Female Counselling in Ashford

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Autism Assessment Centre
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN25
The Autism Assessment Centre is run by a small, friendly and compassionate team. As the mother of a neurodivergent child, our lead clinician Dr Faye Millner, draws from her personal journey and intimately understands the emotions and challenges families face during the assessment and diagnostic process. This insight has strongly influenced her professional practice. Our commitment is to provide a service that prioritises transparency and emotional support right from the outset. This approach not only eases the journey for all involved but also lays the foundation for a comprehensive and accurate diagnostic report.
The Autism Assessment Centre is run by a small, friendly and compassionate team. As the mother of a neurodivergent child, our lead clinician Dr Faye Millner, draws from her personal journey and intimately understands the emotions and challenges families face during the assessment and diagnostic process. This insight has strongly influenced her professional practice. Our commitment is to provide a service that prioritises transparency and emotional support right from the outset. This approach not only eases the journey for all involved but also lays the foundation for a comprehensive and accurate diagnostic report.
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Michelle Cage
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN26
I understand how daunting it can feel to take the first step. You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or alone with your thoughts and not quite sure of where to turn. I’m a fully qualified, BACP registered person-centred counsellor offering a warm, approachable and compassionate space to explore what matters to you. I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma and relationship issues whether romantic, family or professional. I’m also a certified psychosexual counsellor, enabling me to work comfortably with sexual issues or concerns within our work.
I understand how daunting it can feel to take the first step. You may be feeling anxious, low, overwhelmed or alone with your thoughts and not quite sure of where to turn. I’m a fully qualified, BACP registered person-centred counsellor offering a warm, approachable and compassionate space to explore what matters to you. I work with a range of issues including anxiety, depression, self-esteem, trauma and relationship issues whether romantic, family or professional. I’m also a certified psychosexual counsellor, enabling me to work comfortably with sexual issues or concerns within our work.
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J L Hardy Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TN23
I want to offer you a safe and supportive space. I know what it is like not to be understood or to have feelings and thoughts that are too difficult to voice. I will help you to explore your true feelings and together we will find choices specific to you that lead to positive change. If you are dealing with an overwhelming situation, feeling stuck or battling negative emotions, we can work together to help you find a way forward. You will find yourself having the space and quiet to slow things down and I will be alongside you supporting you.
I want to offer you a safe and supportive space. I know what it is like not to be understood or to have feelings and thoughts that are too difficult to voice. I will help you to explore your true feelings and together we will find choices specific to you that lead to positive change. If you are dealing with an overwhelming situation, feeling stuck or battling negative emotions, we can work together to help you find a way forward. You will find yourself having the space and quiet to slow things down and I will be alongside you supporting you.
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Zoe Parker
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TN26
As a Psychodynamic counsellor, I work with clients to overcome issues in the here and now, as well as exploring the impact of childhood and past experiences on current behaviours. I help my clients to understand why they are the way they are, as well as providing them with the tools and support to heal and move forward – working towards self-acceptance and the realisation of their unique and valued place in this world. My personal experience has taught me that sadly few of us will escape the pain and challenges that life throws at us. It has also taught me that we don’t have to go it alone.
As a Psychodynamic counsellor, I work with clients to overcome issues in the here and now, as well as exploring the impact of childhood and past experiences on current behaviours. I help my clients to understand why they are the way they are, as well as providing them with the tools and support to heal and move forward – working towards self-acceptance and the realisation of their unique and valued place in this world. My personal experience has taught me that sadly few of us will escape the pain and challenges that life throws at us. It has also taught me that we don’t have to go it alone.
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Sarah Clark
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Ashford TN23
Welcome! I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor and Relationship Therapist, working with individuals, couples and families. Whether you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, navigating family challenges or facing a major life change, you don’t have to do this alone. I offer a calm, confidential space where you can speak openly and be heard without judgment.
Welcome! I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor and Relationship Therapist, working with individuals, couples and families. Whether you’re feeling disconnected in your relationship, navigating family challenges or facing a major life change, you don’t have to do this alone. I offer a calm, confidential space where you can speak openly and be heard without judgment.
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Lumina Counselling Kent
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Ashford TN26
