Armed Forces Counselling in Benfleet
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, depression or intense emotions? Perhaps you overthink, struggle with relationships or rejection, or react in ways you later regret. I am a qualified counsellor and DBT therapist with over 14 years' therapeutic experience, including five years specialising in DBT at The Priory. I work with adults experiencing emotional and relationship difficulties, ADHD, autism and gender identity concerns. My approach is supportive but practical, using DBT skills to help you manage emotions, cope with distress, improve relationships and make meaningful changes in everyday life.
Do you feel overwhelmed by anxiety, depression or intense emotions? Perhaps you overthink, struggle with relationships or rejection, or react in ways you later regret. I am a qualified counsellor and DBT therapist with over 14 years' therapeutic experience, including five years specialising in DBT at The Priory. I work with adults experiencing emotional and relationship difficulties, ADHD, autism and gender identity concerns. My approach is supportive but practical, using DBT skills to help you manage emotions, cope with distress, improve relationships and make meaningful changes in everyday life.
I offer therapy for couples and individual clients in person and by video or telephone call. ●14 years in Private Practice● NHS experienced●. I am a qualified and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I work with you using a variety of research based approaches to address your issue. Over the years I have helped many different clients explore and reflect on their issue from a different perspective. This has often allowed them to resolve their problem or arrive at an acceptance which they can maintain when therapy finishes.
I offer therapy for couples and individual clients in person and by video or telephone call. ●14 years in Private Practice● NHS experienced●. I am a qualified and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I work with you using a variety of research based approaches to address your issue. Over the years I have helped many different clients explore and reflect on their issue from a different perspective. This has often allowed them to resolve their problem or arrive at an acceptance which they can maintain when therapy finishes.
My ideal clients are adults carrying the weight of childhood trauma, complex grief, or attachment wounds — often survivors of abuse, adoptees, or those stuck between grief and acceptance after loss. They come to me feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to move forward despite years of trying.
Using EMDR, IFS-informed approaches, and IADC Therapy, I help process unresolved trauma, release stuck grief, and address root causes rather than just symptoms. For those wanting faster results, I offer intensive therapy — three hours daily over three days.
Together, we work towards lasting change, so you can finally move forward.
My ideal clients are adults carrying the weight of childhood trauma, complex grief, or attachment wounds — often survivors of abuse, adoptees, or those stuck between grief and acceptance after loss. They come to me feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unable to move forward despite years of trying.
Using EMDR, IFS-informed approaches, and IADC Therapy, I help process unresolved trauma, release stuck grief, and address root causes rather than just symptoms. For those wanting faster results, I offer intensive therapy — three hours daily over three days.
Together, we work towards lasting change, so you can finally move forward.
The Water Tower Therapy Centre Specialist Therapy
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
Benfleet SS7
Taking the first step to seek support can feel daunting, especially when trauma, grief, or emotional difficulty leaves you feeling stuck or overwhelmed. You don’t have to carry this alone.
At The Water Tower Therapy Centre, our experienced therapists work with trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship and couples issues, and complex grief. We offer a compassionate, non-judgemental space tailored to your needs. When you get in touch, we’ll match you with the therapist best suited to you.
Looking after your mental health can improve your relationships, confidence, and sense of purpose. If you’re ready, we can help.
Taking the first step to seek support can feel daunting, especially when trauma, grief, or emotional difficulty leaves you feeling stuck or overwhelmed. You don’t have to carry this alone.
At The Water Tower Therapy Centre, our experienced therapists work with trauma, anxiety, depression, ADHD, relationship and couples issues, and complex grief. We offer a compassionate, non-judgemental space tailored to your needs. When you get in touch, we’ll match you with the therapist best suited to you.
Looking after your mental health can improve your relationships, confidence, and sense of purpose. If you’re ready, we can help.
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You’ve already done the hard part by being here. Now let’s talk about what working with me really looks like. I am a relational, solution-focused therapist this means I actively work with you to create meaningful change. Much of my work focuses on anxiety, LGBTQIA+, childhood trauma and attachment, and how those early experiences continue to shape your relationships, choices, and sense of self today.
Therapy with me isn’t about endless circling or sticking plasters. It’s about uncovering what’s really going on, making sense of it together, and building practical, lasting strategies so you can move forward with confidence.
You’ve already done the hard part by being here. Now let’s talk about what working with me really looks like. I am a relational, solution-focused therapist this means I actively work with you to create meaningful change. Much of my work focuses on anxiety, LGBTQIA+, childhood trauma and attachment, and how those early experiences continue to shape your relationships, choices, and sense of self today.
Therapy with me isn’t about endless circling or sticking plasters. It’s about uncovering what’s really going on, making sense of it together, and building practical, lasting strategies so you can move forward with confidence.
As an Integrative Counsellor and Relationship Psychotherapst I support clients/ Couples to heal from struggles that are affecting their relational, emotional,mental wellness & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness or relationship can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, sexual functioning/ identity and a myriad of other concerns that hinder self-esteem and ongoing happiness within the relationship.
