Codependency Counselling in Bolton

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Virginia Messina
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bolton BL1  (Online Only)
Welcome to this page, I am Virginia, an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist. I have a profound passion for working with clients who have experienced Narcisisstic abuse, either romantic or parental, and loss. Recognizing the presence of a narcissistic individual can be subtle yet deeply impactful. In the case of a parent, telltale signs include enduring harsh criticism, feeling perpetually inadequate no matter your efforts, and facing attempts at control through guilt-tripping or excessive demands for attention. Their lack of empathy leaves you feeling unheard and invalidated, and their mood swings keep you un edge and unsure
Welcome to this page, I am Virginia, an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist. I have a profound passion for working with clients who have experienced Narcisisstic abuse, either romantic or parental, and loss. Recognizing the presence of a narcissistic individual can be subtle yet deeply impactful. In the case of a parent, telltale signs include enduring harsh criticism, feeling perpetually inadequate no matter your efforts, and facing attempts at control through guilt-tripping or excessive demands for attention. Their lack of empathy leaves you feeling unheard and invalidated, and their mood swings keep you un edge and unsure
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Judith Lamb
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL2
Taking a brave first step into seeking help through counselling can feel so difficult and yet it potentially could be life changing. I understand how that feels and hope that my natural warm persona and training in person centred counselling would enable you to begin that process. Additional training in cognitive behavioural therapy as well as extensive continued professional development allows an integrative style of work that can help with a wide range of issues and needs. Working from home as a private counsellor as well as having been employed by a local school provides a perfect balance of experiences and skills to offer help.
Taking a brave first step into seeking help through counselling can feel so difficult and yet it potentially could be life changing. I understand how that feels and hope that my natural warm persona and training in person centred counselling would enable you to begin that process. Additional training in cognitive behavioural therapy as well as extensive continued professional development allows an integrative style of work that can help with a wide range of issues and needs. Working from home as a private counsellor as well as having been employed by a local school provides a perfect balance of experiences and skills to offer help.
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Jacqueline Zelda Gordon
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I'm Jacqueline, I offer a safe, warm non-judgemental conditions where you can reach your fullest potential and be your true self. I offer an intergrative approach & I am a registered CBT & Addictions Practitioner, with AP (Addictions Professionals) & MBACP. My journey of recovery from trauma began in 2016 after a serious traffic collision. Counselling helped me to discover the value of self-worth & I passionately help clients discover what helps them. I work with clients who are experiencing stress & anxiety, reducing the impact that trauma, relationship & family conflicts & abuse, addiction & dependancy are having in their lives.
I'm Jacqueline, I offer a safe, warm non-judgemental conditions where you can reach your fullest potential and be your true self. I offer an intergrative approach & I am a registered CBT & Addictions Practitioner, with AP (Addictions Professionals) & MBACP. My journey of recovery from trauma began in 2016 after a serious traffic collision. Counselling helped me to discover the value of self-worth & I passionately help clients discover what helps them. I work with clients who are experiencing stress & anxiety, reducing the impact that trauma, relationship & family conflicts & abuse, addiction & dependancy are having in their lives.
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David Gill Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
I offer Person Centred counselling, a non-directive approach, which believes, given the right conditions, a person can reach their full potential and become their true self. I aim to offer a safe, non-judgemental, supportive, and understanding space for you to talk about past or present feelings, emotions, and events. From our work together, I hope to facilitate your personal growth and self-development thus enabling you to make peace or find resolution of current or past difficulties.
I offer Person Centred counselling, a non-directive approach, which believes, given the right conditions, a person can reach their full potential and become their true self. I aim to offer a safe, non-judgemental, supportive, and understanding space for you to talk about past or present feelings, emotions, and events. From our work together, I hope to facilitate your personal growth and self-development thus enabling you to make peace or find resolution of current or past difficulties.
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The Wellness Consultancy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
Waitlist for new clients
Often clients contact me when other therapy has not helped them in the way they had hoped. This is often due to the complexity of difficulties being layered perhaps in a history of trauma. Distress in the body and mind can be triggered by what appears to be something superficial. This can open up the past or come at a time when our emotional resilience is low so this event has a greater impact than it may have done. We can find ourselves not being able to function in our normal way. Many clients often identify as 'good copers' and those who 'just get on with it'. Perhaps we can't now - this is frightening and can derail us.
