Domestic Abuse Counselling in Ashford (Surrey)

Sarah Ghani
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
4 Endorsed
I work with a range of issues including anxiety, low mood, domestic issues, stress, memory problems, dementia and more complex and enduring problems.
I am trained to work in many different models and draw from a range of approaches. However I have learnt that working purely within one model rarely meets people's needs, so my approach is always flexible, tailored to best fit your needs. I also offer sessions to family and friends supporting those who may struggle to access therapy directly themselves.
I work with a range of issues including anxiety, low mood, domestic issues, stress, memory problems, dementia and more complex and enduring problems.
I am trained to work in many different models and draw from a range of approaches. However I have learnt that working purely within one model rarely meets people's needs, so my approach is always flexible, tailored to best fit your needs. I also offer sessions to family and friends supporting those who may struggle to access therapy directly themselves.
020 4538 8799 View 020 4538 8799
Amanda Brockwell
Counsellor, MBACP
The anticipated outcome from our therapeutic relationship would be for you to find healing and wholeness in the work we do together. My training and experience means nothing, unless the real me can reach out to the real you with genuine care, empathy and understanding. I am interested in being part of your journey, to help empower you to fully engage in what life has to offer rather than being trapped within pain, trauma or unhappiness which can be devouring. Through a gentle and trusting therapeutic relationship the true work begins as we engage with your true self. We unravel the root cause of emotional pain, anxieties or struggle
The anticipated outcome from our therapeutic relationship would be for you to find healing and wholeness in the work we do together. My training and experience means nothing, unless the real me can reach out to the real you with genuine care, empathy and understanding. I am interested in being part of your journey, to help empower you to fully engage in what life has to offer rather than being trapped within pain, trauma or unhappiness which can be devouring. Through a gentle and trusting therapeutic relationship the true work begins as we engage with your true self. We unravel the root cause of emotional pain, anxieties or struggle
020 8138 0853 View 020 8138 0853
Amy Fitzwater
Counsellor, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Counselling can be an opportunity to focus on yourself and bring change to your current situation. Therapy is a leap of faith that can result in growth and self-awareness. Times can be difficult, and navigating yourself through this can be the biggest challenge of all, but together, we can bring "You" into focus to work on what may be causing difficulties in your life. I work in a way that allows us to explore the initial issues and find further understanding of what is causing these under the surface.
Counselling can be an opportunity to focus on yourself and bring change to your current situation. Therapy is a leap of faith that can result in growth and self-awareness. Times can be difficult, and navigating yourself through this can be the biggest challenge of all, but together, we can bring "You" into focus to work on what may be causing difficulties in your life. I work in a way that allows us to explore the initial issues and find further understanding of what is causing these under the surface.
020 3893 8721 View 020 3893 8721

More Therapists Nearby

Valeria Bonfiglio
Psychologist, MSc, FMBPsS
London E17
I support clients who are dealing with trauma, the impact of abuse, and mood disorders such as anxiety and depression.
I work with people who are seeking change, healing, and clarity in their lives. You may be feeling anxious, navigating relationship challenges, or questioning your direction. Sometimes it can feel like you’re carrying too much on your own or repeating patterns that no longer serve you. Therapy with me offers a safe and supportive space to pause, reflect, and make sense of these experiences. With warmth and curiosity, I help you understand what feels overwhelming, reconnect with your own strengths, and take steps toward living with greater balance and authenticity.
I support clients who are dealing with trauma, the impact of abuse, and mood disorders such as anxiety and depression.
I work with people who are seeking change, healing, and clarity in their lives. You may be feeling anxious, navigating relationship challenges, or questioning your direction. Sometimes it can feel like you’re carrying too much on your own or repeating patterns that no longer serve you. Therapy with me offers a safe and supportive space to pause, reflect, and make sense of these experiences. With warmth and curiosity, I help you understand what feels overwhelming, reconnect with your own strengths, and take steps toward living with greater balance and authenticity.
020 4634 0330 View 020 4634 0330
Carrie Pollard
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
I am experienced working with trauma specifically domestic abuse, sexual abuse and adults who experienced childhood abuse.
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
I am experienced working with trauma specifically domestic abuse, sexual abuse and adults who experienced childhood abuse.
