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The Retreat York: Adult Psychological Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
York YO10
Life can be complex, and so can mental health. This is why we have a range of different treatments and therapy approaches available, which we can tailor to suit your mental health needs. We put you at the heart of what we do. We offer choice and expert, individualised care for a very broad range of difficulties. We understand that seeking therapy can be daunting and that taking the first step can be a challenge. We start with an initial consultation with a senior clinician, to design a bespoke approach to your therapy, based on exploring and understanding your concerns, needs, preferences and therapy goals.
Life can be complex, and so can mental health. This is why we have a range of different treatments and therapy approaches available, which we can tailor to suit your mental health needs. We put you at the heart of what we do. We offer choice and expert, individualised care for a very broad range of difficulties. We understand that seeking therapy can be daunting and that taking the first step can be a challenge. We start with an initial consultation with a senior clinician, to design a bespoke approach to your therapy, based on exploring and understanding your concerns, needs, preferences and therapy goals.
01889 221612 View 01889 221612
Photo of Sukie Dennis, Counsellor in York, England
Sukie Dennis
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
York YO1
I'm a fully-qualified and BACP registered counsellor specialising in anxiety, depression, relational challenges and self-esteem issues. Through collaborative therapeutic work, I aim to empower you to explore and reframe your thoughts, feelings and behaviours in a non-judgmental, understanding and restorative way. Everyone has the capacity for self-awareness, growth and healing, and I strive to create an empowering therapeutic relationship in which you feel heard, understood and valued. Explore your concerns, gain insight into your experiences and develop more fulfilling ways of living.
I'm a fully-qualified and BACP registered counsellor specialising in anxiety, depression, relational challenges and self-esteem issues. Through collaborative therapeutic work, I aim to empower you to explore and reframe your thoughts, feelings and behaviours in a non-judgmental, understanding and restorative way. Everyone has the capacity for self-awareness, growth and healing, and I strive to create an empowering therapeutic relationship in which you feel heard, understood and valued. Explore your concerns, gain insight into your experiences and develop more fulfilling ways of living.
01904 935710 View 01904 935710
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Alina Dragomir
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
York YO10  (Online Only)
Sick of struggling to accomplish your goals? Feeling paralysed by anxious thoughts and harsh self-talk? Not sure what you want out of life? Or are you just wondering why daily tasks feel so damn challenging sometimes? You're in the right place. Your unique wiring can make it difficult to navigate the world sometimes - it comes with real challenges and no one can deny that or make it suddenly disappear. But guess what? You are worthy of feeling safe, confident, and fulfilled, and I'm dedicated to guiding you every step of the way.
Sick of struggling to accomplish your goals? Feeling paralysed by anxious thoughts and harsh self-talk? Not sure what you want out of life? Or are you just wondering why daily tasks feel so damn challenging sometimes? You're in the right place. Your unique wiring can make it difficult to navigate the world sometimes - it comes with real challenges and no one can deny that or make it suddenly disappear. But guess what? You are worthy of feeling safe, confident, and fulfilled, and I'm dedicated to guiding you every step of the way.
01307 498258 View 01307 498258
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Dr James Hoskinson
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
York YO1
My name is James (Jim) Hoskinson. I am a Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) registered Consultant Clinical Psychologist, having qualified in 2011. My broad clinical experience enables me to work effectively with adults, young people, and children. In doing so, my diverse mix of additional post-qualification training allows me to work with clients on a wide range of psychological matters. I can help you to move on from the past, so that you can regain meaningful focus on the present whilst you build for a purposeful and fulfilling future. For further information, please visit my website: (www.mindsmatterpsychology.com).
My name is James (Jim) Hoskinson. I am a Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) registered Consultant Clinical Psychologist, having qualified in 2011. My broad clinical experience enables me to work effectively with adults, young people, and children. In doing so, my diverse mix of additional post-qualification training allows me to work with clients on a wide range of psychological matters. I can help you to move on from the past, so that you can regain meaningful focus on the present whilst you build for a purposeful and fulfilling future. For further information, please visit my website: (www.mindsmatterpsychology.com).
0113 519 0406 View 0113 519 0406
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Dr Tej .
