Polyamory and ENM Counselling in Basildon
I offer therapy for couples and individual clients in person and by video or telephone call. ●14 years in Private Practice● NHS experienced●. I am a qualified and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I work with you using a variety of research based approaches to address your issue. Over the years I have helped many different clients explore and reflect on their issue from a different perspective. This has often allowed them to resolve their problem or arrive at an acceptance which they can maintain when therapy finishes.
I offer therapy for couples and individual clients in person and by video or telephone call. ●14 years in Private Practice● NHS experienced●. I am a qualified and registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I work with you using a variety of research based approaches to address your issue. Over the years I have helped many different clients explore and reflect on their issue from a different perspective. This has often allowed them to resolve their problem or arrive at an acceptance which they can maintain when therapy finishes.
Life can be overwhelming, leaving us feeling lost in a maze of stress, anxiety, and even darker thoughts. Maybe you're having difficulties your realtionships, a survivor of trauma or violence, carrying burdens that feel too heavy to share. Sometimes, our loved ones, despite their best intentions, they don't have the tools to fully understand what we're going through and where professional support can make a difference. I offer clients a Person-Centred/Attachment-Based approach. I also have an expertise in trauma. I offer a confidential space where you will be seen and heard without judgment, and develop the skills to heal and grow.
Life can be overwhelming, leaving us feeling lost in a maze of stress, anxiety, and even darker thoughts. Maybe you're having difficulties your realtionships, a survivor of trauma or violence, carrying burdens that feel too heavy to share. Sometimes, our loved ones, despite their best intentions, they don't have the tools to fully understand what we're going through and where professional support can make a difference. I offer clients a Person-Centred/Attachment-Based approach. I also have an expertise in trauma. I offer a confidential space where you will be seen and heard without judgment, and develop the skills to heal and grow.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
Perhaps you're feeling down or anxious, maybe you're unsure about the future of a relationship, or just feel that you aren't living the life you were meant to lead. Therapy I offer represents a safe, accepting, confidential space to look at whatever issues you may be facing right now, and find a way forwards. I can offer a chance to be heard and seen, an opportunity to work through your thoughts and feelings, and a time to develop new skills. Whatever your needs may be, I am here to offer support.
My name is Oluwabukola Ruth Aina, and I am a qualified psychotherapist, an accredited member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). I work with individuals feeling overwhelmed by mental clutter or anxiety, including Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), anxiety, low self-esteem, bereavement, relationship and family issues, OCD, stress, depression, loneliness, and work-related pressures. Helping individuals navigate complex family dynamics, bereavement and cultural identity in the UK. I am dedicated to individuals on their journeys of healing, self-discovery, evolving, unfolding and living their true self.
My name is Oluwabukola Ruth Aina, and I am a qualified psychotherapist, an accredited member of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS). I work with individuals feeling overwhelmed by mental clutter or anxiety, including Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), anxiety, low self-esteem, bereavement, relationship and family issues, OCD, stress, depression, loneliness, and work-related pressures. Helping individuals navigate complex family dynamics, bereavement and cultural identity in the UK. I am dedicated to individuals on their journeys of healing, self-discovery, evolving, unfolding and living their true self.
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I offer help to people who worry or fear that they won't be understood or that they will be judged by others. Whoever you are, whatever the issue is, I'd like to be able to offer a space for you to be heard and accepted. I can offer a private and safe space simply to be without a mask if that's what you need, or if you have a clear idea of what you want to achieve I'd like to help make that happen. I can work in either a very loose or a structured and outcome-focused way, whichever appeals to you more. But however we decide to work, my focus is always what you want, what you need, what you dream of that you would like to make real.
I offer help to people who worry or fear that they won't be understood or that they will be judged by others. Whoever you are, whatever the issue is, I'd like to be able to offer a space for you to be heard and accepted. I can offer a private and safe space simply to be without a mask if that's what you need, or if you have a clear idea of what you want to achieve I'd like to help make that happen. I can work in either a very loose or a structured and outcome-focused way, whichever appeals to you more. But however we decide to work, my focus is always what you want, what you need, what you dream of that you would like to make real.
My lived experience as a queer, non-monogamous person lends itself to a deeper understanding and empathy of the experiences of queer (LGBTQ+) and non-monogamous (inc. polyamorous) people.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. Here, you are welcome and accepted.
