Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in Bournemouth

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Julie Checklin
Counsellor, MBACP
I have extensive knowledge of Narcissism and Co-dependency, as well as direct experience of living with those who exhibit narcissistic traits.
I am a Person Centred and Humanistic Counsellor. This means I work from the belief that each client is an expert on themselves, knowing more about themselves than anyone else. I provide emotional safety and psychological support, in a calm environment where you will be valued and respected. By gaining clarity and perspective on what is troubling you right now, and with increased insight into your own internal world and how you interact with the world around you, your confidence in your ability to move forward in the right way for you will grow.
I have extensive knowledge of Narcissism and Co-dependency, as well as direct experience of living with those who exhibit narcissistic traits.
I am a Person Centred and Humanistic Counsellor. This means I work from the belief that each client is an expert on themselves, knowing more about themselves than anyone else. I provide emotional safety and psychological support, in a calm environment where you will be valued and respected. By gaining clarity and perspective on what is troubling you right now, and with increased insight into your own internal world and how you interact with the world around you, your confidence in your ability to move forward in the right way for you will grow.
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Victoria Gilbert
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Hi, thanks for being here! Let me tell you about myself: I am a queer cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you will be seen, heard and accepted just as you are. Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
Hi, thanks for being here! Let me tell you about myself: I am a queer cisgender woman, and I use she/her pronouns. I am also neurodivergent and an intersectional feminist. These parts of who I am naturally shape the way I work. My counselling practice is inclusive and rooted in compassion. I aim to offer a space where you will be seen, heard and accepted just as you are. Being queer and neurodivergent myself, I know what it can feel like to exist between worlds, to mask, to question belonging, and to be misunderstood. These experiences have inspired me to focus my practice on LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent individuals.
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Alex Maunder Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
It's about you, not me. No one else has lived your life or had your experiences. No one else is facing what you're facing now. Big or small, we can talk it through together and find a way forward.
It's about you, not me. No one else has lived your life or had your experiences. No one else is facing what you're facing now. Big or small, we can talk it through together and find a way forward.
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Carla Harley
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Online Only
I am trained and qualified as a Humanistic Integrative counsellor. I have a person-centred approach and engage from a place of unconditional positive regard. I am registered with the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy and am fully licensed and insured in my private practice. I also have training in and experience with sex & relationships, domestic violence, eating disorders, addiction, childhood abuse, family systems.
I am trained and qualified as a Humanistic Integrative counsellor. I have a person-centred approach and engage from a place of unconditional positive regard. I am registered with the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy and am fully licensed and insured in my private practice. I also have training in and experience with sex & relationships, domestic violence, eating disorders, addiction, childhood abuse, family systems.
01865 638772 View 01865 638772
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Zoë Pool
Psychotherapist, PhD, PNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
01354 705990 View 01354 705990
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Andrea Karina Johnstone
Counsellor, DCounsPsych
is life very overwhelming and challenging at times? Do you feel sometimes out of control and lost? Do you suffer from stress.? I can help you find place within yourself which is untouched by the chaos. Within our therapeutic relationship, we explore together how life is for you at your own pace. I provide a confidential, non-judgemental safe space. I will help you develop your relationship with yourself, to raise your self-esteem and well being. You are the master of your own ship, I will work with you to find your way, and help you live your best life.
is life very overwhelming and challenging at times? Do you feel sometimes out of control and lost? Do you suffer from stress.? I can help you find place within yourself which is untouched by the chaos. Within our therapeutic relationship, we explore together how life is for you at your own pace. I provide a confidential, non-judgemental safe space. I will help you develop your relationship with yourself, to raise your self-esteem and well being. You are the master of your own ship, I will work with you to find your way, and help you live your best life.
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Tracy Ruth Ferrazzano
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
If you’re thinking about counselling, you might feel anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that are hard to shift. You may be in fight, flight, or freeze—constantly overthinking, disconnected, or carrying emotional weight that lives in both body and mind. You might be longing to feel calmer, more present, and more like yourself again, but unsure where to start. You’re seeking a space to slow down, breathe, and begin making sense of what’s going on inside.
If you’re thinking about counselling, you might feel anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck in patterns that are hard to shift. You may be in fight, flight, or freeze—constantly overthinking, disconnected, or carrying emotional weight that lives in both body and mind. You might be longing to feel calmer, more present, and more like yourself again, but unsure where to start. You’re seeking a space to slow down, breathe, and begin making sense of what’s going on inside.
01202 125218 View 01202 125218
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Gabriela Macauley
Counsellor, MBACP
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next? I offer therapeutic coaching and strengths-based counselling to help adults navigate life transitions and crossroads, including career changes, redundancy or retirement, relationship shifts, parenthood or empty nest, health challenges, and re-evaluating mid- or later life. My integrative approach is compassionate, pragmatic, and action-focused. Together, we turn uncertainty into clear, achievable steps that help you gain focus, confidence, and reconnect with what matters most.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do next? I offer therapeutic coaching and strengths-based counselling to help adults navigate life transitions and crossroads, including career changes, redundancy or retirement, relationship shifts, parenthood or empty nest, health challenges, and re-evaluating mid- or later life. My integrative approach is compassionate, pragmatic, and action-focused. Together, we turn uncertainty into clear, achievable steps that help you gain focus, confidence, and reconnect with what matters most.
