Lesbian Counselling in Bexleyheath
I work with individuals and intimate partners experiencing difficulties with sex, intimacy or relationships, who want to understand what is happening and why.
You may be experiencing sexual function concerns such as changes or discrepancy in desire, performance anxiety, pain, orgasm or erectile difficulties. Or you may be navigating relationship challenges including communication difficulties, emotional disconnection, betrayal or changes in your dynamic.
Some clients come to me without a clear "problem" - but simply seeking a regular, safe, supportive space in which to express and explore their sexuality or erotic identity.
I work with individuals and intimate partners experiencing difficulties with sex, intimacy or relationships, who want to understand what is happening and why.
You may be experiencing sexual function concerns such as changes or discrepancy in desire, performance anxiety, pain, orgasm or erectile difficulties. Or you may be navigating relationship challenges including communication difficulties, emotional disconnection, betrayal or changes in your dynamic.
Some clients come to me without a clear "problem" - but simply seeking a regular, safe, supportive space in which to express and explore their sexuality or erotic identity.
Hi my name is Helen, I am passionate about counselling and the positive change it can bring. Together we can explore difficulties and challenges you may be experiencing in a safe, supportive, non-judgemental, confidential way. My training allows me to access different interventions which can be tailored to benefit and support each unique client. Sharing your feelings may be the first step. My aim is to help gain emotional strength to affect change in your life.
Hi my name is Helen, I am passionate about counselling and the positive change it can bring. Together we can explore difficulties and challenges you may be experiencing in a safe, supportive, non-judgemental, confidential way. My training allows me to access different interventions which can be tailored to benefit and support each unique client. Sharing your feelings may be the first step. My aim is to help gain emotional strength to affect change in your life.
I'm Anne, a BACP-registered integrative counsellor based in SE18, South East London.
Sometimes the hardest part is simply recognising that the way you've been coping isn't working anymore.
Who I work with -
I work with adults experiencing a range of difficulties, particularly anxiety, trauma, grief and burnout.
I have a particular interest in supporting high-achieving people who may be accustomed to functioning at a high level while privately struggling with anxiety, exhaustion, perfectionism, overwhelm or the feeling that they should somehow be coping better.
I'm Anne, a BACP-registered integrative counsellor based in SE18, South East London.
Sometimes the hardest part is simply recognising that the way you've been coping isn't working anymore.
Who I work with -
I work with adults experiencing a range of difficulties, particularly anxiety, trauma, grief and burnout.
I have a particular interest in supporting high-achieving people who may be accustomed to functioning at a high level while privately struggling with anxiety, exhaustion, perfectionism, overwhelm or the feeling that they should somehow be coping better.
Hi, I’m Moira, a BACP-registered integrative counsellor. I work with adults, young people, and neurodivergent individuals, offering a calm, supportive space where you can be yourself — no pressure, no judgement. I support clients with a range of issues including anxiety, masking and burnout, emotional regulation, low mood, self-esteem, and navigating identity and relationships. I can help you unpick your feelings and understand them.
I offer a confidential space where you can slow down, speak freely, and begin to make sense of what's going on beneath the surface. A space to just be YOU. A space to heal.
Hi, I’m Moira, a BACP-registered integrative counsellor. I work with adults, young people, and neurodivergent individuals, offering a calm, supportive space where you can be yourself — no pressure, no judgement. I support clients with a range of issues including anxiety, masking and burnout, emotional regulation, low mood, self-esteem, and navigating identity and relationships. I can help you unpick your feelings and understand them.
I offer a confidential space where you can slow down, speak freely, and begin to make sense of what's going on beneath the surface. A space to just be YOU. A space to heal.
I am a professional, empathic, and friendly BACP accredited Integrative Counsellor, working with both individuals and couples. With over 20 years experience, I provide a safe, confidential environment in which you can discuss your feelings and concerns without judgement. People may seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. Others make contact because they feel stuck or have become aware that they keep falling into unhelpful behaviour or thought patterns which prevent them from living life to the full.
I am a professional, empathic, and friendly BACP accredited Integrative Counsellor, working with both individuals and couples. With over 20 years experience, I provide a safe, confidential environment in which you can discuss your feelings and concerns without judgement. People may seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. Others make contact because they feel stuck or have become aware that they keep falling into unhelpful behaviour or thought patterns which prevent them from living life to the full.
