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Kim Spicer
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
I am qualified to see couples having trained with Relate as a Relationship Counsellor.
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
I am qualified to see couples having trained with Relate as a Relationship Counsellor.
There can be times in our lives when we experience distressing events or feelings which seem overwhelming. This can be due to a particular circumstance such as difficulties in our current relationships, work related stress, illness, bereavement, or dealing with painful memories from our childhood. Sometimes we have no idea what is making us feel the way we do. All we know is that life has become distressing, or even intolerable. It could be at these times a talking therapy may be a helpful option.
020 3828 7304 View 020 3828 7304
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Dr Aika Hui
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I also am highly interested in working with adjustment to life events & transitions like health difficulties, bereavement, relationship changes and integrating into a new country.
Hi! I'm Aika. I consistently strive to be an authentic, curious and professional psychologist, to create a safe space where those I work with can feel like they can speak freely and honestly and be supported with meaningful steps forward in their lives. Though I have lived and worked in the UK for over a decade now, I was born and raised in Hong Kong, a vibrant and multicultural city that I am proud to call home. I read my bachelor’s degree at the University of Cambridge, my master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Sciences at University College London, and my doctorate in clinical psychology at the University of Oxford.
I also am highly interested in working with adjustment to life events & transitions like health difficulties, bereavement, relationship changes and integrating into a new country.
Hi! I'm Aika. I consistently strive to be an authentic, curious and professional psychologist, to create a safe space where those I work with can feel like they can speak freely and honestly and be supported with meaningful steps forward in their lives. Though I have lived and worked in the UK for over a decade now, I was born and raised in Hong Kong, a vibrant and multicultural city that I am proud to call home. I read my bachelor’s degree at the University of Cambridge, my master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Sciences at University College London, and my doctorate in clinical psychology at the University of Oxford.
020 3866 4435 View 020 3866 4435
Photo of Daphne Pratt, Counsellor in N3, England
Daphne Pratt
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I provide emotional well-being counselling for individuals, young people, and families, alongside relationship counselling for couples and family mediation.
As an experienced practitioner, I operate a private practice situated in North London. My counselling services are available in-person, online, and through telephone consultations. I provide a secure and confidential environment to help clients make sense of their difficult emotions. I believe in collaborating with individuals or couples to address their specific requirements and determine the most effective way to achieve positive change. My credentials include qualifications in Couples counselling, Family, Children's & Adult Systemic Practice. I employ a range of methods in this field for both short- and long term interventions.
I provide emotional well-being counselling for individuals, young people, and families, alongside relationship counselling for couples and family mediation.
As an experienced practitioner, I operate a private practice situated in North London. My counselling services are available in-person, online, and through telephone consultations. I provide a secure and confidential environment to help clients make sense of their difficult emotions. I believe in collaborating with individuals or couples to address their specific requirements and determine the most effective way to achieve positive change. My credentials include qualifications in Couples counselling, Family, Children's & Adult Systemic Practice. I employ a range of methods in this field for both short- and long term interventions.
020 8138 8428 View 020 8138 8428
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Dr Laura Eid
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I work with a range of difficulties, such as anxiety, relationship problems, stress, depression, anger, OCD, phobias, PTSD, trauma, work difficulties, emotional crises, and bereavements.
Hi! I'm Laura, a Clinical Psychologist trained in the UK and based at The Oak Tree Practice and Little Bee Clinic in Finchley, London. I appreciate that choosing a psychologist can be a tricky task so am always happy to have a chat before agreeing to meet! I believe therapy is an active process where we work together to really make a difference to your life, whether that be by managing difficult thoughts and feelings, to taking action to improve challenges you’re experiencing. Therapy can also be useful to help you better understand how your mind works & why you are the way you are!
I work with a range of difficulties, such as anxiety, relationship problems, stress, depression, anger, OCD, phobias, PTSD, trauma, work difficulties, emotional crises, and bereavements.