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Meriel Camara
Verified Verified
I've sought out and mastered the most effective cutting edge techniques for treating your trauma after spending over 20 years studying, training and working in the fields of domestic and narcissistic abuse, Human Rights, conflict, mental health and addiction.
Have you experienced a toxic relationship with a parent or partner? These relationships can be painful, destructive, abusive or addictive, and they can leave your body and mind feeling wildly out of control. You might: wonder why relationships are so hard. Struggle to leave your partner even though they can’t or won’t love you. Believe that you’re a bad person. Question your own reality and worry that you might be going crazy. Experience rage, anxiety, grief or depression. Have difficulty saying ‘no’ even when you’re exhausted. Or suffer a wide range of inexplicable physical symptoms. If so, you're in the right place.
I've sought out and mastered the most effective cutting edge techniques for treating your trauma after spending over 20 years studying, training and working in the fields of domestic and narcissistic abuse, Human Rights, conflict, mental health and addiction.
Have you experienced a toxic relationship with a parent or partner? These relationships can be painful, destructive, abusive or addictive, and they can leave your body and mind feeling wildly out of control. You might: wonder why relationships are so hard. Struggle to leave your partner even though they can’t or won’t love you. Believe that you’re a bad person. Question your own reality and worry that you might be going crazy. Experience rage, anxiety, grief or depression. Have difficulty saying ‘no’ even when you’re exhausted. Or suffer a wide range of inexplicable physical symptoms. If so, you're in the right place.
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Amanda Leather
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Online Only
Hi, I am a registered psychologist with the HCPC. I have worked in the NHS for over seventeen years including children and adolescents, adults, EIS (psychosis) and also prison mental health, so my experience is pretty varied. I believe that everybody is different and as such work to help develop an understanding of what is going on for you, before exploring what intervention is likely to be the most effective. I also complete ASC assessments as part of a multi disciplinary team adhering to NICE recommendations.
Hi, I am a registered psychologist with the HCPC. I have worked in the NHS for over seventeen years including children and adolescents, adults, EIS (psychosis) and also prison mental health, so my experience is pretty varied. I believe that everybody is different and as such work to help develop an understanding of what is going on for you, before exploring what intervention is likely to be the most effective. I also complete ASC assessments as part of a multi disciplinary team adhering to NICE recommendations.
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Gareth Lloyd Dawes
Counsellor, MBACP
We live in a complicated world where we seem to be constantly bombarded with messages of wellness that often conflict with the way we are able to navigate the world. We are constantly being told what is good for us in a very universal way without first exploring who we are, what we have experienced and what we need to thrive. There are things in life that happen frequently to us, repetitive patterns that appear in our relationships, the way we behave, the way we think of others and, I think most importantly, the way we think about ourselves. Understanding these patterns will allow us to find meaning in where find yourself now.
We live in a complicated world where we seem to be constantly bombarded with messages of wellness that often conflict with the way we are able to navigate the world. We are constantly being told what is good for us in a very universal way without first exploring who we are, what we have experienced and what we need to thrive. There are things in life that happen frequently to us, repetitive patterns that appear in our relationships, the way we behave, the way we think of others and, I think most importantly, the way we think about ourselves. Understanding these patterns will allow us to find meaning in where find yourself now.
020 4538 7931 View 020 4538 7931
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New Horizons Network
Counsellor, MBACP
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
New Horizons Network is a team of counsellors, life coaches and psychotherapists. Being able to explore areas of your life which you may wish to understand, improve on or make changes to can make life better, improve relationships and self esteem. We all deserve the best from life. We believe that coaching, counselling and psychotherapy should be accessible to all. With that in mind we offer these services at varying costs according to the level of experience of our network of practitioners. Contact us for a discussion on how we can help you with your needs and put you in touch with the best person for you.
07507 562278 View 07507 562278
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Keely Sadler
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you finding life a little difficult at the moment? Maybe there feels like there’s a block stopping you from moving forward. Is communication causing problems for you, leaving you feeling unheard and frustrated? Are you feeling disconnected from those important relationships? Together we can look at unpicking the difficult bits. I work with individuals and couples. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is rooted in the person-centred approach, our sessions are led by you at your pace, although I’ll gently encourage you to explore the tougher stuff together in our sessions.
Are you finding life a little difficult at the moment? Maybe there feels like there’s a block stopping you from moving forward. Is communication causing problems for you, leaving you feeling unheard and frustrated? Are you feeling disconnected from those important relationships? Together we can look at unpicking the difficult bits. I work with individuals and couples. I'm a GSRD (gender, sexual and relationship diversity) therapist and my approach is rooted in the person-centred approach, our sessions are led by you at your pace, although I’ll gently encourage you to explore the tougher stuff together in our sessions.
