Male Counselling in Alderley Edge, ENG

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Christian Chalfont
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Alderley Edge SK9
Conventional indoor therapy is available in the centre of Manchester at my office in Deansgate.
As an Integrative Counsellor, I provide a service that combines several therapeutic practices, all aimed towards helping you feel whole again. In recent years, my work has focused strongly on addiction, trauma and issues around sex and sexuality. I also have a particular focus on identity, self-worth and boundaries. We are what we think and what we think governs how we feel - our beliefs shape our reality. My role is to help you process and integrate whatever it is you are struggling with, supporting you on your journey to improved mental and emotional wellbeing.
Conventional indoor therapy is available in the centre of Manchester at my office in Deansgate.
As an Integrative Counsellor, I provide a service that combines several therapeutic practices, all aimed towards helping you feel whole again. In recent years, my work has focused strongly on addiction, trauma and issues around sex and sexuality. I also have a particular focus on identity, self-worth and boundaries. We are what we think and what we think governs how we feel - our beliefs shape our reality. My role is to help you process and integrate whatever it is you are struggling with, supporting you on your journey to improved mental and emotional wellbeing.
01707 246855 View 01707 246855
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Sports Performance Mindset Coach
Verified Verified
Alderley Edge SK9
My approach to sports perfor mance mindset coaching is rooted in a deep understanding of the interconnectedness between the mind and physical prowess.
I am a dedicated and passionate sports perfor mance mindset coach with extensive experience in both football and athletics. My journey in the realm of sports psychology has been marked by a profound commitment to helping athletes unlock their full potential by mastering the mental aspects of their perfor mance. Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with Premier league footballers and world class athletes. These experiences have helped equip me with a versatile skill set to address the diverse needs of athletes.
My approach to sports perfor mance mindset coaching is rooted in a deep understanding of the interconnectedness between the mind and physical prowess.
I am a dedicated and passionate sports perfor mance mindset coach with extensive experience in both football and athletics. My journey in the realm of sports psychology has been marked by a profound commitment to helping athletes unlock their full potential by mastering the mental aspects of their perfor mance. Throughout my career, I have had the privilege of working with Premier league footballers and world class athletes. These experiences have helped equip me with a versatile skill set to address the diverse needs of athletes.
0161 524 7226 View 0161 524 7226
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Dr Lee Martin
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Alderley Edge SK9
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience working with individuals and couples experiencing a wide-range of emotional difficulties. I understand that reaching out for help may feel difficult and I offer a free initial consultation where we can introduce ourselves, understand the problem and discuss options for moving forward. I have extensive experience specialising in areas such as relationships, trauma/PTSD, addictions, loss, and adjustment.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with over 15 years of experience working with individuals and couples experiencing a wide-range of emotional difficulties. I understand that reaching out for help may feel difficult and I offer a free initial consultation where we can introduce ourselves, understand the problem and discuss options for moving forward. I have extensive experience specialising in areas such as relationships, trauma/PTSD, addictions, loss, and adjustment.
01625 708951 View 01625 708951
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Donald Alexander
Psychotherapist, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Alderley Edge SK9
I am committed to supporting people in healing from relational trauma, developmental trauma, childhood trauma and interpersonal trauma of all kinds. Hu man beings are amazing, remarkable and resilient in our ability to cope with adversity. We often compartmentalise or dissociate what happens to us so we can carry on living. We also turn to all manner of addictions and behaviours that on the surface may seem disordered and destructive yet at the same time they make perfect sense. They protect us, help us to stay in control, help numb the pain, help us to survive, and help communicate our stories.
I am committed to supporting people in healing from relational trauma, developmental trauma, childhood trauma and interpersonal trauma of all kinds. Hu man beings are amazing, remarkable and resilient in our ability to cope with adversity. We often compartmentalise or dissociate what happens to us so we can carry on living. We also turn to all manner of addictions and behaviours that on the surface may seem disordered and destructive yet at the same time they make perfect sense. They protect us, help us to stay in control, help numb the pain, help us to survive, and help communicate our stories.
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Cheshire Sobriety Clinic-John Wilkinson & Dr Shyra
MSc
Verified Verified
Lymm WA13
We are here to listen without any judgement and provide you with the knowledge and skills to successfully self manage.
