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Tanya Ayala Gordon
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
London N14
Life events - divorce, separation, bereavement, new sibling, moving schools/home, exams stress I am an experienced school based counsellor and completed my training at the Institute for Arts and Education.
Hi, I'm Tanya, I work with children aged 4 - 18 and their parents. I use arts and play as a vehicle for change. As a mother of 3, I understand first hand how challenging being a parent can be. I like to work with children and their families so their relationships can flourish. "We wouldn’t be where we are now if it wasn’t for you. You lit up my life and brought back my smile (Age 14)" "Thank you for all the support you have given us all. Thank you seems so insignificant compared to what you have done, but it is felt from the bottom of our hearts. — Parent".
Life events - divorce, separation, bereavement, new sibling, moving schools/home, exams stress I am an experienced school based counsellor and completed my training at the Institute for Arts and Education.
Hi, I'm Tanya, I work with children aged 4 - 18 and their parents. I use arts and play as a vehicle for change. As a mother of 3, I understand first hand how challenging being a parent can be. I like to work with children and their families so their relationships can flourish. "We wouldn’t be where we are now if it wasn’t for you. You lit up my life and brought back my smile (Age 14)" "Thank you for all the support you have given us all. Thank you seems so insignificant compared to what you have done, but it is felt from the bottom of our hearts. — Parent".
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Linda Bebbington
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
London E1  (Online Only)
DIVORCE/SEPARATION: Heal your heart, reclaim your power & get support to create your life after breakup.
If your current relationship status is ‘complicated’ then chances are you’re exhausted trying to make love work or to be happy. Perhaps you've met someone & don't know how to get them to commit, or your relationship is hurting & you're lost on how to fix it, or you're heartbroken or fed up with dating that leads nowhere. Whether you’re currently single, suddenly solo, or need a relationship rescue, you'll discover how to make it all much easier. You'll feel empowered to know exactly what to do & say to have your best shot of relationship success. If you're tired of confusion & want more love & confidence, I offer the following...
DIVORCE/SEPARATION: Heal your heart, reclaim your power & get support to create your life after breakup.
If your current relationship status is ‘complicated’ then chances are you’re exhausted trying to make love work or to be happy. Perhaps you've met someone & don't know how to get them to commit, or your relationship is hurting & you're lost on how to fix it, or you're heartbroken or fed up with dating that leads nowhere. Whether you’re currently single, suddenly solo, or need a relationship rescue, you'll discover how to make it all much easier. You'll feel empowered to know exactly what to do & say to have your best shot of relationship success. If you're tired of confusion & want more love & confidence, I offer the following...
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Sophie Cottrell
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
London W4
The sort of things that my clients typically want to look at include: abuse, anxiety, body-image, bullying, divorce, mood swings, phobias, trauma, self-harm, stress, and issues around self-esteem and sexuality.
Life can get really difficult sometimes – we may know why we’re finding things hard, but we may not and that's OK too. Through therapy we can explore what’s happening for you and find the way through together. We can look at what’s on your mind and what it’s like being you as well as the role your past might have played. We can go at your pace and you’ll decide what you want from coming to see me. I work sensitively and respectfully with all ethnicities, cultures and sexualities. I offer both long term support to clients wishing to explore their feelings in depth and short-term work if you’re wanting to address a specific problem.
The sort of things that my clients typically want to look at include: abuse, anxiety, body-image, bullying, divorce, mood swings, phobias, trauma, self-harm, stress, and issues around self-esteem and sexuality.
Life can get really difficult sometimes – we may know why we’re finding things hard, but we may not and that's OK too. Through therapy we can explore what’s happening for you and find the way through together. We can look at what’s on your mind and what it’s like being you as well as the role your past might have played. We can go at your pace and you’ll decide what you want from coming to see me. I work sensitively and respectfully with all ethnicities, cultures and sexualities. I offer both long term support to clients wishing to explore their feelings in depth and short-term work if you’re wanting to address a specific problem.
