Infidelity Counselling in Bournemouth

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Abby Orchard
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I work with couples and individuals on issues from infidelity, life stages, anxiety, depression to sexual trauma and PTSD.
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
I work with couples and individuals on issues from infidelity, life stages, anxiety, depression to sexual trauma and PTSD.
Do you feel you could develop your potential further? Do you feel anxious or depressed or suffer from PTSD? Is your relationship suffering? Are you finding difficult to manage stressors? Is this getting in the way of you achieving your goals and the quality of life and relationship you desire? I can help!
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Magna Maria Erasmus
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
I specialise in trauma and have extensive experience in sexual trauma, generational trauma, betrayal trauma, food related issues and self harming behaviour.
I have helped many clients change their thinking and heal emotionally so they can become who they want to be. I offer a compassionate space for clients to work through difficult thoughts and feelings to reclaim their lives and live life to the full. I offer specialist trauma support and work extensively with depression, anxiety and woman's issues like, fertility, baby loss, menopause, PMDD, PMS, self-esteem and body issues.
I specialise in trauma and have extensive experience in sexual trauma, generational trauma, betrayal trauma, food related issues and self harming behaviour.
I have helped many clients change their thinking and heal emotionally so they can become who they want to be. I offer a compassionate space for clients to work through difficult thoughts and feelings to reclaim their lives and live life to the full. I offer specialist trauma support and work extensively with depression, anxiety and woman's issues like, fertility, baby loss, menopause, PMDD, PMS, self-esteem and body issues.
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Amelia Hilton
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Many of us face challenges like communication breakdowns, trauma, infidelity or difficulty in engaging with/participating in our relationships.
I am a Jersey-based counsellor, working with UK clients online. I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your feelings, desires, and concerns.
Many of us face challenges like communication breakdowns, trauma, infidelity or difficulty in engaging with/participating in our relationships.
I am a Jersey-based counsellor, working with UK clients online. I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can openly discuss your feelings, desires, and concerns.
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Richard Absalom
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Online Only
Update April 2025: I currently have some daytime and late afternoon availability Experienced and approachable therapist with track record of helping people move through life challenges. I help sensitive individuals reach their full potential, and people pleasers find their truth. Through self discovery, we will identify how old patterns of thinking, limiting beliefs, or unhelpful behaviours have been holding you back. ​Working together, you'll gain a clearer perspective, and replace self-doubt with self-worth.
Update April 2025: I currently have some daytime and late afternoon availability Experienced and approachable therapist with track record of helping people move through life challenges. I help sensitive individuals reach their full potential, and people pleasers find their truth. Through self discovery, we will identify how old patterns of thinking, limiting beliefs, or unhelpful behaviours have been holding you back. ​Working together, you'll gain a clearer perspective, and replace self-doubt with self-worth.
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Laura Starnier
Counsellor, MBACP
I am a psycho-spiritual therapist with additional training in bereavement and creative expression. My practice allows for the structure of psychoanalysis, whilst welcoming the spiritual and physical way you are in the world. (You do not have to identify as 'spiritual' to enter transpersonal therapy.) It also recognises that we are interconnected. In other words, what is happening to you, involves others too, it is not all of your own creating. I also work with physical symptoms of psychological pain. The way we work with or against our physical-ness has a deep impact on the way we live our lives.
I am a psycho-spiritual therapist with additional training in bereavement and creative expression. My practice allows for the structure of psychoanalysis, whilst welcoming the spiritual and physical way you are in the world. (You do not have to identify as 'spiritual' to enter transpersonal therapy.) It also recognises that we are interconnected. In other words, what is happening to you, involves others too, it is not all of your own creating. I also work with physical symptoms of psychological pain. The way we work with or against our physical-ness has a deep impact on the way we live our lives.
01202 125463 View 01202 125463
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Gsscounselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Hi my names Gen, I’m an integrated therapist/ Supervisor who specialises in anxiety, relationships and low self esteem counselling. If you feel that you are struggling with any of theses issues or just need someone to talk to, I can help you to explore these things and look at how we can move forward and work through them. We will take the time to explore what you have been dealing with and look at different ways of how therapy can help you. I will listen to your needs and adapt our sessions so that you feel comfortable enough to discuss anything you’d like too.
