Marriage Counselling in Basildon

Allison Claughan
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Online Only
Hi, i'm Allison. Nice to meet you ! Well done in taking the first step in searching for support. As a Counsellor, I will support you in working through your Menopause journey! If your tired of feeling anxious and lacking self confidence give me a calll ! It's sometimes hard to think clearly, with the busyness of life but during our sessions, you will have time to think about how you feel and how you would like to move forward with your life.
Hi, i'm Allison. Nice to meet you ! Well done in taking the first step in searching for support. As a Counsellor, I will support you in working through your Menopause journey! If your tired of feeling anxious and lacking self confidence give me a calll ! It's sometimes hard to think clearly, with the busyness of life but during our sessions, you will have time to think about how you feel and how you would like to move forward with your life.
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Lauren Severin
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Basildon SS15
Do you find yourself overthinking everything, spiralling about things you can’t control, or wondering why you care so much when others seem able to let things go? You may be feeling anxious, lost, low in confidence, or unsure of who you are and what you want from life. One thing I hear often is that clients are surprised by how quickly they feel able to open up. Many come to counselling worried they won’t know what to say, only to find themselves sharing more than they expected. I offer a warm, genuine space with honest reflection, gentle challenge, and a fresh perspective that helps things finally start to click.
Do you find yourself overthinking everything, spiralling about things you can’t control, or wondering why you care so much when others seem able to let things go? You may be feeling anxious, lost, low in confidence, or unsure of who you are and what you want from life. One thing I hear often is that clients are surprised by how quickly they feel able to open up. Many come to counselling worried they won’t know what to say, only to find themselves sharing more than they expected. I offer a warm, genuine space with honest reflection, gentle challenge, and a fresh perspective that helps things finally start to click.
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Adewale Ademuyiwa
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Online Only
Tired of just surviving? I work with thoughtful, high functioning people who want to understand and actually do something about thier anxiety, perfectionism, low mood or old trauma they're carrying . Many of my clients look fine on the outside while managing a harsh inner critic, a people-pleasing reflex, or a boom-and-bust cycle that keeps ending in burnout. If you like things to make sense, you'll find my approach practical, collaborative and warm.
Tired of just surviving? I work with thoughtful, high functioning people who want to understand and actually do something about thier anxiety, perfectionism, low mood or old trauma they're carrying . Many of my clients look fine on the outside while managing a harsh inner critic, a people-pleasing reflex, or a boom-and-bust cycle that keeps ending in burnout. If you like things to make sense, you'll find my approach practical, collaborative and warm.
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Tracey Carlisle Therapies
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Basildon SS16
Life can be complicated and challenging leaving us unsure how to deal with it or what to do for the best. I can offer you a safe, non-judgmental and confidential environment to explore and support your thoughts and feelings to enable you to move forward. We will work together to build new positive thought patterns replacing old habits with new solution focused outcomes
Life can be complicated and challenging leaving us unsure how to deal with it or what to do for the best. I can offer you a safe, non-judgmental and confidential environment to explore and support your thoughts and feelings to enable you to move forward. We will work together to build new positive thought patterns replacing old habits with new solution focused outcomes
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Jayne Buckley
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Basildon SS15
I work with teens, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
You want something to be different, you want to stop feeling the way do, but don't know where or how to start? You've already made the biggest step by reaching out. I can help you to feel better, create balance in your life, leave the past in the past, and start looking forward to your future. I have all the relevant qualifications to be approved by Psychology Today, however, I'm more interested in how I can help you.
I work with teens, adolescents, adults, couples and families.
You want something to be different, you want to stop feeling the way do, but don't know where or how to start? You've already made the biggest step by reaching out. I can help you to feel better, create balance in your life, leave the past in the past, and start looking forward to your future. I have all the relevant qualifications to be approved by Psychology Today, however, I'm more interested in how I can help you.
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Kirstie Eames
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Online Only
I specialise in working with trauma and C-PTSD, supporting survivors of abuse and neurodivergent adults. You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, or relationship difficulties, feel disconnected from yourself and others. You may feel shut down, or feel constantly on edge or burnt out. You may have experienced trauma, loss, stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first. You may need calm and a greater self-understanding of yourself rather than just pushing through life.
I specialise in working with trauma and C-PTSD, supporting survivors of abuse and neurodivergent adults. You may feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, or stuck in patterns you don’t fully understand. You might struggle with anxiety, low mood, emotional dysregulation, or relationship difficulties, feel disconnected from yourself and others. You may feel shut down, or feel constantly on edge or burnt out. You may have experienced trauma, loss, stress, or spent years coping, masking, or putting others first. You may need calm and a greater self-understanding of yourself rather than just pushing through life.
