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Mamta Ward
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Leicester LE1
I also offer couples counselling, supporting relationships through periods of difficulty and opening lines of communication, helping you both move forward with a stronger bond.
Welcome. It can feel difficult to start with counselling, so let me start by saying the work we do will be guided by your own choices and needs. You can express these in a confidential space of emotional safety and we can explore what is happening for you and better understand it. Together we can define and move towards your goals at a pace that suits and feels safe to you. I work with low mood, sadness, anxiety, depression and feelings of being overwhelmed.
I also offer couples counselling, supporting relationships through periods of difficulty and opening lines of communication, helping you both move forward with a stronger bond.
Welcome. It can feel difficult to start with counselling, so let me start by saying the work we do will be guided by your own choices and needs. You can express these in a confidential space of emotional safety and we can explore what is happening for you and better understand it. Together we can define and move towards your goals at a pace that suits and feels safe to you. I work with low mood, sadness, anxiety, depression and feelings of being overwhelmed.
07401 206254 View 07401 206254
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Blue River Psychology
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Leicester LE1
Hello, I am Dr Rima Lamba. I'm a feminist counselling psychologist with an interest in the unique experiences of women from a variety of ethnic and cultural backgrounds. I work closely with women who have struggled with self esteem & identity, relationship issues, difficulties in motherhood, life transitions, attachment and early trauma, and transgenerational trauma. I am particularly interested in the structural power differences that impact people, so I work closely on issues to do with patriarchy, race, culture and more. I also work with a team of therapists who can support clients, including adult families.
Hello, I am Dr Rima Lamba. I'm a feminist counselling psychologist with an interest in the unique experiences of women from a variety of ethnic and cultural backgrounds. I work closely with women who have struggled with self esteem & identity, relationship issues, difficulties in motherhood, life transitions, attachment and early trauma, and transgenerational trauma. I am particularly interested in the structural power differences that impact people, so I work closely on issues to do with patriarchy, race, culture and more. I also work with a team of therapists who can support clients, including adult families.
0161 696 1620 View 0161 696 1620
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Raksha Patel
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Leicester LE2
I also have experience in couples counselling.
Hi, I am a fully qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a Clinical supervisor based in Oadby. I am also a trainee Supervisor. Sometimes we can all feel overwhelmed and struggle in life. Experiences can often cause strong feelings of anger, fear or pain and by talking and understanding your individual situation you can begin to lessen the pain. Counselling can help you to manage the anxiety, anger and any other emotions you may be experiencing, by working together we can look at areas that you would like to work on, to enable you to find ways of coping.
I also have experience in couples counselling.
Hi, I am a fully qualified Counsellor/Psychotherapist and a Clinical supervisor based in Oadby. I am also a trainee Supervisor. Sometimes we can all feel overwhelmed and struggle in life. Experiences can often cause strong feelings of anger, fear or pain and by talking and understanding your individual situation you can begin to lessen the pain. Counselling can help you to manage the anxiety, anger and any other emotions you may be experiencing, by working together we can look at areas that you would like to work on, to enable you to find ways of coping.
0116 478 2891 View 0116 478 2891

Online Therapists

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Paramount Therapy Center Limited
Psychotherapist, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
Leeds LS11
I work as a Psychological Wellbeing Practitioner. I have experience assessing and assisting people with mental health conditions and hidden disabilities within their workplaces. I have specialist knowledge and experience in Personality Disorder, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy. I follow the BACP code of ethics. This means that I work with honesty, integrity, mission, and values. I offer Counselling and Psychotherapy on a short- and long-term basis using Person-centered therapeutic Approach. I work with Young People, Couple in Relationship, Families, Domestic Violence, SPIP.
I work as a Psychological Wellbeing Practitioner. I have experience assessing and assisting people with mental health conditions and hidden disabilities within their workplaces. I have specialist knowledge and experience in Personality Disorder, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy. I follow the BACP code of ethics. This means that I work with honesty, integrity, mission, and values. I offer Counselling and Psychotherapy on a short- and long-term basis using Person-centered therapeutic Approach. I work with Young People, Couple in Relationship, Families, Domestic Violence, SPIP.
