Counselling in Abbots Langley
Life and relationships can sometimes have us feel like we are being tossed around in a stormy sea. How to cope, wondering who I am or why does this keep happening to me can often be questions we ask ourselves. Sometimes it’s not appropriate or possible to talk with those close to you, and so having someone like a counsellor may be of help at this time. You may not know why you feel this way, and that’s ok too, we can work this out together. My own personal journey, I feel, has provided me the compassion and understanding of what it can be like when faced with times of despair, seemingly impossible situations, and self-doubt.
Life and relationships can sometimes have us feel like we are being tossed around in a stormy sea. How to cope, wondering who I am or why does this keep happening to me can often be questions we ask ourselves. Sometimes it’s not appropriate or possible to talk with those close to you, and so having someone like a counsellor may be of help at this time. You may not know why you feel this way, and that’s ok too, we can work this out together. My own personal journey, I feel, has provided me the compassion and understanding of what it can be like when faced with times of despair, seemingly impossible situations, and self-doubt.
Sometimes life can throw unexpected challenges our way, leaving us feeling unprepared and overwhelmed. Whatever problems you're facing, pressing ahead without taking care of your own needs can lead to anxiety, depression and even physical ill health.
Together, we can find ways to reduce the overwhelm, and get a sense of balance, so you can begin to cope with what life throws at you. Counselling provides the opportunity to address your difficulties, these might include anxiety or low self-esteem, trauma, work stress, or dealing with pain and loss.
Sometimes life can throw unexpected challenges our way, leaving us feeling unprepared and overwhelmed. Whatever problems you're facing, pressing ahead without taking care of your own needs can lead to anxiety, depression and even physical ill health.
Together, we can find ways to reduce the overwhelm, and get a sense of balance, so you can begin to cope with what life throws at you. Counselling provides the opportunity to address your difficulties, these might include anxiety or low self-esteem, trauma, work stress, or dealing with pain and loss.
Hello and thanks for looking at my profile. I am a qualified counsellor and have worked from my private practice based on the outskirts of Hemel Hempstead and Kings Langley since I qualified in 2009. During this time I have worked with many hundreds of clients offering long and short term counselling. I have gained wide experience working with many presenting issues including but not limited to : anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, loss or bereavement, anger or difficult relationships. Feelings of disconnection from self and others, or feeling disillusioned with life; lacking purpose and meaning.
Hello and thanks for looking at my profile. I am a qualified counsellor and have worked from my private practice based on the outskirts of Hemel Hempstead and Kings Langley since I qualified in 2009. During this time I have worked with many hundreds of clients offering long and short term counselling. I have gained wide experience working with many presenting issues including but not limited to : anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, loss or bereavement, anger or difficult relationships. Feelings of disconnection from self and others, or feeling disillusioned with life; lacking purpose and meaning.
Lots of profiles aren't there? The paradox of choice sets in; how do I choose the right person? IS there a right person? And what even is therapy anyway? My approach is collaborative, active, and holistic. I offer a reliable, confidential and non-judgmental space to help you, your inner thoughts and feelings and support you in times of transition, distress and emotional need. We all have the right to be heard and seen, sometimes we can get stuck along the journey of life and encounter challenging thoughts and emotions. Experience the freedom of living authentically, a life of meaning and joy...
Lots of profiles aren't there? The paradox of choice sets in; how do I choose the right person? IS there a right person? And what even is therapy anyway? My approach is collaborative, active, and holistic. I offer a reliable, confidential and non-judgmental space to help you, your inner thoughts and feelings and support you in times of transition, distress and emotional need. We all have the right to be heard and seen, sometimes we can get stuck along the journey of life and encounter challenging thoughts and emotions. Experience the freedom of living authentically, a life of meaning and joy...
I am a fully qualified and experienced Integrative Psychotherapist/Counsellor offering individual or couples therapy face to face or online, I am also a counselling supervisor. Taking the first steps to access counselling may feel a little overwhelming but this can lead to increased self esteem and knowledge, better relationships with loved ones and a greater quality of life. I offer a safe, warm and comfortable environment to work together to explore what may be going on for you and discover opportunities for change.
