Couples Counselling in South Holmwood

Photo of Sarah Dean, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Sarah Dean
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
South Holmwood RH5
We can all find life hard at times. It can throw up difficulties that feel overwhelming and out of our control. I support adults and teenagers through a range of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement, relationship issues and Asperger Syndrome. When we experience distress, sadness, loneliness, anxiety or depressed mood, it can feel difficult to bear and leave us feeling powerless. Working alongside a therapist means you need not face these difficulties alone.
We can all find life hard at times. It can throw up difficulties that feel overwhelming and out of our control. I support adults and teenagers through a range of issues including anxiety, depression, bereavement, relationship issues and Asperger Syndrome. When we experience distress, sadness, loneliness, anxiety or depressed mood, it can feel difficult to bear and leave us feeling powerless. Working alongside a therapist means you need not face these difficulties alone.
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More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Martin Bennett, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Martin Bennett
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I am qualified as an integrative counsellor and my busy private practice reflects a broad range of clients and their issues. I work with people of all ages, from all backgrounds struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction and stress. I also have experience of clients with bereavement, loss, panic attacks, trauma, sex and pornography addiction, anger and eating disorders. I work with individuals and couples and favour a systemic approach looking at context, social environment and behaviour patterns as well as attachments from the past that impact the present.
I am qualified as an integrative counsellor and my busy private practice reflects a broad range of clients and their issues. I work with people of all ages, from all backgrounds struggling with anxiety, depression, addiction and stress. I also have experience of clients with bereavement, loss, panic attacks, trauma, sex and pornography addiction, anger and eating disorders. I work with individuals and couples and favour a systemic approach looking at context, social environment and behaviour patterns as well as attachments from the past that impact the present.
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Photo of Nicola Farrow, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Nicola Farrow
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tadworth KT20
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
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Photo of Dr Donna Bella Gurney, Psychologist in South Holmwood, England
Dr Donna Bella Gurney
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU4
Are you suffering from an eating disorder? Are you constantly feeling not good enough? Are your anxieties stopping you from living the life that you want? Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed or burnt out? Are you a perfectionist with unrelenting standards and highly self-critical? Do you find yourself sabotaging your relationships? Whatever your circumstances, I am here to help. ‘Tutum' is a latin word which means 'safe'.​ I founded Tutum Psychology to provide a safe space for people to talk. The scientific literature has shown that feeling safe in your therapeutic relationship is important in order for therapy to be a success.
Are you suffering from an eating disorder? Are you constantly feeling not good enough? Are your anxieties stopping you from living the life that you want? Are you feeling stressed, overwhelmed or burnt out? Are you a perfectionist with unrelenting standards and highly self-critical? Do you find yourself sabotaging your relationships? Whatever your circumstances, I am here to help. ‘Tutum' is a latin word which means 'safe'.​ I founded Tutum Psychology to provide a safe space for people to talk. The scientific literature has shown that feeling safe in your therapeutic relationship is important in order for therapy to be a success.
01922 664934 View 01922 664934
Photo of Sonia Freeman, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Sonia Freeman
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Banstead KT20
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
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Photo of Seasons Therapy, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Seasons Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Horsham RH12
Hi I'm Ruth. Are you going through a difficult season in life right now ? I am an experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals, young people (14+) and couples from all walks of life. I offer short or long term therapy according to client needs. I specialise in helping clients manage anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, coping with long term illness, disability and trauma. My approach is to explore the root causes of issues in the context of a supportive therapeutic relationship. I offer a welcoming, safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you will be met with respect and acceptance.
Hi I'm Ruth. Are you going through a difficult season in life right now ? I am an experienced and accredited psychotherapist working with individuals, young people (14+) and couples from all walks of life. I offer short or long term therapy according to client needs. I specialise in helping clients manage anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, coping with long term illness, disability and trauma. My approach is to explore the root causes of issues in the context of a supportive therapeutic relationship. I offer a welcoming, safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you will be met with respect and acceptance.
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Photo of Maddy Coates, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Maddy Coates
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I am a person centred, systemic, psychodynamic counsellor and Relate trained in relationship counselling. I help people with anxiety, depression, low mood and loneliness, self harm, eating issues, retirement, parenting, separation and the way they relate to others. Couples come to me to work through their underlying issues, patterns of conflict, communication challenges, parental differences, feelings about roles and responsibilities, beliefs from childhood or difficult life obstacles. Individuals face these issues too and also seek support on how to stay or if it is time to leave.
