Codependency Counselling in Tonbridge

Photo of Jemma Wilkinson, Psychotherapist in Tonbridge, England
Jemma Wilkinson
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
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Photo of Diana Goldsmith, Psychologist in Tonbridge, England
Diana Goldsmith
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
I am Dr Diana Goldsmith, a Chartered Clinical Psychologist registered with the Heath and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I am Clinical Director and Senior Psychologist for Foundations Child & Family Therapy – www.foundationschildtherapy.co.uk- a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. We offer support for children, young people and their families. We also offer ADHD and ASD assessments and follow-up post-diagnostic services. We aim to provide a supportive, understanding and compassionate service that works alongside families and their children.
I am Dr Diana Goldsmith, a Chartered Clinical Psychologist registered with the Heath and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I am Clinical Director and Senior Psychologist for Foundations Child & Family Therapy – www.foundationschildtherapy.co.uk- a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. We offer support for children, young people and their families. We also offer ADHD and ASD assessments and follow-up post-diagnostic services. We aim to provide a supportive, understanding and compassionate service that works alongside families and their children.
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Photo of Bill Key - Therapeutic Counselling, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Bill Key - Therapeutic Counselling
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tonbridge TN10
I offer safe, professional video-call or face-to-face sessions at my consulting room in Tonbridge. Combining a client-led approach with a range of methods, we can work together to help you find relief from anxiety, anger, feeling ‘different’, low self-esteem, family and relationship problems or the tendency to behave in ways that are harmful to yourself or other people. I believe that each of us shares one basic desire - to discover and live to our fullest potential. This can mean to have more self-confidence, to worry less or simply to feel more accepting of yourself and the world around you. Contact me to arrange a consultation.
I offer safe, professional video-call or face-to-face sessions at my consulting room in Tonbridge. Combining a client-led approach with a range of methods, we can work together to help you find relief from anxiety, anger, feeling ‘different’, low self-esteem, family and relationship problems or the tendency to behave in ways that are harmful to yourself or other people. I believe that each of us shares one basic desire - to discover and live to our fullest potential. This can mean to have more self-confidence, to worry less or simply to feel more accepting of yourself and the world around you. Contact me to arrange a consultation.
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Mel Burgess
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
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Natalie Wood
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You may be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You may be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.
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Emma lakeland
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN11
I work with adults and teenagers in Tunbridge Wells and the surrounding areas. My style of counselling is built using the foundation of the Humanistic approach. This uses my genuine, empathic, non-judgemental qualities to create a secure, supportive relationship with my clients. Within this safe framework, I am able to assist my clients in working through painful emotions, anxious or destructive behaviours, inner child healing, survival patterns and fears that cause blocks that keep us from living & experiencing life in a way that allows the happiness and serenity you deserve.
I work with adults and teenagers in Tunbridge Wells and the surrounding areas. My style of counselling is built using the foundation of the Humanistic approach. This uses my genuine, empathic, non-judgemental qualities to create a secure, supportive relationship with my clients. Within this safe framework, I am able to assist my clients in working through painful emotions, anxious or destructive behaviours, inner child healing, survival patterns and fears that cause blocks that keep us from living & experiencing life in a way that allows the happiness and serenity you deserve.
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Photo of Ayesha Gada, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Ayesha Gada
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Have you been feeling you're stuck in a rut, you have no one you can talk to in confidence without being judged.   You may be struggling with anxiety, loss, questioning your own identity with others, leading to low self-esteem and self-worth, and with no sense of direction.
Have you been feeling you're stuck in a rut, you have no one you can talk to in confidence without being judged.   You may be struggling with anxiety, loss, questioning your own identity with others, leading to low self-esteem and self-worth, and with no sense of direction.
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Jane Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
I am an Accredited Member of the BACP. This means The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy recognises me as an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist who's practice meets their higher standard as a competent, ethical, independent practitioner. I am trained in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and work with adults (18+) experiencing a broad range of personal, emotional or mental health difficulties. For example grief and loss, divorce, redundancy or other major life event, anxiety, depression, illness, family and relationship issues.