" To heal is not to repeat" Isn't it time for change?
As an Integrative Counsellor and Relationship Psychotherapst I support clients/ Couples to heal from struggles that are affecting their relational, emotional,mental wellness & happiness.
Ruptures in one's mental wellness or relationship can lead to stress, depression, anxiety, addiction, sexual functioning/ identity and a myriad of other concerns that hinder self-esteem and ongoing happiness within the relationship.
" To heal is not to repeat" Isn't it time for change?
If you are suffering from symptoms related to PTSD or complex PTSD, EMDR therapy can help to alleviate your symptoms. Clients working with me using EMDR have found that their symptoms such as flashbacks and/or being unable to go to certain places can be alleviated or reduced to the point where they are manageable. This work is supported with self help techniques to manage new anxieties as and when they may present themselves, but from a new and more adaptive perspective. I also offer the Safe and Sound Protocol alongside therapy sessions for those clients who wish to work in a polyvagal informed way.
If you are suffering from symptoms related to PTSD or complex PTSD, EMDR therapy can help to alleviate your symptoms. Clients working with me using EMDR have found that their symptoms such as flashbacks and/or being unable to go to certain places can be alleviated or reduced to the point where they are manageable. This work is supported with self help techniques to manage new anxieties as and when they may present themselves, but from a new and more adaptive perspective. I also offer the Safe and Sound Protocol alongside therapy sessions for those clients who wish to work in a polyvagal informed way.
Taking the first step towards counselling can feel daunting, and I believe everyone deserves a safe, supportive space where they can be heard without judgement.
I am a compassionate counsellor dedicated to helping people navigate life’s challenges with empathy, respect, and authenticity. My approach is integrative meaning I tailor the approach to suit your needs and work at your pace. Together, we can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, helping you gain greater self-awareness, resilience, and confidence.
Taking the first step towards counselling can feel daunting, and I believe everyone deserves a safe, supportive space where they can be heard without judgement.
I am a compassionate counsellor dedicated to helping people navigate life’s challenges with empathy, respect, and authenticity. My approach is integrative meaning I tailor the approach to suit your needs and work at your pace. Together, we can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, helping you gain greater self-awareness, resilience, and confidence.
I have worked in a variety of settings including neonatal unit, CMHTs, perinatal community mental health team, CAMHS, EIP, DCMH for serving military personnel and forensics.
I have experience and training within a variety of psychological therapies, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Therapy (EMDR), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Cognitive Analytical Therapy (CAT) informs my approach.
I have worked in a variety of settings including neonatal unit, CMHTs, perinatal community mental health team, CAMHS, EIP, DCMH for serving military personnel and forensics.
I have experience and training within a variety of psychological therapies, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Therapy (EMDR), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Cognitive Analytical Therapy (CAT) informs my approach.
I’m a creative, holistic practitioner with over 25 years experience. Using a bespoke approach where you're offered treatment specific to your needs and goals, I draw on many modalities. These include arts therapies, compassion focussed, positive psychology, CBT, depth psychology and psychoanalysis. Your journey is unique, and my role as your psychotherapist is to provide opportunity for you to gain insight about your challenges, work through them at a pace that's comfortable for you, and find healing solutions so you can make different, authentic life choices. I work in a trauma informed model and also consider ancestral legacies.
I’m a creative, holistic practitioner with over 25 years experience. Using a bespoke approach where you're offered treatment specific to your needs and goals, I draw on many modalities. These include arts therapies, compassion focussed, positive psychology, CBT, depth psychology and psychoanalysis. Your journey is unique, and my role as your psychotherapist is to provide opportunity for you to gain insight about your challenges, work through them at a pace that's comfortable for you, and find healing solutions so you can make different, authentic life choices. I work in a trauma informed model and also consider ancestral legacies.
Life throws up things that we don’t expect, testing our resilience and ability to overcome situations that are often not of our own making. Talking can be key in understanding your predicament and help you move forward. That old saying "a problem shared is a problem halved" really is true. Talking about a problem makes it seem less daunting or troubling. As a counsellor I can offer you that safe, secure place to talk and help you find the right way for you.
Life throws up things that we don’t expect, testing our resilience and ability to overcome situations that are often not of our own making. Talking can be key in understanding your predicament and help you move forward. That old saying "a problem shared is a problem halved" really is true. Talking about a problem makes it seem less daunting or troubling. As a counsellor I can offer you that safe, secure place to talk and help you find the right way for you.
Having been a client myself, in my past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Having been a client myself, in my past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Additionally, I have specialist training and experience in working with baby loss, survivors of childhood sexual abuse and the armed forces community.
My name is Joanne and I am a fully qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Group Work Therapist. I offer a range of services including online counselling, online CBT and telephone counselling to help you on your journey to mental wellness. I am a skilled, warm and empathetic practitioner with a keen interest in personal development in the field of CBT and all modalities of psychotherapy. I pride myself on the relationships I build with my clients which forms the basis of the work we are able to achieve together.
