Bereavement Counselling in Bournemouth

Laura Starnier
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH7
I am a psycho-spiritual therapist with additional training in
bereavement
and creative expression. My practice allows for the structure of psychoanalysis, whilst welcoming the spiritual and physical way you are in the world. (You do not have to identify as 'spiritual' to enter transpersonal therapy.) It also recognises that we are interconnected. In other words, what is happening to you, involves others too, it is not all of your own creating. I also work with physical symptoms of psychological pain. The way we work with or against our physical-ness has a deep impact on the way we live our lives.
I am a psycho-spiritual therapist with additional training in
bereavement
and creative expression. My practice allows for the structure of psychoanalysis, whilst welcoming the spiritual and physical way you are in the world. (You do not have to identify as 'spiritual' to enter transpersonal therapy.) It also recognises that we are interconnected. In other words, what is happening to you, involves others too, it is not all of your own creating. I also work with physical symptoms of psychological pain. The way we work with or against our physical-ness has a deep impact on the way we live our lives.

Lisa Rose Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH5
There can be times in life, where we may need help to weather emotional difficulties we encounter, to gain clarity and understanding. This may be through
loss
(
bereavement
or
loss
of a relationship, job or life changes), stress (anxiety, depression) and relationship problems (including how we feel about ourselves). There can be many reasons why you may be seeking help and it's a brave step to acknowledge and address this, by taking the first step in looking for support.
There can be times in life, where we may need help to weather emotional difficulties we encounter, to gain clarity and understanding. This may be through
loss
(
bereavement
or
loss
of a relationship, job or life changes), stress (anxiety, depression) and relationship problems (including how we feel about ourselves). There can be many reasons why you may be seeking help and it's a brave step to acknowledge and address this, by taking the first step in looking for support.

Magna Maria Erasmus
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH11
Not accepting new clients
I also have extensive experience in infant
loss
, end of life work and
bereavement
, depression and anxiety.
I have helped many clients change their thinking and heal emotionally so they can become who they want to be. I offer a compassionate space for clients to work through difficult thoughts and feelings to reclaim their lives and live life to the full. I offer specialist trauma support and work extensively with depression and anxiety.
I also have extensive experience in infant
loss
, end of life work and
bereavement
, depression and anxiety.
I have helped many clients change their thinking and heal emotionally so they can become who they want to be. I offer a compassionate space for clients to work through difficult thoughts and feelings to reclaim their lives and live life to the full. I offer specialist trauma support and work extensively with depression and anxiety.

Julie Checklin
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH9
Not accepting new clients
I also have extensive experience of Narcissistic Personality Disorder or living with those who exhibit narcissistic traits, as well as working with clients who have experienced Domestic Abuse, or
Bereavement
and
Loss
.
I am a Person Centred and Humanistic Counsellor. This means I work from the belief that each client is an expert on themselves, knowing more about themselves than anyone else. I provide emotional safety and psychological support, in a calm environment where you will be valued and respected. By gaining clarity and perspective on what is troubling you right now, and with increased insight into your own internal world and how you interact with the world around you, your confidence in your ability to move forward in the right way for you will grow.
I also have extensive experience of Narcissistic Personality Disorder or living with those who exhibit narcissistic traits, as well as working with clients who have experienced Domestic Abuse, or
Bereavement
and
Loss
.
I am a Person Centred and Humanistic Counsellor. This means I work from the belief that each client is an expert on themselves, knowing more about themselves than anyone else. I provide emotional safety and psychological support, in a calm environment where you will be valued and respected. By gaining clarity and perspective on what is troubling you right now, and with increased insight into your own internal world and how you interact with the world around you, your confidence in your ability to move forward in the right way for you will grow.