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Aliona Lebed
Counsellor, MSc
Verified Verified
London SW1X
Do you feel confused, overwhelmed, lonely or even numb? Do you feel fed up with how people are treating you with no apparent reason? Are you are in the middle of major changes: separation, divorce, new career and you are so scared even to imagine what your future would be like? Aliona is highly experienced Relationship and Trauma Counsellor, based in London, UK. She is trained in TIR, EMDR and CBT. She is a member of TIRA Association and a senior member at ACCPH. Her clients are: professionals, individuals, couples, families, students and parents. She successfully conducts workshops and private sessions.
Do you feel confused, overwhelmed, lonely or even numb? Do you feel fed up with how people are treating you with no apparent reason? Are you are in the middle of major changes: separation, divorce, new career and you are so scared even to imagine what your future would be like? Aliona is highly experienced Relationship and Trauma Counsellor, based in London, UK. She is trained in TIR, EMDR and CBT. She is a member of TIRA Association and a senior member at ACCPH. Her clients are: professionals, individuals, couples, families, students and parents. She successfully conducts workshops and private sessions.
020 3962 1958 View 020 3962 1958
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Anita Sarin
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W1S
Counselling and psychotherapy can help with a range of issues including - anxiety - bereavement - depression - divorce or separation - family and childhood difficulties - insomnia and sleep problems and relationship difficulties.
Contacting a therapist might seem daunting at first but therapy can provide a confidential and non-judgemental space to make sense of current concerns. Speaking in confidence can help you less burdened and enable you to work towards living a more fulfilling life.
Counselling and psychotherapy can help with a range of issues including - anxiety - bereavement - depression - divorce or separation - family and childhood difficulties - insomnia and sleep problems and relationship difficulties.
Contacting a therapist might seem daunting at first but therapy can provide a confidential and non-judgemental space to make sense of current concerns. Speaking in confidence can help you less burdened and enable you to work towards living a more fulfilling life.
020 3974 2529 View 020 3974 2529
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Eva Huckle Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W4  (Online Only)
Prior to working as a therapist and coach, I was a partner in a leading family law firm in the City, practising as a family lawyer for over 12 years. I therefore bring to my work first-hand knowledge of the challenges and stresses one can face in the workplace, with particular insight into the struggle to balance all aspects of our lives, both personal and professional, and of building and maintaining healthy relationships. I have considerable experience in working with people who are having relationship or family issues or are going through divorce or separation. I also coach clients through career and life transitions.
Prior to working as a therapist and coach, I was a partner in a leading family law firm in the City, practising as a family lawyer for over 12 years. I therefore bring to my work first-hand knowledge of the challenges and stresses one can face in the workplace, with particular insight into the struggle to balance all aspects of our lives, both personal and professional, and of building and maintaining healthy relationships. I have considerable experience in working with people who are having relationship or family issues or are going through divorce or separation. I also coach clients through career and life transitions.
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Kaystherapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London N22
I am an MBACP Integrative Therapist, Consultant, Life Coach, Group Therapy Facilitator & Trauma Specialist. My clients seek my support due to my substantial background in addressing ACE, trauma, depression, anxiety, divorce, inner child work, and life changes. As a counsellor, I aim to offer a supportive environment and direction to assist you in your path of self-exploration; empowering you to introspect on your life and establish purposeful new decisions within it.
I am an MBACP Integrative Therapist, Consultant, Life Coach, Group Therapy Facilitator & Trauma Specialist. My clients seek my support due to my substantial background in addressing ACE, trauma, depression, anxiety, divorce, inner child work, and life changes. As a counsellor, I aim to offer a supportive environment and direction to assist you in your path of self-exploration; empowering you to introspect on your life and establish purposeful new decisions within it.
