Infidelity Counselling in Blean

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Emily Russell
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Have you been struggling recently with your confidence or self-esteem, or with managing your mental health or wellbeing? Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed, or experiencing increased levels of stress or anxiety? Maybe you are having difficulties within your relationships with your partner(s), family or friends, or you feel lonely? Are you trying to process a loss or bereavement? Perhaps you want change in your life but don't know how to begin to create it? I can help. Our counselling sessions will be a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space for you to process your feelings, make sense of things and begin to move forward again.
Have you been struggling recently with your confidence or self-esteem, or with managing your mental health or wellbeing? Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed, or experiencing increased levels of stress or anxiety? Maybe you are having difficulties within your relationships with your partner(s), family or friends, or you feel lonely? Are you trying to process a loss or bereavement? Perhaps you want change in your life but don't know how to begin to create it? I can help. Our counselling sessions will be a safe, supportive and non-judgemental space for you to process your feelings, make sense of things and begin to move forward again.
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Sunny Austin
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Are you looking for help coping with the stresses and strains of life? Are you suffering with symptoms of anxiety and/or depression? I offer a solution-focussed approach to enable clients to work through issues and feel better about themselves. Over the years, I have worked with both men and women, and I can support you with issues such as depression, anxiety, work-based stress, bereavement, low self-esteem, relationship problems and family issues.
Are you looking for help coping with the stresses and strains of life? Are you suffering with symptoms of anxiety and/or depression? I offer a solution-focussed approach to enable clients to work through issues and feel better about themselves. Over the years, I have worked with both men and women, and I can support you with issues such as depression, anxiety, work-based stress, bereavement, low self-esteem, relationship problems and family issues.
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Ruth Alice Morgan-Jones
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP Snr. Accred
Serves Area
More and more people are finding that counselling can help them discover their own path or journey through what can seem like a maze of issues, decisions and choices. It can help them to understand what is happening in relationships at difficult times so that they can regain a sense of meaning, balance and control in their lives.
More and more people are finding that counselling can help them discover their own path or journey through what can seem like a maze of issues, decisions and choices. It can help them to understand what is happening in relationships at difficult times so that they can regain a sense of meaning, balance and control in their lives.
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Valerie Thompson
Counsellor, MA, BACP
If you're concerned about any of the following issues in your relationship, I may be able to help you: trust and jealousy, intimacy, family relationships, communication, self-esteem, infidelity, understanding each other, depression and anxiety, separation and divorce.
The aim of counselling is to feel a positive change in yourself and relationships. I offer a safe, confidential, professional space for individuals & couples to explore their feelings and work towards a more contented life. Working with individuals & couples, I am to change patterns of behaviour that have a negative impact on your relationships.
If you're concerned about any of the following issues in your relationship, I may be able to help you: trust and jealousy, intimacy, family relationships, communication, self-esteem, infidelity, understanding each other, depression and anxiety, separation and divorce.
The aim of counselling is to feel a positive change in yourself and relationships. I offer a safe, confidential, professional space for individuals & couples to explore their feelings and work towards a more contented life. Working with individuals & couples, I am to change patterns of behaviour that have a negative impact on your relationships.
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Solve and Evolve Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Specialise in depression & anxiety disorders, including but not limited to: Panic, Social Phobia, Health Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Phobias, General Anxiety, Perfectionism, Low Self-esteem, ADHD, Assertiveness, Stress, Bullying, School Issues, Infidelity, Family & Relationship Issues.
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and Counsellor with almost 20yrs experience in mental health. I support Adults and Adolescents (12-17yrs). I have additional training in EMDR Therapy and Supervision, with over 10 years experience Supervising within the NHS and private practice. I have a special interest in PTSD and trauma. I also specialise in anxiety disorders (ie. PTSD, Panic, Health, GAD, Social Anxiety and Phobias) depression and low self-esteem. I Supervise Trainees on the level 7 Masters in CBT as well as other qualified clinicians. F2F and Remote.
Specialise in depression & anxiety disorders, including but not limited to: Panic, Social Phobia, Health Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Phobias, General Anxiety, Perfectionism, Low Self-esteem, ADHD, Assertiveness, Stress, Bullying, School Issues, Infidelity, Family & Relationship Issues.