I am a fully qualified and experienced Integrative Psychotherapist/Counsellor offering individual or couples therapy face to face or online, I am also a counselling supervisor. Taking the first steps to access counselling may feel a little overwhelming but this can lead to increased self esteem and knowledge, better relationships with loved ones and a greater quality of life. I offer a safe, warm and comfortable environment to work together to explore what may be going on for you and discover opportunities for change.
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I specialise in: Healing The Mother Wound, Childless Menopause, Anxiety Related stress, Grief and Loss. I support couples with relationship issues and those who are struggling with childhood trauma and sibling rivalry.
I specialise in: Healing The Mother Wound, Childless Menopause, Anxiety Related stress, Grief and Loss. I support couples with relationship issues and those who are struggling with childhood trauma and sibling rivalry.
Looking for a therapist can be a stressful thing to do. How will it be?What should I say?What if nothing changes? These are all natural worries to have and if you want we can work through these together. It might be anxiety and difficulty to enjoy your every-day life that brought you here. Or you might feel stuck and lost, not finding meaning in things. It might be that you are going through life-transitions related to your age, your identity, your health, your relationship or marriage, parenthood, your career, moving to a different country. It might be that you are grieving and feeling that you lost yourself and the world you knew.
Looking for a therapist can be a stressful thing to do. How will it be?What should I say?What if nothing changes? These are all natural worries to have and if you want we can work through these together. It might be anxiety and difficulty to enjoy your every-day life that brought you here. Or you might feel stuck and lost, not finding meaning in things. It might be that you are going through life-transitions related to your age, your identity, your health, your relationship or marriage, parenthood, your career, moving to a different country. It might be that you are grieving and feeling that you lost yourself and the world you knew.
We work with prospective, pregnant, and new parents who are struggling with the emotional challenges of fertility, pregnancy, birth, or early parenthood. They may be experiencing anxiety, low mood, birth trauma, loss, self-criticism, overwhelm, or difficulties adjusting to their new identity and relationship with their baby.
We provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy to help parents understand their experiences, process difficult emotions, and build confidence in themselves and their parenting. Our aim is to help clients feel more connected to themselves, their baby, and the kind of parent they want to be.
We work with prospective, pregnant, and new parents who are struggling with the emotional challenges of fertility, pregnancy, birth, or early parenthood. They may be experiencing anxiety, low mood, birth trauma, loss, self-criticism, overwhelm, or difficulties adjusting to their new identity and relationship with their baby.
We provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy to help parents understand their experiences, process difficult emotions, and build confidence in themselves and their parenting. Our aim is to help clients feel more connected to themselves, their baby, and the kind of parent they want to be.
Deciding to come to therapy can be daunting. Perhaps you've been experiencing stress at work, relationship difficulties, or a general sense of feeling low. In considering therapy, you're already showing great courage and commitment to your wellbeing.
I believe that our unique experiences shape our thoughts, feelings, and ways of relating, and will work with you to build self-awareness and move towards positive personal growth. I have experience working with a diverse range of challenges including anxiety, body dysmorphia, depression, panic, bereavement, sex and relationship difficulties, neurodiversity and suicidal ideation.
Deciding to come to therapy can be daunting. Perhaps you've been experiencing stress at work, relationship difficulties, or a general sense of feeling low. In considering therapy, you're already showing great courage and commitment to your wellbeing.
I believe that our unique experiences shape our thoughts, feelings, and ways of relating, and will work with you to build self-awareness and move towards positive personal growth. I have experience working with a diverse range of challenges including anxiety, body dysmorphia, depression, panic, bereavement, sex and relationship difficulties, neurodiversity and suicidal ideation.
I practice under an integrative approach which means I draw from a variety of models and techniques of counselling and psychotherapy to ensure that anyone who comes to see me has the opportunity to be met and understood as a unique individual. I provide a safe, contained and confidential space, where you can explore your unique issues, providing a non-judgemental and supportive space for you to work at your own pace. The principal goal in therapy is to assist in the learning of trusting in your own process, which gives way to self-empowerment and the ability to make choices from a deeper part of yourself.