Have you tried traditional counselling but felt that something was missing, that you didn’t experience the depth of change or healing you were hoping for? Alongside counselling, I’m able to integrate energy-based practices such as Reiki if you choose, supporting the release of emotional trauma held within the body. My clients shared this way of working has reached parts of themselves that traditional therapy never could, allowing them to experience deeper, long-lasting change and healing. If traditional therapy has failed you, why not give it a try...
Have you tried traditional counselling but felt that something was missing, that you didn’t experience the depth of change or healing you were hoping for? Alongside counselling, I’m able to integrate energy-based practices such as Reiki if you choose, supporting the release of emotional trauma held within the body. My clients shared this way of working has reached parts of themselves that traditional therapy never could, allowing them to experience deeper, long-lasting change and healing. If traditional therapy has failed you, why not give it a try...
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Ally Payne
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Ashford TN23
I am an experienced counsellor and counselling lecturer, who believes that everyone is unique and valuable and deserves to live a rich and fulfilling life. Challenges are a normal part of life's journey, but they can sometimes cause obstacles that prevent us from thriving. Therapy with me is a collaborative process where we explore what’s holding you back and work toward what matters most to you. Sessions are focused on present-moment awareness and curiosity, helping us uncover patterns, blocked emotions and develop tools for navigating life’s complexities. I offer individual and couples counselling to people of all ages.
I am an experienced counsellor and counselling lecturer, who believes that everyone is unique and valuable and deserves to live a rich and fulfilling life. Challenges are a normal part of life's journey, but they can sometimes cause obstacles that prevent us from thriving. Therapy with me is a collaborative process where we explore what’s holding you back and work toward what matters most to you. Sessions are focused on present-moment awareness and curiosity, helping us uncover patterns, blocked emotions and develop tools for navigating life’s complexities. I offer individual and couples counselling to people of all ages.
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Bukky Odeyemi
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Online Only
I’m an integrative psychotherapist offering online therapy shaped around your individual needs. Drawing on psychodynamic and solution-focused approaches, I support you in exploring both the deeper roots of emotional distress and the practical steps that can lead to lasting change. Together, we co-create a compassionate, non-judgemental therapeutic space one that helps you recognise emotional and behavioural patterns, build emotional resilience, and strengthen your long-term mental health and wellbeing. My aim is to empower you to make healthier life choices, develop effective coping strategies, and experience genuine transformation.
I’m an integrative psychotherapist offering online therapy shaped around your individual needs. Drawing on psychodynamic and solution-focused approaches, I support you in exploring both the deeper roots of emotional distress and the practical steps that can lead to lasting change. Together, we co-create a compassionate, non-judgemental therapeutic space one that helps you recognise emotional and behavioural patterns, build emotional resilience, and strengthen your long-term mental health and wellbeing. My aim is to empower you to make healthier life choices, develop effective coping strategies, and experience genuine transformation.
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Lucy Lapish
Counsellor, MA, BACP
2 Endorsed
Ashford TN24
Hi, I’m Lucy. I’m an integrative counsellor based in Kent, experienced in a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, PTSD, depression, childhood trauma and abuse. Seeking therapy can be daunting so the fact that you’re here is testament to your resilience and strength. If you’re willing to establish an initial connection then I will walk with you in this journey as we create a safe, professional and supportive environment in which you are at the centre.
Hi, I’m Lucy. I’m an integrative counsellor based in Kent, experienced in a variety of difficulties such as anxiety, PTSD, depression, childhood trauma and abuse. Seeking therapy can be daunting so the fact that you’re here is testament to your resilience and strength. If you’re willing to establish an initial connection then I will walk with you in this journey as we create a safe, professional and supportive environment in which you are at the centre.
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Emma Higgins
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN24
Taking the first step into counselling can often feel daunting as you navigate the unknown. I believe that establishing an initial connection is the most important step in this journey. For meaningful work to begin, it’s essential that we create a supportive foundation together. I offer a safe and professional environment that encourages curiosity and fosters self-discovery. I will walk alongside you in a non-judgmental and honest manner as we explore the deeper meanings of life together. While I won’t provide direct advice, I will offer encouragement and support as you navigate your unique path of growth.
Taking the first step into counselling can often feel daunting as you navigate the unknown. I believe that establishing an initial connection is the most important step in this journey. For meaningful work to begin, it’s essential that we create a supportive foundation together. I offer a safe and professional environment that encourages curiosity and fosters self-discovery. I will walk alongside you in a non-judgmental and honest manner as we explore the deeper meanings of life together. While I won’t provide direct advice, I will offer encouragement and support as you navigate your unique path of growth.
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Shannon Chester
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Ashford TN24
I am a clinically trained psychoanalytic and psychodynamic psychotherapist with over 15 years experience working in mental health services with both adults and adolescents. Most recently I have worked in NHS services with both individuals and groups. I strive to offer a personalised and relational approach to psychotherapy, enabling you to work at your own pace, within a safe and secure therapeutic alliance with me. Initially I aim to take the time to hear you, so that we can understand together how to think about your problems and what may be causing them, and consider what inner work is required to help you to reduce distress.