Linda Witchell
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified
Bournemouth BH7
Are you feeling anxious about work or a personal issue, or maybe you are struggling with a
bereavement
? Have you noticed that these negative feelings are getting in the way of you enjoying life? Maybe you get panic attacks and you just want them to stop. Perhaps you are worried about a test or something else. And you might be lacking confidence and struggling with relationships. You know something has to change. I would like to help. As a retired nurse, I'm professional, experienced and friendly. Contact me so you can get to know me and ask me questions. Free initial consultation. Reduced prices if you book more than one session.
Are you feeling anxious about work or a personal issue, or maybe you are struggling with a
bereavement
? Have you noticed that these negative feelings are getting in the way of you enjoying life? Maybe you get panic attacks and you just want them to stop. Perhaps you are worried about a test or something else. And you might be lacking confidence and struggling with relationships. You know something has to change. I would like to help. As a retired nurse, I'm professional, experienced and friendly. Contact me so you can get to know me and ask me questions. Free initial consultation. Reduced prices if you book more than one session.

Tracey Holden Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH1
When someone you love dies, the
grief
can be overwhelming. It can affect us emotionally andEvery day can suddenly feel like a struggle. Life can feel pointless and overwhelming. Friends and family want to help but they are often struggling with their own
grief
or do not know what to say or do for the best. I can provide a safe, confidential space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings and memories around your loved one so that you can come to terms with your
bereavement
whilst also gaining a better understanding of yourself, your emotions and patterns of behaviour, allowing you to make better choices and decisions going forward.
When someone you love dies, the
grief
can be overwhelming. It can affect us emotionally andEvery day can suddenly feel like a struggle. Life can feel pointless and overwhelming. Friends and family want to help but they are often struggling with their own
grief
or do not know what to say or do for the best. I can provide a safe, confidential space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings and memories around your loved one so that you can come to terms with your
bereavement
whilst also gaining a better understanding of yourself, your emotions and patterns of behaviour, allowing you to make better choices and decisions going forward.

James Morris
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH2
As well as my private practice I have worked as part of the NHS as a
bereavement
counsellor and across a wide range of counselling services in London.
The type of therapy I offer is a place where you can express yourself without judgement. Each person often has their own unique key to what they need, and I am committed to really listening and finding what that might be for you. From my perspective as a therapist, although we can't change our past, having the right kinds of support can help us look forward and put us back in the driving seat. In our first session, I offer a warm, honest, and open conversation for you to freely express where you are and what you hope for. We can explore any questions you might have about the therapy process and get to know each other.
As well as my private practice I have worked as part of the NHS as a
bereavement
counsellor and across a wide range of counselling services in London.
The type of therapy I offer is a place where you can express yourself without judgement. Each person often has their own unique key to what they need, and I am committed to really listening and finding what that might be for you. From my perspective as a therapist, although we can't change our past, having the right kinds of support can help us look forward and put us back in the driving seat. In our first session, I offer a warm, honest, and open conversation for you to freely express where you are and what you hope for. We can explore any questions you might have about the therapy process and get to know each other.

Jackie Boekman
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Bournemouth BH9
My main speciality is
bereavement
and
loss
.
Hello. Well done for wanting to seek out counselling and psychotherapy to help you explore what is holding you back from living a fulfilled life. It takes great courage and self awareness to take this first step. I offer you a safe, confidential place to allow you talk to someone who is trained to listen attentively to your problems. Therapy is not a quick process but with patience, self-belief and compassion, the changes within your life can be considerable. My therapeutic journey began in 2010, and during those years, I have grown as a person, so I can provide the skills needed to be alongside you on your therapeutic journey.
My main speciality is
bereavement
and
loss
.
Hello. Well done for wanting to seek out counselling and psychotherapy to help you explore what is holding you back from living a fulfilled life. It takes great courage and self awareness to take this first step. I offer you a safe, confidential place to allow you talk to someone who is trained to listen attentively to your problems. Therapy is not a quick process but with patience, self-belief and compassion, the changes within your life can be considerable. My therapeutic journey began in 2010, and during those years, I have grown as a person, so I can provide the skills needed to be alongside you on your therapeutic journey.