Hi! I'm Laura, a Clinical Psychologist trained in the UK and based at The Oak Tree Practice and Little Bee Clinic in Finchley, London. I appreciate that choosing a psychologist can be a tricky task so am always happy to have a chat before agreeing to meet! I believe therapy is an active process where we work together to really make a difference to your life, whether that be by managing difficult thoughts and feelings, to taking action to improve challenges you’re experiencing. Therapy can also be useful to help you better understand how your mind works & why you are the way you are!
020 3984 7996 View 020 3984 7996
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Jo Rosenberg
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
I work with children, adolescents, families, younger and older adults with a range of issues including low mood/ depression, anxiety, OCD, family problems, relationship issues, work related problems, families with autism and ADHD, and stress.
I offer therapy to those who may be experiencing emotional difficulties and who need some time and space to work through these challenges in order to find a way forward. I work with parents, families, adolescents, children and young adults. My experience includes most recently working at Barnet CAMHS, together with adult NHS settings, schools and organisations. My work is informed through the use of CBT, psychodynamic and person-centred therapy. Working collaboratively, I offer a warm, empathic approach in order to develop goals and strategies that may be most beneficial and effective to suit your needs.
I work with children, adolescents, families, younger and older adults with a range of issues including low mood/ depression, anxiety, OCD, family problems, relationship issues, work related problems, families with autism and ADHD, and stress.
I offer therapy to those who may be experiencing emotional difficulties and who need some time and space to work through these challenges in order to find a way forward. I work with parents, families, adolescents, children and young adults. My experience includes most recently working at Barnet CAMHS, together with adult NHS settings, schools and organisations. My work is informed through the use of CBT, psychodynamic and person-centred therapy. Working collaboratively, I offer a warm, empathic approach in order to develop goals and strategies that may be most beneficial and effective to suit your needs.
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Nazee Akbari
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP
Verified Verified
With over twenty years of experience in the mental health field,I am a highly qualified bilingual psychotherapist at the Doctorate level.Throughout my career, I have assisted numerous individuals,couples, and families. I offer therapy in both English and Farsi and hold certification as a clinical supervisor. My therapeutic approach is integrative, customized to suit the individual needs of each client, encompassing various methodologies such as Humanistic,Psychoanalytic,and Cognitive Behavioral therapies.Furthermore,I am a visiting supervisor at Anglia Ruskin University,and I also serve as a guest speaker on BBC Persian & Manoto TV.
With over twenty years of experience in the mental health field,I am a highly qualified bilingual psychotherapist at the Doctorate level.Throughout my career, I have assisted numerous individuals,couples, and families. I offer therapy in both English and Farsi and hold certification as a clinical supervisor. My therapeutic approach is integrative, customized to suit the individual needs of each client, encompassing various methodologies such as Humanistic,Psychoanalytic,and Cognitive Behavioral therapies.Furthermore,I am a visiting supervisor at Anglia Ruskin University,and I also serve as a guest speaker on BBC Persian & Manoto TV.
020 4538 7865 View 020 4538 7865
Photo of Rebecca Turner, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Rebecca Turner
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
I have worked with clients suffering from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, addiction, bereavement and relationship difficulties.
My clients come from a diverse range of backgrounds. Every person is an individual and therefore my counselling work will be specific to their needs. My goal is to help clients to work through their difficulties and find solutions and strategies to deal with their problems. My role is to hold up a mirror to a person, in order for them to better understand their situation and work through this in a non-judgemental, confidential and empathetic environment.
I have worked with clients suffering from anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, addiction, bereavement and relationship difficulties.
My clients come from a diverse range of backgrounds. Every person is an individual and therefore my counselling work will be specific to their needs. My goal is to help clients to work through their difficulties and find solutions and strategies to deal with their problems. My role is to hold up a mirror to a person, in order for them to better understand their situation and work through this in a non-judgemental, confidential and empathetic environment.
020 8016 2763 View 020 8016 2763
Photo of Bea Salter, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Bea Salter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Relationships and relationship problems are my specialty.
