodynamic, and mentalisation-based therapies, among others. Cognitive behavioural and dialectical behaviour therapies are common approaches for people who have painful thoughts and past traumas. These therapies help an individual cope with distress, regulate emotions, and manage impulsive urges.
Does the tendency to self-harm mean the person is suicidal?
Having this urge does not mean the individual suffers from suicidal ideation. People who want to self-injure look to distract or alleviate themselves from the pain they are experiencing. People with suicidal tendencies want to end life altogether. However, this does not mean a person with the intent to self-harm will not attempt suicide.
How often and how long are therapy sessions for self-harm?
As with any type of therapy, sessions depend on the individual. Clients may see improvement within 20 sessions, at an average of 50 minutes per session, while others may opt for 20 to 30 sessions over, maybe, a six-month period. People, especially those with co-occurring conditions like depression and anxiety, may need to continue therapy for up to 12 to 18 months.