Domestic Abuse Counselling in Bardsey
If you’ve spent years putting your own needs aside to keep the peace, your body is likely weighed down by stress and tension. For sensitive adults, people-pleasing isn't just a bad habit, it’s often a survival strategy born out of difficult life events or past trauma. It leaves you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and constantly on edge. I offer a gentle, supportive environment where we can untangle your situation together. We will work collaboratively to heal those deeper wounds, quiet your nervous system, and help you rebuild a life that actually feels like your own. You don’t need fixing, just room to remember who you are.
If you’ve spent years putting your own needs aside to keep the peace, your body is likely weighed down by stress and tension. For sensitive adults, people-pleasing isn't just a bad habit, it’s often a survival strategy born out of difficult life events or past trauma. It leaves you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, and constantly on edge. I offer a gentle, supportive environment where we can untangle your situation together. We will work collaboratively to heal those deeper wounds, quiet your nervous system, and help you rebuild a life that actually feels like your own. You don’t need fixing, just room to remember who you are.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic psychotherapist, with extended experience of working with adults with long standing and complex mental health problems within and outside the NHS. Life is challenging and can lead to periods of intense or prolonged distress. Our usual ways of coping may no longer seem to be helping or may become a problem in themselves. This can lead to anxiety, sadness, anger, feeling stuck, isolated and confused. Our relationships are often affected. Meeting with a trusted, experienced therapist, to explore and understand your feelings, whilst painful, can lead to huge relief and greater freedom.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and Psychodynamic psychotherapist, with extended experience of working with adults with long standing and complex mental health problems within and outside the NHS. Life is challenging and can lead to periods of intense or prolonged distress. Our usual ways of coping may no longer seem to be helping or may become a problem in themselves. This can lead to anxiety, sadness, anger, feeling stuck, isolated and confused. Our relationships are often affected. Meeting with a trusted, experienced therapist, to explore and understand your feelings, whilst painful, can lead to huge relief and greater freedom.
You might look as though you are coping well on the outside, yet privately feel overwhelmed, self-critical, or stuck in patterns that keep repeating. Perhaps you overthink conversations long after they have ended, question whether you are too much or not enough, or find yourself working hard to keep others happy while neglecting your own needs. You may appear capable and successful, yet struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or relationship patterns that leave you feeling unseen or misunderstood. Together, we can begin to understand how these relationship patterns originally formed and how you can start to respond differently.
You might look as though you are coping well on the outside, yet privately feel overwhelmed, self-critical, or stuck in patterns that keep repeating. Perhaps you overthink conversations long after they have ended, question whether you are too much or not enough, or find yourself working hard to keep others happy while neglecting your own needs. You may appear capable and successful, yet struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or relationship patterns that leave you feeling unseen or misunderstood. Together, we can begin to understand how these relationship patterns originally formed and how you can start to respond differently.
I work with adults from all walks of life who may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck or struggling to make sense of difficult emotions or life experiences. Many of the people I support are living with anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, work-related stress or major life changes. Some arrive knowing exactly what's troubling them, while others simply know that life doesn't feel quite right.
I offer a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace.
I work with adults from all walks of life who may be feeling overwhelmed, anxious, stuck or struggling to make sense of difficult emotions or life experiences. Many of the people I support are living with anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, work-related stress or major life changes. Some arrive knowing exactly what's troubling them, while others simply know that life doesn't feel quite right.
I offer a safe, compassionate and non-judgemental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace.
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Founder of Home of Healing.
For the ones who look “fine” on the outside but feel invisible on the inside.
Offering tailored therapy to individuals and couples. With an integrative approach, trauma-informed, attachment-rooted, and culturally aware. Together, we’ll explore the patterns, wounds, and beliefs that shape how you relate to yourself and others.
I provide reduced-fee and concession options for those who are eligible.
Founder of Home of Healing.
For the ones who look “fine” on the outside but feel invisible on the inside.
Offering tailored therapy to individuals and couples. With an integrative approach, trauma-informed, attachment-rooted, and culturally aware. Together, we’ll explore the patterns, wounds, and beliefs that shape how you relate to yourself and others.
I provide reduced-fee and concession options for those who are eligible.