I am an Accredited Member of the BACP. This means The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy recognises me as an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist who's practice meets their higher standard as a competent, ethical, independent practitioner. I am trained in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and work with adults (18+) experiencing a broad range of personal, emotional or mental health difficulties. For example grief and loss, divorce, redundancy or other major life event, anxiety, depression, illness, family and relationship issues.
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Photo of Dr Beth Bowden Wright, Psychologist in Tonbridge, England
Dr Beth Bowden Wright
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10  (Online Only)
A compassionate psychologist offering wellbeing assessments covering vital mental health markers, including stress, sleep, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, personality traits and life experiences. I create a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, as well as confront challenges and delve into areas that may be causing you distress or confusion. I can provide the tools & support necessary to explore your current difficulties, uncover hidden strengths, foster self-compassion and embrace new possibilities. Take the first step towards a happier, more fulfilling life. Elevate your role: boss, partner, parent, friend.
A compassionate psychologist offering wellbeing assessments covering vital mental health markers, including stress, sleep, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, personality traits and life experiences. I create a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings, as well as confront challenges and delve into areas that may be causing you distress or confusion. I can provide the tools & support necessary to explore your current difficulties, uncover hidden strengths, foster self-compassion and embrace new possibilities. Take the first step towards a happier, more fulfilling life. Elevate your role: boss, partner, parent, friend.
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Photo of Martina Kirkland Counselling, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Martina Kirkland Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tonbridge TN11
Hello and welcome. Please know that seeking help is a sign of strength and courage. I am here to support you and walk alongside you on your journey in achieving a more peaceful, fulfilling, meaningful and balanced life. I understand that starting therapy may feel very vulnerable, you may be unsure about what to expect or what you would like to get out of therapy. I offer a safe space for you to explore and unpack your thoughts, feelings and emotions and I will support you to find the best way forward for you. I offer face to face, online and telephone counselling. I also offer Walk and Talk therapy in and around Tunbridge Wells.
Hello and welcome. Please know that seeking help is a sign of strength and courage. I am here to support you and walk alongside you on your journey in achieving a more peaceful, fulfilling, meaningful and balanced life. I understand that starting therapy may feel very vulnerable, you may be unsure about what to expect or what you would like to get out of therapy. I offer a safe space for you to explore and unpack your thoughts, feelings and emotions and I will support you to find the best way forward for you. I offer face to face, online and telephone counselling. I also offer Walk and Talk therapy in and around Tunbridge Wells.
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Photo of Dr Jo Douglas, Psychologist in Tonbridge, England
Dr Jo Douglas
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
I have a wealth of experience in helping people to improve their mental and emotional wellbeing. As a clinical psychologist I value the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. My personable, warm and empathetic nature has helped many people to overcome the difficulties holding them back in life. It can be daunting to embark on a therapy journey with someone - I am mindful of this and will help you to feel relaxed and comfortable when using therapy for your personal development.
I have a wealth of experience in helping people to improve their mental and emotional wellbeing. As a clinical psychologist I value the therapeutic relationship and think that it is vital to find a therapist you 'click' with. My personable, warm and empathetic nature has helped many people to overcome the difficulties holding them back in life. It can be daunting to embark on a therapy journey with someone - I am mindful of this and will help you to feel relaxed and comfortable when using therapy for your personal development.
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Photo of Joanne Atherton, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Joanne Atherton
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9  (Online Only)
Hi, I'm Joanne, I am a qualified Integrative Humanistic Counsellor offering therapy to Adults and Young People facing a range of personal issues and challenges. I’m here to make the process as comfortable as possible for you, I offer a free 15-minute online or telephone consultation for us to get to know each other a little and for you to decide If I am the right therapist for you. My approach is to create a friendly and confidential space where you can feel completely at ease to share your thoughts and feelings without any judgment. Together, we can embark on a journey of exploration moving towards your goals.