020 4538 1599 View 020 4538 1599
Photo of Ulisses Belucio, Psychotherapist in London, England
Ulisses Belucio
Psychotherapist, PhD, BPC
Verified Verified
London SW12
Anxiety/Stress -Traumatic experiences -Work stress -Pressure to make life choices - Support through life changes -Depression/feeling stuck - solation/loneliness -Overwhelming feelings -Feeling lost/empty -Life events -Loss/bereavement -Adoption - Divorce -Identity - Exploring and embracing your individuation -Gender, Sexuality - Relationships -Others.
I am an experienced Psychodynamic Psychotherapist and Counsellor with a private practice in South London. The Therapeutic process explores rooted problems and behavioural patterns repeated through life. It helps to expand awareness and self-knowledge so that you learn to recognise, understand and deal better with overwhelming feelings and thoughts. In my practice I offer a calm, safe and confidential setting where we work together in finding ways of making more sense of your life experiences and developing a greater capacity to embrace your own life history, life’s events, difficulties and opportunities.
Anxiety/Stress -Traumatic experiences -Work stress -Pressure to make life choices - Support through life changes -Depression/feeling stuck - solation/loneliness -Overwhelming feelings -Feeling lost/empty -Life events -Loss/bereavement -Adoption - Divorce -Identity - Exploring and embracing your individuation -Gender, Sexuality - Relationships -Others.
I am an experienced Psychodynamic Psychotherapist and Counsellor with a private practice in South London. The Therapeutic process explores rooted problems and behavioural patterns repeated through life. It helps to expand awareness and self-knowledge so that you learn to recognise, understand and deal better with overwhelming feelings and thoughts. In my practice I offer a calm, safe and confidential setting where we work together in finding ways of making more sense of your life experiences and developing a greater capacity to embrace your own life history, life’s events, difficulties and opportunities.
020 4538 0152 View 020 4538 0152
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Marta Benko
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London NW3
Supporting kids, YP, parents and adults with: mental health difficulties in the context of a physical illness (especially with endometriosis, asthma, CF, oncology, haematology, gastroenterology, dermatology, neurosurgery, and surgery), health anxiety, functional presentation/ medically unexplained symptom, relationship breakdown and divorce, children and young people, school avoidance/school anxiety, ex-pats and 3rd country children, mood difficulties (anxiety, panic attacks, fear and phobias, low mood) , stress , OCD, body repetitive behaviours (hair pulling, skin picking, nail biting) , sleep, non-underweight eating disorders.
Supporting kids, YP, parents and adults with: mental health difficulties in the context of a physical illness (especially with endometriosis, asthma, CF, oncology, haematology, gastroenterology, dermatology, neurosurgery, and surgery), health anxiety, functional presentation/ medically unexplained symptom, relationship breakdown and divorce, children and young people, school avoidance/school anxiety, ex-pats and 3rd country children, mood difficulties (anxiety, panic attacks, fear and phobias, low mood) , stress , OCD, body repetitive behaviours (hair pulling, skin picking, nail biting) , sleep, non-underweight eating disorders.
020 8016 3516 View 020 8016 3516
Photo of Gulya Diyarova, Psychotherapist in London, England
Gulya Diyarova
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
London W1K
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on a wide range of emotional, relational and sexual concerns: relationship difficulties, pre-divorce and separation or highly ambivalent couples (Discernment Counseling- in Training), childhood trauma, depression, lack of sexual desire and arousal, anxieties around sexual performance and functioning.
I am fully qualified Relationship and Psychosexual therapist trained as a Medical Doctor in my 1st career. I help people who come stuck in distress, to change their destructive patterns of ‘blame-distance’ or 'attack-withdraw' into safe emotional connection, repair their relationships and learn to resolve differences. I work mainly in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) model, integrating other approaches when needed, with different and challenging life stage transitions and all kinds of relationships, or individuals. I am founding director of Re-connect. EFT Clinic in Central London leading a team of experienced EFT practitioners.
