Emotionally Focused Counselling in Newark

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Dr Sarah Toft Flourish Psychological Services Ltd
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Newark NG24
Having worked for 20 years in the NHS and in recent years within my private practice, I have a wealth of experience working with adults to improve their Psychological well-being, addressing a range of areas, including; anxiety, insomnia, panic, depression, self esteem, relationship concerns, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), etc. If you wish to make changes in your life, to feel calmer, more confident and less down, then therapy could help you with this.
Having worked for 20 years in the NHS and in recent years within my private practice, I have a wealth of experience working with adults to improve their Psychological well-being, addressing a range of areas, including; anxiety, insomnia, panic, depression, self esteem, relationship concerns, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), etc. If you wish to make changes in your life, to feel calmer, more confident and less down, then therapy could help you with this.
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Jay Keep
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Newark NG22
Welcome! I am a fully qualified, accredited, and experienced Counsellor Psychotherapist & Wellbeing Coach. Life can be very challenging and we can feel sad lonely, anxious, angry or numb. Maybe you are suffering from trauma, a bereavement, relationship issues or are being bullied? These are some of the issues I can help with. I will work collaboratively and confidentially with you to achieve your goals. Therapy is known to improve clarity, self-awareness, self-esteem and coping skills. I offer counselling for single, short term issues or psychotherapy for more deeper rooted issues. Text me to book a complimentary phone chat.
Welcome! I am a fully qualified, accredited, and experienced Counsellor Psychotherapist & Wellbeing Coach. Life can be very challenging and we can feel sad lonely, anxious, angry or numb. Maybe you are suffering from trauma, a bereavement, relationship issues or are being bullied? These are some of the issues I can help with. I will work collaboratively and confidentially with you to achieve your goals. Therapy is known to improve clarity, self-awareness, self-esteem and coping skills. I offer counselling for single, short term issues or psychotherapy for more deeper rooted issues. Text me to book a complimentary phone chat.
01623 572243 View 01623 572243
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Claire Marlow
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Newark NG24
Would you like to feel calm and less reactive? Less overwhelmed and more in control? To feel happier in your relationships with others…and with yourself? Sometimes in life, we get “stuck” and feel hopeless, unable to see a way forward. Whether you're plagued by a negative self-image, painful relationships or you're struggling to cope with life, I offer counselling and psychotherapy, to people just like you. I'll empower you to make the changes that you want to make and become the person you were meant to be. Too many professionals promise that they will transform your life! I won't do that - but I know that with my help, you can.
Would you like to feel calm and less reactive? Less overwhelmed and more in control? To feel happier in your relationships with others…and with yourself? Sometimes in life, we get “stuck” and feel hopeless, unable to see a way forward. Whether you're plagued by a negative self-image, painful relationships or you're struggling to cope with life, I offer counselling and psychotherapy, to people just like you. I'll empower you to make the changes that you want to make and become the person you were meant to be. Too many professionals promise that they will transform your life! I won't do that - but I know that with my help, you can.
01949 480446 View 01949 480446
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Kate Carr Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Newark NG24
In a safe and confidential environment, I can help you explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours to gain an understanding of how they impact your quality of life. I pride myself on being creative and tailoring therapy to suit each individual, whilst using treatments that are based on results and evidence. I'm a firm believer that people don't fit into boxes and this is something I bring to therapy. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and EMDR Therapist and offer face to face, telephone and online appointments. My associate therapists offer counselling, CBT and EMDR Therapy.
In a safe and confidential environment, I can help you explore your thoughts, feelings and behaviours to gain an understanding of how they impact your quality of life. I pride myself on being creative and tailoring therapy to suit each individual, whilst using treatments that are based on results and evidence. I'm a firm believer that people don't fit into boxes and this is something I bring to therapy. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and EMDR Therapist and offer face to face, telephone and online appointments. My associate therapists offer counselling, CBT and EMDR Therapy.