My lived experience as a queer, non-monogamous person lends itself to a deeper understanding and empathy of the experiences of queer (LGBTQ+) and non-monogamous (inc. polyamorous) people.
Hello, I’m Rebecca. I will be by your side as you explore whatever you wish to share, accepting all parts of you and bringing all parts of myself. As a person-centred therapist I offer a space that is non-judgemental, open and supportive. I offer you space that is just for you, to have the time to be heard and express yourself. I'm passionate about social justice and embed this in my practice, curious about how your identities and life experiences are felt and perceived. Here, you are welcome and accepted.
Do you need a therapist who understands LGBTQ+ experiences, neurodiversity, cultural identity & polyamory dynamics?
My work is dedicated to the fitness of self-empowerment, relational transformations and the balance of sustained survival & purposeful aliveness. I can help you blossom in your relationships with yourself & others, resolve conflicts, find healing and foster healthy and meaningful ways to communicate and collaborate on what you want and need.
Do you need a therapist who understands LGBTQ+ experiences, neurodiversity, cultural identity & polyamory dynamics?
My work is dedicated to the fitness of self-empowerment, relational transformations and the balance of sustained survival & purposeful aliveness. I can help you blossom in your relationships with yourself & others, resolve conflicts, find healing and foster healthy and meaningful ways to communicate and collaborate on what you want and need.
I’m an Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, and accredited member of The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS), with specialist CPD/ experience in working with LGBTQ+ clients, Polyamory/ Ethical Non- Monogamy and neurodivergence.
Hello. I understand first-hand how difficult it can be to make that first step of reaching out for help, and I’m so glad that you are here. It may be that you have experienced events in the past that are impacting your life now, or are currently going through some dark times, and need support in navigating your way through? Perhaps you have been feeling anxious or depressed and just want to feel better? Or are there changes in your life that you are struggling with? You might know exactly what you need to work through…or you may not understand exactly what is going on, but you know something just doesn't feel right. I can help.
I’m an Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor, and accredited member of The National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS), with specialist CPD/ experience in working with LGBTQ+ clients, Polyamory/ Ethical Non- Monogamy and neurodivergence.
Hello. I understand first-hand how difficult it can be to make that first step of reaching out for help, and I’m so glad that you are here. It may be that you have experienced events in the past that are impacting your life now, or are currently going through some dark times, and need support in navigating your way through? Perhaps you have been feeling anxious or depressed and just want to feel better? Or are there changes in your life that you are struggling with? You might know exactly what you need to work through…or you may not understand exactly what is going on, but you know something just doesn't feel right. I can help.
Online Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy - Are you searching for online relationship therapy because communication keeps breaking down?
Trying to recover from an affair or betrayal and unsure whether trust can be rebuilt?
Struggling with sexual difficulties that are creating distance or resentment?
When arguments repeat, intimacy fades, or trust is damaged, it can feel exhausting and uncertain. You may be wondering, “Can we fix this?” or “Are we going to make it?”
Online Couples Therapy, Marriage Counselling & Relationship Therapy - Are you searching for online relationship therapy because communication keeps breaking down?
Trying to recover from an affair or betrayal and unsure whether trust can be rebuilt?
Struggling with sexual difficulties that are creating distance or resentment?
When arguments repeat, intimacy fades, or trust is damaged, it can feel exhausting and uncertain. You may be wondering, “Can we fix this?” or “Are we going to make it?”
Hi I'm Laura. I have experience working with clients from gender, sexual & relationship diverse backgrounds. I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics. Importantly I wont assume anything about you or your experiences, I listen to You as we work together to uncover patterns, develop insights, and build strategies for healing & growth.
Hi I'm Laura. I have experience working with clients from gender, sexual & relationship diverse backgrounds. I'm sex positive, sex worker allied and have experience of kink dynamics. Importantly I wont assume anything about you or your experiences, I listen to You as we work together to uncover patterns, develop insights, and build strategies for healing & growth.
Hello, my name is Bjorn Ventris (he/him). I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney, London. I work with individuals, couples & polycules from all backgrounds and orientations to help them improve their relationships and sex lives.
Some issues I help clients with include: Improving intimacy, mismatched desire, ethical non-monogamy, improving communication, conflict, long term commitment, infidelity and rebuilding trust, relationship endings & separation, step & blended families, erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual trauma, compulsive sexual behaviour and problematic porn use.
