Bereavement Counselling in Bourne End

We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons some of which may be; Anxiety, depression, stress, grief, relationship issues, low confidence, low self-esteem, bullying in the work place and there are many more.
I am a qualified and experienced counsellor and pshchotherapist. Prior to obtaining my qualifications I worked in the corporate sector so have a great understanding of the effect work pressures can have on your personal life. I work very successfully with clients suffering from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief and couples with relationship issues.
We come to therapy for a myriad of reasons some of which may be; Anxiety, depression, stress, grief, relationship issues, low confidence, low self-esteem, bullying in the work place and there are many more.
I am a qualified and experienced counsellor and pshchotherapist. Prior to obtaining my qualifications I worked in the corporate sector so have a great understanding of the effect work pressures can have on your personal life. I work very successfully with clients suffering from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, grief and couples with relationship issues.
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Cora Beattie
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a UKCP trainee Psychoanalytic Attachment-based Psychotherapist. I like to create a safe and supportive space where I work collaboratively with my clients at their own pace. There’s no agenda or assumption on what you decide to talk about. You can choose to come on an open-ended basis, or maybe you'd like to discuss a specific issue and attend until you feel you have resolved it.
I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a UKCP trainee Psychoanalytic Attachment-based Psychotherapist. I like to create a safe and supportive space where I work collaboratively with my clients at their own pace. There’s no agenda or assumption on what you decide to talk about. You can choose to come on an open-ended basis, or maybe you'd like to discuss a specific issue and attend until you feel you have resolved it.
01628 965658 View 01628 965658
Debbie Cicchirillo
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I work with adults and couples, offering support for a wide variety of issues, including: • Grief, bereavement, and loss • Anxiety & Depression • Panic attacks • Low self-esteem • Lack of confidence • Domestic or sexual violence • Relationship difficulties (including couples counselling) • Financial worries • Bullying • Anger • Neglect • Trauma • Self-harm
As a qualified and experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor, I offer a supportive, compassionate space where you can explore whatever is troubling you at a pace that feels right. My practice is rooted in the pluralistic approach, which means I draw from a range of therapeutic methods and tailor our work together to suit your individual needs, preferences, and goals. No two people are the same, and therapy should reflect that. I am warm, friendly, and approachable and aim to create a safe, non‑judgemental environment where you can talk openly, feel heard, and begin to make sense of your experiences as you navigate a way forward.
I work with adults and couples, offering support for a wide variety of issues, including: • Grief, bereavement, and loss • Anxiety & Depression • Panic attacks • Low self-esteem • Lack of confidence • Domestic or sexual violence • Relationship difficulties (including couples counselling) • Financial worries • Bullying • Anger • Neglect • Trauma • Self-harm
As a qualified and experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor, I offer a supportive, compassionate space where you can explore whatever is troubling you at a pace that feels right. My practice is rooted in the pluralistic approach, which means I draw from a range of therapeutic methods and tailor our work together to suit your individual needs, preferences, and goals. No two people are the same, and therapy should reflect that. I am warm, friendly, and approachable and aim to create a safe, non‑judgemental environment where you can talk openly, feel heard, and begin to make sense of your experiences as you navigate a way forward.
01628 882185 View 01628 882185
Emma Marshall
Psychotherapist
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Some will have a particular issue they wish to work through in the short term, some may have been affected by a life-changing event or loss that may need a little longer to come to terms with, others may just feel unhappy, low, sad or angry but unsure why.
I am a Senior Member of ACCPH, Practitioner Member (MCMA) of The Complementary Medicine Association, a Person Centred Counsellor and Psychotherapist working with adults and young people aged 13+. I also offer Canine Assisted Therapy with my dog, a fully trained and insured Golden Retriever Therapy Dog. I am also a Certified Supervisor for other Counsellors.
Some will have a particular issue they wish to work through in the short term, some may have been affected by a life-changing event or loss that may need a little longer to come to terms with, others may just feel unhappy, low, sad or angry but unsure why.
I am a Senior Member of ACCPH, Practitioner Member (MCMA) of The Complementary Medicine Association, a Person Centred Counsellor and Psychotherapist working with adults and young people aged 13+. I also offer Canine Assisted Therapy with my dog, a fully trained and insured Golden Retriever Therapy Dog. I am also a Certified Supervisor for other Counsellors.
01494 326393 View 01494 326393
Gayle Creasey
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Serves Area
I also work with adults and young people who are impacted by past trauma or who are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, anger, bereavement, stress, divorce and many other issues.