Clients know me for my warmth, natural optimism and deep understanding, which they say, comes from the wealth of knowledge and life experience. I aim to connect in a real and authentic way, which puts both of us at ease and allows us to feel safe enough to discuss issues you wanted to talk about for a long time, but never felt you were able to. That includes relationship problems, anger issues, depression, lack of confidence, abuse, depression, bereavement, anxiety, addiction and personality disorders. Working together might help you to draw on your own internal resources, bringing clarity and creating options in your life.
Relationships and relationship problems are my specialty.
Clients know me for my warmth, natural optimism and deep understanding, which they say, comes from the wealth of knowledge and life experience. I aim to connect in a real and authentic way, which puts both of us at ease and allows us to feel safe enough to discuss issues you wanted to talk about for a long time, but never felt you were able to. That includes relationship problems, anger issues, depression, lack of confidence, abuse, depression, bereavement, anxiety, addiction and personality disorders. Working together might help you to draw on your own internal resources, bringing clarity and creating options in your life.
07588 704642 View 07588 704642
Photo of Naomi Magnus, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Naomi Magnus
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Issues I commonly work with include; anxiety, fear, OCD, panic attacks, depression, self-esteem, relationship problems, identity and gender, life changes, meaning, grief, sexuality, trauma and abuse, mothers and parents negotiating all aspects of the parenting experience from conception, through pregnancy and beyond.
As a highly experienced London based psychotherapist I offer a free 30 minute phone consultation before booking, please get in touch so we can set up a time to talk. I am fully qualified with extensive experience of working with a wide range of issues with adults, young people and couples. Psychotherapy is talking therapy that gives you the chance to explore yourself and your relationships. Through talking with me I aim to safely guide you to reflect on deep seated patterns in your thoughts and feelings, the goal with the work is to move towards a place of acceptance and healing.
Issues I commonly work with include; anxiety, fear, OCD, panic attacks, depression, self-esteem, relationship problems, identity and gender, life changes, meaning, grief, sexuality, trauma and abuse, mothers and parents negotiating all aspects of the parenting experience from conception, through pregnancy and beyond.
As a highly experienced London based psychotherapist I offer a free 30 minute phone consultation before booking, please get in touch so we can set up a time to talk. I am fully qualified with extensive experience of working with a wide range of issues with adults, young people and couples. Psychotherapy is talking therapy that gives you the chance to explore yourself and your relationships. Through talking with me I aim to safely guide you to reflect on deep seated patterns in your thoughts and feelings, the goal with the work is to move towards a place of acceptance and healing.
020 3856 8533 View 020 3856 8533
Photo of Lina Helena Milner, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Lina Helena Milner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who and trying get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe, and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being.
My specialism is relationship and sex therapy for couples and individuals. Every relationship has a challenge, but if you feel that the problem has persisted for too long and caused a lot of distress for you, do contact me and we can have a conversation about the type of counselling that will suit your needs. I also work with individuals who and trying get over break up or have difficulties in forming or ending relationships. I offer an empathetic, safe, and professional environment within which we can work together to facilitate the potential for change in the relationship and work towards sexual health, happiness and well-being.
07723 456237 View 07723 456237
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Tas Franklin
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
I work with both individuals and couples.
Life can sometimes feel hard. You may be struggling with your relationships, work or life in general. If you are finding it difficult to get through this, and to make a change for the better, I can help you. I know how earlier experiences can influence current feelings and actions, and by understanding them yourself you can start to make positive changes. I also have additional training and understanding of working with couples who are experiencing relationship difficulties and anyone who is struggling with loss and grief.
I work with both individuals and couples.
Life can sometimes feel hard. You may be struggling with your relationships, work or life in general. If you are finding it difficult to get through this, and to make a change for the better, I can help you. I know how earlier experiences can influence current feelings and actions, and by understanding them yourself you can start to make positive changes. I also have additional training and understanding of working with couples who are experiencing relationship difficulties and anyone who is struggling with loss and grief.
