Couples Counselling in Ashford (Surrey)

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Cara Mackley
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashford (Surrey) TW15
If you have a relationship issue, I may be able to help you. I work with couples and individuals for a variety reasons; stuck in a cycle of bickering, poor communication, cross cultural issues, fertility difficulties, contemplating separation or an affair. It may surprise you but I also see couples who want a 'relationship MOT', to check in before any issues present themselves. This is helpful if you plan to marry/civil partnership, starting a family, co-parenting, are 'empty nesters' or entering later stages of life.
If you have a relationship issue, I may be able to help you. I work with couples and individuals for a variety reasons; stuck in a cycle of bickering, poor communication, cross cultural issues, fertility difficulties, contemplating separation or an affair. It may surprise you but I also see couples who want a 'relationship MOT', to check in before any issues present themselves. This is helpful if you plan to marry/civil partnership, starting a family, co-parenting, are 'empty nesters' or entering later stages of life.
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Wise Blue Owl Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashford (Surrey) TW15
Are you Seeking Trusted and Professional Online Counselling and Therapy in the UK? Look no further! Are you dealing with anxiety, stress, fear, phobias, grief, relationship issues, or marriage problems? We've got you covered with our first-class counselling and therapy services. Highly experienced UK therapist. Trusted and professional guidance, Confidential and supportive environment. Tailored solutions for your specific needs, Convenient sessions. I understand the challenges you're facing, and we're here to help you navigate through them.
Are you Seeking Trusted and Professional Online Counselling and Therapy in the UK? Look no further! Are you dealing with anxiety, stress, fear, phobias, grief, relationship issues, or marriage problems? We've got you covered with our first-class counselling and therapy services. Highly experienced UK therapist. Trusted and professional guidance, Confidential and supportive environment. Tailored solutions for your specific needs, Convenient sessions. I understand the challenges you're facing, and we're here to help you navigate through them.
01784 918286 View 01784 918286
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Aman O’Connor
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashford (Surrey) TW15
I am an Integrative counsellor and have a broad range of experience working with clients including young people and adults. The approach I use allows me to move freely between modalities while adapting and bringing together relevant elements according to individual needs and requirements. I believe the essence of my role as a counsellor is the therapeutic relationship between the client and me, developing a trusting relationship within the counselling session is essential. I involve the use of empathy, non-judgment, and authenticity. This alongside confidentiality creates a safe environment for the client and I to work together.
I am an Integrative counsellor and have a broad range of experience working with clients including young people and adults. The approach I use allows me to move freely between modalities while adapting and bringing together relevant elements according to individual needs and requirements. I believe the essence of my role as a counsellor is the therapeutic relationship between the client and me, developing a trusting relationship within the counselling session is essential. I involve the use of empathy, non-judgment, and authenticity. This alongside confidentiality creates a safe environment for the client and I to work together.
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Clare Francis
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashford (Surrey) TW15
I have worked as a relationship therapist for over 15 years and I offer insights and can help you find coping strategies. I work with individuals, couples, young people and families. The issues that I work with include anxiety, separation/divorce, putting your relationship back together, escalating rows, communication to name but a few. I am a professionally qualified and experienced therapist with a private practise in Staines and work with a large number of my clients online, including clients in both at home and abroad. I have a Master of Arts degree in Relationship and Family Therapy.
I have worked as a relationship therapist for over 15 years and I offer insights and can help you find coping strategies. I work with individuals, couples, young people and families. The issues that I work with include anxiety, separation/divorce, putting your relationship back together, escalating rows, communication to name but a few. I am a professionally qualified and experienced therapist with a private practise in Staines and work with a large number of my clients online, including clients in both at home and abroad. I have a Master of Arts degree in Relationship and Family Therapy.
01372 677024 View 01372 677024
Photo of Denise Harry, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Denise Harry
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashford (Surrey) TW15
Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed, anxious or uncertain? Do you feel unable to cope or have low self esteem? You may be facing new challenges and difficulties or perhaps you are stuck and don't know where to turn or what to do. Troubling times can leave us feeling hopeless, sad, and wondering what the point of it is. Therapy is a place for you to work through these things and find ways to feel better in yourself and hopeful for the future.
Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed, anxious or uncertain? Do you feel unable to cope or have low self esteem? You may be facing new challenges and difficulties or perhaps you are stuck and don't know where to turn or what to do. Troubling times can leave us feeling hopeless, sad, and wondering what the point of it is. Therapy is a place for you to work through these things and find ways to feel better in yourself and hopeful for the future.