Hello, my name is Bjorn Ventris (he/him). I am a relationship and sex therapist based in Hackney, London. I work with individuals, couples & polycules from all backgrounds and orientations to help them improve their relationships and sex lives.
Some issues I help clients with include: Improving intimacy, mismatched desire, ethical non-monogamy, improving communication, conflict, long term commitment, infidelity and rebuilding trust, relationship endings & separation, step & blended families, erectile dysfunction, rapid or delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual trauma, compulsive sexual behaviour and problematic porn use.
My ideal clients are individuals and couples seeking a deeper, more authentic connection with themselves and others, particularly around intimacy, desire, and sexual wellbeing. They may come feeling disconnected, stuck in patterns, or navigating challenges such as communication, shame, or mismatched needs. I work relationally and authentically, creating a safe, collaborative space where we can explore these experiences together. Through open dialogue, curiosity, and attuned support, I help clients build understanding, strengthen connection, and move toward more fulfilling, embodied relationships.
My ideal clients are individuals and couples seeking a deeper, more authentic connection with themselves and others, particularly around intimacy, desire, and sexual wellbeing. They may come feeling disconnected, stuck in patterns, or navigating challenges such as communication, shame, or mismatched needs. I work relationally and authentically, creating a safe, collaborative space where we can explore these experiences together. Through open dialogue, curiosity, and attuned support, I help clients build understanding, strengthen connection, and move toward more fulfilling, embodied relationships.
People who sincerely want change and are willing to look within will find a committed cheerleader in me. Whether we are exploring addiction, grief or relationship challenges, my work is grounded in curiosity, compassion and non-judgement. I bring genuine interest in people’s inner worlds and relationships, creating a space where clients can feel safe to reflect, experiment and grow.
People who sincerely want change and are willing to look within will find a committed cheerleader in me. Whether we are exploring addiction, grief or relationship challenges, my work is grounded in curiosity, compassion and non-judgement. I bring genuine interest in people’s inner worlds and relationships, creating a space where clients can feel safe to reflect, experiment and grow.
From a humanistic perspective and specifically a person centred frame of reference, our work will always be steered by you. Whether it be a lack of confidence or repetitive behaviours that have undermined your path and progression, whether you are experiencing a bereavement or other form of life transition, whether you are struggling with neurodiversity, sexual identity, or power dynamics, or whether you have simply not been seen or heard and have reached the point where you would like to see change, then I am here to actively listen, without judgement.
From a humanistic perspective and specifically a person centred frame of reference, our work will always be steered by you. Whether it be a lack of confidence or repetitive behaviours that have undermined your path and progression, whether you are experiencing a bereavement or other form of life transition, whether you are struggling with neurodiversity, sexual identity, or power dynamics, or whether you have simply not been seen or heard and have reached the point where you would like to see change, then I am here to actively listen, without judgement.
I work with individuals, couples, & other relationship structures—whether that's open relationships, ENM or polyamory.
Hello and welcome. I am an HCPC-registered Counselling Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience in mental health, specialising in couples and relationship therapy. I understand the messy, nuanced reality of modern relationships. My approach is warm, compassionate, and focused on real change. I believe we both hurt and heal in relationships, and while we are more connected globally and technologically than ever, many of us still feel isolated or misunderstood. I offer a collaborative, inclusive space to explore your story and build deeper connection.
I work with individuals, couples, & other relationship structures—whether that's open relationships, ENM or polyamory.
Hello and welcome. I am an HCPC-registered Counselling Psychologist with over 15 years’ experience in mental health, specialising in couples and relationship therapy. I understand the messy, nuanced reality of modern relationships. My approach is warm, compassionate, and focused on real change. I believe we both hurt and heal in relationships, and while we are more connected globally and technologically than ever, many of us still feel isolated or misunderstood. I offer a collaborative, inclusive space to explore your story and build deeper connection.
I work with LGBTQ people, those in polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships, and people seeking a sex-positive and kink-affirming therapeutic space.
Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, shame, disconnection, or a sense of being stuck in familiar patterns. You may want to understand how earlier experiences continue to shape your relationships, identity, sexuality or intimacy. As a Queer UKCP-registered psychotherapist, I work with adults of all identities, with particular experience supporting LGBTQ+ people and working with Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), sexual health & HIV, and the impact of early relationships and attachment. Together, we can begin to understand not only your current difficulties, but also what may be keeping them in place.