Are you a high functioning professional, struggling with the consequences of your alcohol or drug use? Are you looking for a highly professional and effective service to help? You don’t have to wait to reach crisis point to decide that you need specialist help to protect your relationships, health, and everything you’ve worked hard for. We are confidential and very discreet and you will not be sat in a waiting room which makes you feel very uncomfortable. John has been helping people for 25 years, where these people have also been his educators. Dr Shyra Raj is a RTT practitioner and delivers our programme’s subconscious level work.
We are here to listen without any judgement and provide you with the knowledge and skills to successfully self manage.
Are you a high functioning professional, struggling with the consequences of your alcohol or drug use? Are you looking for a highly professional and effective service to help? You don’t have to wait to reach crisis point to decide that you need specialist help to protect your relationships, health, and everything you’ve worked hard for. We are confidential and very discreet and you will not be sat in a waiting room which makes you feel very uncomfortable. John has been helping people for 25 years, where these people have also been his educators. Dr Shyra Raj is a RTT practitioner and delivers our programme’s subconscious level work.
01925 597759 View 01925 597759
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Philipp C. Berkovits
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Stoke-on-Trent SK11
I am a registered psychotherapist with many health insurers including Aviva, AXA and Bupa.
Hello! Thanks for checking in! I specialize in childhood trauma, PTSD, anxiety, including OCD and panic, as well as autism. As an integrative therapist, I draw on theories and techniques from hu manistic, cognitive, and experiential therapies - particularly IFS (Internal Family Systems Therapy), EMDR, CBT and Mindfulness. My focus is on trauma processing and healing, increasing self-awareness, sense of present-moment experience, calmness and self-compassion.
I am a registered psychotherapist with many health insurers including Aviva, AXA and Bupa.
Hello! Thanks for checking in! I specialize in childhood trauma, PTSD, anxiety, including OCD and panic, as well as autism. As an integrative therapist, I draw on theories and techniques from hu manistic, cognitive, and experiential therapies - particularly IFS (Internal Family Systems Therapy), EMDR, CBT and Mindfulness. My focus is on trauma processing and healing, increasing self-awareness, sense of present-moment experience, calmness and self-compassion.
0161 524 1364 View 0161 524 1364
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Neal Trotman
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Altrincham WA14
There are many reasons why we seek therapy and would like someone to talk to.
Hi and thank you for visiting my profile. Opening up can be hard, I feel it is better to share a problem than to deal with it yourself. I enjoy helping people make sense of their experiences and finding different ways of living. I value hearing each person's story and helping you to find inner calm, clarity and understanding.
There are many reasons why we seek therapy and would like someone to talk to.
Hi and thank you for visiting my profile. Opening up can be hard, I feel it is better to share a problem than to deal with it yourself. I enjoy helping people make sense of their experiences and finding different ways of living. I value hearing each person's story and helping you to find inner calm, clarity and understanding.
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Michael Sivori
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stockport SK4
You will receive a safe, accepting environment, where I will listen, and support you to become more aware of how to make the right choices for yourself. I can work with self-esteem and self-image issues, and issues such as life-direction. I share the view, in modern psychology, that people thrive when they are living their life aligned with those values which hold most meaning for them. Living a meaningful, or meaning-guided life, is often at the core of many issues. Many people have never had a safe space to explore their values and assess what is ultimately meaningful to them, and I am able to offer this in our work together.
You will receive a safe, accepting environment, where I will listen, and support you to become more aware of how to make the right choices for yourself. I can work with self-esteem and self-image issues, and issues such as life-direction. I share the view, in modern psychology, that people thrive when they are living their life aligned with those values which hold most meaning for them. Living a meaningful, or meaning-guided life, is often at the core of many issues. Many people have never had a safe space to explore their values and assess what is ultimately meaningful to them, and I am able to offer this in our work together.
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James Leeson
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bramhall SK7
Im a Hu manist, I believe we are all uniquely valuable as hu man beings above all else, regardless of age, sex, race, religion, gender, or sexuality.
Do you feel Anxious or Depressed? Are you Angry, Exhausted, Stuck or Overwhelmed? Seeking counselling is a big step, and finding the right counsellor for you is the key to success. I offer a FREE 30min consultation call, so you can see if my style will work for you, or visit my website to see if you feel my approach will work for you. Life is so busy with many competing pressures. We face seemingly impossible situations through loss or trauma. It's easy to become lost or overwhelmed and start to struggle. Often we cant talk to friends and family, and we can start to feel alone, anxious or stuck.
