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Photo of Dianne Everitt, Psychologist in Warlingham, England
Dianne Everitt
Psychologist, MA, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SW19  (Online Only)
Research is really clear that the outcome of therapy is directly linked to the relationship you have with your therapist.
I’m a Clinical Psychologist, working with high achievers who struggle with high functioning anxiety, self-confidence and self-esteem, burnout, stress, and relationship difficulties. If on the surface you look like you have it all together, but the silent voice of self-doubt plagues you, then we will likely work well together. I like to work with the heart of a matter, rather than treat symptoms at a surface level. I work with both adolescents and adults, and have over 13 years experience in mental health. I have a fantastic team of Psychologists working with me, and we also specialise in ADHD, ASD and ADHD assessments.
Research is really clear that the outcome of therapy is directly linked to the relationship you have with your therapist.
I’m a Clinical Psychologist, working with high achievers who struggle with high functioning anxiety, self-confidence and self-esteem, burnout, stress, and relationship difficulties. If on the surface you look like you have it all together, but the silent voice of self-doubt plagues you, then we will likely work well together. I like to work with the heart of a matter, rather than treat symptoms at a surface level. I work with both adolescents and adults, and have over 13 years experience in mental health. I have a fantastic team of Psychologists working with me, and we also specialise in ADHD, ASD and ADHD assessments.
01252 947363 View 01252 947363
Photo of Anthony Donohue Counselling & Psychotherapy, Psychotherapist in Warlingham, England
Anthony Donohue Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Beckenham BR3
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
07380 318240 View 07380 318240
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Yvette Arthur
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SW19  (Online Only)
You have already made a brave and important step on the journey to well-being and self-discovery, by enquiring about having therapy. As a Clinical Psychologist, I am passionate about helping people to realise the values, knowledge, and skills that they already hold, and how the awareness of this can enable them to live full, vibrant and satisfying lives. I believe that it is important to learn skills to help people cope with the present and the future, as well as making sense of past experiences to understand patterns that are happening in your life currently.
You have already made a brave and important step on the journey to well-being and self-discovery, by enquiring about having therapy. As a Clinical Psychologist, I am passionate about helping people to realise the values, knowledge, and skills that they already hold, and how the awareness of this can enable them to live full, vibrant and satisfying lives. I believe that it is important to learn skills to help people cope with the present and the future, as well as making sense of past experiences to understand patterns that are happening in your life currently.
020 3984 7647 View 020 3984 7647
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Deborah Susan Gray
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW16
Life can be hard and doesn't always go the way we would like. I offer a range of times to suit your needs. Where together we can explore what you are experiencing and work towards, creating a meaningful life. I am currently conducting masters research, of my final year in transpersonal psychology, so any spiritual counselling that is required we can work together. I offer a place to get away from everything and talk while feeling safe without judgement. This can be a place to process what has gone on and learn how the world is perceived uniquely by you.
Life can be hard and doesn't always go the way we would like. I offer a range of times to suit your needs. Where together we can explore what you are experiencing and work towards, creating a meaningful life. I am currently conducting masters research, of my final year in transpersonal psychology, so any spiritual counselling that is required we can work together. I offer a place to get away from everything and talk while feeling safe without judgement. This can be a place to process what has gone on and learn how the world is perceived uniquely by you.
01260 541352 View 01260 541352

Online Therapists

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Zi Bishop
Counsellor, MA, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
London E8
Hello I'm Zi. I have 7 years experience as a Psychotherapist working with individuals and couples to manage stress and anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and parenting challenges. I am non judgemental in my approach as I believe in treating everyone with compassion and sensitivity. Our sessions will be tailor made to suit your needs, and draws on aspects of therapy, which involves helping you to bring what is unconscious - into your conscious mind. My modality also explores patterns of behaviour to provide practical tools and strategies to enhance your wellbeing.