Hi my names Gen, I’m an integrated therapist/ Supervisor who specialises in anxiety, relationships and low self esteem counselling. If you feel that you are struggling with any of theses issues or just need someone to talk to, I can help you to explore these things and look at how we can move forward and work through them. We will take the time to explore what you have been dealing with and look at different ways of how therapy can help you. I will listen to your needs and adapt our sessions so that you feel comfortable enough to discuss anything you’d like too.
01425 209305 View 01425 209305
Photo of Dr Wayne Adlem - Relink Therapy - (psychosexual/sex) Bournemouth, Psychologist
Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues, Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. RT has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives. • Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability. • Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service. • You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website. • Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency. • Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
Local Expert on Relationships & Psychosexual issues, Dr Wayne Adlem Psy.D h.c. RT has worked with many individuals and couples overcome issues of an intimate and personal nature to find fulfillment in their lives. • Fully insured via a combined treatment policy which includes: Professional liability/Indemnity & Public & Products liability. • Holds an Enhanced DBS Clearance certificate and is subscribed to the update service. • You can see the reviews from past clients on the Relink Therapy Website. • Policies & Procedures are in place for clarity and consistency. • Holds a UK Business bank account for all transactions.
07922 409415 View 07922 409415
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Joanna Atkinson
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
We all go through life experiencing good and bad moments, but sometimes the bad experiences can become too overwhelming to manage them on our own. Sometimes they may be a result of sudden changes which life throws at us unexpectedly leaving us vulnerable and lost in a new reality and sometimes it may be that we want to change something in our lives, but don’t really know how, which leaves us feeling stuck and helpless. If this sounds familiar to how you feel why not try counselling? Talking to someone you can trust who can listen without any judgement can be very helpful especially in these challenging times.
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Matthew Groom
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Empathic and experienced psychotherapist and counsellor, based in the Bournemouth/Poole area. I work with individual adults of all ages and also within the LGBTQ+ community. My clients experience and bring a broad range of issues to therapy such as anxiety, identity issues, depression, relationship difficulties, and trauma. Trauma from our past often impacts our lives in the present and prevents us from moving forward or from being our authentic selves. Therapy cannot change the past, but it can enable us to move forward with increased resilience and can provide us with a solid foundation for lasting changes.
Empathic and experienced psychotherapist and counsellor, based in the Bournemouth/Poole area. I work with individual adults of all ages and also within the LGBTQ+ community. My clients experience and bring a broad range of issues to therapy such as anxiety, identity issues, depression, relationship difficulties, and trauma. Trauma from our past often impacts our lives in the present and prevents us from moving forward or from being our authentic selves. Therapy cannot change the past, but it can enable us to move forward with increased resilience and can provide us with a solid foundation for lasting changes.
020 8138 8619 View 020 8138 8619
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Claire Snell
Counsellor, MBACP
I am Claire, I’m here to offer a safe, confidential and supportive space, for you to explore your thoughts feelings and experiences.  As a Humanistic Integretive counsellor I will tailor my approach to your individual needs and preferences. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating or sleeping problems or relationship issues. If you are feeling lost and uncertain about the future, or just struggling to navigate life’s challenges, we will work together to help you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build resilience, and cultivate a sense of empowerment.  “You know what is best for you”
I am Claire, I’m here to offer a safe, confidential and supportive space, for you to explore your thoughts feelings and experiences.  As a Humanistic Integretive counsellor I will tailor my approach to your individual needs and preferences. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, eating or sleeping problems or relationship issues. If you are feeling lost and uncertain about the future, or just struggling to navigate life’s challenges, we will work together to help you to develop a deeper understanding of yourself, build resilience, and cultivate a sense of empowerment.  “You know what is best for you”
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Andrew Christopher Wright
Psychotherapist, MRes, HCPC-Art Therap.
Internationally recognised psychotherapist, and FRSA, trained in Goldsmiths College in 2002, who has worked in London, Singapore, and Dubai. Has been published in a peer-reviewed journal looking at strategies to assist with communication and emotional regulation. We all know what it's like to feel stuck for ideas or be unable to express ourselves. It can be frustrating, but creative approaches can help us be more open to different ideas and perspectives. I provide innovative and effective solutions to life's challenges in a safe place, empowering people to become more confident, move forward thinking, and be kinder to themselves.