07480 533998 View 07480 533998
Photo of Barbara Elaine Finch, Counsellor in N3, England
Barbara Elaine Finch
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
I know how hard it can be to reach out and take the first step when you need help. A problem can become so large that it takes over most of your life. It can be something from the past that refuses to stay buried or a current situation that you can't move beyond. Whether it's depression, anxiety, bereavement, stress or a relationship breaking down, you can't see a way out and you feel overwhelmed. Sometimes it's different, you've reached a point in your life when you know that something needs to change, or maybe change is being forced on you. You feel trapped or stuck. You want to live life, but don't know how.
I know how hard it can be to reach out and take the first step when you need help. A problem can become so large that it takes over most of your life. It can be something from the past that refuses to stay buried or a current situation that you can't move beyond. Whether it's depression, anxiety, bereavement, stress or a relationship breaking down, you can't see a way out and you feel overwhelmed. Sometimes it's different, you've reached a point in your life when you know that something needs to change, or maybe change is being forced on you. You feel trapped or stuck. You want to live life, but don't know how.
07445 444029 View 07445 444029
Photo of Yafit Nahari, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Yafit Nahari
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
I am a relationship-focused therapist working with couples, individuals, and parents. By understanding our attachment style and gaining insight into how we offer and receive connection, we can grow and form meaningful relationships with our beloveds. At the heart of my couples therapy work is IMAGO Relationship therapy. Imago Relationship Therapy helps couples to identify their core needs and triggers and to communicate them to their partner in a non-confrontational and constructive way. I also integrate Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT).
I am a relationship-focused therapist working with couples, individuals, and parents. By understanding our attachment style and gaining insight into how we offer and receive connection, we can grow and form meaningful relationships with our beloveds. At the heart of my couples therapy work is IMAGO Relationship therapy. Imago Relationship Therapy helps couples to identify their core needs and triggers and to communicate them to their partner in a non-confrontational and constructive way. I also integrate Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy (RLT).
020 3675 0170 View 020 3675 0170
Photo of Noemi Ran, Counsellor in N3, England
Noemi Ran
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
London N3  (Online Only)
Counselling provides a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space to share difficult and confused feelings. As a counsellor I do not provide solutions or instructions but facilitate exploration and discovery. Counselling is not an easy process and it can bring up difficult, conflicting and confusing feelings that may have been buried for some time. During therapy, we together, seek to understand how your current emotional and psychological difficulties can have their origin in thoughts and feelings that are unconscious to you and may be located somewhere in past childhood experiences.
Counselling provides a safe, non-judgemental and confidential space to share difficult and confused feelings. As a counsellor I do not provide solutions or instructions but facilitate exploration and discovery. Counselling is not an easy process and it can bring up difficult, conflicting and confusing feelings that may have been buried for some time. During therapy, we together, seek to understand how your current emotional and psychological difficulties can have their origin in thoughts and feelings that are unconscious to you and may be located somewhere in past childhood experiences.
01707 241437 View 01707 241437
Photo of Marva Sherman, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Marva Sherman
Psychotherapist, SNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
London N3  (Online Only)
I support clients who experience racial trauma, and microaggressions issues with identity. You may experience issues with identity, depression anxiety, or anger. Loss of motivation and loss of purpose. You may experience difficulties with your relationships with family members, lovers, or friends. I have over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist and I enjoy working with clients to improve their lives and relationships.
I support clients who experience racial trauma, and microaggressions issues with identity. You may experience issues with identity, depression anxiety, or anger. Loss of motivation and loss of purpose. You may experience difficulties with your relationships with family members, lovers, or friends. I have over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist and I enjoy working with clients to improve their lives and relationships.
07480 538331 View 07480 538331
Photo of Zehavah Handler, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Zehavah Handler
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hi, thanks for stopping on my profile. It can be tricky to know which therapist to contact. The best therapist is the one who you feel most comfortable talking to. This is your life, your journey. Whatever it is that made you open this website, hurts. Talk to someone who empathises and can help you to improve how you feel about yourself.