Hello I'm Zi. I have 7 years experience as a Psychotherapist working with individuals and couples to manage stress and anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and parenting challenges. I am non judgemental in my approach as I believe in treating everyone with compassion and sensitivity. Our sessions will be tailor made to suit your needs, and draws on aspects of therapy, which involves helping you to bring what is unconscious - into your conscious mind. My modality also explores patterns of behaviour to provide practical tools and strategies to enhance your wellbeing.
020 3728 8875 View 020 3728 8875
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Bukola Ruth Aina
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southend-on-Sea SS2
I am a Therapeutic Counsellor NCPS Registered and BACP member dedicated to helping and supporting clients work through whatever challenges they may be facing. Whether you struggling with anxiety, trauma, depression, bereavement, emotional issues or relationship problems, or simply feeling stuck in life. I provide therapeutic counselling to support my clients every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the potential to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life, and I am committed to helping and supporting my clients achieve that. I will be glad to begin the journey to explore with you. Please feel free to call, email or text me.
I am a Therapeutic Counsellor NCPS Registered and BACP member dedicated to helping and supporting clients work through whatever challenges they may be facing. Whether you struggling with anxiety, trauma, depression, bereavement, emotional issues or relationship problems, or simply feeling stuck in life. I provide therapeutic counselling to support my clients every step of the way. I believe that everyone has the potential to lead a fulfilling and meaningful life, and I am committed to helping and supporting my clients achieve that. I will be glad to begin the journey to explore with you. Please feel free to call, email or text me.
01702 967907 View 01702 967907
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San Vtgotsky Wong
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London E14
I am San Vtgotsky Wong. I am a senior Psychotherapist and University Supervisor, working for children, youth and mental health for more than 19 years. I am very passionate about therapeutic interventions that vary from deep psychological interventions based on the client's history and memories, to an emphasis on the relationship between therapist and client, including their cultural context and systems. I am also very interested in using symbolic representations and meanings in the therapeutic setting to assist clients on their reflections and self-awareness. I have worked in a variety of settings including psychiatric h
I am San Vtgotsky Wong. I am a senior Psychotherapist and University Supervisor, working for children, youth and mental health for more than 19 years. I am very passionate about therapeutic interventions that vary from deep psychological interventions based on the client's history and memories, to an emphasis on the relationship between therapist and client, including their cultural context and systems. I am also very interested in using symbolic representations and meanings in the therapeutic setting to assist clients on their reflections and self-awareness. I have worked in a variety of settings including psychiatric h
020 8138 8672 View 020 8138 8672
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Dr Cristian A Nica
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
London W2
Psychologist, HCPC-registered supervisor in clinical, counselling, health and occupational psychology. Providing services for individuals, couples and families beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT or ST), the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life in reach. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result, a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward.
Psychologist, HCPC-registered supervisor in clinical, counselling, health and occupational psychology. Providing services for individuals, couples and families beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT or ST), the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life in reach. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result, a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward.
020 3962 2480 View 020 3962 2480
Photo of Rosemarie Philips, Counsellor in Warlingham, England
Rosemarie Philips
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Bournemouth BH11
RoseMarie Philips, I offer Therapeutic Counselling & Life Coaching in many areas of life: I worked at Relate for 11.5 years. With 26 years of experience working with Trauma, Domestic or Sexual Abuse, Menopause & Post Traumatic Stress. Working with adults and teens with Asperger's and Autism and ADHD issues. Anger Management, Grief, Bereavement. Anxiety & Depression. Providing techniques in Relationship & Family Therapy, Having worked with CAMHS (NHS) children & teens with behavioural issues. Work is around empowering you to rebuild your life. self-worth, confidence & self-esteem. Understanding yourself & improve relationships
RoseMarie Philips, I offer Therapeutic Counselling & Life Coaching in many areas of life: I worked at Relate for 11.5 years. With 26 years of experience working with Trauma, Domestic or Sexual Abuse, Menopause & Post Traumatic Stress. Working with adults and teens with Asperger's and Autism and ADHD issues. Anger Management, Grief, Bereavement. Anxiety & Depression. Providing techniques in Relationship & Family Therapy, Having worked with CAMHS (NHS) children & teens with behavioural issues. Work is around empowering you to rebuild your life. self-worth, confidence & self-esteem. Understanding yourself & improve relationships
01202 125211 View 01202 125211
Photo of Chun Kong Sze Du, Counsellor in Warlingham, England
Chun Kong Sze Du
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Aldershot GU12  (Online Only)
Relationships can be challenging at times, with repeated dead-end communication resulting in distancing and stone-walling, and resulting couple's overall dissatisfaction. Reconnection, and forgiveness through installing new communication patterns and awareness. A devitalized relationship can be overwhelming with grief and loss, turbulent thoughts and feelings would be hard to bear. Recuperating with a process of catharsis, recognizing the pain and hurt, reflecting on the attachment, releasing blocked emotions, and reconstructing the future outlook, thus inner peace, order in everyday life, and growth ensue.
