Personality Disorders Counselling in Barnsley

Dr Silke Newman
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Are you autistic, ADHD, AuDHD or have a Learning (Intellectual) Disability — and finding things particularly hard right now? You might feel anxious, low, or overwhelmed, or be facing a change that feels unsettling. You don't have to make sense of it on your own. My approach is neuroaffirmative: I recognise and value different ways of thinking, feeling and communicating. Together we can find practical ways for being well and to build a fulfilling life on your own terms.
Are you autistic, ADHD, AuDHD or have a Learning (Intellectual) Disability — and finding things particularly hard right now? You might feel anxious, low, or overwhelmed, or be facing a change that feels unsettling. You don't have to make sense of it on your own. My approach is neuroaffirmative: I recognise and value different ways of thinking, feeling and communicating. Together we can find practical ways for being well and to build a fulfilling life on your own terms.
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Tracy Simpson
Counsellor, MBACP
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered, and NCPS accredited registrant counsellor and supervisor with over 16 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
I am an experienced, well-established BACP registered, and NCPS accredited registrant counsellor and supervisor with over 16 years of experience in private practice in Barnsley, South Yorkshire. I accept private clients, including those covered by BUPA and AVIVA, offering face-to-face and online sessions. Whilst my focus is on anxiety and stress management, I have extensive experience in supporting clients through issues related to abuse, addiction, and bereavement. I use Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and other therapeutic modalities to help clients develop practical strategies to regain control of their lives and find peace.
01226 448214 View 01226 448214
David Oldfield
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
In addition to the qualifications listed, I commit to ongoing learning and have completed trainings in trauma and trauma-informed practice, personality disorders and treatment, attachment theory and developmental theories, Rewind technique, among others.
I am an experienced integrative psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, teacher/trainer, and registered MNCPS (Acc.) based in Barnsley, working face-to-face and online. A naturally relaxed, warm, and reflective individual, I aim to provide non-judgemental, encouraging support, and to assist in exploring and moving forward with issues causing you difficulty. I provide short and long-term therapy. I have worked for services within the charity sector, and I currently work as a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in private practice. I also deliver teaching on a L4 therapeutic diploma course.
In addition to the qualifications listed, I commit to ongoing learning and have completed trainings in trauma and trauma-informed practice, personality disorders and treatment, attachment theory and developmental theories, Rewind technique, among others.
I am an experienced integrative psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, teacher/trainer, and registered MNCPS (Acc.) based in Barnsley, working face-to-face and online. A naturally relaxed, warm, and reflective individual, I aim to provide non-judgemental, encouraging support, and to assist in exploring and moving forward with issues causing you difficulty. I provide short and long-term therapy. I have worked for services within the charity sector, and I currently work as a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor in private practice. I also deliver teaching on a L4 therapeutic diploma course.
0114 697 6638 View 0114 697 6638
Charlotte Lawson-Wright
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
My aim is to develop a trusting working relationship as quickly as possible. Initially using talking therapy to gently ascertain your own personal history, issues and needs from therapy. To quickly establish and feedback your goals and reasons in order to help you to notice the changes in yourself or the barriers to change. To work creatively and flexibly with you to suit your own needs.
My aim is to develop a trusting working relationship as quickly as possible. Initially using talking therapy to gently ascertain your own personal history, issues and needs from therapy. To quickly establish and feedback your goals and reasons in order to help you to notice the changes in yourself or the barriers to change. To work creatively and flexibly with you to suit your own needs.
01226 447025 View 01226 447025
Jeana Hallas at Barnsley Hypnosis & Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
Most clients contact us with surface negative symptoms or challenges. Every client is totally unique, therefore our truly one-off, made-to-measure approach is needed and always provided. Most clients help us to slowly identify the real current trigger(s), creating the negative presenting symptoms or challenges. Finally, our last step in helping you gain a positive, confident and happier future, is to discover your deepest root causes, which created the very first trigger(s). To put it simply, our driving force from day one is to help you quickly ensure you gain much improved: thinking, feeling and behaviour.
01226 337420 View 01226 337420
Mary Attwood
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Online Only
Are you trying to make sense of your life right now, and don't understand what's happening or why you're not coping so well with every day life? Perhaps you feel alone from a loss or breakdown of a relationship. There could be events from your past that interfere in your life today, do you wish to explore and understand why this is happening? Maybe your emotions are becoming increasingly difficult to cope with. Are you finding your relationship with family or friends difficult or strained or perhaps you'd like to feel more confident. These are some of the challenges we face and perhaps you would like some help to overcome these.