Often clients contact me when other therapy has not helped them in the way they had hoped. This is often due to the complexity of difficulties being layered perhaps in a history of trauma. Distress in the body and mind can be triggered by what appears to be something superficial. This can open up the past or come at a time when our emotional resilience is low so this event has a greater impact than it may have done. We can find ourselves not being able to function in our normal way. Many clients often identify as 'good copers' and those who 'just get on with it'. Perhaps we can't now - this is frightening and can derail us.
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Jane Arkwright
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
I am a pychotherapist and counsellor. I offer a quiet, safe and confidential space where you can talk about what you are finding difficult or challenging. I am an empathetic, warm and compassionate therapist and will support and help you to find a way forward. I have a diploma in Transactional Analysis counselling and am trained in Integrative Pyschotherapy. Transactional Analysis can help people make positive changes in their lives and can increase their capacity for personal change and development. I use an integrative therapeutic approach which means I tailor the therapy according to each individuals needs and uniqueness.
I am a pychotherapist and counsellor. I offer a quiet, safe and confidential space where you can talk about what you are finding difficult or challenging. I am an empathetic, warm and compassionate therapist and will support and help you to find a way forward. I have a diploma in Transactional Analysis counselling and am trained in Integrative Pyschotherapy. Transactional Analysis can help people make positive changes in their lives and can increase their capacity for personal change and development. I use an integrative therapeutic approach which means I tailor the therapy according to each individuals needs and uniqueness.
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Photo of Gemma Masingiri, Counsellor in Bolton, England
Gemma Masingiri
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bolton BL1
Life can be tough sometimes. It could be due to a major change, something important in your past, or just a feeling you can't quite figure out. I provide a compassionate and understanding space where you can talk about what's going on in your life. I'm experienced in helping with anxiety, depression, infertility, stress, family issues, domestic abuse, and trauma.
Life can be tough sometimes. It could be due to a major change, something important in your past, or just a feeling you can't quite figure out. I provide a compassionate and understanding space where you can talk about what's going on in your life. I'm experienced in helping with anxiety, depression, infertility, stress, family issues, domestic abuse, and trauma.
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Photo of Natalia Di Sensi, Counsellor in Bolton, England
Natalia Di Sensi
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
Empathy and validation are the key foundations of my work and I think finding an understanding of a clients perspective helps them in turn to find solutions for peace of mind for and within themselves. Working in this client centred way has been incredibly fulfilling these last few years and having my own practice allows for real freedom to choose how we work together.
Empathy and validation are the key foundations of my work and I think finding an understanding of a clients perspective helps them in turn to find solutions for peace of mind for and within themselves. Working in this client centred way has been incredibly fulfilling these last few years and having my own practice allows for real freedom to choose how we work together.
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Susan Worth
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Bolton BL6
I'm Sue Worth, a therapist since 1998. I offer a relaxing and non-judgmental approach where you can be at ease. My passion is for the motivation, development and success of people of all ages. I find hypnotherapy to be exceptionally good at ridding people of anxieties, phobias, depression and other psychological complaints. I have helped many people with addictions e.g alcoholism, smoking, drug abuse, people with low self confidence/self esteem and weight loss therapy tailored to suit you including Gastric Band Hypnosis. I also have extensive experience in working with young people.
I'm Sue Worth, a therapist since 1998. I offer a relaxing and non-judgmental approach where you can be at ease. My passion is for the motivation, development and success of people of all ages. I find hypnotherapy to be exceptionally good at ridding people of anxieties, phobias, depression and other psychological complaints. I have helped many people with addictions e.g alcoholism, smoking, drug abuse, people with low self confidence/self esteem and weight loss therapy tailored to suit you including Gastric Band Hypnosis. I also have extensive experience in working with young people.