01323 396087 View 01323 396087
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The Strength Within Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Past traumas haunts us, while the unpredictable future worries us - living in the present becomes increasingly more difficult. The constant that we can rely on is change. My aim is to help you take control of the change that you want to make, to claim the life you want for yourself, to find your meaning in your life, and live it as fully as possible. Many of the people I work with have spent years trying to understand why they continue to feel unsafe, fragmented, disconnected or stuck despite previous work and interventions. I aim to meet you exactly where you are at and together we can take the steps towards your goals and needs.
Past traumas haunts us, while the unpredictable future worries us - living in the present becomes increasingly more difficult. The constant that we can rely on is change. My aim is to help you take control of the change that you want to make, to claim the life you want for yourself, to find your meaning in your life, and live it as fully as possible. Many of the people I work with have spent years trying to understand why they continue to feel unsafe, fragmented, disconnected or stuck despite previous work and interventions. I aim to meet you exactly where you are at and together we can take the steps towards your goals and needs.
01425 206738 View 01425 206738
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Pippa Rashbrook
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
With over 15 years’ experience, my passion is to help people overcome issues they feel limit them, enabling them to live more satisfying, fulfilled lives. We all have times when life just doesn’t seem to work how we would like it to. I provide a professional space where you can safely explore your concerns, facilitating greater self-understanding, so you can make more informed choices going forward, bringing a greater sense of well-being. I am experienced in supporting issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, low self-esteem, panic attacks and the legacy of trauma. I have worked with many students and adults.
With over 15 years’ experience, my passion is to help people overcome issues they feel limit them, enabling them to live more satisfying, fulfilled lives. We all have times when life just doesn’t seem to work how we would like it to. I provide a professional space where you can safely explore your concerns, facilitating greater self-understanding, so you can make more informed choices going forward, bringing a greater sense of well-being. I am experienced in supporting issues such as anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, low self-esteem, panic attacks and the legacy of trauma. I have worked with many students and adults.
01276 535583 View 01276 535583
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Karen Dibbens Counselling Services
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.
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Sarah Cunliffe
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Online therapy for high-functioning people who don’t feel good enough inside. You may present with burnout, anxiety, chronic stress, imposter syndrome, people pleasing, over caregiving or fixing others, feeling guilty, perfectionism, relationship difficulties, not feel sure of who you really are or what you want, emotional overwhelm, and feeling stuck or unfulfilled despite success. I help you make sense of what has happened to you so you can understand what drives your behaviour and responses. I support you in letting go of limiting beliefs, heal emotional or attachment wounds, build self-worth, boundaries and balanced wholeness.
Online therapy for high-functioning people who don’t feel good enough inside. You may present with burnout, anxiety, chronic stress, imposter syndrome, people pleasing, over caregiving or fixing others, feeling guilty, perfectionism, relationship difficulties, not feel sure of who you really are or what you want, emotional overwhelm, and feeling stuck or unfulfilled despite success. I help you make sense of what has happened to you so you can understand what drives your behaviour and responses. I support you in letting go of limiting beliefs, heal emotional or attachment wounds, build self-worth, boundaries and balanced wholeness.
01959 584497 View 01959 584497
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Ian Anderson
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
I am a Chartered Psychologist registered with the HCPC with over 30 years of experience. I have worked in private practice with over two thousand patients and supervised more than 100 therapists. I am separately qualified in various fields of applied Psychology including Clinical Psychology, Forensic Psychology, Counselling Psychology and Occupational Psychology. I now deliver all my counselling and therapy by the following methods: video conferencing; telephone sessions; real-time online chat; and email. I believe that matching the right therapy delivered by the right therapist to an individual is the key to therapeutic success.
020 3879 4351 View 020 3879 4351
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Andrea Thomas
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a UKCP registered Psychotherapist, certified Transactional Analyst and offering EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner and clinical supervisor offering psychotherapy on a short and long term basis. I have experience working with clients who are struggling with trauma related symptoms such as PTSD, depression and anxiety. I am deeply committed to an ethical non-discriminatory practice with my clients and abide by the principles and ethics of the UKCP and BACP. My private practice is located in Lilliput, Poole within each reach of Bournemouth and surrounding areas.
I am a UKCP registered Psychotherapist, certified Transactional Analyst and offering EMDR Europe Accredited Practitioner and clinical supervisor offering psychotherapy on a short and long term basis. I have experience working with clients who are struggling with trauma related symptoms such as PTSD, depression and anxiety. I am deeply committed to an ethical non-discriminatory practice with my clients and abide by the principles and ethics of the UKCP and BACP. My private practice is located in Lilliput, Poole within each reach of Bournemouth and surrounding areas.
020 3974 2183 View 020 3974 2183
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Amani Well-Being
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
As a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and a trauma informed therapist, I offer a compassionate and flexible approach that adapts to your individual needs and life experiences. I see you as a whole person—emotionally, mentally, and, if you choose, spiritually—and I create a safe and respectful space where you can explore what matters most to you at your own pace.
As a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor and a trauma informed therapist, I offer a compassionate and flexible approach that adapts to your individual needs and life experiences. I see you as a whole person—emotionally, mentally, and, if you choose, spiritually—and I create a safe and respectful space where you can explore what matters most to you at your own pace.
01202 144274 View 01202 144274

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.