Relationships can be challenging at times, with repeated dead-end communication resulting in distancing and stone-walling, and resulting couple's overall dissatisfaction. Reconnection, and forgiveness through installing new communication patterns and awareness. A devitalized relationship can be overwhelming with grief and loss, turbulent thoughts and feelings would be hard to bear. Recuperating with a process of catharsis, recognizing the pain and hurt, reflecting on the attachment, releasing blocked emotions, and reconstructing the future outlook, thus inner peace, order in everyday life, and growth ensue.
01252 415026 View 01252 415026
Photo of Jeffrey Martin Cockfield, Counsellor in Warlingham, England
Jeffrey Martin Cockfield
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Deal CT14
I offer Counselling and Therapy for a range of issues including: Anxiety, Depression, Alcohol, Drugs, Relationship/Sexual issues, Gambling, Anger Management, Divorce and Separation, Bereavement: Grief and Loss, Low Self-esteem, Eating Disorders, Co-Dependency, Prescription Drug dependency, Internet Addiction, Compulsive Shopping, Shame & Guilt issues. I also offer Recovery Coaching and mentoring. I provide counselling support and advice to families and employers where a loved-one or valued employee is struggling. I have been working in counselling and advisory roles for over twenty years. I have a wide range of experience of working with people from diverse backgrounds, covering many different faiths and belief systems.
I offer Counselling and Therapy for a range of issues including: Anxiety, Depression, Alcohol, Drugs, Relationship/Sexual issues, Gambling, Anger Management, Divorce and Separation, Bereavement: Grief and Loss, Low Self-esteem, Eating Disorders, Co-Dependency, Prescription Drug dependency, Internet Addiction, Compulsive Shopping, Shame & Guilt issues. I also offer Recovery Coaching and mentoring. I provide counselling support and advice to families and employers where a loved-one or valued employee is struggling. I have been working in counselling and advisory roles for over twenty years. I have a wide range of experience of working with people from diverse backgrounds, covering many different faiths and belief systems.
07775 702791 View 07775 702791
Photo of Dr Cristian A Nica, Psychologist in Warlingham, England
Dr Cristian A Nica
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
London NW1
Psychologist, HCPC-registered supervisor in clinical, counselling, health and occupational psychology. Providing services for individuals, couples and families beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, ST) - the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life in reach. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result, a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward.
Psychologist, HCPC-registered supervisor in clinical, counselling, health and occupational psychology. Providing services for individuals, couples and families beginning from eclectic CBT interventions (ACT, DBT, ST) - the most effective and intuitive psychological framework. I address all psychopathologies. My goal is to provide you with a strong mental platform and the skills to help you keep your life in reach. Progress means change, rehearsing new ways of thinking or a range of strategies to iterate development safely. The result, a genuine approach for you to always find a better way forward.
020 7870 2490 View 020 7870 2490
Photo of Aimee Wong, Psychotherapist in Warlingham, England
Aimee Wong
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW19
I'm here to support you every step of the way! Life can be challenging, and there are moments when we all feel lost and unsure of where to begin. But don't worry, I understand what you're going through, and I'm right here by your side. Share your thoughts and concerns with me. Together, we can navigate through this difficult time and find a path forward. With over 10 years of experience in counselling and mental health services, I specialize in addressing traumatic experiences, and couples and family relationships, as well as providing support for individuals dealing with addiction, depression, and anxiety.