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Joanna Wapienik-Stewart
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
3 Endorsed
Basildon SS15
I am a UKCP-accredited Gestalt psychotherapist. My approach is relational, embodied, and trauma-informed, rooted in the belief that healing begins in connection. I support clients in slowing down, becoming curious about their experiences, and discovering new ways of relating to themselves and others — attending not only to words, but to what is felt, held in the body, and left unsaid.I work with individuals carrying complex histories — including trauma, migration, neurodivergence, or experiences of marginalisation. Many of my clients have relied on survival strategies that helped them survive in the past but now keep them stuck.
I am a UKCP-accredited Gestalt psychotherapist. My approach is relational, embodied, and trauma-informed, rooted in the belief that healing begins in connection. I support clients in slowing down, becoming curious about their experiences, and discovering new ways of relating to themselves and others — attending not only to words, but to what is felt, held in the body, and left unsaid.I work with individuals carrying complex histories — including trauma, migration, neurodivergence, or experiences of marginalisation. Many of my clients have relied on survival strategies that helped them survive in the past but now keep them stuck.
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Sarah K Tuite
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
1 Endorsed
Basildon SS15
Couples therapy.
Hello, my name is Sarah. I offer Person-Centred counselling, face to face, online or via telephone to young people 11+ and adults. I have been counselling at MIND since 2019 and have worked with a broad range of common and complex issues. These have included, Depression, Anxiety, Bi-Polar, Autism, A.D.H.D, P.T.S.D, Trauma and Personality Disorders.
Couples therapy.
Hello, my name is Sarah. I offer Person-Centred counselling, face to face, online or via telephone to young people 11+ and adults. I have been counselling at MIND since 2019 and have worked with a broad range of common and complex issues. These have included, Depression, Anxiety, Bi-Polar, Autism, A.D.H.D, P.T.S.D, Trauma and Personality Disorders.
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David Cooper
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
There are times in all our lives when we feel we have lost our way, need some to listen or simply want somebody to help us reach the next step in our journey. Maybe that sounds like you and you're looking for help to take that first step, or simply share your concerns in a safe space and really feel heard. My focus is to help individuals heal, energise, and become aware of their inner strengths by providing a neutral safe space, listening to your concerns, and customising a treatment plan. My specialities include Relationship+Family Counselling, Anxiety+Depression, Abuse+Narcissism and Grief+Loss
There are times in all our lives when we feel we have lost our way, need some to listen or simply want somebody to help us reach the next step in our journey. Maybe that sounds like you and you're looking for help to take that first step, or simply share your concerns in a safe space and really feel heard. My focus is to help individuals heal, energise, and become aware of their inner strengths by providing a neutral safe space, listening to your concerns, and customising a treatment plan. My specialities include Relationship+Family Counselling, Anxiety+Depression, Abuse+Narcissism and Grief+Loss
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Dynamic-Minds Counselling
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
Are you struggling with the stresses and strains that family, friendship, and/ or work life can bring and unsure what to do? Life is not always easy or straightforward, our lives can become challenging at times, causing us to feel overwhelmed with an array of complex emotions which can have an impact on our daily lives. Very often we don’t have someone that we can completely share our innermost thoughts and feelings with so having someone who is a trained professional, allows the opportunity to open up and confide in. I trust that I am able to provide a safe, non-judgemental space to work collaboratively with you.
Are you struggling with the stresses and strains that family, friendship, and/ or work life can bring and unsure what to do? Life is not always easy or straightforward, our lives can become challenging at times, causing us to feel overwhelmed with an array of complex emotions which can have an impact on our daily lives. Very often we don’t have someone that we can completely share our innermost thoughts and feelings with so having someone who is a trained professional, allows the opportunity to open up and confide in. I trust that I am able to provide a safe, non-judgemental space to work collaboratively with you.
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Peace of mind counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
I work in private practice providing interventions on an individual basis or with couples and families.
I am passionate about my work and have seen, both in my personal and professional life, the positive impact counselling can have on emotional and physical well-being. I named my service Peace of Mind as that is what I aim to help you achieve. I believe that when our mind is at peace life becomes much easier to navigate and that when we create balance in our minds, we will find it in our lives. I believe that awareness is the first step in healing or changing and so together we will explore whatever you want to bring to therapy and where possible, and more importantly if you want to, we will find solutions to help you enjoy life.
I work in private practice providing interventions on an individual basis or with couples and families.
I am passionate about my work and have seen, both in my personal and professional life, the positive impact counselling can have on emotional and physical well-being. I named my service Peace of Mind as that is what I aim to help you achieve. I believe that when our mind is at peace life becomes much easier to navigate and that when we create balance in our minds, we will find it in our lives. I believe that awareness is the first step in healing or changing and so together we will explore whatever you want to bring to therapy and where possible, and more importantly if you want to, we will find solutions to help you enjoy life.