Im a Hu manist, I believe we are all uniquely valuable as hu man beings above all else, regardless of age, sex, race, religion, gender, or sexuality.
Do you feel Anxious or Depressed? Are you Angry, Exhausted, Stuck or Overwhelmed? Seeking counselling is a big step, and finding the right counsellor for you is the key to success. I offer a FREE 30min consultation call, so you can see if my style will work for you, or visit my website to see if you feel my approach will work for you. Life is so busy with many competing pressures. We face seemingly impossible situations through loss or trauma. It's easy to become lost or overwhelmed and start to struggle. Often we cant talk to friends and family, and we can start to feel alone, anxious or stuck.
0161 524 0702 View 0161 524 0702
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CBT Therapy Manchester (Individuals & Couples)
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Hale WA15
Or how CBT therapy can help you manage your anxiety, worry & stress in more helpful ways.
Relationship struggles? Turn a good relationship into a great relationship. Resolve long standing difficulties. Relationship near break-up and you want to decide if the relationship can be saved? Imago Relationship Therapy can help towards more safety, connection, empathy, compassion & understanding in your relationship. Anxious, worrying a lot, stressed, low in mood, irritable? CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) can help. Be in touch for a free initial discussion.
Or how CBT therapy can help you manage your anxiety, worry & stress in more helpful ways.
Relationship struggles? Turn a good relationship into a great relationship. Resolve long standing difficulties. Relationship near break-up and you want to decide if the relationship can be saved? Imago Relationship Therapy can help towards more safety, connection, empathy, compassion & understanding in your relationship. Anxious, worrying a lot, stressed, low in mood, irritable? CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy) can help. Be in touch for a free initial discussion.
0161 509 6679 View 0161 509 6679
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Lee Rowland
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Manchester M13
I also have many years experience working in illicit drug and alcohol recovery and with young and adult clients with complex needs, social/health anxieties and stress related issues in both one to one and group therapy sessions.
I am a trusted Psychodynamic/CBT Therapist. I have helped many break through the obstacles holding them back; I feel life’s too short to be unhappy, unsure or unfulfilled. Let me help you learn and develop better ways to handle the issues that are standing in the way of your goals. I am proficient in issues including, Early Life Experiences, ADHD, Addiction, Alcohol/Drug issues, OCD/Phobias, Anxiety/Depression, Work Related Stress, PTSD, Autistic Spectrum, Bereavement, Anger Management, Domestic Violence, Panic Disorder.
I also have many years experience working in illicit drug and alcohol recovery and with young and adult clients with complex needs, social/health anxieties and stress related issues in both one to one and group therapy sessions.
I am a trusted Psychodynamic/CBT Therapist. I have helped many break through the obstacles holding them back; I feel life’s too short to be unhappy, unsure or unfulfilled. Let me help you learn and develop better ways to handle the issues that are standing in the way of your goals. I am proficient in issues including, Early Life Experiences, ADHD, Addiction, Alcohol/Drug issues, OCD/Phobias, Anxiety/Depression, Work Related Stress, PTSD, Autistic Spectrum, Bereavement, Anger Management, Domestic Violence, Panic Disorder.
0151 453 6765 View 0151 453 6765
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Beyond the Surface Therapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manchester M41  (Online Only)
Hi, I am Sam. I'm qualified in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy (DIT) which are both evidenced based approaches and endorsed by the NHS. Change is possible. I have worked with hundreds of clients with common mental health problems including Generalised anxiety, Social anxiety, Health anxiety, Panic Disorder, OCD, PTSD, Depression and those with interpersonal difficulties. I have witnessed the incredible efforts clients have made with my support to reduce their problems and to live better. I will work with you to overcome your problems and remove barriers to continued personal growth.
Hi, I am Sam. I'm qualified in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy (DIT) which are both evidenced based approaches and endorsed by the NHS. Change is possible. I have worked with hundreds of clients with common mental health problems including Generalised anxiety, Social anxiety, Health anxiety, Panic Disorder, OCD, PTSD, Depression and those with interpersonal difficulties. I have witnessed the incredible efforts clients have made with my support to reduce their problems and to live better. I will work with you to overcome your problems and remove barriers to continued personal growth.
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Resilient Therapies
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Macclesfield SK10
I can help in many different ways and we can discuss your goals and what you would like to achieve in therapy.