Are you trying to make sense of your life right now, and don't understand what's happening or why you're not coping so well with every day life? Perhaps you feel alone from a loss or breakdown of a relationship. There could be events from your past that interfere in your life today, do you wish to explore and understand why this is happening? Maybe your emotions are becoming increasingly difficult to cope with. Are you finding your relationship with family or friends difficult or strained or perhaps you'd like to feel more confident. These are some of the challenges we face and perhaps you would like some help to overcome these.
01787 323190 View 01787 323190
Rebecca's Counselling Solutions
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
There are lots of reasons why someone may come for counselling. It may be that they are trying to come to terms with a loss or are finding it difficult to cope with the stresses of everyday life. It could be their past is affecting daily life. You may be experiencing difficulties in your relationships or having sexual problems. This could be erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, vaginismus, painful sex or loss of desire. I am Kink-friendly and aware. As a skilled integrative Therapist, I offer a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space to explore difficulties in a confidential environment.
There are lots of reasons why someone may come for counselling. It may be that they are trying to come to terms with a loss or are finding it difficult to cope with the stresses of everyday life. It could be their past is affecting daily life. You may be experiencing difficulties in your relationships or having sexual problems. This could be erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, vaginismus, painful sex or loss of desire. I am Kink-friendly and aware. As a skilled integrative Therapist, I offer a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space to explore difficulties in a confidential environment.
01226 445300 View 01226 445300
Paul A Green
Counsellor, MBACP
My role, as a psychodynamic therapist, is to provide an environment that is confidential and safe. This is why I do what I do. I provide an outside perspective to help you understand how your past influences present behaviours; your use of defences to avoid reality and awareness of how unconscious reoccurrence operates in your life. With your assistance my aim is to develop different strategies in making better choices to existing problems and explore beliefs of past feelings, memories. This doesn’t mean all your life is broken, but certain grey areas compromising the relationships you’re having with self and others.
My role, as a psychodynamic therapist, is to provide an environment that is confidential and safe. This is why I do what I do. I provide an outside perspective to help you understand how your past influences present behaviours; your use of defences to avoid reality and awareness of how unconscious reoccurrence operates in your life. With your assistance my aim is to develop different strategies in making better choices to existing problems and explore beliefs of past feelings, memories. This doesn’t mean all your life is broken, but certain grey areas compromising the relationships you’re having with self and others.
01226 610188 View 01226 610188
Dr Rebecca Shaw
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist, registered with the Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC). I have worked within NHS mental health settings for 18 years. I offer therapeutic work for adults with a range of emotional difficulties, including anxiety disorders and depression. I have a particular interest in working with individuals who present with symptoms of psychological trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist, registered with the Health Care and Professions Council (HCPC). I have worked within NHS mental health settings for 18 years. I offer therapeutic work for adults with a range of emotional difficulties, including anxiety disorders and depression. I have a particular interest in working with individuals who present with symptoms of psychological trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
01524 967268 View 01524 967268
Dearne Valley Counselling Services
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Therapist and counselling the Dearne Valley, conveniently near Cortonwood Retail Park. I offer a safe and compassionate place to explore your feelings without judgement, in a warm practical and down to earth manner. I understand that it can be difficult to talk and understand some feelings and these may be overwhelming and confusing to you.  I can help you to bring clarity to a situation and help you to move forward with confidence. I follow the BACP ethical framework and am bound by its guidelines to work with your best interests. Provided counselling for the NHS and charities such as Cruse Bereavement and Barnsley Bereavement.
Therapist and counselling the Dearne Valley, conveniently near Cortonwood Retail Park. I offer a safe and compassionate place to explore your feelings without judgement, in a warm practical and down to earth manner. I understand that it can be difficult to talk and understand some feelings and these may be overwhelming and confusing to you.  I can help you to bring clarity to a situation and help you to move forward with confidence. I follow the BACP ethical framework and am bound by its guidelines to work with your best interests. Provided counselling for the NHS and charities such as Cruse Bereavement and Barnsley Bereavement.
07480 487166 View 07480 487166
West Psychological Services
Psychologist, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Serves Area
If you're feeling stuck, low, overwhelmed, or disconnected, West Psychological Services can help. Our team supports people coping with depression, anxiety, dissociation, and PTSD symptoms such as intrusive memories and difficulty trusting others. We'll work with you to understand how your past may be shaping your relationships and how you see yourself. With personal experience of a late ADHD diagnosis, our director Jo is passionate about supporting those who are neurodivergent or exploring whether ADHD may be relevant. We also offer a range of assessments to help you understand yourself, including ADHD and PTSD assessments.