Internationally recognised psychotherapist, and FRSA, trained in Goldsmiths College in 2002, who has worked in London, Singapore, and Dubai. Has been published in a peer-reviewed journal looking at strategies to assist with communication and emotional regulation. We all know what it's like to feel stuck for ideas or be unable to express ourselves. It can be frustrating, but creative approaches can help us be more open to different ideas and perspectives. I provide innovative and effective solutions to life's challenges in a safe place, empowering people to become more confident, move forward thinking, and be kinder to themselves.
01425 209940 View 01425 209940
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TalkItOut Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Counselling can be incredibly beneficial when it comes to addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, emotional stress, childhood, relationship concerns, and more. I have extensive training and experience in various counselling approaches, ensuring that I can tailor our sessions to meet YOUR unique needs. Whether you are seeking individual counselling therapy or couples therapy - I'm here to support you on your journey towards personal growth and self-discovery. When you choose a qualified counsellor, you are not only investing in yourself but also in your overall well-being.
Counselling can be incredibly beneficial when it comes to addressing issues such as anxiety, depression, emotional stress, childhood, relationship concerns, and more. I have extensive training and experience in various counselling approaches, ensuring that I can tailor our sessions to meet YOUR unique needs. Whether you are seeking individual counselling therapy or couples therapy - I'm here to support you on your journey towards personal growth and self-discovery. When you choose a qualified counsellor, you are not only investing in yourself but also in your overall well-being.
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Gabriela Macauley
Counsellor, MBACP
Are you... struggling with life's challenges and finding it difficult to navigate relationships; experiencing the effects of Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Depression, PTSD; repeating patterns of behaviour, no matter how hard you have tried to change things? Would you like a better understanding of what is happening for you right now? I am an integrative counsellor and trauma-informed therapist, offering a strengths based approach that supports you to better understand why you are feeling the way you are; and how to move forward in a way that works for you.
Are you... struggling with life's challenges and finding it difficult to navigate relationships; experiencing the effects of Anxiety, Panic Attacks, Depression, PTSD; repeating patterns of behaviour, no matter how hard you have tried to change things? Would you like a better understanding of what is happening for you right now? I am an integrative counsellor and trauma-informed therapist, offering a strengths based approach that supports you to better understand why you are feeling the way you are; and how to move forward in a way that works for you.
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Vicki Pearson
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. I am a qualified and experienced adult and young person’s counsellor. I offer a warm, safe, and confidential space where I aim to raise your self-awareness and facilitate change and improvements in your life. During your therapy, I may incorporate techniques from different modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic, and Neuroscience models. The therapy is always tailored and centred around you, and we work at your pace.
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. I am a qualified and experienced adult and young person’s counsellor. I offer a warm, safe, and confidential space where I aim to raise your self-awareness and facilitate change and improvements in your life. During your therapy, I may incorporate techniques from different modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic, and Neuroscience models. The therapy is always tailored and centred around you, and we work at your pace.
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WellBeing Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Clients feel seen and heard as my approach is relatable and down to earth. Drawing from my own experiences to connect on a human level, my approach roots in genuine curiosity, respect and a commitment to growth through every challenge. Clients choose me for my unique ability to blend professional expertise, connect across boundaries and be deeply empathic. I have a gift to respect the cornerstone of holding space for adults to be authentic and I trust my humility to guide my practice. I bring a unique blend of energies, making me not just a listener, but a trustworthy confident who is professionally grounded.
Clients feel seen and heard as my approach is relatable and down to earth. Drawing from my own experiences to connect on a human level, my approach roots in genuine curiosity, respect and a commitment to growth through every challenge. Clients choose me for my unique ability to blend professional expertise, connect across boundaries and be deeply empathic. I have a gift to respect the cornerstone of holding space for adults to be authentic and I trust my humility to guide my practice. I bring a unique blend of energies, making me not just a listener, but a trustworthy confident who is professionally grounded.
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Neli Dimanova Radeva
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
There are times when the struggles and challenges of life can feel really overwhelming. And whilst we may try to put on a brave face and get by as best we can, the pressures of this can be physically, emotionally and mentally draining. Asking for help can be a very big step to take but coping alone is likely to leave us stuck in our thoughts and feelings. Therapy can offer a safe space to make sense of these thoughts and feelings and can also shed light on the patterns of behaviour that are holding us back. Once we have identified the areas in need of change we are free to chose a different approach, one that will serve us better.