I'm Ben, an experienced mental health practitioner who has worked in the NHS for and privately for 14 years. I work with both adults and children online/in person. My main experience within the NHS has revolved around working with children and adolescents in a CAMHS team, working with complex and severe difficulties. I work with people at a pace which they feel comfortable, whilst also ensuring that we set collaborative goals to help improve someone's life. I'm registered with the BABCP and specialise in PTSD but have extensive experience in social anxiety, OCD, worry, depression, low self esteem, health anxiety and panic disorder.
I can help in many different ways and we can discuss your goals and what you would like to achieve in therapy.
I'm Ben, an experienced mental health practitioner who has worked in the NHS for and privately for 14 years. I work with both adults and children online/in person. My main experience within the NHS has revolved around working with children and adolescents in a CAMHS team, working with complex and severe difficulties. I work with people at a pace which they feel comfortable, whilst also ensuring that we set collaborative goals to help improve someone's life. I'm registered with the BABCP and specialise in PTSD but have extensive experience in social anxiety, OCD, worry, depression, low self esteem, health anxiety and panic disorder.
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Therapy with OCD Specialist who Recovered from OCD
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Altrincham WA14
Both my own experiences of OCD from an early age & my clinical training have led me to deeply understand OCD, & how to recover from it. I have been where you are now, & has successfully recovered from OCD. I understand the nature of your intrusive thoughts, obsessions, compulsions, struggles, & distress, & how to guide you out of your OCD labyrinth. I work with all themes, including (but not limited to) POCD, Harm OCD, HOCD, Somatic OCD, False Memory OCD, Real Event OCD, Contamination OCD, Checking OCD, & all taboo, violent, sexual images, & thoughts. My service is for adults (18+). Please visit my main website, doctorpointer.com
Both my own experiences of OCD from an early age & my clinical training have led me to deeply understand OCD, & how to recover from it. I have been where you are now, & has successfully recovered from OCD. I understand the nature of your intrusive thoughts, obsessions, compulsions, struggles, & distress, & how to guide you out of your OCD labyrinth. I work with all themes, including (but not limited to) POCD, Harm OCD, HOCD, Somatic OCD, False Memory OCD, Real Event OCD, Contamination OCD, Checking OCD, & all taboo, violent, sexual images, & thoughts. My service is for adults (18+). Please visit my main website, doctorpointer.com
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Nathan Jones
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Altrincham WA14
I am co-author of the recently published recovery manual and workbook, “Understanding Your Inner Child and Overcoming Addiction”.
Are you looking for a therapist who has been in your shoes? Someone who has felt the pain and anguish of addiction? Someone who won't judge and has the tools to help you recover from your own sexual/pornography/drug addiction? Someone, who has a proven record of helping people overcome their sexual addiction and lead a life of purpose and happiness? I am a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist who specialises in the treatment of sexual/drug addiction. I trained as a Cognitive and Behavioural Psychotherapist and recognised as a Certified Inner Child Recovery Process specialist.  I run an evidence based, online, group treatment program for
I am co-author of the recently published recovery manual and workbook, “Understanding Your Inner Child and Overcoming Addiction”.
Are you looking for a therapist who has been in your shoes? Someone who has felt the pain and anguish of addiction? Someone who won't judge and has the tools to help you recover from your own sexual/pornography/drug addiction? Someone, who has a proven record of helping people overcome their sexual addiction and lead a life of purpose and happiness? I am a BACP Accredited Psychotherapist who specialises in the treatment of sexual/drug addiction. I trained as a Cognitive and Behavioural Psychotherapist and recognised as a Certified Inner Child Recovery Process specialist.  I run an evidence based, online, group treatment program for
020 8106 4749 View 020 8106 4749
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Dr Didier Danillon
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Wilmslow SK9  (Online Only)
I am a psychologist and certified couple therapist (Imago). I am driven by my empathy and desire to help others. I welcome same-sex couples, all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and people from all ethnic/cultural backgrounds. Born in France, I trained in the UK at the highest academic level and in multiple settings (incl. the NHS). I can help adults with many mental health difficulties (anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma, OCD) and couples experiencing difficulties (communication, crisis, affairs). I am also highly experienced in supporting cancer patients and their families. Please see my website for more information.
I am a psychologist and certified couple therapist (Imago). I am driven by my empathy and desire to help others. I welcome same-sex couples, all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and people from all ethnic/cultural backgrounds. Born in France, I trained in the UK at the highest academic level and in multiple settings (incl. the NHS). I can help adults with many mental health difficulties (anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma, OCD) and couples experiencing difficulties (communication, crisis, affairs). I am also highly experienced in supporting cancer patients and their families. Please see my website for more information.