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on a wide range of emotional, relational and sexual concerns: relationship difficulties, pre-divorce and separation or highly ambivalent couples (Discernment Counseling- in Training), childhood trauma, depression, lack of sexual desire and arousal, anxieties around sexual performance and functioning.
I am fully qualified Relationship and Psychosexual therapist trained as a Medical Doctor in my 1st career. I help people who come stuck in distress, to change their destructive patterns of ‘blame-distance’ or 'attack-withdraw' into safe emotional connection, repair their relationships and learn to resolve differences. I work mainly in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) model, integrating other approaches when needed, with different and challenging life stage transitions and all kinds of relationships, or individuals. I am founding director of Re-connect. EFT Clinic in Central London leading a team of experienced EFT practitioners.
020 3856 4258 View 020 3856 4258
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Shammi Kohli
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
London N12
There are many reasons why you would chose to seek therapy. You maybe experiencing stress or anxiety, feeling overwhelmed or that you just can't cope at this moment in time. You maybe experiencing difficulties with intimate relationships or your family. Could you be suffering a bereavement, or loss, divorce or separation. There maybe issues you have been struggling for a long time, traumatic experiences, low self esteem, your identity or your sexuality. Or feeling like you 'don't quite fit in'. You could be stuck in certain relationship patterns that you want to change.
There are many reasons why you would chose to seek therapy. You maybe experiencing stress or anxiety, feeling overwhelmed or that you just can't cope at this moment in time. You maybe experiencing difficulties with intimate relationships or your family. Could you be suffering a bereavement, or loss, divorce or separation. There maybe issues you have been struggling for a long time, traumatic experiences, low self esteem, your identity or your sexuality. Or feeling like you 'don't quite fit in'. You could be stuck in certain relationship patterns that you want to change.
07480 488339 View 07480 488339
Photo of BASE Counselling & Clinical Supervision, Psychotherapist in London, England
BASE Counselling & Clinical Supervision
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW4
Primary counsellor, Family Therapist, Clinical supervisor in various settings; running parenting skills and divorce groups.
I approach my work with sincere care, empathy and without judgement. My goal is to empower clients to overcome challenges, gain insight and lead happier, more fulfilling lives. I assist my clients by providing a safe space for self-exploration, facilitating personal growth and developing coping strategies. My approach to couples work focuses on resolving conflicts, rebuilding trust and creating a harmonious partnership. In my clinical practice, I include debt management counselling as a valuable service for clients. My passion is to assist you in a warm, nurturing environment as you address challenging and distressing issues.
Primary counsellor, Family Therapist, Clinical supervisor in various settings; running parenting skills and divorce groups.
I approach my work with sincere care, empathy and without judgement. My goal is to empower clients to overcome challenges, gain insight and lead happier, more fulfilling lives. I assist my clients by providing a safe space for self-exploration, facilitating personal growth and developing coping strategies. My approach to couples work focuses on resolving conflicts, rebuilding trust and creating a harmonious partnership. In my clinical practice, I include debt management counselling as a valuable service for clients. My passion is to assist you in a warm, nurturing environment as you address challenging and distressing issues.
020 3856 4607 View 020 3856 4607
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Alan Reich
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London NW11
I can work with you to help find solutions to the difficulties encountered in relationships, family life, transitions, separation, divorce, sexuality, gender and identity.
I work with both individuals, couples and families, specialising in helping those with relationship difficulties, low-self esteem, anxiety and depression. Relationships are the most exciting and fulfilling aspect in our lives, but they can also be difficult and challenging. Most relationships go through a difficult patch at some time. Through counselling, you can learn how to stop fights from escalating, identify and change the underlying patterns that cause them and reconnect to the bond that you share with each other.
I can work with you to help find solutions to the difficulties encountered in relationships, family life, transitions, separation, divorce, sexuality, gender and identity.
