Divorce Counselling in SE20

Photo of Fiona Smith, Psychotherapist in SE20, England
Fiona Smith
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20
Assertiveness & Confidence | Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem; Working with anxiety addiction separation and divorce affairs and betrayals feeling sad family issues bullying depression trauma relationship stress.
I BEGAN MY DEVELOPMENT DURING 1998 MBACP Professionally Registered Certificate of Proficiency awarded - BACP Accredited Voluntary Register 155943 - Professional Standards Authority Qualified BACP. We may all experience psychological pain or turmoil at times - sometimes this may be transient, but sometimes these feelings may persist, and feel insurmountable. This is where counselling and psychotherapy can help. May feel like the same problems and relationship patterns keep repeating themselves, despite your best efforts to move on with your life. You may not be quite able to define exactly what you are feeling, or your emotions m
Assertiveness & Confidence | Rebuilding Your Self-Esteem; Working with anxiety addiction separation and divorce affairs and betrayals feeling sad family issues bullying depression trauma relationship stress.
I BEGAN MY DEVELOPMENT DURING 1998 MBACP Professionally Registered Certificate of Proficiency awarded - BACP Accredited Voluntary Register 155943 - Professional Standards Authority Qualified BACP. We may all experience psychological pain or turmoil at times - sometimes this may be transient, but sometimes these feelings may persist, and feel insurmountable. This is where counselling and psychotherapy can help. May feel like the same problems and relationship patterns keep repeating themselves, despite your best efforts to move on with your life. You may not be quite able to define exactly what you are feeling, or your emotions m
020 8016 2167 View 020 8016 2167
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Kerry Nortcliffe
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SE20
I understand that everyone has their own unique reasons for seeking therapy and it can be a daunting step to find support outside yourself. ​I aim to empower people to make connections between thought patterns and behaviours in order to make positive changes in their lives. I have experience in helping people with anxiety and stress, building confidence, working on setting boundaries, helping people process bereavement, helping people achieve goals, exploring family dynamics, relationship issues and many other life experiences that have lead to people feeling they want to explore therapy.
I understand that everyone has their own unique reasons for seeking therapy and it can be a daunting step to find support outside yourself. ​I aim to empower people to make connections between thought patterns and behaviours in order to make positive changes in their lives. I have experience in helping people with anxiety and stress, building confidence, working on setting boundaries, helping people process bereavement, helping people achieve goals, exploring family dynamics, relationship issues and many other life experiences that have lead to people feeling they want to explore therapy.
020 4530 9544 View 020 4530 9544
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A. Eren Gunsan
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
I practice counseling both online and offline for Turkish and English speakers and work with couples and individuals. Beside that, I am trained as a Couple and Family Therapist and accredited with the International Family Therapy Association (IFTA).
I practice counseling both online and offline for Turkish and English speakers and work with couples and individuals. Beside that, I am trained as a Couple and Family Therapist and accredited with the International Family Therapy Association (IFTA).
01737 949796 View 01737 949796
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Hemla Inman
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London SE20
I believe that each person's needs are unique, and my training allows me to tailor a variety of approaches to meet your specific requirements. In our sessions, you are my highest priority—here, you can be completely yourself without fear of judgment. I have unconditional positive regard and empathy for you and may offer gentle challenges when you are ready, to help embrace change, build resilience, and foster growth. You may also be seeking a safe space where acceptance thrives, to develop self-care and self-compassion . My style during sessions is adaptive to suit you and we will work collaboratively and transparently.
I believe that each person's needs are unique, and my training allows me to tailor a variety of approaches to meet your specific requirements. In our sessions, you are my highest priority—here, you can be completely yourself without fear of judgment. I have unconditional positive regard and empathy for you and may offer gentle challenges when you are ready, to help embrace change, build resilience, and foster growth. You may also be seeking a safe space where acceptance thrives, to develop self-care and self-compassion . My style during sessions is adaptive to suit you and we will work collaboratively and transparently.
020 3984 9026 View 020 3984 9026
Photo of Monika Wieliczko, Psychologist in SE20, England
Monika Wieliczko
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SE20
You have been feeling tense and overwhelmed for no apparent reason, although everything ‘seems fine’ on the surface and people often tell you that you were lucky in life. It might be that you don’t quite know where your emotional and physical reactions are coming from. As if your mind and body have a life of their own. It might seem you have it together all the time but it takes so much energy to keep things going. This never-ending sense of internal pressure feels exhausting but you are not quite sure how to get out of the cycle. You might be confused about who you really are, what is your true self.
You have been feeling tense and overwhelmed for no apparent reason, although everything ‘seems fine’ on the surface and people often tell you that you were lucky in life. It might be that you don’t quite know where your emotional and physical reactions are coming from. As if your mind and body have a life of their own. It might seem you have it together all the time but it takes so much energy to keep things going. This never-ending sense of internal pressure feels exhausting but you are not quite sure how to get out of the cycle. You might be confused about who you really are, what is your true self.