Jacquelyn Clarke "My philosophy is that limitations and restrictions limit you. There should be no limitations or restrictions in your life. If you have a limitation or restriction, set by yourself or by others, you are not set free to live your life." Jacquelyn Clarke Jacquelyn's Work with Individuals Jacquelyn has 25 years experience of working with thousands of individuals of all ages, ranging from 6 to 93. She has worked with clients presenting a variety of issues: from day-to-day stress, depression, bereavement, relationship difficulties, abuse and anger to drug addiction and destructive behaviour. Jacquelyn likes to bring a feeling of positivity and relief to her clients as each session progresses. She can help you to understand what is happening and re-evaluate the situation to help you make changes to move forwards in your life by working alongside you, supporting you at all times whilst combining different counselling techniques.
Jacquelyn Clarke "My philosophy is that limitations and restrictions limit you. There should be no limitations or restrictions in your life. If you have a limitation or restriction, set by yourself or by others, you are not set free to live your life." Jacquelyn Clarke Jacquelyn's Work with Individuals Jacquelyn has 25 years experience of working with thousands of individuals of all ages, ranging from 6 to 93. She has worked with clients presenting a variety of issues: from day-to-day stress, depression, bereavement, relationship difficulties, abuse and anger to drug addiction and destructive behaviour. Jacquelyn likes to bring a feeling of positivity and relief to her clients as each session progresses. She can help you to understand what is happening and re-evaluate the situation to help you make changes to move forwards in your life by working alongside you, supporting you at all times whilst combining different counselling techniques.
I am a qualified counsellor with 25 years experience working in GP surgeries and 10 years in private practice. I embrace the integrative approach meaning that I draw on a range of therapeutic techniques to suit the individual. Counselling can be a short or long term intervention and will help to explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe place. Many different things can bring you to counselling and I work with a wide range of issues. I aim to provide a compassionate, empathetic but down to earth approach which takes account of personal history and yet be focused and goal orientated.
I am a qualified counsellor with 25 years experience working in GP surgeries and 10 years in private practice. I embrace the integrative approach meaning that I draw on a range of therapeutic techniques to suit the individual. Counselling can be a short or long term intervention and will help to explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe place. Many different things can bring you to counselling and I work with a wide range of issues. I aim to provide a compassionate, empathetic but down to earth approach which takes account of personal history and yet be focused and goal orientated.
A warm welcome. What's bothering you might seem small on the outside but can actually be very big on the inside thus impairing you from enjoying and living your best life everyday. You can't change the past but you can change the influence that the past is having on you. I will offer you a safe, private and peaceful space to talk about the difficulties you are facing, to reflect on past experiences that may have left you anxious or depressed, and to work alongside you in making the changes that you feel you need. I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP
A warm welcome. What's bothering you might seem small on the outside but can actually be very big on the inside thus impairing you from enjoying and living your best life everyday. You can't change the past but you can change the influence that the past is having on you. I will offer you a safe, private and peaceful space to talk about the difficulties you are facing, to reflect on past experiences that may have left you anxious or depressed, and to work alongside you in making the changes that you feel you need. I am an accredited member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP
Deciding to attend therapy is a difficult decision. It is important that you find a therapist with whom you can feel comfortable, I aim to provide you with that experience. I believe there is no position or age from which positive change cannot be made and will support you in the process. Alternatively, if you have a goal that you wish to achieve, either personally or professionally, it is vital you find someone who can bring energy, enthusiasm and pragmatism to your sessions. I also have experience in the corporate space and provide seminars on a number of issues and coaching for groups.
Deciding to attend therapy is a difficult decision. It is important that you find a therapist with whom you can feel comfortable, I aim to provide you with that experience. I believe there is no position or age from which positive change cannot be made and will support you in the process. Alternatively, if you have a goal that you wish to achieve, either personally or professionally, it is vital you find someone who can bring energy, enthusiasm and pragmatism to your sessions. I also have experience in the corporate space and provide seminars on a number of issues and coaching for groups.