Hello and welcome. I'm Carrie. I wonder why now feels the right time for you to start your therapy? Does life feel heavy? Or relationships feel difficult? Perhaps you are finding you are experiencing anxiety in your day to day life. Or experiences from your past feel so difficult. Whatever has prompted you to make your way here today, rest assured I provide a non judgemental, confidential and safe space to explore emotions, relationships and life experiences. We can think about your past and present, creating a feeling of safety and processing the pain.
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Amanda Passmore
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
I've had personal experience of domestic and spiritual abuse and know how much it helped me to have counselling.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed and just don't know where to turn? Maybe you don't like yourself very much or feel that you don't have anything to offer. Would you like to be able to feel better about your decisions rather than always questioning yourself? Being able to talk to someone about how you're feeling can be a relief and can start to unlock what's going on inside to bring about change.
I've had personal experience of domestic and spiritual abuse and know how much it helped me to have counselling.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed and just don't know where to turn? Maybe you don't like yourself very much or feel that you don't have anything to offer. Would you like to be able to feel better about your decisions rather than always questioning yourself? Being able to talk to someone about how you're feeling can be a relief and can start to unlock what's going on inside to bring about change.
01491 527574 View 01491 527574
Trusted Therapy LTD
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London W1G
My name is Leanne and I am an Integrative therapist with a Person-Centred core, offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore anxiety, overthinking, trauma, grief, and relationship challenges. I draw on CBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, and Solution-Focused approaches to support adults, children, and young people. I also offer clinical supervision for trainee and qualified therapists. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or seeking deeper self-understanding, I’m here to help you move forward with compassion and clarity.
My name is Leanne and I am an Integrative therapist with a Person-Centred core, offering a warm, non-judgmental space to explore anxiety, overthinking, trauma, grief, and relationship challenges. I draw on CBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, and Solution-Focused approaches to support adults, children, and young people. I also offer clinical supervision for trainee and qualified therapists. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or seeking deeper self-understanding, I’m here to help you move forward with compassion and clarity.
01637 801067 View 01637 801067
Andy James
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Farnham GU9
Hi, I’m Andy, a counsellor and psychotherapist based in Farnham, Surrey. I offer both in-person sessions and online therapy for adults across the UK. I believe therapy is about understanding yourself more deeply and finding ways to live with greater clarity and self-awareness. Many people come to me feeling stuck, anxious, or uncertain about who they are or what they want. Together, we can make sense of the thoughts, emotions, and experiences that may be holding you back, so you can move forward with more confidence in your life.
Hi, I’m Andy, a counsellor and psychotherapist based in Farnham, Surrey. I offer both in-person sessions and online therapy for adults across the UK. I believe therapy is about understanding yourself more deeply and finding ways to live with greater clarity and self-awareness. Many people come to me feeling stuck, anxious, or uncertain about who they are or what they want. Together, we can make sense of the thoughts, emotions, and experiences that may be holding you back, so you can move forward with more confidence in your life.
07476 333182 View 07476 333182
Lucia Garcia
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I focus on helping clients become empowered through self-awareness. Sometimes we need assistance to discover hidden parts of ourselves. We may want guidance to work out the underlying causes of the issues we are struggling with and to understand the meaning we give to our life events. I will assist you in exploring the motives behind behaviours, unhelpful thought patterns, and overwhelming feelings. Who would you be without the thoughts that upset you? Who would you be if you could feel free from the emotions and situations that weigh you down?
I focus on helping clients become empowered through self-awareness. Sometimes we need assistance to discover hidden parts of ourselves. We may want guidance to work out the underlying causes of the issues we are struggling with and to understand the meaning we give to our life events. I will assist you in exploring the motives behind behaviours, unhelpful thought patterns, and overwhelming feelings. Who would you be without the thoughts that upset you? Who would you be if you could feel free from the emotions and situations that weigh you down?