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David DuBois
Counsellor, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
Bolton BL5
Welcome. I can help you to overcome your difficulties and understand why you’re feeling like you do. I am a Psychotherapeutic-Counsellor and Hypnotherapist trained in many different styles of therapy.
Welcome. I can help you to overcome your difficulties and understand why you’re feeling like you do. I am a Psychotherapeutic-Counsellor and Hypnotherapist trained in many different styles of therapy.
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Carla Edge
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
I am a down-to-earth counsellor, psychotherapist and hypnotherapist. I work with these therapies in an integrative way. You will be warmly welcomed and sincerely heard. You may want a life where it is easier to deal with painful events from your past or where you can cope with the difficulties of day-to-day life more effectively. Or perhaps, feel less daunted by the future. I want to help you move forwards and feel happier.
I am a down-to-earth counsellor, psychotherapist and hypnotherapist. I work with these therapies in an integrative way. You will be warmly welcomed and sincerely heard. You may want a life where it is easier to deal with painful events from your past or where you can cope with the difficulties of day-to-day life more effectively. Or perhaps, feel less daunted by the future. I want to help you move forwards and feel happier.
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Elsa da Cruz
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
Life has up and downs and we all will struggle in some point in our lives. However, sometimes we develop mental and emotional conditions out of what our struggles. If you want someone to talk and help you with these struggles and issues therapy can help. If you feel low self Esteem, depression, mood disorder and anxiety and have suicidal thoughts or you just want someone to talk, I am your therapist. My clients are man and women of different ages they feel they can trust me and that I intuitively can feel their deep issues and help them see it too. My clients were open to change and healing and with my help they find their path.
Life has up and downs and we all will struggle in some point in our lives. However, sometimes we develop mental and emotional conditions out of what our struggles. If you want someone to talk and help you with these struggles and issues therapy can help. If you feel low self Esteem, depression, mood disorder and anxiety and have suicidal thoughts or you just want someone to talk, I am your therapist. My clients are man and women of different ages they feel they can trust me and that I intuitively can feel their deep issues and help them see it too. My clients were open to change and healing and with my help they find their path.
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Photo of Lorraine Jervis, Counsellor in Bolton, England
Lorraine Jervis
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
We all experience challenges in life but sometimes these can become overwhelming and we feel unable to work through them alone. Often people don't feel able to, or don't want to discuss their concerns with friends or family as they are afraid to upset or burden them. It is my role to listen to you - I choose to do that.
We all experience challenges in life but sometimes these can become overwhelming and we feel unable to work through them alone. Often people don't feel able to, or don't want to discuss their concerns with friends or family as they are afraid to upset or burden them. It is my role to listen to you - I choose to do that.
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jmcpsychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL6  (Online Only)
If you're experiencing trauma, stress or feeling overwhelmed in any way and finding life difficult, contact Josephine today for a free initial half hour session. TRE (Trauma Release exercises ) provider, these are simple physical exercises, very new to the UK, but having a profound effect on people's lives. Many years' experience helping people breakthrough the mental suffering and blocks that hold so many of us back. Whether it's from stress, abuse, problems with managing anger, difficulty with relationships, binge eating, depression or self-esteem, Josephine will help you break through and get your life back again.
If you're experiencing trauma, stress or feeling overwhelmed in any way and finding life difficult, contact Josephine today for a free initial half hour session. TRE (Trauma Release exercises ) provider, these are simple physical exercises, very new to the UK, but having a profound effect on people's lives. Many years' experience helping people breakthrough the mental suffering and blocks that hold so many of us back. Whether it's from stress, abuse, problems with managing anger, difficulty with relationships, binge eating, depression or self-esteem, Josephine will help you break through and get your life back again.
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Photo of Julie O'Keeffe, Counsellor in Bolton, England
Julie O'Keeffe
Counsellor, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bolton BL6
Hi I’m Julie If you are struggling, I have a passion for understanding and empowering individuals on their journey towards mental well-being. My therapeutic approach is rooted in empathy, evidence-based practices, and a genuine commitment to fostering positive change. I integrate a blend of person centred, cognitive-behavioural approaches to tailor therapy to your individual unique needs. I prioritize creating a warm, supportive, non judgmental environment where you can feel heard and understood.