01522 457065 View 01522 457065
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Private ReFLECtion Therapy Ltd
Psychologist, FMBPsS
Verified Verified
Newark NG22
My ideal client is one that has a specific goal in mind that we can collaboratively work on. Your goal could be anything from stress management, emotional resilience building, behavioural change, to phobias and habit reversal. You would be open to learning new coping skills to help obtain your target. It's likely you have been let down by therapeutic services before and are looking for a way to be your own therapist through a short term transformation, rather than spending 1000s of hours in session indefinitely. On average, my clients feel results in as little as 3, 1 to 1.5 hour sessions. https:/www.Privatereflectiontherapy.co.uk
My ideal client is one that has a specific goal in mind that we can collaboratively work on. Your goal could be anything from stress management, emotional resilience building, behavioural change, to phobias and habit reversal. You would be open to learning new coping skills to help obtain your target. It's likely you have been let down by therapeutic services before and are looking for a way to be your own therapist through a short term transformation, rather than spending 1000s of hours in session indefinitely. On average, my clients feel results in as little as 3, 1 to 1.5 hour sessions. https:/www.Privatereflectiontherapy.co.uk
01777 809408 View 01777 809408
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JWM Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Newark NG23
Are you feeling overwhelmed with difficult feelings? Have you been through a bereavement or loss that you're struggling to come to terms with? Have you experienced painful and traumatic life events that still impact on you today and stop you living the life you want. Would you like to improve your relationships with the people in your life? You may be struggling with issues life anxiety, depression or low self-worth. My focus is to offer a counselling relationship that is supportive, nurturing and empowering. I can offer practical coping strategies, better insight and understanding as well as help you find your own solutions.
Are you feeling overwhelmed with difficult feelings? Have you been through a bereavement or loss that you're struggling to come to terms with? Have you experienced painful and traumatic life events that still impact on you today and stop you living the life you want. Would you like to improve your relationships with the people in your life? You may be struggling with issues life anxiety, depression or low self-worth. My focus is to offer a counselling relationship that is supportive, nurturing and empowering. I can offer practical coping strategies, better insight and understanding as well as help you find your own solutions.
01529 400960 View 01529 400960

More Therapists Nearby

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Stacey Fynn
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Edwinstowe NG21
Hello and welcome. It is normal to experience stages in life where it seems to make no sense, perhaps events feel overwhelming and life seems impossible to navigate. Alternatively relationships may be problematic or recurrent patterns of behaviour are negatively affecting everyday life. People find their way to therapy for many different reasons and it takes courage to make the decision. Coming from an Integrative approach means that I can draw from a range of therapeutic approaches. This enables me to engage with you in a way that will be most effective and tailored to best suit your individual needs.
Hello and welcome. It is normal to experience stages in life where it seems to make no sense, perhaps events feel overwhelming and life seems impossible to navigate. Alternatively relationships may be problematic or recurrent patterns of behaviour are negatively affecting everyday life. People find their way to therapy for many different reasons and it takes courage to make the decision. Coming from an Integrative approach means that I can draw from a range of therapeutic approaches. This enables me to engage with you in a way that will be most effective and tailored to best suit your individual needs.
07533 278423 View 07533 278423
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Dr Steven Lilley, Inter-Mind Ltd
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Rainworth NG21
My name is Steve Lilley and I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist and Accredited Cognitive Analytic Therapist (ACAT) with over 19 years' experience of working in the mental health field, including the NHS, independent secure mental health services, and private practice (Inter-Mind Psychological Services Ltd). I pride myself on a down-to-Earth approach that is highly confidential, compassionate, and consistent with my professional ethics and values. I use the knowledge and skills I have to try to help clients make sense of their difficulties and to find ways of moving forwards in their lives.
My name is Steve Lilley and I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist and Accredited Cognitive Analytic Therapist (ACAT) with over 19 years' experience of working in the mental health field, including the NHS, independent secure mental health services, and private practice (Inter-Mind Psychological Services Ltd). I pride myself on a down-to-Earth approach that is highly confidential, compassionate, and consistent with my professional ethics and values. I use the knowledge and skills I have to try to help clients make sense of their difficulties and to find ways of moving forwards in their lives.