All those seeking help are welcome, however, I have specialised in working with male and female survivors of domestic abuse.
Hello I am a person-centred therapist.
Does life feel stuck or just a little too rigid? Do you need help dealing with feelings of distress, maybe you are living with a mental health issue or struggling with low self-esteem and confidence. Is it time for change, to feel more positive, do you feel ready to become your authentic self?
During person-centred counselling clients can experience a journey of self-discovery and personal growth while reigniting trust and believe in themselves.
All those seeking help are welcome, however, I have specialised in working with male and female survivors of domestic abuse.
Hello I am a person-centred therapist.
Does life feel stuck or just a little too rigid? Do you need help dealing with feelings of distress, maybe you are living with a mental health issue or struggling with low self-esteem and confidence. Is it time for change, to feel more positive, do you feel ready to become your authentic self?
During person-centred counselling clients can experience a journey of self-discovery and personal growth while reigniting trust and believe in themselves.
Feeling overwhelmed and unsure how to choose a therapist? Maybe you are experiencing grief that is all consuming? At times it can be scary to feel so intensely so you need someone that can help you make sense and navigate your feelings and emotions? Or perhaps you are going through changes and transformation which leaves you feeling alone and lost in this new way of being? Looking for someone who can be a witness to who you are becoming? Are you the someone that struggles in relationships and always attracts the same kind of person? Do you need therapist that will show you how to build fulfilling relationship and end those patterns?
Feeling overwhelmed and unsure how to choose a therapist? Maybe you are experiencing grief that is all consuming? At times it can be scary to feel so intensely so you need someone that can help you make sense and navigate your feelings and emotions? Or perhaps you are going through changes and transformation which leaves you feeling alone and lost in this new way of being? Looking for someone who can be a witness to who you are becoming? Are you the someone that struggles in relationships and always attracts the same kind of person? Do you need therapist that will show you how to build fulfilling relationship and end those patterns?
Hi, I’m Aisha! Before I tell you a bit about me, I would just like to acknowledge the important step you have taken to find a counsellor. I’m aware it can be an anxious and daunting experience, that’s why it’s important to find the right counsellor for you. You may be going through a difficult time in your relationship, work life or struggling to explore your emotions; it’s important to explore what is going on for you. In order for us to grow, it’s important for us to express our emotions. And to feel validated for our emotions. Whether that’s to cry, laugh, scream or just sit in silence.
Hi, I’m Aisha! Before I tell you a bit about me, I would just like to acknowledge the important step you have taken to find a counsellor. I’m aware it can be an anxious and daunting experience, that’s why it’s important to find the right counsellor for you. You may be going through a difficult time in your relationship, work life or struggling to explore your emotions; it’s important to explore what is going on for you. In order for us to grow, it’s important for us to express our emotions. And to feel validated for our emotions. Whether that’s to cry, laugh, scream or just sit in silence.
There is hope even if your brain tells you there isn't, and it is my job as a counsellor to help you see it. It is usually buried somewhere under layers of shame, self-criticism and feeling not good enough. We will work together to help you feel a deeper sense of fulfilment and control over your life. With the right support and tools, you can overcome challenges and lead a more balanced and satisfying life, even if now it seems impossible.
There is hope even if your brain tells you there isn't, and it is my job as a counsellor to help you see it. It is usually buried somewhere under layers of shame, self-criticism and feeling not good enough. We will work together to help you feel a deeper sense of fulfilment and control over your life. With the right support and tools, you can overcome challenges and lead a more balanced and satisfying life, even if now it seems impossible.
I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for Survivors of Childhood Sexual abuse and Survivors of Domestic Abuse.
I offer Person Centred Therapy, working together to explore your life experiences through talking therapy. For the times that words don`t come easily or it`s a struggle to connect to your experience, I work intuitively to find creative materials or relaxation techniques to aid that connection.
I offer a safe, non-judgemental space for Survivors of Childhood Sexual abuse and Survivors of Domestic Abuse.
I offer Person Centred Therapy, working together to explore your life experiences through talking therapy. For the times that words don`t come easily or it`s a struggle to connect to your experience, I work intuitively to find creative materials or relaxation techniques to aid that connection.
I have also worked with clients who are survivors of sexual abuse, and domestic violence.