Sometimes it's hard to know what to do with our difficult thoughts and feelings and this is when counselling/psychotherapy can help. I'm an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist working with couples, adults and young people. In a safe and confidential space, I will do my best to help you feel accepted and understood. Feeling supported to think and talk about what is going on for you is the first step to being able to move forward. Counselling means that you don't have to work it all out on your own. I will be there to support, guide and help you.
I also work with adults and young people who are impacted by past trauma or who are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, anger, bereavement, stress, divorce and many other issues.
Sometimes it's hard to know what to do with our difficult thoughts and feelings and this is when counselling/psychotherapy can help. I'm an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist working with couples, adults and young people. In a safe and confidential space, I will do my best to help you feel accepted and understood. Feeling supported to think and talk about what is going on for you is the first step to being able to move forward. Counselling means that you don't have to work it all out on your own. I will be there to support, guide and help you.
01494 292797 View 01494 292797
Nina Cleaver
Psychotherapist, ACC Reg
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer in-depth therapy for real, lasting change. I'm a Psychodynamic & CBT-trained psychotherapeutic counsellor with extensive experience of psychological care. My gold-standard training spans multiple therapy types (see website), allowing optimally individualised therapy. My work is rooted in psychodynamic therapy, an approach that explores how early experiences and unconscious patterns continue to shape our lives today. I integrate classical psychoanalytic thinking with contemporary psychodynamic theory and the latest research, allowing for deep, meaningful therapy within a modern framework.
I offer in-depth therapy for real, lasting change. I'm a Psychodynamic & CBT-trained psychotherapeutic counsellor with extensive experience of psychological care. My gold-standard training spans multiple therapy types (see website), allowing optimally individualised therapy. My work is rooted in psychodynamic therapy, an approach that explores how early experiences and unconscious patterns continue to shape our lives today. I integrate classical psychoanalytic thinking with contemporary psychodynamic theory and the latest research, allowing for deep, meaningful therapy within a modern framework.
01753 303316 View 01753 303316
Shieva Alipour
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I am an experienced psychotherapist (MNCPS Acc) with experiences in schools and private practice. I have an MA in Integrative Child Psychotherpy. I have worked with children from the age of 4, their parents when working with infants, young people, and adults. I am Integrative in my approach and use expressive arts.
I am an experienced psychotherapist (MNCPS Acc) with experiences in schools and private practice. I have an MA in Integrative Child Psychotherpy. I have worked with children from the age of 4, their parents when working with infants, young people, and adults. I am Integrative in my approach and use expressive arts.
01628 563759 View 01628 563759

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Julie Smart Counselling (JSC)
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Watford WD17
Some of the areas of counselling I deal with include bereavement, loss, depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, transition and major life changes, low self-esteem, self-worth.
I understand approaching a counsellor can be daunting. From the outset I offer a safe, non-judgemental, confidential environment where you can talk about how you are feeling and gain deeper insight into any difficulties you may be experiencing. If you are unsure, or you have any questions about engaging in counselling, we can have a brief talk prior to committing to sessions. I will aim to support you to feel at ease in taking this first step. I am BACP accredited and have 17 years experience in supporting clients from a range of different social, cultural, ethnic backgrounds and different gender and sexual orientation.
Some of the areas of counselling I deal with include bereavement, loss, depression, stress, anxiety, trauma, transition and major life changes, low self-esteem, self-worth.
I understand approaching a counsellor can be daunting. From the outset I offer a safe, non-judgemental, confidential environment where you can talk about how you are feeling and gain deeper insight into any difficulties you may be experiencing. If you are unsure, or you have any questions about engaging in counselling, we can have a brief talk prior to committing to sessions. I will aim to support you to feel at ease in taking this first step. I am BACP accredited and have 17 years experience in supporting clients from a range of different social, cultural, ethnic backgrounds and different gender and sexual orientation.
01923 961556 View 01923 961556
Dr Aoife Ryan
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I work with: anxiety, OCD, stress, and panic; depression; alcohol/ substance use; bereavement, understanding learning disability.
Hi, I'm Aoife (pronounced "Ee-fa"), a Clinical Psychologist supporting adults and young people through a range of emotional and psychological difficulties. I have over nine years of experience working across the NHS, local government, and third-sector services. My approach is warm, collaborative, and personalised. Together, we can explore what is troubling you, identify your strengths, and work towards changes that feel meaningful and achievable I tailor therapy to each person's needs, preferences, strengths, and goals.