01623 392167 View 01623 392167
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Polly Dexter
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Newark-on-Trent NG24
Hello, I’m a fully qualified Psychotherapist working with adults and young people to help improve well-being and quality of life. I offer short or longer term therapy depending on your needs and wants. If you are feeling low in mood, anxious, overwhelmed or stuck in some way, psychotherapy can help. I firmly believe that we each have the potential to change, grow and heal when we are offered the right support. I have worked with a broad range of people on the issues that are important to them. Themes have included anxiety, depression, complex trauma, loss, neurodiversity, relationship difficulties, addiction, among many others.
Hello, I’m a fully qualified Psychotherapist working with adults and young people to help improve well-being and quality of life. I offer short or longer term therapy depending on your needs and wants. If you are feeling low in mood, anxious, overwhelmed or stuck in some way, psychotherapy can help. I firmly believe that we each have the potential to change, grow and heal when we are offered the right support. I have worked with a broad range of people on the issues that are important to them. Themes have included anxiety, depression, complex trauma, loss, neurodiversity, relationship difficulties, addiction, among many others.
0115 647 8191 View 0115 647 8191

Online Therapists

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Sunila John
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Leicester LE4
Being a qualified Integrative practitioner I employ a blended approach of a few modalities such as Attachment, CBT, PCT, CFT, EFT, Mindfulness, inner child work, and guided imagery work, best suited to my clients.
Hello, I am Sunila a registered Psychotherapist. I hold a Master of Science in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy along with a bachelor's degree in Psychology. I am also a certified couples therapist. My clinical experience includes working with clients on various issues such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, bereavement, loss, low self-esteem, body image, interpersonal issues, suicidal and self-harm tendencies, childhood trauma, etc. I commit to providing a non-judgemental and safe space for my clients to explore their experiences, inner processes of thoughts and emotions, and past memories.
Being a qualified Integrative practitioner I employ a blended approach of a few modalities such as Attachment, CBT, PCT, CFT, EFT, Mindfulness, inner child work, and guided imagery work, best suited to my clients.
Hello, I am Sunila a registered Psychotherapist. I hold a Master of Science in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy along with a bachelor's degree in Psychology. I am also a certified couples therapist. My clinical experience includes working with clients on various issues such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, bereavement, loss, low self-esteem, body image, interpersonal issues, suicidal and self-harm tendencies, childhood trauma, etc. I commit to providing a non-judgemental and safe space for my clients to explore their experiences, inner processes of thoughts and emotions, and past memories.
0116 478 4084 View 0116 478 4084
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Ultraliving
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stockport SK7  (Online Only)
My approach is integrative, which means that I draw on a number of psychological theories and/or coaching approaches including: EMDR, IFS, existentialism, solution focused, emotionally focused, person centred and strengths based.
Hi I'm Susie. I believe that relationships are really important. We encounter lots of different relationships over the course of our lives: friends, siblings, parents, bosses, co-workers…and then there’s the relationship we have with ourselves. Our unique life experiences inform our thoughts, feelings and behaviours; and sometimes we can get stuck in outdated patterns. Common mental health conditions such as: depression, anxiety, OCD, phobias, and addiction, are often symptoms of the effects of adverse life experiences. Treating the underlying causes of whichever symptoms are affecting you can dramatically reduce their impact.
My approach is integrative, which means that I draw on a number of psychological theories and/or coaching approaches including: EMDR, IFS, existentialism, solution focused, emotionally focused, person centred and strengths based.
Hi I'm Susie. I believe that relationships are really important. We encounter lots of different relationships over the course of our lives: friends, siblings, parents, bosses, co-workers…and then there’s the relationship we have with ourselves. Our unique life experiences inform our thoughts, feelings and behaviours; and sometimes we can get stuck in outdated patterns. Common mental health conditions such as: depression, anxiety, OCD, phobias, and addiction, are often symptoms of the effects of adverse life experiences. Treating the underlying causes of whichever symptoms are affecting you can dramatically reduce their impact.
