There are no results for counsellors in Wye

Check out counsellors located nearby or offering teletherapy in England below.

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Sally Cloke Counselling, Counsellor in Wye, England
Sally Cloke Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Ashford TN25
Are you an individual looking to feel listened to, or a couple or are unsure if you want to separate or work on your relationship? Or are you struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or any other difficult situation you are going through a loss or bereavement? We are social beings and born to be connected. When we are disconnected, we can feel lonely and experience pain and distress. Are you looking to gain a deeper understanding and meaning in life? Please contact me, and let's see how we can work together to create a happier and more content way of living.
Are you an individual looking to feel listened to, or a couple or are unsure if you want to separate or work on your relationship? Or are you struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or any other difficult situation you are going through a loss or bereavement? We are social beings and born to be connected. When we are disconnected, we can feel lonely and experience pain and distress. Are you looking to gain a deeper understanding and meaning in life? Please contact me, and let's see how we can work together to create a happier and more content way of living.
01233 542575 View 01233 542575
Photo of Anna Sturpino, Counsellor in Wye, England
Anna Sturpino
Counsellor, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
Ashford TN25  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Having a fulfilling sexual life is often what we aspire to, but anxiety, physical pain and relationship issues might make it difficult to achieve. I believe everyone has an innate ability to connect to others and to build healthy relationships. As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with. Whether you need your relationship to achieve its full potential or to overcome a crisis, we will work together to identify the issues you are struggling with and support you in the areas where you feel change is needed.
Having a fulfilling sexual life is often what we aspire to, but anxiety, physical pain and relationship issues might make it difficult to achieve. I believe everyone has an innate ability to connect to others and to build healthy relationships. As a sex and relationship therapist, my aim is to help you find your inner resources to overcome the challenges you are coming with. Whether you need your relationship to achieve its full potential or to overcome a crisis, we will work together to identify the issues you are struggling with and support you in the areas where you feel change is needed.
View
Photo of Howard Grassow, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Howard Grassow
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a safe therapeutic relationship that seeks to understand you as a unique person.
You may be considering psychotherapy because you have a specific concern or are experiencing ‘symptoms’ that you want to address. You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, or a general sense of unease and feel life is meaningless or joyless. Perhaps you are facing some significant change in your life and unsure what to do. Or maybe you are feeling stuck finding yourself in the same place, repeating the same patterns, despite your efforts to change things. Or perhaps you want to get to know yourself more deeply and experience life more fully.
I offer a safe therapeutic relationship that seeks to understand you as a unique person.
You may be considering psychotherapy because you have a specific concern or are experiencing ‘symptoms’ that you want to address. You may be experiencing anxiety, depression, or a general sense of unease and feel life is meaningless or joyless. Perhaps you are facing some significant change in your life and unsure what to do. Or maybe you are feeling stuck finding yourself in the same place, repeating the same patterns, despite your efforts to change things. Or perhaps you want to get to know yourself more deeply and experience life more fully.
01227 936095 View 01227 936095
Photo of Stania Frances Psychotherapeutic Counselling MBACP, Counsellor in Wye, England
Stania Frances Psychotherapeutic Counselling MBACP
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN25
If your emotions or moods cause you enduring distress; A problem feels unmanageable on your own, with family or friends; You've lost interest in life or think it's not worth living; You've conflict in relationship with others.
At times, everyday can feel like a struggle and therapy can help you cope with all the worries and feelings you may have. My professional private practice can offer you a safe place to listen to your story and explore with you what concerns you. Together, we will set goals tailored to meet your individual needs to help you off-load and function better in your daily life. I am here to help you understand yourself better and make positive changes in your life. Short, medium or long term therapy is available and during your initial session we will discuss a treatment plan that fits with your schedule and budget.
If your emotions or moods cause you enduring distress; A problem feels unmanageable on your own, with family or friends; You've lost interest in life or think it's not worth living; You've conflict in relationship with others.
At times, everyday can feel like a struggle and therapy can help you cope with all the worries and feelings you may have. My professional private practice can offer you a safe place to listen to your story and explore with you what concerns you. Together, we will set goals tailored to meet your individual needs to help you off-load and function better in your daily life. I am here to help you understand yourself better and make positive changes in your life. Short, medium or long term therapy is available and during your initial session we will discuss a treatment plan that fits with your schedule and budget.
01233 542019 View 01233 542019
Photo of Dr Tracy King, Psychologist in Wye, England
Dr Tracy King
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
I am specialised and have a special interest in treatment of Trauma (single incident or complex), Attachment based concerns, Anxiety, Phobias, Depression, offending behaviour, addiction, psychosexual concerns, couples therapy, work based stress and overcoming abuse.
