Infidelity Counselling in Aldermaston

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Emma Bengough
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Serves Area
Hi, I’m Emma and I offer a compassionate and containing space for us to explore what it is that has brought you into therapy and how we can understand what is needed for you to have the full life experiencer that you desire. I offer an eclectic approach to therapy, depending on the needs you are coming for and the age, circumstance and appropriateness of how we will work together. I believe the relationship we hold is at the centre of the healing process and so I will be focused on what that needs to be for you and how that needs to be developed with others too.
Hi, I’m Emma and I offer a compassionate and containing space for us to explore what it is that has brought you into therapy and how we can understand what is needed for you to have the full life experiencer that you desire. I offer an eclectic approach to therapy, depending on the needs you are coming for and the age, circumstance and appropriateness of how we will work together. I believe the relationship we hold is at the centre of the healing process and so I will be focused on what that needs to be for you and how that needs to be developed with others too.
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Dr Daniel Jolles
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
You're under pressure to 'hold it all together', but underneath there may be anxiety, low mood, or strain in your relationships. Caught between external achievements and what you're experiencing internally, things may look successful on paper, but inside there may be exhaustion, self-doubt, or a loss of meaning. Constant pressure, high standards, or a particular challenge at work or in your personal life may have become overwhelming. You might feel you should be coping better or managing this without help. What you're looking for is space to talk, understand what's happening, and find a more sustainable path forward.
You're under pressure to 'hold it all together', but underneath there may be anxiety, low mood, or strain in your relationships. Caught between external achievements and what you're experiencing internally, things may look successful on paper, but inside there may be exhaustion, self-doubt, or a loss of meaning. Constant pressure, high standards, or a particular challenge at work or in your personal life may have become overwhelming. You might feel you should be coping better or managing this without help. What you're looking for is space to talk, understand what's happening, and find a more sustainable path forward.
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Paula O'Connor
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training in two areas: Sex Therapy and Porn addiction or Sexual Compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up. If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
Perhaps someone has been cheating, had an affair or struggles with an addiction to sex or porn.
I have specialist training in two areas: Sex Therapy and Porn addiction or Sexual Compulsion. I recognize these can be really difficult problems to share, but it can be a relief to talk confidentially, rather than keep things bottled up. If you don't even know where to start, don't worry I can help.
01865 537646 View 01865 537646
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Anita Joy Jacob
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Newbury RG14
Are you finding your marriage or relationship to be really hard right now? Is it full of tension, disappointment or heartache? Perhaps you are arguing more and you just don't look forward to spending time with your partner anymore. Do you wish you could feel the way you felt about them when you first decided to make a commitment to each other? I'm guessing you want to feel seen and heard, like you matter and like your thoughts and feelings matter, too. You don't just want to be going through the motions of being close, but want something that feels special and secure.
Are you finding your marriage or relationship to be really hard right now? Is it full of tension, disappointment or heartache? Perhaps you are arguing more and you just don't look forward to spending time with your partner anymore. Do you wish you could feel the way you felt about them when you first decided to make a commitment to each other? I'm guessing you want to feel seen and heard, like you matter and like your thoughts and feelings matter, too. You don't just want to be going through the motions of being close, but want something that feels special and secure.
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Vicky Drinkwater
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
Hello, my name is Vicky and I am glad you are here. I am a passionate and dedicated counsellor specialising in helping individuals and couples navigate their relationship challenges. Whether you’re dealing with intimacy issues, recovering from an affair, or feeling stuck and unable to move forward, I am here to support you. Many of my clients come to me feeling hopeless, stuck, and lost in their relationships, unable to move forward or reconnect with their partners. I specialise in guiding clients through these difficult times, helping them rebuild their self-esteem and confidence, and rediscovering the joy and connection they crave
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Couples Counselling and Relationship Repair
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Infidelity may have occured and questions around the level of fulfillment arisen.