0161 524 1046 View 0161 524 1046
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Laura Duffy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Dunstable LU6
I am also an experienced Hypnotherapist & EFT Practitioner, whilst these therapies may not be for you there are certainly tools we can borrow from them such as calming & visualisation techniques which work great on anxiety, building confidence & self-esteem.
Hi, my name is Laura and I started my practice in 2014. My passion is helping people who suffer with depression and anxiety, having personal experience with both. I enjoy finding new and creative ways of helping people to find their happiness and be at one with themselves. We are all different and as such all need a different approach, we are not broken and certainly do not need fixing. We can all at some point need someone to talk to about an imbalance in our lives and by using various techniques proven to be effective you will be able to find that balance and achieve the life you want to live not only now but also in the future.
I am also an experienced Hypnotherapist & EFT Practitioner, whilst these therapies may not be for you there are certainly tools we can borrow from them such as calming & visualisation techniques which work great on anxiety, building confidence & self-esteem.
Hi, my name is Laura and I started my practice in 2014. My passion is helping people who suffer with depression and anxiety, having personal experience with both. I enjoy finding new and creative ways of helping people to find their happiness and be at one with themselves. We are all different and as such all need a different approach, we are not broken and certainly do not need fixing. We can all at some point need someone to talk to about an imbalance in our lives and by using various techniques proven to be effective you will be able to find that balance and achieve the life you want to live not only now but also in the future.
01582 369620 View 01582 369620
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Breakthrough2Change
Counsellor, MSc, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Boston PE22
If you are struggling with anxiety (worry), low mood or depression, relationship problems or distress, or suffering from the effects of trauma, I might be able to help you. I am a psychotherapist (person-centred experiential therapist) with additional training in Emotion Focused Individual therapy & Emotionally Focused Couple therapy. As my approach is emotion focused, my ideal client (individual or couple) would be willing to explore & work-through their painful emotions/feelings within therapy sessions by working with the therapist to achieve better mental, emotional relational well-being & resolution of problematic experiences.
If you are struggling with anxiety (worry), low mood or depression, relationship problems or distress, or suffering from the effects of trauma, I might be able to help you. I am a psychotherapist (person-centred experiential therapist) with additional training in Emotion Focused Individual therapy & Emotionally Focused Couple therapy. As my approach is emotion focused, my ideal client (individual or couple) would be willing to explore & work-through their painful emotions/feelings within therapy sessions by working with the therapist to achieve better mental, emotional relational well-being & resolution of problematic experiences.
01205 336971 View 01205 336971
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David Kinvig
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Blackpool FY4
I am a Registered Accredited Advanced EFT Practitioner an Advanced Integral Eye Movement (IEMT) Practitioner, Counsellor and a CBT therapist.
I am trained in a range of modalities including cbt, mindfulness and systemic family therapy. As an accredited psychotherapist and supervisor I work across the full spectrum of psychological disorders. I have particular interest in all areas of trauma, OCD, eating disorders, high end groups, personality disorders, addiction, autism, learning disabilities and bereavement. I have a particular passion in working with suicidal people, survivors of suicide and with the families/friends of those whom live with the aftermath of suicide. I have particular interest in couple/relationship work. I am a trained and experienced family therapist.
I am a Registered Accredited Advanced EFT Practitioner an Advanced Integral Eye Movement (IEMT) Practitioner, Counsellor and a CBT therapist.
I am trained in a range of modalities including cbt, mindfulness and systemic family therapy. As an accredited psychotherapist and supervisor I work across the full spectrum of psychological disorders. I have particular interest in all areas of trauma, OCD, eating disorders, high end groups, personality disorders, addiction, autism, learning disabilities and bereavement. I have a particular passion in working with suicidal people, survivors of suicide and with the families/friends of those whom live with the aftermath of suicide. I have particular interest in couple/relationship work. I am a trained and experienced family therapist.