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Ann Sherwin
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are there issues in your life, past or present, that you haven't addressed. Are these issues preventing you from moving forward in your life, relationship or work. I am a trained Counsellor with eleven years experience. it is a requirement to undergo our own individual therapy when training therefore I am very aware that one of the most important decisions, in choosing a therapist, is to be able to connect with them. I am also aware, having been on the other side of the room how difficult it can be to open up our lives, past and present, to a stranger. Reaching out for help at a difficult time in our lives is not easy.
Are there issues in your life, past or present, that you haven't addressed. Are these issues preventing you from moving forward in your life, relationship or work. I am a trained Counsellor with eleven years experience. it is a requirement to undergo our own individual therapy when training therefore I am very aware that one of the most important decisions, in choosing a therapist, is to be able to connect with them. I am also aware, having been on the other side of the room how difficult it can be to open up our lives, past and present, to a stranger. Reaching out for help at a difficult time in our lives is not easy.
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Paula Carr
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
I am an experienced UKCP accredited psychotherapist and counsellor working with personal issues such as behavioural difficulties, relationship problems, depression, anxiety and bereavement. I am a registered psychotherapist and counsellor with Aviva and Vitality Health so can accept referrals via your insurer.
I am an experienced UKCP accredited psychotherapist and counsellor working with personal issues such as behavioural difficulties, relationship problems, depression, anxiety and bereavement. I am a registered psychotherapist and counsellor with Aviva and Vitality Health so can accept referrals via your insurer.
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Nora Ann McCarthy
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
As a qualified and experienced Counsellor & Supervisor, I have worked with many people from all different backgrounds, Charities, Schools, Colleges, Hospitals, Hospices, Care Homes. I've witnessed people find new hope and make positive changes through their counselling process. I believe offering a confidential and non-judgmental space can help someone explore their attachment/relational/emotional difficulties, bereavement, trauma to help gain a secure sense of self. I work in a Person Centred, Humanistic approach with Psychodynamic and Transactional Analysis creative interventions to aid exploratory understanding of self.
As a qualified and experienced Counsellor & Supervisor, I have worked with many people from all different backgrounds, Charities, Schools, Colleges, Hospitals, Hospices, Care Homes. I've witnessed people find new hope and make positive changes through their counselling process. I believe offering a confidential and non-judgmental space can help someone explore their attachment/relational/emotional difficulties, bereavement, trauma to help gain a secure sense of self. I work in a Person Centred, Humanistic approach with Psychodynamic and Transactional Analysis creative interventions to aid exploratory understanding of self.
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Louise Christie
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
I also work with couples who are managing the complexities of modern life, whether it's balancing demanding schedules, working through communication issues, dealing with financial pressures, or navigating the roles we take on within our family structures.
Modern day life can have a profound impact on our emotional wellbeing. The pressures and pace of everyday responsibilities can lead to feelings of depression and anxiety, including panic attacks. These experiences can create a sense of loneliness and disconnection, often causing inner unrest and a loss of connection to ourselves and others.
I also work with couples who are managing the complexities of modern life, whether it's balancing demanding schedules, working through communication issues, dealing with financial pressures, or navigating the roles we take on within our family structures.
Modern day life can have a profound impact on our emotional wellbeing. The pressures and pace of everyday responsibilities can lead to feelings of depression and anxiety, including panic attacks. These experiences can create a sense of loneliness and disconnection, often causing inner unrest and a loss of connection to ourselves and others.
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Therapy Solutions Brentwood
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
At Therapy Solutions, my mission is to offer you a safe, confidential space to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences. Working together at your pace, we look at what's really going on for you. Through this process, you will gain a deeper understanding, develop healthier ways of coping and begin to make meaningful, lasting changes. I am deeply committed to supporting you on your journey of change, self enlightenment and improvement. I endeavour to work with integrity, honesty, equality, fairness, empathy and respect. This work is grounded in a supportive, non-judgemental relationship where you feel heard and understood.
At Therapy Solutions, my mission is to offer you a safe, confidential space to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences. Working together at your pace, we look at what's really going on for you. Through this process, you will gain a deeper understanding, develop healthier ways of coping and begin to make meaningful, lasting changes. I am deeply committed to supporting you on your journey of change, self enlightenment and improvement. I endeavour to work with integrity, honesty, equality, fairness, empathy and respect. This work is grounded in a supportive, non-judgemental relationship where you feel heard and understood.