There are times when the struggles and challenges of life can feel really overwhelming. And whilst we may try to put on a brave face and get by as best we can, the pressures of this can be physically, emotionally and mentally draining. Asking for help can be a very big step to take but coping alone is likely to leave us stuck in our thoughts and feelings. Therapy can offer a safe space to make sense of these thoughts and feelings and can also shed light on the patterns of behaviour that are holding us back. Once we have identified the areas in need of change we are free to chose a different approach, one that will serve us better.
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Photo of Simon Penny - Simon Penny Counselling and Psychotherapy MBACP, Counsellor, MBACP
Are you feeling stressed, anxious or depressed? Are you suffering from alcohol or substance misuse issues? Whatever you are struggling with, I would love to help. I have an open, honest and non judgemental approach to my practise and provide a safe environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings by focusing on the 'here and now.' I offer a free consultation where we discuss your needs and the best approach to help you lead a happier life. This is a key part of the process. I believe that with the right support, everyone can make a positive change to their lives.
Are you feeling stressed, anxious or depressed? Are you suffering from alcohol or substance misuse issues? Whatever you are struggling with, I would love to help. I have an open, honest and non judgemental approach to my practise and provide a safe environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings by focusing on the 'here and now.' I offer a free consultation where we discuss your needs and the best approach to help you lead a happier life. This is a key part of the process. I believe that with the right support, everyone can make a positive change to their lives.
07782 359122 View 07782 359122
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Sophie Smith
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Hi, my name is Sophie Smith, I am a therapeutic counsellor and supervisor. I am a registered member of the NCPS (National counselling and psychotherapy society ). I am currently only able to offer telephone or online sessions. I like to work with clients who are willing to be open minded to the counselling process. I enjoy working with a wide range of issues and if a client has a goal in mind we can look to achieve this. On the other hand, if a client hasn't set goals it's a opportunity to look at what they want to achieve in counselling. As a Counselling Supervisor, I offer tailored guidance that empowers professionals to thrive
Hi, my name is Sophie Smith, I am a therapeutic counsellor and supervisor. I am a registered member of the NCPS (National counselling and psychotherapy society ). I am currently only able to offer telephone or online sessions. I like to work with clients who are willing to be open minded to the counselling process. I enjoy working with a wide range of issues and if a client has a goal in mind we can look to achieve this. On the other hand, if a client hasn't set goals it's a opportunity to look at what they want to achieve in counselling. As a Counselling Supervisor, I offer tailored guidance that empowers professionals to thrive
01202 144358 View 01202 144358
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Dr Kieren Eyles
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Let me start by saying I’ve been to see a psychologist; why mention this? Two reasons: firstly, people often ask me this, so I’ll be up front about it. Secondly – maybe why people ask – having been “on the other side of the room”, I have the experience of how hard opening up can be, and how difficult it is to think about “life”. This experience has meant that back on the psych side of the room, I take a genuinely careful and non-judgmental approach to sessions. I begin by focusing on helping people feel comfortable; paradoxically perhaps, this means we are able to get to work on things quite quickly, but importantly, never rushing.
Let me start by saying I’ve been to see a psychologist; why mention this? Two reasons: firstly, people often ask me this, so I’ll be up front about it. Secondly – maybe why people ask – having been “on the other side of the room”, I have the experience of how hard opening up can be, and how difficult it is to think about “life”. This experience has meant that back on the psych side of the room, I take a genuinely careful and non-judgmental approach to sessions. I begin by focusing on helping people feel comfortable; paradoxically perhaps, this means we are able to get to work on things quite quickly, but importantly, never rushing.
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Maria Farnum
Counsellor, MBACP
People seek counselling to make a change in their lives, and I believe that with a supportive space to explore and address their challenges, such change is entirely achievable. As a BACP-registered counsellor, and using an integrative approach, I tailor therapy to your unique needs and work in a down-to-earth, compassionate way working with issues like grief, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, and LGBTQIA+ concerns. I provide a warm, non-judgmental environment where you can freely explore your thoughts and emotions. Above all, I value the therapeutic relationship, which is why I offer a free introductory call.
People seek counselling to make a change in their lives, and I believe that with a supportive space to explore and address their challenges, such change is entirely achievable. As a BACP-registered counsellor, and using an integrative approach, I tailor therapy to your unique needs and work in a down-to-earth, compassionate way working with issues like grief, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, and LGBTQIA+ concerns. I provide a warm, non-judgmental environment where you can freely explore your thoughts and emotions. Above all, I value the therapeutic relationship, which is why I offer a free introductory call.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.