01253 335645 View 01253 335645
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Sharon Fox
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Redditch B97
As an Integrative Counsellor, I offer a variety of counselling styles to suit your individual needs including Person Centred Therapy, Single Session Therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy, CBT, CEBT Eating Disorders), EFT and Outdoor Therapy.
Hi, my name is Sharon and I am a Psychotherapist based in Redditch offering face to face, phone and online therapy. I work online with clients from across the UK. I work with adults and young people age 13+ to improve mental health and emotional wellbeing. As a fully qualified and experienced Integrative Therapist and an Accredited member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I offer a relaxed and supportive space to talk. Whether you are looking for a brief, solution focussed approach or to work for longer on deeper issues, I can provide a safe, confidential environment to explore your concerns.
As an Integrative Counsellor, I offer a variety of counselling styles to suit your individual needs including Person Centred Therapy, Single Session Therapy, Solution Focussed Therapy, CBT, CEBT Eating Disorders), EFT and Outdoor Therapy.
Hi, my name is Sharon and I am a Psychotherapist based in Redditch offering face to face, phone and online therapy. I work online with clients from across the UK. I work with adults and young people age 13+ to improve mental health and emotional wellbeing. As a fully qualified and experienced Integrative Therapist and an Accredited member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists, I offer a relaxed and supportive space to talk. Whether you are looking for a brief, solution focussed approach or to work for longer on deeper issues, I can provide a safe, confidential environment to explore your concerns.
01527 381065 View 01527 381065
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Altogether Human CIC - Dr Gemma Parker
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Manchester M21
I use a mixture of models to work with couples, parents and families, particularly emotionally focused therapy techniques (EFT) with couples and non-violent resistance (NVR), which is a brilliant approach to reducing conflict and aggression in families.
I'm Gemma. I'm a clinical psychologist with a passion for working with families and wider systems around people. I work with couples, and parents who are struggling with the behaviour of their children, particularly aggression or other risky behaviours. I also work with couples who are experiencing significant levels of conflict and harmful or abusive behaviour. Sometimes, my work is with parents who have separated and are trying to work out how to reduce the impact of this separation on their children, or repair or reconstruct relationships that have become strained or distant.
I use a mixture of models to work with couples, parents and families, particularly emotionally focused therapy techniques (EFT) with couples and non-violent resistance (NVR), which is a brilliant approach to reducing conflict and aggression in families.
I'm Gemma. I'm a clinical psychologist with a passion for working with families and wider systems around people. I work with couples, and parents who are struggling with the behaviour of their children, particularly aggression or other risky behaviours. I also work with couples who are experiencing significant levels of conflict and harmful or abusive behaviour. Sometimes, my work is with parents who have separated and are trying to work out how to reduce the impact of this separation on their children, or repair or reconstruct relationships that have become strained or distant.
0161 524 1130 View 0161 524 1130
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Dr Aoiffe Kilcommons, Happiness in Mind.
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Wilmslow SK9
Are you looking for lasting happiness & well-being? Dr Kilcommons is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist, Cognitive Analytic Therapist, accredited Cognitive Behaviour Therapist & Brainspotting Therapist; with over 25 years clinical experience across community & inpatient, substance misuse, physical health, forensic & performance settings. She is also EFT Level II, Voice Dialogue & Reiki trained. She is proud to work with sporting clubs/elite athletes in GB Taekwondo, British Cycling, Premier League Football & Lancashire Cricket Club. Sessions are held in the strictest of confidence, with compassionate care & tailored to your needs.