Hello, I'm Rebecca, a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I provide face-to-face, telephone, and online counselling for individuals and couples, alongside creative therapy for young people and professional supervision services.
Since qualifying in 2007, I have continued to develop my expertise through training in CBT, Transactional Analysis, Children's Mental Health, Relationship Counselling, and Clinical Supervision. I hold a BA (Hons) in Solution-Focused Counselling and am a registered member of NCPS and COSRT ethical bodies.
Whether you're struggling with relationship challenges, intimacy concerns, anxiety,
I have also worked with clients who are survivors of sexual abuse, and domestic violence.
Hello, I'm Rebecca, a qualified Relationship and Psychosexual Therapist. I provide face-to-face, telephone, and online counselling for individuals and couples, alongside creative therapy for young people and professional supervision services.
Since qualifying in 2007, I have continued to develop my expertise through training in CBT, Transactional Analysis, Children's Mental Health, Relationship Counselling, and Clinical Supervision. I hold a BA (Hons) in Solution-Focused Counselling and am a registered member of NCPS and COSRT ethical bodies.
Whether you're struggling with relationship challenges, intimacy concerns, anxiety,
Making the decision to start counselling and talk about the things that are troubling can be scary, however having a space to talk openly without judgement can be the beginning of your journey. I offer the opportunity and support for individuals from all walks of life to explore their struggles with the aim to develop an understanding of themselves and build confidence in their abilities and in who they are. Over 10 years I have supported men, women and children of different ages, cultural and social backgrounds through their own journey.
Making the decision to start counselling and talk about the things that are troubling can be scary, however having a space to talk openly without judgement can be the beginning of your journey. I offer the opportunity and support for individuals from all walks of life to explore their struggles with the aim to develop an understanding of themselves and build confidence in their abilities and in who they are. Over 10 years I have supported men, women and children of different ages, cultural and social backgrounds through their own journey.
Trauma — including narcissistic emotional abuse — can leave you feeling stuck in survival mode, as though you are existing rather than truly living.
As both a trauma therapist and a survivor of domestic abuse, I bring professional expertise alongside personal understanding. I support clients with trauma bonding, coercive control, emotional manipulation, and co-dependency, helping you understand how abuse affects your mind, body, nervous system, and relationships.
Trauma — including narcissistic emotional abuse — can leave you feeling stuck in survival mode, as though you are existing rather than truly living.
As both a trauma therapist and a survivor of domestic abuse, I bring professional expertise alongside personal understanding. I support clients with trauma bonding, coercive control, emotional manipulation, and co-dependency, helping you understand how abuse affects your mind, body, nervous system, and relationships.
You may be struggling to manage your worries, thoughts and feelings or behaviours, possibly as a result of a crisis such as a bereavement, loss of a job or difficulties in a relationship. You might feel you are lacking in confidence, that life is getting on top of you and you'd like someone to talk to...someone who will also support you to manage those difficult feelings and help you to find ways to feel better.
You may be struggling to manage your worries, thoughts and feelings or behaviours, possibly as a result of a crisis such as a bereavement, loss of a job or difficulties in a relationship. You might feel you are lacking in confidence, that life is getting on top of you and you'd like someone to talk to...someone who will also support you to manage those difficult feelings and help you to find ways to feel better.
Based in York city centre, I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor working with adults with a range of issues, including domestic abuse.
My particular area of experience is working with domestic abuse and sexual violence.
Having worked for a Specialist Sexual Violence and Domestic Abuse Counselling Service, Drug and Alcohol Recovery Service, General Counselling Organisations and Privately, my experience includes working with trauma, CPTSD, flashbacks, anxiety and self-harm.
Based in York city centre, I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor working with adults with a range of issues, including domestic abuse.
My particular area of experience is working with domestic abuse and sexual violence.
Having worked for a Specialist Sexual Violence and Domestic Abuse Counselling Service, Drug and Alcohol Recovery Service, General Counselling Organisations and Privately, my experience includes working with trauma, CPTSD, flashbacks, anxiety and self-harm.
I'm experienced in working with people recovering from domestic abuse and struggling with identity following major life changes, with considerable experience counselling parents and carers.