You may know what your specific concerns are that you want some help with or you may simply feel stuck and dissatisfied with life. You may want to stabilise a current mental health concern or you may want to expand upon some strengths and find your purpose in life. I offer therapy and coaching that gets to the root of your concerns and helps you to rebuild your life in the way you would like it. I have trained in many different approaches over my 24 years working therapeutically. This means we can find an integration of mind, body and soul interventions to suit your needs, at a pace that works for you.
I am specialised and have a special interest in treatment of Trauma (single incident or complex), Attachment based concerns, Anxiety, Phobias, Depression, offending behaviour, addiction, psychosexual concerns, couples therapy, work based stress and overcoming abuse.
You may know what your specific concerns are that you want some help with or you may simply feel stuck and dissatisfied with life. You may want to stabilise a current mental health concern or you may want to expand upon some strengths and find your purpose in life. I offer therapy and coaching that gets to the root of your concerns and helps you to rebuild your life in the way you would like it. I have trained in many different approaches over my 24 years working therapeutically. This means we can find an integration of mind, body and soul interventions to suit your needs, at a pace that works for you.
01233 228714 View 01233 228714
Photo of Hannah Joy Fellowes, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Hannah Joy Fellowes
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
For individuals and couples, I offer a safe space for you to explore your issues and start to move forward in the ways you would like to.
Hello and welcome to this page. Whatever your reason for seeking therapy I offer a safe, confidential space for you to speak freely and be listened to fully. I have a wealth of experience working with all kinds of mental health issues in many different settings, including charities and the NHS. This means I am used to working with complexity and a large variety of presenting issues. My approach is holistic and I take into account many factors in formulating a way for us to work effectively and collaboratively together.
For individuals and couples, I offer a safe space for you to explore your issues and start to move forward in the ways you would like to.
Hello and welcome to this page. Whatever your reason for seeking therapy I offer a safe, confidential space for you to speak freely and be listened to fully. I have a wealth of experience working with all kinds of mental health issues in many different settings, including charities and the NHS. This means I am used to working with complexity and a large variety of presenting issues. My approach is holistic and I take into account many factors in formulating a way for us to work effectively and collaboratively together.
View
Photo of Ashford Relationship Therapy, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Ashford Relationship Therapy
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
If you are an individual or part of a couple that have issues around your relationship, or sexual relationship then please do get in contact. Perhaps your relationship is currently in crisis and nothing has changed, or perhaps you want to seek some help now before it gets any worse. It isn't always easy to sort these matters out by yourself and Couples Therapy can help you get your relationship back on track. I also specialise in sexual issues and compulsive sexual behaviour, which can also negatively affect your relationship, and I can help you to identify what these issues are and work towards helping you change this.
If you are an individual or part of a couple that have issues around your relationship, or sexual relationship then please do get in contact. Perhaps your relationship is currently in crisis and nothing has changed, or perhaps you want to seek some help now before it gets any worse. It isn't always easy to sort these matters out by yourself and Couples Therapy can help you get your relationship back on track. I also specialise in sexual issues and compulsive sexual behaviour, which can also negatively affect your relationship, and I can help you to identify what these issues are and work towards helping you change this.
01233 800837 View 01233 800837
Photo of Aurora Therapy Centre, Counsellor in Wye, England
Aurora Therapy Centre
Counsellor, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
The services I offer are : Psychosexual (Sex ) Therapy Relationship Therapy Individual Therapy Adolescent Therapy Child Therapy Clinical Supervision Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy / Relationship Therapy If unresolved these issues can have a significant impact on individual, sexual, emotional and relationship functioning and well being.
Hello - I am a qualified therapist with over 14 years experience working with adults and children within the NHS and in Private Pratice . I am a therapist who is committed to supporting your emotional wellbeing and development. I tailor our sessions to support your unique journey, providing a safe and supportive space to inspire growth, healing and transformation. I am now a fully qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist. I am pleased to announce I have been awarded ; Aurora Therapy Centre-Keeley Psychosexual Therapist of the Year - South East England
The services I offer are : Psychosexual (Sex ) Therapy Relationship Therapy Individual Therapy Adolescent Therapy Child Therapy Clinical Supervision Psychosexual (Sex) Therapy / Relationship Therapy If unresolved these issues can have a significant impact on individual, sexual, emotional and relationship functioning and well being.