I'm here to support you every step of the way! Life can be challenging, and there are moments when we all feel lost and unsure of where to begin. But don't worry, I understand what you're going through, and I'm right here by your side. Share your thoughts and concerns with me. Together, we can navigate through this difficult time and find a path forward. With over 10 years of experience in counselling and mental health services, I specialize in addressing traumatic experiences, and couples and family relationships, as well as providing support for individuals dealing with addiction, depression, and anxiety.
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Brenda Denise Clarke-Wills Bsc (Hons) Psych (Open)
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London W14  (Online Only)
I can help with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience and the capacity to be with unbearable feelings; personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns that are holding you back, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
I can help with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience and the capacity to be with unbearable feelings; personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns that are holding you back, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
020 4538 9131 View 020 4538 9131
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Key for Change
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Marlow SL7
Are you baffled by your relationship with a narcissist? Are you exhausted by the mind games, gas-lighting and deceit? Have you friends grown bored of hearing you talk about the same issues? Fret not, you're not alone.  There’s no two ways about it, narcissists are very difficult personalities. They’re sly, conniving and incredibly devious. Until you’ve been subjected to their abuse, you just won’t get it. This sad fact often results in their victims being increasingly isolated. Isolation exacerbates the narcissists control and creates a fertile ground for further abuse.  Its no wonder the relationship compromises your sanity.
Are you baffled by your relationship with a narcissist? Are you exhausted by the mind games, gas-lighting and deceit? Have you friends grown bored of hearing you talk about the same issues? Fret not, you're not alone.  There’s no two ways about it, narcissists are very difficult personalities. They’re sly, conniving and incredibly devious. Until you’ve been subjected to their abuse, you just won’t get it. This sad fact often results in their victims being increasingly isolated. Isolation exacerbates the narcissists control and creates a fertile ground for further abuse.  Its no wonder the relationship compromises your sanity.
020 3856 8714 View 020 3856 8714
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Chesterton Counselling&Psychotherapy, MSc MPhil MA
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cambridge CB4
I am experienced integrative therapist, with interest in anxiety and specialism in couples therapy.
INDIVIDUAL AND COUPLE THERAPY! If you suffer from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, bereavement, abuse or at times you do not feel like yourself I can help you find a “better place”. Together, we can explore challenges in your life; potential changes that you may wish to make, and to reach decisions about your current situation. In our sessions we will aim to enable you to become more confident and aim for a happier and better life. You are now able to fund sessions through your medical insurance Axa, Aviva, Nuffield etc http://chestertoncounselling.website3.me/
I am experienced integrative therapist, with interest in anxiety and specialism in couples therapy.
INDIVIDUAL AND COUPLE THERAPY! If you suffer from anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, bereavement, abuse or at times you do not feel like yourself I can help you find a “better place”. Together, we can explore challenges in your life; potential changes that you may wish to make, and to reach decisions about your current situation. In our sessions we will aim to enable you to become more confident and aim for a happier and better life. You are now able to fund sessions through your medical insurance Axa, Aviva, Nuffield etc http://chestertoncounselling.website3.me/
01223 622468 View 01223 622468
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Tim Harvard Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W5
Hi, I hope your search for a therapist is going well. It can be a difficult process, but it is important to find a therapist who feels right for you. The relationship with your therapist is, on average, more helpful than their training and experience. Person-centred therapy is a relationship. It is not dependent on medical diagnoses, yet can help with all conditions. It is as effective as other leading therapies, but uniquely it puts the client at the centre of the process. There is no 'you should do this'. The questions, and the answers, will come from within during our conversations.