Jessica Matcham
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified
2 Endorsed
Bournemouth BH7
Not accepting new clients
As a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR therapist I have experience working with adults with a range of difficulties including anxiety, depression and low mood, phobias, OCD, trauma, low self-esteem and
grief
. Everybody experiences psychological distress but sometimes this can get in the way of us living our lives. When this happens, talking therapy can help us to reflect on how we got to where we are and explore ways of moving forward. I can help you to identify goals for therapy, offer emotional support, increase understanding and acceptance of self and provide practical strategies to help you make the changes you need.
As a Clinical Psychologist and EMDR therapist I have experience working with adults with a range of difficulties including anxiety, depression and low mood, phobias, OCD, trauma, low self-esteem and
grief
. Everybody experiences psychological distress but sometimes this can get in the way of us living our lives. When this happens, talking therapy can help us to reflect on how we got to where we are and explore ways of moving forward. I can help you to identify goals for therapy, offer emotional support, increase understanding and acceptance of self and provide practical strategies to help you make the changes you need.

Vicki Pearson
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Bournemouth BH8
I help people manage anxiety, relieve stress, motivate them out of depression and other challenges, including panic attacks, trauma, family issues, attachment disorder, suicidal ideation,
bereavement
, low self-esteem, and many more.
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. I am a qualified and experienced adult and young person’s counsellor. I offer a warm, safe, and confidential space where I aim to raise your self-awareness and facilitate change and improvements in your life. During your therapy, I may incorporate techniques from different modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic, and Neuroscience models. The therapy is always tailored and centred around you, and we work at your pace.
I help people manage anxiety, relieve stress, motivate them out of depression and other challenges, including panic attacks, trauma, family issues, attachment disorder, suicidal ideation,
bereavement
, low self-esteem, and many more.
Hello, thank you for viewing my profile. I am a qualified and experienced adult and young person’s counsellor. I offer a warm, safe, and confidential space where I aim to raise your self-awareness and facilitate change and improvements in your life. During your therapy, I may incorporate techniques from different modalities, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodynamic, and Neuroscience models. The therapy is always tailored and centred around you, and we work at your pace.

Zoë Pool
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
Verified
Bournemouth BH6 (Online Only)
Since 1996 I have helped people to overcome the consequences of different types of trauma, including critical incidents,
bereavement
,
loss
, illness, and the enduring impact of adverse childhood experiences on adult life.
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
Since 1996 I have helped people to overcome the consequences of different types of trauma, including critical incidents,
bereavement
,
loss
, illness, and the enduring impact of adverse childhood experiences on adult life.
Finding the therapist that is right for you may feel a challenge, especially at a time when you may be feeling vulnerable or uncertain, perhaps facing a crisis point. This is not unusual, whether you have undertaken therapy in the past or whether this is the first time you have sought therapy. Sometimes we need help to overcome conflicts and blocks in ourselves and in our relationships that are confusing and difficult to face. I understand that you are a unique and complex individual, with many facets and aspects of who you are, how you experience yourself, and how you have had to adapt as you confront life's struggles.
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Claire Alexandra Ingram
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH7
My work over the years has been wide ranging including: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addiction,
bereavement
, self harm, low self -esteem and trauma.
Hello, I'm Claire. I am an experienced counsellor, working on-line and face to face from my therapy rooms in Southbourne. There are many different reasons why you may be looking for change in your life. For example, you may be suffering from day-to-day anxiety, or perhaps you have experienced traumatic life events leading to depression, addictive behaviours or problems in your relationships. You may not even be sure why you feel this way. At times like these it can help to talk to a professional who can work alongside you to help you achieve understanding and clarity, enabling you to make the changes you want in your life.
My work over the years has been wide ranging including: anxiety, depression, relationship issues, addiction,
bereavement
, self harm, low self -esteem and trauma.
Hello, I'm Claire. I am an experienced counsellor, working on-line and face to face from my therapy rooms in Southbourne. There are many different reasons why you may be looking for change in your life. For example, you may be suffering from day-to-day anxiety, or perhaps you have experienced traumatic life events leading to depression, addictive behaviours or problems in your relationships. You may not even be sure why you feel this way. At times like these it can help to talk to a professional who can work alongside you to help you achieve understanding and clarity, enabling you to make the changes you want in your life.