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Photo of Jane Barnfield Jukes, Psychotherapist in Ashford (Surrey), England
Jane Barnfield Jukes
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Weybridge KT13
Jane is an experienced integrative psychotherapist/counsellor who practices using a combination of therapeutic approaches, ensuring that therapy is tailored to meet the individual need, be it short or long term. She currently works with adults, couples and young people with GP referrals and in the public and private sector. She has wide experience of working with depression, anxiety, panic, stress, loss, addiction, life limiting illness, self-harm, eating disorders, phobias and abuse and believes that to be heard in a safe, confidential environment is essential to effective therapy.
Jane is an experienced integrative psychotherapist/counsellor who practices using a combination of therapeutic approaches, ensuring that therapy is tailored to meet the individual need, be it short or long term. She currently works with adults, couples and young people with GP referrals and in the public and private sector. She has wide experience of working with depression, anxiety, panic, stress, loss, addiction, life limiting illness, self-harm, eating disorders, phobias and abuse and believes that to be heard in a safe, confidential environment is essential to effective therapy.
01372 235667 View 01372 235667
Photo of Vanessa Tait, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Vanessa Tait
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
I am an experienced Relate counsellor, specialising in single and couple relationship counselling. I help you improve communication, resolve conflict, process an affair, and rebuild trust and closeness. If you are having too familiar arguments, feeling unsatisfied in your relationship and considering separation or are just simply exhausted by the demands of young/old family, I am here for you. Talking to someone objectively, with no connection to yourself or your partner, is often all that is necessary to gain a more positive perspective.
I am an experienced Relate counsellor, specialising in single and couple relationship counselling. I help you improve communication, resolve conflict, process an affair, and rebuild trust and closeness. If you are having too familiar arguments, feeling unsatisfied in your relationship and considering separation or are just simply exhausted by the demands of young/old family, I am here for you. Talking to someone objectively, with no connection to yourself or your partner, is often all that is necessary to gain a more positive perspective.
01372 235706 View 01372 235706
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Patrizia Mazzoli
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
East Molesey KT8
I believe in the uniqueness of each person and by offering empathic understanding and unconditional acceptance of who you are, we can develop a safe client-therapist relationship.
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
I believe in the uniqueness of each person and by offering empathic understanding and unconditional acceptance of who you are, we can develop a safe client-therapist relationship.
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
01372 235676 View 01372 235676
Photo of Josephine Jacobs, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Josephine Jacobs
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Woking GU22
I am a qualified counsellor and Psychotherapist and I work with young people (16+), adults and couples.
Would you like to talk about what goes on in your life and in your head? Want to be sure that you will not be judged and that you feel safe whilst exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours? Maybe you are wondering which event or events in your life have most affected how you feel. There could be relationships, past, present, and future which play on your mind. Do you want healthier relationships? Do you wonder if the way you feel gets in the way of you getting what you want out of life or living the life you want? You may have feelings you do not understand or believe you have lost yourself and no longer know how you feel.
I am a qualified counsellor and Psychotherapist and I work with young people (16+), adults and couples.
Would you like to talk about what goes on in your life and in your head? Want to be sure that you will not be judged and that you feel safe whilst exploring your thoughts, feelings and behaviours? Maybe you are wondering which event or events in your life have most affected how you feel. There could be relationships, past, present, and future which play on your mind. Do you want healthier relationships? Do you wonder if the way you feel gets in the way of you getting what you want out of life or living the life you want? You may have feelings you do not understand or believe you have lost yourself and no longer know how you feel.
01252 986503 View 01252 986503
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Crisis Plus - Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MSc, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Warm welcome. Are you going through an emotionally tough patch at the moment? A relationship crisis, divorce or infidelity. Struggling in your personal life, in your relationship or at work? Struggling to cope with pressure but unsure how to change it? Maybe everything feels too much and things are adding up quicker than you'd wish. Or maybe the lid is about to come off and you can see it coming. In your mid 40s and facing relationships crisis? Most of us experience difficulties at some point in our lives. Seeking support can prove to be the best thing you can do for yourself. Some slots are available without a waiting list.
Warm welcome. Are you going through an emotionally tough patch at the moment? A relationship crisis, divorce or infidelity. Struggling in your personal life, in your relationship or at work? Struggling to cope with pressure but unsure how to change it? Maybe everything feels too much and things are adding up quicker than you'd wish. Or maybe the lid is about to come off and you can see it coming. In your mid 40s and facing relationships crisis? Most of us experience difficulties at some point in our lives. Seeking support can prove to be the best thing you can do for yourself. Some slots are available without a waiting list.
01276 748023 View 01276 748023
Photo of Dr Debbie Lovell, Psychologist in Ashford (Surrey), England
Dr Debbie Lovell
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I have more than 8 years of academic training yet I believe the personal qualities the therapist brings are most critical to the work and the relationship.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a sex therapist. My clients may seek help for a specific sexual difficulty such as desire or arousal concerns; or may experience broader distress which also manifests in their sexual and relational world such as low self esteem or perfectionism.