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Helen Stephens
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor and supervisor. I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
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Positive Minds Counselling Service
Counsellor, BACP
Serves Area
I am qualified to work on issues such as bereavement, anxiety, depression, addiction, anger and stress management and many more. If you need someone to talk to or just need someone to listen to. Please get in contact.
I am qualified to work on issues such as bereavement, anxiety, depression, addiction, anger and stress management and many more. If you need someone to talk to or just need someone to listen to. Please get in contact.
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Dawn Nielsen
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello, I’ve worked as an integrative counsellor for 17 years, the last 14 being for the NHS. Whilst I currently work with children and young people and their mental health I have also worked in adult organisations such as Mind, Domestic abuse and bereavement services. I feel passionately about mental health and I am always amazed by individuals strength to go on a journey to make the changes that lead to emotional fulfilment and the life clients want. Together we can explore the areas that cause anxiety, distress and low mood and explore unhelpful behaviours and distorted thinking. I look forward to going on this journey with you.
Hello, I’ve worked as an integrative counsellor for 17 years, the last 14 being for the NHS. Whilst I currently work with children and young people and their mental health I have also worked in adult organisations such as Mind, Domestic abuse and bereavement services. I feel passionately about mental health and I am always amazed by individuals strength to go on a journey to make the changes that lead to emotional fulfilment and the life clients want. Together we can explore the areas that cause anxiety, distress and low mood and explore unhelpful behaviours and distorted thinking. I look forward to going on this journey with you.
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Piece Together Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, I’m Karen, a UK-based Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor dedicated to supporting neurodiverse individuals and anyone facing daily challenges. My journey into therapy later in life has endowed me with rich life skills and deep empathy, allowing me to truly understand the unique experiences of those on the neurodiverse spectrum. I’m passionate about offering a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your story and build resilience.
Hello, I’m Karen, a UK-based Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor dedicated to supporting neurodiverse individuals and anyone facing daily challenges. My journey into therapy later in life has endowed me with rich life skills and deep empathy, allowing me to truly understand the unique experiences of those on the neurodiverse spectrum. I’m passionate about offering a safe, non-judgmental space where you can share your story and build resilience.
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FAQ - Marriage Counselling
What issues does marriage counselling help with?
Marriage counselling can address common relationship concerns, including ongoing conflict, communication challenges, emotional distance, or difficulty making decisions together. It may also be helpful for couples who are not currently experiencing major problems but want to prepare for future life changes. For more specific concerns affecting one individual in the relationship, such as trauma, depression, or significant substance use concerns, individual therapy may be more appropriate than marriage counselling.

When is the right time to start marriage counselling?
There is no single “right” time to start marriage counselling, but certain signs may suggest that counselling could be helpful. For example, a couple may benefit from counselling if many conversations end in conflict, if negative interactions are becoming more frequent, or if relationship stress is affecting other areas of life, such as sleep, work, parenting, or friendships. Some couples also seek counselling proactively. Premarital counselling, for instance, allows couples to discuss communication styles, finances, family dynamics, and future goals before getting married. Other couples may start counselling before a major life change, such as becoming parents, relocating, or navigating a stressful career transition.

Is marriage counselling effective if only one partner wants to go?
Marriage counselling may still help even if one partner is more hesitant to attend, as long as both people are ultimately willing to participate in sessions. Once counselling is underway, the more hesitant partner may become more open to sessions that can strengthen the relationship and build coping skills and communication strategies. If one partner refuses to attend, individual therapy may still help the other partner understand their needs, set boundaries, and decide how to approach the relationship.

Is online marriage counselling as effective as in-person?
There are differing opinions on the best format for marriage counselling. While some studies show that online marriage counselling can be as effective as in-person counselling, some argue that in-person counselling is more effective because it allows the therapist to better pick up on context and body language cues. In addition, in-person counselling may be a better fit for couples who are working through high-conflict issues. Ultimately, the “best” format depends on the couple’s specific needs and concerns.

What is faith-based marriage counselling and how is it different?
Faith-based marriage counselling incorporates a couple’s religious or spiritual beliefs into counselling. It may be a good fit for couples who want to discuss their relationship, values, and marriage within the context of their faith. For example, Christian marriage counselling may appeal to couples who want a counsellor familiar with Christian beliefs about marriage. Other forms of faith-based counselling may incorporate Jewish, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, or other religious perspectives into sessions.

How much does marriage counselling cost and is it covered by insurance?
Marriage counselling is usually paid for privately in Great Britain, rather than through the NHS, and sessions often cost around £60 to £120 or more. Fees depend on location, with costs generally higher in the London area, as well as counsellor experience, session length, and practice setting. However, lower-cost options may be available through sliding scale fees, which adjust the cost of counselling based on income, as well as through community clinics or non-profit organisations that offer reduced-cost services.