Maryann Byrne
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH9
I am experienced in working with trauma, dissociation, anxiety and post-traumatic stress, sexual violence and domestic abuse, low self esteem, depression,
loss
and
grief
.
There are times when many of us feel we could benefit from emotional support and although making that first step to see a counsellor can seem enormous, it is a really positive step as talking in confidence to a professional counsellor can help bring clarity and healing and give you much needed support during a painful or anxious time. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions and responses and empower you to make changes in your life. It facilitates the freedom to talk openly and confidentially, in a place where you will be really listened to.
I am experienced in working with trauma, dissociation, anxiety and post-traumatic stress, sexual violence and domestic abuse, low self esteem, depression,
loss
and
grief
.
There are times when many of us feel we could benefit from emotional support and although making that first step to see a counsellor can seem enormous, it is a really positive step as talking in confidence to a professional counsellor can help bring clarity and healing and give you much needed support during a painful or anxious time. Counselling can help you make sense of your emotions and responses and empower you to make changes in your life. It facilitates the freedom to talk openly and confidentially, in a place where you will be really listened to.

The Cor Practice
Psychotherapist, MHGI
Verified
Bournemouth BH4
We have listened to people who have felt at their lowest ebb, and every session has ended with them feeling better about themselves, and more confident to face life. Whether you have suffered
loss
, trauma or are feeling anxious or frightened, we will teach you how to use your own resources and some genuinely effective techniques to allow you to have a fulfilling, peaceful and happier life.
We have listened to people who have felt at their lowest ebb, and every session has ended with them feeling better about themselves, and more confident to face life. Whether you have suffered
loss
, trauma or are feeling anxious or frightened, we will teach you how to use your own resources and some genuinely effective techniques to allow you to have a fulfilling, peaceful and happier life.

Kate Brown
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified
Bournemouth BH7
Therapy can help with a number of issues, such as trauma,
loss
,
bereavement
, relationship difficulties, body image issues and eating distress, addiction and many other issues.
my work is guided by the belief that psychotherapy should be a safe, confidential and regular space in which to talk about feelings, experiences and difficulties, with a therapist you have developed a trusting therapeutic relationship with over time. Understanding how past experiences and relationships can impact on current difficulties can help a person better cope in the future. I provide a warm, empathic and safe proffessional service.
Therapy can help with a number of issues, such as trauma,
loss
,
bereavement
, relationship difficulties, body image issues and eating distress, addiction and many other issues.
my work is guided by the belief that psychotherapy should be a safe, confidential and regular space in which to talk about feelings, experiences and difficulties, with a therapist you have developed a trusting therapeutic relationship with over time. Understanding how past experiences and relationships can impact on current difficulties can help a person better cope in the future. I provide a warm, empathic and safe proffessional service.

Rosemarie Philips
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified
Bournemouth BH11
RoseMarie Philips, I offer Therapeutic Counselling & Life Coaching in many areas: of life. Menopause, adults and young people with Autism and Asperger's. I worked at Relate for 11 years. Having 26 years of experience working with clients in trauma, domestic or sexual abuse and P.TStress. Providing Individual, Couples, and Family Therapy, I worked at CAMHS (NHS) with children & teens with behavioural issues. My work with Anger Management,
Grief
,
Bereavement
, anxiety or depression. I can help empower and provide techniques to rebuild your life, confidence, self-worth and self-esteem. I can help you make that change in your life.
RoseMarie Philips, I offer Therapeutic Counselling & Life Coaching in many areas: of life. Menopause, adults and young people with Autism and Asperger's. I worked at Relate for 11 years. Having 26 years of experience working with clients in trauma, domestic or sexual abuse and P.TStress. Providing Individual, Couples, and Family Therapy, I worked at CAMHS (NHS) with children & teens with behavioural issues. My work with Anger Management,
Grief
,
Bereavement
, anxiety or depression. I can help empower and provide techniques to rebuild your life, confidence, self-worth and self-esteem. I can help you make that change in your life.