I am a person centred, systemic, psychodynamic counsellor and Relate trained in relationship counselling. I help people with anxiety, depression, low mood and loneliness, self harm, eating issues, retirement, parenting, separation and the way they relate to others. Couples come to me to work through their underlying issues, patterns of conflict, communication challenges, parental differences, feelings about roles and responsibilities, beliefs from childhood or difficult life obstacles. Individuals face these issues too and also seek support on how to stay or if it is time to leave.
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Photo of Anna Scott, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Anna Scott
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
When you choose to work with a counsellor or therapist you have taken an important step towards self care. I can offer time-limited therapy to help you focus on a particular problem or open-ended counselling to work through issues which may have been with you for some time. I welcome enquiries from individuals and couples in Reigate and Redhill, Dorking and Leatherhead for in-person relational work. Call me on : 07944 738214.
When you choose to work with a counsellor or therapist you have taken an important step towards self care. I can offer time-limited therapy to help you focus on a particular problem or open-ended counselling to work through issues which may have been with you for some time. I welcome enquiries from individuals and couples in Reigate and Redhill, Dorking and Leatherhead for in-person relational work. Call me on : 07944 738214.
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Photo of Heidi Renton, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Heidi Renton
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU4
As this is widely recognised as the gold standard organisation for relationship psychotherapy, it means I have specialist clinical skills in counselling couples and individuals with relationship or sexual difficulties.
Sometimes relationships can seem such a struggle. Difficulties with trust and commitment, the arrival of children, redundancy, ill-health, infidelity, 'empty nest' syndrome, retirement, bereavement - these can all pose significant challenges to our ability to form and maintain a loving, emotionally fulfilling connection. Maybe you are at a crisis point, feel stuck, or are trying to work out whether or not to separate? You might be unhappy with your sexual relationship. If you feel like you need some help, I will listen and support without judgement, and can offer you counselling that is professional, sensitive and confidential.
As this is widely recognised as the gold standard organisation for relationship psychotherapy, it means I have specialist clinical skills in counselling couples and individuals with relationship or sexual difficulties.
Sometimes relationships can seem such a struggle. Difficulties with trust and commitment, the arrival of children, redundancy, ill-health, infidelity, 'empty nest' syndrome, retirement, bereavement - these can all pose significant challenges to our ability to form and maintain a loving, emotionally fulfilling connection. Maybe you are at a crisis point, feel stuck, or are trying to work out whether or not to separate? You might be unhappy with your sexual relationship. If you feel like you need some help, I will listen and support without judgement, and can offer you counselling that is professional, sensitive and confidential.
01483 930126 View 01483 930126
Photo of Tracy Foster, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Tracy Foster
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
Are you coping with anxiety, relationship issues, life changes, loss, depression, stress, change, low self-esteem or perhaps you are just not feeling as you'd like? Life can be hard and managing feelings or situations can sometimes be overwhelming. Whatever you are faced with, I’m here to support you. I work with adults and teenagers whenever they need support.
Are you coping with anxiety, relationship issues, life changes, loss, depression, stress, change, low self-esteem or perhaps you are just not feeling as you'd like? Life can be hard and managing feelings or situations can sometimes be overwhelming. Whatever you are faced with, I’m here to support you. I work with adults and teenagers whenever they need support.
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Photo of Clinton Raminhos, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Clinton Raminhos
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Epsom KT18
I offer support to people in relationships of various relationship styles who are experiencing a breakdown in communication, lack of engagement, or maybe seeking improved intimacy or support working through a betrayal or historical unresolved experiences.
Hello, I am Clinton. You might be looking for a therapist because of a specific issue, struggling with difficult emotions, or not feeling quite right. Talking with a therapist in a confidential setting can help you become more at ease in yourself and your relationships. In a therapeutic relationship where there is acceptance, empathy and support, we can learn to understand our experiences and improve how we relate to ourselves and others. Therefore, I work to create a space where you feel you can trust me to support you as we work through your experiences in a contained and thoughtful environment.
I offer support to people in relationships of various relationship styles who are experiencing a breakdown in communication, lack of engagement, or maybe seeking improved intimacy or support working through a betrayal or historical unresolved experiences.
Hello, I am Clinton. You might be looking for a therapist because of a specific issue, struggling with difficult emotions, or not feeling quite right. Talking with a therapist in a confidential setting can help you become more at ease in yourself and your relationships. In a therapeutic relationship where there is acceptance, empathy and support, we can learn to understand our experiences and improve how we relate to ourselves and others. Therefore, I work to create a space where you feel you can trust me to support you as we work through your experiences in a contained and thoughtful environment.