I work with both individuals, couples and families, specialising in helping those with relationship difficulties, low-self esteem, anxiety and depression. Relationships are the most exciting and fulfilling aspect in our lives, but they can also be difficult and challenging. Most relationships go through a difficult patch at some time. Through counselling, you can learn how to stop fights from escalating, identify and change the underlying patterns that cause them and reconnect to the bond that you share with each other.
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Ramon Bennett Bsc Llm Sac Dip Dip
Verified Verified
London WC1X
I have expertise in family matters and sensitivity around: sexuality, relationship problems, divorce, sexual harassment/assaults and abuses.
I am a qualified holistic therapist, counsellor and a life and spiritual coach in London with over 10 years of experience. My academic and clinical experiences have provided me with the knowledge, confidence and experience to successfully work with various mental health issues. I am interested in people and I enjoy using my knowledge and experience to support change in limiting behaviours and thoughts. My degree in Human and Medical Sciences with Hons and my work with the NHS for over 7 years, had equipped me with the knowledge I need to provide patients with the support and interventions they need during counselling sessions.
I have expertise in family matters and sensitivity around: sexuality, relationship problems, divorce, sexual harassment/assaults and abuses.
I am a qualified holistic therapist, counsellor and a life and spiritual coach in London with over 10 years of experience. My academic and clinical experiences have provided me with the knowledge, confidence and experience to successfully work with various mental health issues. I am interested in people and I enjoy using my knowledge and experience to support change in limiting behaviours and thoughts. My degree in Human and Medical Sciences with Hons and my work with the NHS for over 7 years, had equipped me with the knowledge I need to provide patients with the support and interventions they need during counselling sessions.
020 8154 5308 View 020 8154 5308
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Andrew Kitching
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW1W
I am an experienced psychotherapist working from my consulting rooms in Belgravia, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.
I am an experienced psychotherapist working from my consulting rooms in Belgravia, London, and work with adult clients from varying backgrounds. In my previous career as a senior executive in newspaper and media organisations in the US and UK, I worked with highly creative individuals and business people alike. This specialist knowledge of the creative and business worlds informs my psychotherapy work as well as familiarity with mid-life/career transitioning, divorce/separation, drink/drug dependency, boarding school syndrome and the attendant depression, stress and anxiety this can evoke.
020 4538 3605 View 020 4538 3605
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Mala Rudki
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W1W  (Online Only)
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist with specialist experience of working with couples and individuals experiencing relationship and personal difficulties. Some of the areas that I have worked with clients include: • Communication difficulties • Feeling confused or stuck in your relationship • Repetitive and/or escalating arguments • Lack of intimacy – emotional and physical • Parenting challenges • Separation and divorce • Difficulty in maintaining lasting relationships • Anxiety and/or depression • Life events such as loss, trauma, abortion, miscarriage and illness • Cultural, sexual and identity issues
I am a psychodynamic psychotherapist with specialist experience of working with couples and individuals experiencing relationship and personal difficulties. Some of the areas that I have worked with clients include: • Communication difficulties • Feeling confused or stuck in your relationship • Repetitive and/or escalating arguments • Lack of intimacy – emotional and physical • Parenting challenges • Separation and divorce • Difficulty in maintaining lasting relationships • Anxiety and/or depression • Life events such as loss, trauma, abortion, miscarriage and illness • Cultural, sexual and identity issues
020 3871 8486 View 020 3871 8486
Photo of Máire Stedman, Psychotherapist in London, England
Máire Stedman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
London SW1W
I am a qualified and experienced Individual, Couple, Family and Systemic Psychotherapist with over 25 years experience of working in the NHS; not for profit sector and the social care sectors, as well as working in private practice. I have experience in working cross-culturally with individuals, couples and families, including working with interpreters. I have worked extensively with trauma, anxiety and depression, as well as post migration issues.I have also worked with families and children experiencing separation and divorce.
I am a qualified and experienced Individual, Couple, Family and Systemic Psychotherapist with over 25 years experience of working in the NHS; not for profit sector and the social care sectors, as well as working in private practice. I have experience in working cross-culturally with individuals, couples and families, including working with interpreters. I have worked extensively with trauma, anxiety and depression, as well as post migration issues.I have also worked with families and children experiencing separation and divorce.