0113 487 2354 View 0113 487 2354
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Ajay Lamba
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Thatcham RG19  (Online Only)
The initial focus will be on the therapeutic relationship to ensure that we reach a shared understanding of difficulties before embarking on strategies and interventions to help support overall wellbeing.
Ajay Lamba has delivered psychotherapy in NHS hospitals and private practice, which has provided a wealth of experience with people from diverse backgrounds and all age groups. His academic and work career has been focused on helping people achieve their goals of recovery by relieving symptoms of depression and anxiety, from mild to severe psychological difficulties.
The initial focus will be on the therapeutic relationship to ensure that we reach a shared understanding of difficulties before embarking on strategies and interventions to help support overall wellbeing.
Ajay Lamba has delivered psychotherapy in NHS hospitals and private practice, which has provided a wealth of experience with people from diverse backgrounds and all age groups. His academic and work career has been focused on helping people achieve their goals of recovery by relieving symptoms of depression and anxiety, from mild to severe psychological difficulties.
023 9200 3294 View 023 9200 3294
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Lila Ramsahai
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
London W1G
Being in a relationship can be challenging, more so when it is interracial, where cultural values can easily clash.
I am a well-trained and experienced psychotherapist/life coach and can assist you with various issues regarding, relationships, career, dating, arranged marriage, wedding stress, purpose, career, family issues, parenting and more. I work with individuals, couples and families and my background is diverse, multicultural and international. If you want to improve your life and be more in charge of your overall wellbeing and happiness, reach out today. Apart from finding clarity, relief and understanding, we will also establish healthy coping mechanisms and techniques that will help you progress in life.
Being in a relationship can be challenging, more so when it is interracial, where cultural values can easily clash.
I am a well-trained and experienced psychotherapist/life coach and can assist you with various issues regarding, relationships, career, dating, arranged marriage, wedding stress, purpose, career, family issues, parenting and more. I work with individuals, couples and families and my background is diverse, multicultural and international. If you want to improve your life and be more in charge of your overall wellbeing and happiness, reach out today. Apart from finding clarity, relief and understanding, we will also establish healthy coping mechanisms and techniques that will help you progress in life.
020 4538 1624 View 020 4538 1624
Dipti Shah
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
London W1W
I am a systemic family therapist, and an integrative counsellor, which includes CBT. I am based at the London Child, Adult and Family Therapy Centre. I have over 25 years’ experience of working with people and supporting them to overcome a range of emotional and behavioural dilemmas. These dilemmas can become problematic when normalised and left unmanaged or unresolved. They are often the roots of problems affecting personal and professional relationships. Through therapy, I support children; adolescents; adults; couples; family's, which including adult children and groups of people who have shared interests and responsibilities.
I am a systemic family therapist, and an integrative counsellor, which includes CBT. I am based at the London Child, Adult and Family Therapy Centre. I have over 25 years’ experience of working with people and supporting them to overcome a range of emotional and behavioural dilemmas. These dilemmas can become problematic when normalised and left unmanaged or unresolved. They are often the roots of problems affecting personal and professional relationships. Through therapy, I support children; adolescents; adults; couples; family's, which including adult children and groups of people who have shared interests and responsibilities.
020 3727 5852 View 020 3727 5852
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Indu Dua
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London W1H
When life is full of challenges, navigating through complex feelings and making sense of them alone is stressful. I am here to hold your hand in your journey to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am experienced in helping clients with Depression, Anxiety, Low self-esteem, Relationship issues and Trauma. I specialise in supporting parents experiencing Perinatal and Postnatal Difficulties and individuals coping with Grief, Loss, and Bereavement. I believe in the innate strengths and healing capabilities of every individual. In our sessions, we will work together to re-establish a connection with your inner reservoir of strength.
When life is full of challenges, navigating through complex feelings and making sense of them alone is stressful. I am here to hold your hand in your journey to explore your thoughts and feelings. I am experienced in helping clients with Depression, Anxiety, Low self-esteem, Relationship issues and Trauma. I specialise in supporting parents experiencing Perinatal and Postnatal Difficulties and individuals coping with Grief, Loss, and Bereavement. I believe in the innate strengths and healing capabilities of every individual. In our sessions, we will work together to re-establish a connection with your inner reservoir of strength.