Are you looking for lasting happiness & well-being? Dr Kilcommons is a Consultant Clinical Psychologist, Cognitive Analytic Therapist, accredited Cognitive Behaviour Therapist & Brainspotting Therapist; with over 25 years clinical experience across community & inpatient, substance misuse, physical health, forensic & performance settings. She is also EFT Level II, Voice Dialogue & Reiki trained. She is proud to work with sporting clubs/elite athletes in GB Taekwondo, British Cycling, Premier League Football & Lancashire Cricket Club. Sessions are held in the strictest of confidence, with compassionate care & tailored to your needs.
0161 524 2228 View 0161 524 2228
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Jenny Noero
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hertford SG14  (Online Only)
While I mainly use Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and EMDR for individuals, I will integrate other approaches as appropriate, such as Solution Focused Couples Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, or EMDR in our couples work.
As a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and Counselling Psychoogist, I specialise in couples therapy, EMDR and an integrative approach . If you are looking for an experienced therapist then I offer over 30 years of professional experience with 22 years in the NHS. I can help if you are a couple experiencing relationship breakdown, emotionally heightened interactions, or a particular problem impacting on your relationship. I provide EMDR to individuals with PTSD or longer term trauma, anxiety and loss. In addition, as a Clinical Neuropsychologist I can help with health or neurological conditions within the context of our therapy.
While I mainly use Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and EMDR for individuals, I will integrate other approaches as appropriate, such as Solution Focused Couples Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, or EMDR in our couples work.
As a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and Counselling Psychoogist, I specialise in couples therapy, EMDR and an integrative approach . If you are looking for an experienced therapist then I offer over 30 years of professional experience with 22 years in the NHS. I can help if you are a couple experiencing relationship breakdown, emotionally heightened interactions, or a particular problem impacting on your relationship. I provide EMDR to individuals with PTSD or longer term trauma, anxiety and loss. In addition, as a Clinical Neuropsychologist I can help with health or neurological conditions within the context of our therapy.
020 3893 2758 View 020 3893 2758
Alison Suzanne Oliver
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Leamington Spa CV31
I am also trained in EMDR, EFT and AIT, effective trauma therapies, that help to resolve long term influences to emotional stability, psychological well being and developmental, attachment or situational trauma.
Client's will be able to understand the historical and systemic influences to their problems and to find ways to create change both for themselves and others that they associate with. Many of my client's also have unresolved trauma that influences their day to day interactions, relationships, psychological state and/or physical health. They would hope to be able to make sense of both their mood and beliefs but to also be able to find ways to reprocess or clear any related trauma, make sense of associated anxiety, stress, behaviours and negative beliefs, to find ways to manage, think and behave differently and find new strengths.
I am also trained in EMDR, EFT and AIT, effective trauma therapies, that help to resolve long term influences to emotional stability, psychological well being and developmental, attachment or situational trauma.
Client's will be able to understand the historical and systemic influences to their problems and to find ways to create change both for themselves and others that they associate with. Many of my client's also have unresolved trauma that influences their day to day interactions, relationships, psychological state and/or physical health. They would hope to be able to make sense of both their mood and beliefs but to also be able to find ways to reprocess or clear any related trauma, make sense of associated anxiety, stress, behaviours and negative beliefs, to find ways to manage, think and behave differently and find new strengths.
01926 569078 View 01926 569078
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Jessica May Taylor
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oxford OX4
I am an Art Psychotherapist and Systemic Family Practitioner with over 10 years' experience working with individuals, couples and families across the age range. I draw on frameworks ranging from systemic to existential and psychodynamic. I work with warmth and curiosity to help people in distress navigate a path of finding meaning, richness, aliveness and connection within and from difficult and challenging experiences. I am also trained in EFT (emotionally focussed couples therapy) and currently have a waiting list for couples looking for therapy.
I am an Art Psychotherapist and Systemic Family Practitioner with over 10 years' experience working with individuals, couples and families across the age range. I draw on frameworks ranging from systemic to existential and psychodynamic. I work with warmth and curiosity to help people in distress navigate a path of finding meaning, richness, aliveness and connection within and from difficult and challenging experiences. I am also trained in EFT (emotionally focussed couples therapy) and currently have a waiting list for couples looking for therapy.
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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.