Hi I’m Julie If you are struggling, I have a passion for understanding and empowering individuals on their journey towards mental well-being. My therapeutic approach is rooted in empathy, evidence-based practices, and a genuine commitment to fostering positive change. I integrate a blend of person centred, cognitive-behavioural approaches to tailor therapy to your individual unique needs. I prioritize creating a warm, supportive, non judgmental environment where you can feel heard and understood.
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Photo of Helen Stansfield-Boys, Counsellor in Bolton, England
Helen Stansfield-Boys
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL6  (Online Only)
Are you unsure of who to talk to or where to turn for help and support? My counselling service could be the perfect place for you to explore your thoughts and feelings in a confidential and non-judgemental environment.
Are you unsure of who to talk to or where to turn for help and support? My counselling service could be the perfect place for you to explore your thoughts and feelings in a confidential and non-judgemental environment.
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Sue Victoria Jackson
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL3  (Online Only)
I am a supportive and empathetic therapist; who provides a safe, non judgemental environment for clients to explore their difficulties. I believe that the experience of sharing difficult feelings; of being 'heard' and not judged can be liberating and empowering. Counselling can help you understand why you think, feel and act like you do and help you create a new design for living.
I am a supportive and empathetic therapist; who provides a safe, non judgemental environment for clients to explore their difficulties. I believe that the experience of sharing difficult feelings; of being 'heard' and not judged can be liberating and empowering. Counselling can help you understand why you think, feel and act like you do and help you create a new design for living.
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U Got This, Mental health & Wellbeing clinic
Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
Want to GET BETTER & NOT JUST manage your mental health? Dealing with unresolved Anxiety & Depression can be debilitating, leaving you feeling like you wIill never get better. Your relationships, performance and confidence may suffer, you may dread the future and tired of wearing a mask & being positive. You may have been to see your GP or tried many therapies and still feel unwell. If this is you perhaps it’s time for further more therapy. The clinic offers unique techniques that are proving to be highly successful in the treatment for Mental health with growing 5 STAR Reviews. Referrals accepted from other therapists to.
Want to GET BETTER & NOT JUST manage your mental health? Dealing with unresolved Anxiety & Depression can be debilitating, leaving you feeling like you wIill never get better. Your relationships, performance and confidence may suffer, you may dread the future and tired of wearing a mask & being positive. You may have been to see your GP or tried many therapies and still feel unwell. If this is you perhaps it’s time for further more therapy. The clinic offers unique techniques that are proving to be highly successful in the treatment for Mental health with growing 5 STAR Reviews. Referrals accepted from other therapists to.
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Photo of Dr Zandra Bamford, Psychologist in Bolton, England
Dr Zandra Bamford
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
Hello, welcome to Therapy NorthWest. We support the wellbeing of adults & young people in clinics in Chorley & surrounding areas. We believe that life can be challenging with a number of different pressures & demands. We do not believe that these things make us ‘abnormal’ or ‘ill’, rather that there are times when we require support to work through difficulties, what has happened and how we have responded. Zandra has many years experience working with individuals, couples, families and systems to help foster greater well-being.
Hello, welcome to Therapy NorthWest. We support the wellbeing of adults & young people in clinics in Chorley & surrounding areas. We believe that life can be challenging with a number of different pressures & demands. We do not believe that these things make us ‘abnormal’ or ‘ill’, rather that there are times when we require support to work through difficulties, what has happened and how we have responded. Zandra has many years experience working with individuals, couples, families and systems to help foster greater well-being.
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Photo of Nurjis Ahmed, Psychotherapist in Bolton, England
Nurjis Ahmed
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Bolton BL1
I specialise in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focussing on Children, Adolescents and Adults. My experience has allowed me to help people who have suffered from a wide range of mental health conditions including eating disorders, self harm, substance abuse, gambling, depression, phobias and trauma.
I specialise in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy focussing on Children, Adolescents and Adults. My experience has allowed me to help people who have suffered from a wide range of mental health conditions including eating disorders, self harm, substance abuse, gambling, depression, phobias and trauma.
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Codependency Counsellors

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.