Parenting Counselling in Ashford (Surrey)

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Aman O’Connor
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Sometimes life calls for a place to slow down, speak freely, and feel met without judgement. You may be feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally stuck—carrying experiences from earlier in life that continue to shape how you feel, think, or relate to others. You might notice patterns repeating, struggle with anxiety or low mood, or find it difficult to understand or express what you’re feeling. You don’t need all the answers—just a sense that something within you needs space, care, and attention.
Sometimes life calls for a place to slow down, speak freely, and feel met without judgement. You may be feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally stuck—carrying experiences from earlier in life that continue to shape how you feel, think, or relate to others. You might notice patterns repeating, struggle with anxiety or low mood, or find it difficult to understand or express what you’re feeling. You don’t need all the answers—just a sense that something within you needs space, care, and attention.
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Amanda Brockwell
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
I have additionally trained in Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Level 1, helping parents and children.
The anticipated outcome from our therapeutic relationship would be for you to find healing and wholeness in the work we do together. My training and experience means nothing, unless the real me can reach out to the real you with genuine care, empathy and understanding. I am interested in being part of your journey, to help empower you to fully engage in what life has to offer rather than being trapped within pain, trauma or unhappiness which can be devouring. Through a gentle and trusting therapeutic relationship the true work begins as we engage with your true self. We unravel the root cause of emotional pain, anxieties or struggle
I have additionally trained in Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy Level 1, helping parents and children.
The anticipated outcome from our therapeutic relationship would be for you to find healing and wholeness in the work we do together. My training and experience means nothing, unless the real me can reach out to the real you with genuine care, empathy and understanding. I am interested in being part of your journey, to help empower you to fully engage in what life has to offer rather than being trapped within pain, trauma or unhappiness which can be devouring. Through a gentle and trusting therapeutic relationship the true work begins as we engage with your true self. We unravel the root cause of emotional pain, anxieties or struggle
020 8138 0853 View 020 8138 0853
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Lorraine Porter
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Life can be a tough journey sometimes and it can seem even worse when you feel that you are walking alone. I would like to share that journey with you. As an experienced integrative counsellor working with adults, children and young people I offer you or your child a safe, therapeutic space to work on the issues bothering you including grief and loss, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger and feeling sad. I work with warmth and empathy and from a non-judgemental approach enabling you to reflect on your feelings and the changes you may want to make within the context of a strong therapeutic relationship.
Life can be a tough journey sometimes and it can seem even worse when you feel that you are walking alone. I would like to share that journey with you. As an experienced integrative counsellor working with adults, children and young people I offer you or your child a safe, therapeutic space to work on the issues bothering you including grief and loss, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, anger and feeling sad. I work with warmth and empathy and from a non-judgemental approach enabling you to reflect on your feelings and the changes you may want to make within the context of a strong therapeutic relationship.
01932 502218 View 01932 502218
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Denise Harry
Counsellor, MBACP
Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed, anxious or uncertain? Do you feel unable to cope or have low self esteem? You may be facing new challenges and difficulties or perhaps you are stuck and don't know where to turn or what to do. Troubling times can leave us feeling hopeless, sad, and wondering what the point of it is. Therapy is a place for you to work through these things and find ways to feel better in yourself and hopeful for the future.
Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed, anxious or uncertain? Do you feel unable to cope or have low self esteem? You may be facing new challenges and difficulties or perhaps you are stuck and don't know where to turn or what to do. Troubling times can leave us feeling hopeless, sad, and wondering what the point of it is. Therapy is a place for you to work through these things and find ways to feel better in yourself and hopeful for the future.
01784 775853 View 01784 775853
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Dr Anowra Zahid Hussain Hcpc Registered
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a Psychologist trained in CBT, EMDR, CPT, DBT, working with children, youth, and women. As a Muslim woman, I believe an empathetic and non-judgemental attitude is the key where a client exploring his/her inner world to make a positive change. I am flexible in my approach working with my clients with a positive attitude. Small goals can lead to bigger goals. I help my clients set up the right goals for themselves. change can begin from inside as well as outside. I work with my clients to make them aware of their potential and strengths
I am a Psychologist trained in CBT, EMDR, CPT, DBT, working with children, youth, and women. As a Muslim woman, I believe an empathetic and non-judgemental attitude is the key where a client exploring his/her inner world to make a positive change. I am flexible in my approach working with my clients with a positive attitude. Small goals can lead to bigger goals. I help my clients set up the right goals for themselves. change can begin from inside as well as outside. I work with my clients to make them aware of their potential and strengths
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Amy Fitzwater
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Counselling can be an opportunity to focus on yourself and bring change to your current situation. Therapy is a leap of faith that can result in growth and self-awareness. Times can be difficult, and navigating yourself through this can be the biggest challenge of all, but together, we can bring "You" into focus to work on what may be causing difficulties in your life. I work in a way that allows us to explore the initial issues and find further understanding of what is causing these under the surface.