I'm an accredited Cognitive Behavioural Psychotherapist and Counsellor with almost 20yrs experience in mental health. I support Adults and Adolescents (12-17yrs). I have additional training in EMDR Therapy and Supervision, with over 10 years experience Supervising within the NHS and private practice. I have a special interest in PTSD and trauma. I also specialise in anxiety disorders (ie. PTSD, Panic, Health, GAD, Social Anxiety and Phobias) depression and low self-esteem. I Supervise Trainees on the level 7 Masters in CBT as well as other qualified clinicians. F2F and Remote.
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David Goodlad
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
I treat Sexual addiction and compulsion, betrayal, serial infidelity, alcohol problems, anger management and depression.
I offer a compassionate and structured therapy. I will help you change. I will help you with a way out of your situation.
I treat Sexual addiction and compulsion, betrayal, serial infidelity, alcohol problems, anger management and depression.
I offer a compassionate and structured therapy. I will help you change. I will help you with a way out of your situation.
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Anna Sturpino
Counsellor, COSRT Accred
Online Only
I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties, including: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.
Having a fulfilling sexual life is often what we aspire to, but anxiety, physical pain and relationship issues might make it difficult to achieve. I believe everyone has an innate ability to connect to others and to build healthy relationships. As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with. Whether you need your relationship to achieve its full potential or to overcome a crisis, we will work together to identify the issues you are struggling with and support you in the areas where you feel change is needed.
I work with individuals that experience sexual and relationship difficulties, including: desire issues, orgasm difficulties, rapid or delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, painful sex (such as vulvodynia, vaginismus, dyspareunia), sexual anxiety or aversion, sexual trauma, infidelity, loss, communication, intimacy issues.
Having a fulfilling sexual life is often what we aspire to, but anxiety, physical pain and relationship issues might make it difficult to achieve. I believe everyone has an innate ability to connect to others and to build healthy relationships. As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with. Whether you need your relationship to achieve its full potential or to overcome a crisis, we will work together to identify the issues you are struggling with and support you in the areas where you feel change is needed.
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Nariman Aloosi
Psychotherapist, PsychD, COSRT General
I work with a wide range of issues including, but not limited to, Sexual concerns and anxieties, relationship issues with individuals and couples, affairs, attachment difficulties, communication issues, and general anxiety, depression, and difficulties with life.
I offer my clients(both couple and individuals) a warm, safe and non-judgmental space using an integrative approach to support my clients in overcoming any issue, using a wide range of theories and modalities to suit the specific needs of the client. I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship therapy for individuals and couples of all sexual orientations. After gaining a Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy, I trained with London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy accredited by Middlesex University in London. I also have an advanced Diploma in couples therapy at NAOS Institute (London).
I work with a wide range of issues including, but not limited to, Sexual concerns and anxieties, relationship issues with individuals and couples, affairs, attachment difficulties, communication issues, and general anxiety, depression, and difficulties with life.
I offer my clients(both couple and individuals) a warm, safe and non-judgmental space using an integrative approach to support my clients in overcoming any issue, using a wide range of theories and modalities to suit the specific needs of the client. I specialise in Psychosexual and Relationship therapy for individuals and couples of all sexual orientations. After gaining a Certificate in Counselling and Psychotherapy, I trained with London Diploma in Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy accredited by Middlesex University in London. I also have an advanced Diploma in couples therapy at NAOS Institute (London).
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Bima Loxley
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Relationships: intimacy, conflict management, infidelity, life changes, family issues.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.
Relationships: intimacy, conflict management, infidelity, life changes, family issues.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, families & multiple partnered relationships, as well as sex therapy. I am a diversity-inclusive therapist who works with all clients regardless of ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, age (18+), or disability. I work integratively, which means I tailor the therapy to you & your needs.
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I understand that relationships can be impacted by a multitude of stressors, including issues such as poor communication, infidelity, fertility challenges, financial concerns, grief, parenting differences, blended family dynamics, mental health issues, work-related stress, loss of intimacy, disabilities, family conflicts, addiction, and sexual concerns.
As a Relate-trained and experienced Relationship & Sex Therapist, I specialise in working with couples and individuals navigating various stages of intimate relationships. Whether you're currently in a relationship, single, or going through a separation, therapy can be a valuable tool for finding closure and moving forward. My approach prioritises creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel valued, respected, and empowered to explore their own resources and ideas for change. I focus on promoting healthier communication techniques and providing an unbiased, impartial perspective on relationship dynamics.
I understand that relationships can be impacted by a multitude of stressors, including issues such as poor communication, infidelity, fertility challenges, financial concerns, grief, parenting differences, blended family dynamics, mental health issues, work-related stress, loss of intimacy, disabilities, family conflicts, addiction, and sexual concerns.