I have more than 8 years of academic training yet I believe the personal qualities the therapist brings are most critical to the work and the relationship.
I am one of a small number of practitioners in the UK who is dually qualified as a chartered psychologist and a sex therapist. My clients may seek help for a specific sexual difficulty such as desire or arousal concerns; or may experience broader distress which also manifests in their sexual and relational world such as low self esteem or perfectionism.
020 3909 9821 View 020 3909 9821
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Dr Sarah Hamlyn-Wright
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Weybridge KT13
I established Surrey Psychology in 2005 to provide private Psychological Assessment and Treatment through confidential, ethical, evidence based practice for individuals, couples and families in the Surrey and surrounding area.
Most of us, at some time or another, will experience difficulties with our thoughts, feelings, behaviour or relationships. Some of us might experience physical symptoms for which our GP can find no organic cause. Almost all of us want to get the most out of life. This is where I can help. I am a Senior Consultant Counselling Psychologist Specialising in Psychotherapy. I am Chartered by the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC).
I established Surrey Psychology in 2005 to provide private Psychological Assessment and Treatment through confidential, ethical, evidence based practice for individuals, couples and families in the Surrey and surrounding area.
Most of us, at some time or another, will experience difficulties with our thoughts, feelings, behaviour or relationships. Some of us might experience physical symptoms for which our GP can find no organic cause. Almost all of us want to get the most out of life. This is where I can help. I am a Senior Consultant Counselling Psychologist Specialising in Psychotherapy. I am Chartered by the British Psychological Society (BPS) and Registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC).
01372 677133 View 01372 677133
Photo of Victoria Nelson, Psychotherapist in Ashford (Surrey), England
Victoria Nelson
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Walton-on-Thames KT12
I am a UKCP (United Kingdom Counselling & Psychotherapy) registered Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience. I support adults with medium to long term psychotherapy. I specialise in emotional regulation, depression and anxiety. I offer culturally sensitive therapy to individuals, couples and groups.
I am a UKCP (United Kingdom Counselling & Psychotherapy) registered Psychotherapist with over 15 years of experience. I support adults with medium to long term psychotherapy. I specialise in emotional regulation, depression and anxiety. I offer culturally sensitive therapy to individuals, couples and groups.
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Dr Paul Kong
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Richmond TW10
Over 20 years of rich clinical experience. Long track record of serving patients with mental health problems in public hospitals in Hong Kong and held the role of Adult Psychiatry Service Team In-charge. Skilled in assessing and treating a wide variety of psychological problems of adolescents and adults, such as depression, anxiety, insomnia, addiction problem, eating disorders, couple relationship problem, emotional and stress problems, etc. Appointed as Guest Lecturer of the University of Hong Kong and Honorary Clinical Supervisor of the University of Hong Kong and the Chinese University of Hong Kong.
Over 20 years of rich clinical experience. Long track record of serving patients with mental health problems in public hospitals in Hong Kong and held the role of Adult Psychiatry Service Team In-charge. Skilled in assessing and treating a wide variety of psychological problems of adolescents and adults, such as depression, anxiety, insomnia, addiction problem, eating disorders, couple relationship problem, emotional and stress problems, etc. Appointed as Guest Lecturer of the University of Hong Kong and Honorary Clinical Supervisor of the University of Hong Kong and the Chinese University of Hong Kong.
020 4538 3071 View 020 4538 3071
Photo of Andy Edwin Spencer, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Andy Edwin Spencer
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Woking GU21
I also offer couples counselling.
Life will always present us with challenges and difficult situations. Sometimes these challenges can get on top of us and we stop living and enjoying our lives as fully as we would like. This is where counselling can be of help. Counselling is about offering a supportive relationship in a safe and confidential environment to talk through whatever is concerning them. Counselling is not about giving advice and counsellors can never be experts in other people’s lives. Counselling is about helping people find their unique strengths to work through a particular issue in the best way for them so that they can live a happy life.
I also offer couples counselling.
Life will always present us with challenges and difficult situations. Sometimes these challenges can get on top of us and we stop living and enjoying our lives as fully as we would like. This is where counselling can be of help. Counselling is about offering a supportive relationship in a safe and confidential environment to talk through whatever is concerning them. Counselling is not about giving advice and counsellors can never be experts in other people’s lives. Counselling is about helping people find their unique strengths to work through a particular issue in the best way for them so that they can live a happy life.