I am a clinically trained psychoanalytic and psychodynamic psychotherapist with over 15 years experience working in mental health services with both adults and adolescents. Most recently I have worked in NHS services with both individuals and groups. I strive to offer a personalised and relational approach to psychotherapy, enabling you to work at your own pace, within a safe and secure therapeutic alliance with me. Initially I aim to take the time to hear you, so that we can understand together how to think about your problems and what may be causing them, and consider what inner work is required to help you to reduce distress.
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Denise Palmer
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN23
Hello! I’m Denise Palmer, a dedicated Clinical Hypnotherapist with Psychotherapeutic training and a passion for empowering individuals to overcome their challenges and achieve their fullest potential. My journey into the world of hypnotherapy and psychotherapy began with a profound interest in the mind-body connection and a desire to help people lead happier, healthier lives. As a certified CNHC & NSTT clinical Hypnotherapist and trainee member of UKCP I have extensive additional psychotherapeutic training.
Hello! I’m Denise Palmer, a dedicated Clinical Hypnotherapist with Psychotherapeutic training and a passion for empowering individuals to overcome their challenges and achieve their fullest potential. My journey into the world of hypnotherapy and psychotherapy began with a profound interest in the mind-body connection and a desire to help people lead happier, healthier lives. As a certified CNHC & NSTT clinical Hypnotherapist and trainee member of UKCP I have extensive additional psychotherapeutic training.
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Ruth Slaney
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
3 Endorsed
Ashford TN24
Hello, I’m Roo. Thank you for taking the time to check my profile. I really do appreciate the importance of finding the right therapist for you to work alongside. Entering into therapy isn’t something that should be done lightly. If you choose to work with me, I’ll bring over 31 years experience in mental health. I am privileged to have worked with many individuals and families during my 31 years and I remain as passionate today as that first day in supporting people to better mental health. I can help you move towards your goals by providing the skills, containment & support so you can ultimately become your own therapist.
Hello, I’m Roo. Thank you for taking the time to check my profile. I really do appreciate the importance of finding the right therapist for you to work alongside. Entering into therapy isn’t something that should be done lightly. If you choose to work with me, I’ll bring over 31 years experience in mental health. I am privileged to have worked with many individuals and families during my 31 years and I remain as passionate today as that first day in supporting people to better mental health. I can help you move towards your goals by providing the skills, containment & support so you can ultimately become your own therapist.
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Hannah Kendell
Psychotherapist, MA, ACC-AC
Ashford TN23
Deep breath. You've got this. At least that's what you've been telling yourself. But actually, its really exhausting and getting quite heavy. Feeling stuck. Maybe a little fragile. That's okay. Come as you are. Whether its the ins and outs of daily life that are burdening you, big events in the past or present bothering you, or you want the opportunity to grow and develop as a person, you've come to the right place. As a therapist I work with you to achieve your goals. I integrate different methods from a range of modalities to make sure we are working together in a way that best suits you, making sure to create a safe space.
Deep breath. You've got this. At least that's what you've been telling yourself. But actually, its really exhausting and getting quite heavy. Feeling stuck. Maybe a little fragile. That's okay. Come as you are. Whether its the ins and outs of daily life that are burdening you, big events in the past or present bothering you, or you want the opportunity to grow and develop as a person, you've come to the right place. As a therapist I work with you to achieve your goals. I integrate different methods from a range of modalities to make sure we are working together in a way that best suits you, making sure to create a safe space.
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Dinah Butler
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Snr. Accred
Online Only
Many experiences bring you to therapy: a crisis, bereavement, relationship issues, an absence of something, anxiety or depression getting in the way, childhood experiences, abuse and trauma. Starting therapy is an important step. It is an opportunity to tackle your immediate concerns but also to understand them in the context of your life in general. It provides a space to creatively shape your life but also take your pain and struggle seriously. Therapy provides an opportunity to strengthen a sense of your own identity and worth and to experiment with how to take that into your relationships, career and life in general.
Many experiences bring you to therapy: a crisis, bereavement, relationship issues, an absence of something, anxiety or depression getting in the way, childhood experiences, abuse and trauma. Starting therapy is an important step. It is an opportunity to tackle your immediate concerns but also to understand them in the context of your life in general. It provides a space to creatively shape your life but also take your pain and struggle seriously. Therapy provides an opportunity to strengthen a sense of your own identity and worth and to experiment with how to take that into your relationships, career and life in general.
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Ashford Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Ashford TN23