Hello - I am a qualified therapist with over 14 years experience working with adults and children within the NHS and in Private Pratice . I am a therapist who is committed to supporting your emotional wellbeing and development. I tailor our sessions to support your unique journey, providing a safe and supportive space to inspire growth, healing and transformation. I am now a fully qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist. I am pleased to announce I have been awarded ; Aurora Therapy Centre-Keeley Psychosexual Therapist of the Year - South East England
07480 486016 View 07480 486016
Photo of Ranjana Mitra, Counsellor in Wye, England
Ranjana Mitra
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashford TN25
I am an experienced Counsellor, specialising in Couples counselling and relationship issues.
Are you living with feelings of self- doubt, blame, anger or shame? Do you need help to cope with depression or anxiety? Maybe you have suffered loss, and doubt your ability to sustain meaningful relationships with family and friends. Perhaps you are in a relationship that is stuck in the rut, or mired in hopelessness, negativity, and mistrust. It may be that your relationship has changed from a loving one to one of repeated misunderstandings, heated arguments or frosty silence. Stressful life events can bring about such difficulties, or sometimes disappointments simply accumulate over time.
I am an experienced Counsellor, specialising in Couples counselling and relationship issues.
Are you living with feelings of self- doubt, blame, anger or shame? Do you need help to cope with depression or anxiety? Maybe you have suffered loss, and doubt your ability to sustain meaningful relationships with family and friends. Perhaps you are in a relationship that is stuck in the rut, or mired in hopelessness, negativity, and mistrust. It may be that your relationship has changed from a loving one to one of repeated misunderstandings, heated arguments or frosty silence. Stressful life events can bring about such difficulties, or sometimes disappointments simply accumulate over time.
01773 307077 View 01773 307077
Photo of Teresa King, Counsellor in Wye, England
Teresa King
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Canterbury CT4
Therapy can be a catalyst for change helping us to regain a sense of control in our lives and begin to live life more towards our true potential. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues that impact on clients' wellbeing, offering support, empathy and a safe space to share their concerns. I work with individuals, couples, families, children, young people on short and long-term contracts in Canterbury and Waltham. I use different approaches and techniques that are tailored to clients' needs, believing that we are all individual and that ‘one size does not fit all’. I have also lived and worked extensively overseas.
Therapy can be a catalyst for change helping us to regain a sense of control in our lives and begin to live life more towards our true potential. I have experience of working with a wide range of issues that impact on clients' wellbeing, offering support, empathy and a safe space to share their concerns. I work with individuals, couples, families, children, young people on short and long-term contracts in Canterbury and Waltham. I use different approaches and techniques that are tailored to clients' needs, believing that we are all individual and that ‘one size does not fit all’. I have also lived and worked extensively overseas.
01227 931721 View 01227 931721
Photo of Dr Natalie Scheiner, Psychologist in Wye, England
Dr Natalie Scheiner
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN24
I am a counselling psychologist working with both individuals and couples.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, struggling to navigate through difficult emotions and find clarity in your thoughts? Rest assured, you're not alone. There is hope for a brighter tomorrow, and I'm here to guide you on that journey. Picture a life where you feel empowered to confront your fears, heal from past wounds, and embrace a future filled with possibilities. Through our shared reflection, you'll gain insight and discover your inner strength. Together, we'll create a safe space for exploration. With compassionate guidance, I'm committed to helping you find peace and contentment.
I am a counselling psychologist working with both individuals and couples.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life's challenges, struggling to navigate through difficult emotions and find clarity in your thoughts? Rest assured, you're not alone. There is hope for a brighter tomorrow, and I'm here to guide you on that journey. Picture a life where you feel empowered to confront your fears, heal from past wounds, and embrace a future filled with possibilities. Through our shared reflection, you'll gain insight and discover your inner strength. Together, we'll create a safe space for exploration. With compassionate guidance, I'm committed to helping you find peace and contentment.
020 3838 0573 View 020 3838 0573
Photo of Alison Ebanks Counselling, Counsellor in Wye, England
Alison Ebanks Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashford TN23
Hello I'm Alison.  I work with individuals and couples. Are you looking for a safe space where you can share your thoughts and feelings without feeling judged?  Do you feel anxious or overwhelmed but not sure where to turn to for support?  Are you feeling depressed and need someone to listen to you who is calm and empathetic?  Are you feeling sad about life at the moment and need to make sense of your goals and where your life is going?  Counselling can help you to focus on what matters to you and help you to understand yourself so that you can work towards having a more fulfilling life.