07450 088466 View 07450 088466
Photo of Dr Sofia Robleda, Psychologist in SE20, England
Dr Sofia Robleda
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
Bienvenidos & Welcome - to Wise Oak Psychology, an intimate, online private psychology practice run by Dr Sofia Robleda, who has over 10 years’ post-doctoral experience in using a range of evidence-based approaches to support adults experiencing depression, anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, and many other emotional and mental problems. Dr Robleda's values are to be compassionate, professional, and effective. She aims to support people to live a full, meaningful life in accordance to their values and beliefs, and to achieve this in as short a time as possible.
Bienvenidos & Welcome - to Wise Oak Psychology, an intimate, online private psychology practice run by Dr Sofia Robleda, who has over 10 years’ post-doctoral experience in using a range of evidence-based approaches to support adults experiencing depression, anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, and many other emotional and mental problems. Dr Robleda's values are to be compassionate, professional, and effective. She aims to support people to live a full, meaningful life in accordance to their values and beliefs, and to achieve this in as short a time as possible.
020 3962 0710 View 020 3962 0710
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Christopher Wilson
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
I am a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist with diverse experience working in various agency settings. Let me assist in alleviating your stress and anxiety and enabling you to live a fuller and richer life personally and professionally. Through working with clients, I have utilised various counselling approaches tailored to meet each client's unique needs. By providing a safe and empathetic space, I aim to explore historic trauma that is holding you back from reaching your fullest potential. Together, we can delve into early experiences that may still impact you today.
I am a qualified Counsellor and Psychotherapist with diverse experience working in various agency settings. Let me assist in alleviating your stress and anxiety and enabling you to live a fuller and richer life personally and professionally. Through working with clients, I have utilised various counselling approaches tailored to meet each client's unique needs. By providing a safe and empathetic space, I aim to explore historic trauma that is holding you back from reaching your fullest potential. Together, we can delve into early experiences that may still impact you today.
020 4538 0441 View 020 4538 0441
Photo of Dr Ranjeet Kaur Bassi, Psychologist in SE20, England
Dr Ranjeet Kaur Bassi
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SE20  (Online Only)
Hello! I work with a mixture of Children/Adolescents and adults. I work with a range of difficulties including anxiety, depression, experiences of trauma, low self-esteem, eating difficulties, OCD, and grief. You might not have a "goal" for therapy; you might just know you aren't happy right now and you want to find a way to live a life you value. I'm happy to talk though this with you in an initial consultation, to figure out if therapy may be helpful for you! I'll always approach your journey with kindness, compassion and warmth, and make therapy a positive (and sometimes challenging) process!
Hello! I work with a mixture of Children/Adolescents and adults. I work with a range of difficulties including anxiety, depression, experiences of trauma, low self-esteem, eating difficulties, OCD, and grief. You might not have a "goal" for therapy; you might just know you aren't happy right now and you want to find a way to live a life you value. I'm happy to talk though this with you in an initial consultation, to figure out if therapy may be helpful for you! I'll always approach your journey with kindness, compassion and warmth, and make therapy a positive (and sometimes challenging) process!
020 3910 6978 View 020 3910 6978
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Charisse Peters
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20
I am a qualified Individual, Relationship & Sex Therapist, as your therapist I aim to help you change the aspects of your life that are preventing you from living in a more fulfilling way. I will help you gain insight into your thoughts and feelings and together we can look at new ways of approaching those difficulties.
I am a qualified Individual, Relationship & Sex Therapist, as your therapist I aim to help you change the aspects of your life that are preventing you from living in a more fulfilling way. I will help you gain insight into your thoughts and feelings and together we can look at new ways of approaching those difficulties.
07481 358647 View 07481 358647
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Cesar Azevedo - LGBTQ Counselling
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
I’m a qualified therapist experienced in supporting individuals who identify as LGBT+ in addressing issues connected with self-esteem, self-worth and acceptance. I can help you address issues that are causing you emotional pain, giving you cause for concern, or making you feel uncomfortable. Whether you may be confronting difficult situations, facing challenging decisions, or healing from old wounds. My style is to encourage clients to speak in openness and confidence about difficult topics and emotions.
I’m a qualified therapist experienced in supporting individuals who identify as LGBT+ in addressing issues connected with self-esteem, self-worth and acceptance. I can help you address issues that are causing you emotional pain, giving you cause for concern, or making you feel uncomfortable. Whether you may be confronting difficult situations, facing challenging decisions, or healing from old wounds. My style is to encourage clients to speak in openness and confidence about difficult topics and emotions.