I am a relationship issues specialist.. working practically and effectively with couples and individuals, experiencing relationship difficulties of any description. I provide a forum for you to explore and address all aspects of your relationship...with a view to making beneficial changes..and creating a template which is uniquely customised to your needs..One of the main areas of difficulty in relationships is communication. I have some very useful strategies to help you communicate more effectively with your partner, openly and honestly, minimising stress and arguing. Remember, all relationships provide opportunities for growth..
Infidelity may have occured and questions around the level of fulfillment arisen.
I am a relationship issues specialist.. working practically and effectively with couples and individuals, experiencing relationship difficulties of any description. I provide a forum for you to explore and address all aspects of your relationship...with a view to making beneficial changes..and creating a template which is uniquely customised to your needs..One of the main areas of difficulty in relationships is communication. I have some very useful strategies to help you communicate more effectively with your partner, openly and honestly, minimising stress and arguing. Remember, all relationships provide opportunities for growth..
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Orah Bradshaw
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Serves Area
Couples Counselling on Hayling Island, Hampshire I work exclusively with couples who want a clearer, steadier way of being together. Many couples arrive feeling stuck in repeated patterns of hurt, misunderstanding, or distance. Often both partners are trying their best, yet something keeps going wrong. My role is not to take sides or offer quick fixes, but to help you slow patterns down, understand what is happening between you, and build more workable ways of relating.
Couples Counselling on Hayling Island, Hampshire I work exclusively with couples who want a clearer, steadier way of being together. Many couples arrive feeling stuck in repeated patterns of hurt, misunderstanding, or distance. Often both partners are trying their best, yet something keeps going wrong. My role is not to take sides or offer quick fixes, but to help you slow patterns down, understand what is happening between you, and build more workable ways of relating.
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Ms Sarah Enderby
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
You may be coming to counselling because you are in crisis, unable to see a way through a situation or feeling lost or alone. You might be seeking the 'right' answer around a difficult life decision. It may have taken many years to find the courage to seek help for issues which run deep, perhaps stemming from difficult, early experiences in childhood or from trauma. I specialise in working with self esteem and anxiety, relationship issues, and LGBTQ+ folks, however, everybody is welcome.
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Susanna Wong
Counsellor, MA
Online Only
Empathic and personalised Mental Health and Fertility Counselling for individuals and couple internationally in English, Cantonese and simple Mandarin. Testimonials: “Her sensitivity and empathy were evident in every interaction and we sensed a genuine desire to help and support us, beyond the standard level of care one might expect.” Couple G&S “Each session, she approached with mindfulness and genuine empathy, offering invaluable guidance as I navigated my personal challenges.” – EL “Susanna was a beacon of hope in my darkest hours, guiding me through very difficult times with empathy, compassion and sensibility.” - MY
Empathic and personalised Mental Health and Fertility Counselling for individuals and couple internationally in English, Cantonese and simple Mandarin. Testimonials: “Her sensitivity and empathy were evident in every interaction and we sensed a genuine desire to help and support us, beyond the standard level of care one might expect.” Couple G&S “Each session, she approached with mindfulness and genuine empathy, offering invaluable guidance as I navigated my personal challenges.” – EL “Susanna was a beacon of hope in my darkest hours, guiding me through very difficult times with empathy, compassion and sensibility.” - MY
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Candice Hutchings
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Serves Area
I am a compassionate and experienced therapist specialising in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I work with adults, adolescents & children facing a range of psychological challenges, including trauma, anxiety, depression, fears and phobias, low self-esteem and addictions. My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practice. Alongside CBT and EMDR, I integrate Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) into my work. This allows me to tailor therapy to your individual needs.
I am a compassionate and experienced therapist specialising in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). I work with adults, adolescents & children facing a range of psychological challenges, including trauma, anxiety, depression, fears and phobias, low self-esteem and addictions. My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practice. Alongside CBT and EMDR, I integrate Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) into my work. This allows me to tailor therapy to your individual needs.
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Lorraine Berry
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Everyone experiences a wide range of feelings in life. You may be experiencing difficulties at home, work, college or university, with relationships, health and other life struggles. You may have reached a point in life where you need more than a friendly ear and I appreciate that seeing a counsellor can seem overwhelming. My aim is to provide a professional, but warm, confidential non-judgemental, caring, safe environment where you and I can explore your difficulties together. I place a lot of emphasis on our relationship, with us getting to know each-other and working collaboratively to improve your wellbeing.