07931 390147 View 07931 390147
Photo of Eleanor Osman, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Eleanor Osman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Redhill RH1
Hello, I am Eleanor, Systemic Psychotherapist & Supervisor, I work with individuals, couples & families. Life is painful, challenging & puzzling at times. Some people come to therapy knowing what they wish to change others use it as a place to explore their discomfort & pain. I offer a safe, confidential, respectful & collaborative space tailored to your needs integrating talking, creative approaches & psychoeducation to explore your difficulties. Together we can discover new ways to understand, manage or find resolution so you can move forwards towards a more satisfying life with a deeper understanding of yourself & others.
Hello, I am Eleanor, Systemic Psychotherapist & Supervisor, I work with individuals, couples & families. Life is painful, challenging & puzzling at times. Some people come to therapy knowing what they wish to change others use it as a place to explore their discomfort & pain. I offer a safe, confidential, respectful & collaborative space tailored to your needs integrating talking, creative approaches & psychoeducation to explore your difficulties. Together we can discover new ways to understand, manage or find resolution so you can move forwards towards a more satisfying life with a deeper understanding of yourself & others.
01883 779219 View 01883 779219
Photo of Martin Firstbrook, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Martin Firstbrook
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Ashtead KT21
Life...Relationships...Work.... I partner with individuals and couples who want a place to reflect and make sense of their current difficulties so that they can get back on track. I offer a friendly, down to earth, research backed approach both online and face to face. I can provide counselling, psychotherapy and coaching, or a combination as determined by your unique needs. I start from the perspective that people make sense i.e. their behaviour and what they are experiencing have meaning that can be understood in the context of their history and their current life context.
Life...Relationships...Work.... I partner with individuals and couples who want a place to reflect and make sense of their current difficulties so that they can get back on track. I offer a friendly, down to earth, research backed approach both online and face to face. I can provide counselling, psychotherapy and coaching, or a combination as determined by your unique needs. I start from the perspective that people make sense i.e. their behaviour and what they are experiencing have meaning that can be understood in the context of their history and their current life context.
01737 949784 View 01737 949784
Photo of Frances Jane Nikolov, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Frances Jane Nikolov
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Epsom KT18
Are you struggling with difficult feelings, feeling low or fed up of feeling bad about yourself? I am an experienced counsellor working with issues including low self esteem and confidence, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, feeling sad, relationship problems, bereavement and loss, domestic abuse, separation and divorce, redundancy and stress at work. Counselling can give you the time to focus on you, in a warm and empathetic space, without judgement. This time can give much needed clarity and a place to talk honestly and openly, away from our lives. Counselling is an investment in your future well being.
Are you struggling with difficult feelings, feeling low or fed up of feeling bad about yourself? I am an experienced counsellor working with issues including low self esteem and confidence, anxiety, panic attacks, depression, feeling sad, relationship problems, bereavement and loss, domestic abuse, separation and divorce, redundancy and stress at work. Counselling can give you the time to focus on you, in a warm and empathetic space, without judgement. This time can give much needed clarity and a place to talk honestly and openly, away from our lives. Counselling is an investment in your future well being.
01798 305236 View 01798 305236
Photo of Patrizia Mazzoli, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Patrizia Mazzoli
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I believe in the uniqueness of each person and by offering empathic understanding and unconditional acceptance of who you are, we can develop a safe client-therapist relationship.
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
I believe in the uniqueness of each person and by offering empathic understanding and unconditional acceptance of who you are, we can develop a safe client-therapist relationship.
You may be asked the question "How are you?" many times, but how often have you been able to respond to that question truthfully? You may hold back your emotions and feel anxious, confused and overwhelmed by life difficulties. You may feel that you cannot share what is inside you for fear of being judged, misunderstood or simply you cannot trust people around you. It may feel safer to reply: "I am ok!" and life goes on without giving a voice to your deep needs. My aim is to offer you a warm and non judgemental space where together we can explore the source of your emotional difficulties. Your emotional wellbeing is my priority.
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Photo of Hannah Perry, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Hannah Perry
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Horsham RH13
The relationship that you have with your counsellor is the single most important factor with regards to successful outcomes.
None of us are immune to life's difficulties, and speaking with a counsellor whilst going through difficult times can significantly lessen that burden. It provides you with the time, space and support to process where you are in your life right now, and where you want to be heading. I have been working within the counselling field for over 17 years. I have worked within NHS settings and various counselling organisations in that time, offering a variety of proven, effective therapies to assist a wide range of issues.