I work with LGBTQ people, those in polyamorous or ethically non-monogamous relationships, and people seeking a sex-positive and kink-affirming therapeutic space.
Perhaps you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, shame, disconnection, or a sense of being stuck in familiar patterns. You may want to understand how earlier experiences continue to shape your relationships, identity, sexuality or intimacy. As a Queer UKCP-registered psychotherapist, I work with adults of all identities, with particular experience supporting LGBTQ+ people and working with Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD), sexual health & HIV, and the impact of early relationships and attachment. Together, we can begin to understand not only your current difficulties, but also what may be keeping them in place.
I would like to help you. As a bisexual woman, I know the challenges of navigating identity and sexuality. That is why I approach every story with an open mind and empathic curiosity. I will engage you from a non-pathologizing, sex-positive, gender-affirming stance, so that you may embrace every part of yourself. I provide individual and couples therapy, as well as sessions for those in alternative relationships. Together we can navigate our way through your relationship and personal challenges, overcome cultural limitations that seek to restrict us, and ultimately find inner joy during times when it appears out of reach.
I would like to help you. As a bisexual woman, I know the challenges of navigating identity and sexuality. That is why I approach every story with an open mind and empathic curiosity. I will engage you from a non-pathologizing, sex-positive, gender-affirming stance, so that you may embrace every part of yourself. I provide individual and couples therapy, as well as sessions for those in alternative relationships. Together we can navigate our way through your relationship and personal challenges, overcome cultural limitations that seek to restrict us, and ultimately find inner joy during times when it appears out of reach.
Intimacy and connection are among the most powerful sources of energy we have - when things are good relationally and intimately, everything else, including work, kids and life challenges, feels lighter, easier and more fun. I help individuals and couples to understand and use this energy through the psychology of desire, motivation and connection.
I work with couples who experience loss of libido, mismatched desire, or the aftermath of infidelity and with those who are in a good, stable relationship and want more. More depth, more excitement, more aliveness!
Intimacy and connection are among the most powerful sources of energy we have - when things are good relationally and intimately, everything else, including work, kids and life challenges, feels lighter, easier and more fun. I help individuals and couples to understand and use this energy through the psychology of desire, motivation and connection.
I work with couples who experience loss of libido, mismatched desire, or the aftermath of infidelity and with those who are in a good, stable relationship and want more. More depth, more excitement, more aliveness!
Hi, I am Ursula (she/her). I am an integrative, LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapist with an additional certification in Sex Counselling and a Master's degree in Sexuality Studies. I am currently undertaking an additional training in Autism & Mental Health.
If you are thinking about having therapy in order to talk about your relationship(s), navigating relationship models (e.g. open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polamory), dating and being on the apps, sex, sexual issues, your sexual self, your sexual orientation or identity, your gender journey, experiences of non-consent, trauma, etc. I might be the right therapist for you.
Hi, I am Ursula (she/her). I am an integrative, LGBTQIA+ affirmative therapist with an additional certification in Sex Counselling and a Master's degree in Sexuality Studies. I am currently undertaking an additional training in Autism & Mental Health.
If you are thinking about having therapy in order to talk about your relationship(s), navigating relationship models (e.g. open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polamory), dating and being on the apps, sex, sexual issues, your sexual self, your sexual orientation or identity, your gender journey, experiences of non-consent, trauma, etc. I might be the right therapist for you.
I particularly enjoy working with people who are polyamorous or practise consensual non-monogamy, and with people involved in kink and BDSM.
I have over 20 years’ experience as a qualified Clinical Psychologist, working in the NHS, the charity sector and private practice. I draw on psychological and trauma therapies, including EMDR, CBT, ACT and CFT. I have a strong interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.
I particularly enjoy working with people who are polyamorous or practise consensual non-monogamy, and with people involved in kink and BDSM.
I have over 20 years’ experience as a qualified Clinical Psychologist, working in the NHS, the charity sector and private practice. I draw on psychological and trauma therapies, including EMDR, CBT, ACT and CFT. I have a strong interest in energy psychology, where Eastern energy approaches have been combined with Western psychological therapy.
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FAQ - Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.