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
York YO1
Dr Tej is Consultant Clinical Psychologist with 25 years clinical experience across Infant, Child and Adult mental health services. In her clinical practice with adults, her expertise is in helping identify and work through intergenerational cycles of trauma – or trauma with a small ‘t’, such as complex developmental trauma/family trauma/narcissistic abuse, scapegoating, chronic shame, feeling stuck not knowing how to break relational patterns. Clients she has worked with report these difficulties in the context of bullying at work, couple /marital/relationship difficulties and attachment/parenting and birth trauma/difficulties.
Dr Tej is Consultant Clinical Psychologist with 25 years clinical experience across Infant, Child and Adult mental health services. In her clinical practice with adults, her expertise is in helping identify and work through intergenerational cycles of trauma – or trauma with a small ‘t’, such as complex developmental trauma/family trauma/narcissistic abuse, scapegoating, chronic shame, feeling stuck not knowing how to break relational patterns. Clients she has worked with report these difficulties in the context of bullying at work, couple /marital/relationship difficulties and attachment/parenting and birth trauma/difficulties.
020 3870 3028 View 020 3870 3028
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Counselling by Jane & Animal Assisted Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
York YO32
I am a Senior Accredited Counsellor. By talking & exploring your thoughts & feelings, you will discover underlying issues and discover strategies and new ways to cope & manage better. Therapy will help you gain a true sense of self & discover your potential. Any negative experiences or self-doubts you have, we will work through together so you overcome & find a more positive direction. Therapy will empower you to take control of your life. Therapy pets are available to sit with you throughout your sessions. I’m trained in Rewind Therapy for trauma. I hold a Certificate & Diploma in Supervision should any therapists require support.
I am a Senior Accredited Counsellor. By talking & exploring your thoughts & feelings, you will discover underlying issues and discover strategies and new ways to cope & manage better. Therapy will help you gain a true sense of self & discover your potential. Any negative experiences or self-doubts you have, we will work through together so you overcome & find a more positive direction. Therapy will empower you to take control of your life. Therapy pets are available to sit with you throughout your sessions. I’m trained in Rewind Therapy for trauma. I hold a Certificate & Diploma in Supervision should any therapists require support.
01723 333046 View 01723 333046

Online Therapists

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CMcTherapies
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Verified Verified
Halifax HX4
Available therapies: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) Cognitive Analytic Therapies (CAT) informed Emotional Freedom Therapy (EFT), Trauma/PTSD informed, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) informed, Schema therapy, Eclectic approaches drawing on all the above All therapies are offered on an adapted basis to increase access to people with disabilities.
CMcTherapies offer: Disability Services including but not limited to Benefits application and/or evidence of disability, Learning Disability, (ASD) Autism, Processing issues and Sensory Issues. Mental Health Services including but not limited to, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD, Anger management, Work related stress and Addiction.
Available therapies: Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) Cognitive Analytic Therapies (CAT) informed Emotional Freedom Therapy (EFT), Trauma/PTSD informed, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) informed, Schema therapy, Eclectic approaches drawing on all the above All therapies are offered on an adapted basis to increase access to people with disabilities.
CMcTherapies offer: Disability Services including but not limited to Benefits application and/or evidence of disability, Learning Disability, (ASD) Autism, Processing issues and Sensory Issues. Mental Health Services including but not limited to, Depression, Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD, Anger management, Work related stress and Addiction.
01422 761881 View 01422 761881
Photo of Duncan Precious, Psychologist in York, England
Duncan Precious
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Carnforth LA6
Duncan has a passion for reaching hard to engage people and providing preventative and accessible psychological therapy. He uses an integrative therapeutic approach, founded on CBT, EFT, IFS, Mindfulness Practice, Narrative Therapy, Positive Psychology and other social constructionist approaches. Duncan works hard to help people understand their difficulties within the context of their lives. He has considerable experience helping individuals, families and couples to improve their relationship and connection with self and others, heal from trauma, build psychological resilience, improve communication, find meaning and purpose.
Duncan has a passion for reaching hard to engage people and providing preventative and accessible psychological therapy. He uses an integrative therapeutic approach, founded on CBT, EFT, IFS, Mindfulness Practice, Narrative Therapy, Positive Psychology and other social constructionist approaches. Duncan works hard to help people understand their difficulties within the context of their lives. He has considerable experience helping individuals, families and couples to improve their relationship and connection with self and others, heal from trauma, build psychological resilience, improve communication, find meaning and purpose.