Hi, thanks for stopping on my profile. It can be tricky to know which therapist to contact. The best therapist is the one who you feel most comfortable talking to. This is your life, your journey. Whatever it is that made you open this website, hurts. Talk to someone who empathises and can help you to improve how you feel about yourself.
020 3929 3405 View 020 3929 3405
Photo of Sara Wolfin, Counsellor in N3, England
Sara Wolfin
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
I am a qualified BACP registered counsellor and clinical supervisor with extensive experience working with people from all walks of life , ages and cultures. My work focusses on enabling people to find more confidence , joy and clarity and to help them create the life they want to live - whatever that looks like for them. We lived in a highly stressful time and it can be very easy to become anxious and depressed which without help can lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Therapy offers a safe space to explore those difficult feelings, and often bringing those dark thoughts into the light can bring some relief.
I am a qualified BACP registered counsellor and clinical supervisor with extensive experience working with people from all walks of life , ages and cultures. My work focusses on enabling people to find more confidence , joy and clarity and to help them create the life they want to live - whatever that looks like for them. We lived in a highly stressful time and it can be very easy to become anxious and depressed which without help can lead to feelings of helplessness and despair. Therapy offers a safe space to explore those difficult feelings, and often bringing those dark thoughts into the light can bring some relief.
07588 734724 View 07588 734724
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Little Bee Clinic
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Offering a fresh approach to psychological therapy from the young and vibrant Little Bee Clinic. We are here to support children, young people and families. Who are you? We are are a group of colleagues who aim to offer a modern approach to psychological therapy. We have all been trained as Clinical Psychologists, which means we have lots of experience working with children, young people and families.
Offering a fresh approach to psychological therapy from the young and vibrant Little Bee Clinic. We are here to support children, young people and families. Who are you? We are are a group of colleagues who aim to offer a modern approach to psychological therapy. We have all been trained as Clinical Psychologists, which means we have lots of experience working with children, young people and families.
020 3974 1825 View 020 3974 1825
Photo of Lisa Meighan, Psychotherapist in N3, England
Lisa Meighan
Psychotherapist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
London N3  (Online Only)
Welcome! :) Have you been struggling recently? We all do from time to time and in therapy you will feel more supported. You're in the right place and I look forward to getting to know you professionally. We will work on what is on your mind and your goals together in therapy. I look forward to working with you at your own pace, step-by-step at a time that is convenient for you. Please feel free to send me an email to set up a session that is convenient for you. I also provide text-based therapy for those who may struggle to attend video sessions to make it easier for you. Lisa
Welcome! :) Have you been struggling recently? We all do from time to time and in therapy you will feel more supported. You're in the right place and I look forward to getting to know you professionally. We will work on what is on your mind and your goals together in therapy. I look forward to working with you at your own pace, step-by-step at a time that is convenient for you. Please feel free to send me an email to set up a session that is convenient for you. I also provide text-based therapy for those who may struggle to attend video sessions to make it easier for you. Lisa
01323 679502 View 01323 679502
Photo of Trupti Kavia, Counsellor in N3, England
Trupti Kavia
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
As an integrative therapist, I believe that every individual is unique and requires a personalised approach to therapy. I draw from a range of therapeutic techniques to help my clients explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. With a profound commitment to assisting Children and young people and individuals in their personal growth and healing. I will provide a nurturing and non-judgmental space for us to work together in which you will feel empowered to rebuild and recover at your own pace.
As an integrative therapist, I believe that every individual is unique and requires a personalised approach to therapy. I draw from a range of therapeutic techniques to help my clients explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. With a profound commitment to assisting Children and young people and individuals in their personal growth and healing. I will provide a nurturing and non-judgmental space for us to work together in which you will feel empowered to rebuild and recover at your own pace.
01707 240922 View 01707 240922

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.