Counselling can be an opportunity to focus on yourself and bring change to your current situation. Therapy is a leap of faith that can result in growth and self-awareness. Times can be difficult, and navigating yourself through this can be the biggest challenge of all, but together, we can bring "You" into focus to work on what may be causing difficulties in your life. I work in a way that allows us to explore the initial issues and find further understanding of what is causing these under the surface.
020 3893 8721 View 020 3893 8721
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Clare Francis
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Serves Area
I have worked as a relationship therapist for over 15 years and I offer insights and can help you find coping strategies. I work with individuals, couples, young people and families. The issues that I work with include anxiety, separation/divorce, putting your relationship back together, escalating rows, communication to name but a few. I am a professionally qualified and experienced therapist with a private practise in Staines and work with a large number of my clients online, including clients in both at home and abroad. I have a Master of Arts degree in Relationship and Family Therapy.
I have worked as a relationship therapist for over 15 years and I offer insights and can help you find coping strategies. I work with individuals, couples, young people and families. The issues that I work with include anxiety, separation/divorce, putting your relationship back together, escalating rows, communication to name but a few. I am a professionally qualified and experienced therapist with a private practise in Staines and work with a large number of my clients online, including clients in both at home and abroad. I have a Master of Arts degree in Relationship and Family Therapy.
01372 677024 View 01372 677024

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Caroline's Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
It can be difficult to talk about what is worrying you, and you might not even be able to explain all of your feelings. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental and empathetic space for you to explore thoughts, feelings and emotions that make you unique. I believe that you will have your own solutions, so I do not offer advice but will work with you for you to gain an insight into yourself, increasing self-awareness, developing greater inner strength and furthering personal growth and development. This, in turn, supports with anxiety, depression and other issues.
It can be difficult to talk about what is worrying you, and you might not even be able to explain all of your feelings. I provide a safe, confidential, non-judgemental and empathetic space for you to explore thoughts, feelings and emotions that make you unique. I believe that you will have your own solutions, so I do not offer advice but will work with you for you to gain an insight into yourself, increasing self-awareness, developing greater inner strength and furthering personal growth and development. This, in turn, supports with anxiety, depression and other issues.
07588 740425 View 07588 740425
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Zakera Pirbhai
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have helped clients adults and children with anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, grief counselling, feelings of depression, parent child conflict.
I understand that reaching out for support can evoke much anxiety. I am here to work at your pace and with your agenda in a non judgemental space. I have learned that our reaction to challenges in our adult lives can often be related to our childhood experiences. Within our partnership we will be able to work through childhood trauma, attachment and how they may impact on your current mental health. I offer a holistic approach which allows clients to bring every aspect of themselves, creating a heart to heart connection. With children and Adolescence I work to support and understand their experiences and stages of development.
I have helped clients adults and children with anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, grief counselling, feelings of depression, parent child conflict.
I understand that reaching out for support can evoke much anxiety. I am here to work at your pace and with your agenda in a non judgemental space. I have learned that our reaction to challenges in our adult lives can often be related to our childhood experiences. Within our partnership we will be able to work through childhood trauma, attachment and how they may impact on your current mental health. I offer a holistic approach which allows clients to bring every aspect of themselves, creating a heart to heart connection. With children and Adolescence I work to support and understand their experiences and stages of development.
020 3835 4703 View 020 3835 4703
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Dr Tej .
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
London WC1B
Clients she has worked with report these difficulties in the context of bullying at work, couple /marital/relationship difficulties and attachment/ parenting and birth trauma/difficulties.
I have expertise in using attachment focused approaches in all my work and through collaborative alliance, my clients report rapid recovery from linking past to present; becoming active authors of a new and possible future. I am trained in Mentalisation Based Therapy, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Neuropsychology, Schema Focussed Therapy, DBT, ACT and EMDR.
Clients she has worked with report these difficulties in the context of bullying at work, couple /marital/relationship difficulties and attachment/ parenting and birth trauma/difficulties.
I have expertise in using attachment focused approaches in all my work and through collaborative alliance, my clients report rapid recovery from linking past to present; becoming active authors of a new and possible future. I am trained in Mentalisation Based Therapy, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Neuropsychology, Schema Focussed Therapy, DBT, ACT and EMDR.