I practice under an integrative approach which means I draw from a variety of models and techniques of counselling and psychotherapy to ensure that anyone who comes to see me has the opportunity to be met and understood as a unique individual. I provide a safe, contained and confidential space, where you can explore your unique issues, providing a non-judgemental and supportive space for you to work at your own pace. The principal goal in therapy is to assist in the learning of trusting in your own process, which gives way to self-empowerment and the ability to make choices from a deeper part of yourself.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected? Maybe you are navigating anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, self-doubt , struggling to balance life's demands or struggling with your sexuality. Are you ready to take that courageous step towards change, even if it might feel daunting? Whether you are exploring identity, managing relationship challenges, healing from past trauma or trying to make sense of life's complexities , I am here to listen and help you move forward with your life, tailoring a plan to help you take back control and find emotional freedom and peace.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed or disconnected? Maybe you are navigating anxiety, depression, bereavement, trauma, self-doubt , struggling to balance life's demands or struggling with your sexuality. Are you ready to take that courageous step towards change, even if it might feel daunting? Whether you are exploring identity, managing relationship challenges, healing from past trauma or trying to make sense of life's complexities , I am here to listen and help you move forward with your life, tailoring a plan to help you take back control and find emotional freedom and peace.
Are you an adult struggling with low self-esteem and lack of confidence, anxiety, depression, or just feeling stuck, stressed, and overwhelmed?
I have worked in the helping professions for 27 years as a movement psychotherapist, lecturer, life coach, and CBT psychotherapist.
I can support you to overcome social anxiety, health anxiety, OCD, self-esteem difficulties, trauma and PTSD, panic disorder, generalised anxiety and stress, phobias, emotion regulation issues, and depression.
I am qualified in Psychology (BSc Hons), Dance Movement Therapy (Pg.Dip), Positive and Coaching Psychology (Master's degree), and CBT (PgDip).
Are you an adult struggling with low self-esteem and lack of confidence, anxiety, depression, or just feeling stuck, stressed, and overwhelmed?
I have worked in the helping professions for 27 years as a movement psychotherapist, lecturer, life coach, and CBT psychotherapist.
I can support you to overcome social anxiety, health anxiety, OCD, self-esteem difficulties, trauma and PTSD, panic disorder, generalised anxiety and stress, phobias, emotion regulation issues, and depression.
I am qualified in Psychology (BSc Hons), Dance Movement Therapy (Pg.Dip), Positive and Coaching Psychology (Master's degree), and CBT (PgDip).
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or childhood wounds, feeling lost in your professional or personal life, or facing the challenges of separation or single parenting, and all you want is to rebuild your life, you’re not alone—and this is a safe place to begin that journey.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or childhood wounds, feeling lost in your professional or personal life, or facing the challenges of separation or single parenting, and all you want is to rebuild your life, you’re not alone—and this is a safe place to begin that journey.
Hi, I'm Melisa, a third-culture kid, BACP Registered Counsellor & Psychotherapist working online with individuals and expats in the UK.
I work with people navigating specific challenges; you might be a rising athlete who's just suffered an injury, making sense of what it means for your identity and your future.
Perhaps you're dealing with awful and scary intrusive thoughts that don’t make sense, or struggling with emotional eating, restricting the foods you love, and hating the way you look.
Maybe you're in transition; adjusting to the UK as an Expat, a new job or school, or feeling stuck and uncertain.
Hi, I'm Melisa, a third-culture kid, BACP Registered Counsellor & Psychotherapist working online with individuals and expats in the UK.
I work with people navigating specific challenges; you might be a rising athlete who's just suffered an injury, making sense of what it means for your identity and your future.
Perhaps you're dealing with awful and scary intrusive thoughts that don’t make sense, or struggling with emotional eating, restricting the foods you love, and hating the way you look.
Maybe you're in transition; adjusting to the UK as an Expat, a new job or school, or feeling stuck and uncertain.
Therapy provides a place in which to safely explore thoughts and feelings free from the fear of judgement. My aim, as a therapist, is to empower my clients to live their lives as they wish, free from mental tension. I believe that the emotionally wounded deserve acceptance and compassion. I recognise that sometimes there are dark days. I integrate Person-Centred and Psychodynamic theories into my counselling.
Therapy provides a place in which to safely explore thoughts and feelings free from the fear of judgement. My aim, as a therapist, is to empower my clients to live their lives as they wish, free from mental tension. I believe that the emotionally wounded deserve acceptance and compassion. I recognise that sometimes there are dark days. I integrate Person-Centred and Psychodynamic theories into my counselling.