Hi, I'm Joanne, I am a qualified Integrative Humanistic Counsellor offering therapy to Adults and Young People facing a range of personal issues and challenges. I’m here to make the process as comfortable as possible for you, I offer a free 15-minute online or telephone consultation for us to get to know each other a little and for you to decide If I am the right therapist for you. My approach is to create a friendly and confidential space where you can feel completely at ease to share your thoughts and feelings without any judgment. Together, we can embark on a journey of exploration moving towards your goals.
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Photo of Cesare Saguato, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Cesare Saguato
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
Are you experiencing negative thoughts, unpleasant emotions, feeling stressed, anxious, or low? Perhaps you are going through a difficult time in your life and in need of support? Are confused, struggling to find meaning, purpose and direction or find a way through? Having problems with work or relationships? If so, my training in mindfulness, self-compassion, integrative psychotherapeutic counselling and 15 years experience, enables me to weave together an approach that can best help you meet difficulties with more clarity, kindness and resourcefulness, while empowering you to make the choices and changes you are looking to make.
Are you experiencing negative thoughts, unpleasant emotions, feeling stressed, anxious, or low? Perhaps you are going through a difficult time in your life and in need of support? Are confused, struggling to find meaning, purpose and direction or find a way through? Having problems with work or relationships? If so, my training in mindfulness, self-compassion, integrative psychotherapeutic counselling and 15 years experience, enables me to weave together an approach that can best help you meet difficulties with more clarity, kindness and resourcefulness, while empowering you to make the choices and changes you are looking to make.
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Photo of Catherine Baverstock, Psychologist in Tonbridge, England
Catherine Baverstock
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
I have 20 years experience of working with children, adolescents and adults. I specialise in helping people recover from past adverse/traumatic experiences. I adopt a holistic, supportive and person-centred approach and I believe in the importance of the therapeutic relationship as a mechanism for change. I believe that by creating the right conditions for personal growth that most people can find solutions to their difficulties. As well as therapy I also offer life coaching using a transformational approach. My coaching focuses on working on supporting women to manage transitions, overcome the inner critic and step into their power
I have 20 years experience of working with children, adolescents and adults. I specialise in helping people recover from past adverse/traumatic experiences. I adopt a holistic, supportive and person-centred approach and I believe in the importance of the therapeutic relationship as a mechanism for change. I believe that by creating the right conditions for personal growth that most people can find solutions to their difficulties. As well as therapy I also offer life coaching using a transformational approach. My coaching focuses on working on supporting women to manage transitions, overcome the inner critic and step into their power
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Photo of Karen Boram, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Karen Boram
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
Who am I: First of all, "welcome" and thank you for taking some time to read about me and my way of helping and supporting you in a therapeutic journey of self development and change, whether that be for yourself, yourself and a partner or your family. I am a fully qualified and experienced integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP). My philosophy of counselling is based on the person as a whole - working on the mind, body and emotions.
Who am I: First of all, "welcome" and thank you for taking some time to read about me and my way of helping and supporting you in a therapeutic journey of self development and change, whether that be for yourself, yourself and a partner or your family. I am a fully qualified and experienced integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association of Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP). My philosophy of counselling is based on the person as a whole - working on the mind, body and emotions.
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ImpactWellbeing Counselling, Supervision, Training
DCounsPsych
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Any of us can feel stuck, sad, lost and seemingly unable to move forward. Making sense of these feelings is critical to our both physical and emotional wellbeing. Impact Wellbeing works with you :an individual, a group, a team to explore ways to positively impact your world. Something small can appear to have led to a spiralling out of control by you /someone you care for /work with; you may feel unable to understand why someone self harms ; making sense of why someone took or tried to take their life by suicide, and there are few places to go to; we are here to help you make sense. What impacts your wellbeing matters.
Any of us can feel stuck, sad, lost and seemingly unable to move forward. Making sense of these feelings is critical to our both physical and emotional wellbeing. Impact Wellbeing works with you :an individual, a group, a team to explore ways to positively impact your world. Something small can appear to have led to a spiralling out of control by you /someone you care for /work with; you may feel unable to understand why someone self harms ; making sense of why someone took or tried to take their life by suicide, and there are few places to go to; we are here to help you make sense. What impacts your wellbeing matters.