As a Relate-trained and experienced Relationship & Sex Therapist, I specialise in working with couples and individuals navigating various stages of intimate relationships. Whether you're currently in a relationship, single, or going through a separation, therapy can be a valuable tool for finding closure and moving forward. My approach prioritises creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients feel valued, respected, and empowered to explore their own resources and ideas for change. I focus on promoting healthier communication techniques and providing an unbiased, impartial perspective on relationship dynamics.
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Nick Kerry Psychotherapy Services
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and Counsellor. My clinical practice is flexible, and hopes to meet the different needs of individuals, couples and families on both a short and long-term basis. I work within an integrative model which is informed by psychodynamic and systemic models. I work with CBT as and when required. My practice has been running for over ten years, helping many people through very difficult emotional and psychological periods of their lives - including; anxiety; depression; relationship difficulties and childhood related traumas. I am also a specialist in substance addiction.
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and Counsellor. My clinical practice is flexible, and hopes to meet the different needs of individuals, couples and families on both a short and long-term basis. I work within an integrative model which is informed by psychodynamic and systemic models. I work with CBT as and when required. My practice has been running for over ten years, helping many people through very difficult emotional and psychological periods of their lives - including; anxiety; depression; relationship difficulties and childhood related traumas. I am also a specialist in substance addiction.
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Wendy Russell Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I help individuals and couples navigate life’s ups and downs, I work with people facing anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, stress, and big life transitions. Whether you're working through personal struggles or wanting to strengthen your relationship, you don’t have to do it alone. Counselling for my clients has helped to unlock feelings and thoughts, by exploring what is said and reflecting on things felt. They feel understood, relieved, and heard. I have no agenda to meet or boxes to tick, it is about you, what you bring and what you need.
I help individuals and couples navigate life’s ups and downs, I work with people facing anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, stress, and big life transitions. Whether you're working through personal struggles or wanting to strengthen your relationship, you don’t have to do it alone. Counselling for my clients has helped to unlock feelings and thoughts, by exploring what is said and reflecting on things felt. They feel understood, relieved, and heard. I have no agenda to meet or boxes to tick, it is about you, what you bring and what you need.
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Jules Priest Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Maidstone ME16
Hi, I'm Jules and I offer in-person counselling in the Maidstone area. I am an integrative counsellor, working with a number of different counselling techniques including cognitive, existential and psychotherapy. This means I can tailor how I work with you to create a truly personalised plan in response to your needs. I have worked in educational and therapeutic settings for over 20 years, gaining a wide range of experience and techniques in both mentoring and counselling, and work in a warm, empathic way, giving you the space you need to talk.
Hi, I'm Jules and I offer in-person counselling in the Maidstone area. I am an integrative counsellor, working with a number of different counselling techniques including cognitive, existential and psychotherapy. This means I can tailor how I work with you to create a truly personalised plan in response to your needs. I have worked in educational and therapeutic settings for over 20 years, gaining a wide range of experience and techniques in both mentoring and counselling, and work in a warm, empathic way, giving you the space you need to talk.
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Sarah Clark
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Ashford TN23
Welcome! I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor & Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples & families. I do not know what has brought you to look at my profile, but am guessing that you or someone close to you is: experiencing confusion, sadness, anxiety or fear; facing a dilemma or attempting to make a decision; struggling with problems in a relationship; dealing with illness or bereavement.
Welcome! I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor & Relationship Therapist working with individuals, couples & families. I do not know what has brought you to look at my profile, but am guessing that you or someone close to you is: experiencing confusion, sadness, anxiety or fear; facing a dilemma or attempting to make a decision; struggling with problems in a relationship; dealing with illness or bereavement.
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Jonathan Smith
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Maidstone ME14
Anxiety or depression can manifest in many different ways: difficulty sleeping, loss of appetite, lack of enjoyment in favoured activities, lessening attention span, loss of or lack of identity, difficulty in clear thought or intrusive thoughts to name just a few. At times it's not always clear why we feel the way we do, perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed or are engaging in patterns of behaviour which are negatively affecting your life. Conversely you may be all too aware of events or relationships which have or are affecting your mental wellbeing and wish to explore these in a supportive and nurturing environment.