Hello, my name is Michelle, I am a qualified Accredited integrative therapist. As an Integrative Psychotherapist I use a variety of different approaches, drawing on whatever seems most helpful to you. This allows me to adapt my way of working to each client’s individual needs. I very much view therapy as a collaborative process, where both therapist and client contribute, and the main focus is on building a supportive and trusting relationship. As an integrative therapist I am trained in three main therapeutic frames, the Psychodynamic, Humanistic and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
Hello, my name is Michelle, I am a qualified Accredited integrative therapist. As an Integrative Psychotherapist I use a variety of different approaches, drawing on whatever seems most helpful to you. This allows me to adapt my way of working to each client’s individual needs. I very much view therapy as a collaborative process, where both therapist and client contribute, and the main focus is on building a supportive and trusting relationship. As an integrative therapist I am trained in three main therapeutic frames, the Psychodynamic, Humanistic and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
We may use different words to describe what's going on for us when we are looking for therapy: unsure, fed up, low, empty, frustrated, anxious, panicky, over-thinking, unable to sleep, too sensitive, or like can't carry on... Perhaps feeling not in control, not belonging, invisible or wanting to escape, or lost. It can be overwhelming, taking too much from us. So starting therapy is right. We can use therapy space, free of judgement, expectation or failure, to talk it all through and work things out.
We may use different words to describe what's going on for us when we are looking for therapy: unsure, fed up, low, empty, frustrated, anxious, panicky, over-thinking, unable to sleep, too sensitive, or like can't carry on... Perhaps feeling not in control, not belonging, invisible or wanting to escape, or lost. It can be overwhelming, taking too much from us. So starting therapy is right. We can use therapy space, free of judgement, expectation or failure, to talk it all through and work things out.
Has life become unmanageable- do you have no idea why you feel this way - are you feeling isolated from others, grief, loneliness, anxiety, anger and loss of tolerance: At times life can become overwhelming - no balance between home and work - stress - problematic relationships, your individual issues will be unique to you and very real, don’t dismiss them as unimportant and let’s work through them together. Couples that require an outside perspective on their relationship -
Has life become unmanageable- do you have no idea why you feel this way - are you feeling isolated from others, grief, loneliness, anxiety, anger and loss of tolerance: At times life can become overwhelming - no balance between home and work - stress - problematic relationships, your individual issues will be unique to you and very real, don’t dismiss them as unimportant and let’s work through them together. Couples that require an outside perspective on their relationship -
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi Therapy is a tool to resolve the challenges in your life, to help you feel more confident and more in control, providing insight and showing you a path through the experiences that are part of being human. Life can put you in a lonely place, maybe too hard to cope with, complicated,challenging or confusing. I offer you the space for your story to be told, heard and understood in a confidential, non-judgmental safe space. There is nothing that cannot be "worked with and worked through".
“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” — Rumi Therapy is a tool to resolve the challenges in your life, to help you feel more confident and more in control, providing insight and showing you a path through the experiences that are part of being human. Life can put you in a lonely place, maybe too hard to cope with, complicated,challenging or confusing. I offer you the space for your story to be told, heard and understood in a confidential, non-judgmental safe space. There is nothing that cannot be "worked with and worked through".
I offer a no-obligation assessment initially, which is opportunity for us to discuss your situation and determine better if therapy with me could meet your needs; only if you are happy to do we then proceed to an ongoing therapy, be it on a short or long term basis. I incorporate psychodynamic, existential, cognitive behavioural and person centred approaches to offer a therapy suited to your unique needs. Whilst we all know something of suffering anxiety, depression, bereavement, or other issues, your particular experience is entirely your own. I believe in a therapy that accommodates your individuality.
I offer a no-obligation assessment initially, which is opportunity for us to discuss your situation and determine better if therapy with me could meet your needs; only if you are happy to do we then proceed to an ongoing therapy, be it on a short or long term basis. I incorporate psychodynamic, existential, cognitive behavioural and person centred approaches to offer a therapy suited to your unique needs. Whilst we all know something of suffering anxiety, depression, bereavement, or other issues, your particular experience is entirely your own. I believe in a therapy that accommodates your individuality.
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We provide decolonial, intersectional and anti-oppressive talking therapy to racially minoritised clients. We believe in our right to heal away from the white gaze and to have a safer space where we don't have to explain who we are or the different aspects of our culture or identity. We also believe that therapy should be a space where all identities are welcomed and understood including LGBTQ+ identities, gender diversity, neurodivergence and beyond.