Hi, I hope your search for a therapist is going well. It can be a difficult process, but it is important to find a therapist who feels right for you. The relationship with your therapist is, on average, more helpful than their training and experience. Person-centred therapy is a relationship. It is not dependent on medical diagnoses, yet can help with all conditions. It is as effective as other leading therapies, but uniquely it puts the client at the centre of the process. There is no 'you should do this'. The questions, and the answers, will come from within during our conversations.
01736 803971 View 01736 803971
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Fiona de Swardt
Psychotherapist, BACP
Verified Verified
Leamington Spa CV31
I offer specialist psychosexual therapy for individuals and couples addressing specific sexual/intimacy difficulties.
I understand that considering to approach someone to discuss private and intimate matters is not easy, but this can be life changing. Experiencing emotional difficulties that affect your moods and behaviour are more common than you think. This can significantly impact a wide range of aspects in your day-to-day life and relationships. Therapy is often an effective way to reach a better understanding of yourself and the causes of your emotional discomfort. It may also help you to find the best way forward to overcome challenges and move on to experience meaningful life improvements simultaneously alleviating pressures and stress.
I offer specialist psychosexual therapy for individuals and couples addressing specific sexual/intimacy difficulties.
I understand that considering to approach someone to discuss private and intimate matters is not easy, but this can be life changing. Experiencing emotional difficulties that affect your moods and behaviour are more common than you think. This can significantly impact a wide range of aspects in your day-to-day life and relationships. Therapy is often an effective way to reach a better understanding of yourself and the causes of your emotional discomfort. It may also help you to find the best way forward to overcome challenges and move on to experience meaningful life improvements simultaneously alleviating pressures and stress.
01926 351762 View 01926 351762
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The Lifeline Counselling ltd
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE1
Working mum/dad? Relationship issues? Feeling stuck and unsure of what going on for you but needing to hold it together at the same time? Get in touch, let's talk.
Life happens, and the majority of the time we seem to find a way to "happen" with it. We find a way to navigate through the motions of "doing" and get to a place of "being". Being excited, being present, being happy - but sometimes along the way it can get confusing, blurry and we can feel a bit lost. As a certified counsellor, I work with you through the confusion, to get to a place of clarity. I explore the past and present with you using an integrated therapeutic approach - blending the different skills I've learnt in practice to assist you with where you are right now. Many therapists talk about the varying styles of therapy
Working mum/dad? Relationship issues? Feeling stuck and unsure of what going on for you but needing to hold it together at the same time? Get in touch, let's talk.
Life happens, and the majority of the time we seem to find a way to "happen" with it. We find a way to navigate through the motions of "doing" and get to a place of "being". Being excited, being present, being happy - but sometimes along the way it can get confusing, blurry and we can feel a bit lost. As a certified counsellor, I work with you through the confusion, to get to a place of clarity. I explore the past and present with you using an integrated therapeutic approach - blending the different skills I've learnt in practice to assist you with where you are right now. Many therapists talk about the varying styles of therapy
020 8090 7623 View 020 8090 7623
Photo of Dr Albert Zandvoort, Psychotherapist in Warlingham, England
Dr Albert Zandvoort
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Thatcham RG19
Waitlist for new clients
I offer confidential, client focused psychotherapy, Face-Face & Zoom worldwide . Through dialogue and the shared exploration of your life, you may find relief from recurring problems, live your life more fully and realise your full potential. Therapy is a personal and individual process of change, as well as understanding. This is an opportunity to take time and space to think about yourself and the problems you may be facing. By talking to a trained psychotherapist you may find it easier to understand how past experiences, thought patterns and behaviour, or anxieties about the future are causing difficulties in your daily life.
I offer confidential, client focused psychotherapy, Face-Face & Zoom worldwide . Through dialogue and the shared exploration of your life, you may find relief from recurring problems, live your life more fully and realise your full potential. Therapy is a personal and individual process of change, as well as understanding. This is an opportunity to take time and space to think about yourself and the problems you may be facing. By talking to a trained psychotherapist you may find it easier to understand how past experiences, thought patterns and behaviour, or anxieties about the future are causing difficulties in your daily life.
01635 015878 View 01635 015878

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.