020 3974 2381 View 020 3974 2381
Photo of Claudia Battel, Counsellor in SE20, England
Claudia Battel
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London SE20
Hello and welcome, I am Claudia. I am a person-centred therapeutic counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP-402951).
Hello and welcome, I am Claudia. I am a person-centred therapeutic counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP-402951).
020 4538 1715 View 020 4538 1715
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Michelle Dada
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
Childhood trauma, unhealthy patterns, addiction and trauma can all result in unresolved pain. Being able to explore that pain in a non judgemental, confidential, empathic space can be an essential life changing experience. Many clients come to therapy wanting change and emotional health, awareness of where that pain comes from and the journey to understand its impact on our lives today is a crucial part of healing. Often our trauma is not recognised, believed or simply understood. Yet we're living with the impact of these issues. It takes courage to acknowledge our pain but for those who can it can give us the tools to change.
Childhood trauma, unhealthy patterns, addiction and trauma can all result in unresolved pain. Being able to explore that pain in a non judgemental, confidential, empathic space can be an essential life changing experience. Many clients come to therapy wanting change and emotional health, awareness of where that pain comes from and the journey to understand its impact on our lives today is a crucial part of healing. Often our trauma is not recognised, believed or simply understood. Yet we're living with the impact of these issues. It takes courage to acknowledge our pain but for those who can it can give us the tools to change.
020 4538 2484 View 020 4538 2484
Photo of Alessandra Costanzo, Psychologist in SE20, England
Alessandra Costanzo
Psychologist, MSc, CPsychol
Verified Verified
London SE20
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in Italy and UK, based in London who provides therapy in Italian and in English, in my own studio and on line. I have many years of experience working in a variety of setting including clinical mental health and private practice. I work with adults and adolescents, struggling with mood, anxiety issues, PTSD, relationship difficulties, body image disturbance, emotional and relationship disorders, burnout and work-related stress, bullying and low self-esteem. I offer my service to individuals, families and couples, women and men in the transition to parenthood.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in Italy and UK, based in London who provides therapy in Italian and in English, in my own studio and on line. I have many years of experience working in a variety of setting including clinical mental health and private practice. I work with adults and adolescents, struggling with mood, anxiety issues, PTSD, relationship difficulties, body image disturbance, emotional and relationship disorders, burnout and work-related stress, bullying and low self-esteem. I offer my service to individuals, families and couples, women and men in the transition to parenthood.
020 3962 0669 View 020 3962 0669
Photo of Dr Divya Patel, Psychologist in SE20, England
Dr Divya Patel
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
01689 663156 View 01689 663156
Photo of Charlie Allen, Psychotherapist in SE20, England
Charlie Allen
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20
Hello. Perhaps your relationships feel like hard work, or you're struggling with anxiety, depression or anger. Maybe you feel in the grip of trauma or abuse, or you're feeling stuck. Or do you simply feel that something’s not right? It may be difficult to talk about these things with those closest to you, whereas therapy can be a place to reflect away from your everyday life to bring about the change you're seeking. Whatever's troubling you, I provide a calm, confidential and non-judgmental space to navigate things together. My aim is for us to develop understandings, meanings and solutions, so you can move beyond your difficulties.
Hello. Perhaps your relationships feel like hard work, or you're struggling with anxiety, depression or anger. Maybe you feel in the grip of trauma or abuse, or you're feeling stuck. Or do you simply feel that something’s not right? It may be difficult to talk about these things with those closest to you, whereas therapy can be a place to reflect away from your everyday life to bring about the change you're seeking. Whatever's troubling you, I provide a calm, confidential and non-judgmental space to navigate things together. My aim is for us to develop understandings, meanings and solutions, so you can move beyond your difficulties.
020 3835 6378 View 020 3835 6378
Photo of Charlene Blake, Counsellor in SE20, England
Charlene Blake
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20
Not accepting new clients
Have you been feeling overwhelmed lately? Whether you are exhausted with your anxiety, feeling sad or you are experiencing relationship difficulties, counselling can help you process your thoughts and emotions and provide you with the chance to be truly heard. As a therapeutic counsellor I can support you by providing you with a safe confidential, non judgemental environment where we can work together and explore your inner thoughts and feelings. As I am a firm believer of "no one approach fits all" you can decide whether you want to focus on your present or venture into your past experiences for patterns and connections.
Have you been feeling overwhelmed lately? Whether you are exhausted with your anxiety, feeling sad or you are experiencing relationship difficulties, counselling can help you process your thoughts and emotions and provide you with the chance to be truly heard. As a therapeutic counsellor I can support you by providing you with a safe confidential, non judgemental environment where we can work together and explore your inner thoughts and feelings. As I am a firm believer of "no one approach fits all" you can decide whether you want to focus on your present or venture into your past experiences for patterns and connections.
07446 210734 View 07446 210734

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Divorce Counsellors

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.