We provide decolonial, intersectional and anti-oppressive talking therapy to racially minoritised clients. We believe in our right to heal away from the white gaze and to have a safer space where we don't have to explain who we are or the different aspects of our culture or identity. We also believe that therapy should be a space where all identities are welcomed and understood including LGBTQ+ identities, gender diversity, neurodivergence and beyond.
You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps you're facing challenges in relationships, navigating a life transition, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling disconnected or frustrated. You might look like you're coping on the outside, but inside, things feel far from ok. You want space to be truly heard, to make sense of what you’re feeling, and to understand yourself more fully. Therapy offers the chance to explore your inner world with support, build emotional resilience, and move toward meaningful and lasting change. Sessions are in-person in Enfield Town or online.
You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward. Perhaps you're facing challenges in relationships, navigating a life transition, or stuck in patterns that leave you feeling disconnected or frustrated. You might look like you're coping on the outside, but inside, things feel far from ok. You want space to be truly heard, to make sense of what you’re feeling, and to understand yourself more fully. Therapy offers the chance to explore your inner world with support, build emotional resilience, and move toward meaningful and lasting change. Sessions are in-person in Enfield Town or online.
I am an empathetic and dedicated counsellor with a passion for supporting individuals through life’s challenges. My practice is rooted in a person-centred approach, creating a safe, non-judgemental, and supportive space where clients feel heard, valued, and respected. I believe in the innate capacity for growth and change, and I work collaboratively with clients to help them explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in a way that fosters self-understanding and personal empowerment.
I am an empathetic and dedicated counsellor with a passion for supporting individuals through life’s challenges. My practice is rooted in a person-centred approach, creating a safe, non-judgemental, and supportive space where clients feel heard, valued, and respected. I believe in the innate capacity for growth and change, and I work collaboratively with clients to help them explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in a way that fosters self-understanding and personal empowerment.
i bring my own experience of moving through the world as disabled, neurodivergent, and a genderqueer lesbian, not as a credential, but as part of how I pay attention
art therapy is for anyone, across any stage of life. it may be useful if your life has been shaped by difficult experiences, by systemic inequality or oppression, by neurodivergence, illness, grief, disability, or by something that does not have a name yet.
i bring my own experience of moving through the world as disabled, neurodivergent, and a genderqueer lesbian, not as a credential, but as part of how I pay attention
art therapy is for anyone, across any stage of life. it may be useful if your life has been shaped by difficult experiences, by systemic inequality or oppression, by neurodivergence, illness, grief, disability, or by something that does not have a name yet.
Sometimes we can feel unsettled and lost when times in are uncertain. Sometimes troubled relationships at home or work or from the past can bring low or anxious feelings that may prompt you to step back and ask yourself who you really are and what is the way forward. As an Existential Psychotherapist I can be with you to explore how is it for you to be you right now in the world in which you find yourself. What possibilities are open to you? What are your anxious feelings really telling you? How can you be OK with the feelings and situations that make you uncomfortable, or not knowing what the future holds?
Sometimes we can feel unsettled and lost when times in are uncertain. Sometimes troubled relationships at home or work or from the past can bring low or anxious feelings that may prompt you to step back and ask yourself who you really are and what is the way forward. As an Existential Psychotherapist I can be with you to explore how is it for you to be you right now in the world in which you find yourself. What possibilities are open to you? What are your anxious feelings really telling you? How can you be OK with the feelings and situations that make you uncomfortable, or not knowing what the future holds?
A down to earth and relatable Therapist based in Manchester City Centre, working both in person and online.
As a Therapist I offer people the time and space to explore themselves, past and present events, but I won't sit silently, and leave you feeling awkward or wondering what to say.
I aim to "get in the mud" with clients, offering Therapeutic insight, reflecting to you what I hear, asking questions, and bringing some challenge to prompt new ways of thinking. We will always work in a way that is focused on you, your struggles, your goals, and your unique experience.
A down to earth and relatable Therapist based in Manchester City Centre, working both in person and online.
As a Therapist I offer people the time and space to explore themselves, past and present events, but I won't sit silently, and leave you feeling awkward or wondering what to say.
I aim to "get in the mud" with clients, offering Therapeutic insight, reflecting to you what I hear, asking questions, and bringing some challenge to prompt new ways of thinking. We will always work in a way that is focused on you, your struggles, your goals, and your unique experience.
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What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialised understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organisations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.
How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialise in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.