Everyone experiences a wide range of feelings in life. You may be experiencing difficulties at home, work, college or university, with relationships, health and other life struggles. You may have reached a point in life where you need more than a friendly ear and I appreciate that seeing a counsellor can seem overwhelming. My aim is to provide a professional, but warm, confidential non-judgemental, caring, safe environment where you and I can explore your difficulties together. I place a lot of emphasis on our relationship, with us getting to know each-other and working collaboratively to improve your wellbeing.
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Specialist Counselling
Psychologist, GMBPsS
Bagshot GU19
I am a Psychologist and Counsellor with over 20 years full-time NHS experience and a further 10 years in private practice. I have helped thousands of clients (both individuals and couples) successfully overcome their difficulties. My areas of expertise cover all relationship issues and sexual matters including sexual addiction, sexuality and sexual disfunction. During my career I have taught medical students and GP's on specific areas within my field of expertise.
I am a Psychologist and Counsellor with over 20 years full-time NHS experience and a further 10 years in private practice. I have helped thousands of clients (both individuals and couples) successfully overcome their difficulties. My areas of expertise cover all relationship issues and sexual matters including sexual addiction, sexuality and sexual disfunction. During my career I have taught medical students and GP's on specific areas within my field of expertise.
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Emma Cotterill
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
I am a Principal Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the BPS and registered with HCPC. I work with adults experiencing mental health difficulties, including depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, PTSD, phobias, OCD, stress. I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, CFT, Mindfulness, EMDR. I have specialist experience in working with trauma, grief and loss. I also specialise in supporting individuals through relationship changes (divorce/separation) and through the challenges of life's stressors - work, parenting, family dynamics, heath issues.
I am a Principal Clinical Psychologist, Chartered with the BPS and registered with HCPC. I work with adults experiencing mental health difficulties, including depression, anxiety, panic, trauma, PTSD, phobias, OCD, stress. I use an individualised integrative therapy approach, drawing on CBT, ACT, CFT, Mindfulness, EMDR. I have specialist experience in working with trauma, grief and loss. I also specialise in supporting individuals through relationship changes (divorce/separation) and through the challenges of life's stressors - work, parenting, family dynamics, heath issues.
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Alexandra Lee Therapy, BA(Hons), FdSc, MBACP
Counsellor, MBACP
Online Only
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
Life can be a struggle challenging and confusing. Sometimes it can be difficult to talk openly to the people in your life. As an experienced psychotherapist I provide a safe, confidential space to explore whatever is on your mind. I can support you in finding your way through the difficulties you’re experiencing, or have experienced in the past, in a way that feels right for you, and at a pace that feels comfortable. We can work together to make sense of what you’re thinking, feeling and going through, allowing you to develop a sense of healing, establish goals and grow towards them, and gain a greater understanding of yourself.
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David Stevens
Counsellor, MBACP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
I am a BACP registered counsellor based in Leeds, UK with experience supporting clients through a wide range of challenges, including stress, anxiety, workplace burnout, men’s mental health, and the difficulties that come with feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I also work with people navigating grief, trauma, and major life decisions. My style is straightforward, down-to-earth, and supportive. I believe counselling should feel like a genuine conversation, not a clinical interview. I offer a safe and respectful space where you can be open without fear of judgement, and together we work at a pace that suits you.
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Rosalind Simpson
Psychotherapist, COSRT Accred
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Couples Therapy in Dalston, Hackney (N16) & Online Worldwide. City Dynamic Therapy offers couples counselling, marriage therapy, relationship counselling, and individual psychotherapy to help partners move beyond conflict, disconnection, and mistrust. Based in Dalston, Hackney, London, I am an experienced accredited counsellor, psychotherapist, and supervisor offering face-to-face therapy in London and secure online therapy worldwide for relationship issues, anxiety, stress, ADHD, trauma, and emotional wellbeing.