If you're feeling stuck, low, overwhelmed, or disconnected, West Psychological Services can help. Our team supports people coping with depression, anxiety, dissociation, and PTSD symptoms such as intrusive memories and difficulty trusting others. We'll work with you to understand how your past may be shaping your relationships and how you see yourself. With personal experience of a late ADHD diagnosis, our director Jo is passionate about supporting those who are neurodivergent or exploring whether ADHD may be relevant. We also offer a range of assessments to help you understand yourself, including ADHD and PTSD assessments.
0113 519 1679 View 0113 519 1679
Sally Moore
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Serves Area
Are you wanting to work out why patterns keep repeating in your relationships, or maybe you are a couple wanting to improve communication and intimacy? I am a UKCP registered psychotherapist and trauma therapist, offering therapy to individuals, couples and groups. My main approach is Transactional Analysis, a model to help us understand ourselves and our relationships better, and find ways to make the changes we want.
Are you wanting to work out why patterns keep repeating in your relationships, or maybe you are a couple wanting to improve communication and intimacy? I am a UKCP registered psychotherapist and trauma therapist, offering therapy to individuals, couples and groups. My main approach is Transactional Analysis, a model to help us understand ourselves and our relationships better, and find ways to make the changes we want.
0114 478 2078 View 0114 478 2078
Bright Path Counselling Service
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I work with children, young people, and adults facing anxiety, low mood, overwhelm, trauma, or life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. My integrative approach is warm, flexible, and tailored to your unique story. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience, and reconnect with yourself. Together, we can work towards greater clarity, confidence, and emotional wellbeing. You don’t have to face it alone.
I work with children, young people, and adults facing anxiety, low mood, overwhelm, trauma, or life transitions. You may feel stuck, disconnected, or unsure how to move forward. My integrative approach is warm, flexible, and tailored to your unique story. I offer a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings, build resilience, and reconnect with yourself. Together, we can work towards greater clarity, confidence, and emotional wellbeing. You don’t have to face it alone.
01709 288064 View 01709 288064
Beverly James
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
It can sometimes seem worrying to share your deepest, most personal thoughts and feelings. I'm here to offer a warm, welcoming and confidential therapeutic space to individuals and couples, where you will have your time to talk and where hopefully we can build a trusting therapeutic relationship, one in which you can feel comfortable to share your worries and thoughts. Every client and every therapeutic process is different and I will always value you as a unique individual, with the utmost respect for the journey you have navigated and the place you find yourself in now. I also work with Aviva or Bupa health insurance clients.
It can sometimes seem worrying to share your deepest, most personal thoughts and feelings. I'm here to offer a warm, welcoming and confidential therapeutic space to individuals and couples, where you will have your time to talk and where hopefully we can build a trusting therapeutic relationship, one in which you can feel comfortable to share your worries and thoughts. Every client and every therapeutic process is different and I will always value you as a unique individual, with the utmost respect for the journey you have navigated and the place you find yourself in now. I also work with Aviva or Bupa health insurance clients.
01709 288852 View 01709 288852
Abbie Rhodes
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hi, it can be hard to share your feelings, so I offer a relaxed approach to therapy in a welcoming in person private safe space and the option to work remotely by telephone or video call. With the right support and guidance we can start to make your world more manageable through achieving your personal goals, problem solving, alleviation of stress, low mood and anxieties. We can explore your life dynamics, past, present and future by using different therapy approaches to make long term changes, realisations and maintainable improvements. Your first time or not, we will go along at your pace and for your duration.
Hi, it can be hard to share your feelings, so I offer a relaxed approach to therapy in a welcoming in person private safe space and the option to work remotely by telephone or video call. With the right support and guidance we can start to make your world more manageable through achieving your personal goals, problem solving, alleviation of stress, low mood and anxieties. We can explore your life dynamics, past, present and future by using different therapy approaches to make long term changes, realisations and maintainable improvements. Your first time or not, we will go along at your pace and for your duration.
01226 666591 View 01226 666591
South Yorkshire CBT and Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Serves Area
Suffering from dehabilitating conditions such as depression, anxiety and low self esteem can have a devastating effect on your work and personal life. We can work with you to overcome issues such as; depression, OCD, PTSD, phobias, chronic pain, domestic abuse, intrusive or inappropriate thoughts, low self esteem and relationship issues. By helping you identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns and make appropriate changes in these areas you can experience improvements and a greater sense of well-being in your day to day life.