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Photo of Sherry Richmond, Psychotherapist in Ashford (Surrey), England
Sherry Richmond
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London W5
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist (Msc, CTA with distinction) and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor (PG Dip Psych) I work both long term and short term with individuals and couples. People approach therapy for many different reasons. Sometimes it is just to get clear about a past experience or to change a habit. Often I have found that identifying blocks and emotional obstacles that stand in the way of a client living their full potential is the core of the work we do together. I offer a variety of techniques which can assist in removing those obstacles so that you can reach your goals and nurture a loving relationship with oneself
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist (Msc, CTA with distinction) and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor (PG Dip Psych) I work both long term and short term with individuals and couples. People approach therapy for many different reasons. Sometimes it is just to get clear about a past experience or to change a habit. Often I have found that identifying blocks and emotional obstacles that stand in the way of a client living their full potential is the core of the work we do together. I offer a variety of techniques which can assist in removing those obstacles so that you can reach your goals and nurture a loving relationship with oneself
01372 235270 View 01372 235270
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Collective Psychology
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
We are a multi-award winning psychological therapies clinic based in Cobham offering fast and effective, evidence-based treatment to support people of all ages and with a variety of mental health difficulties. Our team consists of clinical and counselling psychologists, psychotherapists, an ADHD coach and family therapy. Our beautiful clinic rooms offer a tranquil setting for your sessions. We know the value of the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. Our team are personable, warm and empathetic which has helped many people overcome the difficulties holding them back in life.
01932 504224 View 01932 504224
Photo of Tim O'Neill, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Tim O'Neill
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Woking GU21
In our counselling sessions i will try to work together with you in a therapeutic relationship built upon trust and equality.
My name is Tim. I have 26 years experience as a BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist. I offer counselling to adults of all ages and young people. I also offer online sessions and Walk & Talk therapy. The areas of counselling I have specialisms in are young people, various Anxiety disorders, Stress, Depression and Bereavement. I also offer counselling to trainee counsellors. I am a qualified supervisor of experienced and trainee counsellors. I also have BUPA recognition. Other Issues i work with include: family issues, relationship breakdown, panic disorder and self-harm. I offer a Free initial 20 min phone consultation.
In our counselling sessions i will try to work together with you in a therapeutic relationship built upon trust and equality.
My name is Tim. I have 26 years experience as a BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist. I offer counselling to adults of all ages and young people. I also offer online sessions and Walk & Talk therapy. The areas of counselling I have specialisms in are young people, various Anxiety disorders, Stress, Depression and Bereavement. I also offer counselling to trainee counsellors. I am a qualified supervisor of experienced and trainee counsellors. I also have BUPA recognition. Other Issues i work with include: family issues, relationship breakdown, panic disorder and self-harm. I offer a Free initial 20 min phone consultation.
07723 428530 View 07723 428530
Photo of Diane Bates, Counsellor in Ashford (Surrey), England
Diane Bates
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Worcester Park KT4  (Online Only)
I have over 14 years experience of counselling and supporting individuals, couples and young people with many issues.
Welcome. There can be times in our lives when we feel low, sad, anxious or have feelings of being unable to cope. Maybe you are struggling with a relationship, work of family related issues or have feelings of low self-esteem. Making the first step in to therapy can sometimes feel daunting but you have done this by coming to this website. Our sessions are confidential,professional,calm and can be tailored to meet your needs. We can explore how you are feeling which may allow you to reflect on making a change to your life which can improve the way we feel about ourself and others.
I have over 14 years experience of counselling and supporting individuals, couples and young people with many issues.
Welcome. There can be times in our lives when we feel low, sad, anxious or have feelings of being unable to cope. Maybe you are struggling with a relationship, work of family related issues or have feelings of low self-esteem. Making the first step in to therapy can sometimes feel daunting but you have done this by coming to this website. Our sessions are confidential,professional,calm and can be tailored to meet your needs. We can explore how you are feeling which may allow you to reflect on making a change to your life which can improve the way we feel about ourself and others.
0808 164 1939 View 0808 164 1939
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Jill Pendlebury
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Surbiton KT5  (Online Only)
I offer short, Solution Focused Brief and long term therapy to individuals and couples.
Do you sometimes feel like you don't fit in? Do you feel that relationships and events from your past are holding you back? Is something that happened to you recently preying on your mind and making you anxious or depressed? Is your work consuming you, leaving little time to appreciate and enjoy other areas of your life? These are just some of the things that can make dealing with your life seem too much. You can then feel powerless and unable to see a way forward. Exploring these and other issues in a safe and neutral space can help to find a way through. We can also look at strategies and ways to cope on a day to day basis.
I offer short, Solution Focused Brief and long term therapy to individuals and couples.
Do you sometimes feel like you don't fit in? Do you feel that relationships and events from your past are holding you back? Is something that happened to you recently preying on your mind and making you anxious or depressed? Is your work consuming you, leaving little time to appreciate and enjoy other areas of your life? These are just some of the things that can make dealing with your life seem too much. You can then feel powerless and unable to see a way forward. Exploring these and other issues in a safe and neutral space can help to find a way through. We can also look at strategies and ways to cope on a day to day basis.
020 3984 8966 View 020 3984 8966

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.