020 4538 8501 View 020 4538 8501
Photo of Luz Locatelli Dalimier, Psychotherapist in York, England
Luz Locatelli Dalimier
Psychotherapist, PhD, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Leeds LS8
EMDR, Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioural therapy (DBT), CBT, Cognitive analytic therapy (CAT), , Emotionally focused therapy, Family therapy, Humanistic, Integrative, Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), Person centred, Psychoanalytic, Psychodynamic, Relational, Solution focused brief therapy, Systemic, Transactional analysis.
My ideals clients are mainly Adults, Couples, EAP, Families, Groups, Older adults, Organisations, Trainees, athletes and Young people.
EMDR, Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioural therapy (DBT), CBT, Cognitive analytic therapy (CAT), , Emotionally focused therapy, Family therapy, Humanistic, Integrative, Neuro linguistic programming (NLP), Person centred, Psychoanalytic, Psychodynamic, Relational, Solution focused brief therapy, Systemic, Transactional analysis.
My ideals clients are mainly Adults, Couples, EAP, Families, Groups, Older adults, Organisations, Trainees, athletes and Young people.
0113 519 3203 View 0113 519 3203
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Kate Chartres Therapy and Consultation
MA
Verified Verified
Whitley Bay NE26
I am a Consultant Nurse currently on a career break, an accredited EMDR consultant and clinical supervisor. I specialise in working with co-morbid physical and mental health problems, although I work with people with everything from mild anxiety to complex trauma. I also have training in DBT, NLP, Hypnosis and am an accredited EFT practitioner. I believe that the mind and body are closely connected and one has to heal using the body and the mind to get the best benefit.
I am a Consultant Nurse currently on a career break, an accredited EMDR consultant and clinical supervisor. I specialise in working with co-morbid physical and mental health problems, although I work with people with everything from mild anxiety to complex trauma. I also have training in DBT, NLP, Hypnosis and am an accredited EFT practitioner. I believe that the mind and body are closely connected and one has to heal using the body and the mind to get the best benefit.
0191 743 9301 View 0191 743 9301
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Calming Minds Soothing Souls Therapies MBACP
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Manchester M2
Waitlist for new clients
Counselling/ Psychotherapy: Effective counselling reduces confusion, allowing you to make effective decisions leading to positive changes in your attitude, behaviours & overall well-being. The ultimate aim of counselling is to enable you to make your own choices, reach your own decisions & go forward with a greater sense of clarity & self-management. Hypnotherapy & mindfulness can be introduced as a type of complementary therapy in which hypnosis is used to create a state of focused attention and increased suggestibility during which positive suggestions are made to rid you of emotional blockage. Mindfulness keeps us focused
Counselling/ Psychotherapy: Effective counselling reduces confusion, allowing you to make effective decisions leading to positive changes in your attitude, behaviours & overall well-being. The ultimate aim of counselling is to enable you to make your own choices, reach your own decisions & go forward with a greater sense of clarity & self-management. Hypnotherapy & mindfulness can be introduced as a type of complementary therapy in which hypnosis is used to create a state of focused attention and increased suggestibility during which positive suggestions are made to rid you of emotional blockage. Mindfulness keeps us focused
0161 850 4018 View 0161 850 4018
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Dr Theresa Comer
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Newcastle upon Tyne NE3
Hi, I'm Theresa, a Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years experience working with people experiencing emotional and mental health difficulties. Whether you have been experiencing difficulties for a long time, or you have suddenly found yourself struggling, I offer a compassionate, collaborative and evidence-based approach to helping you move forward towards your goals. Psychological therapy offers a safe and reflective space to explore why you might be experiencing difficulties, before coming up with a meaningful plan together for a way to move forward.
Hi, I'm Theresa, a Clinical Psychologist with over 10 years experience working with people experiencing emotional and mental health difficulties. Whether you have been experiencing difficulties for a long time, or you have suddenly found yourself struggling, I offer a compassionate, collaborative and evidence-based approach to helping you move forward towards your goals. Psychological therapy offers a safe and reflective space to explore why you might be experiencing difficulties, before coming up with a meaningful plan together for a way to move forward.