Suffering from dehabilitating conditions such as depression, anxiety and low self esteem can have a devastating effect on your work and personal life. We can work with you to overcome issues such as; depression, OCD, PTSD, phobias, chronic pain, domestic abuse, intrusive or inappropriate thoughts, low self esteem and relationship issues. By helping you identify unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns and make appropriate changes in these areas you can experience improvements and a greater sense of well-being in your day to day life.
0114 697 3544 View 0114 697 3544

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Elaine Piper
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Wetherby LS23
I am a Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic psychotherapist, with extended experience of working with adults with long standing and complex mental health problems within and outside the NHS.  Life is challenging and can lead to periods of intense or prolonged distress. Our usual ways of coping may no longer seem to be helping or may become a problem in themselves. This can lead to anxiety, sadness, anger, feeling stuck, isolated and confused. Our relationships are often affected. Meeting with a trusted, experienced therapist, to explore and understand your feelings, whilst painful, can lead to huge relief and greater freedom.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic psychotherapist, with extended experience of working with adults with long standing and complex mental health problems within and outside the NHS.  Life is challenging and can lead to periods of intense or prolonged distress. Our usual ways of coping may no longer seem to be helping or may become a problem in themselves. This can lead to anxiety, sadness, anger, feeling stuck, isolated and confused. Our relationships are often affected. Meeting with a trusted, experienced therapist, to explore and understand your feelings, whilst painful, can lead to huge relief and greater freedom.
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Alberto Diamantini
Psychotherapist, BPC
Leeds LS1
Many of the emotional hurdles, relationship struggles, and persistent blocks we experience in the present are deeply connected to unseen dynamics and past experiences we have not yet fully unpacked. When we find ourselves stuck in repetitive cycles despite our best efforts to change, it is often a sign that something beneath the surface requires our attention. As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, I provide a space designed to explore these root causes.
Many of the emotional hurdles, relationship struggles, and persistent blocks we experience in the present are deeply connected to unseen dynamics and past experiences we have not yet fully unpacked. When we find ourselves stuck in repetitive cycles despite our best efforts to change, it is often a sign that something beneath the surface requires our attention. As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, I provide a space designed to explore these root causes.
0113 519 9898 View 0113 519 9898
Debbie Hair
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Online Only
Hi, I'm Debbie, a Registered Psychologist based across North Leeds and Wakefield. I have 13 years experience working with people suffering with mental health difficulties. I offer a compassionate and caring approach within therapy and believe in order to help someone it is important we have a positive therapeutic relationship. I have worked with people who struggle with intense emotions which may have led them to experience self injurious and/or suicidal thoughts or behaviours. I aim to provide space where people can feel they can discuss issues causing them difficulty and aim to work alongside them to achieve their goals.
Hi, I'm Debbie, a Registered Psychologist based across North Leeds and Wakefield. I have 13 years experience working with people suffering with mental health difficulties. I offer a compassionate and caring approach within therapy and believe in order to help someone it is important we have a positive therapeutic relationship. I have worked with people who struggle with intense emotions which may have led them to experience self injurious and/or suicidal thoughts or behaviours. I aim to provide space where people can feel they can discuss issues causing them difficulty and aim to work alongside them to achieve their goals.
0113 519 9292 View 0113 519 9292
Mind Hubs
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
Serves Area
In-person or online. With over 15 years clinical experience working for many years with complex trauma & PTSD in one of the UK's largest NHS Foundation Trusts. Specialising in addictions and eating disorders. For the last 8 years, I have been in private practice and mostly working with intersectionality, ADHD, PTSD & racial trauma. I also run a monthly group to explore the intersectionality of ethnicity & gender for diverse corporate women creating a safe, welcoming space where you can explore, grow, and thrive. Book a 30 min consultation
In-person or online. With over 15 years clinical experience working for many years with complex trauma & PTSD in one of the UK's largest NHS Foundation Trusts. Specialising in addictions and eating disorders. For the last 8 years, I have been in private practice and mostly working with intersectionality, ADHD, PTSD & racial trauma. I also run a monthly group to explore the intersectionality of ethnicity & gender for diverse corporate women creating a safe, welcoming space where you can explore, grow, and thrive. Book a 30 min consultation
020 3893 3290 View 020 3893 3290
Personality Disorders Counsellors
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specialises in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.