The relationship that you have with your counsellor is the single most important factor with regards to successful outcomes.
None of us are immune to life's difficulties, and speaking with a counsellor whilst going through difficult times can significantly lessen that burden. It provides you with the time, space and support to process where you are in your life right now, and where you want to be heading. I have been working within the counselling field for over 17 years. I have worked within NHS settings and various counselling organisations in that time, offering a variety of proven, effective therapies to assist a wide range of issues.
01403 907061 View 01403 907061
Photo of Shikainah Champion, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Shikainah Champion
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Epsom KT20
I also offer Behavioural Couples Therapy (BCT) which is a structured CBT based approach to coach couples experiencing relationship distress.
I treat depression and anxiety disorders such as specific phobias, PTSD, childhood trauma, OCD, Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social phobia, Panic and Agoraphobia and Health Anxiety. I also treat Anorexia nervosa and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). I treat individuals 16+ and couples too. In addition, I also offer CBT supervision to High Intensity Therapists and Psychological Well Being Practitioners in our service. I am happy to take on any private practitioner looking for a CBT supervisor.
I also offer Behavioural Couples Therapy (BCT) which is a structured CBT based approach to coach couples experiencing relationship distress.
I treat depression and anxiety disorders such as specific phobias, PTSD, childhood trauma, OCD, Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social phobia, Panic and Agoraphobia and Health Anxiety. I also treat Anorexia nervosa and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). I treat individuals 16+ and couples too. In addition, I also offer CBT supervision to High Intensity Therapists and Psychological Well Being Practitioners in our service. I am happy to take on any private practitioner looking for a CBT supervisor.
01798 305234 View 01798 305234
Photo of Katharine Carpenter, Psychotherapist in South Holmwood, England
Katharine Carpenter
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Cobham KT11
I feel that perhaps the best therapy comes from building a strong and trusting relationship with your therapist.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, particularly in the world we are living in today. I am a qualified, fully accredited and experienced therapist, here to work with you to achieve a more positive future. I aim to offer professional yet approachable support, taking the stigma out of therapy.
I feel that perhaps the best therapy comes from building a strong and trusting relationship with your therapist.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, particularly in the world we are living in today. I am a qualified, fully accredited and experienced therapist, here to work with you to achieve a more positive future. I aim to offer professional yet approachable support, taking the stigma out of therapy.
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Photo of Carol Jane Pearson, Counsellor in South Holmwood, England
Carol Jane Pearson
Counsellor, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Crawley RH10
Are you struggling with common mental health problems, such as anxiety and depression, or are life events such as trauma, loss and bereavement, financial/ work or relationship problems affecting your day to day life? Counselling and psychotherapy can help to explore mental health problems and life challenges that might leave you feeling alone or stuck. If you are experiencing problems within a significant relationship, whether that is with a partner, parent or sibling, couples counselling can help to unravel the causes of conflict and misunderstandings that can get in the way of living life well.
Are you struggling with common mental health problems, such as anxiety and depression, or are life events such as trauma, loss and bereavement, financial/ work or relationship problems affecting your day to day life? Counselling and psychotherapy can help to explore mental health problems and life challenges that might leave you feeling alone or stuck. If you are experiencing problems within a significant relationship, whether that is with a partner, parent or sibling, couples counselling can help to unravel the causes of conflict and misunderstandings that can get in the way of living life well.
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Photo of Dr Ben J Mead, Psychologist in South Holmwood, England
Dr Ben J Mead
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU5
Hello, my name is Ben and I am a Clinical Psychologist, Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and Counsellor practising in Surrey (Guildford), Hampshire (Basingstoke) and also online via a secure, encrypted network. My extensive training and experience ensures I am able to help adults and children with a number of difficulties, including (but not limited to): Anxiety, Depression, Low self-esteem, Loneliness, Grief / Loss, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Post-traumatic stress (PTSD), Relationship difficulties (including break-ups), Social anxiety, Sleep difficulties and Work / exam stress
Hello, my name is Ben and I am a Clinical Psychologist, Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and Counsellor practising in Surrey (Guildford), Hampshire (Basingstoke) and also online via a secure, encrypted network. My extensive training and experience ensures I am able to help adults and children with a number of difficulties, including (but not limited to): Anxiety, Depression, Low self-esteem, Loneliness, Grief / Loss, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Post-traumatic stress (PTSD), Relationship difficulties (including break-ups), Social anxiety, Sleep difficulties and Work / exam stress
07723 467204 View 07723 467204
Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.