0191 743 0137 View 0191 743 0137
Photo of Tanya Oosthuyzen, Psychologist in York, England
Tanya Oosthuyzen
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Harrogate HG2  (Online Only)
I'm a seasoned Clinical Psychologist, providing online therapy and assessment to adults & couples across the United Kingdom. With a broad spectrum of experience, I address various psychological distress & clinical concerns, focusing particularly on trauma, mood disorders, anxiety, adjustment, expatriates and acculturation, stress, attachment/relationships, grief, and dual diagnosis. My therapeutic approach also goes beyond clinical concerns, catering to individuals seeking increased self-knowledge and personal growth through the psychotherapeutic relationship, as well as providing supervision for fellow professionals in the field.
I'm a seasoned Clinical Psychologist, providing online therapy and assessment to adults & couples across the United Kingdom. With a broad spectrum of experience, I address various psychological distress & clinical concerns, focusing particularly on trauma, mood disorders, anxiety, adjustment, expatriates and acculturation, stress, attachment/relationships, grief, and dual diagnosis. My therapeutic approach also goes beyond clinical concerns, catering to individuals seeking increased self-knowledge and personal growth through the psychotherapeutic relationship, as well as providing supervision for fellow professionals in the field.
01423 648724 View 01423 648724
Photo of ImpactWellbeing Counselling, Supervision, Training in York, England
ImpactWellbeing Counselling, Supervision, Training
DCounsPsych
Verified Verified
Hexham NE46
Any of us can feel stuck, sad, lost and seemingly unable to move forward. Making sense of these feelings is critical to our both physical and emotional wellbeing. Impact Wellbeing works with you :an individual, a group, a team to explore ways to positively impact your world. Something small can appear to have led to a spiralling out of control by you /someone you care for /work with; you may feel unable to understand why someone self harms ; making sense of why someone took or tried to take their life by suicide, and there are few places to go to; we are here to help you make sense. What impacts your wellbeing matters.
Any of us can feel stuck, sad, lost and seemingly unable to move forward. Making sense of these feelings is critical to our both physical and emotional wellbeing. Impact Wellbeing works with you :an individual, a group, a team to explore ways to positively impact your world. Something small can appear to have led to a spiralling out of control by you /someone you care for /work with; you may feel unable to understand why someone self harms ; making sense of why someone took or tried to take their life by suicide, and there are few places to go to; we are here to help you make sense. What impacts your wellbeing matters.
01892 352214 View 01892 352214
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Dr Sonia Pace
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Whitley Bay NE26
Hello, I’m Dr Sonia Pace, Consultant Clinical Psychologist. I have over 12 years experience working with adults with a range of psychological and mental health difficulties. I work collaboratively with you each step of the way creating a supportive environment that enables self-discovery and growth. Therapy involves creating a safe space to develop a greater understanding of why you might be experiencing current difficulties and then using this understanding to tailor an approach that meets your individual needs.
Hello, I’m Dr Sonia Pace, Consultant Clinical Psychologist. I have over 12 years experience working with adults with a range of psychological and mental health difficulties. I work collaboratively with you each step of the way creating a supportive environment that enables self-discovery and growth. Therapy involves creating a safe space to develop a greater understanding of why you might be experiencing current difficulties and then using this understanding to tailor an approach that meets your individual needs.
0191 743 0344 View 0191 743 0344
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Cura Psychology
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Lichfield WS13
We have availability in our expert team now for child/family and adult therapy. We recognise that reaching out for help can be a big step. I run Cura Psychology, Lichfield's most established independent clinical psychology, therapy and counselling practice. We are a bespoke team of highly skilled and experienced mental health professionals offering CBT, ACT, trauma treatments, DDP, theraplay, music therapy/art therapy and creative therapies and parenting advice as well as assessments for ADHD and Autism; delivered within a warm and collaborative therapeutic relationship in our beautiful suite. We would love to hear from you!
We have availability in our expert team now for child/family and adult therapy. We recognise that reaching out for help can be a big step. I run Cura Psychology, Lichfield's most established independent clinical psychology, therapy and counselling practice. We are a bespoke team of highly skilled and experienced mental health professionals offering CBT, ACT, trauma treatments, DDP, theraplay, music therapy/art therapy and creative therapies and parenting advice as well as assessments for ADHD and Autism; delivered within a warm and collaborative therapeutic relationship in our beautiful suite. We would love to hear from you!