01708 988785 View 01708 988785
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Master Counselling Centre (MCC)
Psychologist, MA, CPsychol
Verified Verified
London NW4
My name is Saboor, effective therapy requires a good professional relationship between therapist and client. It can also be a difficult process to start therapy. I, therefore, offer a FREE initial telephone consultation to help us both diagnose if I am the right therapist for you. I am flexible in my treatment, I try to create a space of openness and safety to allow my clients to explore. I work within the humanistic models as well as using techniques from CBT, DBT, PTSD, ADHD, and PHOBIA.
My name is Saboor, effective therapy requires a good professional relationship between therapist and client. It can also be a difficult process to start therapy. I, therefore, offer a FREE initial telephone consultation to help us both diagnose if I am the right therapist for you. I am flexible in my treatment, I try to create a space of openness and safety to allow my clients to explore. I work within the humanistic models as well as using techniques from CBT, DBT, PTSD, ADHD, and PHOBIA.
020 3826 8947 View 020 3826 8947
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John Jeremiah Ahearne
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London N1
I work with adult individuals and couples using an open-ended ongoing approach or for an agreed time period.
The aim of therapy is to enable you to enhance your life and to live it more fully. Together we will recognise and explore patterns in yourself and others, what your triggers are and where those patterns may have originated.
I work with adult individuals and couples using an open-ended ongoing approach or for an agreed time period.
The aim of therapy is to enable you to enhance your life and to live it more fully. Together we will recognise and explore patterns in yourself and others, what your triggers are and where those patterns may have originated.
07549 165155 View 07549 165155
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Simone Bienne
Counsellor, COSRT Accred
Verified Verified
London W4
During transformational therapy, you get results through compassionate listening, positive psychology, Neuro-science interventions, NLP, Hypnosis, Psychosexual/Relationship Therapy, Breathwork, EMDR, and many practical self-help tools.
Are you struggling to stop the kind of thinking and feeling that stops you from moving forward and having what you want in life, love and sex? Do you want to create happy, healthy relationships rooted in confidence and security? Do you want an exciting sex life you enjoy? For 20 years I’ve been in private practice and an expert on UK/US TV helping thousands of people just like you have whole-life success and happiness. You too can let go of the past, overcome limiting beliefs, reset thinking patterns, transform trauma, feel positive emotions, increase sexual enjoyment, and create a new version of yourself, one that you LOVE.
During transformational therapy, you get results through compassionate listening, positive psychology, Neuro-science interventions, NLP, Hypnosis, Psychosexual/Relationship Therapy, Breathwork, EMDR, and many practical self-help tools.
Are you struggling to stop the kind of thinking and feeling that stops you from moving forward and having what you want in life, love and sex? Do you want to create happy, healthy relationships rooted in confidence and security? Do you want an exciting sex life you enjoy? For 20 years I’ve been in private practice and an expert on UK/US TV helping thousands of people just like you have whole-life success and happiness. You too can let go of the past, overcome limiting beliefs, reset thinking patterns, transform trauma, feel positive emotions, increase sexual enjoyment, and create a new version of yourself, one that you LOVE.
020 4538 9870 View 020 4538 9870
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Helen Bagga
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Wolverhampton WV1
The counselling process supports you looking at and focusing on your issues; this way can lead to viewing things differently or changes in behaviour. Depression, anxiety, relationship issues and bereavement are few of the problems Person-Centred therapy can help with, to find ways to progress and find balance in such difficult times. If unresolved trauma is what has brought you to seek counselling, know that counselling will help you get to the resolution you need.
The counselling process supports you looking at and focusing on your issues; this way can lead to viewing things differently or changes in behaviour. Depression, anxiety, relationship issues and bereavement are few of the problems Person-Centred therapy can help with, to find ways to progress and find balance in such difficult times. If unresolved trauma is what has brought you to seek counselling, know that counselling will help you get to the resolution you need.
01785 907029 View 01785 907029
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Hemla Inman
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
London SE20
I can assist with various aspects of life, and have a special interest in Anxiety, Depression, Relationships (work, couples, romantic, familial, business), Trauma, Self-Esteem, Autism, and Cultural diversity.
I believe that each person's needs are unique, and my training allows me to tailor a variety of approaches to meet your specific requirements. In our sessions, you are my highest priority—here, you can be completely yourself without fear of judgment. I have unconditional positive regard and empathy for you and may offer gentle challenges when you are ready, to help embrace change, build resilience, and foster growth. You may also be seeking a safe space where acceptance thrives, to develop self-care and self-compassion . My style during sessions is adaptive to suit you and we will work collaboratively and transparently.