If you are an individual or part of a couple that have issues around your relationship, or sexual relationship then please do get in contact. Perhaps your relationship is currently in crisis and nothing has changed, or perhaps you want to seek some help now before it gets any worse. It isn't always easy to sort these matters out by yourself and Couples Therapy can help you get your relationship back on track. I also specialise in sexual issues and compulsive sexual behaviour, which can also negatively affect your relationship, and I can help you to identify what these issues are and work towards helping you change this.
If you are an individual or part of a couple that have issues around your relationship, or sexual relationship then please do get in contact. Perhaps your relationship is currently in crisis and nothing has changed, or perhaps you want to seek some help now before it gets any worse. It isn't always easy to sort these matters out by yourself and Couples Therapy can help you get your relationship back on track. I also specialise in sexual issues and compulsive sexual behaviour, which can also negatively affect your relationship, and I can help you to identify what these issues are and work towards helping you change this.
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Beth Lindsay West
Counsellor, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Ashford TN23
I am a qualified CBT therapist. My approach is both adaptive and solution orientated and works best for people who want to change how they are feeling, thinking and behaving. I can help you manage distressing emotions by changing your unhealthy thought patterns and replacing any unhelpful, destructive and self-sabotaging behaviours you may have developed with healthy, helpful practices. My approach is to help you develop a deeper understanding of who you are and why you do the things you do. I will help you develop a sense of self-respect and recognise you are stronger than you think.
I am a qualified CBT therapist. My approach is both adaptive and solution orientated and works best for people who want to change how they are feeling, thinking and behaving. I can help you manage distressing emotions by changing your unhealthy thought patterns and replacing any unhelpful, destructive and self-sabotaging behaviours you may have developed with healthy, helpful practices. My approach is to help you develop a deeper understanding of who you are and why you do the things you do. I will help you develop a sense of self-respect and recognise you are stronger than you think.
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Hannah Louise Robinson
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Ashford TW15
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or just need someone to talk to, I’m here to support you. I offer one-to-one therapy for adults in a safe, calm, and non-judgemental space where you can come as you are. My approach is person-centred and trauma-informed, which means I’ll meet you with compassion, respect, and at a pace that feels right for you. You might be navigating anxiety, depression, OCD, or neurodivergence or simply trying to make sense of difficult experiences or emotions. I’m experienced in working with people facing a range of challenges, including trauma, low self-esteem, and big life changes.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or just need someone to talk to, I’m here to support you. I offer one-to-one therapy for adults in a safe, calm, and non-judgemental space where you can come as you are. My approach is person-centred and trauma-informed, which means I’ll meet you with compassion, respect, and at a pace that feels right for you. You might be navigating anxiety, depression, OCD, or neurodivergence or simply trying to make sense of difficult experiences or emotions. I’m experienced in working with people facing a range of challenges, including trauma, low self-esteem, and big life changes.
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Breeze Counselling
Counsellor, BACP
Ashford TN23
Phone appointments now available. Hello, I'm Lena and I want to help you feel better. I strive to see all new clients within 48 hours so please call - let's start to make you feel more like you. Trying to find the right counsellor for you can be a daunting prospect and seeking help is hard. We all experience challenging periods in life and I would like to help you find your way through. If you are finding it difficult to cope and you are looking for more peace in yourself, I am genuinely looking forward to helping you find the right answers for you. They are there, some times we just need help finding them.
Phone appointments now available. Hello, I'm Lena and I want to help you feel better. I strive to see all new clients within 48 hours so please call - let's start to make you feel more like you. Trying to find the right counsellor for you can be a daunting prospect and seeking help is hard. We all experience challenging periods in life and I would like to help you find your way through. If you are finding it difficult to cope and you are looking for more peace in yourself, I am genuinely looking forward to helping you find the right answers for you. They are there, some times we just need help finding them.
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Jacqueline Jones
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TN25
My name is Jacqueline and I qualified as a counsellor in 2008. I have since worked with a wide variety of issues such as bereavement, anxiety, low self worth, lack of confidence, addiction, relational issues such as couples, autism, understanding self concept, shyness and much more. I believe that the professional working relationship between the counsellor and client is of fundamental importance as it provides opportunities in which change can occur. For that reason I provide a free assessment of your needs. Also meeting myself prior to engaging in any counseling will help you to decide if I would be the right counsellor for you.
My name is Jacqueline and I qualified as a counsellor in 2008. I have since worked with a wide variety of issues such as bereavement, anxiety, low self worth, lack of confidence, addiction, relational issues such as couples, autism, understanding self concept, shyness and much more. I believe that the professional working relationship between the counsellor and client is of fundamental importance as it provides opportunities in which change can occur. For that reason I provide a free assessment of your needs. Also meeting myself prior to engaging in any counseling will help you to decide if I would be the right counsellor for you.
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Female Counsellors