Mandy Heath
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH9
Are you telling people you are 'fine' even though you know you are not? Maybe you are going through a
bereavement
, a life transition, a difficult period of your life and need some emotional support? Maybe you have already experienced difficulties in your life and are struggling with the way you feel on the other side of it. Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low self-esteem or depression?
Are you telling people you are 'fine' even though you know you are not? Maybe you are going through a
bereavement
, a life transition, a difficult period of your life and need some emotional support? Maybe you have already experienced difficulties in your life and are struggling with the way you feel on the other side of it. Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low self-esteem or depression?

Denise White - Specialist Relationship Therapist
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified
Bournemouth BH4
For some, issues around sexual intimacy or sexuality may be causing distress, or, it may be that you would like support with the
loss
and disruption separation and divorce can bring.
I am a specialist relationship therapist, qualified to support you as a couple or individual. When relationships become challenging, I can help you work through the uncertainty, confusion, conflict and disconnection, allowing you to move forward in your life and relationships, with clarity and understanding.
For some, issues around sexual intimacy or sexuality may be causing distress, or, it may be that you would like support with the
loss
and disruption separation and divorce can bring.
I am a specialist relationship therapist, qualified to support you as a couple or individual. When relationships become challenging, I can help you work through the uncertainty, confusion, conflict and disconnection, allowing you to move forward in your life and relationships, with clarity and understanding.

Karen Dibbens Counselling Services
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Bournemouth BH20
Waitlist for new clients
Relationship breakdown, divorce, anger management,
bereavement
.
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.
Relationship breakdown, divorce, anger management,
bereavement
.
I offer a warm, safe and confidential space for you to be listened to. I work at your pace, helping you to explore what you really want, both from the counselling therapy and then concentrating more specifically, on areas of your life that you'd like to change or improve. If you have problems that keep going around and around in your head. If you are unhappy and can't identify why. If you are really struggling to cope with life, then Counselling can offer an amazingly good emotional release. Offering you the comfort of feeling truly listened to, empathised with and not judged.

Dr Sophia Chambers
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified
1 Endorsed
Bournemouth BH1
I am a friendly and passionate Clinical Psychologist and EMDR therapist, experienced in helping with a range of difficulties including: anxiety, stress, trauma/PTSD, depression,
grief
, low self-esteem, and the impact of physical health conditions. I draw on principles from a range of evidence-based psychological therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT). This means I can be flexible and adapt sessions to suit you.
I am a friendly and passionate Clinical Psychologist and EMDR therapist, experienced in helping with a range of difficulties including: anxiety, stress, trauma/PTSD, depression,
grief
, low self-esteem, and the impact of physical health conditions. I draw on principles from a range of evidence-based psychological therapies including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy, and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT). This means I can be flexible and adapt sessions to suit you.
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Bereavement Counsellors
How long does therapy take for grief?
There is no exact timeline for grief counseling. Some people may start to feel better after just a few sessions, while others may take months or longer to feel relief. Some specific approaches, including some types of CBT, may involve a set number of sessions, or therapy may be open-ended until the patient determines they are ready to wrap up. Just as there is no right or wrong way to grieve, there is no right or wrong way to seek therapy for grief.
When should you seek therapy for grief?
Many people mistakenly believe that their grief needs to be debilitating or all-encompassing to warrant therapy. This is not the case. While people who experience severe, prolonged grief—particularly those who are considering self-harm or engaging in unhealthy substance use—are especially likely to benefit from therapy, so too are people whose grief is less intense but still interfering with well-being or daily functioning. In practice, almost anyone struggling to process a loss could benefit from grief counseling.
Can grief be managed without therapy?
Oftentimes, yes. Grief is a near-universal part of being human, and many find that their grief, while profound, does not stop them from participating in day-to-day life and steadily eases over time without outside help. For others, however, the harsh pain of early grief persists for months or years or leaves them unable to function. This group is especially likely to benefit from seeing a therapist, who can guide them through their grief and help them reconnect with the world.
What happens if grief is left untreated?
Because grief does not in itself necessitate therapy, untreated grief will often resolve on its own. However, for some people—particularly those who would qualify for a diagnosis of prolonged grief disorder—untreated grief can be a source of seemingly endless pain or lead them to withdraw from the world. In such cases, treatment can be indispensable, as it can help an individual adapt to the loss and start living again.