I can assist with various aspects of life, and have a special interest in Anxiety, Depression, Relationships (work, couples, romantic, familial, business), Trauma, Self-Esteem, Autism, and Cultural diversity.
I believe that each person's needs are unique, and my training allows me to tailor a variety of approaches to meet your specific requirements. In our sessions, you are my highest priority—here, you can be completely yourself without fear of judgment. I have unconditional positive regard and empathy for you and may offer gentle challenges when you are ready, to help embrace change, build resilience, and foster growth. You may also be seeking a safe space where acceptance thrives, to develop self-care and self-compassion . My style during sessions is adaptive to suit you and we will work collaboratively and transparently.
020 3984 9026 View 020 3984 9026
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Shaheen Walker - Counsellor - Relationship And Psychosexual Therapist
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Pinner HA5
Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect with your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy an issue but you’re not quite sure how to approach it? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, stressed, numb, or just not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space helping people to improve on their personal wellbeing and relationships.
Hi - are you feeling stuck? Repeating the same patterns of behaviour again and again in your life or relationship and going around in circles? Do you feel a lack of love/respect with your partner or someone close to you? Is sex/intimacy an issue but you’re not quite sure how to approach it? Perhaps trauma, life changes, neurodiversity (adhd/asc) or difficult times have led to anxiety/depression, the trust has gone, or you're feeling sad, angry, lonely, stressed, numb, or just not sure what you feel anymore? I provide a safe, non-judgmental space helping people to improve on their personal wellbeing and relationships.
01895 545137 View 01895 545137
Photo of Sumeet Grover, Psychotherapist in Leicester, England
Sumeet Grover
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Leighton Buzzard LU7
I work with couples & individuals going through moderate distress, and some of the common issues that I work with are: anxiety, depression, Complex Trauma, relationship issues, survivors of domestic violence and post-traumatic stress.
The experience of coming for therapy is an opportunity for you to discover for the first (or subsequent) time in life that you can let go of all the judgements, the fear and hesitation, and begin to talk about what is bothering you. We become wounded within a sense of connectedness - in families, relationships, friendships and society - and paradoxically it is within a sense of connectedness that we can begin to heal. Healing the emotional brain takes time, but it is a creative and deeply fulfilling process that brings wonderful gifts with itself. I help my clients to begin to feel more balanced and calm within their mind and body.
I work with couples & individuals going through moderate distress, and some of the common issues that I work with are: anxiety, depression, Complex Trauma, relationship issues, survivors of domestic violence and post-traumatic stress.
The experience of coming for therapy is an opportunity for you to discover for the first (or subsequent) time in life that you can let go of all the judgements, the fear and hesitation, and begin to talk about what is bothering you. We become wounded within a sense of connectedness - in families, relationships, friendships and society - and paradoxically it is within a sense of connectedness that we can begin to heal. Healing the emotional brain takes time, but it is a creative and deeply fulfilling process that brings wonderful gifts with itself. I help my clients to begin to feel more balanced and calm within their mind and body.
01525 664046 View 01525 664046
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Adele King
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Manchester M21
If you're having family or relationship conflict, I also offer individual and couples counselling.
If you are feeling overwhelmed with anxiety or having stress in your relationships, daily life can seem very hard. Low mood and sadness could leave you feeling lonely or even isolated. Perhaps you find yourself putting on a pretence that everything is okay, when the reality is very different. You might be unclear about what is troubling you. As an experienced counsellor, I provide affordable therapy in a confidential, safe environment, helping you make sense of how you’re feeling. Counselling can also give you practical ways of coping; I will work at your pace during sessions so that you feel truly heard and accepted, not judged.
If you're having family or relationship conflict, I also offer individual and couples counselling.
If you are feeling overwhelmed with anxiety or having stress in your relationships, daily life can seem very hard. Low mood and sadness could leave you feeling lonely or even isolated. Perhaps you find yourself putting on a pretence that everything is okay, when the reality is very different. You might be unclear about what is troubling you. As an experienced counsellor, I provide affordable therapy in a confidential, safe environment, helping you make sense of how you’re feeling. Counselling can also give you practical ways of coping; I will work at your pace during sessions so that you feel truly heard and accepted, not judged.