020 3984 9811 View 020 3984 9811
Jana Bystrianska
Psychotherapist, MBACP
London N4
I am a BACP registered integrative psychotherapist, experienced in working with a variety of clients and issues. I offer a non-judgmental and confidential space where you can explore whatever might be troubling you. My approach is to bring warmth and compassion to my understanding of a range of different psychotherapeutic traditions. Living and practicing in London means that I work in a culturally informed way, taking into account all the diverse influences which form each of us as human beings. I have experience in working with relationship challenges and family struggles, childhood traumas, stress, anxiety, and depression, loss
I am a BACP registered integrative psychotherapist, experienced in working with a variety of clients and issues. I offer a non-judgmental and confidential space where you can explore whatever might be troubling you. My approach is to bring warmth and compassion to my understanding of a range of different psychotherapeutic traditions. Living and practicing in London means that I work in a culturally informed way, taking into account all the diverse influences which form each of us as human beings. I have experience in working with relationship challenges and family struggles, childhood traumas, stress, anxiety, and depression, loss
020 3835 5426 View 020 3835 5426
Elaheh Akbari
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London NW7
I specialise in supporting people facing trauma, domestic abuse, family conflict and couples difficulties.
Does your home feel tense or distant? Are you seeking guidance, support, and empowerment to navigate life's challenges and achieve your goals? With over 25 years supporting vulnerable adults and young people I am dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, unlock your potential, and thrive in your life. I offer specialised support for anxiety, complex trauma, family issues, couples issues, PTSD and many more. Are mental barriers holding you back from moving forward? I understand how relentless that can feel, the spirals, the self-doubt, the pressure to hold it together. You don’t have to carry this alone. We’ll go at your pace.
I specialise in supporting people facing trauma, domestic abuse, family conflict and couples difficulties.
Does your home feel tense or distant? Are you seeking guidance, support, and empowerment to navigate life's challenges and achieve your goals? With over 25 years supporting vulnerable adults and young people I am dedicated to helping you overcome obstacles, unlock your potential, and thrive in your life. I offer specialised support for anxiety, complex trauma, family issues, couples issues, PTSD and many more. Are mental barriers holding you back from moving forward? I understand how relentless that can feel, the spirals, the self-doubt, the pressure to hold it together. You don’t have to carry this alone. We’ll go at your pace.
020 3763 8563 View 020 3763 8563
Laura Hine
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Alongside private practice I have worked with an agency that specialises in domestic abuse and trauma.
Offering reduced fees. moving my practice online has enbaled me to pass these savings on to my clients. People generally look for a counsellor because they feel stuck or unable to move forward from unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. You could struggle to connect with others and maintain healthy relationships. You may also feel like you can’t keep up with the people around you; as though everyone is doing better than you are. Self-acceptance and self-worth may be a problem, especially if you are suffering from anxiety and depression. Do you want to move forward and build yourself a sustainable future?
Alongside private practice I have worked with an agency that specialises in domestic abuse and trauma.
Offering reduced fees. moving my practice online has enbaled me to pass these savings on to my clients. People generally look for a counsellor because they feel stuck or unable to move forward from unhelpful thoughts and behaviour patterns. You could struggle to connect with others and maintain healthy relationships. You may also feel like you can’t keep up with the people around you; as though everyone is doing better than you are. Self-acceptance and self-worth may be a problem, especially if you are suffering from anxiety and depression. Do you want to move forward and build yourself a sustainable future?
01822 668347 View 01822 668347
Ricky Michael Partridge
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
My additional training is in domestic and sexual abuse.
My approach is warm, compassionate & collaborative. I offer a safe, non-judgemental space where you can begin to reconnect with yourself. I also offer activities (for example adult colouring-in) for clients who would rather not sit without anything for their hands to do. Walk n' talk is also available if our schedules allow.
My additional training is in domestic and sexual abuse.
My approach is warm, compassionate & collaborative. I offer a safe, non-judgemental space where you can begin to reconnect with yourself. I also offer activities (for example adult colouring-in) for clients who would rather not sit without anything for their hands to do. Walk n' talk is also available if our schedules allow.
01495 365092 View 01495 365092
Berith Ngangombo
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
London W14
I mainly offer trauma-informed counselling to adults who have experienced domestic abuse/(DV).
Hiya, I'm Berith and thank you for being here. My aim is to help you discover and embrace yourself, while navigating the challenges that led you to seek counselling. Life can be overwhelming, with lots of thoughts; both positive and negative which affect our emotions and actions. But know your feelings are valid, and deserve to be acknowledged and validated. Knowing this, everything will be done at your pace. I understand that seeking counselling can be intimidating, but I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where our energies match and you feel at ease to go through this process. It’s a safe space!