020 3870 3028 View 020 3870 3028
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Lara Myall
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London NW3
I'm a warm, intuitive and integrative therapist with 10 years of experience supporting adults and young adults through family issues, relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem. My approach is trauma-informed, compassionate and tailored to your needs. Therapy with me is a bespoke collaboration of therapeutic conversation and non-judgemental exploration of your pain, pleasure and everything in between in a welcoming, confidential and all-embracing space.
I'm a warm, intuitive and integrative therapist with 10 years of experience supporting adults and young adults through family issues, relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression and low self-esteem. My approach is trauma-informed, compassionate and tailored to your needs. Therapy with me is a bespoke collaboration of therapeutic conversation and non-judgemental exploration of your pain, pleasure and everything in between in a welcoming, confidential and all-embracing space.
020 4538 1268 View 020 4538 1268
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Dr Catriona Amberton
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Hertford SG14
Waitlist for new clients
I have extensive experience and knowledge across the lifespan but primarily work with children, adolescents, parents and families.
Sometimes clients have found gaining a new perspective on their situation is enough to instigate change to their lives and other people prefer to work slowly on specific areas. Together we can discuss what you want to change about your situation and create with some achievable goals. I also provide diagnostic assessments for ADHD and Autism.
I have extensive experience and knowledge across the lifespan but primarily work with children, adolescents, parents and families.
Sometimes clients have found gaining a new perspective on their situation is enough to instigate change to their lives and other people prefer to work slowly on specific areas. Together we can discuss what you want to change about your situation and create with some achievable goals. I also provide diagnostic assessments for ADHD and Autism.
01707 244841 View 01707 244841
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Sarah Jones
Psychotherapist, BPC
London N8
With all you are feeling and facing right now I invite you to explore this in an environment created with care, experience and a focus on healing. Together in a safe, confidential, non-judgmental, listening space; reflection and understanding lead to greater choice and the potential for change. Whether you have been suffering for many years; have had a recent crisis, bereavement or loss; or are managing new stages in your life, we can work together in a supportive and meaningful way. I provide once-weekly psychotherapy and bring to it a range of experience from over 20 years in this field.
With all you are feeling and facing right now I invite you to explore this in an environment created with care, experience and a focus on healing. Together in a safe, confidential, non-judgmental, listening space; reflection and understanding lead to greater choice and the potential for change. Whether you have been suffering for many years; have had a recent crisis, bereavement or loss; or are managing new stages in your life, we can work together in a supportive and meaningful way. I provide once-weekly psychotherapy and bring to it a range of experience from over 20 years in this field.
020 3912 9789 View 020 3912 9789
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Pieter Willem Nel
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
In the 30 years since qualifying as a Clinical Psychologist, I have worked with people in both physical and mental health services I have substantial experience in helping and supporting children, young people, parents, adults, couples, families who are experiencing difficulties in life.
I provide psychological therapy for people who try to deal and cope with a wide range of difficulties and challenges, including: • Unhappiness, loneliness, and grief •Fears and anxieties • Relationship problems • Parents having problems managing their children or feeling that their own difficulties are affecting their children •Traumatic experiences • Stress
In the 30 years since qualifying as a Clinical Psychologist, I have worked with people in both physical and mental health services I have substantial experience in helping and supporting children, young people, parents, adults, couples, families who are experiencing difficulties in life.
I provide psychological therapy for people who try to deal and cope with a wide range of difficulties and challenges, including: • Unhappiness, loneliness, and grief •Fears and anxieties • Relationship problems • Parents having problems managing their children or feeling that their own difficulties are affecting their children •Traumatic experiences • Stress
01727 649787 View 01727 649787
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Louise Gulley
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
I work with RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES. So, whether you're: a mother struggling in your relationship with your child or motherhood itself; a couple in crisis; experiencing recurring relationship problems; or still searching for that elusive romantic relationship I’m keen to work with you. I work with both individuals and couples; and I can discuss with you which one of these may be the best fit for you. I find that by exploring your personal history we can often discover the root cause of your challenges so you can begin to enjoy intimacy and connection.
01883 776035 View 01883 776035
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Dr Kristina Todorova
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
I am a clinical psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I provide comprehensive psychological services to individuals and families, including assessment and therapy which enable clients to identify and work through mental health and relational difficulties. I am experienced in working with children and families, and am currently employed on a part-time basis within a Specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Team within the NHS.