Anxiety or depression can manifest in many different ways: difficulty sleeping, loss of appetite, lack of enjoyment in favoured activities, lessening attention span, loss of or lack of identity, difficulty in clear thought or intrusive thoughts to name just a few. At times it's not always clear why we feel the way we do, perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed or are engaging in patterns of behaviour which are negatively affecting your life. Conversely you may be all too aware of events or relationships which have or are affecting your mental wellbeing and wish to explore these in a supportive and nurturing environment.
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Susan Kay
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Do you feel overwhelmed by your thoughts & feelings? Are you feeling anxious? Are you suffering from stress and feel “burnt out”? Do you wonder how to manage those constant thought patterns which go round & round in your head, stopping you from being able to think clearly? What would it feel like to offload and release that pressure without feeling judged or being offered well-meaning advice that just isn’t right for you? Imagine that sense of building upon your self-esteem as you learn to trust your gut feeling and know instinctively what is right for you to enable that change to happen?
Do you feel overwhelmed by your thoughts & feelings? Are you feeling anxious? Are you suffering from stress and feel “burnt out”? Do you wonder how to manage those constant thought patterns which go round & round in your head, stopping you from being able to think clearly? What would it feel like to offload and release that pressure without feeling judged or being offered well-meaning advice that just isn’t right for you? Imagine that sense of building upon your self-esteem as you learn to trust your gut feeling and know instinctively what is right for you to enable that change to happen?
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Victoria Champion
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Margate CT9
Opening up about your feelings can be incredibly healing. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, work stress, relationship challenges, or just a general sense of unease, I’m here to listen in a safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental space. Together, we’ll build a therapeutic relationship based on trust, working at a pace that feels right for you. I believe each person’s journey is unique, so our work will be tailored to your individual experiences and circumstances. In addition to individual therapy, I’m also a qualified Supervisor, offering supportive supervision for both individuals and groups.
Opening up about your feelings can be incredibly healing. Whether you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, grief, work stress, relationship challenges, or just a general sense of unease, I’m here to listen in a safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental space. Together, we’ll build a therapeutic relationship based on trust, working at a pace that feels right for you. I believe each person’s journey is unique, so our work will be tailored to your individual experiences and circumstances. In addition to individual therapy, I’m also a qualified Supervisor, offering supportive supervision for both individuals and groups.
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Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
Do you need someone to talk too? Are you lonely, depressed or having relationship issues? Sometimes having an impartial listener can help you to see new ways of coping or overcoming the problems you are facing. As a couples counsellor my job is to help facilitate happier relationships or respectful endings. As a qualified and registered counsellor I am able to provide a safe and supportive environment to explore any issues you feel are causing difficulty in your life. I pride myself on being non-judgmental and welcome everyone, whatever your background may be, to explore ways in which to make your life better.
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Ann-Louise McCarthy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
I am Ann McCarthy and I am a UKCP registered Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist. I am also a member of CPJA (Council for Psychoanalytic and Jungian Analysts). I provide Psychoanalytic and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment, on an open-ended basis or for an agreed time period. Our work together will focus on identifying, better understanding and working through the issues that are impacting negatively on your life so you are able to develop positive changes within yourself and in your ways of relating with others.
I am Ann McCarthy and I am a UKCP registered Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist. I am also a member of CPJA (Council for Psychoanalytic and Jungian Analysts). I provide Psychoanalytic and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment, on an open-ended basis or for an agreed time period. Our work together will focus on identifying, better understanding and working through the issues that are impacting negatively on your life so you are able to develop positive changes within yourself and in your ways of relating with others.
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Inspire Therapy Services
Counsellor, MBACP
Dover CT16
We are an established and experienced service supporting clients with a wide range of emotional issues. Integral to our working ethos is the therapeutic relationship, where we endeavour to help our clients with self-awareness, self- acceptance, resilience, re-connection and ultimately healing. We offer an integrative approach which draws from a range of psychological theories, with a foundation based in counselling. As therapists we work to understand your experience from your perspective, which can help restore a connection to your inner values and sense of self-worth, thus enabling you to find a way to move forward & progress.
We are an established and experienced service supporting clients with a wide range of emotional issues. Integral to our working ethos is the therapeutic relationship, where we endeavour to help our clients with self-awareness, self- acceptance, resilience, re-connection and ultimately healing. We offer an integrative approach which draws from a range of psychological theories, with a foundation based in counselling. As therapists we work to understand your experience from your perspective, which can help restore a connection to your inner values and sense of self-worth, thus enabling you to find a way to move forward & progress.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.