0121 817 7058 View 0121 817 7058
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Diverse Wellbeing Services Ltd
Psychotherapist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Rochdale OL11
As a specialist psychologist and psychotherapist, I work with the National Health Services UK, focusing on services for adults with autism/ADHD, PTSD, couples, psychosexual therapy, and psychological therapy for comorbid mental health conditions. I am deeply interested in the efficacy of psychological therapies for these groups and the necessary adaptations in therapy. My extensive experience in assessment, formulation, and clinical management allows me to contribute to service development, supervision, safeguarding, and the creation of innovative client engagement methods in therapy.
As a specialist psychologist and psychotherapist, I work with the National Health Services UK, focusing on services for adults with autism/ADHD, PTSD, couples, psychosexual therapy, and psychological therapy for comorbid mental health conditions. I am deeply interested in the efficacy of psychological therapies for these groups and the necessary adaptations in therapy. My extensive experience in assessment, formulation, and clinical management allows me to contribute to service development, supervision, safeguarding, and the creation of innovative client engagement methods in therapy.
01706 300329 View 01706 300329
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Nigel Magowan
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Manchester M1
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have been in full-time private practice in Manchester since 2002. I use a flexible integrative approach and offer both long-term psychotherapy and counselling, as well as short-term therapies. I integrate psychotherapy with CBT, EMDR, Somatic Therapies, IFS, Focusing, DBT Skills, DBR, NLP and life coaching. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, PTSD, Complex PTSD, bereavement, BPD, depression, stress, abuse, generalised anxiety, OCD, public speaking, low self-esteem, relationship issues, shame, IBS and pain management. I am BACP and UKCP registered.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have been in full-time private practice in Manchester since 2002. I use a flexible integrative approach and offer both long-term psychotherapy and counselling, as well as short-term therapies. I integrate psychotherapy with CBT, EMDR, Somatic Therapies, IFS, Focusing, DBT Skills, DBR, NLP and life coaching. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues including anxiety, PTSD, Complex PTSD, bereavement, BPD, depression, stress, abuse, generalised anxiety, OCD, public speaking, low self-esteem, relationship issues, shame, IBS and pain management. I am BACP and UKCP registered.
0161 696 3016 View 0161 696 3016
Photo of Dr Jemma Jackson, Psychologist in York, England
Dr Jemma Jackson
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Brough HU15
I am a highly experienced and specialist Clinical Psychologist with 22 years of NHS experience, working predominantly with adults and adolescents suffering a variety of mental health difficulties. I offer individual, couples and some family therapies employing a range of person-centred and evidence based therapies. I have a particular interest in working with childhood and complex trauma, PTSD, dissociative disorders, personality disorder, mood disorders, eating disorders and attachment/relationship difficulties. I practice MBT, DBT, trauma processing therapies, CAT and CFT to tailor individualised intervention packages of care.
I am a highly experienced and specialist Clinical Psychologist with 22 years of NHS experience, working predominantly with adults and adolescents suffering a variety of mental health difficulties. I offer individual, couples and some family therapies employing a range of person-centred and evidence based therapies. I have a particular interest in working with childhood and complex trauma, PTSD, dissociative disorders, personality disorder, mood disorders, eating disorders and attachment/relationship difficulties. I practice MBT, DBT, trauma processing therapies, CAT and CFT to tailor individualised intervention packages of care.
017683 47700 View 017683 47700
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First Psychology Newcastle
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Newcastle upon Tyne NE1
Hello! I am Professor Ewan Gillon, Clinical Director of First Psychology, an independent therapy practice based in Scotland and North East England. Here in Newcastle we have team of highly skilled counsellors, psychotherapists, CBT practitioners and applied psychologists. We offer a variety of therapy options including counselling, CBT, psychotherapy and couples therapy. Our approach is to work in a way that is tailored to your needs, whatever difficulties you are experiencing. We know that coming to therapy can be daunting and we are here to help. Our approach is always kind, friendly, experienced and highly professional.
Hello! I am Professor Ewan Gillon, Clinical Director of First Psychology, an independent therapy practice based in Scotland and North East England. Here in Newcastle we have team of highly skilled counsellors, psychotherapists, CBT practitioners and applied psychologists. We offer a variety of therapy options including counselling, CBT, psychotherapy and couples therapy. Our approach is to work in a way that is tailored to your needs, whatever difficulties you are experiencing. We know that coming to therapy can be daunting and we are here to help. Our approach is always kind, friendly, experienced and highly professional.
0191 743 3753 View 0191 743 3753

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.