I work with: anxiety, OCD, stress, and panic; depression; alcohol/ substance use; bereavement, understanding learning disability.
Hi, I'm Aoife (pronounced "Ee-fa"), a Clinical Psychologist supporting adults and young people through a range of emotional and psychological difficulties. I have over nine years of experience working across the NHS, local government, and third-sector services. My approach is warm, collaborative, and personalised. Together, we can explore what is troubling you, identify your strengths, and work towards changes that feel meaningful and achievable I tailor therapy to each person's needs, preferences, strengths, and goals.
020 4652 2044 View 020 4652 2044
Kate Auguste
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
You might be carrying grief, burnout, relationship difficulties, or moving through a life transition that has shifted your sense of self.
I’m an integrative psychotherapist blending Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT & trauma-informed approaches. Work may involve exploring emotional patterns, understanding relationship patterns & developing tools to manage anxiety, rumination & low mood. I also support clients navigating bereavment, life transitions, fertility or menopause-related challenges.
You might be carrying grief, burnout, relationship difficulties, or moving through a life transition that has shifted your sense of self.
I’m an integrative psychotherapist blending Person-Centred, Psychodynamic, CBT & trauma-informed approaches. Work may involve exploring emotional patterns, understanding relationship patterns & developing tools to manage anxiety, rumination & low mood. I also support clients navigating bereavment, life transitions, fertility or menopause-related challenges.
0151 203 8336 View 0151 203 8336
Shane Mackay
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
London SE1
I have worked with a diverse variety of people that have experienced C-PTSD, depression, grief, anxiety, bipolar disorder, various personality disorders, identity-related issues (race, gender and sexuality), obsessive & intrusive states, hearing voices, paranoia, suicidality and many other attachment-based wounding and relational issues
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
I have worked with a diverse variety of people that have experienced C-PTSD, depression, grief, anxiety, bipolar disorder, various personality disorders, identity-related issues (race, gender and sexuality), obsessive & intrusive states, hearing voices, paranoia, suicidality and many other attachment-based wounding and relational issues
After qualifying thirteen years ago I worked for City & Hackney Mind (Mental Health Charity) for seven years as the Clinical Services Manager of the Psychological Therapies Team as well as the Clinical Supervisor for a large team of trainee/qualified counsellors/psychotherapists. My approach mainly draws on Psychoanalysis, Somatic & Neurobiological approaches along with Philosophy & Critical Theory. My approach is GSRD (Gender, Sexuality, Relationship Diversity) affirmative meaning i have a passion for and extensive experience supporting Queer & LGBTQI+ as well as other non-heteronormative ways of living/being.
020 3870 4138 View 020 3870 4138
Jo Derry
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Watford WD25
I am a Specialist Counsellor working with adults and young people who are experiencing bereavement & loss.
I am an experienced counsellor/psychotherapist. I consider it of utmost importance that we build a strong and supportive therapeutic relationship within which you can feel safe and trusting enough to discuss and explore whatever is going on for you. I am here to listen and will not judge what you have to say. I'm here to help you feel better by making sense of the things that you think and feel and to empower you to make your own choices about how you move forward in your life. You can trust that I will act in your best interests at all times and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions.
I am a Specialist Counsellor working with adults and young people who are experiencing bereavement & loss.
I am an experienced counsellor/psychotherapist. I consider it of utmost importance that we build a strong and supportive therapeutic relationship within which you can feel safe and trusting enough to discuss and explore whatever is going on for you. I am here to listen and will not judge what you have to say. I'm here to help you feel better by making sense of the things that you think and feel and to empower you to make your own choices about how you move forward in your life. You can trust that I will act in your best interests at all times and adhere to the BACP Ethical Framework for the Counselling Professions.
01923 750844 View 01923 750844
Sarah Louise Tingay
Counsellor, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Newbury RG14
Feeling anxious, low in confidence, or struggling with work, relationships, or grief can be overwhelming.
I support people through bereavement, addiction, and coping with illness, as well as neurodivergent individuals. I offer tailored strategies and compassionate guidance, helping you gain new perspectives, build resilience, and move forward with confidence in a way that suits you.
Feeling anxious, low in confidence, or struggling with work, relationships, or grief can be overwhelming.
I support people through bereavement, addiction, and coping with illness, as well as neurodivergent individuals. I offer tailored strategies and compassionate guidance, helping you gain new perspectives, build resilience, and move forward with confidence in a way that suits you.
