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South Manchester Therapy Room
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
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Thank you for reading my profile. I am a warm, empathetic and compassionate CBT Psychotherapist, with a strong set of interpersonal skills. I am able to form a therapeutic alliance quickly, and have worked in Mental Health Services for 28 years. I have worked for the NHS with adults who have severe and enduring mental health difficulties, significant risks and co-morbidities since 1996. I am an enthusiastic and optimistic Therapist, and thoroughly enjoy my practice. I am fully registered with the BABCP and have up to date indemnity insurance. I completed my Family Interventions Training in Psychosis in May 2020.
Thank you for reading my profile. I am a warm, empathetic and compassionate CBT Psychotherapist, with a strong set of interpersonal skills. I am able to form a therapeutic alliance quickly, and have worked in Mental Health Services for 28 years. I have worked for the NHS with adults who have severe and enduring mental health difficulties, significant risks and co-morbidities since 1996. I am an enthusiastic and optimistic Therapist, and thoroughly enjoy my practice. I am fully registered with the BABCP and have up to date indemnity insurance. I completed my Family Interventions Training in Psychosis in May 2020.
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Fox Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
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Not accepting new clients
It is very human to have psychological difficulties at various points in our lives. Difficult things can happen to us leaving us feeling scared and/ or low/ depressed. Society can also make us feel pressurised to look a certain way and we can feel pretty worthless if don't believe that we conform to these societal expectations. All of these can be both frightening and overwhelming, which makes it so important to have a calm, compassionate and skilful therapist to guide you towards recovery.
It is very human to have psychological difficulties at various points in our lives. Difficult things can happen to us leaving us feeling scared and/ or low/ depressed. Society can also make us feel pressurised to look a certain way and we can feel pretty worthless if don't believe that we conform to these societal expectations. All of these can be both frightening and overwhelming, which makes it so important to have a calm, compassionate and skilful therapist to guide you towards recovery.
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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.