020 3871 8422 View 020 3871 8422
Photo of Claire Russell, Counsellor in London, England
Claire Russell
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW6
I am a BACP registered counsellor and EMDR practitioner working with both adults and children who are struggling with life's challenges. My areas of special interest and experience include: anxiety, panic attacks, attachments, confidence and self esteem, stress, PTSD, trauma, loneliness, depression, relationship issues, intimacy issues, divorce, family conflict, infidelity, life transitions, peer relationships, estrangement, abuse and grief, bereavement and loss.
I am a BACP registered counsellor and EMDR practitioner working with both adults and children who are struggling with life's challenges. My areas of special interest and experience include: anxiety, panic attacks, attachments, confidence and self esteem, stress, PTSD, trauma, loneliness, depression, relationship issues, intimacy issues, divorce, family conflict, infidelity, life transitions, peer relationships, estrangement, abuse and grief, bereavement and loss.
020 4538 1397 View 020 4538 1397
Photo of Noemi Lercara, Counsellor in London, England
Noemi Lercara
Counsellor, PsychD, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW11
I work with difficulties such as : bereavement, trauma, loss, childhood trauma,low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, substances abuse and addictions, sexual abuse, self harm, suicide, eating disorders, illnesses, divorce, post natal depression, abortion, sexual identity, cultural identity and much more.
In life we can often encounter difficult times that might feel unbearable; even a real sense of struggle in getting through them. The loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, an illness, a traumatic experience, a struggle in our own sense of identity and self-esteem, plus many more life changing experiences. These are all changes that can deeply impact our lives, and are reasons for which deciding to seek counselling support is a very courageous choice to make. Often the process in seeking a counsellor can be a really overwhelming experience, as talking about our own feelings and emotions can be distressing and painful.
I work with difficulties such as : bereavement, trauma, loss, childhood trauma,low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, substances abuse and addictions, sexual abuse, self harm, suicide, eating disorders, illnesses, divorce, post natal depression, abortion, sexual identity, cultural identity and much more.
In life we can often encounter difficult times that might feel unbearable; even a real sense of struggle in getting through them. The loss of a loved one, the end of a relationship, an illness, a traumatic experience, a struggle in our own sense of identity and self-esteem, plus many more life changing experiences. These are all changes that can deeply impact our lives, and are reasons for which deciding to seek counselling support is a very courageous choice to make. Often the process in seeking a counsellor can be a really overwhelming experience, as talking about our own feelings and emotions can be distressing and painful.
020 3917 4604 View 020 3917 4604
Photo of Simon McKay, Psychotherapist in London, England
Simon McKay
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W4
Get More Out of Life! People have contacted me when they were struggling with emotional problems such as: feeling stressed or anxious, feeling depressed, sad or empty, difficulties at work or with studies, trying to overcome an addiction, difficulties with their sexuality, an inability to make or sustain good relationships, repeatedly becoming involved in unsatisfactory or destructive relationships, family conflicts.Coming to terms with losses such as bereavement, divorce or redundancy lacking confidence, self-esteem or under achieving, lacking a sense of purpose in life, having unresolved issues from the past.
Get More Out of Life! People have contacted me when they were struggling with emotional problems such as: feeling stressed or anxious, feeling depressed, sad or empty, difficulties at work or with studies, trying to overcome an addiction, difficulties with their sexuality, an inability to make or sustain good relationships, repeatedly becoming involved in unsatisfactory or destructive relationships, family conflicts.Coming to terms with losses such as bereavement, divorce or redundancy lacking confidence, self-esteem or under achieving, lacking a sense of purpose in life, having unresolved issues from the past.
020 3910 8284 View 020 3910 8284

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Divorce Counsellors

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioural, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioural therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.