01635 917396 View 01635 917396
Maria Midson
Counsellor, MBACP
Hello, my name is Maria and I'm an experienced, professional BACP counsellor. I recognise you've taken a bold step to reach out for help and it can be daunting to find a therapist who you can trust and connect with. Being sensitive, curious, non judgemental, along with a sense of humour enables my clients to feel safe, to be open and vulnerable with themselves and others. Perhaps your experiencing difficulties with life, relationships or work and cope by keeping busy, numbing yourself or avoiding your thoughts and feelings. These strategies may leave you feeling anxious, stressed, lonely or depressed if not dealt with.
Hello, my name is Maria and I'm an experienced, professional BACP counsellor. I recognise you've taken a bold step to reach out for help and it can be daunting to find a therapist who you can trust and connect with. Being sensitive, curious, non judgemental, along with a sense of humour enables my clients to feel safe, to be open and vulnerable with themselves and others. Perhaps your experiencing difficulties with life, relationships or work and cope by keeping busy, numbing yourself or avoiding your thoughts and feelings. These strategies may leave you feeling anxious, stressed, lonely or depressed if not dealt with.
07723 494704 View 07723 494704
Dr Monique Proudlove
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Online Only
I have extensive experience of providing therapy for people facing a bereavement or physical health conditions such as cancer and neurological conditions (eg. stroke, MS, migraines).
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, with many years of experience working within the NHS, charity sector and private practice. I am registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC), have accredited membership with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and work within their code of ethics and conduct. In my private practice, I can offer short and long term therapy, depending on your needs. I am trained in a number of models of therapy and can integrate these to tailor the work for you. I will provide you with a safe, confidential space in which we can work through any issues and build self-understanding.
I have extensive experience of providing therapy for people facing a bereavement or physical health conditions such as cancer and neurological conditions (eg. stroke, MS, migraines).
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, with many years of experience working within the NHS, charity sector and private practice. I am registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC), have accredited membership with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and work within their code of ethics and conduct. In my private practice, I can offer short and long term therapy, depending on your needs. I am trained in a number of models of therapy and can integrate these to tailor the work for you. I will provide you with a safe, confidential space in which we can work through any issues and build self-understanding.
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David Simon Pusey
Counsellor, MBACP
Along with my ongoing post-graduate training in existential-analytic psychotherapy with the Southern Association For Psychotherapy and Counselling, I also have extensive experience helping clients with complex issues around grief and loss through my work with a national bereavement charity.
It's so difficult to pick up a phone and call a stranger. No one wants to feel that they need help... but sometimes we all do. I provide a space where you can speak about whatever is on your mind without judgment and without prejudice.
Along with my ongoing post-graduate training in existential-analytic psychotherapy with the Southern Association For Psychotherapy and Counselling, I also have extensive experience helping clients with complex issues around grief and loss through my work with a national bereavement charity.
It's so difficult to pick up a phone and call a stranger. No one wants to feel that they need help... but sometimes we all do. I provide a space where you can speak about whatever is on your mind without judgment and without prejudice.
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Jan Howe
Counsellor, MBACP
London SW14
Whatever issues you’re experiencing – from anxiety, to bereavement, stress, low self-esteem, life changes, depression, abuse, addiction, or other trauma – I offer a confidential one-to-one counselling service to help you work through them.
I offer long or short term therapy depending on your needs and CBT to help with stress and anxiety. Sessions take place either from my home in South West London or via Skype if more convenient, with a free initial consultation where we will look at how we can work together effectively. I have worked for Bereft a bereavement agency for the past two years.
Whatever issues you’re experiencing – from anxiety, to bereavement, stress, low self-esteem, life changes, depression, abuse, addiction, or other trauma – I offer a confidential one-to-one counselling service to help you work through them.
I offer long or short term therapy depending on your needs and CBT to help with stress and anxiety. Sessions take place either from my home in South West London or via Skype if more convenient, with a free initial consultation where we will look at how we can work together effectively. I have worked for Bereft a bereavement agency for the past two years.
01748 902503 View 01748 902503
Sarah Kelly
Psychotherapist, MBACP
I have worked for many years supporting those who are suffering from the emotional pulls of loss and grief, the hopelessness of depression and the turmoil of anxiety.