01625 468725 View 01625 468725
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Cheshire Wellness Centre
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Lymm WA13
Have you ever felt desperate or confused and not known where to turn or what help to ask for? Here at Cheshire Wellness Centre, we’re a wellness centre with a difference. We endeavour to provide a place that’s safe, where people can go when it gets too much. When it comes to mental health, we know there’s no quick fix or one-size-fits-all solution; everyone’s journey is unique, every day is different. That’s why our holistic approach is focused on overall wellbeing, rather than just traditional counselling.
Have you ever felt desperate or confused and not known where to turn or what help to ask for? Here at Cheshire Wellness Centre, we’re a wellness centre with a difference. We endeavour to provide a place that’s safe, where people can go when it gets too much. When it comes to mental health, we know there’s no quick fix or one-size-fits-all solution; everyone’s journey is unique, every day is different. That’s why our holistic approach is focused on overall wellbeing, rather than just traditional counselling.
01925 598703 View 01925 598703
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Stephen Griffiths Swgcounselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Manchester M20
I am a Counsellor based in Manchester offering In person and online sessions. Life can be challenging, and in places it can feel intolerable and overwhelming it can be difficult to know where to start unravelling this, how to make changes, what changes, if any, we need to make, and to try to make sense of why we feel the way that we do. This can be a very painful experience but however dark it may be today, doesn't mean tomorrow won't be lighter, counselling can offer an opportunity to be heard and to be understood. I work with clients from all backgrounds but have particular experience working with Addiction and with LGBT+ issues.
I am a Counsellor based in Manchester offering In person and online sessions. Life can be challenging, and in places it can feel intolerable and overwhelming it can be difficult to know where to start unravelling this, how to make changes, what changes, if any, we need to make, and to try to make sense of why we feel the way that we do. This can be a very painful experience but however dark it may be today, doesn't mean tomorrow won't be lighter, counselling can offer an opportunity to be heard and to be understood. I work with clients from all backgrounds but have particular experience working with Addiction and with LGBT+ issues.
01707 247146 View 01707 247146
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Nigel Magowan
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Manchester M20
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have been in full-time private practice in Manchester since 2002. I use a flexible integrative approach and offer both long-term psychotherapy and counselling, as well as short-term therapies. I integrate psychotherapy with CBT, EMDR, Somatic Therapies, IFS, Focusing, DBT Skills, DBR, NLP and life coaching. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, PTSD, Complex PTSD, bereavement, BPD, depression, stress, abuse, generalised anxiety, OCD, public speaking, low self-esteem, relationship issues, shame, IBS and pain management. I am BACP and UKCP registered.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have been in full-time private practice in Manchester since 2002. I use a flexible integrative approach and offer both long-term psychotherapy and counselling, as well as short-term therapies. I integrate psychotherapy with CBT, EMDR, Somatic Therapies, IFS, Focusing, DBT Skills, DBR, NLP and life coaching. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, PTSD, Complex PTSD, bereavement, BPD, depression, stress, abuse, generalised anxiety, OCD, public speaking, low self-esteem, relationship issues, shame, IBS and pain management. I am BACP and UKCP registered.
0161 696 3016 View 0161 696 3016
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Martin Gibbons Couples Therapy
Verified Verified
Wilmslow SK9
I am a qualified counsellor with 27 years experience. I work exclusively with couples, and only online, unless you live locally. I can help with the dissatisfaction that often seems to follow the initial besotted phase, repetitive conflict, affairs, loss of emotional connection or passion, and sexual issues. I also specialize in parenting problems. Currently you may be thinking the person you found may not be the 'right' one after all, and that there's a mythical perfect partner out there. Your task may well be not to find a new right person to love, but to reconnect with and love the right person you already found.
I am a qualified counsellor with 27 years experience. I work exclusively with couples, and only online, unless you live locally. I can help with the dissatisfaction that often seems to follow the initial besotted phase, repetitive conflict, affairs, loss of emotional connection or passion, and sexual issues. I also specialize in parenting problems. Currently you may be thinking the person you found may not be the 'right' one after all, and that there's a mythical perfect partner out there. Your task may well be not to find a new right person to love, but to reconnect with and love the right person you already found.
0151 317 5025 View 0151 317 5025

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Male Counsellors

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.