I mainly offer trauma-informed counselling to adults who have experienced domestic abuse/(DV).
Hiya, I'm Berith and thank you for being here. My aim is to help you discover and embrace yourself, while navigating the challenges that led you to seek counselling. Life can be overwhelming, with lots of thoughts; both positive and negative which affect our emotions and actions. But know your feelings are valid, and deserve to be acknowledged and validated. Knowing this, everything will be done at your pace. I understand that seeking counselling can be intimidating, but I'm here to offer a safe and supportive space where our energies match and you feel at ease to go through this process. It’s a safe space!
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Clare Elizabeth Blanch
Counsellor, MBACP
Reading RG1
I have worked in the domestic/sexual abuse sector for nearly 20 years, supporting both adults and children before qualifying as a counsellor.
Life can present us with unexpected and difficult challenges. Like anyone else, I have had my own life transitions that have been hard to navigate. I see my role as being alongside you while you navigate your own life, giving you the tools to find the answers or articulate feelings. I consider it a privilege to support my clients and a relaxed, warm, and non-judgmental approach is central to my work. I'm interested in you, your experiences, and your goals.
I have worked in the domestic/sexual abuse sector for nearly 20 years, supporting both adults and children before qualifying as a counsellor.
Life can present us with unexpected and difficult challenges. Like anyone else, I have had my own life transitions that have been hard to navigate. I see my role as being alongside you while you navigate your own life, giving you the tools to find the answers or articulate feelings. I consider it a privilege to support my clients and a relaxed, warm, and non-judgmental approach is central to my work. I'm interested in you, your experiences, and your goals.
0118 230 5001 View 0118 230 5001
Nathaniel G Oke
Psychotherapist, MBACP
1 Endorsed
London W1K
Are you finding it difficult to understand your feelings? Are you finding it difficult to understand why you behave the way you do, even when you have promised yourself to change? Seeing a psychotherapist can help you navigate through the darkness of the unexplored mind. I work deeply below the surface in order to find meaning. Therapy can be intense, but with supported guidance this can make the journey less daunting. Whatever your motivation and reason for therapy, we can work toward your goals to ensure that therapy works for you. My experience vary, but what is consistent is my dedication to provide the best support required.
Are you finding it difficult to understand your feelings? Are you finding it difficult to understand why you behave the way you do, even when you have promised yourself to change? Seeing a psychotherapist can help you navigate through the darkness of the unexplored mind. I work deeply below the surface in order to find meaning. Therapy can be intense, but with supported guidance this can make the journey less daunting. Whatever your motivation and reason for therapy, we can work toward your goals to ensure that therapy works for you. My experience vary, but what is consistent is my dedication to provide the best support required.
020 3962 0583 View 020 3962 0583
Heather Dyson
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
2 Endorsed
There are many reasons why individuals choose to access therapy and it can be a daunting, sometimes painful, step. Please be assured that, with over a decade of experience, I offer an even-handed yet supportive approach in a safe, confidential setting. If you are feeling disconnected from yourself and those around you, are struggling to manage feelings of anxiety, are managing your distress through strategies such as alcohol, illegal substances, or self-harming behaviours, have experienced a trauma, or witnessed a traumatic event, I can help.
There are many reasons why individuals choose to access therapy and it can be a daunting, sometimes painful, step. Please be assured that, with over a decade of experience, I offer an even-handed yet supportive approach in a safe, confidential setting. If you are feeling disconnected from yourself and those around you, are struggling to manage feelings of anxiety, are managing your distress through strategies such as alcohol, illegal substances, or self-harming behaviours, have experienced a trauma, or witnessed a traumatic event, I can help.
01483 948016 View 01483 948016
Heather Brennan
Counsellor, MBACP
Hoddesdon EN11
I have a wide range of experience which includes trauma therapy, bereavement, domestic and childhood abuse, specialist fertility therapy, depression and anxiety, chronic illness, eating disorders.
Hello and welcome. My approach to counselling is respectful, sensitive, thoughtful and underpinned by a psychodynamic training. I offer a private, safe and confidential setting to explore and help you manage your feelings and thoughts that may be overwhelming, confusing or even frightening. This may enable you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and explore deep rooted beliefs and assumptions in order to resolve them. Together we can find your strengths, build your confidence and self esteem, enabling you to make choices where previously you may have felt there were none.