0161 850 7431 View 0161 850 7431
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Dr Jasmine Shingadia
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Maidenhead SL6  (Online Only)
Dr Jasmine Shingadia is an experienced Counselling Psychologist with a background working with adults, children and adolescents in a variety of settings, including the NHS and private sector. Her passion lies in helping people make sense of their themselves and their lives, whilst recognising their ability to grow and achieve one’s potential. Central to her approach is the therapeutic relationship based on respect and equality, prioritising empowered choices on your journey of healing and growth. Dr Shingadia focuses on creating a safe non-judgemental space, whilst offering evidence based interventions tailored to your needs.
Dr Jasmine Shingadia is an experienced Counselling Psychologist with a background working with adults, children and adolescents in a variety of settings, including the NHS and private sector. Her passion lies in helping people make sense of their themselves and their lives, whilst recognising their ability to grow and achieve one’s potential. Central to her approach is the therapeutic relationship based on respect and equality, prioritising empowered choices on your journey of healing and growth. Dr Shingadia focuses on creating a safe non-judgemental space, whilst offering evidence based interventions tailored to your needs.
01628 562803 View 01628 562803
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Sonalle Coaching & Creative Therapies
Psychotherapist, MHGI
Verified Verified
London W1G  (Online Only)
Sessions are inclusive of all ethnicities, gender, sexuality & relationship diversities, offering a safe & nurturing space to let go of what does not serve you & to reconnect with your Authentic Self.
Are you suffering from anxiety, depression, stress or trauma? Or do you feel that something is missing, or just isn't quite right? Do you want a fast & effective embodied solution from your home/office without a lifetime of therapy? Then email me... Online sessions only. For a limited time only, I am offering new clients a free 15 min clarity telephone call to see how it feels to work together.
Sessions are inclusive of all ethnicities, gender, sexuality & relationship diversities, offering a safe & nurturing space to let go of what does not serve you & to reconnect with your Authentic Self.
Are you suffering from anxiety, depression, stress or trauma? Or do you feel that something is missing, or just isn't quite right? Do you want a fast & effective embodied solution from your home/office without a lifetime of therapy? Then email me... Online sessions only. For a limited time only, I am offering new clients a free 15 min clarity telephone call to see how it feels to work together.
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Raisa Luther (Licensed Clinical Psychologist)
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Sutton SM2  (Online Only)
I specialize in working with adults having depression, anxiety, OCD, relationship issues, substance misuse and addictions, grief, loss, complex trauma, and life transitions.
Are you feeling trapped or uncertain about your next steps? Are you navigating transitions and feeling overwhelmed? You may be feeling torn between honouring family traditions and staying true to your personal values. If you're seeking to break free from unhealthy attachment patterns and committed to breaking the cycle of generational trauma - I see you! If you consider yourself a 'cycle-breaker' - we'd be a great fit! Reach out to book a FREE 15-minute intro video call.
I specialize in working with adults having depression, anxiety, OCD, relationship issues, substance misuse and addictions, grief, loss, complex trauma, and life transitions.
Are you feeling trapped or uncertain about your next steps? Are you navigating transitions and feeling overwhelmed? You may be feeling torn between honouring family traditions and staying true to your personal values. If you're seeking to break free from unhealthy attachment patterns and committed to breaking the cycle of generational trauma - I see you! If you consider yourself a 'cycle-breaker' - we'd be a great fit! Reach out to book a FREE 15-minute intro video call.
020 3816 3640 View 020 3816 3640
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Kalpana Rao
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
I have also worked with MIND with clients who have sought help for a wide range of problems such as abuse, abandonment, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties with one or both parents.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
I have also worked with MIND with clients who have sought help for a wide range of problems such as abuse, abandonment, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties with one or both parents.
Let's Talk... Therapy gives you the opportunity to explore how life is for you, how you feel about it and how you react during certain situations, all with the aim of finding solutions that work for you. My aim is to provide a confidential, non-judgemental and accepting environment where I can help you explore your issues no matter what they are. Unresolved issues can cause great unhappiness and therapy can help to unlock suppressed feelings and emotions.
07723 475112 View 07723 475112

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.