Hello I'm Alison.  I work with individuals and couples. Are you looking for a safe space where you can share your thoughts and feelings without feeling judged?  Do you feel anxious or overwhelmed but not sure where to turn to for support?  Are you feeling depressed and need someone to listen to you who is calm and empathetic?  Are you feeling sad about life at the moment and need to make sense of your goals and where your life is going?  Counselling can help you to focus on what matters to you and help you to understand yourself so that you can work towards having a more fulfilling life.
01233 542478 View 01233 542478
Photo of The Canterbury Hope Foundation, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
The Canterbury Hope Foundation
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Canterbury CT4
Psychoanalytical Psychoanalysis and Integrative Counselling: "The speed and accuracy by which Chris was able to work out our personalities and provide genuinely useful insight was, quite frankly, incredible.  This insight, hard as it was to digest, proved to be so profound to me that I was finally able to unpick what had being going on in my relationship.  His ability to sum up the relationship in one stark metaphor was a watershed moment for me.  Through his insight and continued support I have managed to start to discover myself again and to regain my confidence which had been systematically dismantled."  Mr. M, 2019, Canterbury.
Psychoanalytical Psychoanalysis and Integrative Counselling: "The speed and accuracy by which Chris was able to work out our personalities and provide genuinely useful insight was, quite frankly, incredible.  This insight, hard as it was to digest, proved to be so profound to me that I was finally able to unpick what had being going on in my relationship.  His ability to sum up the relationship in one stark metaphor was a watershed moment for me.  Through his insight and continued support I have managed to start to discover myself again and to regain my confidence which had been systematically dismantled."  Mr. M, 2019, Canterbury.
01227 931642 View 01227 931642
Photo of Amanda Jane Carpenter, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Amanda Jane Carpenter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Ashford TN24
I have a particular interest and extensive knowledge regarding supporting those who have experienced early life developmental and complex trauma, separation and loss. Often these experiences continue to impact on our lives and abilities to make and sustain healthy and emotionally secure relationships in adulthood. Although psychoanalytically trained my clinical practice uses a range of therapeutic approaches and is predominately informed by attachment based theory. I can offer both short and longer term therapeutic support to individuals, couples and groups.
I have a particular interest and extensive knowledge regarding supporting those who have experienced early life developmental and complex trauma, separation and loss. Often these experiences continue to impact on our lives and abilities to make and sustain healthy and emotionally secure relationships in adulthood. Although psychoanalytically trained my clinical practice uses a range of therapeutic approaches and is predominately informed by attachment based theory. I can offer both short and longer term therapeutic support to individuals, couples and groups.
01227 931716 View 01227 931716
Photo of Jules Ward, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Jules Ward
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
I am experienced at working with complex cases, trauma, gender identity, relationship and sexual issues, anger management and depression.
I get you. I worked for many years in the corporate creative world, moving into psychotherapy using the arts specifically to work with burnout, anxiety and stress. Because I came from that background I know how important confidentially and trust is, I also believe you deserve support tailored specifically to your unique needs. That's why I work privately out of office hours. Perhaps you have a secret you can't discuss with others, maybe you want to regain your edge, be confident in you relationships, or perhaps you just want to be able to get out of bed in the morning?
I am experienced at working with complex cases, trauma, gender identity, relationship and sexual issues, anger management and depression.
I get you. I worked for many years in the corporate creative world, moving into psychotherapy using the arts specifically to work with burnout, anxiety and stress. Because I came from that background I know how important confidentially and trust is, I also believe you deserve support tailored specifically to your unique needs. That's why I work privately out of office hours. Perhaps you have a secret you can't discuss with others, maybe you want to regain your edge, be confident in you relationships, or perhaps you just want to be able to get out of bed in the morning?
01784 918971 View 01784 918971
Photo of Natalie Edwards-Moss, Counsellor in Wye, England
Natalie Edwards-Moss
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashford TN24
The most important aspects are that the counselling is guided by you, the client, and that I facilitate a therapeutic relationship between client and counsellor built on mutual respect, trust and clear boundaries.
I strive to be an approachable, warm and accepting counsellor who can offer you a confidential, safe and non-judgemental space to talk about whatever it is that is troubling you. I work integratively, but I do so from a philosophically person-centered standpoint, in a relaxed yet respectful environment. I can help restore past issues and facilitate positive change, often in as few as six sessions, using a Solution Focused/CBT approach that focuses on overcoming life obstacles and moving away from feeling 'stuck'. I can help you with building confidence, resilience and focusing on new achievements and becoming goal oriented.
The most important aspects are that the counselling is guided by you, the client, and that I facilitate a therapeutic relationship between client and counsellor built on mutual respect, trust and clear boundaries.