Couples Therapy in Dalston, Hackney (N16) & Online Worldwide. City Dynamic Therapy offers couples counselling, marriage therapy, relationship counselling, and individual psychotherapy to help partners move beyond conflict, disconnection, and mistrust. Based in Dalston, Hackney, London, I am an experienced accredited counsellor, psychotherapist, and supervisor offering face-to-face therapy in London and secure online therapy worldwide for relationship issues, anxiety, stress, ADHD, trauma, and emotional wellbeing.
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Nicola Salisbury
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Hello I'm Nicola, a qualified counsellor working with both adults and teenagers from all walks of life. My integrative training allows me to tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs at the time of contacting me, whether that be to listen to your story and sit with you in your pain or work with you to make positive changes to your life... or something in between. I can offer you a safe and confidential space for you to be heard without judgement or expectation. Your presenting issues might be anxiety, depression, a relationship breakdown, a bereavement, low self-esteem, difficulty coping with change and uncertainty or more.
Hello I'm Nicola, a qualified counsellor working with both adults and teenagers from all walks of life. My integrative training allows me to tailor my therapeutic approach to suit your needs at the time of contacting me, whether that be to listen to your story and sit with you in your pain or work with you to make positive changes to your life... or something in between. I can offer you a safe and confidential space for you to be heard without judgement or expectation. Your presenting issues might be anxiety, depression, a relationship breakdown, a bereavement, low self-esteem, difficulty coping with change and uncertainty or more.
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Jackie Wybrow
Psychotherapist, PNCPS Acc.
Serves Area
Hello, I am sure this feels like a daunting prospect finding a counsellor that you can share those feelings that have been troubling you and getting in the way of the life you want to lead. I believe the connection between counsellor and client is at the heart of the process. I can offer a safe space where you can explore difficult, complicated or confusing emotions in a warm, confidential, empathic environment. We can work together to gain a greater understanding of those feelings and move forward towards lasting and positive change for your future.
Hello, I am sure this feels like a daunting prospect finding a counsellor that you can share those feelings that have been troubling you and getting in the way of the life you want to lead. I believe the connection between counsellor and client is at the heart of the process. I can offer a safe space where you can explore difficult, complicated or confusing emotions in a warm, confidential, empathic environment. We can work together to gain a greater understanding of those feelings and move forward towards lasting and positive change for your future.
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Cora Beattie
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a UKCP trainee Psychoanalytic Attachment-based Psychotherapist. I like to create a safe and supportive space where I work collaboratively with my clients at their own pace. There’s no agenda or assumption on what you decide to talk about. You can choose to come on an open-ended basis, or maybe you'd like to discuss a specific issue and attend until you feel you have resolved it.
I am a BACP Accredited Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a UKCP trainee Psychoanalytic Attachment-based Psychotherapist. I like to create a safe and supportive space where I work collaboratively with my clients at their own pace. There’s no agenda or assumption on what you decide to talk about. You can choose to come on an open-ended basis, or maybe you'd like to discuss a specific issue and attend until you feel you have resolved it.
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Simone Jalabert
Counsellor, MBACP
Serves Area
Stuck, confused, anxious. I hear you. Are you in a couple or relationship and struggle to know what you want, how to say it and how to be heard and understood? Navigating life, relationships and a whirlwind of emotions is exhausting. Anxiety weighs heavy in our bodies and takes up space in our mind; feeling lost without a way forward is a lonely experience and past trauma can feel very present. I offer gentleness and compassion, challenge when it's welcome, humour when laughter can heal, and room for tears when they need to fall. I take the time to hear and validate you, your story and what has brought you to this place.
Stuck, confused, anxious. I hear you. Are you in a couple or relationship and struggle to know what you want, how to say it and how to be heard and understood? Navigating life, relationships and a whirlwind of emotions is exhausting. Anxiety weighs heavy in our bodies and takes up space in our mind; feeling lost without a way forward is a lonely experience and past trauma can feel very present. I offer gentleness and compassion, challenge when it's welcome, humour when laughter can heal, and room for tears when they need to fall. I take the time to hear and validate you, your story and what has brought you to this place.
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.