Putting into words how we feel can be daunting. We can find ourselves worrying that we won’t be understood, feeling safer to keep things bottled up. Therapy can be an opportunity to help find the words, confront beliefs we hold about ourselves or our experiences, and explore new ways we want to live our lives. Often narratives embed themselves in our relational patterns with others. You may feel like you’re never good enough, like you can never let your guard down or are longing for real connection but feeling unseen in relationships. Carrying these beliefs around alone can be incredibly isolating and can leave us feeling lost.
I'm experienced in working with people recovering from domestic abuse and struggling with identity following major life changes, with considerable experience counselling parents and carers.
Putting into words how we feel can be daunting. We can find ourselves worrying that we won’t be understood, feeling safer to keep things bottled up. Therapy can be an opportunity to help find the words, confront beliefs we hold about ourselves or our experiences, and explore new ways we want to live our lives. Often narratives embed themselves in our relational patterns with others. You may feel like you’re never good enough, like you can never let your guard down or are longing for real connection but feeling unseen in relationships. Carrying these beliefs around alone can be incredibly isolating and can leave us feeling lost.
Within a homely, confidential space, we journey together exploring your past experiences and how they affect your life today.
Childhood issues, traumatic incidents and toxic relationships can cause spiralling thoughts, anxiety, mood swings, flashbacks, and overwhelming body sensations. It can seem like you have no control. As we work together, we gain awareness and understanding of why you are reacting the way you do. By developing self-compassion and strategies, you can take control, connect and process emotions without getting overwhelmed and deal with your past. Responding to yourself and others in ways you choose.
Within a homely, confidential space, we journey together exploring your past experiences and how they affect your life today.
Childhood issues, traumatic incidents and toxic relationships can cause spiralling thoughts, anxiety, mood swings, flashbacks, and overwhelming body sensations. It can seem like you have no control. As we work together, we gain awareness and understanding of why you are reacting the way you do. By developing self-compassion and strategies, you can take control, connect and process emotions without getting overwhelmed and deal with your past. Responding to yourself and others in ways you choose.
I have worked for several years with survivors of domestic abuse and coercive control, offering support to young people, women, men and families.
Are your thoughts, feelings, or past experiences starting to weigh on you? You might be feeling ready for something to shift. Sometimes, the ways we’ve learned to cope can begin to hold us back from living the life we want.
I have worked for several years with survivors of domestic abuse and coercive control, offering support to young people, women, men and families.
Are your thoughts, feelings, or past experiences starting to weigh on you? You might be feeling ready for something to shift. Sometimes, the ways we’ve learned to cope can begin to hold us back from living the life we want.
Are you feeling stuck, unheard, unworthy? Are you living your best life, or is something holding you back? Life is challenging at times. Many things can trigger our internal critic, making us believe we are 'less than’ or are failing. We dwell in the past, worrying about mistakes, reliving painful events, remembering unhealthy relationships. It can feel impossible to see a way forward. There are many human emotions - are yours feeling balanced, or are one or two overwhelming the others?
Are you feeling stuck, unheard, unworthy? Are you living your best life, or is something holding you back? Life is challenging at times. Many things can trigger our internal critic, making us believe we are 'less than’ or are failing. We dwell in the past, worrying about mistakes, reliving painful events, remembering unhealthy relationships. It can feel impossible to see a way forward. There are many human emotions - are yours feeling balanced, or are one or two overwhelming the others?
I work online and face-to-face with adults who want to see change in their lives. People who want to feel more like themselves but find that life is getting in the way. I also work with people who have experienced difficult or unsettling changes in their lives, such as traumatic events or loss in the form of bereavement, the loss of a relationship, the loss of a way of life. I work with individuals who are trying to find solutions in their own minds for situations, feelings and behaviours that play out in their lives through their own and other people’s actions.
I work online and face-to-face with adults who want to see change in their lives. People who want to feel more like themselves but find that life is getting in the way. I also work with people who have experienced difficult or unsettling changes in their lives, such as traumatic events or loss in the form of bereavement, the loss of a relationship, the loss of a way of life. I work with individuals who are trying to find solutions in their own minds for situations, feelings and behaviours that play out in their lives through their own and other people’s actions.
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What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.
When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.
What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.
How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.