I strive to be an approachable, warm and accepting counsellor who can offer you a confidential, safe and non-judgemental space to talk about whatever it is that is troubling you. I work integratively, but I do so from a philosophically person-centered standpoint, in a relaxed yet respectful environment. I can help restore past issues and facilitate positive change, often in as few as six sessions, using a Solution Focused/CBT approach that focuses on overcoming life obstacles and moving away from feeling 'stuck'. I can help you with building confidence, resilience and focusing on new achievements and becoming goal oriented.
01233 228713 View 01233 228713
Photo of Claire Hershman, Psychotherapist in Wye, England
Claire Hershman
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Hythe CT21  (Online Only)
As an experienced counsellor, I provide help to individuals and couples who feel held back from leading healthy, fulfilling lives, and may feel unable to enjoy their relationship, either personally, or in their work. I see therapy as collaborative. Together, drawing on my years of experience and training, we can work to to help you make changes that enhance, or rebuild your life.whether its is relationship difficulties, or challenges you are experiencing in your work and creativity ..
As an experienced counsellor, I provide help to individuals and couples who feel held back from leading healthy, fulfilling lives, and may feel unable to enjoy their relationship, either personally, or in their work. I see therapy as collaborative. Together, drawing on my years of experience and training, we can work to to help you make changes that enhance, or rebuild your life.whether its is relationship difficulties, or challenges you are experiencing in your work and creativity ..
01303 760780 View 01303 760780
Photo of Donna Harrison Counselling, Counsellor in Wye, England
Donna Harrison Counselling
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Capel-le-Ferne CT18  (Online Only)
I specialise in weight management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, low self esteem, phobias, post natal depression, trauma/birth trauma.
I offer both short and long term therapy and Clinical Supervision to adults. I can offer face to face sessions based in Folkestone or telephone sessions. I am also a trained EMDR Therapist and can help you with trauma, PTSD, OCD, or pain. I am a Licensed Core Practitioner for Understanding Your Eating so if you need help with weight management and having a better relationship with food, I can help you.
I specialise in weight management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, low self esteem, phobias, post natal depression, trauma/birth trauma.
I offer both short and long term therapy and Clinical Supervision to adults. I can offer face to face sessions based in Folkestone or telephone sessions. I am also a trained EMDR Therapist and can help you with trauma, PTSD, OCD, or pain. I am a Licensed Core Practitioner for Understanding Your Eating so if you need help with weight management and having a better relationship with food, I can help you.
01303 768990 View 01303 768990
Photo of Beth Lindsay West, Counsellor in Wye, England
Beth Lindsay West
Counsellor, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Ashford TN23
I also provide counselling to couples struggling with their relationships.
I am a qualified CBT therapist. My approach is both adaptive and solution orientated and works best for people who want to change how they are feeling, thinking and behaving. I can help you manage distressing emotions by changing your unhealthy thought patterns and replacing any unhelpful, destructive and self-sabotaging behaviours you may have developed with healthy, helpful practices. My approach is to help you develop a deeper understanding of who you are and why you do the things you do. I will help you develop a sense of self-respect and recognise you are stronger than you think.
I also provide counselling to couples struggling with their relationships.
I am a qualified CBT therapist. My approach is both adaptive and solution orientated and works best for people who want to change how they are feeling, thinking and behaving. I can help you manage distressing emotions by changing your unhealthy thought patterns and replacing any unhelpful, destructive and self-sabotaging behaviours you may have developed with healthy, helpful practices. My approach is to help you develop a deeper understanding of who you are and why you do the things you do. I will help you develop a sense of self-respect and recognise you are stronger than you think.
01580 234650 View 01580 234650
Photo of Inspire Therapy Services, Counsellor in Wye, England
Inspire Therapy Services
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Folkestone CT18
We are an established and experienced service supporting clients with a wide range of emotional issues. Integral to our working ethos is the therapeutic relationship, where we endeavour to help our clients with self-awareness, self- acceptance, resilience, re-connection and ultimately healing. We offer an integrative approach which draws from a range of psychological theories, with a foundation based in counselling. As therapists we work to understand your experience from your perspective, which can help restore a connection to your inner values and sense of self-worth, thus enabling you to find a way to move forward & progress.
We are an established and experienced service supporting clients with a wide range of emotional issues. Integral to our working ethos is the therapeutic relationship, where we endeavour to help our clients with self-awareness, self- acceptance, resilience, re-connection and ultimately healing. We offer an integrative approach which draws from a range of psychological theories, with a foundation based in counselling. As therapists we work to understand your experience from your perspective, which can help restore a connection to your inner values and sense of self-worth, thus enabling you to find a way to move forward & progress.
01304 796893 View 01304 796893
Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.