Does it matter what gender my therapist is?

In general, there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or because they feel more comfortable with a therapist of their own gender due to shared life experiences or perspectives. Considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether their therapist’s gender may matter or improve their therapeutic experience. The most important consideration is that a client is able to build a trusting relationship with their therapist.

Should I see a female therapist?

Many people—not just women—prefer to see a female therapist. For women, this could be because they believe that they will be able to better connect with a woman, and that a female therapist will be able to relate to their specific challenges and personal issues. It may be particularly beneficial for women to see a female therapist, for example, for gender-specific issues, such as sexism in the workplace, relationship issues, and gender roles. The most important factor in therapy is the client-therapist connection, and a therapist's gender as well as many other factors may play an important role in this.

Do therapists get specific training to help with women’s concerns?

Therapists are trained to provide care to clients of any gender. However, some therapists may pursue additional training in feminist therapy, gender-specific issues, or women’s mental health. Female clients may wish to ask prospective therapists whether they have received specific training in the client’s primary area(s) of concern, or whether they have worked extensively with women on issues similar to their own.

How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience in treating women?

It’s OK—even encouraged!—to ask a therapist directly whether and how often they have treated women in the past, or whether they have treated women dealing with the client’s most prominent concern(s). Competent therapists will be happy to share their educational background, preferred treatment modalities, and prior client experience to help an individual find the therapist best suited to their needs.