As a qualified and experienced Psychodynamic Psychotherapist, I provide a confidential, safe and supportive space for you to begin to process your feelings, come to terms with your losses and find a way forward.
I have experience of supporting people with many different issues including and not limited to; anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship issues, abuse, anger, family and/or group conflict, problems at work, bereavement and loss including; family members, partners, pets, friends, careers and anything else that was really important to you.
Please feel free to contact me about whatever is on your mind.
As a qualified and experienced Psychodynamic Psychotherapist, I provide a confidential, safe and supportive space for you to begin to process your feelings, come to terms with your losses and find a way forward.
I have experience of supporting people with many different issues including and not limited to; anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship issues, abuse, anger, family and/or group conflict, problems at work, bereavement and loss including; family members, partners, pets, friends, careers and anything else that was really important to you.
Please feel free to contact me about whatever is on your mind.
I’m here to help you hear yourself. To invite you to extend a gentle curiosity towards how you're operating - how you treat yourself, how you reach-for and respond to your environment, to other people, to the natural world. By lingering with our experiences in the present moment - our feelings, thoughts, sensations, gestures - and then taking time to notice what we’ve found, we learn about how our patterns of relating serve us, and how we limit ourselves. We can expand our capacity for self-understanding and self-compassion, which is a rich ground for change.
I’m here to help you hear yourself. To invite you to extend a gentle curiosity towards how you're operating - how you treat yourself, how you reach-for and respond to your environment, to other people, to the natural world. By lingering with our experiences in the present moment - our feelings, thoughts, sensations, gestures - and then taking time to notice what we’ve found, we learn about how our patterns of relating serve us, and how we limit ourselves. We can expand our capacity for self-understanding and self-compassion, which is a rich ground for change.
Many people come to therapy feeling anxious, low, or stuck in patterns that don’t seem to shift, even though they are functioning well in everyday life. You may appear outwardly competent while struggling internally — highly self-critical, emotionally disconnected, or repeatedly finding yourself in difficult relationship dynamics. I work with adults who want to understand why these patterns keep repeating and are seeking meaningful, lasting change rather than short-term coping strategies.
Many people come to therapy feeling anxious, low, or stuck in patterns that don’t seem to shift, even though they are functioning well in everyday life. You may appear outwardly competent while struggling internally — highly self-critical, emotionally disconnected, or repeatedly finding yourself in difficult relationship dynamics. I work with adults who want to understand why these patterns keep repeating and are seeking meaningful, lasting change rather than short-term coping strategies.
I am a psychotherapist living and working in Acton, West London. In these profoundly challenging times, I have developed expertise formed having lived through painful life-experiences that so many of us struggle with. How do we face the unexpected emotional upheavals that can feel so overwhelming? To cope with the grief and the loss of a loved one, or the depression and anxiety that can follow sudden unemployment? Is it possible to repair a broken relationship and come to terms with the painful fall out from an affair?
I am a psychotherapist living and working in Acton, West London. In these profoundly challenging times, I have developed expertise formed having lived through painful life-experiences that so many of us struggle with. How do we face the unexpected emotional upheavals that can feel so overwhelming? To cope with the grief and the loss of a loved one, or the depression and anxiety that can follow sudden unemployment? Is it possible to repair a broken relationship and come to terms with the painful fall out from an affair?
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in life?
Whatever you're facing, talking things through can be the first step toward healing and clarity. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace.
I understand how important it is to find a therapist you feel safe with. That’s why I offer a free 20-minute consultation—online or by phone—so you can ask questions and see if we’re a good fit.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stuck in life?
Whatever you're facing, talking things through can be the first step toward healing and clarity. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings at your own pace.
I understand how important it is to find a therapist you feel safe with. That’s why I offer a free 20-minute consultation—online or by phone—so you can ask questions and see if we’re a good fit.
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How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Abbots Langley
< 10
Counsellors in Abbots Langley who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Relationship Issues |
| 100% | Depression |
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 100% | Self Esteem |
| 80% | Bereavement |
| 80% | Behavioural Issues |
| 80% | Family Conflict |
Average years in practice
7 Years
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 20% | Male |
How Counsellors in Abbots Langley see their clients
| 100% | In Person and Online |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Abbots Langley?
Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.