Additionally, I have specialist training and experience in working with baby loss, survivors of childhood sexual abuse and the armed forces community.
My name is Joanne and I am a fully qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Group Work Therapist. I offer a range of services including online counselling, online CBT and telephone counselling to help you on your journey to mental wellness. I am a skilled, warm and empathetic practitioner with a keen interest in personal development in the field of CBT and all modalities of psychotherapy. I pride myself on the relationships I build with my clients which forms the basis of the work we are able to achieve together.
I also lead workshops, clinically supervise other therapists, provide support for charities and frontline staff; and have provided therapy for the Police, Intelligence Services, Armed Forces and those within the music industry
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
I also lead workshops, clinically supervise other therapists, provide support for charities and frontline staff; and have provided therapy for the Police, Intelligence Services, Armed Forces and those within the music industry
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Therapy with me is a space for honest exploration. It’s a chance to increase awareness, find clarity, and reconnect with yourself. I believe that therapy is a deeply personal and collaborative process. We’ll work together to explore what’s going on for you, develop insight into patterns or difficulties, and support your growth and healing.
My approach is relational, meaning I see our connection as central to the work. I’ll be alongside you as we explore your inner world, your relationships, and your sense of self. This might mean sitting with uncertainty or working with painful emotions, but also opens space for meaningful change.
Therapy with me is a space for honest exploration. It’s a chance to increase awareness, find clarity, and reconnect with yourself. I believe that therapy is a deeply personal and collaborative process. We’ll work together to explore what’s going on for you, develop insight into patterns or difficulties, and support your growth and healing.
My approach is relational, meaning I see our connection as central to the work. I’ll be alongside you as we explore your inner world, your relationships, and your sense of self. This might mean sitting with uncertainty or working with painful emotions, but also opens space for meaningful change.
Are you struggling to balance a various life roles with your personal needs? I work with individuals and couples in the UK and internationally who feel disconnected from their purpose. Clients often come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed by expectations, and wrestling with stress or emptiness. Together, we’ll explore the underlying causes of these feelings, move beyond the pressure to "just tough it out," and help you reclaim your authentic narrative. Insight tells us that motivation rarely arrives on its own; it is the act of stepping forward that creates the momentum for change.
Are you struggling to balance a various life roles with your personal needs? I work with individuals and couples in the UK and internationally who feel disconnected from their purpose. Clients often come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed by expectations, and wrestling with stress or emptiness. Together, we’ll explore the underlying causes of these feelings, move beyond the pressure to "just tough it out," and help you reclaim your authentic narrative. Insight tells us that motivation rarely arrives on its own; it is the act of stepping forward that creates the momentum for change.
30 years experience of working in the emergency services and with the military, supporting families whose loved ones had died.
Hi I’m Paula.
I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma.
Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories?
With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
Secure online sessions available.
I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
30 years experience of working in the emergency services and with the military, supporting families whose loved ones had died.
Hi I’m Paula.
I offer specialist online counselling for Grief, Bereavement and Trauma.
Struggling with sleep, appetite, anxiety or intrusive memories?
With the right support you can start to reclaim your nights, learn how to process and manage the traumatic memories and flashbacks, find it easier to be less snappy with loved ones and enjoy your relationships with friends and family and regain the joy in life. It isn't enough to get by, you deserve to thrive and fully engage with life again.
You don't have to navigate this alone.
Secure online sessions available.
I offer a free 20 minute introductory call.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
I keep my fees low, because I am mindful of the current cost of living. My business is named NuVista (new view/Horizon) because it was born from my vision and indeed my own personal journey that counselling or talking therapy can give people a new view of life once they, with my help have explored and untangled the issues that are currently having a negative impact on your life or your work, your relationships or your family life, it could be your sexuality or even historical events that have been rendered unconscious or hidden and never spoken about. For me the goal or vision was to have a new outlook on life - a New View.
I keep my fees low, because I am mindful of the current cost of living. My business is named NuVista (new view/Horizon) because it was born from my vision and indeed my own personal journey that counselling or talking therapy can give people a new view of life once they, with my help have explored and untangled the issues that are currently having a negative impact on your life or your work, your relationships or your family life, it could be your sexuality or even historical events that have been rendered unconscious or hidden and never spoken about. For me the goal or vision was to have a new outlook on life - a New View.
I also lead workshops, clinically supervise other therapists, provide support for charities and frontline staff; and have provided therapy for the Police, Intelligence Services, Armed Forces and those within the music industry
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
I also lead workshops, clinically supervise other therapists, provide support for charities and frontline staff; and have provided therapy for the Police, Intelligence Services, Armed Forces and those within the music industry
Hello and Welcome, Life can indeed be difficult at times. Many are struggling with mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings can rise to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a PHD(Hon), Master Degree and EMDR(Accredited), I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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