I am a clinical psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I provide comprehensive psychological services to individuals and families, including assessment and therapy which enable clients to identify and work through mental health and relational difficulties. I am experienced in working with children and families, and am currently employed on a part-time basis within a Specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Team within the NHS.
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Nuala Carey
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Serves Area
Depression, anxiety, parenting, family conflict & relationships
Hello, I’m Nuala (Nu-la) — a UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist, Clinical Supervisor and Level 5 Counselling Tutor. I offer short, medium and long-term therapy for adults, students, and trainee therapists, both online and in person. My work is Person-Centred Experiential (PCE), relational and trauma-informed, creating a compassionate space where all parts of you are welcome. I bring warmth, curiosity and respect to each session, supporting clients to deepen self-understanding, improve relationships and move towards meaningful change.
Depression, anxiety, parenting, family conflict & relationships
Hello, I’m Nuala (Nu-la) — a UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist, Clinical Supervisor and Level 5 Counselling Tutor. I offer short, medium and long-term therapy for adults, students, and trainee therapists, both online and in person. My work is Person-Centred Experiential (PCE), relational and trauma-informed, creating a compassionate space where all parts of you are welcome. I bring warmth, curiosity and respect to each session, supporting clients to deepen self-understanding, improve relationships and move towards meaningful change.
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Dr Rachel van Schaick
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am specialist in supporting children, adolescents, parents and families.
I draw heavily from attachment-based approaches, which means there is a focus on safety in close relationships. Often work with children will closely involve those caring for the child. I have various specialisms which include parent-infant work, pre-and-peri-natal, trauma, loss, transition, growth and recovery (at any age or stage).
I am specialist in supporting children, adolescents, parents and families.
I draw heavily from attachment-based approaches, which means there is a focus on safety in close relationships. Often work with children will closely involve those caring for the child. I have various specialisms which include parent-infant work, pre-and-peri-natal, trauma, loss, transition, growth and recovery (at any age or stage).
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Elodie De-Souza
Psychotherapist, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
London EC1N
Feeling overwhelmed in your relationships, parenting, or emotional wellbeing?
I help adults, children, and families with trauma, attachment, relationships, and parenting. Using an integrative approach such as psychodynamic, CBT, person-centred, and solution-focused. We explore past and present patterns, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and create new ways to cope and find solutions.
Feeling overwhelmed in your relationships, parenting, or emotional wellbeing?
I help adults, children, and families with trauma, attachment, relationships, and parenting. Using an integrative approach such as psychodynamic, CBT, person-centred, and solution-focused. We explore past and present patterns, challenge unhelpful thoughts, and create new ways to cope and find solutions.
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Debi Magonet
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
3 Endorsed
Perhaps becoming a parent has brought unexpected emotions to the surface.
I work with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and life transitions, with specialist experience in perinatal mental health. I offer both talking therapy and for those who find words limiting, art psychotherapy where no artistic skill needed. It's always your choice.
Perhaps becoming a parent has brought unexpected emotions to the surface.
I work with anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and life transitions, with specialist experience in perinatal mental health. I offer both talking therapy and for those who find words limiting, art psychotherapy where no artistic skill needed. It's always your choice.
01442 509736 View 01442 509736
Parenting Counsellors
What does therapy for parenting look like?
Therapists may work with parents individually, together, or include the whole family to find solutions for the problems a parent faces. Many parent-based therapies work on a parent’s relationship with their children, problem-solving within the family, and analysis of family dynamics. Therapy conducted remotely by video may be helpful in allowing a therapist to observe how families interact in their own homes.

When should a parent seek therapy?
When behavioral problems begin to disrupt the healthy functioning of a family, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If parents find that children are acting out in school, have started using drugs or alcohol, have developed eating disorders, or other similar red flags, a therapist may be able to help.

How long does therapy take for parenting problems?
Depending on the severity of a family’s challenges and the type of treatment utilized, therapy for parenting can last from weeks to months. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a pragmatic therapy type that can be brief, most often ranging from between 5 and 20 sessions. Structural family therapy, which inspects family dynamics, often takes several months. Parent-child interaction therapy is typically shorter-term, lasting between 10 and 20 sessions. For any therapy, the duration will depend on the progress made and results realized.

Can therapy help parents dealing with burnout or stress?
Parenting is difficult. Parents may dismiss or conceal feelings of exhaustion, overwhelm, or escape ideation—imagining withdrawing from their parental obligations altogether. but left unattended, these feelings can have negative effects on the whole family. A therapist can help parents work on the skills they might need to better cope with the burdens of parenting and help them be the best parents they can be.