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Photo of Andrew Allan, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Andrew Allan
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN11
I am here to support you with a wide range of issues from anxiety to anger, bereavement to low mood. I specialise in relationships, working with individuals and couples on infidelity, intimacy, communications, relationship anxiety, wider family dilemmas and many more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). I will work with you to address your challenges in the here and now, whilst also helping to shed a light on the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. No two people are the same and so my counselling offer is bespoke for you rather than an off the shelf model.
I am here to support you with a wide range of issues from anxiety to anger, bereavement to low mood. I specialise in relationships, working with individuals and couples on infidelity, intimacy, communications, relationship anxiety, wider family dilemmas and many more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). I will work with you to address your challenges in the here and now, whilst also helping to shed a light on the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. No two people are the same and so my counselling offer is bespoke for you rather than an off the shelf model.
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Photo of Joanna Hogan Mbabcp Isst, Psychotherapist in Tonbridge, England
Joanna Hogan Mbabcp Isst
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Joanna is a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and advanced Schema Therapist.  She uses  tried and tested methods in her practice, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), CBT-I (CBT for insomnia), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and for more complex issues, schema therapy & EMDR. Jo sees adults with anxiety, OCD, insomnia, nightmares, post-traumatic stress disorder, post-natal depression, work stress, health anxiety (hypochondria) , performance anxiety, panic attacks, agoraphobia, phobias, social anxiety and shyness, low self-esteem and confidence issues and personality-level issues.
Joanna is a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and advanced Schema Therapist.  She uses  tried and tested methods in her practice, including cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), CBT-I (CBT for insomnia), acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and for more complex issues, schema therapy & EMDR. Jo sees adults with anxiety, OCD, insomnia, nightmares, post-traumatic stress disorder, post-natal depression, work stress, health anxiety (hypochondria) , performance anxiety, panic attacks, agoraphobia, phobias, social anxiety and shyness, low self-esteem and confidence issues and personality-level issues.
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Photo of Sally Jane Burns-Bonas, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Sally Jane Burns-Bonas
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Have you been sad and feeling low for some time? Do you fight the urge to run away from your life? Feel angry, conflicted or tearful? Are you battling with repetitive intrusive thoughts? Feel overwhelmed and like you are struggling to hold it together? Counselling can help you to understand that you are not alone, that what you are feeling isn't wrong, bad or beyond help. You will not always feel like you do and with support and therapeutic input, you can restore balance and enjoy your life fully again. I specialise in counselling post natal depression, anxiety, depression, low self esteem and life challenges. Let me help you.
Have you been sad and feeling low for some time? Do you fight the urge to run away from your life? Feel angry, conflicted or tearful? Are you battling with repetitive intrusive thoughts? Feel overwhelmed and like you are struggling to hold it together? Counselling can help you to understand that you are not alone, that what you are feeling isn't wrong, bad or beyond help. You will not always feel like you do and with support and therapeutic input, you can restore balance and enjoy your life fully again. I specialise in counselling post natal depression, anxiety, depression, low self esteem and life challenges. Let me help you.
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Photo of Julia Goldfinch, Counsellor in Tonbridge, England
Julia Goldfinch
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
As an experienced Accredited Counsellor, qualified since 2002, I am able to offer counselling that is tailored to your individual needs. As an Integrative Counsellor I use my knowledge of modalities including Humanistic, Transactional Analysis, Gestalt, CBT and my experience to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental space for people, in order to explore their thoughts, feelings and experiences safely at their own pace.
As an experienced Accredited Counsellor, qualified since 2002, I am able to offer counselling that is tailored to your individual needs. As an Integrative Counsellor I use my knowledge of modalities including Humanistic, Transactional Analysis, Gestalt, CBT and my experience to provide a safe, supportive, non-judgmental space for people, in order to explore their thoughts, feelings and experiences safely at their own pace.
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Codependency Counsellors

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.