I have a wide range of experience which includes trauma therapy, bereavement, domestic and childhood abuse, specialist fertility therapy, depression and anxiety, chronic illness, eating disorders.
Hello and welcome. My approach to counselling is respectful, sensitive, thoughtful and underpinned by a psychodynamic training. I offer a private, safe and confidential setting to explore and help you manage your feelings and thoughts that may be overwhelming, confusing or even frightening. This may enable you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and explore deep rooted beliefs and assumptions in order to resolve them. Together we can find your strengths, build your confidence and self esteem, enabling you to make choices where previously you may have felt there were none.
01992 945325 View 01992 945325
Sujatha Iyer
Counsellor, MBACP
Ashford TW15
I also work with a domestic violence agency, counselling women who have experienced childhood trauma, sexual abuse, anxiety/panic, low self-esteem, and PTSD.
I have come to counselling and psychotherapy as my second career after spending over 25 years in the corporate sector as part of the human resources function for global technology companies. My desire and ability to connect with people combined with a quest to find deeper meaning in my work led me to retrain and find my true vocation. I have navigated challenging life experiences and have grown and found peace through my own personal therapy. I’m versatile in my clinical approach, drawing from a rich theoretical foundation having trained as an Integrative Psychotherapist.
I also work with a domestic violence agency, counselling women who have experienced childhood trauma, sexual abuse, anxiety/panic, low self-esteem, and PTSD.
I have come to counselling and psychotherapy as my second career after spending over 25 years in the corporate sector as part of the human resources function for global technology companies. My desire and ability to connect with people combined with a quest to find deeper meaning in my work led me to retrain and find my true vocation. I have navigated challenging life experiences and have grown and found peace through my own personal therapy. I’m versatile in my clinical approach, drawing from a rich theoretical foundation having trained as an Integrative Psychotherapist.
01784 775786 View 01784 775786
Naomi Hutchinson
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Drama Therap.
My main expertise is supporting the mental health of mothers. I understand both personally and professionally how profoundly challenging this gargantuan role can be. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, loss of identity, feelings of guilt or shame, isolation (even if surrounded by others) or, put more simply, finding it really friggin hard - I may well be the right person to support you.
My main expertise is supporting the mental health of mothers. I understand both personally and professionally how profoundly challenging this gargantuan role can be. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, low mood, loss of identity, feelings of guilt or shame, isolation (even if surrounded by others) or, put more simply, finding it really friggin hard - I may well be the right person to support you.
020 4652 2235 View 020 4652 2235
Domestic Abuse Counsellors
What are the most effective ways to recover from domestic abuse?
Leaving an abusive relationship requires tremendous courage, so survivors in treatment should recognise that they have already completed the most important step. Still, the trauma of physical or emotional abuse can be difficult to process and overcome. Therapy can help survivors process trauma, grief, and difficult emotions, treat relevant mental health symptoms, and create a new framework for boundaries and relationships in the future. For some, support groups can also be an invaluable outlet for healing.

When should an individual seek help for domestic abuse?
Victims of intimate partner violence should seek help immediately. It can take substantial time, planning, energy, and courage to leave an abusive relationship, but starting the process—by seeking therapy, calling the domestic violence hotline, or simply confiding in a loved one—will help them get there. Those who have left abusive relationships but haven’t sought treatment can also greatly benefit from therapy to process and heal from the experience.

What are the consequences of staying in an abusive relationship?
Remaining in an abusive relationship has serious repercussions. In addition to the ongoing threat of physical danger and emotional abuse, research shows that intimate partner violence is associated with a range of mental health disorders including depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, and substance abuse. Therefore it’s important for individuals in an abusive relationship to seek help as soon as possible.

How can you get domestic abuse treatment for someone else?
It can be very complicated to identify and leave an abusive relationship; barriers include the threat of violence, financial instability, and family pressures. Those concerned about a loved one in an abusive relationship should talk to them about the situation, provide them with resources such as the domestic violence hotline, and introduce the idea of seeing a therapist due to their concern for the person’s safety and well-being.