Life can throw all kinds of events, expected or unexpected, at us. We experience those changes with a full range of emotions and sometimes it’s difficult to understand and acknowledge these feelings. We can choose to ignore them and gradually they start to affect the way we go about our daily lives. Others may notice the changes that we struggle to accept......With the right conditions and support you have the ability to harness your inner energy to regenerate and find new ways to grow and thrive once again. I offer you the space to explore, walking alongside you, supporting you safely on that journey.
I have worked for many years supporting those who are suffering from the emotional pulls of loss and grief, the hopelessness of depression and the turmoil of anxiety.
Life can throw all kinds of events, expected or unexpected, at us. We experience those changes with a full range of emotions and sometimes it’s difficult to understand and acknowledge these feelings. We can choose to ignore them and gradually they start to affect the way we go about our daily lives. Others may notice the changes that we struggle to accept......With the right conditions and support you have the ability to harness your inner energy to regenerate and find new ways to grow and thrive once again. I offer you the space to explore, walking alongside you, supporting you safely on that journey.
01923 961405 View 01923 961405
Esther Ramsay-Jones
Psychotherapist, PhD, BPC
London W1W
My specialism is in supporting people with chronic illness, deep grief and loss.
I also practise outdoors in natural settings, and am a university lecturer (counselling, psychotherapy): therapy is a distinct kind of relational learning experience, which often has a beneficial impact on the way we may relate to ourselves, to others and to the world around us.
My specialism is in supporting people with chronic illness, deep grief and loss.
I also practise outdoors in natural settings, and am a university lecturer (counselling, psychotherapy): therapy is a distinct kind of relational learning experience, which often has a beneficial impact on the way we may relate to ourselves, to others and to the world around us.
01628 334457 View 01628 334457
Tracey Cawley-Radford
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I have many years of experience working with children, teenagers, and adults in many areas including Anxiety, depression, and bereavement.
My focus is for clients to find both the meaning for their concerns as well as a clear understanding of what’s holding them back, always encouraging them to find the a focus and balance in every situation. My aim is to provide a safe and nurturing space for you to tell your story with no fear of judgement. What do I offer • Long-Term Face-to-Face • Online Therapy and Counselling • Short-Term, Face-to-Face • Telephone Counselling, As each person is unique, we are all individual. I am passionate about working with clients in supporting them to reach and give you skills to refocus.
I have many years of experience working with children, teenagers, and adults in many areas including Anxiety, depression, and bereavement.
My focus is for clients to find both the meaning for their concerns as well as a clear understanding of what’s holding them back, always encouraging them to find the a focus and balance in every situation. My aim is to provide a safe and nurturing space for you to tell your story with no fear of judgement. What do I offer • Long-Term Face-to-Face • Online Therapy and Counselling • Short-Term, Face-to-Face • Telephone Counselling, As each person is unique, we are all individual. I am passionate about working with clients in supporting them to reach and give you skills to refocus.
020 3835 5311 View 020 3835 5311
Bereavement Counsellors
How long does therapy take for grief?
There is no exact timeline for grief counseling. Some people may start to feel better after just a few sessions, while others may take months or longer to feel relief. Some specific approaches, including some types of CBT, may involve a set number of sessions, or therapy may be open-ended until the patient determines they are ready to wrap up. Just as there is no right or wrong way to grieve, there is no right or wrong way to seek therapy for grief.

When should you seek therapy for grief?
Many people mistakenly believe that their grief needs to be debilitating or all-encompassing to warrant therapy. This is not the case. While people who experience severe, prolonged grief—particularly those who are considering self-harm or engaging in unhealthy substance use—are especially likely to benefit from therapy, so too are people whose grief is less intense but still interfering with well-being or daily functioning. In practice, almost anyone struggling to process a loss could benefit from grief counseling.

Can grief be managed without therapy?
Oftentimes, yes. Grief is a near-universal part of being human, and many find that their grief, while profound, does not stop them from participating in day-to-day life and steadily eases over time without outside help. For others, however, the harsh pain of early grief persists for months or years or leaves them unable to function. This group is especially likely to benefit from seeing a therapist, who can guide them through their grief and help them reconnect with the world.

What happens if grief is left untreated?
Because grief does not in itself necessitate therapy, untreated grief will often resolve on its own. However, for some people—particularly those who would qualify for a diagnosis of prolonged grief disorder—untreated grief can be a source of seemingly endless pain or lead them to withdraw from the world. In such cases, treatment can be indispensable, as it can help an individual adapt to the loss and start living again.